You can give them advice or bless them but don't judge them. This is just a normal matter of a real couple ❤. Thank you! Note: This is an old video. Now they've made up. Livestream 21.10.2023 Bilibili: @律宝的大狗狗 Link: space.bilibili.com/1265405170 Douyin: 陈律 - 小肥肥. - 小小律 ID: chenlv51283 - xiaofeifeikeai - 291651979 Weibo: Chen Lv/ Trần Luật: @Clv陈律 Link: weibo.com/u/2648712522 Date of birth/ Sinh ngày: 25/09/1997 Height/ Chiều cao: 1m75 Hometown/Quê quán: Nanchang, Jiangxi Province/ Nam Xương, Giang Tây Liu Cong/ Lưu Thông: @刘聪lccl Link: weibo.com/u/7706093505 Date of birth/ Sinh ngày: 27/09/2001 Height/ Chiều cao: 1m85 Hometown/ Quê quán: Guangzhou, Guangdong Province/ Quảng Châu, Quảng Đông @聪律事物所 Link: weibo.com/u/7835427277 Record Livestream - Bilibili: @摩尔蛙恋爱笔记 Link: space.bilibili.com/1187731461
I cannot imagine how uncomfortable and embarrassing that ride was for the driver of the car. I don't think I would have been able to drive well with someone screaming and yelling like that while I was trying to do my job.
Se eu fosse o motorista ficaria constrangida mais eu faço pior q ele então é isso pq ter problemas em controlar os sentimentos é muito ruim se vc n falar oq ta sentindo vc fica muito mal tipo extremamente mal ele até manteu a calma ali na minha opinião só quem problemas em se controlar sabe oq é isso pq vc só tem 2 opções ou deixa tudo sair ou se mata guardando tudo pra si
lol, yes. No matter how upset I have ever felt in my entire life, (and I am OLD!!)I have never lost control over myself in public like that. I understand they are young and do not yet have a lot of maturity, that will come in time, but they need to be careful what they say and how they speak to each other. Words that are spoken in anger can never be taken back or forgotten...@@jamila434
I know it is an old video but still. This video affected me deeply but in a very positive way . I think it is very courageous and admirable to lay a very personal fight to everyone. The important point is that being in a couple in not always a bed full of roses and reality is that people do fight. It is very healthy to fight and to explode our fear and sad feelings. I admire you both to expose not only the good side of your beautiful couple's life but also the darker side too. Being in a couple for years is not always easy and you did demonstrate the reality with this video. Usually people show Only their good side and their goofy cute love but in this video you touch people's heart with the reality of a real life couple. I'm very proud of you. I think you are the most beautiful couple I've ever seen. I know you love each other and it's so easy to tell. Continue what you are doing. You will always have my support. Greeting from Canada! Love you both very much😍
I feel like text msgs lead to misunderstandings because you can’t always tell the tone or emotion behind it. Speaking to each other directly helps me avoid that. Hopefully they understand each other 💕
Seems like Chen Lv has a deep fear of abandonment and struggles with insecurity in the relationship. I really can’t understand the desire to livestream this private matter.
The boy still maintaind his coolness amid bombardment of words, thinking of their safety perhaps and you the other boy must be lucky he truly loved you and care for you.
You are both young and emotional people. This is normal. My husband and I got married at 18 and we went through things like this. This is called being immature...we were. If you want your relationship to last, you need to learn to communicate better. We have been married 52 years and still have times when it is nearly impossible to communicate. With that being said, if you are willing to trust each other, you will make it. But let us give you one advice from personal experience, stop threatening to break up with him all the time, because one day he may take you up on it and leave never to return. And do not go to bed angry. I wise lady told me something when I was a young married woman, she said, "don't say things you have to apologize for later because words spoken in angry never go away or can be taken back once said." Prayers and Love to both of you.
They are a lovely couple .. Every couple have problems .. Just communicate more .. Just communicate better .. More understanding .. More love .. More empathy .. Greetings from Ireland 🎉
I am so happy for you guys I want your guys be guys be a part of the family 👪 your boyfriend and your kids 🧒 I wish I was there with your friends and your 4 family farm Adventure with your parents
Eles brigam e depois voltam, brigam e depois voltam. Em fim, faz parte do relacionamento. Espero que eles realmente estejam bem um com o outro, que eles tenham dado um tempo pra esfriar a cabeça pra depois conversarem. Torco pela felicidade de vocês.
The whole thing should have been a private discussion. Uncomfortable having your partner screaming at you over social media. Eventually Cong will grow tired of being wrong and picked at all of the time. Getting off of social media and communicating one on one would do wonders to clear up misunderstandings, where no one feels shamed. Both need to grow up some, emotional outbursts are from pent up resentment. Discussions need to happen before Chen gets to this point. Sorry if i hurt feelings here, yelling and screaming on social media is just unnecessary. 62 year old Mom here.
you're absolutely correct I felt that cong was just embarrassed because if lv outburst like I get he is sad and mad but doing it online is just gonna get the other person hate, and then rumors are gonna happen.. I felt the should have stayed behind close doors.. cause it was highly unnecessary
@@MissScrapAlot yes, I did watch it. But not the entire thing because it was so uncomfortable with all the screaming. And it made me sad to see it and hear it.
13:52 Poor Lulu. He is so spun up and he is SO emotional that he's in a loop of anger that eats its own tail and consumes him illogically. I feel sorry right now for Cong. Cong just cannot gain peace when Lu is so out of control. 🕊️☮️
That was a painful 35 minutes to watch, but thank you for posting and the translation. What a massive misunderstanding!!! I could totally see what LV was trying to communicate. It seems that Cong is about as good as dealing with conflict as I am. For some people it is hard to react and respond in the moment and we clam up and disconnect. It doesn't mean you don't care or love the person - your personality type just doesn't deal well with that kind of conversation - it has taken me years of working on myself to get better at it. As, I have said before it is obvious that they love each other very much. They are both beautiful souls, they are young and hopefully they will grow and learn to communicate better as time goes by. I honestly hope they make it. Its an honour to watch their love story unfold and I wish them the best that life has to offer.
I hope you really feel the pain before. He did that when you talk about what should be talked about, not about breaking up, I hope he understands that there are still many people who love you, especially in the family 😢😢
I think Chenlv has to go to the therapist or psychologist… he should learn how to control his emotions and how to express himself without hurting anyone and himself… I hope this relationship doesn’t turn toxic because it has all the ingredients… I love them together but I don’t want to see them sad or burnout
I understand your relationship started online and we all love watching you two together.. but for the sake of your relationship i would keep these things to yourself. From what i could see of this argument you two have very different ways of dealing with conflict and that can make it hard to work through a disagreemen,,so what started as a misunderstanding blew up into this big fight..i would suggest taking some time to yourself ..maybe just in different rooms to calm and organize how you really feel before you try to discuss whatever the problem is. . It takes time and working together and recognizing each others differences and also sometimes knowing that there doesnt have to be someone who is right.. or wrong..apologize and mean it.. then move on from it keep loving each other. And hopefully you will grow together through these problems not apart. Good luck!!
Everyone has their breaking point. As much as I love them, this is one conversation I wish I didn’t see. They are a lovely couple and I hate seeing them like this. It truly breaks my heart. They both need to communicate better by actively listening to each other. Screaming, yelling and talking over each other always makes it the problem worse. I want them to be together for a long time but sometimes even the most loving couples need a break😢
Yelling, to get your point across will never work 😮. You need to stay calm if you really want to solve a problem. There were way too many negative emotions in the air. You both felt misunderstood but neither of you really listened to what the other had to say. You were both too busy telling the other how it make you feel instead of trying to understand how the other felt. Never start a discussion when the feelings are still boiling high 😉. I know all this is easier said then done. It's all a learning process. Love you both ❤. You got this!
35:44 Deben calmarse primero para poder pensar bien la situación, construir una relación en pareja es muy difícil, se necesita mucho amor, comprensión, paciencia,confianza y lo más importante COMUNICACIÓN y no es nada fácil. Si en realidad se aman tienen que cada uno de ustedes bajar la guardia y entenderse. Eso no se hace en un momento de conversación, se hace todos los días. Aclaren sus pensamientos y sentimientos individuales y luego hablenlo, respiren profundo para no volverse locos y que sus emociones estén lo más tranquila posible. Cuando estamos enojados decimos cosas que no sentimos en realidad y que pueden herirnos profundamente. Les deseo que sigan juntos y superen sus problemas. ❤❤
Eu imagino como naquela época foi doloroso para ambos, acho que eles deveriam buscar ajuda profissional, para que no futuro não aconteça mais isto, eles passam se sentirem mais confiante um com o outro. Que eles sejam felizes, pois o amor dele é muito ❤❤
You know what? I understand Chen Lv because i have the same problems with my partner but now we communicate our feelings more and things are slowly progressing, i feel sorry for Liu Cong because he’s not trying to hurt Chen Lv at all Update: We broke up lol
أن بتفهم ألم الانفصال الإن مريت بنفس شقل أبل سنه كان لازم يفهمن ويقدر مشاعر لاكن حبيت إتركه بسبب حالته النفسية والاجتماعية دهورت كتير والله بحس فيهم وفيك والله لاكن نسيت الحمدلله لاكن لسه بده سامح ممكن نصائح من فضلكم برجعل أو لا عزبني مان أدران إنس ❤
I feel for him so much, I have been through this with 2 husbands now. I have basically given up trying to make him understand how he makes me feel, as he responds the same way with the same sentence over and over again, until I'm half crazy with sadness and grief. He doesn't try to stop arguing, he doesn't seem to want to understand and just listen. And so we would just go around and around. I now think that this cold and stoic behavior is a form of gaslighting to distract and upset the other person into giving up. So I just gave up and don't talk anymore, we're basically just roommates now, 30 years later. So I do NOT DARE criticize this poor soul for his outburst or his obvious pain at being treated this way. Dear, please take good care of yourself first and make sure you protect your mental health first and foremost.
They clearly deal with conflict very differently, and that's a long-term compatibility issue. What's interesting is that the older seems to struggle with appropriately managing his emotions, more than his younger partner. He's too hysterical for his younger partner to cope with, yet that's his expectation, that his partner should put up with it and coax him first. It's actually a form of emotional abuse for personalities like his partner's, to be blamed for and forced to manage hysterics, especially when fault is not explicitly clear (e.g. caught in the act of actively cheating). It creates a toxic emotional environment, and the instinctive reaction is to flee. People tend to be self obsessed when feelings are heightened, and he acknowledges that's the state he's in when he says that he's feeling sorry for himself. There's no room for self obsession in a relationship though. Real growth from this is actually changing his communication style so there's less self victimization and no hysterical loss of control that he blames his partner for. He needs to be accountable for maturing as an adult, but it won't happen if he's frequently accomodated and empathized with by people who also expect others to manage their hysterics.
Espero que lo superé en una relación siempre ahí disgustos no todo el tiempo es felicidad siempre pasamos por momentos de disgusto espero que salgan adelante tengan más ratos llenos de felicidad ❤❤❤😂😃
There is always problem in every relationship, just calm down and communicate. Always try to solve the problem together and dont take it too hard yea. You are both a very lovely couple. Talk it out yea..nothing good come out when we are upset.
Chen, 😘 Traquila por favor, no debes tomar decisiones cuando estás enojado... Tú y Liu se aman muchísimo, demaciado, por favor sean muy felices!!! Tienen que hablar ustedes cuando los 2 se encuentren serenos y tranquilos ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Saludos 🇲🇽 Los quiero Liu y Chen 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Tienes mucha razón, ellos dos se aman mucho, y cuando los dos de encuentren hablen, y intenten solucionar el problema, y mejor si están tranquilos y dispuestos a escuchar al otro❤
Its okay dear . No one will think this way dear. We all love u both so we want yours hsppiness. Sometimes even any person becomes crazy in this relationship but dont worry it will end soon. ❤❤❤❤
Lv imseems to be very emotionally reactive and Cong seem unable to handle conflict at all. Its quite a deadly combination. Also i wish all this screaming wasn't happening so publicly. That must have been uncomfortable as hell for the taxi driver. It got super ugly but im glad they worked things out eventually.
Talking close doors is better than bringing it in social media and shouting at your partner was a no , no matter what happen give each other that respect ….. what ends relationship is lack of communication and trust, if there’s no trust then such relationship cannot work 😢
There is a big difference between the fun part and the serious deep part in a relationship. The balance especially on social media must be very hard. I would not want it personally. Too much expectation. If you can talk out what upsets you both or what your boundaries are it can help alot. This is coming from a person who has been in a long term relationship. :}
I really support this relationship...but when it's not working out, the best thing to do is to walk away, but first of all, you can't make a hot-headed decision
I am so sorry you are both going through such a hard time. Give yourself some space and talk later when everyone is not feeling so hurt. I love watching your videos. Be Strong ❤❤❤
Misunderstanding, lack of trust and communication. Time apart is good. Calm down and reflect. Staying calm, cool and collective is key to communicating. Listen to each other without the yelling. This is petty and not worth the possibility of ending a relationship over it. Talk it out, apologize to each other and put this in the past. You’re too sweet of a couple to see both of you like this. Hope it all works out for the sake of your future together. Hugs to you both. P.S. Is there an update on this situation?
Everyone couple goes through this. Sit down an talk it out. You can see that you love each other and please DON’T break up please. I love you both.❤❤❤❤❤
Si se aman pero tienen un grave problema con la comunicación entre ellos, eso puede traer esté tipo de problemas y más graves, pero creo que ahora mejoraron bastante (es una pelea antigua por lo que se ve) son cosas que pasan en una relación, siguen siendo una pareja devina pero hay cosas que mejorar si ellos quieren estar mucho tiempo juntos, les deseo lo mejor y que siempre pueden arreglar sus problemas
Se me apachurra mi ❤ al verlos pelear, cuando tengan diferencias dejen que sus pensamientos se enfríen hablen, traten de no gritarse, sigan las cosas en el momento para evitar estás situaciones, siento en mi ver qué se aman tengan más comunicación y confianza, no hagan que uno los vea así por su paz mental esto se habla entre ustedes, los quiero mucho ❤❤❤
Don't make any decisions when you're emotional. Both of you should just apologize to each other, it does not matter who was right who was wrong at this moment. You guys just need to hug each other hold each other apologize to each other and learn from this and discuss it calmly when you're both more rational in a few days. If you're afraid of screaming and yelling at each other then you both should write everything down and give it to each other.
I’m just now seeing this and this broke my heart esp the fact that they were arguing on live and in a car 😭 I know the driver was embarrassed for him (I’m sorry I cannot remember their names) but yeah couples will go through small arguments and heated arguments and eventually they apologize.
Não fica assim não eu to muito triste 😞 ver vocês dois brigando vocês são o meu casal mais lindos e fofo que eu amo vocês se amam muito eu tenho setesa que vocês vão volta que Deus abençoe vocês eu não gosto de ver você assim triste 😞🇧🇷😘
Can someone translate in English? It’s obvious that there was a misunderstanding/disagreement… but what is being said? 🙏🏼 thank goodness this was a while back 😪😅
The first part is when lv said about how cong make him like that (sad or angry) and the second one is that lv says he think that if they really break up this time, he feel that he’s really gonna get sick (I think he meant like depression or like burnout) btw my English is not good so there’s probably grammatical error in the translation and also they are already back together again now ❤❤
Милые котики❤ Даже сейчас, спустя столько времени, всё равно болезненно переживаю их ссору. Очень рада за них, что помирились. Главное не копить в себе обиды и обсуждать с партнером если что-то беспокоит в отношениях, иначе это будет выплескиваться в сильные ссоры, так как другая сторона не поймет, почему из-за незначительной мелочи любимый так взбунтовался и сильно огорчен. Будьте внимательнее к друг другу, цените свои отношения, берегите свою любовь, другой такой может уже не случиться.❤❤❤Лучики счастья и добра из России☀️🤗🥰
Well. I think you guys should be together forever, be honest each other, believe each other, faith each other, share problem each other, solve problem each other, respect each other. To be honest i watched all video that you guys are real newlywed and i've been yours fan. No matter what happen you guys. YOU SHOULD NOT BREAK UP. If you guys are fighting then buy flower or chocolate, apologize each other and then made up. Got it ? 🥺
I always said to myself that no matter how I love this person or how he loves me if the relationship is toxic I might as well set him free. No matter how hard or crazy it will be. On my own understanding, I hope you will love yourself fiirst and go anywhere, unwind yourself before you make a decision. ❤
Everyone goes through hard times, but you can't let love go over one fight, you have to hang in there, you will not always be young,grow old together, love is worth fighting for in any language. (Please, work it out guys)❤
Comprendí tanto el como se sentía, que solo lo quisiera abrazar 😭 pero lo bueno es que ese es el pasado y actualmente estan bien, les deseo lo mejor, de verdad. ❤
😢Боже мой дорогие все будет хорошо не расставайтесь пожалуйста. Вы созданы для друг друга берегите себя любите друг друга сохраните любовь я тоже плачу вместе м вами😢😢😢 Что случилось между вами.? Аа это старая запись оказывается. Сейчас они вместе ❤❤❤❤❤❤
To be driver in Chengdu really hard😂😂 sometimes you'll see them lovey dovey to the extent they'll make out at the moment, but sometimes you'll encounter this scene 😂😂
Era fan de ellos, viendo esto veo que mo tienen una relación sana , como me imaginaba, que mal me siento por ellos, su relación no duarara mucho si pelean asi , sin escucharse , entenderse, razonar y platicar 😢
I knew it was bad but damn they really both upset and I think showing the media might’ve not been a good thing to do. It just added fuel to the fire of them both wanting to come off as how the public should understand both sides when our opinion does not matter. I heard they handled everything else off the camera which is good. Tho I love and support a lot of these couples, they’re still entitled to their privacy & I wish they reflected on that more. However, I’m glad they’re back together & didn’t let one argument tear them apart. You both are a beautiful couple & you have a beautiful relationship. Also, try listening to hear what your partner is saying instead of listening tot Spain’s cause exactly what they were doing in the beginning of the argument.
You're too emotional, you don't need to talk anymore today, and you're both on edge and you'll only make things worse When you both calm down, sit down and calmly let everyone express what you don't like in your relationship and if you come to a common opinion that it's possible to fix everything, then you're destined to be with each other, it's clear that you both love each other very much, because such emotions are the most important thing to hear each other, it is very important in a relationship Guys, I wish you happiness and love, EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE WITH YOU! ❤️❤️💋💋
I wish this didn’t happen online but Chenlv seems devastated and it is his way of crying out. He obviously doesn’t want Cong to leave him so shows this online to sort of prevent a breakup. Cong loves Chenlv but it seems like he is tired of what he views as manipulation by Chen. He needs to be more sympathetic and empathetic to his boyfriend. During the argument in the taxi a simple hug would have ended the issue. I also think there is an underlying issue of distrust that is not been mentioned - this is probably why the the statement about the rain created so much issue. It seems Chenlv may have been saying I don’t believe you and that was what Cong reacted to. I have not known them for long but I feel so sad just watching this. I know how it feels to think the other person is not loving you as much as you love him. There is obviously a serious communication problem and also it seems friends are giving some advice that may not be beneficial to their relationship. They are lovely boys, hope they can sort this issue, learn from the mistakes, love each other more and grow stronger.
Veo que pelean mucho , así una relación no puede durar , pues se vuelve tosica. Espero que podáis arreglarlo…. Ánimo y no llores , deseo que dios te de fuerza y te bendiga ❤😂
I’m sorry but I couldn’t be with a person who is going to live stream our argument and scream at me when I’m trying to have a conversation with them. I dislike how he is clearly asking him to end the live and he just instead shoves the phone in his face and say “tell them” of course maybe this isn’t a issue for them but I do hope they work towards having better communication skills and keep things like this off the internet if possible.
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You can give them advice or bless them but don't judge them. This is just a normal matter of a real couple ❤. Thank you!
Note: This is an old video. Now they've made up.
Livestream 21.10.2023
Bilibili: @律宝的大狗狗
Link: space.bilibili.com/1265405170
Douyin: 陈律 - 小肥肥. - 小小律
ID: chenlv51283 - xiaofeifeikeai - 291651979
Weibo:
Chen Lv/ Trần Luật: @Clv陈律
Link: weibo.com/u/2648712522
Date of birth/ Sinh ngày: 25/09/1997
Height/ Chiều cao: 1m75
Hometown/Quê quán: Nanchang, Jiangxi Province/ Nam Xương, Giang Tây
Liu Cong/ Lưu Thông: @刘聪lccl
Link: weibo.com/u/7706093505
Date of birth/ Sinh ngày: 27/09/2001
Height/ Chiều cao: 1m85
Hometown/ Quê quán: Guangzhou, Guangdong Province/ Quảng Châu, Quảng Đông
@聪律事物所
Link: weibo.com/u/7835427277
Record Livestream - Bilibili: @摩尔蛙恋爱笔记
Link: space.bilibili.com/1187731461
Yes unfortunately is like that .... People shouldn't judge , i love this couple all i wish is happiness for both ❤
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WhatsApp i❤❤ donne don't cry❤❤❤❤❤
Ayouki OK don't cry LOVE❤❤❤❤❤
I cannot imagine how uncomfortable and embarrassing that ride was for the driver of the car. I don't think I would have been able to drive well with someone screaming and yelling like that while I was trying to do my job.
I know. I was thinking the same
Se eu fosse o motorista ficaria constrangida mais eu faço pior q ele então é isso pq ter problemas em controlar os sentimentos é muito ruim se vc n falar oq ta sentindo vc fica muito mal tipo extremamente mal ele até manteu a calma ali na minha opinião só quem problemas em se controlar sabe oq é isso pq vc só tem 2 opções ou deixa tudo sair ou se mata guardando tudo pra si
lol, yes.
No matter how upset I have ever felt in my entire life, (and I am OLD!!)I have never lost control over myself in public like that. I understand they are young and do not yet have a lot of maturity, that will come in time, but they need to be careful what they say and how they speak to each other. Words that are spoken in anger can never be taken back or forgotten...@@jamila434
I was thinking the same
Please we are all human being nobody is perfect everyone is free to express his or her feelings anywhere and anytime
I know it is an old video but still. This video affected me deeply but in a very positive way . I think it is very courageous and admirable to lay a very personal fight to everyone. The important point is that being in a couple in not always a bed full of roses and reality is that people do fight. It is very healthy to fight and to explode our fear and sad feelings. I admire you both to expose not only the good side of your beautiful couple's life but also the darker side too. Being in a couple for years is not always easy and you did demonstrate the reality with this video. Usually people show Only their good side and their goofy cute love but in this video you touch people's heart with the reality of a real life couple. I'm very proud of you. I think you are the most beautiful couple I've ever seen. I know you love each other and it's so easy to tell. Continue what you are doing. You will always have my support.
Greeting from Canada! Love you both very much😍
I feel like text msgs lead to misunderstandings because you can’t always tell the tone or emotion behind it. Speaking to each other directly helps me avoid that. Hopefully they understand each other 💕
Seems like Chen Lv has a deep fear of abandonment and struggles with insecurity in the relationship. I really can’t understand the desire to livestream this private matter.
The boy still maintaind his coolness amid bombardment of words, thinking of their safety perhaps and you the other boy must be lucky he truly loved you and care for you.
You are both young and emotional people. This is normal. My husband and I got married at 18 and we went through things like this. This is called being immature...we were. If you want your relationship to last, you need to learn to communicate better. We have been married 52 years and still have times when it is nearly impossible to communicate. With that being said, if you are willing to trust each other, you will make it. But let us give you one advice from personal experience, stop threatening to break up with him all the time, because one day he may take you up on it and leave never to return. And do not go to bed angry. I wise lady told me something when I was a young married woman, she said, "don't say things you have to apologize for later because words spoken in angry never go away or can be taken back once said." Prayers and Love to both of you.
They are a lovely couple ..
Every couple have problems ..
Just communicate more ..
Just communicate better ..
More understanding ..
More love ..
More empathy ..
Greetings from Ireland 🎉
❤❤🥰
I love you guys so much
أي بس لازم يكون في الحياة شويت مشاكل عادي أن بتفهم❤❤❤😊
بتمن تتصلح الأمور بينهم 😊
I am so happy for you guys I want your guys be guys be a part of the family 👪 your boyfriend and your kids 🧒 I wish I was there with your friends and your 4 family farm Adventure with your parents
Eles brigam e depois voltam, brigam e depois voltam. Em fim, faz parte do relacionamento. Espero que eles realmente estejam bem um com o outro, que eles tenham dado um tempo pra esfriar a cabeça pra depois conversarem. Torco pela felicidade de vocês.
The whole thing should have been a private discussion. Uncomfortable having your partner screaming at you over social media. Eventually Cong will grow tired of being wrong and picked at all of the time.
Getting off of social media and communicating one on one would do wonders to clear up misunderstandings, where no one feels shamed.
Both need to grow up some, emotional outbursts are from pent up resentment. Discussions need to happen before Chen gets to this point.
Sorry if i hurt feelings here, yelling and screaming on social media is just unnecessary.
62 year old Mom here.
you're absolutely correct I felt that cong was just embarrassed because if lv outburst like I get he is sad and mad but doing it online is just gonna get the other person hate, and then rumors are gonna happen.. I felt the should have stayed behind close doors.. cause it was highly unnecessary
you too old now kids love social media..
and yet you were here to watch it, coming from gramma who watched and didn't judge.
@@MissScrapAlot yes, I did watch it. But not the entire thing because it was so uncomfortable with all the screaming. And it made me sad to see it and hear it.
@@ecytb7042 I have children 21 and 23. I know more than you think. Neither of them would be so disrespectful of themselves.
13:52 Poor Lulu. He is so spun up and he is SO emotional that he's in a loop of anger that eats its own tail and consumes him illogically. I feel sorry right now for Cong. Cong just cannot gain peace when Lu is so out of control. 🕊️☮️
Do not criticize them, these are things that happen in any type of couple, it is a simple argument, but do notccriticize them, they love each other ✨
That was a painful 35 minutes to watch, but thank you for posting and the translation.
What a massive misunderstanding!!! I could totally see what LV was trying to communicate. It seems that Cong is about as good as dealing with conflict as I am. For some people it is hard to react and respond in the moment and we clam up and disconnect. It doesn't mean you don't care or love the person - your personality type just doesn't deal well with that kind of conversation - it has taken me years of working on myself to get better at it.
As, I have said before it is obvious that they love each other very much. They are both beautiful souls, they are young and hopefully they will grow and learn to communicate better as time goes by.
I honestly hope they make it. Its an honour to watch their love story unfold and I wish them the best that life has to offer.
What happened 😔😔
I hope you really feel the pain before. He did that when you talk about what should be talked about, not about breaking up, I hope he understands that there are still many people who love you, especially in the family 😢😢
I think Chenlv has to go to the therapist or psychologist… he should learn how to control his emotions and how to express himself without hurting anyone and himself… I hope this relationship doesn’t turn toxic because it has all the ingredients… I love them together but I don’t want to see them sad or burnout
I understand your relationship started online and we all love watching you two together.. but for the sake of your relationship i would keep these things to yourself. From what i could see of this argument you two have very different ways of dealing with conflict and that can make it hard to work through a disagreemen,,so what started as a misunderstanding blew up into this big fight..i would suggest taking some time to yourself ..maybe just in different rooms to calm and organize how you really feel before you try to discuss whatever the problem is. . It takes time and working together and recognizing each others differences and also sometimes knowing that there doesnt have to be someone who is right.. or wrong..apologize and mean it.. then move on from it keep loving each other. And hopefully you will grow together through these problems not apart. Good luck!!
yeah, don't break up, you two are compatible🥺🥺🥺
It's good that you are fine now, talk when there are differences. I love them. ❤
Everyone has their breaking point. As much as I love them, this is one conversation I wish I didn’t see. They are a lovely couple and I hate seeing them like this. It truly breaks my heart. They both need to communicate better by actively listening to each other. Screaming, yelling and talking over each other always makes it the problem worse. I want them to be together for a long time but sometimes even the most loving couples need a break😢
Me alegro de que sea algo antiguo. Definitivamente se les ve genial ahora :)
De cuando a sido eso?
Había visto un corto nomas hace tiempo y había preguntado que paso pero después ta no supe nada , y saber que ahora aun siguen que bonito es
Yelling, to get your point across will never work 😮. You need to stay calm if you really want to solve a problem. There were way too many negative emotions in the air. You both felt misunderstood but neither of you really listened to what the other had to say. You were both too busy telling the other how it make you feel instead of trying to understand how the other felt. Never start a discussion when the feelings are still boiling high 😉. I know all this is easier said then done. It's all a learning process. Love you both ❤. You got this!
i think I'm seeing them when I visiting ShangHai, its them for sure, holding hands, so cute
😍 Wow, you're so luckyyyyy
35:44 Deben calmarse primero para poder pensar bien la situación, construir una relación en pareja es muy difícil, se necesita mucho amor, comprensión, paciencia,confianza y lo más importante COMUNICACIÓN y no es nada fácil. Si en realidad se aman tienen que cada uno de ustedes bajar la guardia y entenderse. Eso no se hace en un momento de conversación, se hace todos los días. Aclaren sus pensamientos y sentimientos individuales y luego hablenlo, respiren profundo para no volverse locos y que sus emociones estén lo más tranquila posible. Cuando estamos enojados decimos cosas que no sentimos en realidad y que pueden herirnos profundamente. Les deseo que sigan juntos y superen sus problemas. ❤❤
Oh my god, you really scared me, I'm glad it's over and they're fine now
Eu imagino como naquela época foi doloroso para ambos, acho que eles deveriam buscar ajuda profissional, para que no futuro não aconteça mais isto, eles passam se sentirem mais confiante um com o outro. Que eles sejam felizes, pois o amor dele é muito ❤❤
Na verdade o que aconteceu essa briga é por causa de quê? Ele está tão nervoso que não entendi…
You know what? I understand Chen Lv because i have the same problems with my partner but now we communicate our feelings more and things are slowly progressing, i feel sorry for Liu Cong because he’s not trying to hurt Chen Lv at all
Update: We broke up lol
Yeah I feel that liu cong was always taught to be calm and listen but chen lv is someone that needs to be comforted
أن بتفهم ألم الانفصال الإن مريت بنفس شقل أبل سنه كان لازم يفهمن ويقدر مشاعر لاكن حبيت إتركه بسبب حالته النفسية والاجتماعية دهورت كتير والله بحس فيهم وفيك والله لاكن نسيت الحمدلله لاكن لسه بده سامح ممكن نصائح من فضلكم برجعل أو لا عزبني مان أدران إنس ❤
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Omg I never seen him scream that but pls stay together yall are so cute together ❤❤❤love u
I feel for him so much, I have been through this with 2 husbands now. I have basically given up trying to make him understand how he makes me feel, as he responds the same way with the same sentence over and over again, until I'm half crazy with sadness and grief. He doesn't try to stop arguing, he doesn't seem to want to understand and just listen. And so we would just go around and around. I now think that this cold and stoic behavior is a form of gaslighting to distract and upset the other person into giving up. So I just gave up and don't talk anymore, we're basically just roommates now, 30 years later. So I do NOT DARE criticize this poor soul for his outburst or his obvious pain at being treated this way. Dear, please take good care of yourself first and make sure you protect your mental health first and foremost.
你们在一起很好，每段感情都会有争吵，请不要让自己难过
They clearly deal with conflict very differently, and that's a long-term compatibility issue. What's interesting is that the older seems to struggle with appropriately managing his emotions, more than his younger partner.
He's too hysterical for his younger partner to cope with, yet that's his expectation, that his partner should put up with it and coax him first.
It's actually a form of emotional abuse for personalities like his partner's, to be blamed for and forced to manage hysterics, especially when fault is not explicitly clear (e.g. caught in the act of actively cheating). It creates a toxic emotional environment, and the instinctive reaction is to flee.
People tend to be self obsessed when feelings are heightened, and he acknowledges that's the state he's in when he says that he's feeling sorry for himself. There's no room for self obsession in a relationship though.
Real growth from this is actually changing his communication style so there's less self victimization and no hysterical loss of control that he blames his partner for. He needs to be accountable for maturing as an adult, but it won't happen if he's frequently accomodated and empathized with by people who also expect others to manage their hysterics.
Ayy que lindos espero y no vuelvan a pelear más nunca ❤
Espero que lo superé en una relación siempre ahí disgustos no todo el tiempo es felicidad siempre pasamos por momentos de disgusto espero que salgan adelante tengan más ratos llenos de felicidad ❤❤❤😂😃
There is always problem in every relationship, just calm down and communicate. Always try to solve the problem together and dont take it too hard yea. You are both a very lovely couple. Talk it out yea..nothing good come out when we are upset.
彼此先不碰面冷靜幾天，別輕易說分手，人與人的緣分不易
POV: the Uber driver
Driver:*this is some tea*
(Starts yellin)
Driver:you better not be yelling at me
Miss girl😤
Chen, 😘
Traquila por favor, no debes tomar decisiones cuando estás enojado...
Tú y Liu se aman muchísimo, demaciado, por favor sean muy felices!!!
Tienen que hablar ustedes cuando los 2 se encuentren serenos y tranquilos ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Saludos 🇲🇽
Los quiero Liu y Chen 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Tienes mucha razón, ellos dos se aman mucho, y cuando los dos de encuentren hablen, y intenten solucionar el problema, y mejor si están tranquilos y dispuestos a escuchar al otro❤
Its okay dear . No one will think this way dear. We all love u both so we want yours hsppiness. Sometimes even any person becomes crazy in this relationship but dont worry it will end soon. ❤❤❤❤
Lv imseems to be very emotionally reactive and Cong seem unable to handle conflict at all. Its quite a deadly combination. Also i wish all this screaming wasn't happening so publicly. That must have been uncomfortable as hell for the taxi driver. It got super ugly but im glad they worked things out eventually.
Talking close doors is better than bringing it in social media and shouting at your partner was a no , no matter what happen give each other that respect ….. what ends relationship is lack of communication and trust, if there’s no trust then such relationship cannot work 😢
Истерика прямо😂 Ребята, будьте взаимно вежливы, а то недалеко до разрыва😢
😂а мне нравится как он истерит
@@hadia5347мне тоже показалось это милыми😂😂
shut up
The driver: 👁️👄👁️💧
I agree it should of been private. But I think they both just need to calm down. And talk in a few days. But a brake up is alway the hardest.
เท่าที่ฉันเข้าใจ และเข้าใจว่าทำไมเฉินลู่ถึงเลือกสตรีมสดในครั้งนี้ นั่นก็เพราะจุดเริ่มต้นของการทะเลาะกันเรื่องนี้ มันเริ่มจากการที่หลิวชงอัพรูปเซ็กซี่ในฟิตเนสลงโซเชียล ซึ่งเป็นรูปที่เฉินลู่ได้ขอไม่ให้หลิวชงลง พอเฉินลู่เห็นก็โกรธมาก ต่อมาหลิวก็ได้ลบรูปนั้นและโพสต์รูปใหม่ ดูเหมือนจะคลี่คลายสถานการณ์ร้อนระอุก่อนหน้านี้ลงแล้ว แต่อย่างในคลิป เรื่องนั้นทำให้เฉินโกรธ แต่ที่เฉินมาถึงจุดที่ระบายอารมณ์ออกมาในรูปแบบนี้ นั่นเพราะ เฉินต้องการให้หลิวเข้าใจในสิ่งที่เฉินต้องการจะสื่อ ว่าจริงๆแล้วเฉินหมายถึงอะไร และกำลังพูดถึงเรื่องไหนที่หลิวทำให้เฉินโกรธ เฉินโกรธที่หลิวอัพรูปใหม่ลงโซเชียลแต่ในขณะนั้นกลับไม่ตอบแชทเฉิน และก็ปล่อยให้เฉินค้างกับอารมณ์โกรธที่ยังคุยกันไม่เข้าใจนี้นานถึง20นาที ซึ่งคำตอบของหลิวใน20นาทีให้หลังคือ พอลงรูปใหม่เสร็จก็ไปอาบน้ำ เพราะตากฝนมารู้สึกไม่สบาย. เฉินที่ยังอยู่ในอารมณ์โกรธ จึงได้พูดคำพูดที่อาจทำให้หลิวรู้สึกว่าเฉินไม่เชื่อใจหลิว. ฉันคิดว่าพวกเขาทั้งสองต่างคนต่างมีความต้องการให้อีกฝ่ายเข้าใจในการกระทำของตัวเอง. ซึ่งฉันก็มองว่า คนที่อยู่ในความสัมพันธ์ พออารมณ์มืดบอดมันทำให้บางครั้งก็เผลอละเลยรายละเอียดเล็กๆ น้อยๆที่มีผลกระทบต่อจิตใจของคนรักไป. ฉันแค่ลองคิดว่า ถ้าเกิดหลิวตอบแชทกลับไปว่า ขออาบน้ำก่อนเดี๋ยวค่อยคุย บางทีสถานการณ์อาจพลิกผันเป็นอีกแบบก็ได้.
เพิ่มเติม -
อย่างที่รู้กัน ก่อนหน้าเหตุการณ์นี้ ทั้งคู่ก็เพิ่งทะเลาะกัน และเกือบจะคืนดีกันแล้ว แต่กลับมาชะงักกับเหตุการณ์นี้อีกครั้ง คือเข้าใจไหมว่าคนสองคนที่มีเรื่องทะเลาะกันในช่วงเวลาไล่เลี่ย อารมณ์ต่างๆ มันสะสมด้วย ต่างคนต่างหาข้อผิดพลาดของอีกฝ่าย และหาเหตุผลของตัวเอง. ในมุมมองของคนนอกอาจมีคนไปตัดสินพวกเขาว่าคนนี้ผิดคนนั้นถูก แต่ในมุมมองของฉัน คนที่กรีดร้องโวยวาย หรือคนที่สงบกว่า ไม่ได้แปลว่าถูกหรือผิด แต่สิ่งที่เกิดขึ้นมันคือความผิดของทั้งคู่เท่าๆกัน เพียงการตอบสนองต่อเรื่องราวมันแตกต่างกันเท่านั้น.
แต่ความรักของคู่รักมันก็เป็นแบบนี้แหละ เพราะว่ารักมาก จึงใส่ใจมาก และคาดหวังมาก ซึ่งความรักมันมีทั้งสุขและทุกข์เป็นของคู่กันล่ะนะ ต่อให้อยู่ด้วยกัน10ปี,20ปี,30ปี ก็ย่อมมีเรื่องทะเลาะกันบ้างเล็กๆ น้อยๆ เป็นเรื่องธรรมดา. ตราบใดที่ทั้งคู่ไม่ทำร้ายร่างกายกัน และไม่นอกใจกัน เรื่องทะเลาะในชีวิตประจำวันถือเป็นเรื่องปกติมาก
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For those who don't know the situation before this live. Please read this.
EU SEI QUE OS CASAIS SE DECITENDEN MAIS SE ACALMEM VCS SÃO UM CASAL TÃO LINDO CONVERSEM COM CALMA E VAI DA TUDO CERTO ESPERO VER VCS BEM😊❤😢
والله لازم تحل الخلاف البينكم بقرب وقت ممكن ❤❤😂
Не плачь дорогой, ты такой красивый! Какие прекрасные глаза! 🙏🤗💋Всё пройдёт, счастье снова будет рядом! 💋💋💋🤗🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐
Не надо расставаться все у вас будет хорошо❤
Não precisa terminar e só conversar vcs forma um casal 💑 fofo tem muita química sejam felizes ❤❤❤🇧🇷🇧🇷
你們還年輕，合著來不合則兩個都冷靜思考，能做朋友都要珍惜善緣，懂得互相理解，應該是你們都太年輕事情都到這種好像已經撕破臉的情況如果再繼續在一起也不會快樂，如果一個人控制不了自己的情緒，動不動就想發飆，說句真心話如果想交到知心朋友其實超級難，人与人在一起就是需要去了解對方，做任何事情都能替對方想想，如果兩個人角色對換，想想對方的感受，如果兩個人再勉強再一起，一定會常常為了一點點小事情吵的無法忍受，兩個人再勉強再一起已經沒意義也不好玩又何必呢祝福你們倆都平安健康
There is a big difference between the fun part and the serious deep part in a relationship. The balance especially on social media must be very hard. I would not want it personally. Too much expectation. If you can talk out what upsets you both or what your boundaries are it can help alot. This is coming from a person who has been in a long term relationship. :}
You need a hug lots of hugs.
That's right
I really support this relationship...but when it's not working out, the best thing to do is to walk away, but first of all, you can't make a hot-headed decision
I am so sorry you are both going through such a hard time. Give yourself some space and talk later when everyone is not feeling so hurt. I love watching your videos. Be Strong ❤❤❤
Ребята, не раставайтесь...
С вами так хорошо
Вы пример гармонии
Полностью согласна
你们是我最喜欢的情侣，我总是祈祷你们的关系永远美好。我不想看到你们两个这样吵架 😭🥺😢😢
I wish conglu happy everyday ❤❤❤
I love you guys so much
Misunderstanding, lack of trust and communication. Time apart is good. Calm down and reflect. Staying calm, cool and collective is key to communicating. Listen to each other without the yelling. This is petty and not worth the possibility of ending a relationship over it. Talk it out, apologize to each other and put this in the past. You’re too sweet of a couple to see both of you like this. Hope it all works out for the sake of your future together. Hugs to you both. P.S. Is there an update on this situation?
My good people, let them love each other forever, do not quarrel, I love you both very much, love with all my heart.❤❤
Everyone couple goes through this. Sit down an talk it out. You can see that you love each other and please DON’T break up please. I love you both.❤❤❤❤❤
Si se aman pero tienen un grave problema con la comunicación entre ellos, eso puede traer esté tipo de problemas y más graves, pero creo que ahora mejoraron bastante (es una pelea antigua por lo que se ve) son cosas que pasan en una relación, siguen siendo una pareja devina pero hay cosas que mejorar si ellos quieren estar mucho tiempo juntos, les deseo lo mejor y que siempre pueden arreglar sus problemas
Não fica assim não gosto de ver vcs triste e chorando 😢 ❤❤🇧🇷🇧🇷
Tôi không thể tin được chuyện này xảy ra mà điều này rất rất buồn 😢 làm ơn đừng như thế thật sự tôi không muốn cặp đôi này chia tay
Se me apachurra mi ❤ al verlos pelear, cuando tengan diferencias dejen que sus pensamientos se enfríen hablen, traten de no gritarse, sigan las cosas en el momento para evitar estás situaciones, siento en mi ver qué se aman tengan más comunicación y confianza, no hagan que uno los vea así por su paz mental esto se habla entre ustedes, los quiero mucho ❤❤❤
If your really love each other talk in a nice way ,don't quarrel both are affected in your relationship,god bless
It's normal to fight each other. Many couple like that.
😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤🇩🇿❤Don't cry for him, he loves you right. My greetings to you from Algeria. I love you very much
Tenham uma conversa sincera ❤ voces sao adultos inteligentes 😢
The taxi driver who listened to this whole quarrel: 😐🗿
I love the, but a, concerned for their relationship because they argue soooo much. Love shouldn’t be so painful. I hope that they will grow together.
Please stay together forever and cute couple love from Pakistan
Don’t make an hasty decision you need to think it over or sleep it over talk and talk about it and don’t make any hasty decision break up with him.😢😢😢
Don't make any decisions when you're emotional. Both of you should just apologize to each other, it does not matter who was right who was wrong at this moment. You guys just need to hug each other hold each other apologize to each other and learn from this and discuss it calmly when you're both more rational in a few days. If you're afraid of screaming and yelling at each other then you both should write everything down and give it to each other.
I’m just now seeing this and this broke my heart esp the fact that they were arguing on live and in a car 😭 I know the driver was embarrassed for him (I’m sorry I cannot remember their names) but yeah couples will go through small arguments and heated arguments and eventually they apologize.
Boys just remember life is to short. Don't fight over things. Sometimes it's better to walk away. Calm down and then sit down and talk.
vid này lâu h ổn roi
Please don't leave him, he is very in pain please he ❤s you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel sad for The car driver 😂
Não fica assim não eu to muito triste 😞 ver vocês dois brigando vocês são o meu casal mais lindos e fofo que eu amo vocês se amam muito eu tenho setesa que vocês vão volta que Deus abençoe vocês eu não gosto de ver você assim triste 😞🇧🇷😘
Can someone translate in English? It’s obvious that there was a misunderstanding/disagreement… but what is being said? 🙏🏼 thank goodness this was a while back 😪😅
The first part is when lv said about how cong make him like that (sad or angry) and the second one is that lv says he think that if they really break up this time, he feel that he’s really gonna get sick (I think he meant like depression or like burnout) btw my English is not good so there’s probably grammatical error in the translation and also they are already back together again now ❤❤
Милые котики❤
Даже сейчас, спустя столько времени, всё равно болезненно переживаю их ссору. Очень рада за них, что помирились.
Главное не копить в себе обиды и обсуждать с партнером если что-то беспокоит в отношениях, иначе это будет выплескиваться в сильные ссоры, так как другая сторона не поймет, почему из-за незначительной мелочи любимый так взбунтовался и сильно огорчен.
Будьте внимательнее к друг другу, цените свои отношения, берегите свою любовь, другой такой может уже не случиться.❤❤❤Лучики счастья и добра из России☀️🤗🥰
Love you both ❤
Well. I think you guys should be together forever, be honest each other, believe each other, faith each other, share problem each other, solve problem each other, respect each other. To be honest i watched all video that you guys are real newlywed and i've been yours fan. No matter what happen you guys. YOU SHOULD NOT BREAK UP. If you guys are fighting then buy flower or chocolate, apologize each other and then made up. Got it ? 🥺
Don't fight your are a real couple please❤❤
I always said to myself that no matter how I love this person or how he loves me if the relationship is toxic I might as well set him free. No matter how hard or crazy it will be. On my own understanding, I hope you will love yourself fiirst and go anywhere, unwind yourself before you make a decision. ❤
예전일이라 정말 다행이네요^^
싸우지말구 LV울리지 말아주세요 ㅜㅜ
Everyone goes through hard times, but you can't let love go over one fight, you have to hang in there, you will not always be young,grow old together, love is worth fighting for in any language. (Please, work it out guys)❤
Comprendí tanto el como se sentía, que solo lo quisiera abrazar 😭 pero lo bueno es que ese es el pasado y actualmente estan bien, les deseo lo mejor, de verdad. ❤
They broke up
Watching this after their break up video 😢
😢Боже мой дорогие все будет хорошо не расставайтесь пожалуйста. Вы созданы для друг друга берегите себя любите друг друга сохраните любовь я тоже плачу вместе м вами😢😢😢 Что случилось между вами.? Аа это старая запись оказывается. Сейчас они вместе ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Siguen juntos todavía 😊
Finally a non staged and scripted entertainment 😂
To be driver in Chengdu really hard😂😂 sometimes you'll see them lovey dovey to the extent they'll make out at the moment, but sometimes you'll encounter this scene 😂😂
😂😂 я думаю водитель дрожал и думал как бы поскорее доехать пока они не переключились на него
Era fan de ellos, viendo esto veo que mo tienen una relación sana , como me imaginaba, que mal me siento por ellos, su relación no duarara mucho si pelean asi , sin escucharse , entenderse, razonar y platicar 😢
Im not even using haedphones but i still know this was loud af. Stop fightingg!!
I knew it was bad but damn they really both upset and I think showing the media might’ve not been a good thing to do. It just added fuel to the fire of them both wanting to come off as how the public should understand both sides when our opinion does not matter. I heard they handled everything else off the camera which is good. Tho I love and support a lot of these couples, they’re still entitled to their privacy & I wish they reflected on that more. However, I’m glad they’re back together & didn’t let one argument tear them apart. You both are a beautiful couple & you have a beautiful relationship. Also, try listening to hear what your partner is saying instead of listening tot Spain’s cause exactly what they were doing in the beginning of the argument.
The crazy ones Are the one that love you the most ❤
You're too emotional, you don't need to talk anymore today, and you're both on edge and you'll only make things worse When you both calm down, sit down and calmly let everyone express what you don't like in your relationship and if you come to a common opinion that it's possible to fix everything, then you're destined to be with each other, it's clear that you both love each other very much, because such emotions are the most important thing to hear each other, it is very important in a relationship Guys, I wish you happiness and love, EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE WITH YOU! ❤️❤️💋💋
I wish this didn’t happen online but Chenlv seems devastated and it is his way of crying out. He obviously doesn’t want Cong to leave him so shows this online to sort of prevent a breakup.
Cong loves Chenlv but it seems like he is tired of what he views as manipulation by Chen. He needs to be more sympathetic and empathetic to his boyfriend. During the argument in the taxi a simple hug would have ended the issue.
I also think there is an underlying issue of distrust that is not been mentioned - this is probably why the the statement about the rain created so much issue. It seems Chenlv may have been saying I don’t believe you and that was what Cong reacted to. I have not known them for long but I feel so sad just watching this. I know how it feels to think the other person is not loving you as much as you love him. There is obviously a serious communication problem and also it seems friends are giving some advice that may not be beneficial to their relationship. They are lovely boys, hope they can sort this issue, learn from the mistakes, love each other more and grow stronger.
Не тратьте время на обиды и ссоры!Жизнь одна и цените каждый миг друзья!❤❤❤❤❤
NO llores hermoso❤ ahí millones de corazones que les decean toda la felicidad juntos 💝
12:50 liu song looks so sad...
such a bad move to film an argument with your partner, even after they tell you to stop recording.
Veo que pelean mucho , así una relación no puede durar , pues se vuelve tosica. Espero que podáis arreglarlo…. Ánimo y no llores , deseo que dios te de fuerza y te bendiga ❤😂
I’m sorry but I couldn’t be with a person who is going to live stream our argument and scream at me when I’m trying to have a conversation with them. I dislike how he is clearly asking him to end the live and he just instead shoves the phone in his face and say “tell them” of course maybe this isn’t a issue for them but I do hope they work towards having better communication skills and keep things like this off the internet if possible.