Why Your Attempts to Manifest Attract the Opposite of Your Desires

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  • Too often, my attempts to manifest my desires result in creation of the exact opposite-what I don’t want. You probably have had the same experience.
    So what’s up with that?
    There are several ways to explain this phenomenon, but Neale Donald Walsch offers a fabulous one in Conversations with God. He writes, “Whenever you proclaim something, everything unlike that will show up in order to give you the opportunity to sharpen your understanding and ‘beingness’ of your new decision.”
    Indeed, to manifest something, you must first decide you want that thing or circumstance, set the intention to create it, and then understand who you must be to receive it. Of course, you also must become that person-assume that identity.
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ความคิดเห็น • 73

  • @davidharrison3399
    @davidharrison3399 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Three words .
    Don’t give up

  • @Golden_Queen_888
    @Golden_Queen_888 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    These r the blocks coming out to clear the way ☺️ when they appear know that u have successfully moved the energy in the right direction.. when u don’t have any internal blocks they don’t appear though, the manifestations just arrive simple & clear ❤

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Indeed!

  • @Guyonyoutube201
    @Guyonyoutube201 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love that you said “it’s all working as it should” and then almost knocked over the camera- in a video about manifesting the opposite 😂. This is awesome.

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Hahahah. Right?

  • @MaryMargaretteWhite-ek5tn
    @MaryMargaretteWhite-ek5tn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    “Love brings up everything that isn’t”

  • @mahalharoui4900
    @mahalharoui4900 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Dear Nina, I came across your work when I was struggling with a personal question. Your video answered it exactly. Thank you so much!

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're so welcome!

  • @gustavofreitas3997
    @gustavofreitas3997 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I think I'm broken. Everytime I try to manifest, the opposite happens, but everytime I'm totally convinced that something will not workout for me, It happens.

    • @gustavofreitas3997
      @gustavofreitas3997 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Every job I really wanted and was secured It was mine, i didn't passed, however, everytime I screwed up something in the interview I was hired. Every romantic partner I had only stayed while I wasnt making any plans because of this insecurity. But when I finally felt safe and planned something, they left out of the sudden with no explanations. Im so tired of this, and I don't even know what Im doing wrong. Everytime I got a bit of self-confidance everything goes away.

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If your underlying belief is that...when you get self-confidence everything goes away, that is what you will create.

    • @Nieoczywista
      @Nieoczywista 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I can't believe I found the answer for my biggest question by accident in comment under this video. Similar toxic assumption punished me for self-confidence moment, as though I believed that I have to be punished for being too confident. In my memory I come back to childhood moments, the more self confident I was the more punished I felt from the side of dominant family member. The assumption was probably created during such childhood moments and it's time to change it. The same with relationships, the more I lost hope, or the more angry I was due to circumstances I didn't want to the faster good things manifested and the more I expected good things, it was the opposite effect. It's so weird. Great, that you explained it. I wish everybody with such weird assumptions to identify the source of the problem and to change it.

    • @guidedmeditation2396
      @guidedmeditation2396 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Personally I believe that when God/Universe closes one door it opens another. This is something in my core I have always believed deeply and completely and this has an amazing use. When I have looked back over some of the most profound and immediate manifestations I have experienced I noticed this one thing. Like a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down, I have found that mixing my desired outcome I don't have full belief in with this concept I have 100% faith in my desired outcome can slip through the door with it and manifest super fast but there is one more step many people fail to mention. You need to quiet your mind while raising your energy level via controlled deep breathing. It is a state you almost never naturally enter so this is why it is so elusive. Normally when you get energized and awakened your conscious mind is fully energized as well which negates your attempts to manifest.
      One way people naturally enter this state without realizing it is if they go on a leisurely walk on a nature trail alone where they zone out mentally yet have elevated breathing. This is when they have some deep thoughts or realizations or the answer to a problem pops into their head and they just feel so much better. They think it was the rocks, trees and bunny rabbits they saw along the way but it was actually that they calmed their mind while elevating their energy level and the universe connected with them. When the universe connects with you it can heal your body, offer solutions to existing problems and if you have a deep loving desire for something or an out come it can be communicated at this time. Then when you go about your day forgetting all of the above the universe is working in the background rearranging things to make people, circumstances and events make your desire a reality.
      You are NOT broken. You are just logical, set in your ways of thinking and like 99% of everyone else. Manifestation is like a combination lock but also a ridiculously simple one--- You just need to do it right.

    • @Its_shivkumar
      @Its_shivkumar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​​@@NinaAmirand how it will work??? please explain practically

  • @GAIA-GALACTIC
    @GAIA-GALACTIC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just clicked through from a google search that brought me to your website to find that I was already a subscriber! Yay! Thanks for all the amazing helpful content!!!

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yay! Thank you! I'm so glad to see you here, too! Is there any way I can support you?

  • @Smithaa1
    @Smithaa1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I almost dropped my desire but after seeing this video & seeing signs related to my desire often i decided to stick to my new story. Thank you

  • @shahedqureshi1836
    @shahedqureshi1836 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you - brilliantly explained. I have been experiencing the opposite of my desires. This makes total sense to me now. Be the person now you want to be so you get what it is you desire 😊

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly.

  • @20mariam3
    @20mariam3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel blessed to have found your channel ♥️ here’s to the beginning of a new journey!! 🎉

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks! Glad you are here.

  • @feraskhalbuss2145
    @feraskhalbuss2145 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very powerful, clear and grounded video. Thanks for sharing!

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @SeasonedWoman1900
    @SeasonedWoman1900 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m in a place of discouragement I’ve been at this for decades, nothing is or has worked…yes I am giving this up I’m so tired now

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Choose to be in a different emotional state.

  • @shannonfulton3177
    @shannonfulton3177 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That makes perfect sense.

  • @SaleemRanaAuthor
    @SaleemRanaAuthor 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this insight.

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My pleasure!

  • @vaishnavi19
    @vaishnavi19 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom❤
    The way I see it is that everything that exists is just love.. We might judge something to positive or negative cause we don't really see the greater reality behind it.. So when we stop judging any conditions as "postive" "negative" that's when we realise that it's just love and we can easily create our desired reality!!🥰

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well said!

  • @akiebawashington2673
    @akiebawashington2673 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this ❤

  • @JS-lx9fi
    @JS-lx9fi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Idk what is going on but I tried the Neville Goddard and meditations affirmations and I have been doing them almost daily for years now. I would get myself into a positive state. And then it seemed like the people in my life became so dramatic and abusive with dramas and issues that I had to deal with. I felt so stressed and defeated.

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      When you change, sometimes things and people have to fall away. They show you the opposite of what you want and you have to choose out. You can't change them. You can only change yourself....keep doing that.

    • @danix454
      @danix454 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Have you considered telling a new story and STICKING to it? It sounds like you’ve been repeating an old story for years now and have expected something to change.

  • @artvibral
    @artvibral 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thanks so much for your sharings

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome

  • @edypriyo9868
    @edypriyo9868 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We already have IT, All of IT, Money, House, Cars, Company etc, but not yet experience it, choose a state of being before you begin to think, say and do relates your chosen desires....

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly.

  • @SigmaMindset313
    @SigmaMindset313 ปีที่แล้ว +2

  • @aariyahsymone4162
    @aariyahsymone4162 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Still seems like the universe is creating the wound making u heal it then asking you if you still want it

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sometimes the Universe does seem to want to be certain it's what you want. And sometimes this is a growing edge.

  • @oldnatty61
    @oldnatty61 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ebb & flow. Point your feet downstream & gently guide, unless you want a badass workout?

  • @onajourney4380
    @onajourney4380 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    When do you know when it is time to actually give up? I have dedicated my entire life and soul to manifesting what I believe is my calling but have been met with pain heartbreak and disappointment for 9 years now. I want to keep the faith but it is so difficult. I feel that if I cannot have this experience I desire in this lifetime, my life really has no purpose. So I keep going. But picking up the pieces of my broken soul every time I experience another loss is just so exhausting. The universe seems to lie to me constantly, giving me signs that seem to indicate I'm closer to my dream, only to crush my heart once again. How many times can a soul break before it never goes back together?

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry that has been your experience. On some level, you must be blocking this creation. It could be a subconscious belief, a fear, or even your brain directing you away from what you want as it tries to protect you. But explore your conscious belief that when you get close to your dream your heart gets crushed and you are disappointed and in pain. That's highly likely causing that to happen over and over again. Try changing that and living as if you are someone who has your dream...not someone who gets close to it.

  • @SabineHelbig
    @SabineHelbig 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    how can I have fait if always only the bad things happen , destroy my live and others. Where will the fait comes from?

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Faith comes from within. The more you tell the story about bad things happening, the more they will. Tell a different story...one of faith in good things happening.

  • @user-xs6ux4dk9y
    @user-xs6ux4dk9y 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I seem to get what I want but it seems like there are crappy terms or conditions. I get a car but the financing is awful. I am thankful anyway but it does hamper my joy a bit and makes anxiety rise.

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So...change your thought about that. Be someone who gets what they want with amazing terms and conditions.

  • @amandaclaireon4065
    @amandaclaireon4065 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hey babe im gonna be really honest with you i hope you can answer my question im a trans woman of latina heritage and recently i been feeling a desire to be a with a white man so i started affirming that i am loved and accepted by all white men but just recently as i was walking down a street a white man on a bike talking to a Latina woman shouted the homophobic F word slur at me very loudly , this is weird it never happened to me before i started affirming is this the law of opposite taking its course ?

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We often attract what we don't want prior to attracting what we do. But I'd get specific about what you want in a white man rather than being so general. And I'd focus on BEING a person who has already attracted your PERFECT PARTNER--white or not.

    • @amandaclaireon4065
      @amandaclaireon4065 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@NinaAmir omg thanks so much this helps but im spiraling al day long it seems like im going crazy

  • @preetinderjitsingh429
    @preetinderjitsingh429 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I still didn’t get it, can you please briefly explain it within a couple of lines

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Try reading the associated blog post. The link is in the video description.

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please read the associated blog post and see if that helps. The link is in the video description.

  • @amandaclaireon4065
    @amandaclaireon4065 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hey gorgeous you never answered my question

  • @damprotek
    @damprotek ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Apparently the spirit world doesn't recognise negative words because it is negative ..they scare the crap out of you at night to feed off your negativity.. And when you say I want they say yes... you will want.. like if I try to manifest a car and I say I want a car I want a car I want a car they say yes you will ..want.. a car.
    You see you don't actually get the car you just get the want.. if you say I do not have a car and I'm ok with that. Now this is when the magic starts because the magic is words. words are spelling spells.. a battery is negative and positive if you become negative they will become positive.. I know it's kind of anti productive but this woman's just proved it.. she literally said 99% of the time you get what you don't want first ..didn't she.. the opposite ..she did.. so say you don't want it and you will get the opposite.. am I right.. once you have it have a great full heart she had trouble even explaining this cuz she doesn't understand it.. power is negative and positive ....No good comes from good only bad and only good can come from bad hence the terrible crucifixion of a poor man Jesus comes Christianity good And then once you have Christianity good then comes the bad as in paedophile priests money laundering crusades killing witches innocent old women you get what I mean but after this comes good it's a wave.. I hope I make this clear.. the roots of a tree into the rotting dead earth will end bark up branch flower fruit reaching up with their arms to the sun the light which comes from the darkness the roots ..this is ancient knowledge if you want to know more just let me know.. PS the film monsters Inc have you noticed is how happy they are while they're scaring the crap out of everyone.. Go figure charging their batteries..

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Indeed, when you want you get more wanting.

    • @eric6281
      @eric6281 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That was the best explanation of all time! How can I get ahold of you for further explanation. Thanks. E.

    • @damprotek
      @damprotek 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eric6281 hi was you talking to me Eric I have many years experience supernatural paranormal and have learnt a lot of my stuff through guidance of the supernatural world I can only tell you so much because I get told off if I say too much.. And you don't want them coming after you ..trust me

  • @dermotgannon4895
    @dermotgannon4895 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Most people are so u hinged. They better off saying I will not..ala the ladder story.... I use it on women I want to sleep with..I say for a few day..I will not sleep with so and so and then I end up with them..scary simple

    • @NinaAmir
      @NinaAmir  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I will not is asking to have your will be strong enough. It can't overpower your brain or subconscious programming. If you want to be with a woman...just be with her.

  • @sophiafakevirus-ro8cc
    @sophiafakevirus-ro8cc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She wants to be the wise one, selling magic beliefs to those who wish their wishes could come true.

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Jesus Said..”the Father Knows what you need before you even ask and He will Give it to You. Trust Him! “ 😊❤

  • @etienne7774
    @etienne7774 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If your not a born again christian folowing the Truth, Jesus Christ you are still lost in your sin heading to hell. A law comes from a law giver. Who is the law giver in the law of attraction?

  • @officialzacadammorrison
    @officialzacadammorrison 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wacky ideas on top of wacky ideas

  • @albundy9597
    @albundy9597 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    TH-cam is really going downhill.