Wedding Q&A (and pics)

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  • @entertainmenttime8238
    @entertainmenttime8238 7 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    Can you upload ur wedding video please.x hit the humbs up bottom 👍for the wedding video guys.

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      BABY H omg yes

    • @Olivia-le3uy
      @Olivia-le3uy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      BABY H yesss

  • @ruhenaaktar8301
    @ruhenaaktar8301 7 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I think your husband should wait till you have a daughter and give her away on the wedding day...he'll know what the difference is...us gals go to the inlaws our lives are changed while their at home with their family and eife😑

  • @eln.2456
    @eln.2456 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    yes we want to hear how you guys met etc!! cutest couple, love youuu!! xx

  • @sarat283
    @sarat283 7 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Can you do a video on how you met and parents etc! Omg please do a collaboration with shareen, I would love to see bridal scarf looks for hijabis! That would be really interesting

    • @sarat283
      @sarat283 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sebina H thanks lovely! 😊

    • @zulekhaibrahim150
      @zulekhaibrahim150 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sebina H love you too much salma
      love love love love love you too much

  • @zobiaw4455
    @zobiaw4455 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    All the videos you have mentioned that you might do if requested I want to see all of them. 🤗 you are incredible and inspirational, keep up the good work!

  • @kheeri2621
    @kheeri2621 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Rukhsati is about leaving your family to go and live/adjust with your new husband. Its not about you'll see them the next day lol. Its about not living with them anymore and kinda moving families? Everyone starts crying because they either remember their rukhsati or imagine that they are also going to have to leave their families one day.
    Thank you for the video for the helpful tips and for sharing your pictures with us Sebina you looked beautiful on all days MashaAllah! ♥

    • @umasal5312
      @umasal5312 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kheeri. what if your home life was not great? do some people (secretly) jump for joy at the Rukhsati? 😅

    • @kheeri2621
      @kheeri2621 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I guess so hahah!

  • @angelbaby3003
    @angelbaby3003 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yesss do an advice video on weddings!!! And also upload your trailer, maybe you can blur out ur family members faces!

    • @amekalhn1641
      @amekalhn1641 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      xo.warisa.xo dooo a colab with the mkeup artist

  • @sabrinakhan4808
    @sabrinakhan4808 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Having a ladies mehndi event is allowed haldi ceremony is an hindu event just to clarify. mehndi is sunnat women ceremony are allowed.

  • @Muzac37
    @Muzac37 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Would love to see a marriage Q&A!

  • @farhanakhan2699
    @farhanakhan2699 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Liked before watching

  • @freemanontheland507
    @freemanontheland507 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The scholars are still urging people not to be extravagant in wedding parties and other expenses that have to do with weddings in general. They suggest that this is one of the factors that make the issue of marriage complicated for those who want to get married, to such an extent that the numbers of young women who remain unmarried have increased...

  • @thebloomingbookshelf2683
    @thebloomingbookshelf2683 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Having a mendi night is not a religous practice its cultural and i think thats what he is mixing up 😣

  • @h471m4
    @h471m4 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Liking before i even watch it! Love u😘

  • @lubnaahmed7746
    @lubnaahmed7746 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are a genuine person with a beautiful personality that shines... loved this so much!!!

  • @jadordiorre2
    @jadordiorre2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    congratulations and thank you for sharing with us. such a beautiful personality x

  • @amstah4706
    @amstah4706 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    would love to see more x didnt want this to end 😤

  • @KhansaAli
    @KhansaAli 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your right everything does change after you get married it's not the same someone should ask the family and you actually especially the mum x I know a lot of people don't agree on this but I 💯 agree with you on it xx

  • @Hannah-sg4sr
    @Hannah-sg4sr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Sebina please do the husband tag

    • @amekalhn1641
      @amekalhn1641 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hanna h definitely

  • @rubyfahmida8379
    @rubyfahmida8379 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I hope u can put the trailer up😭😭😭😭😭🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @holistic7980
    @holistic7980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    many Scholars have reported there is a Hadith where if a woman leaves the house with makeup she is cursed by Allah.
    I never knew this until now. may we all be guided.

    • @fahmidabegum339
      @fahmidabegum339 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      holistic79 oh is it I'm trying to stop threading is makeup nt allowed either like at all

    • @holistic7980
      @holistic7980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fahmida begum 2 clips by two Scholars a few minutes long on TH-cam: what kind of makeup can a woman wear - Learn Islam -Q and A. Also: Wearing wigs, plucking eyebrows, fake eyelashes and that by
      Assimalhakeem.
      🌴
      May Allah guide us all to Heaven. Ameen.
      🌴

  • @tnaz9258
    @tnaz9258 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can you please do a video on how you met and how you told your parents you wanted to get married , how did your parents react, where there anyone in the families that didn't agree. Sorry I'm not trying to nosey but it would help Pakistani girls out. You looked beautiful on both days Marshallah

  • @aislingof81
    @aislingof81 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a stunning bride. Congratulations to you and your husband.

  • @safinabibi864
    @safinabibi864 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yaay first one waited for this for ages love ya sebinaah 😘😘

  • @Aylin.B0yar
    @Aylin.B0yar 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Weddings seems like too much stress lol. My husband and I are still thinking if we should have a wedding ceremony or not, but as you said Sebina, you have to compromise. And to be fair, there are no such thing as "not having a wedding" in the Bengali and the Turkish community and traditions😂

  • @kazukocchi
    @kazukocchi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You looked absolutelly stunning Sebinaah!

  • @MM-ip1pn
    @MM-ip1pn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this video 🙌🏻 No one will understand the rukhsati other than a girl because you won't see your family everyday and it's a huge change 😁 yes do a hijab tutorial pls

  • @sabihahbelleza5404
    @sabihahbelleza5404 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Omgod i loveyour channel so much ❤️

  • @reshmaaa__9798
    @reshmaaa__9798 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i cried at you talking about your ruksati (we say bidaai in bengali) imagine me on my wedding day omgggggggg 😭😭😭😭🙃

    • @ZaraKhan-ex3ev
      @ZaraKhan-ex3ev 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      R-x __ aaaw don't worry when your time comes it will be the best time of your life ever insha'Allah xx

  • @ayshabegum4881
    @ayshabegum4881 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Where were the bridesmaids outfits from? and the mehndi ones too?

  • @xxooxxxxoxx6654
    @xxooxxxxoxx6654 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    love to see ur trailer mash Allah luv ur videos n congratulations u make a mash Allah beautiful couple xx

  • @irfanm3159
    @irfanm3159 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rukhsati is emotional because the bride is now no longer the responsibility of her mother and gather but her husbands, and also she will now have to live in another household.

  • @nikitakimberly6190
    @nikitakimberly6190 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    you look so much like Shraddha Kapoor an indian actresss omg

  • @queenonherdeen5292
    @queenonherdeen5292 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1st comment! love your channel! your beauty Ma shaa Allah. ❤

  • @neenzx4255
    @neenzx4255 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Definitely would love to see a 'how we met' video or a 'life after marriage' video🙊❤x

  • @KhansaAli
    @KhansaAli 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just watched this video now 😬 lol 😂 I know I'm late but didn't get the chance before. Loved it xx and yes I agree with your husband about the mehndi part even tho I had mine because my sisters n cousins really wanted me to have one but when I look back now if there's one thing I would change about my wedding that would be the Mehndi

  • @tgwtg9428
    @tgwtg9428 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Where did you get your jumper/sweater because it looks so good!

  • @mahj7019
    @mahj7019 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yesss adjusting after marriage video definitely

  • @reemaaslam590
    @reemaaslam590 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After ruksathi it is not the same. I am blessed with amazing in laws but i cried so much on my ruksati which i found weird myself. As i was laughing and so happy throughout the wedding rassams. i think only women will understand it is not the same.

  • @sameenaarr9595
    @sameenaarr9595 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You looked so beautiful Ma Sha Allah 💜

  • @rukhnachaudhry3037
    @rukhnachaudhry3037 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You looked gorgeous Masha Allah 😍😍 I really wanna see your wedding video please upload it ☺ and can you do a video on how you two met and stuff like that ? ❤❤

  • @rearich6553
    @rearich6553 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love you soo much, ur soo pretty . You really deserve more subs . lots of love from germany😍❤

  • @friendteens
    @friendteens 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i'm getting married next year and this video is really great!! i got alot of info and your dresses look amazing. i need some advice on how to wear my scarf on my wedding day, i hope you make a video about a makeup marriage look and stuff ps you are absolutly gorgeous

  • @79read
    @79read 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    YEHHHHH finally 😉
    you looked stunning MASHA'ALLAH 😍😘

  • @nuhaakanowah1504
    @nuhaakanowah1504 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    you can do a collab with kaushal beauty...just suggesting☺

    • @mariamq7096
      @mariamq7096 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nuhaa kanowah Yh I would love that

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      nuhaa kanowah or rumena !!

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      nuhaa kanowah do a collab with modest street!! Aisha Rahman

    • @mam5950
      @mam5950 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      nuhaa kanowah nooo Anam Ahmed

  • @29lysha
    @29lysha 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came to watch this because of your insta post, LOVE!! I don't mind it being too long hehe

  • @S777AAL
    @S777AAL 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great informative video - FYI Mehndi/Henna is not a Hindu thing, yes the party part has become a thing but applying henna/Mehndi has been adopted from the Arab world. Years ago Hindu brides would use red colour only on their hands and not henna.

    • @laila7529
      @laila7529 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sital Singala yeah true

  • @sadian5436
    @sadian5436 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really enjoyed watching your video, would be really nice to see a tutorial for your Baraat dupatta setting as I'm sure it's difficult for brides to get the balance between covered hair and the traditional setting

  • @freemanontheland507
    @freemanontheland507 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Expensive dowries and extravagance in wedding parties are things that are contrary to sharee‘ah. The most blessed marriage is that which is affordable; the less the expenses are, the greater the blessings. This is something that in most cases is the fault of women, because women are the ones who force their husbands to pay for expensive parties that are not allowed in sharee‘ah.

  • @tanzimrahman2423
    @tanzimrahman2423 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg the first time the question i commented has been answered lol 😂literally the most interesting video

  • @priakaur4547
    @priakaur4547 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    it's a little offensive what your other half said about sikhs and hindus and their hena nights, like yeah u might be 'imitating' our religion/culture but so what? And what is so sad is you make fun by smiling and sticking your tongue out when he says "Sikhs andd Hindus have hena days".. if thats the case u should tell him to keep his opinions to himself

    • @sarabeg6924
      @sarabeg6924 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pria Kaur Muslims were told by the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) not to imitate non-Muslims. So sorry you were offended, they could've said it more sensitively, but that is why some Muslims will refuse to have a mehndi function. I am devout and come from a devout Muslim family - my parents don't have an issue with such functions, but it's not a must for us. My aunt (dad's sister) is a scholar of the Qur'an and avoids such functions for the same aforementioned reason. But my mom's eldest sister is really into the old customs, so that's the opposite end of the spectrum there. I didn't care if I had a mehndi or not - for me it was just an extra expense and nothing else - and I wouldn't have had one if we hadn't had my reception abroad. My husband's family lives overseas and they wanted a big party so had a big dholki over there.

  • @a.a5811
    @a.a5811 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what brushes are those in the back ( the really big ones) ? you looked stunning in all your pictures xx

  • @fayekhatun
    @fayekhatun 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't find the videographer, I wanted to see some of his work as I share your vision and not a fan of the staged looked. Can you share the link?

  • @nusratsiddique6337
    @nusratsiddique6337 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally got round to watching this video. Mashallah you looked beautiful in your wedding dress. Hope to see more vlogs with you and your husband - love them! x

  • @kolponasaddeque9867
    @kolponasaddeque9867 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yaaay so excited to watch! Huge fan xx

  • @remylovesmakeup
    @remylovesmakeup 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I clicked immediately when i read and picsss u looked sooooo beautiful mashallah😍😍😍

  • @Jessica-wk7ue
    @Jessica-wk7ue 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lool I usually don't comment but omg you guys were so funny! and mA you looked stunning on your wedding day ♥

  • @kayj291
    @kayj291 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Could you do a husband tag. That would be lovely

  • @marieq5823
    @marieq5823 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lovely video! Very useful for brides to be. You are such a cute couple mashallah! Tell us more about you two, how you met, how life is after marriage etc. ❤️

  • @fatimamalik2312
    @fatimamalik2312 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg this is the first vidoe I watched of u and I'm in loveee ❤️😭 ur so adorable (even thought I'm younger than you) but ur so beautiful I swear to god xx love u

  • @misskhan9128
    @misskhan9128 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you looked stunning ... lovely video xx

  • @anumc5038
    @anumc5038 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Aur wedding night hosan" 😂 yes girl loving the Punjabi/potwari

  • @danceillusions13
    @danceillusions13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yemeni and many Middle Eastern and North African Jews do henna before their weddings too, a custom they took from the Muslims among whom they lived, for sure not from Hindus.

  • @naziyat
    @naziyat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Sebinaah - hope ur good.. Does your makeup artist have a youtube channel? If not - do you think you could get her to do your makeup again for the sake of a youtube video. I'm sure many people would love to see this - especially if they are thinking of booking her in future. Like you said - i find nowadays the biggest problem is that all brides look the same with the heavy contour, heavy eyeliner, heavy blush, and same heavily caked face... so it would be great to see how this MUA does her makeup as it seems to look great in your pics!

    • @naziyat
      @naziyat 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      oh ok no worries.. thanks xx

  • @yasmine.b5195
    @yasmine.b5195 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    yes tips would be nice

  • @_almua_7259
    @_almua_7259 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your so good at TH-cam love the videob

  • @sadiyah2380
    @sadiyah2380 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    on your wedding day u looked so like Shradda Kapoor, beautiful x

  • @Amzy_co
    @Amzy_co 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I remember seeing this video at the time.... just repeat watching it 😂😂😂

  • @spooks1982
    @spooks1982 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your jumper, can you share where you bought it from? Many thanks in advance :)

  • @SharifaGrace
    @SharifaGrace 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha'Allah the dress is absolutely beautiful. Congratulations on your marriage may Allah keep you and your husband happy always.

  • @anisabibi5453
    @anisabibi5453 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    yes show your makeup with shaneeqbridal

  • @imsokawaii5783
    @imsokawaii5783 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    nice video!💕 I'm sure I've seen u b4 I feel like ik u😆

  • @tinnahussain6346
    @tinnahussain6346 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I want you too do a collab with the makeup artist

    • @titim88
      @titim88 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tinna Hussain w

  • @haleemahyaqub4896
    @haleemahyaqub4896 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How much was our dress ? x

  • @mooey87
    @mooey87 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should do a marriage Q&A video and also an advice video for newly-weds already married.

  • @aaminaiqbal7559
    @aaminaiqbal7559 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👌🏽👌🏽 rely wanna see ur trailer in sha Allah xx looking gorgeous as ever babe

  • @wowso4
    @wowso4 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrats once again your so pretty, you looked soooo beautiful on your wedding day wow

  • @hennauddin9400
    @hennauddin9400 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    yes please!!! please do a few different bridal hijab styles! as its so hard to find a bridal hijab stylist where i live so would help me alot

  • @theonelikesaf3679
    @theonelikesaf3679 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Enjoyed this video it was interesting, azbah is a great makeup artist i went to school with her but your mua did an amazing job. Please do share the wedding video or maybe put snippets together. It really is hard leaving your home but i pray Allah blesses your marriage. Ameen.💖

  • @queengul1529
    @queengul1529 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I agree with your husband the rukhsate doesn't really make sense :/ your gonna see them again after lool

    • @mooey87
      @mooey87 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Robi Gul its just at that time its emotional coz the girl is leaving her house. Yh you see your family but you don't live there you aren't their responsibility any more. They've given her away.

  • @HNC-ik6mj
    @HNC-ik6mj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love the vlog.. 👌 Sis i really like to jumper yoir wearing where did you biy it from if you dont mind me asking?? please will you be able to link the top your wearing.. xxx

  • @user-ug9hc6lt4s
    @user-ug9hc6lt4s 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I wanna know how much these types of weddings cost.. and like how long you saved for etc?

    • @ninacubana
      @ninacubana 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      paaz 96 for my "Turkish" wedding i am paying around 11000 euros and im doing a small wedding :( we have one year to save money. its very hard and sometimes i regret all of this because its too much stress and waisting money anyway it cost alot even if you try to stay simple

    • @user-ug9hc6lt4s
      @user-ug9hc6lt4s 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nina Cubana Yes thats a lot of money. I think I would like to spend 10.000 and thats it.Im trying to save now and im 20!

    • @Kari-iu9jx
      @Kari-iu9jx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      paaz 96 It's sad to hear that so many muslims pay such huge amount of money for their wedding, but each their own choice, I guess..
      Alhamdoelilaah, I got married last year and paid about €3.000 for the whole wedding... And my sister's was cheaper, because she had her wedding at home.
      So you can have an amazing wedding, blessed by Allaah without all the crazy expenses.
      May Allaah make it easy for all muslims. 💕

    • @autumnwinter4413
      @autumnwinter4413 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Karima A
      Definitely agree, these days it's all about how much money you spend.

  • @simrag
    @simrag 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg I would love to see your wedding trailer love u xx

  • @Reeja
    @Reeja 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I honestly love your videos so much 😭

  • @ifraa9305
    @ifraa9305 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sebina you're my favourite TH-camr and we're so alike like personality wise 💖 & we're both Pakistanis so I can always relate to whatever you're saying 💗 Keep it up Sebina and inshallah you and Faizan last long xx

  • @gemmasmith6715
    @gemmasmith6715 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i would definetley love to see a colab in the new year!

  • @mariyaxoxoxo7019
    @mariyaxoxoxo7019 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yessss

  • @kaybb1893
    @kaybb1893 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    lmao at the question.. how was your 1st night 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @FatimaAli-tv5rg
    @FatimaAli-tv5rg 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    While your husbands right, henna night is more of a culture thing than religious.I wouldn't say henna night is literally for Hindus and Sikhs only. It's something that is a BIG deal in the Arab culture too - and something we've always done. No imitation of anyone.

  • @asmamohammed3976
    @asmamohammed3976 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    beatiful I luv u sebina gorgeous hope u had a good wedding day :)

  • @ibriza6891
    @ibriza6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi where are the makeup brush holders from and the cream lanterns? X

  • @nasahmed3027
    @nasahmed3027 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this ❤️💗 You SLAYED on your wedding. 😍😍 and MashaAllah you make a very cute couple. 👫 May Allah give you a long prosperous, happiness filled marriage 💍❤️

  • @mehvishkhan2318
    @mehvishkhan2318 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You looked stunning!!! Mashallah quick request pleaase im getting married in the first week of jan in sha Allah pleaaaaase pleaaaase upload a hijab tutorial!!!! I'd be ever so greatful:) zx

    • @umasal5312
      @umasal5312 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mehvish Khan. that's next week! congrats!

  • @faariaali3686
    @faariaali3686 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your makeup looks so good in this video !

  • @nafeesawasim965
    @nafeesawasim965 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just subscribed after seeing this video of yours, its the first video ive seen of yours sebina, Masha'Allah love ur personality and ur accent haha may Allah bless you and your husband💕

  • @HannaHasAPlan
    @HannaHasAPlan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the video. New subscriber :)

  • @masumabegum2742
    @masumabegum2742 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love ur jumper, where is it from?

  • @dfuhhdfchjgsfh4595
    @dfuhhdfchjgsfh4595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    She looked so incredibly beautiful wth! Mashallah ❤️❤️

  • @freemanontheland507
    @freemanontheland507 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But what is required in such matters is to act in the way prescribed in Islam and not overstep that mark or be extravagant, because Allah - may He be glorified and exalted - has forbidden extravagance and has said that He does not like those who waste by extravagance...
    Take heed Brother's & sister's...

  • @siidhraakiyaan4789
    @siidhraakiyaan4789 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    mashAllah beautiful couple, may Allah bless you both Ameen Xx

  • @123PureAddiction123
    @123PureAddiction123 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi, can you tell us how your hair was underneath your scarf on your wedding day? mine ends up being flat when i whip it off. is there any way to avoid that ?