Addison Tells Amelia to Stop the Spiral - Grey's Anatomy
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- Addison (Kate Walsh) sees Amelia (Caterina Scorsone) taking her pain out on those around her and pulls her aside to tell Amelia that she needs to stop her spiral before it's too late. Watch 'Grey's Anatomy' THURSDAYS 9/8c on ABC and Stream on Hulu.
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Only Addison could've had this conversation with her. No one else shares as deep a history with Amelia. Perfectly done.
Apr. 21, 2023 So true indeed. Amelia and Addison's history goes all the way back to #PrivatePractice where Addison has seen Amelia at her lowest. Addison knows the signs of Amelia's spirals. Amelia needed to hear this.
Agreed! Only Addie could deliver this beautifully
@@winterhug4331the intervention episode was very powerful!
They really tried to sell us on Mer and Amelia being the closest of sisters. That they got each other. But no, they were always just a pale imitation of these two.
Not to say I don't like Mer and Amelia, but there is just so much more history and trust here.
She would only listen to Addie on this subject. She needs to come back.
addie constantly saying "and" and emphasizing it is actually huge
that's a way to talk taught in trauma therapy to validate the person's feelings while also giving stern advice just like addie did
I loved seeing that
She also made sure to tell Amelia “I love you” and she kept saying it throughout her speech, which is also very important for her to hear as well.
I feel like people focus way to hard on the “and’s” they completely missed the point of the conversation.
I was cheering for Addison because this conversation is SO important for her to hear.
Addison said "I love you AND"
When all Amelia has been hearing lately is "I love you, BUT"
Big fan of big sister Addison
Yes but negates!
Most people don't realise how important a distinction this is 👏🏻 THIS is why I still love this damn show
It was a bit overdone and overemphasized in my opinion (having to say it 3 times, really?), but I get what you're saying.
@thesoultheory3822 The repetition is important. Amelia needed to hear her, and believe her. So I don't believe it was overdone at all. The head space she was in required it
mer has 3 sisters: lexie, maggie, and amelia. amelia has 3 sisters: maggie, mer, and addie.
Thanks you Addison. Finally, someone to give Amelia some tough love, and tell her that she wasn't abandoned.
I love addison because she isnt going to sugar coat anything for amelia anymore and I really appreciate her telling Amelia to stop with this whole abandonment act
@@sabrinaharleyy Amelia was not abandoned by anyone in Seattle but the Showrunners. How can the Actress that skillfully plays Amelia feel everytime her Script has her in this destructive and narcissistic behaviour? Yes Amelia's core traumas are unthinkable but she has been met time after time before Kai moving to the next Step in their Career. x!
@@anonamouse.p4115 What are you talking about it is just a show. This is Amelia's character. Amelia has ALWAYS been this way since her and Addison were on Private Practice together back in the day. Addison is just telling Amelia what she needed to hear to hopefully snap her out of her downward spiral. You sound like you have never watched #PrivatePractice
@@winterhug4331 I am pointing out that most adults suffering from Trauma with All the Support the Character Amelia Shepherd gets, Stop lashing out years later in their Recovery. Come On! This behaviour does not belong to this character any longer. I watched Private Practice as well, except for Scandal and later Seasons of How to get away with Murder I watch, sad yet true. 😞
I deeply appreciate Addison's use of "and" here, because as someone who deeply relates so Amelia and spiraling, sometimes you need that. People using "but" never helps. "I love you, and..." is so much more helpful than "I love you, but.."
Without over explaining we can tell how well Addison knows Amelia and it’s why Amelia was so quiet in this scene. When she saw Amelia yelling at Yasuda she saw the same person who was yelling “what do we want drugs when do we want them now” in that intervention returning. Meredith and Maggie are good sisters but they can’t have a conversation like this with Amelia because they don’t understand her past the way Addison does. Arguably I don’t even think Derek can
I think Derek could have as he was there when she first started using etc, but i think addie is better at handling it than derek was
Meredith understood more than you know. Amelia and Meredith had a bond. They may not have known each other ss long but Meredith could have and would have said the same thing to her.
@@jamiek7698the difference is while they both have trust and love, and they both know her well. Meredith doesn't know addict Amelia remotely as well as Addison. So no, I don't think she could have done it in a way Amelia would have actually listened and taken it to heart.
I think Addison/Amelia’s relationship is such beautiful proof that family is not blood, family is simply the people who love and accept you unconditionally. And if you think about it, Addison is the only person in Amelia’s life who genuinely does that and always has.
100%
It takes a good friend to call you out
A good sister like addison is
i’m glad Addie is there for her right when Amelia needs her most 🥹
I can't thank you enough for bringing Addison back ❤
Agreed, now they need to incorporate Jake and Henry. Visits are great. Missing Jackson and April.
I really loved this scene. Addison is trying to create a safe place for Amy in order for her to understand that she is drowning. And she has to ask for help. And of course, to stay sober. No one abandoned her, she still has people to love her, to support her. Yeah, each one of us is trying to survive. That doesn't mean we don't love our people. I love you Amelia ♡
Bring Addison back as a series regular !!
Yes
Também acho que ela tem que voltar, Alison é maravilhosa, como pessoa e como médica!❤❤❤😉👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🇧🇷
Yes but I hope the writers don't think of breaking up her marriage to Jake! I'm actually dreading that they may do that, just to bring her back full-time.
@@monalisasmile6629 I think the main impediment to her coming back isn't her family, it's the fact that the actress lives in another country and probably doesn't want to come back full time.
@@junbh2 oh I didn't realise Kate Walsh lived abroad.
Anyone who watched Private Practice knows what Addison went through when she rebound
Apr. 21, 2023 So true, I watched Private Practice so yes I do know what Addison went through with Amelia
I LOVE how Addison finally said something unlike everyone else who was just letting Amelia walk all over them, even Richard saw how she was going off on Yasuda and didn't say anything. I know Amelia was feeling abandoned, but that doesn't give her the right treat everyone else shitty.
And don't forget, Amelia has a history of abandoning people as well. When things were going good with her and James on Private Pratice, she ran to Seattle, and during her marriage to Owen, she ran and hid at Stephanie's, instead of talking to him. I get that she's hurting, but karma comes in full force.
Dear lord, just give her a hug!
No that would undermine the whole point of that talk.
Amy doesn’t need a hug. She needs to pull herself together and stop being self centred.
You gotta stop before is too late, amelia! You have to listen. Love addison being around ❤❤
I love Amelia, but she can be so selfish sometimes. I love that Addie gave her a coming to Jesus meeting.
It's called trauma, not being selfish.
And it'w not a 'Jesus meeting'(what does that even mean???), it's an AA meeting.
@@noashom”come to Jesus moment” is a saying, maybe that’s what the person was trying to say. Addie have Amelie a “come to Jesus” moment/meeting
@@noashom traumatized people can be selfish. Just because she has been through trauma doesn’t mean everything is ABOUT HER. Someone in another comment section told me that this selfishness she continually exhibits is classic addict behavior. Even when they have made massive progress in recovery they can still be incredibly emotionally selfish
@@warriorgirl126 THANKS for being the voice of reason and compassion! The Showrunners are not letting Amelia Shepherd GROW through her Trauma, there is a meaning to the word Recovery and Amelia goes to narcissistic behaviour whenever her Abandonment issues are concerned. Amelia was Totally out-of-hand the way she spoke to almost everyone in this episode, especially Yasuda. Her core Traumas are unthinkable YET she has been met with Patience, Love and Wisdom several times over the Years she has been in Seattle. Why are the Showrunners Keeping her in this destructive behavior. Go Warriors x!
@@noashom That’s no excuse. She’s still selfish. It is due to trauma, maybe, but that’s no reason she should hurt people.
I love Addison. Thank you for coming back. Amelia needed this conversation, I was worried for her, and I hope she listens to Addi.
I love Addison. I’m glad she is here
Apri. 21, 2023 I agree, Addison being there brings some sense of normalcy to the show, if only for an episode or two, since so many of the original cast has left the show.
This has to be the best scene of this season.
She spitting facts. Amelia needed to hear it! I hope Amelia gets better 🥺
Everytime she emphasizes “AND” my heart just pulls. LOVE LOVE LOVE this scene. IYKYK ❤
I loved that speech AND I think that Addison should have ended it with offering Amelia a hug. She's in a low place right now and can't regulate on her own, so she needs close relationships and touch, to help her co-regulate. It's the simple science of the nervous system 🙃 Words alone are not enough.
Well Richard did hug her in the end.
Apr. 21, 2023 Yes Addison could have hugged Amelia but Addison has history will Amelia from Private Practice. She knows Amelia's history spiraling and substance abuse. Addison felt in that moment that her words were enough and not a hug
@@winterhug4331
Well, it wasn't enough.
Addison is the one who needs the hug. Amelia needs to pull her head out of her ass and look around.
@@noashom she didn’t need a hug. She is already feeling like a victim a hug would reinforce that. She needs to be treated like she has the strength to do this herself because she does and those around her are already drowning themselves and can not be her lifeline this time.
That’s Addison whole point. That Amelia is not a victim right now and that she has control on her reactions to these things.
Yhup, only Addison or Charlette could have this conversation with her TBH
Apr. 21, 2023 I agree 100%, I wish Greys would have let Charlotte come over to Greys once #PrivatePractice ended.
Derek would be proud.
Last night I wrote down every single word Addison said in this conversation ,before I saw this was posted here because it was so what Amelia needed to hear in a way she could hear it without putting it in the thats is what people say just before they abandon me. Addison , thank. you so much , I may need to borrow this speech some time - for my Amelia moments and some of the Amelias in my life that I love,.sometimes people can't hear it but what I liked is there are sometimes I need to say it anyway to protect myself. Just loved it . thanks to those that explained why the AND was put in.
Damn, she was really spiraling. Poor Amelia. I’m glad that Addison intervened with love, because it she was really getting on my nerves, and I understood her reasons, lol. But still… Lol! She needed to be stopped!
Addie serving facts 👏
I don't know why but at first I was angry with Addie for what she said but she sounds damn right. Amelia needed to hear those words although I really symphatize with her.
Maybe that’s a sign you need to hear some tough talk to.
Poor Amelia! Wonderful Addison, I hope she stays and becomes one of the main characters.
This was awesome!
I wish we would have seen Addison helping Meredith after Derek’s passing
Addison repeating I love you AND… such good writing
Such a great, well scripted scene. Wow
Addison repeating 'I love you!' to Amelia, was ❤ and necessary, given her history.
Thank you Addison
Amelia is not alone, as Addison will always be there for her and Meredith will return at some point. What per
What a strong character Amelia Shepherd is and a great character. It still has a lot to show and I love to see it. Long live the queen of neurosurgery. ❤
Best sisters
Sure she could have hugged her but addiction affects both sides, family too. This is hard for her too. Honest but made sure to tell her "I love you AND..." as the end of the convo. I really get why Amelia feels abandoned though, I would too 😢. Addie should stay with her a bit and then gradually wean her to being all on her own. Meredith and Maggie just left at the same time just like that, poor Amy.
No she couldn’t hug her without undermining herself. Her whole point was Amelia is not a victim and that no ones is doing anything TOO her. Giving someone already feeling like a victim a hug just reinforces their feelings of weakness and that someone else is going to fix things. It can be the last thing a person needs during a tough conversation.
She has a right to feel ALITTE abandoned she doesn’t get to feel completely abandoned because her sister are making choices for their own lives. That’s selfish.
What's the ep?
I swear to God, this is why I absolutely adore Addison Montgomery!!
Not everything is about her but this is her life. 2 sisters and a significant other fell in love with ALL left. She doesn't have stability. She doesn't have a rock. She is alone. What she needs to figure out is how she will add stability or purpose back into her life.
Season and episode please
Amalia and Adisson are the best and they understand each other so well because they belong to the same famille : the Shepherd ❤
Wa episode is this from the uk
This is episode 16 of Season 19, which aired last night Apr. 20, 2023 here in the U.S.
This gave me private practice vibes
"I love you and" instead of "I love you but" showing her love isn't conditional
Espero ver mais de Addison em ação com Amélia/Carina/Miranda e Jô..... 😍❤️😍❤️😍
Good job Addison 👏
Wow
I love Amelias "broken" side! It shows so much power! Sometimes I wish, I would be a little like her! Not the Addiction Part, but being more poweful after overcoming a struggle!
What episode is this
S16E19
Quem teve a oportunidade de assistir Private Practice acompanhou essa amizade em vários momentos entre elas.....foi uma pena seu término......família...é o que elas são!!!!❤😍❤️😍❤️😍❤️😍
Além de linda, a atriz que faz a Alisom é ótima atriz, aliás ela não é linda, ela é belíssima!, e a que faz a neuro cirurgia, a Emília é ótima também! ❤😉😘👏🏻👏🏻🇧🇷
Wow. Addison. Is. Trying. To. Hep. Amelia. Stopped. Drinking. Berfore. It too. Late. For. Get it good. Addison is. There. For. Amelia
I love doctor Amelia Shepherd and Addison Montgomery
I so badly want to send this to my Ameilia and let her know I will always by her Addison 💜💜💜
Episode?
S16e19
THIS IS WHAT TRUE FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE LOOKS LIKE. COMMUNICATE
😢
Who was the first on the show to say I love you AND? Was it Bailey? I don't remember but I'm pretty sure this is not the first time someone says this!
She’s definitely self absorbed right now
Shes acting like maggie and meredith leaving is because of her. when in reality its not its just that both maggie and Meredith felt like they needed to leave in order for them to continue to grow
Amelia's trauma started at 5 years old. She has a LOT to work through and we all have those moments of self spiral
@@weepingwillows21 ok and? She’s still self absorbed and it needs to stop. This is why she can’t have a relationship
I didnt watch the episode. Why does Addison talk about " the world on fire " or " the worl is already broken" whats happening in this episode ? Thanks
Addison is much more chatty than Meredith, but she has the same careness like Mer to Amelia, regardless what they have been through in LA.
Amelia needs some tough love, and some therapy and self reflection.
Me alegra que Alisson este ahí para Amelia, ella necesita a alguien que la jale y la devuelva a la realidad motivando la y ese alguien es Alison .
Amelia clearly needs therapy more so then anyone else in the group but the writers just expect her to deal with it and lash out on interns who just doing their jobs
Apri. 22, 2023 It sounds like you have never watched the TV show Private Practice. If you had you would know this is part of Amelia's character. Going to AA meets is her therapy. This is why Addison told Amelia to go to a meeting. Fans were first introduced to Amelia back in the day on that show. That is where Addison and Amelia's history began. Addison knows Amelia better than anyone else.
@@winterhug4331 I have watched it and know her story i’m just saying if she went to therapy she be fine and not spiraling at others?? Other characters have gone through therapy so why is it an issue if she goes? I know aa is her therapy but I’m saying she can do more therapy then just having to go to aa because clearly it’s not working for her
I hope Amelia grows and learns from this. Amelia treated Yasuda poorly. Out of line. Amelia should know better
Amelia makes everything about herself and she needs to chill and stop coming off so needy all the time. Stop blaming other people for people in life moving on to new opportunities. No one forced Kai and Maggie to move.
"You gotta get off the damn ride before it's too late" Resilient Amelia will grow, make amends, stop the spiral... and prove that actually the carousel CAN stop turning. You can pull the lever and make it stop. You can jump off while it's still spinning. Or you can stay on, stay stuck in a cycle... But either ya got choices. It's not too late
Also, both of their acting in this scene is top notch!
WE NEED MEREDITH.
She's hot and she's the show's namesake.
July 27
Literally this character l and shos is how I got my name
Only private practice viewers understand this ‼️ Well done Addison 😭
Amelia always screws it up... I mean she had this beautiful life ahead with her baby but she always has to abandon good things and move on towards destruction
❤
Does anyone notice you never see Addison's husband or kid in this season? If you have seen Private Practice, you'll know Addison got married and adopted a baby.
does Addison know about Amelia's brain tumour?
Amelia needs to grows up and act like an adult. Get over it.
As nice as this speech might be meaned:
This won't help.
Amelia isn't this way because she wants to be this way! If you are, everything you want, everything you wish for, is to be like every other "normal" person.
To not feel the pain of not being that 'good', anymore.
No one who doesn't fight these demons him or herself will ever gets it.
How it feels when you struggle and can't cope anymore and the painful, extremely hard and unfair knowledge that ONCE AGAIN you will have to be the one who needs to step up for yourself, AGAIN, and try to get your head above water.
Because there are people who had nice happy homes and people who care about them, who teached them how to cope with tragedy in a healthy way, who are having great support systems of friends and professionals...
And then there are those who don't.
Who don't be that lucky, no matter how hard they try, how hard they fight, how hard they paddle to stay above the surface-
every time.
No one should judge Amelia who's not been in her shoes.
Here are no words of comfort, no reassurance, no "I will stand with you. I'll help you find someone who will help you."
Like Alex was there for Jo.
So - thanks for nothing.
Then you dident understand what addison Said. She asked her to get help either with aa or terapi yeah amelia Will not mabye do it before is to late, but addison and Charlotte(pp) nows that this happen before when amelia felt left behind by Michele(her bestfriend inn pp Who took suicide) and when derrek dies it happen again everytime someone close to her dies she have took drugs and addie also Said look they havent died like Michele or derrek they are still Alive they Just moved away because they needed to do it. They dident left her and she Need to understand that before is to late and she start using again yeah addie can never understand but she nows when amelia are starting to go on to allmost using again she nows
Apr. 21, 2023 Aparently you never watched the show #PrivatePractice because if you had, you would have understood why Addison said this to Amelia. Amelia was on Private Practice with Addison before she came to Greys Anatomy. Those of us fans who did watch Private Practice back in the day understand where Addison is coming from.
Addie should've said something like "I know you're feeling really upset right now, and I know you've lost a lot, but no matter what, I'm always here if you need me." and then given her a big hug
@@weepingwillows21 everything she said was 100% correct. There’s a time and place for coddling and there’s a time and place for tough love..
Amelia loves to be a victim
Is Amelia drinking or what is this about?
She's upset that both Meredith & Maggie left, and Kai breaking up with her.
@@carinahatlevoll153 She almost used drugs when Derek died, but Owen talked her off that edge.
@@omarcogle1965 yeah i remeber it now but my point stands thu
@@carinahatlevoll153 Understandable
Apr. 21, 2023 Amelia berated an intern in front of everyone. Addison happened to be standing nearby and saw the signs of Amelia beginning to spiral. She took Amelia aside and asked if she was drinking or drugging because of her behavior. Addison knows the signs of Amelia spirals because of the history on Private Practice back in the day
Honestly, I stopped watching grey’s anatomy when Amelia and Link broke up. To me she is the worst character and I got tired of her none sense. I got tired of her hurting other people and I just disliked her character. If she ever leaves the show, I may watch it again . Nah, I’m lying, I won’t.
End this show. Its way past time.