Practicing Correctly, Being "Witchy" Enough, and Striking Balance Within Witchcraft | Magickal Tips
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- Today I wanted to answer some concerns left as a comment to me the other day. In this comment they emphasized feeling as though, even though they feel deeply drawn to practicing witchcraft they feel as though there are pressures that put constraints on life such as feeling unsure of how to practice correctly, being witchy enough, and ultimately facing being overwhelmed by it all.
I hope this video can be of use!
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Even though I’m old enough to be your father you have been like an unintentional mentor to me. I’ve learned a lot from your videos as well as other content creators. Thank you for what you do and please keep up your great and important work.
I grew up in the 1970s and 80s in rural NY. There wasn't alot of books on the subject of witchcraft avalable to me, although my mother did have a few. She was from the deep south, and uncomfortable with the ways of the north. All my life, she was talked about as a witch, to which I thought they meant an excentric woman tending her garden and prefering the company of animals. Although the was a certain anount of aprehention people tended to feel from my mother. I read up on witchcraft, what I could with limited books in the library and no internet to look things up. But I never thought of myself as witchy. But soon mom's nickname followed me and I was called a witch. I've dropped out of any organized religion in my teens, and while being more outgoing then my mother was, I've always been a bit of a loner. I had a more philosophical bend to my beliefs, reading and studying Buddhism, ancient cultures and religions, and history. In rural America, if this makes you look witchy, that is truely strange to me. It's not like I have ever been particularly open about my believes, learning from my elders that one doesn't discuss religion, politics, finances, or sex if one does not want to start a fight and make enemies. Now, in my 50s, i see that my leanings have always been more witchy in nature. That my mother practiced a kind of folk craft in her house hold chores that being more southern, always looked odd and scary to the northerners of our conservitive rural area. Buit I watch these videos from many people, and my craft doesn't look much like anyone elses. I don't use a special candle for spells, mom just used any candle as the flame and it's light were what was needed. Mom used normal cleaners and sang and mumbled under her breath words she couldn't say outloud in our Catholic home as she cleaned and protected us, or as she planted her garden, or as she made a simple cough syrup for us kids, or cooked our meals. she was a practical lady, and it wasn't the tools she used, it was the intent behind them. Now, I find I am drawn to more tools then she would ever have had, to study more about things she wouldn't, but in my practice, it is still the simple things that one has to do as chorse in life that I work with. and while I do smoke cleanse after cleaning, mom would've been satified with her mumblings under her breath as she cleaned the windows and doors with whatever cleaner she bought from the store and a pinch of salt added for good measure. It took me a while to understand that her craft was just as valid as someone who did big elaborate rites naked under the full moon. Her way was to bring a bit of magic into the mundane, to use simple things to take back what power she could and to keep her home and family safe. unfortunately, she passed away, having spent years in depression and dementia, and I was never able to ask her what little things she mumbled as she worked. So I rebuild her ways as best I can. My daughter now shares in this, as my mother's mother did before us all. There is no right way to be a witch, to look the part or practice perfectly. It is more a mind set, a way to believe, a philosophy of life, that no amount of crystals, or fancy tools, or dress can achieve. It's taken me a long time to see this. I see so many people trying to buy their way into the craft by having the right look, dressing the part, making their houses look like movie sets. But the craft is in your heart and soul, it isnt something to buy. and one can look perfectly normal to most people and still be a witch.
I like how Alice Hoffman elaborates witchcraft in her books as a “Nameless Art”. I haven’t encountered personal constraints, I have encountered men who were repelled by it tho. I really think those men were just seeking to control me
I think this message is so important. When I first started practicing, it would have an “all or nothing” mentality if I couldn’t practice exactly how I thought I should have. Sometimes this mindset still creeps in and I feel like I’m fake or not “witchy” enough. However, I know that the things I do daily and the magic I do have in my life is enough for right now. Thank you for this message💖
It took me so long to accept that ultimately, practicing Wicca is a unique, and very personal journey. Thank you for reinforcing the fact that there is no "correct" way, as long as it suits one's personal needs. As for appearing witchy enough? Eh. I've found that it's more important to appear however you feel most comfortable. Also, I've never been one to tip my hand, in order to impress. It's more about being satisfied with myself. As always, I very much enjoyed the time I spent, watching your channel. Blessed be, sister.
You Are the Spell!
Spiritual practice should bring freedom of soul/spirit, not restrict. As with any religion or practice, there's no "one right way" to do things. True "witchyness" requires nothing extraneous, and can be as simple as looking up at the full moon and speaking to Universe from your heart as the light floods your spirit with peace. That's just as powerful and meaningful as a ritual that requires 20 different herbs and tools, etc.
A book I recently read that speaks to a lot of the topics mentioned here is Everyday Witchcraft - Making Time for Spirit in a Too Busy World by Deborah Blake. Lots of excellent suggestions and tips for incorporating practice into daily life (if that's what one is looking for).
For me, any practice is better than no practice. Dont let the rules stop you from practicing what you feel you can do.
When I started out, I thought I could only be a "real" witch if I worked with at least one God or Godess. That I could only call myself a witch if I worked with others. But that is not the way that comes naturally to me. I too, thought I needed to do a ritual for every single moon phase, regardless of my life. But that is simply not feesable when your holding down a full time job, having a family to care for, a relationship to maintain and friends to meet. Let alone having time for myself. At some point I decided it couldn't go on like this and I did leave the craft for a time. But it called me back and now I practice the way that feels natural for me and in a way it fits into my life. And I have to say, I have become more powerful in every aspect, not just witchcraft. Blessed be, all you magickal beings 💖
Here for the dog! 😂 Omg so sweet and kind that one.
I love how much you love your dogs 💜🐶
I feel that the universe is there when you need it, whether you are dabbling daily or once a month. 💜
Wonderful video! The level of gatekeeping in witchcraft is really frustrating to see. Witchcraft comes from within first and foremost.
Such a great topic! I'm so happy to see a conversation around this. Recently I went through a lot of trauma in my personal life which caused a lot of burnout. I used to feel guilty for not having the energy to practice. Then I came to realize that listening to and honoring my body's need for rest IS honoring my practice
Right, thank you. Also, pretty much, if you're creating, crafting, cooking, or speaking, you're crafting witchery. Just watch your intentions. Do it with love and healing in mind. That doesn't mean you aren't witchy "enough", just who you are. ❤
Needed this 💛. I haven’t been practicing for long (coming up on 2 years now), but I feel like I’m at a point where I’m starting to just do what I want and when I want (surrounding my practice). It’s hard, because I want to do all the things but I get burnt out in my practice when I make it like this. Thank you for this video, and your beautiful tips 🥰🍃☀️
thank you for this truly!! i've always been drawn to a herb based,, green witch path yet i've always felt as though i don't have enough tools, herbs, time and overall the pressures to make everything so complex when its truly really simple! i always felt as though i were to practise everyday but its all about your personal journey! i've been following your channel for a while and i just adore your videos! :)
I'm glad you made this, honestly. Every time a friend says something like this I'n going to just sent them this video. I've been a practitioner for over 20 years and it's kind of draining to constantly hear people rehashing this subject. I shut down about it because it wears me out. This helps.
The intent and joy of the craft is where it's at. Forget the Hollywood version and appreciate the art and joy from what you do. To me, it's like cooking, you get out of it what you put in. There is no "correct" way to make meatloaf. You make it the way you like it. But, as with anything, practice, trial and error, is the only way to get better. Personally, I am more fulfilled doing for others and not what's in it for me. The Spirit of giving is 10 times more rewarding than the Spirit of taking. I only ask for protection, wisdom, and knowledge.
Very well said, I think the best way is everyone's own personal way, there are so many ways to embrace all the magic in the world and it is unique as the individual.
I have lost balance due to personal and work life stuff going on. Thank you for reminding me that essentially everything is going to be okay. Hope your day is well.
Hi girl! Good to see you’re back!
And happy Litha 😉
I wanted to share with you a recipe for a really nice oil I make: Rosemary and Clove Essential Oil. I came up with it of the limited resources I have. I guess that’s a blessing, because it inspired me to use what i have creatively!
Anyway, here’s the recipe.
Ingredients:
Jar, some rosemary, a pinch of cloves, and a cooking oil of your choice (i used olive).
Method:
1. Pour the olive oil into the jar.
2. Light a candle, and meditate with the smoke as it cleanses your space.
3. Infuse your intention into the rosemary, and wave it through the smoke. Pick some of the leaves off and put them in the jar. If it has flowers, put those in too as they make it smell super nice!
4. Use the cloves to ‘boost’ the rosemary’s protection properties. Imagine it flowing through the rosemary, strengthening and healing it. And you!
5. Seal the lid, and shake it. Then, allow it to set for two months.
6. If you make it at the end of summer, it will be ready to use at the start of autumn or winter!
I like what you said that witchcraft should bring me happiness and light. I need to find that after being overwhelmed by traditional religion. Everyone is an individual.
I think this is a very good conversation to have. I think it’s easy to not feel “witchy” enough. There are times in life where I can’t dedicate a lot of time to read or practice rituals, but I always make sure to stay in tune with nature and develop my senses to better connect with it.
As someone who is just getting started in witchcraft I appreciate this video so much. I needed to here this to give me the confidence that I’m not bad at being a witch, I just need to find what’s right for me personally. Blessed Be.
This was very helpful to hear, and I will probably go back to this often as a reminder. Thank you 🙏🏾
This made me feel so much more comfortable. I get worried about things so often that I forget that it’s simple ok to do things, well, simple!
Thank you so much for the reminder :)
I think starting with Wicca is a good base, a solid foundation to get started and then from there you can grow with what does or doesn't work for you.
The dog is so cute omg 🥺 thanks for the tips, I’ve been scared because I feel focused on my practice and I feel like it’s something I have to do. I hate being tied to stuff, I love to be free, and witchcraft was starting to make me feel restrained. So thank you very much!
My cat died tonite and ive been experiencing anxiety and grief all day . Your video is helping me to relax and begin to let go. Thank you 🧡
@Bridge Anknown thank you for your kindness ❤🙏
I absolutely love everyone of your videos ❤
Yes be kind to yourself & other's. Blessed be shining light ✨ 🙏
Great advice 😉 I do my witchcraft my way, I don’t adhere to any rules, I do what resonates with me. I live in a very witchy cottage in the forest and I live an earth based witchy lifestyle but I suffer from time to time with imposter syndrome too. I try not to get caught up in what others do. One time I decided coz I’m Australian I shouldn’t follow the Wheel of the Year. It lasted about 6mths. I felt lost and wanted to abandon my craft. I’m 81% DNA Celtic. I’m not Australian at all! I’m not indigenous to this country that I just happen to be born in. I realised it’s in my blood to follow a Celtic path. Since then I’ve never looked back.
I honestly found that I had to stop paying attention to the
"maximalist style" of practicing. I've really had to slow down and take it at my own pace. It's really helped a lot. I may not be doing as much as I'd like to be but what I am doing is more meaningful in a way now.
What a great video, Annie! I absolutely love the idea of doing practices only if they add something to your life. And I wholeheartedly agree. 🌷🌻🌿🌞🌳
Thank you for your mindfulness and kind ways. Helping all of us to see that we can dial back things when life is stressful and grow when we feel things change. Bless you with love and light ❤
I love your videos. Would you be open to doing a video on flowers? I use a lot of flowers in my practice.
It’s hard to keep up with everything all the time, and that’s ok. 💜
Thank you for being such a light in the witchy community
So glad Ive come crossed your channel. I've been practicing for nearly 25 years. Since my teen years. As I consider myself as a "green witch", as well. I agree with you 100% on everything that you have said in this video. Looking forward to watching more of your videos.
I’m so glad I found your channel. I’m just beginning my herbal journey! I can’t wait to learn more.
Thank you for all of your advice and wisdom throughout the years, you have been there for me through some of my roughest moments, I appreciate you.
Your words mean so much, you are so kind! thank you
Thank you so much! You've trully been an inspiration for me over the years ❤
Thank you so much for taking the time to make this video! It feels good to have these topics addressed. I’m looking forward to exploring what feels right to me :)
I am thankful you gave such sweet, thoughtful and serious answers to these issues. That are as you said mostly a product of Social Media Witchery.
I also appreciate your focus on Practice as Practioners. Love your vids!
I am currently taking a break for about a month. This came in perfect timing. Thank you 💜
Thank you so much for sharing this!!! 😊🥰🤗 not too many talk about all of this so thank you!!!
This video made me very happy. I've stopped practicing for years but i really want to start again
Always thank you for the calmful mood
Thank you for these words. Gratitude
This is my fave video by you
This is very helpful! Thank you.
Thank you so much for this fantastic video! I've learned over the last few years that as long as I'm authentic to myself and my needs, I will find the right balance in anything I do, and that is doubly so for witchcraft. I'm taking the learning slowly, doing rituals when I feel called to do them and using my intention as and when I remember and have the energy, otherwise is becomes too much. Sometimes I do nothing at all for a few weeks, save some gratitude prayers, and that's perfectly fine and keeps me connected well enough until I'm ready for more again. Grimm is so cute as well in this video! Sending all my love ❤❤❤
I been into witchcraft since I was 17 and I'm going on 41 now. I'm by far not a beginner witch but I think that this is a beautiful reminder that our witchcraft is personalized and doesn't need to be any certain type of way. I think we put a lot of pressure on ourselves and then we get overwhelmed. Without realizing it we just don't wanna do anything even our practices that make us happy and connected because we forget n treat it just like another thing on our check list to do. It's much easier to avoid everything sometimes than pick n choose the differences of what we need and don't need. I know it's ok to take a break but this just reminded me that we get what we give. I been feeling really off lately because of certain situations. This reminded me that I haven't been putting nothing into my craft and that's why I been disconnected. I forgot to take a minute and check in with myself. Make time to be present at my alter n put forth some effort even if for a little bit. I haven't done nothing for a month. Also I been cleaning and the path to my alter is clutter presently and the flow of my room felt stagnant and I couldn't breathe. (Like CHI) Thank you for your help. I'm gonna save this video Incase I ever need reminded why I fell in love with the craft in the first place.
Thank you for this video! ☺🌺
Hi Annie,I also appreciate this topic, as I wonder about this and doubt myself. I know that I'm eclectic in all things, so it makes sense that I would be eclectic in witchcraft, too. I love learning about all the different paths, picking and choosing what comes naturally to me for the most part. I've always felt so at home in nature, and am grateful for how much more I've been learning about plants and the interconnectedness of all life.
I don't think there is a right or wrong way either, there is only the way the meshes with who you are. Strict rules and such remind me too much of organized religions and for me that makes it very inauthentic. I focus on my own intuition and focus my intention and do what just feels right to me in the moment. And being "witchy" enough makes it sound like a pinterest post, it's part of who you are, so let that stuff go folks. I really enjoy your videos. Thanks!
Thank you for such reassurance we all at some point question ourselves, but as you say it has to be right for each individual, I hope you are settling into your new home now Grimm looks very happy I send warm blessings from very sunny English woods today,😊❤
I think of my practice like flying through my days. There are air currents that help and some that make the flying harder… or at least, flying in a certain way harder. I try to not make my individual practices feel like headwinds. I can flap my wings real hard and get tired, or I can let the wind help. Practice smarter, not harder.
Great video!😁
I fly here and then save them for later to watch because lately it seems as though I don’t have any time to relax during the day as much as I’d like, which is fine! Because I’m busy working for my own company/small business and I couldn’t be happier about that.
Also I know this is random but I’ve been following you for years and if you ever want a set of custom press on nails (Green Witch edition) just let me know and I can give you the most magickal fingers 🥰 I have an idea that I think would be so cute to paint.
Amazing
Great stuff. 👏👏
Weave and bob folks. It’s organic not scripted. The judgement shouldn’t be there.
As someone who is a senior in high school, has ADHD, and struggles with type 1 diabetes i used to find myself stressing over my witchcraft journey. I used to not be able to practice everyday, i had so many things going on in my everyday life, and it used to frustrate me and make me feel like i was less of a witch because i didn't practice and study everyday. Since then, i unknowingly backed away from my journey and basically abandoned my path and left it in the back of my mind for months. I've finally started to practice again after realising that i don't have to practice everyday and i don't have to be perfect in order to still consider myself a witch. Your channel has helped me a great deal with this as well. Thankyou so much for inspiring me and helping me re-connect to the path of a green witch
Well said!
Being witchy is not a forced thing, it’s inherent to my being, not something to be turned on or off. It’s in the way I keep my home, how I dress, craft, create and the way I relate to people and nature ✨
I understand where you're coming from. I've just started griding, and a lady on TH-cam showed me you dont need the right crystals or use crystals at all. You can use shells or stones, and you don't need to do it all the time. Plus, I know I may not get it in the right order, but I now I've just started, but it doesn't, which order I get it in to start the incense before or half way throw
This video found me at just the right time
This is a great beginner vudeo
Is that an amber necklace? Whered you get it from?
Thank you very very much. It’s always great to see that you’re not alone with those problems. Do you maybe know a spell that helps with building up consistency and motivation for witchcraft. Something that really makes you DO things? I’ve seen how witchcraft ist helping me bring order into my life and it really helps with sleep and depression but I always bounce back to the same old rhythm and sleepless nights watching TH-cam. I know witchcraft can help me break free from that. But I don’t know how …
Dear Annabel Margaret,
I am always moved by your videos , how you gently communicate with others. You exemplify authenticity and empathy. Love seeing Sir Grimm and love both pups. Thank you for being yourself and sharing your Light Annie.❤❤❤
🌲🍀🐾🦉🦌 i've always said, Annie "Emits" that Light🌞 (it's Her Magick)🦌🦉🍀🌲.
I love your dog!!!!
ThAnk u always 😊
I love your videos! Can you do spell casting for Bakkt (BKKT) stock to go up? I look forward to watching more. Be blessed!
Is there an audio we can get of the background music? It's so beautiful and I honestly think it would emotionally help me right now to sit with it and be with myself to resolve a lot of inner turmoil.
the song is called selah and it's by they dream by day
@@TheGreenWitch Such good fan service. Thanks so much!
I love your pups
I just come across your videos new sub I'm a pagan from england your a true inspiration for making them video's
I think the number one rule is there are no real rules we are all unique in our ways, so about how to do things correctly is the are no real rules, kind of like when you are making something to eat you go by basic things but change it up for your own taste buds for me as long as I am not hurting others be it animals people and other living things then its all good , some people like candles incense other s just like connecting the living feeling of everything all around and ( which is much like myself) I really dont need all of those things sure sometimes I may use them but most times I dont some people may need such things so that it helps them focus better others dont . all of my life I think I have always been doing my own magic but I still want to learn how others do it so I may take some of that knowledge and being like water adjust it to the way I am ;)
🌲🍀🐾🦉🦌 you have these "fireside" chats down. when you run for president, as an INDEPENDENT of course😌, you'll know 4 certain, you've got my vote ✔ in advance. at least I'll know the Woods & Waters 🎣 will be Protected by someone who truly "ENGAGES" with Nature 😉🦌🦉🐾🍀🌲.
Hi! I hope you'll notice. I'm a baby witch, started practicing the craft very recently, although i had the interest for a while now. Your page is my favorite by the way, i find your vibe soothing and very informational. I vibed! I've watched few of your videos and is still watching... I'm curious when you started the craft, who influenced you? Did you have teachers? Sorry to ask again if you already answered before.
Walking in nature is still a form of meditation, period. Good to see you, your videos have not shown up in a long time. I notice you are not using the finger brace anymore, hopefully this is because what was happening is corrected now. Your Beloved is beautiful, I have a white German Shepard also, very affectionate and want to be with their human. You look beautiful too!
Over time I’ve come to accept that if I don’t particularly have a certain level of energy then even if I do the working, it doesn’t feel magical. With that I’ve also worked on balance and knowing if I push too hard that just makes it harder to do even the little things. Yeah I would say balance is my power word in a lot of life aspects at the moment 😅
So... this is something I have always wondered... can I consider myself a witch if I don't actively "practice"? I mentally appreciate the spirits, nature and energies around me. I give mental thanks, and occasionally I will give thanks in some physical way but mostly its all internal. I've been told that this is not being a witch, but I feel it in me. Something inside me just connects with the concept and the energy of being a witch and I just wonder if there is something else I could call it? I don't want to, but I don't want to feel like an imposter. The reason I don't actively practice isn't because I don't want too, I just forget. Wether because of life, or my mental disability. I know she addressed this but I feel there was still some level of practice expected. At least SOME... you know? I hope this isn't confusing and I've explained myself well enough.
I love u and ur videos, u r awesome, I love ur necklaces, what r they? What r ur tattoos on ur arms?
Start public witch events!!!
PUPPY!!
As a newly practicing natural witch, I feel like I have passed "baby" stage, but now with everything I've learned, the "green" path seems to be the way. Other than intuition, what can I do to be sure I'm going the right way in my practice?
Can you please help me. I'm very weak mentally emotionally i have scars and wounds . I expecting help.or spells or prayer
Do you celebrate all the sabbats? I often find I don't have the time to plan anything often ending up just getting out in nature and observing the seasonal changes. I often wonder if this is enough. I suppose that's probably the wrong way of looking at it and that it is enough of it feels right for me. I used to think I had to cast spells and do rituals every full moon. It was way too much and too formal, like you the for!I rituals are just not for me, that's why I love your channel, your practice is similar to the way I feel comfortable practicing. I don't praise any deity, just respecting and being thankful for nature, I don't do any rituals and rarely cast spells. Generally I cook and garden with intention adding healing and living energy into them.
Sorry if you have answered this in another video. Did you finish herbalist School?
Against dragonism would be good time to tell..
I love everyone doing their own thing but at the same time I do believe there are wrong ways to do particular forms of magick. 🔮🌜🧿
You know witchy crystals?
Oh my, thank you so much for clarifying these topics. Thank you for speaking your truth. I appreciate all or this and all that you do for this community. 🩵🩵🩵✨😊🙏