Rapid Fire Parenting Q&A With R' Yaakov Bender

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  • @andrealavine198
    @andrealavine198 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Now 55, I first saw your podcasts when in the hospital with COVID. While COVID tried to kill my body, I was able to feed my soul with your content. A total
    bracha for this divorcee form Baltimore. I also love the positivity of your SOH podcasts.

  • @jolenesonnenberg4683
    @jolenesonnenberg4683 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm a 56 year old woman listening from Ramat Beit Shemesh, Israel. Love the podcast!

  • @chumieperl
    @chumieperl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    43 yr old blessed mother of 6 Yiddishe bundles of joy, watching from Tom's River, NJ.

  • @zip19692000
    @zip19692000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One thing Rabbi Bender never gets enough credit for. He's got to be one of the best entertainers out there. Sense of humor , dry cynical approach. Priceless !

  • @ramban1
    @ramban1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Turning 51 on Sukkos in Yerushalayim but still in NY as I listened to this. This was another winner episode. Love love love Rabbi Bender chinuch. The benefit of my phone addiction is getting to see my kids/grandchildren in Israel and listening to your great interviews and podcast 😊. Chag Sameach to all.

  • @rbj2023
    @rbj2023 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Hi! I'm 37 kah and listening from NJ...thank you so much for another epic episode. Rabbi Bender is a role model in chinuch, and it's always an honor to listen to him and hear his pearls of wisdom! A gut gebentsched yur, and keep up your great work!

  • @nechihirsch5528
    @nechihirsch5528 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m 62 and my husband 67 from Lakewood . My husband listened 2-3 times already. Rabbi Bender is amazing

  • @chayatoplin3675
    @chayatoplin3675 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mom of two teens in Baltimore. So much to learn from this interview!

  • @dahliaoziel9474
    @dahliaoziel9474 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What a tzaddik. We are fortunate to have him as a gadol in chinuch. Hashem should bless him with a long life

  • @chayaleah4629
    @chayaleah4629 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am a 52 year old mother of a family of all boys. I am also a toddler Morah and now a Bubby.
    This episode was very relevant. Thank you for providing this podcast.
    We are in Minnesota.

  • @zip19692000
    @zip19692000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The extravagance level of weddings has gone down overall from when I was a kid. Even the rich ones who would take a hotel in NYC years ago , today will take the same local hall as the others.

  • @DavidRichman-x2j
    @DavidRichman-x2j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rabbi Bender knows how to make every human being feel valued. My son with Down Syndrome has the zechus to spend the summers with him in camp. Rabbi Bender makes my son feel so important and treasured.

  • @doughboi007
    @doughboi007 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We really need more R Bender

  • @yochevedpanski7849
    @yochevedpanski7849 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm a 56-year-old woman from Lakewood. I listen to your awesome podcast while doing housework. I love your guest selection and appreciate "meeting" these inspiring people. Thank you!

  • @sandrai3599
    @sandrai3599 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    54 Mother and Grandma from Brooklyn. I love your podcast and have listened to it since the beginning. Thank you. Keep up your great work.

  • @racheljacobus2719
    @racheljacobus2719 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    28 years old from Bergen County NJ! Love your podcasts so much!

  • @140raglan
    @140raglan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    69 year old from Toronto and love all types of content
    Think R bender is SO ON THE MARK!!!!

  • @ChavaMalka-z8k
    @ChavaMalka-z8k 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    60, single mom of 20 year old, living in JLM B”H! Great content, great variety. I raised my son in Florida and the state only helps 30:10 if you’re at or near the poverty level. My ex fought to keep our son out of yeshiva, so I paid it through high school. Thank Gd that today my son learns in Yeshiva in JLM and loves it!

  • @michelles.901
    @michelles.901 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am 26 listening from SI New York! Love listening to rabbi bender! He says it how it is we are addicted! I got so much chizuk and inspiration to get off my phone and focus more on the kids.

  • @inspiredTeen
    @inspiredTeen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Im 19 yrs old listening all the way from South Africa best episode ever!

  • @michelles.901
    @michelles.901 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi I am 26 years old and listening from Staten Island NY. Thank you for such an awesome episode! Parenting is so challenging without the added distractions all around, it’s good to get a wake up call and some chizuk once in a while

  • @Msfiregirl123
    @Msfiregirl123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm a 48 year old woman listening from Brooklyn. Great episode!!

  • @nechyperry5193
    @nechyperry5193 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m 62 from Ramat Beit Shemesh Israel. Great podcast

  • @aydelfreedman2993
    @aydelfreedman2993 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi. I am 65 years old listening to your podcast from Lakewood, NJ.
    There are no words for the caring, loving Mechanech, Pricipal for Rabbi Bender. I've never had any children in his Yeshiva but just from hearing all about Rabbi Bender over the years makes me wish we had sent our boys there. (Unfortunately it was a location issue.)

  • @howardwiener2652
    @howardwiener2652 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    48, Bayswater. Strong adherent to the RY and so happy to finally see him in an episode. Please have him again as soon as possible.

  • @ChanieBenasouli
    @ChanieBenasouli 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful , relevant, informative and inspiring. Thank you for this interview with Rabbi Bender

  • @TheZyarok
    @TheZyarok 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful episode! I'm 38, watching from NJ. Thank you!

  • @djnouri10
    @djnouri10 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved Nachi’s pushing of the idea and adamance to create a system or screening to bring to light the presence of any mental or emotional issues taking place by someone involved in a shidduch. I was surprised to find out what Rabbi Bender pointed out about there already being a הוראה in place from the Gedolim saying that both sides in a shidduch must reveal to the other the existence of any mental or emotional health issues, I was not aware that there was already such an instruction in place, that was a relief to hear. I myself have felt for a long time that at the very least each side in a shidduch should actually ask the other about this area of life and closely pay attention to the response, it shouldn’t be ignored or assumed to be known about in the event that there was something to be concerned about, it should be addressed directly. To me, even if there is something by one side and it is denied, at least the topic was raised and the question asked, perhaps it would make that side think about it and be more comfortable to reveal it eventually (hopefully before any major decision is made),but it’s great to know that the Gedolim have already addressed and discussed such a thing, and I love how Nachi did not let go of it either, it really isn’t fair how these situations develop where a marriage takes place that’s doomed to fail due to a significant issue existing by one side that the other side was never aware of….

  • @Libby_Hannah
    @Libby_Hannah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm 38 and I listeded this podcast for 2 years I think... 3 years since I started my jorney discovering judaims and 7 month since I started my conversion process BH❤
    I JUST LOVE YOUR WORK❤

  • @avivajenkins7879
    @avivajenkins7879 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi i am 37 from Lakewood (hey cuz👋🏻) thank you so mucn for this amazing episode from Rabbi Bender I loved all the topics that were discussed and appreciated Rabbi Bender's normality regarding every topic! I especially liked that you both said about supporting our Rabbiem and Morahs since me and my husband are both in chinuch and we work super hard to love every single student that walks through the door and give them our all!

  • @ethelcarson1162
    @ethelcarson1162 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m 52 female from Connecticut and look forward to every episode. Thanks for all you do and for making a meaningful difference. Best podcast ever.

  • @sharpestable
    @sharpestable 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Im 55 ..now in Israel for the chagim..every episode is amazing..continue your holy work..

  • @common7874
    @common7874 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 32 listening from Montreal Canada. Thanks for this amazing podcast!

  • @silkypitterman611
    @silkypitterman611 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi. I am a 69 year old woman. I love your podcast. I am so glad to see this podcast with Rabbi Bender.
    Silky Pitterman
    Brooklyn

  • @akiva6129
    @akiva6129 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's refreshing to hear such things on such a large level.

  • @RochelWaldman
    @RochelWaldman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi! Thank you so much Rav Bender for your time . Watching from Ramat Beit Shemesh. 58 years old.

  • @bb-kl3xh
    @bb-kl3xh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 35
    Listening from israel
    Thank you!

  • @L.T.K.M
    @L.T.K.M 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi ! I’m levana 23 years old, listening from Paris ! Tks so much !

  • @moshelipschitz7555
    @moshelipschitz7555 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing podcast! Rabbi bender is a master at chinuch and has saved many many lives and helps out an unknown amount of people and family's..

  • @tzviweiss3731
    @tzviweiss3731 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    18 from Far Rockaway, and went to Darchei from N-12th Grade. Rabbi Benders the best!!

  • @RiviHipHop
    @RiviHipHop 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lucky to have my husband a rebbi and my son as a student there. The love, education and excitement that goes along with everything in the school is great.

  • @SarahAvi
    @SarahAvi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi I’m 29 and listening from Nj. Thank you so much for every podcast you do!

  • @adinanoff
    @adinanoff 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    38 from Baltimore (and sometimes listen with my 16 year old teenage daughter). Thank you for your meaningful content. I always enjoy your episodes.

  • @maysnoreply1505
    @maysnoreply1505 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello i am Joseph from Panama. We meet rab Bender in Pty few months ago.. The podcast is superB

  • @peninasacho341
    @peninasacho341 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Most brilliant episode!!!!!!!!I hv 6 small kids, am 36 and living in London. I am gonna get off my phone more!!!!!I am sharing this episode with lots of ppl..
    Thank you for interviewing This Rosh Yeshiva

  • @caseyishakova1974
    @caseyishakova1974 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello, I’m 31 from Colorado and just starting to listen to the podcast. Hope it’ll be good.

  • @shaneem.3186
    @shaneem.3186 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m 29 living in Pennsylvania! Thank you for this amazing episode

  • @Esti-l7n
    @Esti-l7n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m 26 and listening in NY
    Very good episode!!!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @juliebarker1613
    @juliebarker1613 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi I’m Julie and I turned 55yr today! I live in Salem Oregon, Jesus believing and follower in Christ with a strong desire to learn more about the Jewish teachings of Old Testament

    • @zip19692000
      @zip19692000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So how did you enjoy the interview?

  • @BEYACHADEvents
    @BEYACHADEvents 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved it! Thank you!

  • @chayastr1026
    @chayastr1026 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    36 listening from London. Been watching your episodes since the first one. Thanks so much for giving us meaningful content.

  • @1234em-t2v
    @1234em-t2v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 28 watching from Lakewood. This podcast is the best!!!🎉

  • @YaffaVida-wo8ie
    @YaffaVida-wo8ie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi!!
    "I'm 19 years old and I'm watching this episode from blank"
    And I seriously am 19 years old watching this episode from Monsey NY
    I love your podcast!!

  • @gittelsteinberg6139
    @gittelsteinberg6139 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m 25. Watching from Monsey amazing, thank you!!

  • @esther_attia
    @esther_attia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👋🏼 I'm Esther, age 25 from Yerushalayim. Thank you for your Avodat HaKodesh 🙏🏼

  • @jeffreyremin2082
    @jeffreyremin2082 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such an amazing and insightful episode. I am 40 years old and live in Ramat bet Shemesh. We made aliya from Riverdale 2 years ago. Was listening in Riverdale as well.

  • @simmyhorwitz3332
    @simmyhorwitz3332 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi :) I’m 37 and a mother of a houseful bH from ages 15 to baby, located in Lakewood area. Always enjoy your choices of guests. Thank you!

  • @22rockwood
    @22rockwood 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am 71 years old, raised outside of Philadelphia. I now live in North Carolina. Unfortunately my wife is here with me and my daughter is about 20 minutes away so she's close. Also outside of Winston-Salem NC.

  • @nossonweissman
    @nossonweissman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great episode. He's on the 💵💵

  • @shayebiller8826
    @shayebiller8826 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    52 yo woman . Monsey new York . Loving the content. Great interview

  • @blimiekellman8863
    @blimiekellman8863 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    35 yr old from Stony Point NY. Love your podcast!

  • @Sarah-c5z7h
    @Sarah-c5z7h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So very knowledgeable. Wish it was longer

  • @leahpollak
    @leahpollak 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    33 yr old woman listening from Melbourne, Australia

  • @shlome4290
    @shlome4290 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, I'm 29 yo from NY. Thank you for another inspiring podcast 🙏🏻

  • @SH48237
    @SH48237 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    40 from Detroit, great episode as usual, thank you!

  • @anonymousanonymous-qx7mv
    @anonymousanonymous-qx7mv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    69 boro Park...The Benders grew up close to us on Hooper Street. His mom was my kallah teacher. Taught my sister in B Y. Willi. Super special people ...Blumy Bender was my sister's classmate & friend and visited their home often. Super mechanech. Someone to emulate.

  • @devoiryporgesz3206
    @devoiryporgesz3206 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey! 26 year old listening from Boro Park! Love your podcast!

  • @A73695
    @A73695 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We're waiting for you here at home in Israel. Tuition, even private is much cheaper.
    Hoping to greet you soon ❤

  • @Little_tad
    @Little_tad 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 45, from Kansas. As long as the content is godly, I'll watch if there's time.

  • @fraidykay4476
    @fraidykay4476 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    29 from Jackson NJ. Tysm such a great episode amazing wisdom shared here wow!

  • @trudywiener532
    @trudywiener532 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tw from monsey.great show with rabbi bender.keep up the great work you do for Klal yisroel.i am a 70plus greatgrandmother

  • @meravrazak9869
    @meravrazak9869 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing interview!

  • @GittyWolf
    @GittyWolf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi! I'm 31 and listening from Chicago.

  • @rivkycarroll4362
    @rivkycarroll4362 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such an amazing episode

  • @sarahhayoun3186
    @sarahhayoun3186 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 59 watching from yerushalaim, love listening pod on education.

  • @eshileva
    @eshileva 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm 43 y/o woman listening (with my teenagers) from Passaic NJ 🙂

    • @23yybz
      @23yybz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am 46 years old in Chicago and I am a Darchei Alumni.

  • @Es-cj7lh
    @Es-cj7lh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    33 from Brooklyn NY! Thanks for all the content

  • @sivanhasleton3332
    @sivanhasleton3332 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im 13 and from manchester england
    Meaningful minute has really helped me

  • @anneizik5662
    @anneizik5662 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi I am 65+ I love your content and programs. Gmar chasima tovah a gut gebentched yur with besuros tovos!

  • @renaberman3355
    @renaberman3355 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    45 from Boston, MA. Great episode. I agree that teachers should be paid more!

  • @Noname-8803
    @Noname-8803 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a 21 year old woman. Love your episodes :)

  • @tovakatz9083
    @tovakatz9083 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Today is my 31st birthday! Loving in Chicago. Love the podcast!

  • @user-ns7tg4ox8y
    @user-ns7tg4ox8y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    16 years old listening from England

  • @SophiaB-oj1qb
    @SophiaB-oj1qb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey I'm 21 and listening from NYC! Yasher koach to all you do:))

  • @aaronlangert5751
    @aaronlangert5751 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m thirty-years old, from Meah Shearim, Yerushalayim, thank you.

  • @sheliamaynus9869
    @sheliamaynus9869 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    60-year-old lady listening in VA, USA

  • @selicht
    @selicht 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm 73 ka"h and I'm listening from Brooklyn

  • @akivagavrylin3162
    @akivagavrylin3162 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    37 Philadelphia. Keep up the great work!

  • @shoshanaeri8035
    @shoshanaeri8035 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    33 yrs k"ah listening from Israel.

  • @drew-p2e
    @drew-p2e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey I’m a 20 yr old from ny love your podcasts

  • @MottiSingerOG
    @MottiSingerOG 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, I'm 21 and watching from Staten Island. I saw I snippet from this episode on Whatsapp and wanted to see more.

  • @zip19692000
    @zip19692000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The smartphone has become convenient scapegoat here. I know plenty of parents all around me who have smartphones, and the kids are just fine. If theres problems its usually other things. Not saying the smartphone can't get abused just like anything else but it's usually not the root cause of the problem.

  • @zip19692000
    @zip19692000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Checking and screening for mental and emotional health before marriage . Can be thrown out there as an idea for people to accept or reject. A boys and girls family can choose to request it from the other side prior to dating or engagement. And see where it all goes. Hard to enforce and implement but certainly can save many from bad marriages.

  • @willschneider7252
    @willschneider7252 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    65 male Colorado. great interview.

  • @elishevakusayeva5619
    @elishevakusayeva5619 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    18 year old girl listening from Brooklyn

  • @SherryAckerman-mn2zo
    @SherryAckerman-mn2zo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    38 from Boca luv your podcast!!

  • @nossonweissman
    @nossonweissman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm interested in seeing actual stats on how many people give maaser

  • @jannaa4302
    @jannaa4302 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi. I'm 57, listening from Brooklyn NY. Great podcast.
    I want to make a suggest- yeshivahs should open their books to parents and donors. It would help with fundraising to know how money are spent..

  • @hdonstraight
    @hdonstraight 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    54 yr old Bubby listening from Canada

  • @sophiadouer1481
    @sophiadouer1481 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    32yo- married 4 cutes littles kids;) I'm french my husband english and we live in jerusalem - I love your podcase!