Are FILIPINAS Becoming WESTERNIZED???
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- Are FILIPINAS Becoming WESTERNIZED???
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I found myself a beautiful Filipina Leah both inside and outside, she is an angel 😇 from heaven, and she is also from Sipalay, just like you, maybe you know her, I'll be moving to the Philippines 🇵🇭 early next year to be with her and start our new life together, I am blessed beyond belief.
I believe that if western men find Filipina women are becoming westernized, they will just travel to other SEA countries for relationships such as Thailand, Vietnam or Cambodia or Latin American countries. Just my view on this topic.
Definitely! Why spend the $$$$$ and the time and effort to travel halfway across the world to get the same type of woman who is here at home.
1 of the extremely beautiful values that Filipinas have is their traditional ways. I hope that's not going away.
@@joedoe7706 I totally agree with you. It is obvious that western social media is viewed heavily in the Philippines. Many TH-cam vloggers have noted that the mindset of many Filipinas are steering towards the independent and feminist mentality of western women. Only time will tell on how this will affect Filipino women’s views of traditional values of relationships and marriage.
And then those countries to would become westernized
A single mom is a red flag for me , don't matter her race.
BREEZE I FEEL U, FACTS.
This is a very limited way of thinking , u know most of them can't help that ..especially if the father died , that's a red flag ?
Or the ones who leaves the woman with the kid(s)
How about the ones being abused ,shes supposed to stay with him and let him kill her ?.. No ,bruh
Interesting if that's your opinion that you would be watching this content.... you do realize 3 of the 4 girls were single moms and that 2 of the 4 still are. Huh.... so you're just watching this to pick up tips on how to best avoid women like this? I think the discussion regarding sex-ed and cultural norms in the household speak volumes on that topic.... I think it more comes down to whether or not you want to raise a kid rather than making assumptions about the girls quality or character before getting to know her and the circumstances, but that's just me. Because that's what Red Flags are... a preconceived notion (deal breaker) regarding a particular personal quality. Peace and Love, B Goat
The Phillipines is changing, but it’s still a different culture than America and Europe.
That sums it up damn well! Yeah it's westernized and has been for a long time, but it's not the west.
Don't say that to loud, men like women! That's the problem in the U.S.! We are not women/females! That's what happening now because western females won't let Let us be MEN!
I really pray that Feminism never raises it's ugly head there.
Good video Leah nice topic to discuss. Filipinas are definitely becoming westernized in my opinion but there are some that are traditional
I raised my son by myself from age 16 months old. His mom left us when my son was 16 months old. Drugs and alcohol were more important to her than our son and she left with another guy too. So I was the responsible one.
George, truth be told your son has a much better chance of a well adjusted and forfilling life because he’s being raised by you his father than by a single mother (look at the statistics). You and your son were the winners here. I’m also a single dad, grandad now. Respect
@@ronprince1478 Yup, my son gave .e 2 grandsons
I had similar. I got full custody of my boys when they were 3 months and 14 months old. Raised them by myself. Ton of work but I wouldn't trade it for anything
@@joedoe7706 Congratulations
Thank you so much leah for having me till next time
Another good interview sharing your honest opinions
Another good interview sharing your honest opinions
It ok to get westernized as far as learning and be aware of the western culture, but love of God don't get a western attitude. That would be a huge turn off. Stay sweet. 🙂
I want to mention a few things. 1st, one of the things of your videos that i enjoy every time is your laugh! It's so refreshing, genuine, and natural flowing. I think we all would do good to get back to our joyous, unrestrained laughter like that.
2nd: i agree 100% with you ladies saying that you would not start dating a man that has no job. If he has no job, then he is already demonstrating to you that he may not be able to give his duties as a husband in a traditional marriage. So right from the beginning, you have no security that he can give your heart's desire if traditional marriage. A westernized marriage is the man and the woman both providing, instead of the man providing.
With that in mind, it seems that you all want yo receive traditional marriage/relationship. It goes both ways. The lady needs to be able to demonstrate that she is going to give a traditional marriage to the man and fulfill those duties. That's a real relationship, both doing their part.
If that is not given and shown, then what incentive is there for a man to travel halfway around the world, spend the necessary $$$$ to accomplish it, and the time and effort involved if he is just going to receive the same type of marriage that is available in america?
Of course, Filipinas are extremely physically beautiful! But physical beauty is not enough to make a marriage or make a man happy. The unique and rare beauty that Filipinas have is their ways of traditional marriage.
Please don't lose that, otherwise you will be just the same as other women. 😊
Another wonderful video with your panel all of them had great opinions.
I agree with Shea about sex Ed. Both for pregnancy planning AND STD knowledge, as it is very widespread here now and talked about rarely.
@Shawn, like America, does hand out free condoms! With no education!
Yup. Yet another example of the unfortunate influence of organized religion.
Extremely well spoken. The death of virtue will doom life, for any person and any nation. Beyond tragic.
Can you imagine a group of western women having a grown up conversation like this and saying things like "Listen to your parents", "be careful of your friends, they can be a bad influence". These philipinio women are so intelligent and self aware.
Good to see a collection of content creators in one place. Do you know Filipina Elated and Filipina Wanderer?
Yup. No question. I'm hearing the exact same terms used by Western women. I assume this is all being learned on social media. And in this bizarro world this video has 4 popular Filipina Tubers pushing the idea Filipinas are traditional while trying to create a big content creation business. Becoming boss chicks and more masculine. It's just a side effect of increasing wealth.
Here's where it gets weird AF...I've watched some video interviews of prostitutes and pimps in the US. In that relationship the woman earns all the money yet the man is more masculine than most men and the prostitute more submissive than most women. It's an interesting dynamic.
Nice Video Leah, You Women are fun to watch as a Guy , Shey is cute.. All of your Womens hair are so perfectly beautifully cut and shiny silky black . Leah , Tell ALL of your friends to NOT become Westernized!! We Men want the Wholesome Loving Family life with filipinas.
Beautiful ladies ❤
Gelay is in point and very honest and real in this second part, just like she was in the first video
Lol..the government has to ENFORCE sex education?..😂.. nothing better than the government enforcing things that should be handled by the parents
I married a single mom. She had to grow up quickly when she became a mom and so, she's more mature than other women her age who don't have kids. She's very grateful to me for taking away her shame and difficult financial position and more appreciative of me that another woman might be. Plus, I had a good indication when I marred her that she wasn't frigid but loved sex as much as I do. She had changed her ways and had been celibate for several years and was ready to settle down. I love her and our family life with my adopted kids; I've never been happier.
Two of my favorite bloggers of PH living!! So wonderful to see this panel and to hear the opinions. Thanks ladies
I WOULD NEVER MARRY A SINGLE MOM .........
I agree. They can be great women, but the situation has most of the same problems we see in the West. But wow, so many American men getting with the 2nd or 3rd Filipina that gives them any attention, sending money...those are some really wrecked guys.
Wow, excellent conversation, with several interesting topics honestly discussed. Well done, Leah!
Why do people think the government is the solution to immoral behavior. Your people have been heavily influenced by the West and the increase in teenage pregnancy in the Philippines is a result of that influence. Instead of embracing your own moral traditions (which did not lead to a rise in single motherhood) you have embraced the secular culture from the West. How did that happen?
And you are now listening to people like the filipina in all black sitting next to Leah. Who pretty much doesn’t adhere to biblical truths (which warns the youth about the dangers of premarital sex and forbids it) and has embraced her own philosophy about sex and life when in fact she did not create life nor sex. The author of Life and the Creator of sex has put perimeters around sex. There are rules which must be followed, and if they are not followed according to the Designers original purpose and function for sex, then you will have utter chaos. You will have multitudes of single mothers or the slaughter of unwanted babies in the womb of its own mother. Stop thinking the government is the solution or that the wisdom of secularism is the best for your people because it’s not. You people need to return to your conservative values and reject the pathetic values of the left.
Yes, they are thru social media and T.V. and movies unfortunately I have seen it personally so be careful guys !
In the US we didn't have many single moms. After we started to have sex education our teen pregnancy rate went way up. So be careful what you ask for.
Gelay is saying that everything is always men's fault as i see, hmm. That means that women don't have their free will, independent judgement and they don't know what they want in their life? If i know what I want to achieve in my life there is no way that i will do otherwise not matter what i see others to do or what others tell me to do. Its easy to blame others, but first look on yourself then judge other people or gender!
If you turn sexual education over to the government things will get 100 times worse. Parents need to teach delayed gratification. The community has to step up and observe the teenagers. Also, there has to be parintal, and community discipline and shame for the young men and women who engages in pre-marital sex. Social media has to be monitored by parents like in china to protect kids
Delayed gratification ? Why ? What's the point ? I was having sex at 12 years old. I certainly wasn't going to listen to "delayed gratification" speeches from people eating steak, drinking wine, and having lots of sex. Every cell in our bodies is screaming at us to reproduce.
Sizzy, nowadays, men are not looking for a single mother because he doesn't want to raise another man"s children, because of all the headaches and difficulties that involved with a ready-made family. So, single mothers are starting to become disadvantaged in the dating market.
"Are FILIPINAS Becoming WESTERNIZED???"
Gosh I hope not. That is a road straight into the abyss.
Great video with a lot of great question and answers, thank you.🙂👍👍👍🙏
Sex education is critical. But it's important to also change the societal reluctance to discuss sex at all levels. It has to be "cool" to discuss biology. Contraception must become normal. Contraception has to become an example of responsibility...not of promiscuity. Wise sexual health decisions will clearly be the enterprise of women in Philippine society... as it seems the men are culturally not prepared to advance their level of understanding and maturity. I have slept with 100s of women. No pregnancies. It's not that difficult for a man not to deposit his sperm inside the woman.
17:09 Wait a minute Shay! You have to hear the point of view of the men, who are fathers. In the U.S. our laws and court systems, heavily favors women over men. This includes family law. Let's saw that the man and the woman split up. Normally, the children would stay behind with the mother. However, if the man were to decide to take the children with him, it would cause a fight to happen between them. In situations like this, the cops would get involved and try to resolve the issue, by siding with the mother. Eventually this would likely end up in family court. This is when the women almost always gain custody of the kids. And, on top of all that, the man would have pay a huge child support (and maybe even alimony) that would take most of the man's money. In a lot of cases, the man would end up becoming destitute and will not be able to afford spending time with the kids. And, to make matters even worse, the woman would use the children to manipulate the man, or she may even prevent the man from seeing his children altogether. And, eventually, the man becomes distraught and depressed by it. And, some men eventually give up. There are even a lot of women who would lie against the man in court, just to get custody of the children. And the man could be completely innocent of the the false accusations. But, the judge will most likely believe the woman. So, in this situation, the man would have to tread lightly around the woman. Because, if they get in an verbal argument, then the woman may falsely accuse the man of violence against her or the children. This would cause the man to lose his parental rights to be with his children. And, since he's already paying a huge amount in child support every month, he may be unable to afford an attorney. So, in this country, the man would almost always lose, when it comes to any domestic and parental disruption. So, the issue over whether a man is a "Dead Beat", is not as simple as you may think. Because most men would rather keep his family together and be a husband/partner to the woman and bena father to his children. But, since the women here have an unfair advantage over the men, some would use the term "Gynocracy" to describe our culture and society.
Enjoyed the video Ladies thank you all ❤
Interesting talk ladies. Good job!
We live in a materialistic world.
There’s no denying it ! All of us
Let The Bells Toll Draw Our Swords And Take A Knee.
I saw one video by a Filipina recently that said that Filipinas do not like using contraception and another in the past that said that Filipinas do not think you are serious about the relationship if you use a condom (when in fact it's the opposite, you are not being irresponsible and caring about their welfare). I think I was dumped in a previous relationship because of this silly idea.
The problem is guys who don't know how to pull out or with no self control!
Good group of girls with varying life experiences for an interview like this. Well done Leah. IMO as long as a Filipino household can be supported by One income there is much less threat of Filipinas becoming Westernized. So long as they don't become too materialistic and force themselves into a 2 income requirement due to debt.... but in the West during the 'time of feminism' (60's-70's) there was massive inflation that drove the necessity for women to work to maintain a 'Western' Lifestyle. I was there... I witnessed it as my mom went back to work as the Fed lifted the over-night interest rate to 15% (home loans were 20+%) and NAFTA was driving down wages as factories closed. In large, the Western Consumer Family never went back to a single family home (couldn't really in most cases due to cost and wage disparities). It's very hard to have a traditional family where the wife can stay at home and retain her femininity while running the home If she has to Also spend all day working!
Gelay on a previous interview said 70 now she is saying 55. She needs to be consistent the other interview was uploaded I think today also
Two things - 1st if Filipinas become more westernised then the “real” men will stop coming to the Philippines looking for wives.
NOT being westernised is what makes Filipinas so attractive and desirable.
2nd - Far too many of these vlogs and Q&A videos end up talking about s*x and other “naughty” topics.
It attracts the wrong kind of people to your channel and to the Philippines.
“Real” men don’t want women who constantly talk about those things because we know from living in the west what kind of women are like that.
If we wanted 304’s we could just go to Thailand or stay in the west.
It’s the women who are more traditional as well as beautiful that attract “real” men like Leah’s husband.
I've got news girls . I'm better sexually at 61 than I have ever been my whole life . 10 times better than 40 and 100 times better than 20 .
On point Shay 😎
And the answer to that is a definite yes. It's been happening over many years even before some of you were born hehe and definitely accelerated with the advent of Internet.
Hello Ladies, It's like we're siting at a table talking to friends and I was a third,or 6th, wheel😉I was married once with 3 kids and I can tell you from experience It Aint Easy🤨
Moving away from religion adding the pill and letting the state educate your family is the west that we are all trying to escape.
Ladies I am 68 USA male and I remember when the discussion of allowing the government to take this over ....it only led to where we are now. Far more pregnancies and 1 million killing of your own blood in abortion. Parents are the key and staying with your moral and honor of your culture. This is why so many of us came to the other countries to find a decent woman with honor and culture and not a hateful person. Did we see it would end this way ? NO! ..but you sound like the same answers. Please research what has happened. It sounds good and easy ..but it is so bad you can see the result by looking at the west
Hi Leah. Can you say the age of your guests when you interview them?
Westernized!! Who introduced the culture of dating, Valentine's Day, yearly dating anniversaries, living with a partner unmarried and not engaged to be married! Dating maybe okay as long as its not sex with dating partners. People living like that are more confused about marriage and relationships in the end! Certainly many just want to "date", "date", "date", but what's in your mind too? Do you want to be a sampler or like a treasure worthy of becoming a good wife to a good husband or just a woman sampled and marrying this guy or that one guy?
Well, I'm not (yet) in the Philippines, so I'm careful on evaluating. From all I read and hear and learn - it's a bit different. If I see you 4 splendid, mentally matured and desirable ladies - to me you seem extremely open minded, but also so very (positively) 'filipina'! I think, that, fortunately, by globalization all our sociteies learn in small steps. Okay, I admit: there's some thing swhere I'd be very fond of us 'Westerners' would .... 'filipinize'!😄✌
Love the honest, unfiltered content. One of the best places to take the temperature of where we will go to die. Not here in the US.
Truth what you said delivered Frankly
I've left the US. I'm in the Philippines 🇵🇭
I am just now 61. In the US I mostly date 20s-30s. Not because I want to...but because they actually will try new things and do fun stuff. They will hike, snow ski, white water raft, go to the gym, tennis, learn new sports, learn new things. Women my age much less so.
However... nearly all of these situations are FWB...which is fine...but not fulfilling. I understand that they don't want to be taking care of a disgusting old man. I sure wouldn't. I guess the main reason I am in these Philippine/Columbia/Mexican "singles" groups...maybe find a person ? Hopefully I find someone closer to my age to share the rest of my life with. Currently I have sex often. Often 3x a day. But I also know that could end tomorrow... whereas that probably wouldn't be a risk to my partner when I was in my 30s and 40s. The other issue is financial. I have to make sure there is enough money for her to live out her life in a similar fashion after I drop dead in bathroom. I can't blow all the money on cocaine and fast cars. That means an adjustment now and throughout the relationship. Fewer 1st class trips to Europe...more weekend trips to a nearby city. 5 year old cars instead of new BMWs every year. So yeah ..30 year olds look a lot better naked than 60 year olds...and that goes both ways.
Correct girls😊😊
The Church needs to lead in the sex education dept. and stop being so reticent. Also ypu have to reach youths early in the schools. Start around 8 to 10 years old. Awkward yes, but you start streaming info in early for the kids. Men need to put their egos in check.
Sex education is irrelevant. Educating youth about the results of premarital sex and pregnancy is essential. Pills are condoms are not the solution to a lack of morality. Teach the children to protect their future.
Deadbeat dads. Along with financials... another subject not well covered by the vlog community. It blows my mind how many amazing women I know.. with super cool kids... whose "baby dads" are non-existent. Yes...they pay court ordered $upport...but they don't go to their kids' soccer games, birthday parties, help with homework. I just bought a minivan because I need more seats to take my kids friends around. Basically I take them to do the things their parents don't. Museums, roller skating, theater, sports, music, indoor skydiving, canoeing. My young friends in Myrtle Beach hang out at my house because I am the only one in a large group of adult friends that lives on the beach (when I am in Myrtle Beach and not Indianapolis). Kids are actually fun ! The ones I hang out with are incredibly polite and well behaved... unlike many adults I know. It's a privilege to hang out with them. Myrtle Beach culture is interesting in that a lot of adult socializing includes kids. For instance the parties in Myrtle Beach look the same as the ones in Philippines. Kids and dogs everywhere. Multi-generational. Not so much in Indianapolis where parents typically have babysitters and it is a given that children are not welcome for most social events.
No cell phone until 18.
If a man will not be the provider he is no longer a man
Replace All Their Leadership In Their Clubs Across The Board.
My view is yes, and western culture will become the norm through sea. We f'd up everything lol.
All My Brethren Leave The Hall And Get On The Ground.
Shay, I want to Meet you!
Come on man the Philippines is like one of the last strongholds men have left to find feminine women. How did this question out of all questions even come up?
Hello can I ask you about the woman who was sitting on your right hand side, does she have a TH-cam channel and what is her name please
Not all parents know best. I know this one guy who uses his daughter to try to extort money from men. To this day, he sends sexy pics of her to me, trying to get money. I've told him he's a pimp, but he just ignores me.
uh-oh Leah better keep an eye on her husband hehe
The lady on the left is stunning
I think you are becoming even more Americanised 😢
I’m so confused 🫤 right now 😂
Filipino parents don't love their kids if they refuse to talk about sex.
Apathy isn't love
Fillippinas becoming westernized? Lol ....good luck ladies😂 enjoy your cats and tictok😂
If these women do become westernized. There are many latin women and various other cultures that know how to treat men. No worries
Earthquakes Is What Is Happening.
YES!!!! Obvious.... what is your question?
Anything Else You Need My Personal Assistant Took Care Of It You Don't Work For Momma Son Period.
My Brethren Take Care Of Momma Son Period And That Is A Direct Order Call Sign Anubis.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Being an unwed mother or a divorcee and a Christian is an oxymoron.
Felipinas now are totally like western women. Just a look on a dating page like CF, all womens have a long list of what a man should be and doing. I think it's time now for mens to look in other way like Viet Nam for find better womens
President Of The Philippines Ring The Alarm We Have Work To Do Call Sign Anubis.
Mmmmm hot mama, I’m 66 and believe me I could rock your world 😉. Shay your wisdom is beyond your years, as always (I was a single father of 4 boys). Gelay you are sweet, but you must understand that your decisions are yours, you must think for yourself and not be influenced by others. Leah, I have always enjoyed and respected you Gary and your family, enjoy your life but keep your family close.
Sad... But an eventuality everywhere I'm afraid.
Tell the lady with the white shorts that she would be very surprised if she met me..... I can send her a photo and see what she says.....
7:20 No please no 😂
They should have an unwed father tax
EACH ONE OF THESE LADIES R LYING, IF THEY CAN MEET SOME OLD LONELY EXPAT WHO WILL LET HER CONTOL THE MONEY?
SHE WOULD MARRY HIM IN A SECOND, NOW U KNOW HER MOTHER IS GOING 2SAY WE NEED RICE, YOUR SISTER IS TRYING 2GO 2
SCHOOL, UR NOT GOING 2C A EDUCATED/UPPER CLASS FILIPINO MAN/DATE OR MARRY THE LOWER CLASS, HOW DO I KNOW?
I WAS STATIONED DITO, I WAS PAYING ATTENTION KAMPARE.
let's hope not!!!!😑
Yes and it’s a Damn shame 🤦🏿♂️
A lot of these answer sound very much like what western women are saying to us.
Yes I notic compare to 5-10 year ago it Geting bad there
The only way I'd go out with a Filipina is that she's friends with my family or friend of a friend. I'd go for a Thai girl, South American, French or Spanish. Kazakh girls are hot too.i
Double The Number 30000
Beautiful and gorgeous women ♥️Leah the woman to the far left I would like to get to know her more and see what happens from there
With the group of 4 i only trust Leah.
Red flag for me is a man who not contented in one girl and a trust worthy man.
You Work For Lodge Number 449.😊😊😊
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Take Their Land And All Their Money
i see 1 here who is a bit hypocritical with the way she vlogs
WHAT DA HELL ....DO GRANDPA AND GRANDMA WANT TO SUPPORT THE GRANDCHILD WHEN IT IS THE FATHER'S JOB.
I have had the fortune and misfortune of watching all the channels os these ladies and the ladies on the ends content is always the same sex and size never any truly valid or enlightening content, Shay covers much wider intuitive content even Leah content has been slipping as of late.