What is a WIFE'S ROLE in MARRIAGE | CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE ADVICE
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- In this video, we look at the wife's role in marriage. There are 5 important things that you need to have in order to be a great wife and have a healthy marriage that will last.
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In this video, I answer the following question:
What is the wife's role in marriage?
If you are looking for Christian marriage advice or counseling then you need to watch the full video where we look at what the bible says about marriage. The woman's role in marriage is very important and you need to understand it in light of the bible. There are too many divorces today because most men and women do not know their roles in the marriage. Marriage is not easy and it will take some work to be one of the best experiences in your life.
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I am a reborn Christian and my ex boyfriend left me because I have chosen to live in a holy way and leave behind me all my old sins and my old self. Please pray for me that the Lord will send me a Godly husband who loves Jesus more than anyone else. 🙏thank you
I’ll pray that u draw closer to God instead ❤
God Is good! You made a good decision
@@Idkjustyet I had forgotten about this comment. Thank you for your prayers ❤. The Lord has drawn me closer to Himself.
And He has blessed me with a Godly, mature Christian husband. ❤️
@@elianasamuel6050 Thank you for your prayers ❤. The Lord has drawn me closer to Himself.
And He has blessed me with a Godly, mature Christian husband. ❤️
Well, no matter if you do or dont get a new Husband. It's all part to God's purpose, trust God your Father, and he will give you the things you need, and the things of your Heart as long as you remain Faithful and Pure to the LORD. Jesus loves you, and he's with you to help you overcome and become stronger in Him. 💗❤️
I’m only 14 but better too early than too late right
Very true. Knowledge is empowering!
Me too 😂😁
Im just 11 hehe
Alpha . Lyric ha mee too
Alpha . Lyric same the sooner you are reborn the better
I'm praying to meet my husband. A born again Christian, who'll bring out nothing but the best in me, and who I'll be happy to be his wife and the mother to his kids. It's been a long wait. Pray for me 🙏🏽
Hi Malkia, God will paved the way for your husband.
I'm not even married but i just want to know before i even really get into the dating field, Ya know?
Hi Emilee
How are you doing
@Jeaneane P hi
Bro I think you should not get into dating field rather you should discuss the GOSPEL and ETERNAL LIFE with your friends or with any one else as much as possible......
And finally you will know who is going to be your wife......
We will choose wife not by ourselves but our FATHER JESUS CHRIST will do that for us......
JESUS created Eve for Adam.....the same way our eve already created but the right time GOD will introduce her.....
.................
We can't say.......ok I am in the age of getting marriage, now I wanna find myself and dating with her to get married.......
Rather we discuss more about ETERNAL LIFE with any girl as much as possible......
Because devil is clever and danger. If we trust our minds for a second than devil will work out that way and the dating will convert to premerital sex.....
So we should be so smart enough to maintain our holiness though JESUS CHRIST and THE HOLY SPIRIT.
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I appreciated your thought.
JESUS LOVES you.
I love you.
@@aandz6194 You are approaching this with a good heart, but Christians can and should date. It is possible to date someone without premarital sex entering the equation.
I have been a Christian for a while and have realized the temptation that comes for having sex while dating.
The way I avoid this temptation is by NEVER being in a situation where I'm totally alone with a woman. Temptation comes during perceived secrecy for me. That means No female is allowed in my home except family and I will never walk into an unmarried womans home alone.
I do not allow myself as a Christian man to be alone with a woman where secrecy could be perceived.
This is also why males having female roommates is a very spiritually dangerous thing for both the man and woman.
Look op Betrothal guys on you tube!!! So much better way then dating
I was blessed to marry a wonderful man .We married at 19 out of High School .We grew up together & learned EVERYTHING together.We had one daughter almost 4 yrs.later.We were married 41 yrs. thru ups & down's ..illnesses .We loved each other so much. We were blessed with two grandson's .We helped raise them .They are Christain and we are blessed everyday. My husband passed 14 yrs.ago but he is in my heart still.He had two kidney diseases ,& passed at 60 .Thank you for sharing your beautiful messages from the word of God 🙏😇❤
Thank you for sharing your story. 🤗 bless you.
God bless you ma.
God be with you, your story is inspiring, may God bless as you
You're dynamic!!! You use your charismatic gift of preaching, to God's glory. Very appealing to young people!!! Many are going to be saved!!!
What a beautiful story! I love hearing this! God bless!
My husband is a non believer but I trust God I face every day problems please pray for us
May God our mighty Lord help you and save your souls in Jesus name
Same
Could you please send your first name so I can't pray for you? 😊
@@melaniereimer8571 *can, right?
@@matthewt.8785 Oh that's what I meant! Thank you for the correction 😊
I have made so many mistakes in my path with God.
I almost gave up on my marriage years ago.
My husband and I split up .
We were screaming and yelling at one another and I hated him .
He and I had a huge fight and as he walked away he screamed I been pushing you away because I have CANCER .
I followed him outside and I said come home .
He said I can not do this to you.
But, he came home and 10 years he is Cancer Free.
We turned and focused on Gods word .
I still make mistakes.
I do try though.
And , I make sure I talk to God .
I have let myself Go but thankfully he loves me .
I do dress up and I do not look as I used to for sure .
But, I love him as he is and he loves me too .
Honest Abe you don’t need to dress up for him to stick around. Just be emotionally there and he will be too.
Amen, God can open doors that no man can shut!
Dr Dermix Girl like?
Good for you, dressing up for your husband. Keep on keeping on!
What a story! So glad it worked in the end.
I don't speak English, but I'm learning with you( and I'm Christian 😀)
That is great to hear Samuel!
😊😊😁👍
Hello brother thanks for your message i agree with you everything about marriage accept make up,is ungodly
Thank u for the word of wisdom.Do you have also for a husband.
Did u know that God still loves u? Some people today says " why is God letting us suffer from this corona virus?". We should not think that God leaves us to suffer from this corona virus, he still loves u.
I married an unbeliever because of my impatience “sin”. Now I am spiritually single and constantly exposed to the sinful lure. It’s so much warfare. Don’t make my mistake pray and be patient it’s very lonely when you walk outside of Gods will.
So you are still married to an unbelieving wife?
I am not anymore
I'm not waiting forever for something that will never happen. I'm 30 and since it never happened I gave up on the idea of ever getting married. Besides I'm no virgin so I have no business getting married.
And painful 😢. I try to focus on praying for the unbeliever …although I deserve utter misery from my choices…the Lord continues to use it for good .
My husband is not a born again Christian, I pray for his salvation and protection always 🙏🏻 I cling to this bible verse and try to obey - Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behaviour of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Thanks for your videos Daniel 🙏🏻
Amen may God bless your husband
Thank you so much for making this☺️ I am a 20 year old woman, my wedding day is 18 days away. In todays society no one talks about what it means to be a wife anymore, I was looking for guidance and am so glad I found this. Thank you
God bless you sister
It's very very hard being married to an unbeliever and I truly feel I married the wrong person. I've wanted to leave so many times and still do. But God has spoken to me "stay and work on it" I just don't know how. I've been praying for help and guidence in my marriage and I'm still waiting. I pray a breakthrough will happen soon. Please pray for me and my Marriage! Thank you
any updates ??
I feel the same way. Pray about it without ceasing. Pray for God to reveal to you how. Many around me think I’m with the wrong person because he is younger than me, he lost his job, he has a past, and they think he’s not the one for me. I know his heart. He has God in his heart but needs guidance. Is it right for me to leave the poor (in spirit) and go after someone who already is walking in God’s way and is saved? And I pray about this because I hear a voice in my heart that says, would I go after the 99 and leave the one or do I go after the one who’s lost and leave the 99? I feel this way. That He’d want me to minister to him and him being willing, we can achieve it. It’s so easy to desperately want better and seek self (my peace, my desires)…but Jesus is selfless and sacrificial and did everything in love. So how do we lead? By being an example or try our best to renew our minds daily and try to be as Christ reflective with our walk, talk so they see we are different, and want to know more of our God who makes is whole. Encourage prayer, grace, praise, and bible reading together. I understand how you feel because I feel the enemy is attacking us so I leave him but I know God is saying, don’t. Stick it through and lead him to me. He who denies himself will see the kingdom of God. He who lends to the poor (this is not necessarily material…poor in spirit too). With a calm spirit (who’s God) lead. He will transform. Don’t lose faith and PRAY PRAY PRAY already thanking God for working in his heart. Thank Him that it’s already done. He is God’s and believe it. Peter tried to influence Jesus to seek self and run away but had He done that, we would not have been saved by the sacrifice of His pure blood. And Jesus said “behind me Satan” because He discerned it want Peter speaking but the devil with a hidden plan to destroy purpose. So be vigilant. People that mean well could be lead by Satan without knowing his plan to destroy your purpose. Maybe he will minister others by his testimony. Your testimony together may encourage many others into Christ. Pray and believe. Pray and ask God for divine wisdom. He who gives abundantly.
@@ZAmerica thank you for your words and encouragement. Reading what you wrote gave me a different way to look at things and you may be right, I may be the one needed to bring him to christ. God bless you and Thank you again!!
Have you tried fasting??
@@faithsinternationaldelicio2774 no I haven't actually, not sure how to do it safely being diabetic..
1) respect your husband
2) do not over criticise
3) discreet = careful in words and in action
4) pure = no relationships outside the marriage, dress properly and decently
5) support your husband in everything
6) submit yourselves to your husband. ..even though both of you are equal in the eyes of the lord.
7) focus on inner beauty = gentleness , quiet spirit , self control ...
8) make effort to look good to yourself and your husband alone ; because there is temptation everywhere which can take your away husband from you .
9) it is your marital duty to fulfil his husband's sexual desire (it's both yours and your husband's duty )
Most of the divorce cases are because of ' cheating' ...so..you know...
10) maintain peace at home so that you and your family lives in peace ...
Thank you so much
I have noted something here, thanks..
10) Put God first in your marriage so you may have peace.
you are perfectly right, i spoke about what u just commented recently on my channel. abamez tv please like and subscribe, if you found the video truthful
I somewhat disagree with #9, and here's why... While sex is an important part of the marriage relationship, and certainly it is both the wife and the husbands responsibility to "please each other" (for lack of a better term), it is NOT the wife's responsibility to keep the husband faithful, nor vice-versa. It is each person's responsibility to be faithful to each other "for better or for worse". I know several couples where one of them is physically unable to have sex often or even at all, and they are faithful to each other because that is exactly what they signed up for.
I feel so convicted because I struggle so much on respecting my husband and i know these verses but it's hard for me to practice it but I love this! Such a great reminder on what I'm not suppose to be doing! Thank you! I pray that God can change my heart and change this about me!
You are so sweet plz reply me
Pray for God to help you with those struggle,if you believe in him your prayers are already answered
How are you doing now? I pray you are guys are well
Im happy u acknowledged your weakness and God will help be strong and perform as your heartt desire
@@gildagudusvanwyk737 we are good :) thank God and thanks everyone for taking the time to reply
Men are tough but also sensitive. When I support my husband and focus on the positive, he is happy and feels good about him self. He shines more which means I will shine more. My marriage prospers because we both put God first, but, also we know we do better when we serve each other. Marriage cannot be about the self, it is self sacrificing that brings joy and peace. My husband serves me and I serve my husband. This has strengthen our marriage in so many ways. We don't have issues or fights.
Hello
My late mother was the perfect Proverbs 31 wife. She was amazing.
What was your mother like?
@@kerenstar13 She was the most wonderful human being. She put everyone ahead of herself. You just made me cry.
@@Iworkwithnitwits Your mother truly was the perfect Proverbs 31 wife, and mother. I imagine how lovely your family is because of her kind and giving heart. She is always with you ❤️
@@kerenstar13 I was so blessed to have her.
@@Iworkwithnitwits Yes, you are truly blessed to have had a mother like her 🌻
I had it so wrong. I fought hard to not respect marriage. I almost went down a wrong path (feminism). I treated my first husband horribly when I realized we were not equally yoked. I left him because he wanted me to stop chasing after God. I'm now in my forties and now find myself giving advice to younger women who complain about their marriage. I teach them from a Biblical perspective how they should act towards their husband. I feel the need to correct my wrongs by helping others.
Feminism is believing that men and women are equal. Its not a wrong path
@@mr.random4292 Exactly, feminism is not the wrong path at all. Maybe it was something else that was the problem instead.
Men and women are equal in the eyes of God but have different roles. God loves each and every one of us but he gives us instruction on how to live so we can be happy and have peace until we are able to meet our creator in Heaven. If I’m correct I think she meant the form of third wave feminism that we see today that can cross a line of being toxic and wanting to be superior to men and or emasculating men. God created men and women and all his creation is perfect. In the Bible it says wives honor (respect) your husband and husbands love their wives. God says that because men and women have different needs that fulfill them. If you ask a woman what they want from their husbands a big part of it is for him to love on her with actions, communication, care for her, a bouquet of roses. If you ask a man what they want most from their wives is that they want a wife who respects them, let’s them lead his home even if he fails but allowing him to learn from his mistakes, a man cannot learn from his mistakes if his wife wants to take control of the home in everything. He wants words of affirmation, to respect him in private and in public. Hope this helps. God bless you all.
Absolutely agree. If we see that a man has his best intentions for us it’s easier to submit to him. Similarly it’s easier for the church to submit to God when we fully understand His love and pure intentions for is
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Working on me until the time comes🙏...
I'm turning 25, never had a boyfriend. I pray to God for a Godly man , I believe everything will just follow when the man is Godly. At this season of my life I'm learning a lot of things, Can't b more grateful enough for this chance . God really knows the desire of my heart, I don't thnk I'll be ready yet if God gave me the guy I've been praying for at this stage..Willing to wait.
I like this I'm not married yet and I learned now the role of a wife ❤️
Read: Laura Doyle
First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors and then put it into
practice.
WOW! It's absolutely filling my heart with hope to see a young man in today's world that is Fully mature and so wise. Thank you for sharing God's word in such a big way . I pray God will continue to bless you and your wife and your ministry in Jesus's Name!.i needed this message to encourage me to behave better towards my wonderful, kind husband not to allow my mood or hormones to cause yelling and complaining . I'm sure I'm not the only one 🤔😁
Lol you are not the only one😂 I laughed so hard reading your comment because what you wrote was exactly on my mind too
@@caroltinashe9940 😂
I was once lost and in doubt but my boyfriend guided me to know more about God. I thank God that He gave me my boyfriend (soon to be husband by God's grace) who did not give up on me and I believe that is God's grace, all His . Pray for our marriage journey. Thanks and God bless us everyone. God is with us!
My husband believes in so many things, he knows there’s a higher power an I do my best as a daughter of God to talk to him. I’m dealing with so many spiritual battles an so many battles within my marriage. Would you please keep me in prayer? 🙏🏻
I'm still a teenager tho it's still good to watch this, cause if I want a Godly man I also need to be a Godly woman first. I'll trust God cause he knows what's the best for each and everyone of us🙏🏼❤
Very good video with thanks. This of course is the perfect marriage of two minds! When men are cruel and hard towards their wives they are prone to suffer negative emotions. If fathers are not loving to their daughters, they're not raised in the art of a healthy relationship with their future husbands. Many broken-hearted women and men come into the Church untrusting of marriage. It takes time to heal and mature in Christ. We should always be understanding of that as faithful brothers and sisters. I am only saying this hoping to strengthen the Church's understanding of the broken-hearted.
I have been with my best friend 18 years.
I didn't have confidence as a young girl.
But the lord has blessed me with a good man and I do think it is so important to be loyal and faithful to him because the lord has given him to me for a husband and best friend.
So to obey my husband lovingly to me is to thank God and obey God first by being his wife.
That's lovley ten years
I am blessed with three young boys always on my toes 🤣
Honestly we have had hard times we are not perfect but happy together we met young and didn't start that way but we have grown together.
My husband got saved last year too.
God is so good.
Hi I just started reading the Bible, and I really like the fact that you’re talking about God, Jesus Christ and showing us the word of God in the Bible as well, I am new to your chanel and I truly like it a lot may God Almighty bless you and yours🤗thank you 🙏🙏🙏
I've been married for 13 years ..I needed to hear this,forgive me Lord for complancey.
My Husband is a wonderful Christian man,
I am blessed.
I feel like crying. I have worked very hard to be all these things, but most men nowadays, even so called Christian men I've met, don't value these things in a woman anymore and would rather have "free sex", which apparently is everywhere. These dark times hurt so much and I feel like giving up, even tho it's what I always dreamed of. I even can't find a real friend in a man or woman. I know I'd be a great partner and I'm a true friend, which I know is rare these days, but people only end up not valuing a good friend in horrible ways. BUT GOD, I'M GRATEFUL, SO GRATEFUL THAT I HAVE LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP FROM OUR WONDERFUL GOD AND JESUS AND THEIR HOLY SPIRIT! GREAT GREAT VIDEO TOO!!! 😊💜😭 THANKS!!!! KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK AND ENCOURAGEMENT IN THE LORD! GOD BLESS YOU! Love you brother in Christ❤️ and I'll keep praying for my husband🙏🙏🙏
Natalie Rollins feeling your pain and despair. I’m struggling with similar experiences to you. Trust fully in God...He won’t ever let us down.
Endurance and calling for the Grace of God to sustain u always . For He who started agood work will accomplish it dear. Be strong in the Lord and in His power
Pray to God to give in your life godly people, people that love him and will love you❤
Live in reality not in dreams. I had that same dream once to get married, I turned 30 and it didn't happen even though I knew from age 6 it would never happen I still stupidly held out hope. Once I hit 30 I closed that door, trashed that pointless dream and decided it wasn't worth it to spend my entire life wanting something that will never happen.
I agree 100%. You should love and respect eachother at all times, zero games. I, also, hate arguing and complaining. Your spouse should be your best friend and on your mind at all times. How is he/she feeling, what are their thoughts/feelings, needs, etc.
After five years of marriage i found out the one thing that makes marriage difficult is financial struggle, its not like my husband and i aren’t making money it’s just we barely have time for each other and there’s no amusement or new event it’s just work and the kids and that was fine but i wanted more..then i heard of a financial advisor on the radio who basically makes money for me and right now i have close to 100grand with her in my portfolio. now we pay for our vacation without breaking a sweat or losing sleep
i was literally just worried about the exact same thing. may i know your FA please it’s urgent?
thanks for this miss, you literally just saved my marriage !
@@katelynrenesse4798 sure i get it hun. her name is Lucy Maria Koss, i googled her and reached out to her from her website. Goodluck with your wedding hun!
Amen.👍.We have been married for 10 years now.yes my husband is a man of God.Thank you Jesus.
Blessings to you!
Praise the Lord
Be bless to you..
Trying get my girl back she a boyfriend hopefully god restore her mind love me back I’m 23 and she 23
I am not a married and i am waiting for a good husband on God's will
Daniel, what should a wife do after realizing her husband had been cheating?
I think you should make a video on that.
Also, I'll love to know what to do to bring a husband closer to God.
I do pray for him everyday, but I want him to always go put God and His words first.
As I'm in my season of waiting, I have been praying and asking God to prepare me to be a wife🙏🌈 🌼💚💙💛❤
Me too honey. May God prepare us well and give us wonderful husbands
I just married I am excited
As a Catholic, I wasn’t sure how you’d interpret the role of a wife in a Christian marriage, but I must say that I’m pleasantly surprised at how beautifully you’ve articulated this topic. May God bless you and your wife abundantly.
Loved the Afrikaans bit as well. Haha ✌🏼
Haha, thank you Tijo 🙂
Catholic is not a true Christian. Roman Catholicism is full of idolatry and putting your trust in man made tradition rather than God and His Word. Read the Bible and you will find you have been deceived by the Catholic church. I tell you this because real love cares enough to tell the Truth to them even if that means they are rejected and hated for it. Don't believe everything you have been taught please test ALL things with the whole Word of God. Remember to call no one Holy Father than your Father in heaven. Remember God hates Idolatry but the Catholic church is full of idols and they use rosemary beads which are not even mentioned in God's Word. Faith in Christ alone saves us from the wrath of God to come. Not Mary, not rosemary beads, not the pope, not hail Mary prayers, not the saints, not tradition, not baby baptism, not prayer for the dead. The Bible tells us Christ alone is the mediator between man and God. Christ alone died for your sins. What can wash away my sin? Nothing but the blood of Jesus.
@@donna5370 well said sister🙏. I love you and God bless you.❤
@@alexvalencia3758 thankyou Alex I needed that reply. God bless you too my brother. Yes May the Lord help us to love and encourage one another as we warn the lost sinners that satan has trapped in multitude of sins slowly destroying their lives and lead them to the Truth in God's Word which can set them free. May God grant all His children the boldness to speak up in true love for our neighbours as ourselves and even to those who hate us may we love and bless them and never curse.
How refreshing the truth of "roles" is, in this day...
ህመም የስሜቱ ክፍል ብቻ ነው ፡፡ በሁኔታው ተጨባጭ ሁኔታ የማይጸና የስነ-ልቦና ሽብር ፍፃሜው የማይቀር ነው ፡፡ ሥቃይና ጭንቀት በቅርቡ የማይታገሱ ይሆናሉ። በድርጊትዎ ምክንያት ቤተሰቦችዎ ደም ይፈስሳሉ። ለድርጊቶችዎ የዘላለም ሥቃይ ይሰማቸዋል
@@user-qo4gy7br8l amazing
I love Proverbs 31:12. Honestly, this makes me dreamy because, "Doing you good all the days of her life"? That means I'll feel loved with my future wife every moment of this life, if I found a wonderful woman.
Am happy for you dear brother in Christ i pray that God will bless me too with a Godly marriage in Jesus Name
Thank you this was lovely.
I am getting married soon to my darling fiancé. I am so glad to be able to share my life with him and I pray I can be a good loving wife, a suitable helper, and we can have a Godly marriage... and that’s lots of beautiful fruit will grow.
I love what you said about the main source of beauty coming from inside.
And I am grateful to God for my upcoming marriage as I was praying for many years for this and I never thought I would meet a kind, Godly man like him
🙌🙏🙌
Xxx
This video is even more perfect for ladies who are not wives yet.
I was in search of answers to the question, what is a wife's role in marriage. I kept hearing about the proverbs woman.
I am so very thankful to have come across your channel. You hit every single nail on the nose with this video. I feel brand-new. I desire to be that good wife and mother.
First I have to stay away from anything that brainwashes me into believing that I don't need a husband and that submitting and being respectful to my husband is bad.
You did an awesome job with this video.
Thanks again!
I think in modern times that each individual should do a lot of self-examination before getting married. Are you able and willing to give to the other, and to the partnership. Tragically, there are many who are not, and then jumping into a marriage remain self-focused and bring much suffering with them.
Thank you so much for these words of wisdom. I am a single woman preparing for marriage and this has given insight on what my role is.
I m not married but this is very use full for me God is preparing me for someone special Amen
This is so true me and my husband has 9 children but wanting a few more and our key what we we do in keeping our marriage Godly is always keeping Christ first as our everything, we pray and worship together every night before we go to bed.
How do you even have 9 children and still want a few more when others out there are swearing not to have anymore after having 1 or 2? And I assume you and your husband are quite intimate which is why you both have so many children? Sadly, although God created sex for us to enjoy with our spouse, there are many women who simply refuse to give their husband enough sex. Which is quite a shame that we are not enjoying the best gift that God has given to us in a marriage. I feel that when a woman gets married, she’s simply saying she loves her husband and is willingly giving all of herself for him, including the most intimate parts of her body. And she will do all it takes to satisfy his sexual desires. Any inputs on what I’ve said? I would love to know more.
That roar scared me!!! I was falling asleep to these words! 🤣🤣🤣
I love this teaching I am young in my marriage
Jesus is my husband...he will never change and leave me..or divorce me...and since he can see my heart ..i don't have to worry about what is thinks about me...he knows me well from birth till now.
It is so peaceful having is love..and powerful knowing he has my back in every situation...i love him dearly.
The sweetest part is he loved me first...making it easy for me.
Praise the lord. It is very useful for newly married persons.. god really spoke to me with this message .now am gng to be married woman. Thank you lord.
From India.
I love how you read the Bible and base all your points there. Thank you for making this content. May God bless you and your marriage even more. 😊💕
Must be nice to have a wife. I’ve been single for 45 years. Been praying for a good Christian girl to come into my life since I was a teen and it never happened
Hi Daniel
Am so happy that god has blessed me a husband, whos is doctor and such osm human and loving and caring .
I really prayed God before my marriage to give a Good person as his will and choice ,god has really gave me the best than what i asked .
Everything was beautifully said..
God bless you and your wife.❤️
Loving your uploads, can’t wait to see what’s next..
Wen i watched his vid .....I always admiring, smiling, blushing or hiding me face ...he is soo handsome n wat make it better HE'S A CHRISTIAN 👏👏👏
lame
Don't be naughty, he's married 😜
This video shows that following godly principles is the key to a healthy marriage.
Oh snappp he's South African! New subscriber🔥🔥.
God bless you for all the teaching you putting out here. may the holy spirit inspire you more in Jesus name🙏
Another great one Daniel! Have a great week man!!
I am a married woman, I was a Christian when I got married. Years has go by I have become so rebellious in my marriage.Due to distrust. Though I did nothing wrong. I felt like getting divorced but because of my three children I'm hanging in there. Thankyou very much for all your beautiful and powerful encouraging messages. I am a good fan to this programme.
Blessings to you and your family ✝️🌷❤️. I love being a daughter of my Father God! We are made to be this way. My husband grandma told me under the table that The neck can turn the head if needed. I really wish the women could be as proud of being a daughter of God, He Blessed us with children ✝️🌹❤️
Praying now God will give me a Godly husband soon🙏
Deffintly god will give u good husband sister
You have to a Godly woman first.
God led me here this morning, thank you
" Wife, respect your husband and serve him, Husband, love your wife as you love yourself " great video, worth watching, Thank you!!
Does no sex means not serving him? Since it’s God’s gift for us to have sex and enjoy it with our spouse?
some iron to sharpen on... My wife is an excellent example of the quarrelsome, continuous woman, given to argument. Women are sinners too... When you said in this video we're only focussing on women, you should have done so. You did bring up men. I am trying to help you keep your word to do what you say you're going to do. My main point though is that since women are sinners too; in a message about the Christian wife and you include anything about the man/husband, this is what the woman will hear and hold on to. In a message for the Christian wife, keep the man's role completely out of it. I assure you, this what my wife holds on to. Other than this, great video. One more thing. I have spent numerous hours listening to sermons on marriage. It is extremely rare that the woman's curse in Gen 3:16b is wanting to rule over her husband. Compare to Gen. 4:7 where God says sin lies at the door. And its desire is for you, but you should rule over it. If more men and women knew this, it will help understand why women act like they do. If women know this, they will, I hope, more easily see their sin and repent. Helping them and their husbands. Thanks.
Thank you for this video🙏 i m not married, but i know one day i will be🙏 this video is helping me alot. God bless you.
Amen
Awe, This is a beautiful share! I am new to your channel and am enjoying your videos. Keep on shining, my beautiful Brother. God Bless & Big Hugs 🤗
Wow what a great video. I love it. Who ever doesn't like this video isn't saved so forgive them. Very well spoken and you gave bible references.. Amazing!! You always have to back up your point with the word of God. Thank you jesus, one day I will become a Godly wife to a Godly man in jesus name!!!
Thank you for teaching me, I will be a godly wife to my future husband
Thank you lord for this message
Thank you for the good words. May God help you keep doing what you are doing.
Love from India
God bless you and your wife
I'm a young man developing myself, ladies you will have to wait until I'm 29, but hopefully, I will find a good wife.
Thank you! This is beautiful and God bless you and your wife. I'm married and I too always try to put Jesus first. I have trust issues from previous relationships that comes out when I act suspicious for no reason, it's just that I've been used to that for so long. I'm trying to change but it's not easy.
Beautifully said. My heart is content. Thank you🙏🏽 Sending Love to everyone.💌💞
Thank you for this beautiful and truthful explanation concerning marriages. Something our culture has totally gotten away from, and we (girls and women) aren't/weren't taught these things as a whole. This is an area I feel God leading me to put into practice - quiet honestly, totally against almost everything that comes naturally in me. (I hope it isn't illegal to take word-for-word notes! I almost wrote down every word you said in this video.) Pray for me as I sincerely sense God leading to make this change in my marriage toward my husband.
Absolutely wonderful. You are amazing at teaching this subject. Thank you brother. God bless
Thank you Daniel ... pray for us we need it ! So thankful for you and your beautiful wife in Christ I say that...
For a very long time I had questions on what it means to nag because I have often heard that "women often nag" their husbands and make their marriages unpleasant. Well you made this very clear as you explain number 2, I am glad I heard this because I have never heard how should one act, only what one shouldn't do. Thanks for your insight
As a fellow South African and Afrikaner I love it when Daniel speaks Afrikaans!😂🙌 Thanks for the video; very helpful!
Thanks so much for this. I've learnt a lot from this video. Sometimes, I forget most of these points.
God bless you so much.
Wow...i just read all these in the morning.. N here's the video of it 😍may God bless❤wish u come India Mr. Daniel
This is great advice, Divorce has become a new issue in today's world. What should we do to keep the family strong?
Proverbs 31 Really speaks of The Bride of Christ. Yes it is also the role of the wife in marriage but most importantly we all as are in Christ are His bride. And He made us virtuous washing us in His Blood and continually in The water of His Word. What you read here in proverbs is not sonething we can preform in ourselves but what we receive as His fruit which flows from that relationship. The place of rest which brings intimacy. When you know how much your loved by God as you receive you can become a vessel filled to overflowing. He is Supply! 🙏
😭😭😭😭😭 so touching thank you, GLORY be to GOD alone 😍😍😍😘
Amen love this
This was really helpful I really appreciate you sharing with us. Thank you and God bless you
It's important to define what "respect" looks like in marriage... I agree with everything he's saying 💝
This is really wonderful, will have to repeat it over and over until I am exactly that Godly woman and I have to teach my fellow women the same. God bless you soo much.
My marriage is the regret of my life. There is no honour and respect in this marriage. I have not known the "F" word only through him. My daughter has also picked it up. Instead of mourishing me, he crushed my spirit by being abusive to us physically and verbally. The only thing I'm thankful for is I went back to church after marriage. Yet, the irony is I stayed away from church because he didn't like me serving in church. After 22 years, I have decided I have enough and I am ready to move on.
He might need deliverance. Maybe even you, and I am in no way putting you down or blaming you, in saying this... We can have demons who are hell bent on destroying our marriages. They can be inherited through generational curses, as well as sent directly to destroy us and our marriages. I wish I had known this years ago... Being in an abusive marriage is terrible, and I am not saying to stay in a dangerous situation.
But divorce does not have to be the aim or the result of a separation. Peace, healing and joy can be the result, instead, after being delivered from demons and the healing that comes from God.
I hope that makes sense.
Maureen Kam remember is not the people on any church is us who’s looking for god at any circumstances on our life read the parable about the Seeds ,sometimes this seeds ends with out any fruits but others are very fruitful,so At the and is us is you who decide your destiny,it happens exactly same to me in my church but I learn that mooore they don’t want me MOORE I stay more they rejected me more I persevere Remember in the scripture said only those who persevere and be brave can reach the kingdom of heaven ,in this circumstances I Lear the no one are responsible for my salvation only the decision that I make god bless you and I will pray for you and god will bring an angel who’s going to guide you to him. Just be sure open your eyes and your heart for you can see it 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Narcissism may be the problem. Research Narcissist Personality Disorder.
@@Plethorality You are absolutely correct. II have gone through healing and deliverance but he is uncooperative. He even refused to go to the marriage workshop and said that he is better than the pastors. There is no more trust between us as he has done too many things behind my back. I have enough after 22 years of persecution from him.
@@deysyzapata213 I can hear God since the age of 10. The only regret is I did not seek Him before the marriage as I was grieving for the sudden loss of my father to heart attack and was overwhelmed by my mother's hysterical behaviour because of my father's death. We were all in a state of confusion and extreme grief. It is a marriage not ordained by God. I have regretted my decision just like Kathryn Kulman.
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Good teaching. You explain so well. I have been a Christian since I was a child. I was married for 25 years. It was a difficult marriage. I wish I had done things differently. Maybe we would still all be together as a family. Divorce can scatter everyone apart. Breaks my heart. Thank you for this teaching.
When we love God the most, we love everyone else in our lives better... for certain.
Absolutely true, however, no wife wants or needs another adolescent child to raise in addition to the children she gives birth to; she does not want a husband who cannot stand on his own two feet and needs constant support and encouragement, who is weak emotionally and throws tantrums every time he is not mothered by his wife. By the same token, I am sure that no husband either needs or wants a wife who cannot take care of herself and is dependent on him for everything. Perhaps we should not marry before we are spiritually mature, but who can tell what exactly that "marrying maturity" level looks like... Maturity of any kind cannot be ordered or legislated; it is developed over time, so what is the answer? It is easy to give advice; it is not as easy to follow it.
Kind regards
I completely agree!
It doesn't matter. I gave up on ever getting a wife. I'm not a virgin so I'm not worthy, I'm used up garbage. It's no big deal.
Good morning @@BansheeKing22
God is Spirit; He demands spiritual purity (virginity). Spiritual virgins possess the purity of heart, unspoiled by selfishness, self-centeredness, ego, vanity, greed, demandingness, possessiveness, etc.
And, God does not EVER create useless, UNWORTHY garbage; so, you never were, are not, and will never be unworthy in His eyes, or in the eyes of a woman that loves you. One day you will realize that, and then you will enter the "Kingdom of Heaven'.
Wishing you safe journey...
Can you talk about celebrating birthdays, thanksgiving, and so; please.
Amen... Thank God I come accross this video 🙌🙏😇
Thank you, my husband was watching this video and it drew my attention, highlighting everything I was doing wrong. Thank you this just might save my marriage. A million times thanks 😘
Am really touched & blessed brother... I believe God made me watch this video for my relationship betterment with my husband.. I will definitely implement what you have shared... 12 years since we got married but I still feel both of us need to work a lot more for a blessed married life.. Kindly pray for us... Am Nithya and my husband's name is Karthik from India.God bless you and use you more for his glory...
Amen..im still waiting a Godly husband❤
Same here. In the meantime, we are learning to become godly women. The right woman for the right man.
Amen 🙏🏿
Marriage are made by “GOD”
I’m praying to GOD to find me a Good Husband...at the right time...
I’m waiting...God Bless all of you...
The very definition of insanity. Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. You'd be waiting forever for something that will never happen. Better off just giving up. I know when I did at age 30 i no longer felt anything anymore and it was freeing. Better to just drop the false hope for something that doesn't exist and walk away.