"I like you because you're insecure" Found out the previous ex to me was 15. He was 30. I opened up about a serious trauma in my childhood and he told everyone we both knew. Deliberately did things he knew upset me so he could use my past trauma as proof I was "obviously mentally unstable" when I snapped at him. He's a church going christian. Says it all.
Just know that we’re not all like that. I agree, the Church has been made into a joke because of all of the hypocrites who claim to be religious. And it’s not “just a few” or “some”, but a lot, probably the majority. You deserve compassion, patience, discretion and understanding according to Christianity. I’m suffering from major depressive disorder, but I’m recovering. Those kinds of people have a lasting impact, so I’m glad you know that the real problem was him and didn’t blame yourself. Also, please remember that it’s not actual Christianity that is the problem, but the cowards who choose to hide behind a “prestigious” front through membership to justify their own behavior. Basically, if a Christian exhibits toxic behavior, run. For some reason the toxicity seems to multiply. Christianity is so dysfunctional.
Jennifer Andrews this sounded just like my sister's ex! He is a devoted, church going christian who did things he knew upset her and used her past trauma and aspergers as proof she was " mentally unstable" and also kept on telling her how he wished he was with another girl but he needs to be with her "because God sent you to me" (while also flirting w other girls). I'm so sorry for you. That must have really sucked. I'm glad you got out of that relationship.
A friend set me up with her cousin. He seemed really nice so I agreed to go out and he took me to a very nice restaurant. Our waiter was Latino. My date went OFF about how terrible Hispanic and Latino people are and how he wishes he could send them BACK to where they came from or even have "hunting season" on them. My stepmom, who I consider my mom, is Latina. My step siblings and half sibs who I LOVE dearly, are Latino. I informed my date of THIS. Asked the waiter to call me an Uber. The waiter PAID for my uber and took me out the next night. Still dating the cute waiter.
When he pointed to a girl in tight shorts and a tank top and said "I don't know why any girl would go out dressed like that it's like you're asking for something bad to happen to you"
My 55 year old coworker at Harvard said that about a student as she casually walked by in shorts on a 90 degree day. I quit that day. Toxic work environment. You don’t pay me enough to work with sexists.🤯
My date told me he and his friends are thinking that as a man you have to treat women badly, because they like bad boys. I was shocked and told him, this is the reason why so many women better live alone. I went home after this, alone and very happy.
Wow. I'd think for those interested in 'bad boys', you want the guy to be bad with you, not to you. Join in a let's throw caution to the wind attitude for a while or something. Good response to the dude.
I used to think like that when I was 18 years old, like "that guy treats her like shit but she is still with him so she must like that" but honestly is a confusing matter nowadays as well, hopefully we men will get a better understanding of those situation in the future
Many women seem to fall for guys that treat them badly though. Many people from both genders wrongly believe that toxicity is a sign of a healthy relationship.
I wonder where men get this idea from. I've never known any woman who seriously wanted only bad boys. In a class on evolutionary psychology we learned that women go for appearances and may be attracted to the stereotypical "bad boy" when seeking short-term relationships. But for long-term partners the criteria are more personality- i.e. kind, nurturing, etc., and ability to help support or care for a family. And bad boy doesn't actually mean "treats them horribly." It's more about confidence, being distinctive, etc. Like a peacock, but with a black leather jacket instead or whatever. For me a guy being a jerk is a real turn-off, just as much as being stupid or hating animals would be. I think any woman who will accept a jerk has some serious psychological issue, and jerks shouldn't be breeding, it drags down the species.
11:53 so he went to a coffee shop to make fun of people who drink coffee "lets meet up at a shopping mall" "okay sure" "omg people who shop at shopping malls are soooo wierd like"
Tinder matched with a military guy in a town dominated by native Americans (about 30/70 military/native American) Not a lot to do in that town so we walked around down town while drinking coffee. I was ready to go on another date and possibly move to full on dating. Then he threw his coffee at a homeless native american man on the street. Obviously i got mad and he then went on a rant about white supremacy. I helped the homeless guy get cleaned up (i had some napkins and baby wipes in my bag) all the while hes screaming about how whites rule. I finished cleaning up the homeless guy and asked him on a date. He agreed and i took him to a restaurant, paid for his meal, and left. I didn't stay because i wasnt hungry. But later found out some Karen was recording it and reported him to his officer in charge. Not for racism. For disturbing the peace (he was very loudly yelling for about 20min). But the video got to his CO (a black and hispanic man) and he was dishonorably discharged. I love a happy ending!
Mine: he would only talk about himself and never ask nothing about me and talk a lot and then start to talk about how shy I am and that I don't speak much. Of course I can't speak if you don't let me, I'm extremely outgoing and talkative when I'm comfortable. He started to manipulate me and convince me I am someone I'm not so I can fit his perfect girl expectations. He would make comments about how I should shape my eyebrows (I love my natural eyebrows) and get a job for the weekends and basically copy his lifestyle. He would never listen when I tell him to stop being respectful and trying to force his lifestyle into me, he would always do the things I tell him I don't like. Somehow it lasted 2 weeks only because I don't like hurting people and he was a master of manipulation. Don't try to be nice with someone who doesn't respects you even if he cries and act the victim role, they are not truly hurt, they are just manipulating you again.
Guy I had never met before, asks me out and I say yes. He picks me up and takes me to a nice Mexican restaurant. We sit at a booth, across from each other. Conversation seems to be going well. A couple of times, he asks me to sit next to him but I decline saying I wasn't ready. I wasn't. I thought I _might_ after a couple margaritas, maybe, but we'll see. Shortly after that second decline, he says something (I don't even remember what we were talking about) and I say, "Well, if that's true then,..." I was about to add some cute tidbit, or whatever, to show that I was listening and participating in the conversation but he interrupts and yells, "SO, NOW YOU'RE QUESTIONING MY INTEGRITY?!?!" I tried apologizing but he's just ranting and raving. At one point he yells at me for not apologizing, even though I did, he just didn't hear. He continues to rant and yell at me so I just left and walked the 4 miles home, in heels! One of the servers is a friend of mine and told me that guy brings in a new date every week and many go about as well as ours did! I wasn't the first to walk out on him and I'm sure I won't be the last. I don't understand why he brings ALL his dates to the same restaurant, though!
He loved Grand Theft Auto so much. He robbed three convenience stores, stole a tank from the Army base and used it to wipe out an entire gang. Then he dropped me off so he could go home and play Grand Theft Auto.
We went to taco bell, (not first date) I ordered taco salad and as I put the salsa in and started mixing it together he looked at me and said "u look like a pig eating out of a pig trough" I sat in silence and finished. Took him home n never spoke to him again
Started dating my now gf only to find out she’s never seen any Star Wars, Lord of the rings or marvel movies. Now she’s almost as big of a nerd as I am lol
At a new job I made a Star Trek reference and my new boss bragged that she had never in her life seen anything Star Trek, and couldn’t understand people who liked science fiction. I said I have no idea what to say to that. Her sense of humor, flexibility and acceptance of new ideas was about what you would expect. I was surprised that I lasted 8 months before I got out of there.
Knew someone who would always disagree with anything I said even when I agreed with his opinion he'd suddenly find a reason why he was wrong to have the opinion
I had a really close friend just recently start doing exactly that to me, and I can't figure out why! Drives me nuts! I finally had to take a few days where I didn't talk with him, because it was stressing me out. Then, he decided I must be "pissed" at him, and now he's mad and won't talk to me, even after I apologized.
Last night, actually. I had met this guy on Hinge and he had finally convinced me that he was worth sharing my number with him. So we were texting on the phone while my friend was over for drinks (I was showing my friend these texts because I have, as a rule, have to have every guy I date pass the "Friend Test" ) and the guy I'm texting asked me for a favor. I was like "yeah?" He asked me to delete my Hinge account because "I don't want a man talking to my dream woman". Keep in mind we had only been talking for a week at most. My friend read the text and said "If that's not a giant red flag, I don't know what is." The guy is now banned and I reported him.
Met a guy on Okcupid that claimed he was 18 (like me) ...when I met him it’s very obvious he’s not 18. He “confesses” that he lied in his message because I “looked young and cute” and he wanted to meet me. The guy was very much into his 40s. When I said I didn’t appreciate being lied to, he says that he knew I would not have given him a chance if I knew his real age. He wasn’t wrong. But then he threw in the kicker of asking me if I was still a virgin. I noped right out of there.
(I’m a nurse)When after a year of dating I moved in to take care of his sick mother and he wouldn’t let me....he starved her for 4 weeks until she died. And yes authorities knew. This was during covid and they “didn’t want to move her” due to lockdown. He changed his social media status to “retired” right before she died.
When he started drinking lager before we met up, drank on the train, drank during the entire meal; basically, he drank the full day. He then got completely wasted, snogged two guys right in front of me, got us kicked out of a bar and was like looking after a three year old on the train back. He said he drinks because it's the only way he can enjoy things. Guess my company was not worth it then.
@Mia Smith Nope. No word left out there. I was continuing the sentence with a conjunction word, which means the subject matter is still the same and I didn't need to implement the subject again. I also don't use 'like' as a filler word as that is improper English, and confusing.
1:07 I still don't get people who do this. Why try and date someone if you're not gonna take it seriously? "It's so funny to piss you off until you don't want to see me anymore!" Like really?
It’s like seeing a guy who never grew beyond the emotional intelligence of some snot nosed brat who goes around yanking on the pigtails of little girls on the playground at his kindergarten. Not a sexy trait for a grown adult.
Date with a guy in the 1980’s I was 18, he picked me up and went to town about 10 minutes away. Out about an hour, gets outside and gets in the car, he says would you like to come back to mine,I know he owns a house miles away. I asked him how would I get home all innocently, he says by taxi. I lean’t across and whispered, I know what you can do and he says ye what, I said, take me home, he was so stunned he dropped me at my house. Worse thing was I worked at the same place as him, he never said anything again 😂 😂😂😂lol
Not a girl, never been on a date, but as a girl one time I went on a date with this guy so he's like "I gotta stop at the bank first" so I'm like "ok", so we get there there was some shooting and he came running out with a bag with a dollar sign on it so I was like wtf that's weird but whatever guess he needed to withdraw a lot of money, so then we went to dinner, and I heard this son of a bitch bastard ask the waitress for a Pepsi instead of a Coke, when they clearly had Pepsi AND Coke. Needless to say I knew I was dealing with a real criminal and left.
I was working as a photographers assistant and the cute front door security guard flirted with me for a couple of weeks. We’re negotiating a date when he suddenly asks if I have kids. No, do you?, I ask. Yes, this unmarried 23 year old guy says. I have twelve kids. I am of course, shocked. Don’t you know what a condom is? I kid you not, he says, Well every girl I’ve dated wanted to have something to remember me by. Noped out of there real fast. But he was so confused. Kept asking me what happened as I rushed by him.
We're sitting at dinner when I commented on the fact the chef used real butter and the garlic potatoes weren't immitation but he kept insisting they weren't. It was some hole in the wall dive and the lady who owned it looked so sad. I kept,happily eating,and he kept arguing but I stopped. After a few minutes of me being so silent he couldn't take it he said,"Let me see." He attempted to swipe his fingers through my potatoes! In retrospect I do not know if I stabbed him with the fork on purpose or the fork was coming down as his fingers were about ready to perform the swipe! Either way I hit a vein and he had to be bandaged. I finished eating and told him,"This is so good and you're nearly done bleeding." (I know but DO NOT touch my food.)
I was wearing flip flops on the date. After it was over he asked if there was a second date or if he should just take off my hands and feet to bring with him. He genuinely thought this was a compliment and was shocked that I dropped all contact.
He was in the navy, we had never met. He kept trying to contact me on every form of social media after I found out he had a girlfriend, apparently they were only dating for his family. But I told him I didn’t feel like getting in the middle of that. He gave my number to his friend in the navy. So I got a call from some guy while in a submarine looking to have a “nice conversation with a girl”. I gave him one but at the beginning I told him I had a boyfriend and I was currently with him. He apologized for interrupting. He was very sweet unlike the guy who harasses me.
Oh, where to begin... When he proudly told me that he found out his previous wife was cheating by secretly wiring their entire house and listening to her daily movements (she worked from home) every day for 4 years. When he bragged constantly about his business without giving much detail about it, but any time I tried to talk about mine to find common ground, he cut me off and made patronizing remarks. When he was supposed to be driving me home, I noticed that he took a wrong turn and tried to direct him back on the right route. He just ignored me and looked ahead, grinning. I started asking him where we were going, discreetly opening my phone (it was the age of the Razr) and preparing to call for help. He finally says, "It's a surprise! Don't worry." A few seconds later, we pull up at this decrepit building and he gets out. It's a large snowcone stand--his supposedly "very successful, very stressful and high-pressure" business. He pulls me out of the car and makes me go inside. "Okay, quick tour," I said, "but I really need to get home." As soon as we're in the building, he starts trying to grope me and kiss me, and I keep putting him off. Someone he knows pulls up to chat and I walk to the back storage area and find a place to hide. I hear him looking for me and I finally text him on my phone that I'll come out if he takes me home and if not, I'm calling the police. He agrees, so I come out and he finally drove me home, though he looked pissed. I blocked him on every contact I had. We had our first date scheduled for the day after Thanksgiving. I had just gotten home from my family's gathering on Thanksgiving Eve, when he texted me and asked if he could come over and meet me that night, because he'd had a terrible day--been called into work when he was supposed to have the day off (he was the senior cook at a nice-ish restaurant) and hadn't gotten to eat any Thanksgiving food. I felt terrible, and had TONS of leftovers I'd been sent home with, and we had been chatting for weeks and had a couple of mutual friends, so I said okay. I warned him, though, that I was in my pajamas. He said that was fine. He gets there, and is a little more subdued than I expected for how our chats had gone. (He shakes my hand rather than hugging me, for example.) I offer to heat him up a plate of leftovers and he agrees. We sit down, me with a cup of tea and him with food, and he starts to eat and talks about how shit the food is and the turkey is dry and the cranberries aren't sweet enough, etc. He tells me that HIS family's food is so much better because they're Puerto Rican. Dude, I did not HAVE to share my food with you. I'm miffed. This he says, "I'm so glad you got dressed up for me." I said, "I told you I was in pajamas." Anyway, he finishes--we make stilted conversation throughout, and we go sit on the sofa to watch some television. He starts stroking my leg and suddenly goes, "Ewww, you haven't shaved your legs!" Me: "First of all, I wax, so I might be a little stubbly, but that's because I'm growing it out for my appointment. But it's definitely not long enough for an 'eww!'" Him: "No, I can feel it!" He pets my leg again, and that's when I realize he thinks the texture of my flannel pajama pants is leg hair. I started laughing and explained and he said, "No! You're just making excuses because you're unhygienic!" Yeah, I asked him politely but firmly to leave and that was that. We met online. His pictures looked nice and he was a pharmacist. I was 30 and he said he was 35. We're meeting at a restaurant for lunch (I had now been online dating for several years and had learned my lesson.) He walks in and is CLEARLY at least 10 years older than his photos--I'd say between 47 and 50. Worse, when he smiles, his teeth are BROWN. I'm not talking "I really like coffee" brown, I'm talking, he has himself a full-blown case of dark brown, dull, mushy-looking, couple-of-missing-teeth meth mouth. I am immediately squicked, but I am a pushover, so I didn't immediately leave. We stumble through awkward conversation for 45 minutes. I have a difficult time looking at him and concentrate on my food. When the server asked if we wanted one check or two, he YELLED "TWO! We're paying separately!" Fine, no problem, even though YOU invited ME and picked the place; I never go out without enough cash to cover myself, just in case.The way he did it was just gauche. Anyway, I happen to glance over while he's filling out his slip and notice he didn't tip the server, so I leave 40%. When we get out to the pavement, he goes for a kiss and I manage to dodge him and suffer through a hug, during which he reaches down and full on grabs my arse and lifts and squeezes in front of all of the people walking by and those driving along the very busy road we're next to. Into my ear he said, "I'll see YOU later," in what I imagine he thought was a seductive voice, but all it did was waft the stench going on inside his mouth at me and I barely kept my lunch down. I immediately blocked his number and when I got home I blocked him on the dating website (prior to apps). Again, we meet online. He has clear pictures that are time-stamped and look good. I am a very active person and I am looking for someone with a similarly active lifestyle--running, hiking, yoga, etc. That's clear on my profile. Another thing I'm explicit about on my profile is that I cannot date a smoker. Not just because I feel it's incompatible with the lifestyle I lead and would like my partner to lead with me, but because I'm allergic to tobacco and tobacco smoke makes me violently ill. In his first message, this guy describes himself as an active non-smoker who loves to hike and camp and "occasionally indulges in video games." Not a problem--I love a trashy romance novel from time to time and I wouldn't want to be judged on MY guilty pleasure. Anyway, we have a short video chat--everything looks good--and we agree to meet the next day for coffee. Again, I'm early and there when he comes in. I don't even know how to explain this guy's body; from the chest up he looks well fit. But from about the sternum down it's like...his body exploded. He's probably around 300 pounds, and it's all in his lower belly, bum, and thighs. It's like someone took the top of one guy and put it on the lower portion of another guy. Immediately I know I'm not attracted to him, but I'm not going to be a bitch and leave, so I greet him with a smile and a hug. I notice when I hug him that he smells a little smoky, but he did tell me in our chat that he has friends that smoke, so I thought he might have just come from hanging out with them. We chat, a bit awkwardly, and mostly about all of the video games that he plays (he mentions he had played for NINE HOURS already that day.) After about 30 minutes, I make my excuses. I had parked on campus and walked a few blocks, so he offered to drive me to my car. I try to beg off, but he's insistent, so I figure, "What could it hurt?" I know I won't be seeing him again. We get into his car and there are cigarette butts EVERYWHERE and the upholstery REEKS. After a couple of minutes, I'm already feeling nauseous and feeling pressure in my face. I ask him, "Is this your car?" He says, "Yes." Me: "So...are these cigarettes all yours?" Him: "Of course they are." I'm silent until we get to my car, then I just say, "Thanks," and get out. As I grab the handle of my car door, I have to lean over and be sick. He rolls down his window and asks if I need help and I tell him "NO" and wave him off. I managed to get home and get cleaned up and I blocked his number and his alias on the dating website, but I forgot he had my Facebook contact from one time we had messaged on there. A couple of days later, I had just gotten back from the doctor, where I'd been diagnosed with a sinus infection--surprise!--and given antibiotics, to find I have a FB message. I open it up, and it's actually EIGHTEEN messages over the course of about 90 minutes. They started out questioning, because he had tried to text me. When I didn't immediately respond, he started accusing me of being shallow and said, "It's because my car is old and beat up, isn't it? Gold digging wh*re!" Now, I knew going in that I made about 10 times what this guy made--I didn't care. What I cared about was that he LIED to me. I explained that in a response, let him know that I was physically ill because of his lies, and then blocked him on FB and never heard from him again.
@@annajansen6945 Seriously, I'm a magnet for them. I didn't even include the guy who, when the server brought the wine list, said, "Which of these wines says, 'You weren't my first choice, but I'm trying to impress you, anyway?'" These men are why I'm still single at 36.
Does anyone remember that trend of just randomly punching strangers in the head? Because my tinder match was hella happy about his role in that. He joined the trend and punched several strangers causing 2 women to die (which i found out later) and 5 people to be paralysed to some degree and 3 men with broken neck/collar bones. He thought it was hilarious to hurt people. Showed me videos his friend took. I kept my cool and tried not to vomit while hearing the cracking of their bones. I happily told him "omg! Thats gold bro! Can you send that to me?" After that date i went to the police and gave them his info. Theyve been looking for him because he murdered 2 women. They had both murders on video and along with the other videos it was a pretty cut and dry case. Hes in a psych ward because he shows no remorse for killing and causing permanent damage.
Holy shit! The second one!! I used to work with a guy like that and he even went around to everyone saying he was purposely trying to rile me up. It got to a point that just the sight of him pissed me off. And then, out of the blue, he asked me out!!! 😂 I had fun bluntly turning him down and watching him get annoyed. The tosser.
1:33 is the exact thing my ex used to do to me. it made me feel very uncomfortable and anxious and he only stopped when i got more assertive. but he wouldn’t stop when i kept saying no.
The guy I had a bad date with was arrested on the news 3 days ago. He was a police officer and they literally cut the uniform off of him as they detained him. He beat a woman bloody and it was caught on a Ring doorbell cam The first time we met he held me captive and threatened my safety. He told me about "worthless minorities" he would harass and that he was on desk duty because of "some lying whore". He asked me if I had ever been with a n**** and asked if they have a "smell" and all kinds of terrible stuff. The conversation hurt my soul. I told him no and idk what he was talking about. He kept pestering me and would get mad if I didn't answer his ignorant racist questions. He literally interrogated me with fear and rape😫 He was bad news and after I got out of his house, I never looked back.
i live in kansas city, met him at a dance in lawrence, he lived in topeka. he seemed nice. he called the next evening, wanted to come to k.c. and take me out for dinner. we both ordered lasagna, the cheapest thing on the menu, at $9.00. when the check came, he screamed, "$18 dollars ! $18 dollars !", so loudly that everyone in the place was staring at him. back at my place, he took a small suitcase out of his car. "what's that ?" i asked. he answered, "my shaving gear and clean underwear." i told him to put it back in the car. he said, "surely you don't expect me to drive back to topeka tonight ?" i told him he could get a hotel room, drive home, or go to hell. a few months later, he was at a different dance, and asked my friend to dance with him. as they danced, he asked her, " how many damn kids do you have ?" she told him, " five." he said, " you know, you could have done something to prevent it." we all referred to him as "the toad." my apologies to those innocent little reptiles.
Maybe not horrible, but he got super upset I met him in person with my family the first time, and was like, "what, you don't trust me?" Nice red flags there
nah. i'd be super weirded out if someone showed up on our first date with their family too. a friend or sibling in the background is understandable but what you did is weird.
He stole my debit card and told me i could only get it back if we went on another date (after i had cut things off because he kept touching me and kissing me when i said stop). Not to mention the 1st date, he picked me up and as soon as i sat down, he grabbed my face and kissed me. Not even a hello, just kissed me, basically a stranger. Shouldve cut things off there but felt bad and gave him 2 more dates that he once again blew. And btw i did get my debit card back after threatening him 😂
I was in a new city. Matched with a guy on tinder. He asked me out for a drink. As I was new to the city I got lost and couldn’t find the bar. He came to get me and shouted at me. Then he told me about how his sound system had woken the neighbour’s (2 floors up) baby; and “I don’t care about them.” I had my sister call me and fake a family emergency and nope the hell out of there.
I had just left a 13 year off again on again relationship. I went out with a customer from work. Seemed pretty nice enough. We agree to meet at an Italian resteraunt. As soon as i say hi and we start walking to the resteraunt he puts his arm around me and pulls me REAL close. I said uh.. EXCUSE me??? We just met dude. He said what's the problem? You ashamed of me? Im not of YOU. Red flag number 1. We order some drinks and a pizza. He IMMEDIATELY starts babbling how great a lover he is and asks to hold my hand. Im SERIOUSLY socially awkward at this time and was like uh...sure. Red flag 2. All he'd talk about were his ex wives and how great a lover he was. After he ate he picked his teeth then his nose right at the table. We were sitting by a table of good looking firemen. Im a big girl and not considered pretty at all (oh yes, he mentioned that as well. Said he didn't mind ugly women since he was out with me to prove it) but the guys at that table looked at me with genuine sympathy at me with this guy. I'm done. I left fast after dinner. I haven't had a date since. It's been 4 years.I win.😭
Going out with a person emotionally unavailable in every way. Im lonely when I speak to them. They wouldn't be a friend really. They are never interested. They have mental health issues but I realised a relationship was not possible. It did damage, I'm going to wait and see what happens. I needed to give dating more time. Rebound relationship.
Ive dated a guy who didnt want to touch me (in a sense of hold hands and kiss) since ive been with other dudes and i was ruined. Im surprised he got that far with me but it lasted less than 2 weeks
When she told me (at the time a lesbian) that her uncle who brought her to the restaurant is extremely homophobic and would be mad if he saw us… or the part where she told me her ex girlfriend was in jail for killing a girl over her?
When he yelled @ the host outside the restaurant after we waited for about 2 min then demanded to be seated after she let him know the reservation he placed wasn’t for another hour and they were trying to get a table anyway which is why we were waiting.
The guy who acted jealous of the girl who had a 30 year old stalker masturbate outside her window reminds of Mac from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. The one where he finds out his childhood priest molested everyone but him.
I like to rearrange people’s lawn ornaments it makes the so confused and it hilarious either that or move something like an inch intermittently it’s so funny the way they don’t notice but when they do the just except that that’s where it was
I'm glad my dad taught me to always have cab money. I went on a date with this guy I had met through friends. He picked me up and I went over to his house to watch football. He got so drunk and thought he was funny and he wasn't. A neighbor came over and invited him and I to watch two girls have sex but we had to pay for it. I declined. I called a cab and he was so mad that I was leaving and he thought I was going to spend the night. As I'm trying to leave he's at the cab window crying that he's never going to see me again and the stupid cab driver tells me to give the guy a chance. I told him to just drive.
I was slipped some G at the bar before meeting a chick. Passed out in her bathroom and was woke up by the ambulance. I don't if I feel bad or am embarrassed.
16:26 *I don’t understand what this breakdown means?!?!* A lot of people agreed with them because they have over 300 karma “likes”on their reply, so obviously people know what they mean but I’m sleepy and can’t figure it out for the life of me!!!!
The person was correcting the other poster’s grammar. The poster had said a guy “tried to grope her (during a murder scene nonetheless)” meaning that that was the worst possible time that he could have done that. However, “nonetheless” means “at least,” so it seemed like they were saying “at least he groped me during a murder scene.” What they meant to say was “no less,” meaning that the situation was made even worse by the fact that they were being groped during a murder scene.
Some of these weird people are worse than others and so many racist people on a video, must be many more out there, disgusting people to be like that! 😡
Watched this to see if I was one of the bad dates, I have horrible luck with women lol. Luckily I've never done anything close to these so the mystery of why Tony's single remains.
So I show up at the restaurant, looking nice and stuff we get too talking it’s going great Then the waiter brings the food out and remind you he ordered a lobster . The lobster comes out then he notices the lobster missing a leg and it’s the tiny little legs yk? Tell me why this man starts cussing out the waiter for ripping the leg off which that poor waiter didn’t have a clue what to do at the moment, but obviously maybe something just happened to the leg so then the waiter is seriously just standing there I’m already in shock enough the fact this guy is really mad about a tiny leg on a lobster ?? I ended up leaving and we didn’t talk after. I hope he’s doing good now . THIS DIDNT HAPPENNN IM BOREDDDD MBB , anyways get right Jesus it’s never to late he truly will heal your pain and anything your going threw truthfully he loves you so much it’s not religion it’s relationship💕
I was on a date at a nice restaurant with a girl once. I cut off a piece of chicken, but when I started to eat it I realized it might be too big of a bite, so I just bit off part of it instead of putting the whole thing in my mouth. She instantly froze, and I couldn't tell if she was having a petite mal seizure, a stroke or what. This lasted for about a minute, and I was getting concerned, and freaked out because she wouldn't stop staring at me, so I asked her if she was OK. After some hesitation, and my repeating the question, she finally replied "I can't believe you did that..." in the most sobering, ominous tone. I was so confused about the situation, but she finally revealed that she could not believe that I ate off my fork... I found out that she suffered from severe depression as well and nothing I did could really make her happy. Didn't last long at all.
Because the proper term is "bitches". Do you understand now? Oh, and it might have something to do with neckbeards using "female" as a derogatory term.
The thumbnail says "Dating A Bad Guy" but that person looks an awful lot like Billie Eilish. Pretty sure Miss Eilish is a young lady, and if so, that's not very nice!
Oh man... this is adorable. Billie Eilish has a song called Bad Guy, in which one of the lines is "but I'm the bad guy." The uploader is not calling Eilish a man, they're making a reference.
"I like you because you're insecure"
Found out the previous ex to me was 15. He was 30.
I opened up about a serious trauma in my childhood and he told everyone we both knew.
Deliberately did things he knew upset me so he could use my past trauma as proof I was "obviously mentally unstable" when I snapped at him.
He's a church going christian. Says it all.
Was that a jab at churches or Christians?
Just know that we’re not all like that. I agree, the Church has been made into a joke because of all of the hypocrites who claim to be religious. And it’s not “just a few” or “some”, but a lot, probably the majority. You deserve compassion, patience, discretion and understanding according to Christianity. I’m suffering from major depressive disorder, but I’m recovering. Those kinds of people have a lasting impact, so I’m glad you know that the real problem was him and didn’t blame yourself. Also, please remember that it’s not actual Christianity that is the problem, but the cowards who choose to hide behind a “prestigious” front through membership to justify their own behavior. Basically, if a Christian exhibits toxic behavior, run. For some reason the toxicity seems to multiply. Christianity is so dysfunctional.
That sounds like narcissistic abuse. Their partner’s distress is sustenance to them.
Jennifer Andrews this sounded just like my sister's ex! He is a devoted, church going christian who did things he knew upset her and used her past trauma and aspergers as proof she was " mentally unstable" and also kept on telling her how he wished he was with another girl but he needs to be with her "because God sent you to me" (while also flirting w other girls). I'm so sorry for you. That must have really sucked. I'm glad you got out of that relationship.
Ashiera Preston your very wrong on that topic it’s very few who are like that and then people act like it’s the majority you are very wrong
A friend set me up with her cousin. He seemed really nice so I agreed to go out and he took me to a very nice restaurant. Our waiter was Latino. My date went OFF about how terrible Hispanic and Latino people are and how he wishes he could send them BACK to where they came from or even have "hunting season" on them. My stepmom, who I consider my mom, is Latina. My step siblings and half sibs who I LOVE dearly, are Latino. I informed my date of THIS. Asked the waiter to call me an Uber. The waiter PAID for my uber and took me out the next night. Still dating the cute waiter.
Now that is a love story! Cheers to you dear 🤗🥂💖
This is a great ending. Omg
Science Fiction Double Feature
Omg that ending is everything
I hope you guys get married! It’s an awesome meet cute story to tell your grandkids!
We love a happy ending for a wholesome queen ❤
When he pointed to a girl in tight shorts and a tank top and said "I don't know why any girl would go out dressed like that it's like you're asking for something bad to happen to you"
And this is why I am scared to wear a skirt. Crazy people thinking you deserve something for wearing shorts. Crazy
My 55 year old coworker at Harvard said that about a student as she casually walked by in shorts on a 90 degree day. I quit that day. Toxic work environment. You don’t pay me enough to work with sexists.🤯
Ew wtf. Massive red flag, what a disgusting thing to say.
Disgusting thinking
Meanwhile if you wear a Maga hat and walk into an ethnic neighborhood, many leftists would say you deserve anything that would happen to you.
My date told me he and his friends are thinking that as a man you have to treat women badly, because they like bad boys. I was shocked and told him, this is the reason why so many women better live alone. I went home after this, alone and very happy.
Wow. I'd think for those interested in 'bad boys', you want the guy to be bad with you, not to you. Join in a let's throw caution to the wind attitude for a while or something. Good response to the dude.
I used to think like that when I was 18 years old, like "that guy treats her like shit but she is still with him so she must like that" but honestly is a confusing matter nowadays as well, hopefully we men will get a better understanding of those situation in the future
Many women seem to fall for guys that treat them badly though. Many people from both genders wrongly believe that toxicity is a sign of a healthy relationship.
I wonder where men get this idea from. I've never known any woman who seriously wanted only bad boys. In a class on evolutionary psychology we learned that women go for appearances and may be attracted to the stereotypical "bad boy" when seeking short-term relationships. But for long-term partners the criteria are more personality- i.e. kind, nurturing, etc., and ability to help support or care for a family. And bad boy doesn't actually mean "treats them horribly." It's more about confidence, being distinctive, etc. Like a peacock, but with a black leather jacket instead or whatever. For me a guy being a jerk is a real turn-off, just as much as being stupid or hating animals would be. I think any woman who will accept a jerk has some serious psychological issue, and jerks shouldn't be breeding, it drags down the species.
the "straight guy who likes fricking dudes" clearly has some repression issues going on.
Maybe he's bisexual, but hasn't heard the word yet🤔🤣🤣🤣
When he told me the reason he was dating me was because I looked like a minor 🙃
Big puke
Run away, run fast
by ff oh don’t worry, this was at least 6 years ago - i’m happily engaged to a (different) wonderful man now 🥰
Ew
anddddddd The *F.B.I* is knocking down his door
11:53 so he went to a coffee shop to make fun of people who drink coffee
"lets meet up at a shopping mall"
"okay sure"
"omg people who shop at shopping malls are soooo wierd like"
It's a big brain move
Petite Feet 🧠👀
Tinder matched with a military guy in a town dominated by native Americans (about 30/70 military/native American)
Not a lot to do in that town so we walked around down town while drinking coffee. I was ready to go on another date and possibly move to full on dating.
Then he threw his coffee at a homeless native american man on the street. Obviously i got mad and he then went on a rant about white supremacy. I helped the homeless guy get cleaned up (i had some napkins and baby wipes in my bag) all the while hes screaming about how whites rule. I finished cleaning up the homeless guy and asked him on a date. He agreed and i took him to a restaurant, paid for his meal, and left. I didn't stay because i wasnt hungry. But later found out some Karen was recording it and reported him to his officer in charge. Not for racism. For disturbing the peace (he was very loudly yelling for about 20min). But the video got to his CO (a black and hispanic man) and he was dishonorably discharged.
I love a happy ending!
Wow Karen did good
cg standing
Karen redemption arc xD
Mine: he would only talk about himself and never ask nothing about me and talk a lot and then start to talk about how shy I am and that I don't speak much. Of course I can't speak if you don't let me, I'm extremely outgoing and talkative when I'm comfortable.
He started to manipulate me and convince me I am someone I'm not so I can fit his perfect girl expectations. He would make comments about how I should shape my eyebrows (I love my natural eyebrows) and get a job for the weekends and basically copy his lifestyle. He would never listen when I tell him to stop being respectful and trying to force his lifestyle into me, he would always do the things I tell him I don't like.
Somehow it lasted 2 weeks only because I don't like hurting people and he was a master of manipulation.
Don't try to be nice with someone who doesn't respects you even if he cries and act the victim role, they are not truly hurt, they are just manipulating you again.
Karma
I'm glad you got out of that mess before you in too deep.
@Absad Mahmud what?
😢Some people lack self awareness
Lots racists just assuming everyone else are racists as well...
Guy I had never met before, asks me out and I say yes. He picks me up and takes me to a nice Mexican restaurant. We sit at a booth, across from each other. Conversation seems to be going well. A couple of times, he asks me to sit next to him but I decline saying I wasn't ready. I wasn't. I thought I _might_ after a couple margaritas, maybe, but we'll see.
Shortly after that second decline, he says something (I don't even remember what we were talking about) and I say, "Well, if that's true then,..." I was about to add some cute tidbit, or whatever, to show that I was listening and participating in the conversation but he interrupts and yells, "SO, NOW YOU'RE QUESTIONING MY INTEGRITY?!?!" I tried apologizing but he's just ranting and raving. At one point he yells at me for not apologizing, even though I did, he just didn't hear. He continues to rant and yell at me so I just left and walked the 4 miles home, in heels!
One of the servers is a friend of mine and told me that guy brings in a new date every week and many go about as well as ours did! I wasn't the first to walk out on him and I'm sure I won't be the last.
I don't understand why he brings ALL his dates to the same restaurant, though!
He obviously thinks the problem is with the dates and not himself. He's comfortable with what he knows and knows nothing better.
@@imzjustplayin
You're right.
14:00, that went from sweet, to cool, to weird, to horrible, to creepy, to terrifying in like 2 minutes
He loved Grand Theft Auto so much. He robbed three convenience stores, stole a tank from the Army base and used it to wipe out an entire gang. Then he dropped me off so he could go home and play Grand Theft Auto.
I just had a stroke.
*hol up*
🤣🤣🤣
We went to taco bell, (not first date) I ordered taco salad and as I put the salsa in and started mixing it together he looked at me and said "u look like a pig eating out of a pig trough"
I sat in silence and finished. Took him home n never spoke to him again
Mia Smith Naw, taco salad is great, why waste it. But yeah, buh
bye jerk.
i’m sorry for laughing
When he called me the day after the first date to ask if he could hide from the police at my house
when he said “for a black girl, you’re pretty. most black girls look like dogs”
what black girls have he even seen? what a douche.
This is so disgusting on multiple levels
yogi
What is he on?! Black women are gorgeous.
He told me he didn’t want to be seen around me because I was fat.
My friends husband told her that when she was 7 months pregnant and then he left her.
That last one tho.....preach!
IKR!!
Started dating my now gf only to find out she’s never seen any Star Wars, Lord of the rings or marvel movies. Now she’s almost as big of a nerd as I am lol
I've never seen star wars or Lord of the rings lol. But Marvel is dope.
At a new job I made a Star Trek reference and my new boss bragged that she had never in her life seen anything Star Trek, and couldn’t understand people who liked science fiction. I said I have no idea what to say to that. Her sense of humor, flexibility and acceptance of new ideas was about what you would expect. I was surprised that I lasted 8 months before I got out of there.
Knew someone who would always disagree with anything I said even when I agreed with his opinion he'd suddenly find a reason why he was wrong to have the opinion
I had a really close friend just recently start doing exactly that to me, and I can't figure out why! Drives me nuts! I finally had to take a few days where I didn't talk with him, because it was stressing me out. Then, he decided I must be "pissed" at him, and now he's mad and won't talk to me, even after I apologized.
Last night, actually.
I had met this guy on Hinge and he had finally convinced me that he was worth sharing my number with him. So we were texting on the phone while my friend was over for drinks (I was showing my friend these texts because I have, as a rule, have to have every guy I date pass the "Friend Test" ) and the guy I'm texting asked me for a favor.
I was like "yeah?"
He asked me to delete my Hinge account because "I don't want a man talking to my dream woman".
Keep in mind we had only been talking for a week at most. My friend read the text and said "If that's not a giant red flag, I don't know what is."
The guy is now banned and I reported him.
So many stories about racism.... Smh the struggle is definitely not anywhere near over 😞
Met a guy on Okcupid that claimed he was 18 (like me) ...when I met him it’s very obvious he’s not 18. He “confesses” that he lied in his message because I “looked young and cute” and he wanted to meet me. The guy was very much into his 40s. When I said I didn’t appreciate being lied to, he says that he knew I would not have given him a chance if I knew his real age. He wasn’t wrong. But then he threw in the kicker of asking me if I was still a virgin. I noped right out of there.
Glad you ran. That guy is a predator
(I’m a nurse)When after a year of dating I moved in to take care of his sick mother and he wouldn’t let me....he starved her for 4 weeks until she died. And yes authorities knew. This was during covid and they “didn’t want to move her” due to lockdown. He changed his social media status to “retired” right before she died.
Yeahhhhh he needs major jail time
"Accidentally hit him in the balls. He gave me the silent treatment." 😂
When he started drinking lager before we met up, drank on the train, drank during the entire meal; basically, he drank the full day. He then got completely wasted, snogged two guys right in front of me, got us kicked out of a bar and was like looking after a three year old on the train back.
He said he drinks because it's the only way he can enjoy things. Guess my company was not worth it then.
That sounds hellish, not gonna lie. I’m sorry that happened to you 🥺♥️
Great tactic, getting shitfaced on a first date. lol You should’ve left him there.
@Mia Smith It's called a metaphor.
@@MaggieTheCat01 At that point in time I was struggling with my anxiety and the guilt of doing such a thing would have destroyed me.
@Mia Smith Nope. No word left out there. I was continuing the sentence with a conjunction word, which means the subject matter is still the same and I didn't need to implement the subject again. I also don't use 'like' as a filler word as that is improper English, and confusing.
I just asked if I could wear her skin. For some reason, she never called me back and the police showed. Weird right?
idk man that's weird
@@DefinitelyRealJoeGatto yea he really did
NOT WEIRD you can't just say that it is super creepy
Sevenfold For life it’s a joke dude
Leather Face. lol
1:07 I still don't get people who do this. Why try and date someone if you're not gonna take it seriously? "It's so funny to piss you off until you don't want to see me anymore!" Like really?
It’s like seeing a guy who never grew beyond the emotional intelligence of some snot nosed brat who goes around yanking on the pigtails of little girls on the playground at his kindergarten. Not a sexy trait for a grown adult.
Date with a guy in the 1980’s I was 18, he picked me up and went to town about 10 minutes away. Out about an hour, gets outside and gets in the car, he says would you like to come back to mine,I know he owns a house miles away. I asked him how would I get home all innocently, he says by taxi. I lean’t across and whispered, I know what you can do and he says ye what, I said, take me home, he was so stunned he dropped me at my house. Worse thing was I worked at the same place as him, he never said anything again 😂 😂😂😂lol
Not a girl, never been on a date, but as a girl one time I went on a date with this guy so he's like "I gotta stop at the bank first" so I'm like "ok", so we get there there was some shooting and he came running out with a bag with a dollar sign on it so I was like wtf that's weird but whatever guess he needed to withdraw a lot of money, so then we went to dinner, and I heard this son of a bitch bastard ask the waitress for a Pepsi instead of a Coke, when they clearly had Pepsi AND Coke. Needless to say I knew I was dealing with a real criminal and left.
I was working as a photographers assistant and the cute front door security guard flirted with me for a couple of weeks. We’re negotiating a date when he suddenly asks if I have kids. No, do you?, I ask. Yes, this unmarried 23 year old guy says. I have twelve kids. I am of course, shocked. Don’t you know what a condom is? I kid you not, he says, Well every girl I’ve dated wanted to have something to remember me by. Noped out of there real fast. But he was so confused. Kept asking me what happened as I rushed by him.
12 kids? Holy fuck
If someone spit their chewed gum in my hand, I'd put it in their hair.
We're sitting at dinner when I commented on the fact the chef used real butter and the garlic potatoes weren't immitation but he kept insisting they weren't. It was some hole in the wall dive and the lady who owned it looked so sad. I kept,happily eating,and he kept arguing but I stopped. After a few minutes of me being so silent he couldn't take it he said,"Let me see." He attempted to swipe his fingers through my potatoes! In retrospect I do not know if I stabbed him with the fork on purpose or the fork was coming down as his fingers were about ready to perform the swipe! Either way I hit a vein and he had to be bandaged. I finished eating and told him,"This is so good and you're nearly done bleeding." (I know but DO NOT touch my food.)
4:18 that escalated quickly
Oh no, not that thumbnail.
I'm mentally ill and this is cool now. Let's monetize this!
@@YesitisDex bro u joined TH-cam 14 yrs ago how?
Goku Kakarotto it’s been around for a while. Lol
@@YesitisDex wow
Goku Kakarotto 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I was wearing flip flops on the date. After it was over he asked if there was a second date or if he should just take off my hands and feet to bring with him. He genuinely thought this was a compliment and was shocked that I dropped all contact.
Huh? I don't get it... 😅😅
Probably a weird fetishy remark
He was in the navy, we had never met. He kept trying to contact me on every form of social media after I found out he had a girlfriend, apparently they were only dating for his family. But I told him I didn’t feel like getting in the middle of that. He gave my number to his friend in the navy. So I got a call from some guy while in a submarine looking to have a “nice conversation with a girl”. I gave him one but at the beginning I told him I had a boyfriend and I was currently with him. He apologized for interrupting. He was very sweet unlike the guy who harasses me.
Oh, where to begin...
When he proudly told me that he found out his previous wife was cheating by secretly wiring their entire house and listening to her daily movements (she worked from home) every day for 4 years.
When he bragged constantly about his business without giving much detail about it, but any time I tried to talk about mine to find common ground, he cut me off and made patronizing remarks. When he was supposed to be driving me home, I noticed that he took a wrong turn and tried to direct him back on the right route. He just ignored me and looked ahead, grinning. I started asking him where we were going, discreetly opening my phone (it was the age of the Razr) and preparing to call for help. He finally says, "It's a surprise! Don't worry." A few seconds later, we pull up at this decrepit building and he gets out. It's a large snowcone stand--his supposedly "very successful, very stressful and high-pressure" business. He pulls me out of the car and makes me go inside. "Okay, quick tour," I said, "but I really need to get home." As soon as we're in the building, he starts trying to grope me and kiss me, and I keep putting him off. Someone he knows pulls up to chat and I walk to the back storage area and find a place to hide. I hear him looking for me and I finally text him on my phone that I'll come out if he takes me home and if not, I'm calling the police. He agrees, so I come out and he finally drove me home, though he looked pissed. I blocked him on every contact I had.
We had our first date scheduled for the day after Thanksgiving. I had just gotten home from my family's gathering on Thanksgiving Eve, when he texted me and asked if he could come over and meet me that night, because he'd had a terrible day--been called into work when he was supposed to have the day off (he was the senior cook at a nice-ish restaurant) and hadn't gotten to eat any Thanksgiving food. I felt terrible, and had TONS of leftovers I'd been sent home with, and we had been chatting for weeks and had a couple of mutual friends, so I said okay. I warned him, though, that I was in my pajamas. He said that was fine. He gets there, and is a little more subdued than I expected for how our chats had gone. (He shakes my hand rather than hugging me, for example.) I offer to heat him up a plate of leftovers and he agrees. We sit down, me with a cup of tea and him with food, and he starts to eat and talks about how shit the food is and the turkey is dry and the cranberries aren't sweet enough, etc. He tells me that HIS family's food is so much better because they're Puerto Rican. Dude, I did not HAVE to share my food with you. I'm miffed. This he says, "I'm so glad you got dressed up for me." I said, "I told you I was in pajamas." Anyway, he finishes--we make stilted conversation throughout, and we go sit on the sofa to watch some television. He starts stroking my leg and suddenly goes, "Ewww, you haven't shaved your legs!" Me: "First of all, I wax, so I might be a little stubbly, but that's because I'm growing it out for my appointment. But it's definitely not long enough for an 'eww!'" Him: "No, I can feel it!" He pets my leg again, and that's when I realize he thinks the texture of my flannel pajama pants is leg hair. I started laughing and explained and he said, "No! You're just making excuses because you're unhygienic!" Yeah, I asked him politely but firmly to leave and that was that.
We met online. His pictures looked nice and he was a pharmacist. I was 30 and he said he was 35. We're meeting at a restaurant for lunch (I had now been online dating for several years and had learned my lesson.) He walks in and is CLEARLY at least 10 years older than his photos--I'd say between 47 and 50. Worse, when he smiles, his teeth are BROWN. I'm not talking "I really like coffee" brown, I'm talking, he has himself a full-blown case of dark brown, dull, mushy-looking, couple-of-missing-teeth meth mouth. I am immediately squicked, but I am a pushover, so I didn't immediately leave. We stumble through awkward conversation for 45 minutes. I have a difficult time looking at him and concentrate on my food. When the server asked if we wanted one check or two, he YELLED "TWO! We're paying separately!" Fine, no problem, even though YOU invited ME and picked the place; I never go out without enough cash to cover myself, just in case.The way he did it was just gauche. Anyway, I happen to glance over while he's filling out his slip and notice he didn't tip the server, so I leave 40%. When we get out to the pavement, he goes for a kiss and I manage to dodge him and suffer through a hug, during which he reaches down and full on grabs my arse and lifts and squeezes in front of all of the people walking by and those driving along the very busy road we're next to. Into my ear he said, "I'll see YOU later," in what I imagine he thought was a seductive voice, but all it did was waft the stench going on inside his mouth at me and I barely kept my lunch down. I immediately blocked his number and when I got home I blocked him on the dating website (prior to apps).
Again, we meet online. He has clear pictures that are time-stamped and look good. I am a very active person and I am looking for someone with a similarly active lifestyle--running, hiking, yoga, etc. That's clear on my profile. Another thing I'm explicit about on my profile is that I cannot date a smoker. Not just because I feel it's incompatible with the lifestyle I lead and would like my partner to lead with me, but because I'm allergic to tobacco and tobacco smoke makes me violently ill. In his first message, this guy describes himself as an active non-smoker who loves to hike and camp and "occasionally indulges in video games." Not a problem--I love a trashy romance novel from time to time and I wouldn't want to be judged on MY guilty pleasure. Anyway, we have a short video chat--everything looks good--and we agree to meet the next day for coffee. Again, I'm early and there when he comes in. I don't even know how to explain this guy's body; from the chest up he looks well fit. But from about the sternum down it's like...his body exploded. He's probably around 300 pounds, and it's all in his lower belly, bum, and thighs. It's like someone took the top of one guy and put it on the lower portion of another guy. Immediately I know I'm not attracted to him, but I'm not going to be a bitch and leave, so I greet him with a smile and a hug. I notice when I hug him that he smells a little smoky, but he did tell me in our chat that he has friends that smoke, so I thought he might have just come from hanging out with them. We chat, a bit awkwardly, and mostly about all of the video games that he plays (he mentions he had played for NINE HOURS already that day.) After about 30 minutes, I make my excuses. I had parked on campus and walked a few blocks, so he offered to drive me to my car. I try to beg off, but he's insistent, so I figure, "What could it hurt?" I know I won't be seeing him again. We get into his car and there are cigarette butts EVERYWHERE and the upholstery REEKS. After a couple of minutes, I'm already feeling nauseous and feeling pressure in my face. I ask him, "Is this your car?" He says, "Yes." Me: "So...are these cigarettes all yours?" Him: "Of course they are." I'm silent until we get to my car, then I just say, "Thanks," and get out. As I grab the handle of my car door, I have to lean over and be sick. He rolls down his window and asks if I need help and I tell him "NO" and wave him off. I managed to get home and get cleaned up and I blocked his number and his alias on the dating website, but I forgot he had my Facebook contact from one time we had messaged on there. A couple of days later, I had just gotten back from the doctor, where I'd been diagnosed with a sinus infection--surprise!--and given antibiotics, to find I have a FB message. I open it up, and it's actually EIGHTEEN messages over the course of about 90 minutes. They started out questioning, because he had tried to text me. When I didn't immediately respond, he started accusing me of being shallow and said, "It's because my car is old and beat up, isn't it? Gold digging wh*re!" Now, I knew going in that I made about 10 times what this guy made--I didn't care. What I cared about was that he LIED to me. I explained that in a response, let him know that I was physically ill because of his lies, and then blocked him on FB and never heard from him again.
Holy Shit so many weirdos at once and the one with his own company was the worst
@@annajansen6945 Seriously, I'm a magnet for them. I didn't even include the guy who, when the server brought the wine list, said, "Which of these wines says, 'You weren't my first choice, but I'm trying to impress you, anyway?'"
These men are why I'm still single at 36.
5:00 this sounds like one of my co-workers and if it really was her, my absolute condolences. You dodged a bullet there my guy.
Does anyone remember that trend of just randomly punching strangers in the head? Because my tinder match was hella happy about his role in that. He joined the trend and punched several strangers causing 2 women to die (which i found out later) and 5 people to be paralysed to some degree and 3 men with broken neck/collar bones. He thought it was hilarious to hurt people. Showed me videos his friend took. I kept my cool and tried not to vomit while hearing the cracking of their bones. I happily told him "omg! Thats gold bro! Can you send that to me?" After that date i went to the police and gave them his info. Theyve been looking for him because he murdered 2 women. They had both murders on video and along with the other videos it was a pretty cut and dry case. Hes in a psych ward because he shows no remorse for killing and causing permanent damage.
That’s unbelievably horrifying. Thank you for taking action!!!
that second one I would have thrown my food at him
That one seriously wound me up. 😡
Holy shit! The second one!! I used to work with a guy like that and he even went around to everyone saying he was purposely trying to rile me up. It got to a point that just the sight of him pissed me off. And then, out of the blue, he asked me out!!! 😂 I had fun bluntly turning him down and watching him get annoyed. The tosser.
1:33 is the exact thing my ex used to do to me. it made me feel very uncomfortable and anxious and he only stopped when i got more assertive. but he wouldn’t stop when i kept saying no.
The guy I had a bad date with was arrested on the news 3 days ago. He was a police officer and they literally cut the uniform off of him as they detained him.
He beat a woman bloody and it was caught on a Ring doorbell cam
The first time we met he held me captive and threatened my safety. He told me about "worthless minorities" he would harass and that he was on desk duty because of "some lying whore". He asked me if I had ever been with a n**** and asked if they have a "smell" and all kinds of terrible stuff. The conversation hurt my soul. I told him no and idk what he was talking about. He kept pestering me and would get mad if I didn't answer his ignorant racist questions. He literally interrogated me with fear and rape😫 He was bad news and after I got out of his house, I never looked back.
He sounds like a psychopath! 😨
i live in kansas city, met him at a dance in lawrence, he lived in topeka. he seemed nice. he called the next evening, wanted to come to k.c. and take me out for dinner. we both ordered lasagna, the cheapest thing on the menu, at $9.00. when the check came, he screamed, "$18 dollars ! $18 dollars !", so loudly that everyone in the place was staring at him. back at my place, he took a small suitcase out of his car. "what's that ?" i asked. he answered, "my shaving gear and clean underwear." i told him to put it back in the car. he said, "surely you don't expect me to drive back to topeka tonight ?" i told him he could get a hotel room, drive home, or go to hell. a few months later, he was at a different dance, and asked my friend to dance with him. as they danced, he asked her, " how many damn kids do you have ?" she told him, " five." he said, " you know, you could have done something to prevent it." we all referred to him as "the toad." my apologies to those innocent little reptiles.
Maybe not horrible, but he got super upset I met him in person with my family the first time, and was like, "what, you don't trust me?" Nice red flags there
Maybe he's planning to do something that's why he was alarmed by the presence of the family.
No that’s horrible
@@nickaiser5231 Could be, glad I dodged that bullet
@@jessicah3782 you're right
nah. i'd be super weirded out if someone showed up on our first date with their family too. a friend or sibling in the background is understandable but what you did is weird.
He stole my debit card and told me i could only get it back if we went on another date (after i had cut things off because he kept touching me and kissing me when i said stop). Not to mention the 1st date, he picked me up and as soon as i sat down, he grabbed my face and kissed me. Not even a hello, just kissed me, basically a stranger. Shouldve cut things off there but felt bad and gave him 2 more dates that he once again blew. And btw i did get my debit card back after threatening him 😂
Fax
I was in a new city. Matched with a guy on tinder. He asked me out for a drink. As I was new to the city I got lost and couldn’t find the bar. He came to get me and shouted at me. Then he told me about how his sound system had woken the neighbour’s (2 floors up) baby; and “I don’t care about them.”
I had my sister call me and fake a family emergency and nope the hell out of there.
Ah yes, Billiam Eyelash
9:48 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
There is sooo much "oh hell no!" In this.
2:55 - 3:05 is Mac from Always Sunny
I had just left a 13 year off again on again relationship. I went out with a customer from work. Seemed pretty nice enough. We agree to meet at an Italian resteraunt. As soon as i say hi and we start walking to the resteraunt he puts his arm around me and pulls me REAL close. I said uh.. EXCUSE me??? We just met dude. He said what's the problem? You ashamed of me? Im not of YOU. Red flag number 1.
We order some drinks and a pizza. He IMMEDIATELY starts babbling how great a lover he is and asks to hold my hand. Im SERIOUSLY socially awkward at this time and was like uh...sure.
Red flag 2.
All he'd talk about were his ex wives and how great a lover he was. After he ate he picked his teeth then his nose right at the table. We were sitting by a table of good looking firemen. Im a big girl and not considered pretty at all (oh yes, he mentioned that as well. Said he didn't mind ugly women since he was out with me to prove it) but the guys at that table looked at me with genuine sympathy at me with this guy.
I'm done.
I left fast after dinner. I haven't had a date since. It's been 4 years.I win.😭
My cousin had a bf who burnt Mac and cheese
HOW DARE?
*calls priest*
3:42 This makes me want to barf.
Edit: Nevermind, there is one that is even worse.
Dare you to take my plate away and we're in seeeeerious trouble😠
8:26 😂😂😂
1:00 - Did you stab this person in the face?
Going out with a person emotionally unavailable in every way. Im lonely when I speak to them. They wouldn't be a friend really. They are never interested. They have mental health issues but I realised a relationship was not possible. It did damage, I'm going to wait and see what happens. I needed to give dating more time. Rebound relationship.
Ive dated a guy who didnt want to touch me (in a sense of hold hands and kiss) since ive been with other dudes and i was ruined. Im surprised he got that far with me but it lasted less than 2 weeks
Glad you got out of that awful relationship
She made eye contact before marriage. That is a sin.
When she told me (at the time a lesbian) that her uncle who brought her to the restaurant is extremely homophobic and would be mad if he saw us… or the part where she told me her ex girlfriend was in jail for killing a girl over her?
When he yelled @ the host outside the restaurant after we waited for about 2 min then demanded to be seated after she let him know the reservation he placed wasn’t for another hour and they were trying to get a table anyway which is why we were waiting.
Did the TTS 'bot just use sarcasm? "conSENsual." That's awesome, he is even snarkier than usual.
Oh God, the brother who killed a girl and got away with it is so fucked up.
2:03; What the hell does she mean 'even'? Homosexual relationships have an alarmingly high rate of domestic abuse, it's not out of the ordinary.
The guy who acted jealous of the girl who had a 30 year old stalker masturbate outside her window reminds of Mac from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. The one where he finds out his childhood priest molested everyone but him.
I like to rearrange people’s lawn ornaments it makes the so confused and it hilarious either that or move something like an inch intermittently it’s so funny the way they don’t notice but when they do the just except that that’s where it was
When she still hits me up after 2 years 😩
3:49 You mean racist, a xenophobe is someone who discriminates against foreigners .
I'm glad my dad taught me to always have cab money.
I went on a date with this guy I had met through friends. He picked me up and I went over to his house to watch football. He got so drunk and thought he was funny and he wasn't. A neighbor came over and invited him and I to watch two girls have sex but we had to pay for it. I declined. I called a cab and he was so mad that I was leaving and he thought I was going to spend the night. As I'm trying to leave he's at the cab window crying that he's never going to see me again and the stupid cab driver tells me to give the guy a chance. I told him to just drive.
I was slipped some G at the bar before meeting a chick. Passed out in her bathroom and was woke up by the ambulance. I don't if I feel bad or am embarrassed.
I actually kind of appreciate the grammar lesson
A girl that talks and talks and talks non stop?
*Pffft sounds like my sister!*
She may have been a compulsive talker, which is a real psychological disorder. Had the misfortune to work with one. She literally couldn't stop
Karl Zaunbrecher 😟 oh shi-
Mia Smith my parents would know if she had Autism but thank you
When he treated the waitress like crap
16:26 *I don’t understand what this breakdown means?!?!* A lot of people agreed with them because they have over 300 karma “likes”on their reply, so obviously people know what they mean but I’m sleepy and can’t figure it out for the life of me!!!!
The person was correcting the other poster’s grammar. The poster had said a guy “tried to grope her (during a murder scene nonetheless)” meaning that that was the worst possible time that he could have done that. However, “nonetheless” means “at least,” so it seemed like they were saying “at least he groped me during a murder scene.” What they meant to say was “no less,” meaning that the situation was made even worse by the fact that they were being groped during a murder scene.
Some of these weird people are worse than others and so many racist people on a video, must be many more out there, disgusting people to be like that! 😡
Watched this to see if I was one of the bad dates, I have horrible luck with women lol. Luckily I've never done anything close to these so the mystery of why Tony's single remains.
Do you clean your fingernails with the tines of your fork?
@@MaggieTheCat01 no, should I? Would it be better to use hers?
@@MaggieTheCat01 and please tell me you don't know someone that did that.
Do you pick food from your teeth and have another go at eating it? (I’m trying to unravel this Why-Tony’s-Still-Single mystery. 😉)
Tell us about some of your dates and let us decide? lol
When she broke up with me because i didn’t like BTS
So I show up at the restaurant, looking nice and stuff we get too talking it’s going great Then the waiter brings the food out and remind you he ordered a lobster . The lobster comes out then he notices the lobster missing a leg and it’s the tiny little legs yk? Tell me why this man starts cussing out the waiter for ripping the leg off which that poor waiter didn’t have a clue what to do at the moment, but obviously maybe something just happened to the leg so then the waiter is seriously just standing there I’m already in shock enough the fact this guy is really mad about a tiny leg on a lobster ?? I ended up leaving and we didn’t talk after. I hope he’s doing good now .
THIS DIDNT HAPPENNN IM BOREDDDD MBB , anyways get right Jesus it’s never to late he truly will heal your pain and anything your going threw truthfully he loves you so much it’s not religion it’s relationship💕
You fool; I AM the bad guy!......duh!
Doo Doo doodoodoodoodoo
I was on a date at a nice restaurant with a girl once. I cut off a piece of chicken, but when I started to eat it I realized it might be too big of a bite, so I just bit off part of it instead of putting the whole thing in my mouth.
She instantly froze, and I couldn't tell if she was having a petite mal seizure, a stroke or what. This lasted for about a minute, and I was getting concerned, and freaked out because she wouldn't stop staring at me, so I asked her if she was OK. After some hesitation, and my repeating the question, she finally replied "I can't believe you did that..." in the most sobering, ominous tone. I was so confused about the situation, but she finally revealed that she could not believe that I ate off my fork...
I found out that she suffered from severe depression as well and nothing I did could really make her happy. Didn't last long at all.
duh
Two words: too late.
I’m not going to share mine.
K
Now my interest is piqued. Go on, tell us.
I dont see the problem with the word female. When I was in the army that's what we called them males and females
I don't get it, either. And I am one!
It's usually how incels refer to women and is a HUGE red flag
Because the proper term is "bitches". Do you understand now?
Oh, and it might have something to do with neckbeards using "female" as a derogatory term.
Is it bad I had to look up neckbeard. I never heard that before besides the actual neckbeard like with hair
@@ezio_Winchester I had to look it up myself only a few months ago. Now, it's become a part of my everyday vocabulary.
7:40 is unquestionably fake
WTF is wrong with people?!
6:20 did you censor stupid or am I just illiterate
Slutty is the word.
Better than Nice Guy
Plenty of fish is the bottom of the barrel
The thumbnail says "Dating A Bad Guy" but that person looks an awful lot like Billie Eilish. Pretty sure Miss Eilish is a young lady, and if so, that's not very nice!
Oh man... this is adorable. Billie Eilish has a song called Bad Guy, in which one of the lines is "but I'm the bad guy." The uploader is not calling Eilish a man, they're making a reference.
RG Dreams Whoosh
Why is the thumbnail Billy Ellis. Doesn’t seem like a bad guy.
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As soon as the she announces that she is vegan.
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Cmon guys were gonna go see who tf asked
Am I the only 1 who finds the term ‘noped’ rly fucking annoying..?
People saying "rly fucking annoying" is annoying
7:55
So the guy gets physically assaulted and is a victim of domestic abuse in public, and there's a cheering crowd, and he's the bad guy?
He took the wive's car who was at work and left his children at home alone to go on a date...
ah, female fantasy time. funny.