Jen is the best partner to clean the closet. “Get rid of that you never wore it” “Those are stupid “ “Did you ever wore this? You don’t like it!” “It’s hard but I am glad you are doing it”
Yes, I'm a straight size but it's okay to be bigger or smaller and get rid of what you don't fit anymore. Our bodies change over time so why not change up your clothes with it? Sometimes I gain fat and sometimes it's muscle but every time I outgrow my clothes. It's normal.
I don’t see any comments about this: but I’m so happy for Kristen for overcoming the emotional difficulties that came with the clean out. What an absolute inspiration!
Yes! As a fellow recovering hoarder with OCD this has motivated me to actually do a cleanout and reminded me to definitely not do it alone. Good job Kristin!
Yes! I love watching the tv show about it because I like seeing them succeed in getting rid of things on their own. It's really hard when you have a compulsive disorder. My sister last year cleaned out her closet after hoarding stuff and I was so proud of her. Her depression was really bad but cleaning up made her feel better.
I’m trying to get rid of stuff but I just...... I have not been tested for ocd but everyone I know thinks I have it, and also I have anxiety so when ever I even think about never seeing something again I like start having a mental breakdown and I just cannot function and get rid of ANYTHING!!!!!! I love everything I have and I strategically but stuff that I know I’ll love and get joy from but also I’m great at getting stuff for cheap so I have so much stuff! Like not to brag but usually people get one shirt for 20 dollars but I’ve gotten 20 shirts for $20. It’s a big problem. Got any tips for how to not have so much but somehow not have to get rid of it?
When getting rid of clothes, I think it's important to have someone there who understands you as support. I really love how Jen is there supporting what Kristin wants to keep, but also reminding her that even if something fits, if she doesn't love it, then she shouldn't keep it. It was a great example of how you can help with this kind of decluttering!
I totally agree. K&J have made me want to tackle my closet. I hate that I can barely fit stuff in it but I have a really hard time parting with clothes especially when they're t shirts from sentimental events. I need a Jen to help me!
I think I needed to see someone just casually being like “yup this doesn’t fit goodbye” because I feel so guilty getting rid of clothes I’ve hardly worn that just don’t fit. I’ve been recovering from being at an unhealthily low weight for years and I’m now struggling one to get rid of things but also to get things that actually fit...especially because I’m semi plus size now? A lot of normal sizes don’t fit me, but I think I’m a little bit smaller than Kristen so I don’t know what’s going on. I’ve been wearing my partners sweat pants since we started college because I straight up don’t own pants that fit me and don’t know how to go shopping and get more without getting super triggered by sizes.
For the getting triggered by sizes thing, this may or may not work depending on what’s close to you, but shopping at flea markets or thrift shops that don’t really label sizes is really nice! It not only avoids the triggering sizes but also sizes don’t uniformly match to different across brands or bodies, so I find it really refreshing. Again though, depends on availability near you!
@@deenam2567 thank you for the suggestion I really appreciate it 🥺💜 I’m trying to mentally prepare myself for buying “summer clothes” and I feel very fortunate that my partner is so supportive and kind around these things. I hope we have some luck at the second hand stores near us.
I completely understand the size fear. I've fluctuated between 230-290 over the years, and my weight can change rapidly over the span of a few weeks. The thrift idea is great, but I know that the plus options in my local thrift stores aren't great. The thing that has helped me is actually finding stores or brands that have forgiving sizing. Usually at Walmart I can fit a XL or 2XL, I don't think I ever need a 3XL, unless I am looking for something very over sized. Where are Target, I could not find a single item of clothing that fit me. Not an XL or a 2XL, and they did not carry anything bigger then that. So even though I don't think of my self as that big, I felt humongous. I actually recommend online shopping over store shopping. Take you measurements, and read the size chart and all of the reviews, and usually things will fit. I find this takes a lot of the pressure off, since you aren't getting stuck in to tight clothing, or feeling judged by sale associates, or getting overheated and overwhelmed in the fitting room. Over time you find what brands and styles work best for you body type. And you will also see that, especially in women's clothing, the number means nothing. I am anywhere from an 20-24 a XL-3XL depending on brand, cut, and desired fit, lol. Just as long as the clothes bring you joy, that is all that matters. 💜
You might find some success with more inclusive brands like Universal Standard. They have great basics to help you build your wardrobe. In the descriptions of the clothing item you can see a model for each size offered so you find a model with a body shape like yours to help you find the correct size. The items are a bit spendy, but wash really well and last for a long time.
If it's within your budget, I've found a lot of success with style boxes (especially plus-size specific ones like Dia&Co). I think it's less triggering for me because I only had to put my sizes/measurements on my profile at the beginning of my membership. I don't even have to look at or think about the sizes on the clothes I get, I just try them on.
Honestly so impressed seeing Kristin so in charge and ready to make decisions about getting rid of emotionally-significant objects, I also struggle and the level of empowerment displayed was significant. Jen was a very supportive body double, excellent content y'all
I recently gained a lot of weight due to antidepressants and going through my closet just makes me cry. Now I kinda feel like it can be a cute trip down memory lane! If it doesn’t fit, toss it. Thanks Kristin and Jen ❤️ and I’m always so happy to see Brie!
You should do what Marie Kondo does, thank the clothes for the memories and how they made you feel. It might make you feel better. And those clothes might make someone else feel great too, continuing the cycle
In case that didn't work: You could start with putting them in a box, and if they fit you and you still like them in a year you keep them. If that is not the case, it is easier to get rid of them that way and until then they won't make you feel bad.
Me too girl.. Antidepressants and i just had a baby... I used to be TINY, had such a nice body..ugh. .. So sad. 😥😞 now im covered in stretch marks that go up my ENTIRE ribs.. I literally look like i got mauled by a tiger. Just always remember youre lovely and gorgeous and beautiful and i love u 💕😊
When Kristen said that clothes should serve you I wanted to cry. I gained weight on an anti-depressant this year and I have gender dysphoria, so when clothes don't fit right, I take it so personally. I didn't realize that I was being so hard on myself.
I outgrew a lot of my clothes a few years ago and I finally got rid of them because I realized I never wore them AND they made me feel bad. Now I have clothes that fit properly and it makes me feel so much better. Also I LOVE those purple shorts!!
I need to learn from you guys, I always have this mindset that "Oh, I'll get skinny again, and wil fit into it again" and will never get rid of ill-fitting clothes. I guess having somebody with you while getting rid of your stuff also helps cause they kind of keeps you in check
I also think that if you were to make a lifestyle change and lose weight, then youd want brand new clothes! The older ones would probably sit in the closet.
We all could use a Jen to tell us to let go of things, she's so blunt and honest and that's exactly what you need! Also I totally get it and agree with Kristen, Lavender is absolutely a spring neutral! 😊💖
from one plus sized gal to another, i really appreciate you saying “if you outgrow your clothes, for whatever reason, it’s ok to get rid of them” 🥺💖 there’s such a guilt for me about giving away clothes that once used to fit me so it’s nice to hear it come from someone mostly separated from my path of life. keep up the great work you lot!
I have OCD Hoarding Instincts and the thing I realized about holding onto clothes that don’t fit is that by keeping them I’m depriving myself of the opportunity to buy new clothes if I shapechange again.
@@nadined8558 I think she does because she confirmed she is a hoarder. She also has trouble with organizing things. OCD and hoarding often go together. She at least has compulsions.
I’m watching their old videos and I have to say they’re friendship is so perfect during the video Kristen was judging herself when she wanted to keep stuff and Jen was so supportive “keep it if you like it, it’s your closet” I can tell Jen helps Kristen’s overthinking sm ❤️true platonic soulmates
Kristen has so many amazing dresses. I've recently started buying more casual ones for everyday wear and I think seeing Kristen wearing them so often helped normalize it for me. Used to think dresses of any kind were too fancy for everyday
Just me, sitting here watching someone else clean out their closet on youtube instead of cleaning out my own. Now I see why my kid watches other kids play with toys on TH-cam.
I've just recently joined the plus size community. I've been having a lot of issues about my weight but seeing Kristin being so body positive makes me feel good about my bigger body. I just want to let you know that you are an inspiration to plus sized teens and young women everywhere ❤
One of the most helpful things I've done for getting rid of clothes is start going to/hosting clothing swaps. Not as much of an option right *now* but pre-panini my friends and I would all take turns hosting. We'd a safe place where people can drop off their things and rummage through piles, trying things on in real time like one big changing room. We always have designated bathrooms/bedrooms for private changing, of course, but most of us just change on the fly as we find things we like because it allows everyone to showcase the items there and hype each other up and find things we think would look great on one another. It can be really hard to get rid of something you love but never/can't wear (especially really expensive pieces or costume/art pieces), but seeing somebody put on something you once loved and they just look bangin' in it and everyone is telling them how good it looks on them is just the best feeling. Then at the end of it, generally the last few people divide up the unclaimed things to distribute to women's shelters. It has been immensely helpful for me and my relationship with clothing, and as a bonus, it SIGNIFICANTLY cut down on my fast fashion purchases over the last few years!
the timing on this is perfect 😭 i also struggle with holding onto clothes for too long and just two days ago began to do the damn thing and clean out things that no longer fit. i am so proud of all of us!!!!!!!!!
I have been meaning to sort through my clothes and get rid of some things, and I think this video has convinced me that its time. I love that Kristen looks at each item with practicality in mind, but also with emotional attachment in mind as well, and that its okay to get rid of something that you've had for a long time but it just doesn't fit well anymore, physically OR emotionally. Thank you Kristen, I'll be keeping you and this video in mind during my closet clean out!
Genuine question, has anyone shown Brie the curlygirl subreddit?!? Her curls have a great pattern and I think she'd really benefit from a couple of the tips there
Having a friend to talk you through things when donating clothes is incredibly helpful! My sister served as my Jen, and I honestly couldn't have done it without her.
Just watched this twice in a row as moral support while sorting out clothes that don't fit anymore. What a healthy + constructive parasocial relationship 💕✨
Something that always helps me when cleaning out my wardrobe is thinking- ‘I’m not enjoying this anymore, so it should go to someone who WILL enjoy it’. Thanks for normalising getting rid of clothes that no longer serve you!
This was so therapeutic for me to watch for some reason also love spreading the message of getting rid of clothes if they don't fit cause I find myself saving clothes in hope they'll fit again
This is literally the FIRST TIME I have seen someone who also has OCD with hoarding that isn't about shaming them!!!!! I have ADHD too and I feel so dang seen and not alone.
Clothes should serve you! Absolutely. As someone recovered from a severe eating disorder I have to remind myself of that all that time. Love these ladies.
honestly amazing how you can do this in just a few hours, i struggle to even clean up my room and it takes me a couple weeks! this video actually inspired me to start cleaning my room and sticking to it! I love you Kristin & Jen, y'all inspire me to do better
Anybody else look at what she is getting rid of and saying "I want that one, and that one, and that one?" Also, Kristin I checked out the place in Seattle when I was in the area. Really nice! Got some great things!
Ok, confession: I’ve watched this video like 3 times since it came out Friday. I don’t know what it is about this video in particular, but it’s rewatch ability is like unbelievable!!
I struggle with holding on to clothes that don't fit, cause I still have that toxic mindset of "maybe when I lose weight..." As a compromise, I got a bunch of those vacuum seal storage bags to tuck the too small things I don't want to part with out of sight. Feels better than having to greet those items everyday in the closet
cleaning out clothes you have outgrown always feels shitty, however i would love to go to wherever kristen donates her clothes because she has an amazing fashion sense
I'm doing a closet clean out in two days and I also have diagnosed OCD and a really hard time letting go of my beloved clothes. The timing of this video is perfect, thank you both for giving me the push I need!❤
@@maxclips3152 it's been fun learning about this brain I have. I wish I wasn't 30 when I found out but as least I can still take advantage and do life through a new filter.
I need to know where she shops. I’m not her size but I love seeing inclusive sized brands and supporting them. I’m always in between straight sizes and plus sizes
I love clearing out/purging videos! This was fantastic. Having done KonMarie, one thing I recommend from it for any clearing out is to thank the item when you get rid of it. I find that it helps to relive some of the negative emotions from getting rid of things.
It’s absolutely precious that Jen can look at Kristin holding a piece of clothing and say you don’t like this, or you love that keep it. She knows Kristin so well.
this video was really motivating for me to go through my closet and purge things i don’t wear! also kirsten your style is just Gorgeous across the board i’m obsessed !
A tip I picked up from outgrowing my wardrobe twice during the pandemic: if you outgrow an item you absolutely love and can't bear to part with, try finding it in your new size on poshmark, de pop, ebay, etc. I was able to replace three of my favorite items even though they were no longer in stores.
I don't know if someone in the comments has talked about it yet but something that helps me more easily get rid of clothes, with hanging clothes anyways, is at the beginning of the year face the hangers with the hook side facing inward and when I wear something once I've washed and hung it back in the closet hang it hook side out then any clothes on hangers that haven't been turned with in the year I get rid of because if I don't wear it in a year I don't really need it
Lol it just goes from one side of the closet to the other. I think Brie has such a huge perk in her wife having such amazing style! Excellent hand-me-downs 😆
This was super therapeutic for me to watch because i’ve gained a lot more weight since covid started and i was already big to begin with so it’s been hard. I recently also went through a LOT of clothes i hung onto and am in the process of buying new stuff that fit me better. What Kristin said about getting rid of clothes to buy bigger ones really resonates with me.
Kristin I love how you know your style and you’ll wear whatever you want! I’m a big girl as well and I struggle wearing anything but jeans, capris, jean shorts and tee shirts with flip flops. I’m 30 and I’ve always been like this... I can count on my fingers how many times I’ve worn a dress in the last ten years and I don’t own skirts. I admire you so much for just being you! I only shop at torrid, Ross, and some small stores because idk where to get cute plus size clothes that aren’t freaking crop tops or super mature looking ! I just went through my closest recently and got rid of 3 contractor bags worth of clothes that I’ve gotten between high school and now. This video makes me want to dress better!
I've been saying that I need to clean out closet for so long, and the way Kristen does this inspired me to actually do it. The clothes serve me, I do not serve my clothes!
Brie looks so cute in that pink trench coat!! Pink really suits her! I’m so proud of Kristen for getting rid of clothes. I know how hard it is to get rid of stuff. Also I agree lavender is a neutral.
Dang!! Didn't know this channel existed. This video is so freaking cute and these comments are so motivating and just like, total sisterhood vibes!!! Love it!!! Glad to have found this section of the tube ❤️🤩💕
I'm proud of you for doing the thing. So much room for activities! Kinda jealous that I don't live in a place with lots of pretty plus size clothes, or stylish plus size clothing owners who are cleaning out their closet and donating to local thrift stores ;) I definitely don't buy clothes on sale when I feel sad, and then make myself feel worse because the clothes don't fit me properly or emphasise my apron belly that I can't yeet. I've been trying to sew my own clothes so that I can choose my own fun fabrics, have something that fits properly, and I can have pockets and other nice things. Making clothes is hard though, trying to make a pattern from an existing shirt that fits me well nearly melted my brain, because darts. Then I over-compensated with adding extra length onto everything, so the darts didn't sit where they should and that shirt looks weird. But I will try again, in time.
I was searching for this comment! Was thinking the same thing the whole video!! I wish I lived close enough to shop at the store she's planning to donate to, I'd wear any of it
This makes me realize I need to either clean out my closet of things that don't fit and buy new things or try working out a little to fit into them again, and tbh I'm probably gonna at least try the cheaper option first /v\
Everyone should have a supportive and kind friend like Jen when going through their closet. Especially when you are the type to put so much emotion into clothes
I'm so glad you guys made this video! Especially so because Kristen has so many nice clothes and especially seeing her get rid of items she loves but she knows do not fit anymore. Helps me feel less guilty about when I do it!
Serious question for kristin: how do you wear dresses without chafing? I want to wear more dresses and shorts but my thighs say no. (also tell brie she looks stunning in that coat!)
I wear lots of skirts and dresses, and my solution is: deodorant! A few swipes on each leg really helps me. (I also use a combo antiperspirant which helps me keep that "swampy" feeling away.) I hope you find a solution that works for you!
Kristin, can you please do a video about your favorite wrap dresses and where you get them? Wrap dresses are my absolute favorite, but I can never seem to find nice ones, and every one in the thrift store is a "faux" wrap dress. (I found a REAL wrap dress in my size at the thrift store today and almost cried tears of joy.)
I've always said I was a collector, not a hoarder. OCD certainly didn't seem to describe my behavior, & neither did the specials on TV about hoarding. Over the years I've had 3 careers & they all came w stuff. All of which was tax deductible so I had reasons... THANK YOU, Kristen, for saying this so clearly & most especially, being so honest. I believe I've much more clarity about what I've been doing & how to move forward. And kudos to Jen for being supportive w/o being either bossy or co-dependent, demonstrating real support & friendship. You are great people.
we can't count, is what we're all learning here
Okay but can anyone really? because i also find myself messing up more often then not
Clean up is better hehe 🥰🥰
I think we already learned that from the Trader Joe’s videos
It’s ok, math is hard
😂😂😂
Jen is the best partner to clean the closet.
“Get rid of that you never wore it”
“Those are stupid “
“Did you ever wore this? You don’t like it!”
“It’s hard but I am glad you are doing it”
Yes!!! We all need a Jen in our lives!
Yes, and also telling Kristin to keep stuff she loves. Making her feel safe and assured that she is not being pressured.
@@marljusweety yesssss!!!!
I desperately need her to come help me!
Yesss I need some desperate help with my closet😂
I love Kristin's style and I love that this video normalizes getting rid of clothes that don't fit you anymore.
I love her style! I need like all of her stuff
Okay also like 100% of my Forever 21 clothes totally don't fit me anymore either LOL everything else has held up except those! xD
Seriously it makes me wanna go through my closet and try everything on
I always feel so shameful when I say something doesn’t fit. She made me feel so much better about the idea that bodies change
Yes, I'm a straight size but it's okay to be bigger or smaller and get rid of what you don't fit anymore. Our bodies change over time so why not change up your clothes with it? Sometimes I gain fat and sometimes it's muscle but every time I outgrow my clothes. It's normal.
I don’t see any comments about this: but I’m so happy for Kristen for overcoming the emotional difficulties that came with the clean out. What an absolute inspiration!
Yes! As a fellow recovering hoarder with OCD this has motivated me to actually do a cleanout and reminded me to definitely not do it alone. Good job Kristin!
@@archivalsystem congratulations on your recovery!
Yes! I love watching the tv show about it because I like seeing them succeed in getting rid of things on their own. It's really hard when you have a compulsive disorder. My sister last year cleaned out her closet after hoarding stuff and I was so proud of her. Her depression was really bad but cleaning up made her feel better.
Absolutely! I’m the same way (I don’t have OCD) but I’m kind of a hoarder and I attach sentiment to my things!
I’m trying to get rid of stuff but I just...... I have not been tested for ocd but everyone I know thinks I have it, and also I have anxiety so when ever I even think about never seeing something again I like start having a mental breakdown and I just cannot function and get rid of ANYTHING!!!!!! I love everything I have and I strategically but stuff that I know I’ll love and get joy from but also I’m great at getting stuff for cheap so I have so much stuff! Like not to brag but usually people get one shirt for 20 dollars but I’ve gotten 20 shirts for $20. It’s a big problem. Got any tips for how to not have so much but somehow not have to get rid of it?
When getting rid of clothes, I think it's important to have someone there who understands you as support. I really love how Jen is there supporting what Kristin wants to keep, but also reminding her that even if something fits, if she doesn't love it, then she shouldn't keep it. It was a great example of how you can help with this kind of decluttering!
Honestly I'm the same as Kristen, I keep things even though I have never worn it
It makes it so much easier when you have someone reminding you, it's ok to let it go.
I more need the emotional support for my mental breakdown at having to make multiple decisions.
I totally agree. K&J have made me want to tackle my closet. I hate that I can barely fit stuff in it but I have a really hard time parting with clothes especially when they're t shirts from sentimental events. I need a Jen to help me!
@@haileyr5313 make them into a blanket or throw cushions
Just came to the relisation this is the one episode kristen and jen actually go back in the closet😂 🏳️🌈
I couldn't believe they didnt make any jokes about this! I was thinking the same thing
I didn't even think about that while watching lol
Brie secretly just wanting Kristen to dig into her closet to see what she'll borrow lol
Who's Brie?sorry haven't watched Kristin's videos in ages
@@tatianafraserABrie is Kristen's transgender wife
@@thatonegirljayna thank you! Now I feel bad for asking, but I'm Happy if she's living a happy life now.
"ive decided lavender is neutral for spring. i will not be taking questions"
thats some good, relatable content right there
Now we need a tour of Jen’s closet 👀👀👀
Yes!!
It's just all shorts and t-shirts XD
It's just Umbro shorts and fancy pocket knives.
I think I needed to see someone just casually being like “yup this doesn’t fit goodbye” because I feel so guilty getting rid of clothes I’ve hardly worn that just don’t fit. I’ve been recovering from being at an unhealthily low weight for years and I’m now struggling one to get rid of things but also to get things that actually fit...especially because I’m semi plus size now? A lot of normal sizes don’t fit me, but I think I’m a little bit smaller than Kristen so I don’t know what’s going on. I’ve been wearing my partners sweat pants since we started college because I straight up don’t own pants that fit me and don’t know how to go shopping and get more without getting super triggered by sizes.
For the getting triggered by sizes thing, this may or may not work depending on what’s close to you, but shopping at flea markets or thrift shops that don’t really label sizes is really nice! It not only avoids the triggering sizes but also sizes don’t uniformly match to different across brands or bodies, so I find it really refreshing. Again though, depends on availability near you!
@@deenam2567 thank you for the suggestion I really appreciate it 🥺💜 I’m trying to mentally prepare myself for buying “summer clothes” and I feel very fortunate that my partner is so supportive and kind around these things. I hope we have some luck at the second hand stores near us.
I completely understand the size fear. I've fluctuated between 230-290 over the years, and my weight can change rapidly over the span of a few weeks. The thrift idea is great, but I know that the plus options in my local thrift stores aren't great. The thing that has helped me is actually finding stores or brands that have forgiving sizing. Usually at Walmart I can fit a XL or 2XL, I don't think I ever need a 3XL, unless I am looking for something very over sized. Where are Target, I could not find a single item of clothing that fit me. Not an XL or a 2XL, and they did not carry anything bigger then that. So even though I don't think of my self as that big, I felt humongous. I actually recommend online shopping over store shopping. Take you measurements, and read the size chart and all of the reviews, and usually things will fit. I find this takes a lot of the pressure off, since you aren't getting stuck in to tight clothing, or feeling judged by sale associates, or getting overheated and overwhelmed in the fitting room. Over time you find what brands and styles work best for you body type. And you will also see that, especially in women's clothing, the number means nothing. I am anywhere from an 20-24 a XL-3XL depending on brand, cut, and desired fit, lol. Just as long as the clothes bring you joy, that is all that matters. 💜
You might find some success with more inclusive brands like Universal Standard. They have great basics to help you build your wardrobe. In the descriptions of the clothing item you can see a model for each size offered so you find a model with a body shape like yours to help you find the correct size. The items are a bit spendy, but wash really well and last for a long time.
If it's within your budget, I've found a lot of success with style boxes (especially plus-size specific ones like Dia&Co). I think it's less triggering for me because I only had to put my sizes/measurements on my profile at the beginning of my membership. I don't even have to look at or think about the sizes on the clothes I get, I just try them on.
Honestly so impressed seeing Kristin so in charge and ready to make decisions about getting rid of emotionally-significant objects, I also struggle and the level of empowerment displayed was significant. Jen was a very supportive body double, excellent content y'all
Kristen *clearly hates dress*
Kristen: it might fit me now though
Jen: ...but you don't like it...
Kristen: *throws dress away*
I love Jen’s enthusiastic grin when making bedroom jokes. She’s somehow wholesome while being sexual. It’s a gift.
I recently gained a lot of weight due to antidepressants and going through my closet just makes me cry. Now I kinda feel like it can be a cute trip down memory lane! If it doesn’t fit, toss it. Thanks Kristin and Jen ❤️ and I’m always so happy to see Brie!
You should do what Marie Kondo does, thank the clothes for the memories and how they made you feel. It might make you feel better. And those clothes might make someone else feel great too, continuing the cycle
In case that didn't work: You could start with putting them in a box, and if they fit you and you still like them in a year you keep them. If that is not the case, it is easier to get rid of them that way and until then they won't make you feel bad.
Me too girl.. Antidepressants and i just had a baby... I used to be TINY, had such a nice body..ugh. .. So sad. 😥😞 now im covered in stretch marks that go up my ENTIRE ribs.. I literally look like i got mauled by a tiger. Just always remember youre lovely and gorgeous and beautiful and i love u 💕😊
When Kristen said that clothes should serve you I wanted to cry. I gained weight on an anti-depressant this year and I have gender dysphoria, so when clothes don't fit right, I take it so personally. I didn't realize that I was being so hard on myself.
Sending you love. I hope you find clothes that make you feel amazing and fit comfortably
I'm sorry but Jen saying "dentist" when meaning "cheerleader" is such a mood.
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me everyday of my life
Can we just appreciate how pretty that coat was on Brie??? *chef kiss*
YES! I was so happy that she liked the coat bc it's so cute!
It gave me rich ceo vibes
I was thinking the same thing! It looks so cute on her. ^ rich ceo or quirky librarian vibes
I saw the pink coat and thought, “Brie would look cute in that” and, boom! Brie looked so cute in it!
Right? I remember thinking it went really well with Brie's fair skin tone and dark curls. So pretty!
I’ve missed a lot, could someone tell me who Brie is?
@@Anastasia-1123 Brie is Kristin's wife!
@@noranest awwww!!!! Thank you for letting me know ☺️
@@Anastasia-1123 no problem!
I LOVE that Jen said, “I don’t live here, your closet can be wild.” That’s a lovely soul there.
I outgrew a lot of my clothes a few years ago and I finally got rid of them because I realized I never wore them AND they made me feel bad. Now I have clothes that fit properly and it makes me feel so much better. Also I LOVE those purple shorts!!
I need to learn from you guys, I always have this mindset that "Oh, I'll get skinny again, and wil fit into it again" and will never get rid of ill-fitting clothes. I guess having somebody with you while getting rid of your stuff also helps cause they kind of keeps you in check
I also think that if you were to make a lifestyle change and lose weight, then youd want brand new clothes! The older ones would probably sit in the closet.
We all could use a Jen to tell us to let go of things, she's so blunt and honest and that's exactly what you need! Also I totally get it and agree with Kristen, Lavender is absolutely a spring neutral! 😊💖
from one plus sized gal to another, i really appreciate you saying “if you outgrow your clothes, for whatever reason, it’s ok to get rid of them” 🥺💖 there’s such a guilt for me about giving away clothes that once used to fit me so it’s nice to hear it come from someone mostly separated from my path of life. keep up the great work you lot!
I have OCD Hoarding Instincts and the thing I realized about holding onto clothes that don’t fit is that by keeping them I’m depriving myself of the opportunity to buy new clothes if I shapechange again.
Oh I like that thought process!
I have OCD, too. Does Kristen have OCD actually? I really hope she is not using OCD that lightly if not. Pet peeves
@@nadined8558 I think she does because she confirmed she is a hoarder. She also has trouble with organizing things. OCD and hoarding often go together. She at least has compulsions.
I’m watching their old videos and I have to say they’re friendship is so perfect during the video Kristen was judging herself when she wanted to keep stuff and Jen was so supportive “keep it if you like it, it’s your closet” I can tell Jen helps Kristen’s overthinking sm ❤️true platonic soulmates
Kristen has so many amazing dresses. I've recently started buying more casual ones for everyday wear and I think seeing Kristen wearing them so often helped normalize it for me. Used to think dresses of any kind were too fancy for everyday
Just me, sitting here watching someone else clean out their closet on youtube instead of cleaning out my own. Now I see why my kid watches other kids play with toys on TH-cam.
Watching someone do an activity activates the same areas of the brain as doing the activity yourself.
As someone who is moving across the country, I feel you on trying to get rid of things. The emotional attachment to clothes is too real.
Same. The clothes cannot all come. But it's hard!
I've just recently joined the plus size community. I've been having a lot of issues about my weight but seeing Kristin being so body positive makes me feel good about my bigger body. I just want to let you know that you are an inspiration to plus sized teens and young women everywhere ❤
“Next is this skirt that I hate”
“That a gay basic”
Honestly my two moods going through my cupboard
This was so cathartic to watch! Thank you. Plus Kristin saying thank you to clothes before letting them leave and serve others is a wholesome mood.
lmao at jen confusing a dentist with a cheerleader
YEAH I was like is literally nobody going to talk about this
brain fog
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That was the moment I subscribed to the channel.
One of the most helpful things I've done for getting rid of clothes is start going to/hosting clothing swaps. Not as much of an option right *now* but pre-panini my friends and I would all take turns hosting. We'd a safe place where people can drop off their things and rummage through piles, trying things on in real time like one big changing room. We always have designated bathrooms/bedrooms for private changing, of course, but most of us just change on the fly as we find things we like because it allows everyone to showcase the items there and hype each other up and find things we think would look great on one another. It can be really hard to get rid of something you love but never/can't wear (especially really expensive pieces or costume/art pieces), but seeing somebody put on something you once loved and they just look bangin' in it and everyone is telling them how good it looks on them is just the best feeling. Then at the end of it, generally the last few people divide up the unclaimed things to distribute to women's shelters. It has been immensely helpful for me and my relationship with clothing, and as a bonus, it SIGNIFICANTLY cut down on my fast fashion purchases over the last few years!
the timing on this is perfect 😭 i also struggle with holding onto clothes for too long and just two days ago began to do the damn thing and clean out things that no longer fit. i am so proud of all of us!!!!!!!!!
A Kitchen and Jorn podcast would be *AMAZING*
Watching this gives me so much joy for all the future owners of Kristin’s former clothes! So many beautiful pieces that will make someone so happy!
First time ive seen someone else use “you can kick in them” as argument to keep a pair of pants. Being able to kick in pants is very important
Your clothes are always so pretty I'm excited!
I have been meaning to sort through my clothes and get rid of some things, and I think this video has convinced me that its time. I love that Kristen looks at each item with practicality in mind, but also with emotional attachment in mind as well, and that its okay to get rid of something that you've had for a long time but it just doesn't fit well anymore, physically OR emotionally. Thank you Kristen, I'll be keeping you and this video in mind during my closet clean out!
I love Jen being such a supportive friend yet honest when needed.
Genuine question, has anyone shown Brie the curlygirl subreddit?!?
Her curls have a great pattern and I think she'd really benefit from a couple of the tips there
Oh yes good idea! She has the curls I've always dreamt of having 🥲
Having a friend to talk you through things when donating clothes is incredibly helpful! My sister served as my Jen, and I honestly couldn't have done it without her.
Just watched this twice in a row as moral support while sorting out clothes that don't fit anymore. What a healthy + constructive parasocial relationship 💕✨
Something that always helps me when cleaning out my wardrobe is thinking- ‘I’m not enjoying this anymore, so it should go to someone who WILL enjoy it’. Thanks for normalising getting rid of clothes that no longer serve you!
This was so therapeutic for me to watch for some reason also love spreading the message of getting rid of clothes if they don't fit cause I find myself saving clothes in hope they'll fit again
It's nice to see the pictures and hear the story behind the clothes.
This is literally the FIRST TIME I have seen someone who also has OCD with hoarding that isn't about shaming them!!!!! I have ADHD too and I feel so dang seen and not alone.
Clothes should serve you! Absolutely. As someone recovered from a severe eating disorder I have to remind myself of that all that time. Love these ladies.
honestly amazing how you can do this in just a few hours, i struggle to even clean up my room and it takes me a couple weeks! this video actually inspired me to start cleaning my room and sticking to it! I love you Kristin & Jen, y'all inspire me to do better
I have rewatched this video so often, I could listen to Kristin talking about their clothes for hours
As another ocd hoarder I know this was hard I’m so proud of you
I would so pay good money for that clear jacket with the shredded yellow sleeves!!! OMG COOLEST JACKET EVER!!!!!
Anybody else look at what she is getting rid of and saying "I want that one, and that one, and that one?" Also, Kristin I checked out the place in Seattle when I was in the area. Really nice! Got some great things!
Yep! I actually ordered a dress from that place in Hawai'i I when she did the empty suitcase show there
The way Jen know's her and is able to advise her friendship goals
Ok, confession: I’ve watched this video like 3 times since it came out Friday. I don’t know what it is about this video in particular, but it’s rewatch ability is like unbelievable!!
💖 Jen being moral support and Kristin being so productive 💖 Love this. 🥰
I just want to know where Kristin shops. I love those outfits!
me too! i kept going "oh that's so cute! i want that!" and i never like dresses!
Some of them were from her "empty suitcase" series when she worked at buz zfeed
I struggle with holding on to clothes that don't fit, cause I still have that toxic mindset of "maybe when I lose weight..."
As a compromise, I got a bunch of those vacuum seal storage bags to tuck the too small things I don't want to part with out of sight. Feels better than having to greet those items everyday in the closet
cleaning out clothes you have outgrown always feels shitty, however i would love to go to wherever kristen donates her clothes because she has an amazing fashion sense
I'm doing a closet clean out in two days and I also have diagnosed OCD and a really hard time letting go of my beloved clothes. The timing of this video is perfect, thank you both for giving me the push I need!❤
As a newly diagnosed ADHDer with some severe categories this makes me feel at home and at peace.
Oh lit so you're one of the good people, welcome to the party!
@@maxclips3152 it's been fun learning about this brain I have. I wish I wasn't 30 when I found out but as least I can still take advantage and do life through a new filter.
Love how supportive Jen is!
"Gaysic" and "Plegging Leathers" killed me 🤣😭💀
I'm here for your channel being y'all getting your life together. It helps me visualize what steps I can take to empty my own closet.
I need to know where she shops. I’m not her size but I love seeing inclusive sized brands and supporting them. I’m always in between straight sizes and plus sizes
Jorn’s level of supportive friend in this video shows how well they know each other I love it.
I love clearing out/purging videos! This was fantastic.
Having done KonMarie, one thing I recommend from it for any clearing out is to thank the item when you get rid of it. I find that it helps to relive some of the negative emotions from getting rid of things.
It’s absolutely precious that Jen can look at Kristin holding a piece of clothing and say you don’t like this, or you love that keep it. She knows Kristin so well.
this video was really motivating for me to go through my closet and purge things i don’t wear! also kirsten your style is just Gorgeous across the board i’m obsessed !
Wow the "Plus Bus" I wish they had one of those everywhere it would help alot of people here in the country where I live.
"I have decided that lavender is a neutral for spring. I will not be taking questions."
A tip I picked up from outgrowing my wardrobe twice during the pandemic: if you outgrow an item you absolutely love and can't bear to part with, try finding it in your new size on poshmark, de pop, ebay, etc. I was able to replace three of my favorite items even though they were no longer in stores.
The normalization of getting rid of clothes that don’t fit you anymore 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It is soooooo comforting and refreshing seeing someone else with OCD online
"Oh...know what I was thinking of? Cheerleader. Not dentist. I confused them" I live for Jen's comments on literally anything
I don't know if someone in the comments has talked about it yet but something that helps me more easily get rid of clothes, with hanging clothes anyways, is at the beginning of the year face the hangers with the hook side facing inward and when I wear something once I've washed and hung it back in the closet hang it hook side out then any clothes on hangers that haven't been turned with in the year I get rid of because if I don't wear it in a year I don't really need it
I feel like Brie wants you to clean out your closet so she can have it.
“Of course dear I’ll take them to the donation center”
*hides clothes in car*
Lol it just goes from one side of the closet to the other. I think Brie has such a huge perk in her wife having such amazing style! Excellent hand-me-downs 😆
It’s so weird having never met you, but sitting here like, “Oh yeah! I remember that dress. You love that dress!”
I mean it's a great dress!!
Jen is so supportive I love it
This was super therapeutic for me to watch because i’ve gained a lot more weight since covid started and i was already big to begin with so it’s been hard. I recently also went through a LOT of clothes i hung onto and am in the process of buying new stuff that fit me better. What Kristin said about getting rid of clothes to buy bigger ones really resonates with me.
Exactly. It feels like you are “giving up” when you buy bigger clothes. And I hate that guilt
@@ReplyGuy22345 same fam. But honestly now that i have a bunch of new awesome clothes that feel and look good on me i feel 1000% better
The way Jorn said Kristin’s name 😭 5:38
Kristin I love how you know your style and you’ll wear whatever you want! I’m a big girl as well and I struggle wearing anything but jeans, capris, jean shorts and tee shirts with flip flops. I’m 30 and I’ve always been like this... I can count on my fingers how many times I’ve worn a dress in the last ten years and I don’t own skirts. I admire you so much for just being you! I only shop at torrid, Ross, and some small stores because idk where to get cute plus size clothes that aren’t freaking crop tops or super mature looking ! I just went through my closest recently and got rid of 3 contractor bags worth of clothes that I’ve gotten between high school and now. This video makes me want to dress better!
'I was gonna say dentist'
'What???'
'Oh I meant cheerleader not dentist'
Jen's brain !!!!!!!
I've been saying that I need to clean out closet for so long, and the way Kristen does this inspired me to actually do it. The clothes serve me, I do not serve my clothes!
Ummm, I’d totally listen to the Gaysic podcast if y’all started it! 🏳️🌈
Brie looks so cute in that pink trench coat!! Pink really suits her!
I’m so proud of Kristen for getting rid of clothes. I know how hard it is to get rid of stuff. Also I agree lavender is a neutral.
Dang!! Didn't know this channel existed. This video is so freaking cute and these comments are so motivating and just like, total sisterhood vibes!!! Love it!!! Glad to have found this section of the tube ❤️🤩💕
I've seen alot lately the phrase "the clothes are to fit your body, it's not your body that needs to fit the clothes" this was great, I love you guys
I'm proud of you for doing the thing. So much room for activities!
Kinda jealous that I don't live in a place with lots of pretty plus size clothes, or stylish plus size clothing owners who are cleaning out their closet and donating to local thrift stores ;)
I definitely don't buy clothes on sale when I feel sad, and then make myself feel worse because the clothes don't fit me properly or emphasise my apron belly that I can't yeet.
I've been trying to sew my own clothes so that I can choose my own fun fabrics, have something that fits properly, and I can have pockets and other nice things. Making clothes is hard though, trying to make a pattern from an existing shirt that fits me well nearly melted my brain, because darts. Then I over-compensated with adding extra length onto everything, so the darts didn't sit where they should and that shirt looks weird. But I will try again, in time.
I struggle with the same things as Kristen, so I'm proud of her & it's just so awesome how supportive Jenn is! 💜💜
I wish you had a poshmark or mercari! I’d be buying from you 🤣
Yes please!!! I do promise to give your coats a good home 😍
I agree with this, Kitchen has great taste!
Same!
wait she really should! even if they’re just super cheap and basically like donating :0
I was searching for this comment! Was thinking the same thing the whole video!! I wish I lived close enough to shop at the store she's planning to donate to, I'd wear any of it
Cleaning, downsizing, decluttering, etc. has been a multi year project for me since leaving college. 🙃
This makes me realize I need to either clean out my closet of things that don't fit and buy new things or try working out a little to fit into them again, and tbh I'm probably gonna at least try the cheaper option first /v\
I was thinking the same thing! And I'll try the workout because its cheaper lol
@@maleg.v right? Like, a new wardrobe sounds FUN but expensive, I can't afford it every season 😂
Everyone should have a supportive and kind friend like Jen when going through their closet. Especially when you are the type to put so much emotion into clothes
"Next is this skirt that I hate" Yeahhhh probably should get rid of that😂😂😂
I'm so glad you guys made this video! Especially so because Kristen has so many nice clothes and especially seeing her get rid of items she loves but she knows do not fit anymore. Helps me feel less guilty about when I do it!
Serious question for kristin: how do you wear dresses without chafing? I want to wear more dresses and shorts but my thighs say no. (also tell brie she looks stunning in that coat!)
I wear lots of skirts and dresses, and my solution is: deodorant! A few swipes on each leg really helps me. (I also use a combo antiperspirant which helps me keep that "swampy" feeling away.)
I hope you find a solution that works for you!
Exercise bike shorts are great for that. Just wear them instead of panties. Bonus points that if there's compression, they are like a comfy girdle.
@@rnptenafly agree!
Shorts. Either biker shorts or I specifically love snag tight's chub rub shorts - super inclusive sizing.
There are also cute little bandelettes (think the bands at the top of stockings). Some look like lingerie, others look more sporty.
Kristin, can you please do a video about your favorite wrap dresses and where you get them? Wrap dresses are my absolute favorite, but I can never seem to find nice ones, and every one in the thrift store is a "faux" wrap dress. (I found a REAL wrap dress in my size at the thrift store today and almost cried tears of joy.)
I literally have to do this tomorrow because I’m moving away from home for college soon. Thanks for the inspiration to make it fun lol.
I've always said I was a collector, not a hoarder. OCD certainly didn't seem to describe my behavior, & neither did the specials on TV about hoarding. Over the years I've had 3 careers & they all came w stuff. All of which was tax deductible so I had reasons...
THANK YOU, Kristen, for saying this so clearly & most especially, being so honest. I believe I've much more clarity about what I've been doing & how to move forward.
And kudos to Jen for being supportive w/o being either bossy or co-dependent, demonstrating real support & friendship. You are great people.