May Allah reward you immensely for the knowledge that you make readily available. Your videos help new shahadahs like mysellf . The element of surprise is needed in every marriage as to not become complacent, common sense tells you all you need to know sometimes . But as a frustrated sister , I wish Brothers pushed the urgency to be on their deen and to be good husbands as much as they try to push the idea of polygyny on sisters like myself, some brothers aren’t strong enough to be a husband to one let alone MULTIPLE #foodforthought
Allah said: And you will never be able to be equal between wives, even if you should strive [to do so].} [Quran 4:129] Allah said Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded. Surat An-Nahl 16:90 And Allah says O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do. Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8 “A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law. "I heard Allah's Apostle who was on the pulpit, saying, 'Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to Ali bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give permission unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me.'" (Bukhari, No. 4887) Hadith on Hereafter: Paradise surrounded by hardship, Hellfire by desires Abu Amina Elias Hellfire نار جهنمHereafter الآخرةLusts الشهواتParadise الجنةSalvation النجاةTemperance الزهدTrials البلاءWhims الهوى Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Paradise is surrounded by adversity, and Hellfire is surrounded by lusts.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2823 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim
May Allah reward you immensely for the knowledge that you make readily available. Your videos help new shahadahs like mysellf . The element of surprise is needed in every marriage as to not become complacent, common sense tells you all you need to know sometimes . But as a frustrated sister , I wish Brothers pushed the urgency to be on their deen and to be good husbands as much as they try to push the idea of polygyny on sisters like myself, some brothers aren’t strong enough to be a husband to one let alone MULTIPLE #foodforthought
Allah said: And you will never be able to be equal between wives, even if you should strive [to do so].} [Quran 4:129]
Allah said
Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.
Surat An-Nahl 16:90
And Allah says
O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do.
Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8
“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
"I heard Allah's Apostle who was on the pulpit, saying, 'Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to Ali bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give permission unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me.'" (Bukhari, No. 4887)
Hadith on Hereafter: Paradise surrounded by hardship, Hellfire by desires
Abu Amina Elias Hellfire نار جهنمHereafter الآخرةLusts الشهواتParadise الجنةSalvation النجاةTemperance الزهدTrials البلاءWhims الهوى
Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Paradise is surrounded by adversity, and Hellfire is surrounded by lusts.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2823
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim
Facts sis 💯 👏🏽
There is no reason for any man to take on multiple women unless he is ok with his wife taking on multiple partners as well
Demand in marriage contract that no poligymy so you have a higher chance of marital happiness.
@@afifkhaja hideous is subjective
Even when it comes to you
It doesn't hold cause Allah made it halal. You can still be happy in polygamy