LIFE UPDATE / DIVORCE / SURGERY UPDATE AND SO MUCH MORE / 2022 IS GOING TO BE INTERESTING

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  • @ShyvonneMelanieTV
    @ShyvonneMelanieTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    Hey Beautiful People! Thank you all so much! I truly appreciate you all. Leave your comments & questions and I will do a Q&A video this month.

    • @monicajordan6900
      @monicajordan6900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Keep your head up and keep moving forward! God is with you and the family! You were created with a smile ! The goodness of your heart flows through this screen! God got you and him! This year will be the quickest turn around! Cut off and moving forward! You will bounce back better!

    • @monicajordan6900
      @monicajordan6900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Trust God’s process and timing !!!!

    • @shiningstar1754
      @shiningstar1754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Omg mrs shyvonne im sorry to hear that u been going through all these things i hope that everyones in the best state of health and mind i pray that this year mrs shyvonne brings u nothing but joy, happiness, good health and peace for u and ur family to heal from all the things that have happened i really hope and pray that everything works out for u and those beautiful talented kids u have may god continue to bless u my friend😘🥰💞

    • @Betterme0000
      @Betterme0000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What other goals do you have for this year??

    • @melissawalker4286
      @melissawalker4286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey Shyvonne, I am so sorry for both of your losses. You are a strong woman and you will get through all of this. Put God first and there is nothing you can't do. So glad that you are doing well too.💜❤️💜

  • @MFeliix
    @MFeliix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    Instead of embracing it he’s running away, he’s definitely scared of the glow up. What a shame. I know you’ll be good regardless. One reason why I follow you is your ambition. Keep those babies smiling, we love you! 2022 stop testing my girl! Keep the word EPIC, its a bad day not a bad life. You still have the rest of the year to go!

    • @judylucas4613
      @judylucas4613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Being married 38 years it's not about the surgery. They've separated before and didn't discuss actually getting back, it just happened. Like she said they should've stayed separated. They had problems way before surgery. That's not the situation. The love is gone and that's major....

    • @rachelnan6875
      @rachelnan6875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@judylucas4613 💯

    • @keauxunkut2144
      @keauxunkut2144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love that.. it’s a bad day not a bad life 💕💕💕

    • @empressmarie4027
      @empressmarie4027 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @bonitabrown1775
      @bonitabrown1775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow!! They always look for reasons to leave you, my first husband told me if I cut my hair he would leave me. So guess what I did just like my girl and I cut my hair and he left, I’m so happy that I did. Shyvonne is a survivor, he will be looking for her with a flash light in the day time. Believe you me he will be wanting her back so bad his whole body will ache like a tooth ache. One thing Shyvonne is beautiful, smart, loving, caring, Great Great mother, Great Great Wife, most all she is taking her life back. I love you Shyvonne please keep your weight lose journey. You are a great example for single moms out there.💐🥰💐

  • @sierradubose2678
    @sierradubose2678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Girl I knew something wasn’t right you have BEEN doing everything by yourself. Your an amazing mom and provider to your kids. God sees and will see you through anything you need and want to do❤️❤️❤️

    • @Michelle-hg6gt
      @Michelle-hg6gt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      From the start of her Channel Chris was gone. He may have been there physically but you could see that man was gone. I was shock when she said she was married. I guess on paper. I really think some TH-camrs put too much out on the internet. Don’t get me wrong I like her Channel and her strength as a woman and a mother she does an amazing job. She could have skipped this. We never saw him anyway. All we saw was this strong woman with a kind spirit. I wish you and the children all the best but you guys will get through this. You was going it all along physically and mentally by yourself.

    • @Itcouldallbesosimple45
      @Itcouldallbesosimple45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Michelle-hg6gt She did say that he worked 2 full time jobs and would have to call out sick to have a day off, but yes he seemed distant.

  • @keedinah
    @keedinah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    "Everything doesn't have to be for the internet."
    Bingo! Remember that as you go through this process. Praying your strength and encouragement. You got this, girl. Blessings.

    • @cinnababe53
      @cinnababe53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So sorry to hear about your Grandma passing.... sorry to about the kids being so upset and sorry to hear about the divorce in general but I wish a new beautiful free life for you...soar Shyvonne💓

  • @shannoncook7731
    @shannoncook7731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I grew up in a household where the parents "stayed together for the kids" and it didn't end up well. I think that, as much as it hurts to go through, if the parents aren't happy, they need to separate. I remember the constant fighting and always feeling like it was my fault because if I weren't around, they could go be happy... apart. I know your babies are suffering, but believe me, you're doing the right thing by them. I send you tons of love, comfort and healing.

  • @patriciahagedorn5694
    @patriciahagedorn5694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    So glad to see you back. I was getting worried that something had gone wrong with your surgery. I am so sorry for the passing of your grandmother. As for you and Chris, I knew something was up because you guys seemed so distant. He just wasn't there for you and the kids. I have no doubt that you will move forward and happy. The same identical thing happened to me and I took my kids and moved back to California and bought a Condo. It was rough in the beginning but I was strong and never looked back. We made it and I've never been happier. I love you and wish you the very best for the future and turning you new house into a home for you and the kids. God Bless you and your family. KOKO (keep on keeping on)!

    • @seeme8125
      @seeme8125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think he's jealous and insecure of your success and growth.

  • @GRich01
    @GRich01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    Continue praying and push through! And also praying for the kids!

    • @MexIndio1
      @MexIndio1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey G Rich!!!! 😊

    • @GRich01
      @GRich01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MexIndio1 hello Afro-Indio

    • @Moniquebites
      @Moniquebites 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello G Rich💙💛❤💚❤💙💜💙💛❤💚

    • @GRich01
      @GRich01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Moniquebites hello

    • @beekind6267
      @beekind6267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey G Rich!! Kiss Miss Resa for me!! 🤗🤗

  • @Jaminecooper
    @Jaminecooper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Consider this a clean start to a beautiful new year!

  • @bj7057
    @bj7057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm sorry about your Grandmother's passing. May she rest in Jesus. You've lost mote than 30 pounds...you've lost all of that weight that you were carrying around named Big Chris!!! Go ahead Girl and exhale. The best is yet to come. 🥰

  • @TheNewMissyJ
    @TheNewMissyJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I know many of us could see that you weren’t being supported as much as you could be. I’m sorry that it had to be at this time. You do so much for your family, we can see it. You do deserve the best. Making the choice to grow and become better can be painful but you’ll be amazed at what God still has in store for you! You have so many prayers backing you and some angels in your corner 🙏🏾

  • @Ppb126
    @Ppb126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Stay strong for you and the kids. If you need to get therapy, get it. It helped me through a divorce after a 40 year marriage. Now I’m living my best life!

    • @tonyagarrett7121
      @tonyagarrett7121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      11 yrs .And we have fell out of love.

    • @tonyagarrett7121
      @tonyagarrett7121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are a strong person after 40 yrs. Phyllis Payne- Brown.I liked to died from a 11 yrs. marriage.God is helping me again with another

    • @withevangelistpamelakizer6376
      @withevangelistpamelakizer6376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sweetheart you are such a beautiful and strong woman

    • @withevangelistpamelakizer6376
      @withevangelistpamelakizer6376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Best Is Yet To Come

  • @stacyjackson3709
    @stacyjackson3709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Hi Shyvonne,
    I was very worried about you. I'm happy that you are back with us. I'm soo very sorry to hear that your Grandmother passed away and that you are getting a Divorce. I Applaud you for sharing with us because you didn't have to. I will start by saying that your TH-cam Family Loves you dearly and you and your Kids have our Support. I think you are the Most Sweetest, Humble Person that I know. I've been there before and God saw me through it and Brought me through it. You have to put yourself first sometimes. It was very Selfish of your husband to tell you that if you get the surgery that he would leave, so he just wanted you to stay the way that you were and not help yourself to want to feel better. He should have been your Biggest Supporter. Shame on him. I for one am very Proud of you for doing what you felt that you needed and wanted to do. God has something better for you and your children. God Promised that he would never leave nor Forsake us and he would never put no more on us than we can bare. You are going to be okay. You just purchased your first home, you lost 30 pounds, you have a full time job and TH-cam channel. Girl that's alright in my book, you are holding it down. I'm going to keep you and your beautiful children in my Prayers. And again my Sincere Condolences on the passing of your Grandmother which I believe she would be very proud of you for taking a stand. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @jerel12307
      @jerel12307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow, those were awesome words that you had for her ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @yvettemiller5280
      @yvettemiller5280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family very sorry your marriage has come to an end but God is always going to be with you your a strong woman let God Lead you you have accomplished so much and it’s through the Grace of God you stay strong as I know you will all those things that you mentioned about yourself will
      Happen stay focus you got this girlie love you much and hang in there happy new year blessings to you ❤️🙏🏿

  • @jerigorenz2937
    @jerigorenz2937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Divorce hurts whether you're ready for it or not. I'm sorry about your loss. A year of change.
    I love your ambition and positive attitude.

  • @nikkiwowww9299
    @nikkiwowww9299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Shyvonne I remember a month ago you did a video with you and Ayanna painted. I commented saying that your husband should be doing it and be more involved, some people came for me in the comment even though it was not my intention to disrespect your channel. I said it because I saw that he was no help to u and if a man loved you he wouldn’t let u do all of that on your own, I told one of the women that came for me that no matter how a man works he makes time for his family. you are a beautiful woman with a great spirit and an awesome mother. I’m sure you are hurt but in time you will be ok. I hope you teach lil Chris how to be a man as well because it seems much wasn’t required of big Chris or little Chris. He should’ve been helping you to paint as the only boy as well. If big Chris is any good he will still do the work to get the house where he needs to be. Again I mean no disrespect because I love your channel. Congratulations on getting healthy for YOU. God bless you and your family because everything u said in this video u DO deserve.

    • @katrithastevens8753
      @katrithastevens8753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Totally agree 💯

    • @Lana-dn7yl
      @Lana-dn7yl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree! I thought that after purchasing the home he would have wanted to be more present and involved in helping her make it "their" home. HOWEVER, I admire her ambition, independence and strength so we all know she will be fine.

    • @nikkiwowww9299
      @nikkiwowww9299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Lana-dn7yl but even when she purchased the home I was surprised to see him at the signing because leading up to closing she kept say I bought a house and not we bought a house. She even said she was proud she worked hard and bought a house for her children. He obviously didn’t wanna be there and he’s messed up to make his wife and daughter paint that house. That should’ve been him and lil Chris doing that. I’m happy Shyvonne kicked him out and I hope someway somehow his son learns how to treat a woman

    • @amirawilliams8385
      @amirawilliams8385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He was jealous and insecure. She's setting and meeting all of her life goals, Including buying a home(I doubt he's on the deed) taking charge of her health, (weight loss surgery) her TH-cam channel, & meanwhile he isn't evolving and wants her to be stagnant like him, because it's safe and familiar to him. Man, fawk him! I'm so glad she made him leave HER house! She will find a partner that is truly deserving of her, once she fully heals

  • @sherribaldwin2239
    @sherribaldwin2239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    If they don’t make your life better then move on! I tell my daughter that all the time! You have so much going for you don’t let anyone bring you down! Love your channel and hang in there ❤️
    Ps…I would pay someone to paint for you! Take it easy, feel better and you have a lot going on! 😌

    • @simplemealsbytvlog6491
      @simplemealsbytvlog6491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I truly agree 👍

    • @tierrabriggs7581
      @tierrabriggs7581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I needed to hear this ❤️

    • @jerrilynpapilon9611
      @jerrilynpapilon9611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly I agree if he not making your life better it's better to unload that dead weight.

    • @akeishaharris
      @akeishaharris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tierrabriggs7581 me too..

  • @1800kristi
    @1800kristi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You have so many people who love you to the moon & back. Your growth inspires me to look at myself and say, "What can I do this year to grow as a person?" My word for this year is "Freedom". Just looking at more ways to achieve financial freedom, etc. I mourn with you and your family at the loss of your grandmother & I'm praying for you as you pursue Strength this year🙏

  • @joyfor3ver
    @joyfor3ver 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Hey Shyvonne! Personally, I'm not worried about you. I've been watching for awhile now and have caught up on some of your older videos. What I've seen, shows strength and perseverance and honey you got more of that than a lot of us. You are always making it happen for your family and I'm quite sure you will continue to do so.
    I will pray for your children to do well through this process and hope that you all find comfort in each other.

  • @patriciaharris2436
    @patriciaharris2436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Hey Shyvonne. I am so sorry about your loss of your grandmother and all you are going through. GOD will pull you through this. When I got divorced, my daughter and I went to counseling and it helped. Hold your head high. Fall on in your knees often. Be strong. Hug your babies but first hug yourself. You are an awesome mom. Never loose sight of who you are. Oh…. Congratulations on your weight loss. You look fabulous. ❤️🥰😍

  • @ValerieinSC
    @ValerieinSC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    As somebody old enough to be your mama, I am glad you got the surgery for your health and because that is what YOU wanted. Prayers for you and your children. God will provide.
    Valerie in SC

  • @reneedavis3262
    @reneedavis3262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Hey Ms. Shyvonne! Despite everything that is going on I am declaring that 2022 will be a VICTORIOUS year for you and yours! God is working everything out for your good! ♥️

  • @dorisward2629
    @dorisward2629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    SHYVONNE, in your divorce make sure your husband pay his share of child 🤑 support! I heard women in pass say they don't need his money, just spend time with their kids. NO. you need hour money. Lets not be stupid. Too many men get away not paying nothing. Don't do that to your children. Get it in your divorce decree. Some men take care other women children and not their own trying to impress the other woman. Just a little advise to you girlfriend❤ sisters need to stick together.🙏

  • @annemariepratt4480
    @annemariepratt4480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Hello beautiful mama. First I am truly sorry for your loss of your dear grandmother. And second from watching you and your zest for life . Maybe it is a perfect time you and Chris go your own way . You are truly a one parent home . You do everything. There is no keeping you down . You don't need any man right now . Do this for you . Your heart is Gold. You deserve to be happy and a happy home for your children is what you want we all love you please take care of your health 2022 you're gonna kick butt love you.

  • @Novembersongbird
    @Novembersongbird 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    You got this. Happiness and trust during these times is a priority. You are blessed, HIGHLY FAVORED, smart, beautiful, articulate, fantastic nurturing Mom, focused, a professional woman, Sexy and full of LOVE and Joy!! His loss!!!

    • @blackbeauty1073
      @blackbeauty1073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I, second this statement. You are a strong woman and you make your life what you want it to be for you and your children. Stay blessed and keep your head up. God has your back.

    • @lindagillispie6179
      @lindagillispie6179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@blackbeauty1073 Amen

    • @akeishaharris
      @akeishaharris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly..

  • @purplehaze6195
    @purplehaze6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You are an absolutely AMAZING WOMAN! Do not EVER doubt who you are, or what you are capable of. From an outsider's perspective, you are every man's dream but some men can't handle the strength. Hold your head up Sista and don't look back.

  • @lounasampson1359
    @lounasampson1359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Hey Shyvonne. I’m sorry to hear about your divorce. However, I feel it in my heart that your best is yet to come. Cheers to STRONG and EPIC 2022 for you and your family!

  • @melindabod
    @melindabod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I'm so sorry for your families loss and wish your family a healthy and prosperous new year. Your divorce will be the start of the beginning of your new journey. Wishing you all the best.

    • @sandrad5036
      @sandrad5036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi shyvonne and family!! My condolences and 🙏 . Sandra from Maryland..Peace and Blessing Always😍..

  • @toniconder696
    @toniconder696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Hey girl!! Iv missed you, iv worried about you and your health, sorry about your divorce. "Been there done that" iv been seeing you do it all on your own anyway! You got this hun!! Yes. You. Are. Strong...... make your home you and your kids!! God is all you need right now

    • @jerrilynpapilon9611
      @jerrilynpapilon9611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep Exactly she got this.

    • @GrowingPaynes
      @GrowingPaynes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes she has held her own the whole time I've been watching, it took me forever to realize she had a husband.

  • @Ezrait
    @Ezrait 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    God will always show you the way. 2022 is definitely the year of “STRONG”!! You are definitely a strong woman, mother, sister, auntie, wife and then some! You are a entrepreneur showing your children hard work pays off. I see all that you do for your family. It gives me motivation to work harder. Cause I say to myself if Shyonne can do it well shoot I can get my lazy butt up and get this house together too! We all know being a mother, and wife isn’t for the weak! My condolences for the passing of your dear grandmother. May she rest in Paradise.

  • @bessiekent5270
    @bessiekent5270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You don’t need him let him go girl you got this.

  • @skyflowerkat915
    @skyflowerkat915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Out of the storm! Comes the calmness & serenity!! You got this! It will be so much better! Your a warrior for your children! 🙏👍🥂

  • @orteot448
    @orteot448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I learned the following the hard way- if they don’t put the same hustle you do- not worth keeping them for their potential!! Best of luck honey.

  • @mzchamillion2000
    @mzchamillion2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You couldn't dim your light if you tried! Anyone that doesn't want you to shine the way you were created to, can't come along on the journey. Not everyone can handle the greatness meant for you. You are a treasure and a gem. You deserve matched energy. 💖💖🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @happyinharned9583
    @happyinharned9583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you go girl!!!!you lost 30 pounds PLUS 300 counting Chris!!!! He wasnt present for you, we could tell. You deserve a life and partner who suits you. You are wonderful!!!!Strong dont even scratch the surfice. Hoping you start feeling better.

  • @CandiceBee
    @CandiceBee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Divorce is never fun, especially with children involved, But trust me, things do get better, I would suggest therapy for yourself and the children during this time. I’ve been there with my four children and since then I’ve remarried someone who appreciates me 100% , treats my children like they’re his own, and he also lets me rest in my femininity. I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m praying for you and the children ❤️

  • @jerel12307
    @jerel12307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I’m sorry about your grandmother Shyvonne. Strong is the perfect word for 2022. After a while we can only take so much of a mans crap, so I totally understand. Everything will fall into place 💜💜💜

  • @jouannd3719
    @jouannd3719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Don't subject your children to this over and over. If he's Unworthy, he's unworthy. "Don't look back, you're not going in that Direction"! Love yourself and your children_

  • @sheilalogan5602
    @sheilalogan5602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Shyvonne I’m praying 🙏🏾 for you and the kids . You deserve the best and you will get that. You are an Amazing MOTHER!!

  • @pihaat
    @pihaat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I must keep it real, I never understood the relationship, its been over a long time. I'm so proud you finally see what we all saw.
    We want relationships or family to stay together for children maybe even the thought of change, but we must choose happiness.
    My condolences on the lost of your grandmother♥
    Your health is your priority, stress is a killer...Get you right, the children will adjust, just be honest with them, teach them about handling and understanding emotions...cry when need be to get it out....You will get through this, trust I know!
    May God bless you and your children!
    #2022willbeEPIC

    • @misshamm728
      @misshamm728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Perfect synopsis! 👍🏾

    • @deneengarrett3958
      @deneengarrett3958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love these words of encouragement, I hope she reads this..

    • @sandras.7521
      @sandras.7521 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

  • @tammeemiller2430
    @tammeemiller2430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Most men don’t like it when you take care of yourself

  • @lauracollier457
    @lauracollier457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Sending you and the kids love and support. You do deserve a loving and supportive partner in your life. You got this girl! ❤

  • @scotthouse3664
    @scotthouse3664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My deepest condolences for the loss of your grandmother. As far as your pending divorce… I have so much to comment on but not for all to see but what I can say publicly is that this was inevitable and I am praying that more success, happiness and love comes your way. I am confident it will. Keep your head up and this too shall pass. 🙏🏽💗👍🏽

  • @divastyle0412
    @divastyle0412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    You are a very strong and humble woman; you deserve the best. I pray for peace and comfort as you go through your divorce. I admire your strength and all your videos! I know you and your family will be just fine! You already know your worth…and you deserve to be happy.

  • @teresab6383
    @teresab6383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I guess I might can say I knew something was not right. I never want to see a family split up but I could see that your family as a hole was struggling. I wish you the best. I pray you and your kids will do great. Love you and your kids

    • @tierrabriggs7581
      @tierrabriggs7581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I could feel it too 🥺

    • @beekind6267
      @beekind6267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tierrabriggs7581 I could too 😔😔🙏🏽

    • @jerrilynpapilon9611
      @jerrilynpapilon9611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wonder if he was jealous of her sucess on TH-cam

  • @ocketsstevenson639
    @ocketsstevenson639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hey Ms. Melanie, you have always seem to have this warm come on in and make yourself welcome personality. I've enjoyed your decorating and cleaning videos. Since this pandemic I've looked forward to your warm and inviting content. I'm sorry to hear of your grandmother passing. This couldn't have come at a more stressful time. And now to hear of your divorcing this I'm sure it's difficult for you and your children. Despite your many challenges, including your recovery, Please know our creator can give you the help you need to endure the hard times. And you will get pass this as well. Children going through divorce can be like a broken arm. The healing is painful but eventually the arm can be used again. And family life can be whole again. Everyone pulling together will build a stronger bridge instead of burning the bridge your family has. Be strong hold on the storm will pass and the sun will shine again.

  • @michelleoconnor6977
    @michelleoconnor6977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Condolences on the passing of your grandmother. She is resting peacefully in Paradise, while watching over you and will guide you through the hardships and great times for this new year. I've never believed in staying in an unhappy marriage for children, so you and your spouse have made the best decision for your family. Families don't work if the parents don't work. You are a strong woman and will succeed. He will regret his decisions in not supporting you and the children fully. Children are very resilient and they will make it through these dark times. You all will make it through. Congratulations on the weight loss but please take it easy and take care of yourself. Waiting patiently on more new home updates. You gor this because you are STRONG!!!

  • @nsi8166
    @nsi8166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Peace. Glad you finally realized that shedding "the extra weight" would be best. It took away beautiful energy. Keep moving forward. Btw, you also said your ex didn't want you to get surgery. Sometimes, that is a way to keep you in a rut and keep others from wanting you. Anndd this is YOUR HOUSE NOW. You can put holes in the wall for bigger sturdier pieces of art. Do what you will. Peace

  • @steifenhornchen2341
    @steifenhornchen2341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I'm so happy you're feeling fine. I was so afraid you had serious complications with your surgery.
    Never forget, you changed so much for the better, rocking your live, getting a house, getting the operation for yourself and your happiness. You deserve to be happy with someone who supports you with EVERYTHING, even if that means to be alone for some time.
    So sorry for you, that you lost your grandma, but she watches over you.
    Wish you and youre kids the best!! 💓

    • @chynnugilliam1112
      @chynnugilliam1112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You win. The best is yet to come🙏🙏🙏

  • @mimisworld6693
    @mimisworld6693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A man that doesn’t want to see you happy and healthy dose not need to be in your life , he’s afraid of what you not could but will be I’m super proud of you and the kids , and strong is a great world because us black women is often times left with no choice but to be strong I’m praying for your family.

    • @angeljones3134
      @angeljones3134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is so positive and extremely sweet.

    • @Healedhomegirl
      @Healedhomegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s right we always have to be strong

  • @ravee9853
    @ravee9853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi love, I completely feel for you. I am much younger than you, but it's sad that your ex husband reminded me of my Ex and you of me. I could tell things were off because in videos you called him by his name instead of babe, or anything affectionate. I felt sad seeing your videos because I could feel the idgaf vibe he gave off. I could tell you bought all of the gifts during holidays, decor to fix up your guys' house and I know you always were the one to think everything out for your kids. You are a beautiful strong woman, there is no need for someone to bring dead weight to your life. You deserve DATES, someone that respects your decisions, loves you regardless, and MORE. May God bless you. It may not seem like it now, but from a strangers perspective, your glow up is soooo real and you are an AMAZING MOTHER! ❤ YOU are already doing the damn thing but I say within the next year or two you're going to be rich rich. Lol Take all the time you need, we will be here. ❤

  • @livingandlovinglola
    @livingandlovinglola 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Shyvonne, thank you for being transparent with your journey on your channel. I’m currently going through a similar situation and it is hurtful . Personally my children father cheated on me and it hurt my soul after 14 years and 3 kids. Life is unexpected but being strong and having a supportive unit around you is crucial 🙏🏿 one day at a time❤️❤️

  • @momminainteasy5710
    @momminainteasy5710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You know what Mrs. Shyvonne I told my mom last year that you just didn't seem happy. He was never present really helping you and the girls fix up the house or anytime before that. I thought maybe he was camera shy, but I knew better. You deserve so much more than that. I pray for so much love and blessings to flow through you, your babies, and your home❤️God has so much greater for you.

  • @LadyMomT
    @LadyMomT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You will be amazed at how much you come into yourself as a single woman. It will take time but when you heal, oh what a feeling! I’m glad you know your worth

    • @ShyvonneMelanieTV
      @ShyvonneMelanieTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Lady Mom T! I wholeheartedly believe that.

  • @lindaduncan2954
    @lindaduncan2954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m so sorry that 2022 has started off bad for you Shyvonne. I’m sorry that you lost your grandmother. Divorce is hard, even if you want it. You are such a strong woman and have great kids. You know what you want and are not afraid to go for it! This is your year Shyvonne! You’re going to come through shining like a diamond! God bless you! 🙏💕🙏

  • @Mayaofc213
    @Mayaofc213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You made me tear up with your words. You are strong! God bless you always and remember that God takes people away from your life that dont help you grow. Girlll you are gonna grow even more now!!!! Head up like always and stay beautiful!! Love you!!

  • @kathleenmcgimpsey7855
    @kathleenmcgimpsey7855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Shyvonne you will be fine although no one likes a breakup. I have always admired your strength , work ethic and your parenting. Sending you love and best wishes 💕

  • @misfitmakeup5040
    @misfitmakeup5040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So sorry for your loss. Life is ever changing and you are strong. You got this. I love to see more videos on you weight loss journey. What do you eat in a day?

  • @MamaByNature
    @MamaByNature 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You’re such a catch mama trust me when you’re ready you will find the love of your life ❤️ I am so sorry for your loss of your grandmother though and dealing with a separation as well at once. Your babies will understand someday! If you need breaks you take them, we will understand! Love from Ohio ❤️❤️❤️

  • @karinaleverton
    @karinaleverton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    It is in your darkest moments when you will find your “other self”. -Evy.
    Love your channel! Keep up the content #100k
    💗💗💗

  • @nashetthollingsworth1533
    @nashetthollingsworth1533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Good to see you back! Let him go on and live your life trust me you will be all right your TH-cam family got you we love you to the Moon and back ❤️❤️❤️❤️😘

  • @amyjohnson6482
    @amyjohnson6482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Melanie, I am keeping you and your precious kids in my prayers! Life is a journey, keep getting up and putting one foot in front of the other. Take whatever time you need to take care of you! You will be ok!

  • @98cjam
    @98cjam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Shyvonne, you deserve ALL that and more. Keep doing what you do Strong, Kind, Smart and Beautiful woman!!!

  • @bigerthanmyself421
    @bigerthanmyself421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Claim it and push through to make what you want happen.

  • @marysos6159
    @marysos6159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh Shyvonne you’re so much stronger than you know it. So sad cause the videos back then I remember when you said he’d leave you if you had the surgery😢 I pray and know you’ll get through this cause yous a boss ass mama 💪🏼 Sucks when you’re changing to be happy and you’d expect your other half to support but sometimes they don’t cause they have their insecurities they haven’t worked through 🤦🏽‍♀️ Anyways, keep doing yous mama breathe, relax, and keep pushing for your baby’s and yourself❤️

  • @samantha6554
    @samantha6554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello sweetheart, I've been through a divorce, what I will say is... Be gentle with yourself and take each day one at a time, it took time before I noticed that I felt normal again , it's gradual healing.
    Don't believe the lie that your life is over, it's completely natural to grieve for what you have lost including the future you thought you hoped you would have.
    I used to sit in church each week, and during all that time God was gently healing me.
    He will gently heal and restore for you too because he loves you 🇬🇧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿👍✝️🙂

  • @ThingsMadeEasyWithJeJe
    @ThingsMadeEasyWithJeJe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Condolences on the loss of your Grandmother 🙏Prayers - Happiest - Peace - Love and Strength on your Journey ❤ Remember to utilize your support system - Blessings ❤

  • @Brandi.65
    @Brandi.65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I felt that he wasn't really there for y'all. But you and the kid's, will be great 💞🙏🤗

  • @sandram8602
    @sandram8602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm so sorry you are going thru this. Sorry for the loss of your grandmother. I'm praying for you and the children; things will get better because you are a strong black woman.

  • @solangebravin1125
    @solangebravin1125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Olá Shivonne!!! Siga em frente e converse muito com seus filhos. Aja sempre pensando no bem estar deles. Bençãos e paz à familia. Do Brasil com carinho.

  • @chanellewatson3578
    @chanellewatson3578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I normally don’t comment but I just want you to know…2022 is YOUR year Shyvonne. When Mommy is happy and healthy it will flow to your children and into your home. Praying 🙏🏾 for you and your children.

  • @christascheuer8468
    @christascheuer8468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yes you are everything you’ve said. You are going to be okay.Step by step. Chris prefers a big woman and doesn’t thinks about your health. And that is selfish. Take care!

  • @KBlue728
    @KBlue728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Jesus! I’m so sorry for your loss Shyvonne and I’m praying for you and your family! Lord give them peace, love, comfort and guidance Amen!🙏🏾💙

  • @sheabuttaz
    @sheabuttaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Prayers for you and your family! 2022 definitely started off with a bang…believe me girl!! Your such a strong woman and a wonderful mom and we are here for you!

  • @nataliegagne1809
    @nataliegagne1809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey hun❣
    I'm sorry for the loss of your grandmother💖
    I'm glad that you are happy with your choices and I know you will have an amazing year!!!

  • @vatricegeorge4971
    @vatricegeorge4971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Shyvonne it’s good to see you back, this is a new year for you and your kids. Keep your head up because you got this, you have been doing this by yourself 💪🤗🙏. Do you Shyvonne! 2022 this is for you.

    • @mflournoy2971
      @mflournoy2971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      None of us do anything 'by ourselves'.

  • @marsweeta7960
    @marsweeta7960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shyvonne your 2022 has started with bitter/sweet for you and your family. No worries. In addition to strong, the word FAITH has been placed in my spirit for you. My sincerest condolences on the passing of your grandmother - may she Rest In Peace and Rise in Glory. Congrats on your weight loss. Great job! Regarding your husband, as a counsellor, your videos revealed so much more to me than you would have realised. therefore your revalation of the relationship officially ending was of no surprise. Death is not the only situation with the five stages of grief apply also the ending of relationships. I suggest you monitor Litlle Chris and in fact all of the children carefully to see how they are coping. You have matured, evolved and are being prepared for so much more in the future. May you and your family continue to be blessed. Keep on keeping on sis!!

  • @pamelaj9553
    @pamelaj9553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You got this girl !!!! Everything will be ok.

  • @katherinaalldenez3599
    @katherinaalldenez3599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You got this Shyvonne!!!! Your strong and your going to get through this year happier then you came in it. I can't wait to see your progress on your weight loss and your home!

  • @reejaye6395
    @reejaye6395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Shyvonne you will be okay god got you. You are talented, smart and beautiful. My condolences to you on losing your grandmother. I’m sorry to hear of your divorcing , when one man won’t another man will….. God bless praying for the best for you and your family.

  • @nedrarobertson4171
    @nedrarobertson4171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sorry that your marriage didn't work out after getting back together. You have to do what's best for you and the surgery is best for you.
    I hope the kids can adjust in a healthy way with all you all are going through, I know it's tough on them. Thanks for updating us on your absence. You take care of you and those babies

  • @supermomdj758
    @supermomdj758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I definitely was thinking of you due to how disengaged your husband was during the holidays post. Being a woman of 2 divorces in my life my heart goes out to you. But you're right STRONG, that's what you are. May God strengthen you even the more and bless your family. Bring peace to your children's hearts and minds. I definitely understand. Love your channel. Now Glow up. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

  • @mrsdickerson2018
    @mrsdickerson2018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Many blessings on your new journey! You definitely deserve support and encouragement. My condolences for the loss of your grandmother. Prayers to you for the best year of your life 🙏🏿

  • @donnalyn3372
    @donnalyn3372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sending you and your kiddos love and prayers. Prayers for strength, acceptance, and insight.
    Recent loss and change came to me in this past year. Even through you are okay with it, there is still grief. All grief is different, so I won’t pretend to totally understand. But please, take the time off for you and your children when you need it. You owe us (viewers) nothing. We will be there when you return. Thank you for allowing us into your life.
    I will continue to follow and love your videos.

  • @lakeshiascott8226
    @lakeshiascott8226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Hey Shyvonne glad you’re back and doing well. You are absolutely right to choose you first. If you are healthy and have a clear mind then the rest will fall into place. You deserve the world ..so keep pushing and hold your head up.. I do understand what you mean when you said you should’ve left well enough alone when y’all separated the first time..Be blessed we are here for you..

  • @TheJohnsonFamilyFulloflove
    @TheJohnsonFamilyFulloflove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You got this Queen💪🏾 beautiful woman inside and out❤️ keeping you in my prayers🙏🏽

  • @waytoson
    @waytoson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "You deserve it all" is absolutely correct.... Prayers for you and the family..
    So sorry for the loss of you family member... May 2022 improve for you greatly

  • @merelymelinda5092
    @merelymelinda5092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Happy New Year!
    I just want to say that I am very sorry that you're year has started off rough. I can see the hurt and anger in your eyes.
    But his eye is on the sparrow and I know he watches over you...
    You are a hard working loving and caring Mom. I respect that as a Mom myself. I wondered why your husband didn't help out more, but it wasn't my place to ask. I Pray your husband will gain wisdom and understanding. Our black men are needed in the home.
    Pray for You and your healing both physically and emotionally. May you prosper and have abundantly.
    I enjoy your channel, keep your head up.
    One Luv , Melinda 🙏🙏🙏🙂

    • @juliejoshua6367
      @juliejoshua6367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is a sweet and beautiful message. His eye is on the sparrow, and he is surely watching her. You have a great day.

    • @merelymelinda5092
      @merelymelinda5092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juliejoshua6367 Thanks for the compliment. You have a great day as well.

  • @wendychristian3364
    @wendychristian3364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾KEEP ON PUSHING GURL YOU GOT THIS🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

  • @queenofklassy
    @queenofklassy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Baby like Monica said good “love” 😉 and commitment 💃🏾 Yes love, you deserve it all. Keep pushing and praying and you sure will have it all. ❤️🙌🏾

  • @hadassahmiller5189
    @hadassahmiller5189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Strong is definitely the word. You deserve everything you said and more. Keep a jar of all the good things that happen this year. Read them at the end. You'll be blessed that you did.

  • @mydlopowidlo
    @mydlopowidlo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    girl. you’re a damn superhero. it’s gonna be hard, but from what you’re showing us you’re gonna cope just fine. you deserve somebody real and supportive. also, sorry for the loss of your greandmother. i’m sure 2022 will be your year.

  • @TheChuchuna
    @TheChuchuna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So sorry for your loss 😪 i hope you and the kids can find strength to make this year the best yet ❤

  • @katrithastevens8753
    @katrithastevens8753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was raised by my Grandma so I totally understand your loss and send you my condolences. And I want to say as for as your divorce goes as long as you got FATHER GOD on your side ALL IS WELL he will never leave his children's nor forsake them Amen

  • @dinedoll
    @dinedoll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's hell going through two losses. I lost my Dad and my 16 year relationship at the same time. Even though I initiated the relationship ending, it still hurts. Going from one loss to another was agony, so I would think about my new life and would get sooo excited.... We show strength and it shows our kids how to be strong but we don't show them how to grieve, they don't see us vulnerable or sad... I wish I would have shown mine how to deal with all the emotions of loss, not just strength. Stress hinders your body from healing! We're here for ya Sista Girl.

    • @scotthouse3664
      @scotthouse3664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also… make sure your children understand and see how important happiness is because a dysfunctional/unhappy marriage that is witnessed by your children teaches them that it is “ok” and “normal” This separation/divorce may be a blessing ind disguise. Your kids will heal and therapy may be required if you see them having difficulty. YOU ARE A ROCK STAR 🌟 Looking forward to watching your transform your new house into a home for your family! 👍🏽💗🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @miajoyce11
    @miajoyce11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You are an impressive woman w much to offer. Wishing you well on your healthier lifestyle for you and your children.

  • @libbyhinson4676
    @libbyhinson4676 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love and prayers for all of you! Best of everything for you and the family for 2022!

  • @sunnytate2888
    @sunnytate2888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad to see your back and praying for strength to you and your family

  • @deniseryan4146
    @deniseryan4146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She's baaaaack!! You've been missed. You can do anything, as you have shown all of us. And......GO STEELERS!!!!!

  • @marshavaughn5561
    @marshavaughn5561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Girl you just do you God will send the right one in his time! Im so glad your doing better prayers for your family

  • @muka772
    @muka772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so sorry about your grandmother Shyvonne 😢🙏 I'm praying for you and the children, for health and happiness in 2022💖 Glad you are doing ok . You are a very strong woman, and an amazing person and Mom. 💯🙌 sending you hugs 💞🌷💞

  • @carmenjawwaad5639
    @carmenjawwaad5639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so proud of you! My sincere condolences to you and your family. You got this! We love you so, so much!