Thank you for this very relevant video. Born in 1972 and I know how fortunate I am in my 500 sq ft paid off cottage. I have experienced tough times through the years. I work at a food pantry/resale shop and I can see the upswing of families needing food, warm clothing, heating assistance.
Me and my husband are doing well to pay the basic bills. We have our 2 daughters back home with us. Our car died a year and a half ago, but our oldest daughter had bought one right before the car prices went through the roof. So as we navigate through these times, we have pulled together to keep a roof over our heads and we all have access to a vehicle to run the errands we need and to go to work. Everyone pulls their weight and somehow we are getting through 💖💖💐💐🌻🌻
I'm in my 70's and have always been very frugal and am quite accomplished in many life skils. My entire life i have been asked to do things for other people...mend, sew, knit, bake etc... usually for free or very little pay and often treating the skills I'm being asked for as inconsequential or somehow inferior. The young people today...late teens and 20's... are the first group to ask me to teach them how to do these things for themselves. They have zip in the way of funds, and are trying to stretch what pennies they have, but they always ask how they can repay me for my time and skills....what can they do to help me....what can they trade with me for my time etc. They are anxious to learn for themselves and be self sufficient in this new world. They are embracing frugality and thrift but with the kind of joy that young people exhibit. I am so proud and hopeful for them and their futures.
I wish we could get over the stigmatism of having our young adult kids live at home... they just can't afford it on their own. I feel if they help out and pay rent at home, they shouldn't be looked at negatively to still live at home. It helps the parents out and the kids.
My adult son & I purchased a house together, and we are both happy. He has his space upstairs, and I'm downstairs. We split everything in half. I just retired this year @72.
When I married in 1970 lots of young couples moved in with one or other of their parents house to save up for a deposit for a house of there own or to wait for a house to rent from their local council. We were lucky that we had savings and managed to buy a small terrace house on a mortgage. By the time we had paid the mortgage and the bills we had very little left each week but we managed.
I used to get my car washed, hair cut, yard work, dry cleaning, window washing, house power washing, etc done by professionals. Now, I can't afford it. Now I really can't do a lot of those things myself, though... so they usually go undone, or maybe someone comes along who can and will help. I can't afford any of those services anymore. I've also tried professional house cleaners (for the inside of the house). They were extraordinarily expensive where I live. I know it's hard work, but not some of the fees I've been quoted. I'm certainly finding it much more difficult to save. I think I mentioned here that because of inflation, my social security income went up by $200 a month this year, which promptly put me out of eligibility for $600 worth of benefits I was receiving because of my low income. So, this year, I've started out each month in a $400 deficit. Obviously, I could see no way to save. I've tried no-spend years before, and could last until October. Well I'm in a sort of mandatory no-spend year this year. Because of that, plus all the other money saving efforts I'm making, which are extreme, I admit, because I'm so afraid of running out of money... I've actually had a bit left over each month... somewhere between $100-$400 a month! I'm shocked, but I already have savings funds set up from previous years. I can't believe it, but I am actually able to save a bit of money. I still feel financially strapped. As long as I don't spend on anything besides absolute necessities, (and I'm simply eating less food... it nearly terrifies me to shop for groceries because I know I don't have the money to buy what I normally would, or need) I've realized I'll probably be OK. I will be OK. God is working this deficit living out for me, and I'm (literally) eternally grateful! 🥲
Absolutely! Everyone seems to have their hands in our pockets. The news today is talking about the pace of inflation slowing, but that's on prices that have already increased out of reach. I'm also a retired teacher and mark online, and we haven't had a raise in more than ten years for marking. It seems like we (the World) are in a downward spiral. Best to shut off the news, stay home, and garden... and read second-hand books.
@@brightsunshinyday ouch that’s a lot - pay 50p at our bowling club which goes to club funds or £1-£2 at local charity shops or the library which is free 😀
When I’m in the grocery store, I’ve also noticed people having less in their shopping baskets. Luxury items are rare. I just finished cutting my husband’s hair this morning. It saves $20 every two weeks which adds up.
I have been cutting my husband's hair as well as my own. Do our haircuts look perfect? Absolutely not, but we are not spending our money on barbers and beauty salons!
Great video as usual. Thank you Jane and MIke. Another point I would like to make is that with AI (Artificial Intelligence) being rolled out slowly but consistently, many professional jobs will be eliminated. Many don't see this happening. Yes, education is important, but many of these professional job will slowly be taken up by AI. I think it's important for people to take up a trade (electrition, plumber, carpenter, etc). My husband is a tradesman and is busier than ever. These jobs can't be flipped to AI, at least in the near future.
Plus many older people are happier using trades they know. My OH is the main plumber / heating engineer in our village and does all sorts of small and big jobs. Our neighbours like being able to come and knock on the door and talk to him about what they need. He diesnt charge to go and look at a job. He's like many trades, moving towards retirement age.
I used to have a medical transcription service from home making good money years ago, was phased out by technology. All physicians now use electronic medical records. Now at some of our office we do the "check in" answering medical questions and scanning our insurance cards, etc on a tablet/kiosk. No more register/check in person. Medical staff used to review your health information, now in some places we do it ourselves. It's very difficult for the elderly (my husband is 73) but as we are dying off and the new generation is coming on they can and will have to do it. Jobs are being eliminated by technology and once AI gets improved I'm not sure what we will work at.. definitely trade jobs are where the future is. My grandson just graduated high school, no degree for him. He and his father are opening their own asphalt sealing business. My son has worked for someone else all his life in construction and wants independence and to hopefully set up my grandson for a good future. Entrepreneurship in a trade is the new future.
It does seem like saving money is impossible now, but with a different mindset it can be done. I am almost a year into retirement and during this year have cut back severely on shopping trips. I realized that I had more than enough clothes to wear around the house. I have enough shoes, cleaning supplies and “stuff” to make do. That has become my mantra, “Make do!” I grocery shop with a calculator in my hand. When I get to the end of my allotted money, I’m done. Using all the skills I’ve learned over the years to stretch what I have is very satisfying. I think we are eating healthier since I no longer buy junk, processed or overpriced food. Thankfully my kids picked up my frugal habits and are practicing them within their homes.
Do you have to save up for a house deposit? Or have an affordability test to rent a flat? Do you have to cycle to work because there is no bus and there's no way you'll ever afford a car? You need more compassion for people at the start of their journey.
I used to send gently worn clothes to the second hand shops. Now I wear my clothes to a point where the only place left is the trash. Plus more middle class people are shopping at the thrift stores, depleting inventory. It shows how much the middle class is suffering as well as low income.
I think very few people have avoided being touched by the cost of living crisis. The rises have hit every area of our lives so there is no way to avoid it. I think it is good that people are making their possession last longer much less ending up in land fill but this has a knock on effect for the people who would have previously given these things away ever on free cycle sights or to charity shops.
@@kidzngrandkidz840 This is how I was fetched up in the 70s lol I remember seeing a proper dusters & thinking how posh because ours were old T-shirts cut up
Jane, all of us are going to be re-thinking how, when, and how often we shop; how much the electricity is on at home, and how often we are leaving the house. I am not sure how hair dressers and nail salon owners will stay in business, never mind restaurant owners.
Jane I love your top! Here in the US things are getting dicier by the day. Cutting back wherever we can. Hubby is 75 and I am 68 nearly 69. On Social Security plus his retirement check so only so much we can do. Charity shops don't offer much anymore. It's a sad state of affairs our world is in. Praying for you guys in France and all of Europe.
An older gentleman and i were talking at the gas pumps today about how much it costs to fuel up our cars anymore. We had a laugh remembering the good old days when gas companies would give you a free car wash with a fill up or free kitchen items like rainbow colored beverage tumblers or oven mitts. And even cleaned your windshield and checked the air in your tires for free! They competed for customer loyalty! That's probably hard for our grandkids to grasp!
I live in Canada. I did grocery shopping today. I automatically grabbed store brand but than noticed a name brand 30 cents cheaper. Store brands have gotten expensive
Hell yes to this! :) Nearly 30 years ago now I moved to London and did poverty-pay jobs to start with. I really was absolutely brassic. The first time I needed a haircut was the last time I went to a barber. I’ve cut my own hair ever since… using the exact same clipper set I bought 30yrs ago. I too will never go to the hairdresser again. I should probably work out how much money it’s saved me over the years.
My car is 13 years old. I live near the beach. The downside to that is overtime, the salt water eats at your vehicle. My mechanic told me of a place I could go to that would scrape the rust off the underside of my car for 85 dollars. They did a wonderful job and even cleaned the car engine and washed my car. I then took my car back to my mechanic who, for $150, added rust proofing to the underside…I now have a car that looks brand new inside and out. That car will now probably last me for the next 10 to 15 years if I’m lucky!
I read through all of the comments and see I am not the only one that thinks "things feel different." It is a really scary mess over here in the US. Jane and Mike, another great video. Have a great rest of your week.
I'm retired and unable to go back to work because of crippling arthritis. Fortunately, I know how to make a dime go the distance of a dollar, but I grieve SO for younger people who just don't know how. For groceries, I make my meal plans based on what my grocer has marked down that week and what I have coupons for. I rarely need anything so urgently that I'm moved to pay full price. I bought my used Volvo wagon 20 years ago with the intention of driving it for the rest of my life. Maintenance isn't cheap, but certainly less than payments on a replacement. My biggest money savers are homemade laundry detergent, which only takes 5 minutes to put together, and switching from toilet paper to bathroom wash. My old house is too small for a bidet or even a bidet attachment on the toilet, so I use a turkey baster and homemade reusable flannel wipes. Toilet paper is now over $1.00 a roll in the U.S., and it's an environmental nightmare. I hang my laundry outside to dry, and I cook from scratch. If you buy anything in a package, rather than making it yourself, you're paying for that package, and that's something I won't do willingly. I live very well on a poverty level retirement income and can afford anything I really want, even a luxury vacation every few years. It's not easy for most people, but it can still be done.
@@FrugalQueeninFrance Actually, I teach a class for desperately poor women. We meet weekly at a charity clinic on the bus line in town. These are women on the dole who have almost nothing but have learned to watch every penny, so can now put food on the table and shoes on their children's feet. In addition to my lesson plans, we exchange new ideas, and it's amazing how they've learned to think deeply about financial strategies. I'm very proud of them. Sadly, no one taught me, and all the lessons I now share were hard-learned. Yes, deserted with two children and an invalid mother to care for, poverty level income, unemployed after The Crash of 2008. I was only one of millions ruined then. I recovered, and it's my mission to coach other women through such crises.
We are gradually changing the type of foods we eat in order to get maximum nutrition at the best price. This includes substituting plant proteins for red meat and cooking more meatless meals. With spice and seasoning, these are excellent, a culinary adventure, and we are actually beginning to prefer our new way of eating!
Me too! Loving all the fresh veggies and fruit, grains,legumes and more. I even belong to the Rancho Gordo bean club! Yes it's a culinary adventure! And a health adventure too!
I’m noticing two things here in the US affecting my grocery prices- I see manufacturers downsizing their products and then raising the prices at the same time. For example, ice cream has always been packaged in half gallons but now it’s rare to see that with most having gone down several ounces, but prices are either the same or higher. And also, in my quest to buy quality food items in a time of industrial farming, I’m paying exorbitant prices for things like pastured eggs and organic or high quality dairy. Thank you, Jane and Mike for a thoughtful video!
As a mum of two teens and a daughter in her mid twenties, I appreciate your comments on the challenges they face. Some people can be very scathing and it’s unfair. The next generation is really up against it!
As a single mom I worked second jobs for years, you have to keep an open mind. Charity shops I go in once a month if I am looking for something, no expert. I did stop the hair color, nails, yard service etc., during the pandemic and we will not go back to paying people to do what we can do. I started a victory garden during the pandemic, grow our own vegetables, herbs and fruit. I have learned to make my own moisturizers, shampoo, face lotion, laundry soap, cleaning products, all cheaper and healthier than store bought. I have gone way back to old ways. Young people have it difficult for housing, needs a reset. I can see many ways to still be frugal, just different, times are changing.
This is a very truthful video. Things are changing in the wrong direction. corporations have too much power.I really first noticed not being able to make more money after the 2008 crash. I then discovered savings! It really adds up. I am self employed and always pay myself first and configure everything around that.
@@FrugalQueeninFrance It’s only because of you that I now have a budget. I was making an effort to be economical but never had the discipline of a budget. Nowadays I look at my budget each month. I do this both so I can see whether I am sticking to it but also to make sure that the belt doesn’t need more tightening.
It is so difficult to save now. I'm on a small fixed income and everything keeps going up. Utilities are supposed to rise at the end of June again. I keep a very detailed budget and I stick to it. I budget $10. monthly for clothes, shoes & accessories and I'm doing a no spend year with it. Come December I'll have $120. and hopefully I'll be able to use that for extra food for the pantry. It's hard now and I believe it will get harder so I'm making plans and making do. Thanks for sharing!
I like your usual upbeat, can-do content, but this is a welcome balance as well. I appreciate it. It does feel difficult lately, and as I'm relatively young with young children it's nice to hear from those with more experience.
You are in luck to be young enough to plan your strategy and to be able to teach your children to be thrifty now. Crass consumerism is something to stand up against throughout our lifetime. Let them know what peer pressure can do to damage their future!
Everything is expensive including charity shops! Am having to rewrite our budget as redundancy could be on the cards in September for my husband! Am really hoping it doesn’t happen but putting the bare bones budget in place now!
Spot on, Jane and Mike. I was going to buy a prepackaged bag of fresh cherries for a treat this week "on sale" for $5.99/lb. I assumed each bag was prepackaged at around a pound (I knew better, but didn't bother to weigh it myself); at checkout it rang out at over $13 for the bag. I politely told the checker we didn't want it. We also recently had to buy some (ridiculously expensive) plywood for a home repair. My husband dutifully sorted through the heavy plywood sheets until we had the number we needed that were without cracks or other damage and stacked the damaged ones neatly to the side. We saw another customer do the same--he had to put 9 sheets to the side before he found enough that were of acceptable quality. I guess my point is be on your guard--it feels like more than ever before, stores are pulling out every trick in the book to get their hands on our money. Don't be tricked or shamed into buying junk or paying more than what you planned to spend.
My daughter has a family of 5…(3 kids ..4, 6 and 10 years old) plus her husband. She told me yesterday that she saw an older lady at the grocery store buying 1 bag of groceries and found herself envious of her!!! She said how nice it would be to pay for one bag of groceries just for yourself to eat.😂 Her kids are good eaters and she feeds them well so we all know how expensive it has become.
I am very fortunate to have no mortgage or rent, but am finding that the cost of routine house maintenance and repairs also seems to be rocketing. You're right Jane everyone is feeling the pinch currently. It's worrying but it's good to support others and share information and skills. I'm very grateful for a garden and greenhouse and for cooking skills and like to share garden produce and home made jams etc where I can. In my neighbourhood a lot of people grow vegetables etc and people are generous sharing plants and seeds as end-of-driveway giveaways or for pennies.
As bleak as some of this is, it's encouraging to know that we aren't alone. Reading others' ideas and tips is very helpful. My husband has been working on getting his builder's license, while at the same time realizing that his back injuries (with three previous surgeries) might prevent him from ever getting to use it. That means four disabled adults here, and we are looking carefully at how we use our money to stretch it further. Inflation is supposed to be "slowing", but not by much. In the meantime, we're working hard on growing "high-value" food in the garden, both for ourselves and to share. I'm reading old British booklets and watching old wartime videos on victory gardening and paying attention to the "make do and mend" brochures. Please keep your videos coming, Jane and Mike. You're both terrific gifts to the rest of us!
I find it all quite disheartening. I want to save and pay off the mortgage as much as I can, but sometimes I have to accept that it isn't possible. On the plus side, I am lucky to have a house and relatively small mortgage, and to be able to hold on to it - just! So many are finding things impossible and losing the roof over their head. I find it really upsetting to read. It makes me anxious for change and also keen to ensure that lessons in empathy and politics, as well as an awareness of society and its imbalances, are highlighted for my son.
I've just researched how much my car would cost right now second hand (my car is 10 years old, a small car) and it nearly costs the same I've paid for it New from the factory, 10 years ago😮!!! I'm in Spain.
It took me awhile and a few high-end hair salons in Austin, Texas to find someone reasonable. I finally did got my haircut for $20, and 1/2 a mile from my home, not a fancy place but I'm happy with the results
I totally agree that our younger people are struggling to make a start in life. Unless someone is willing to teach them and assist them I just don't see how they can make it. Of course most of us had a hard time first starting out but now a days it is stacked against them.
I paid £4.18 for a watermelon today! I didnt realise until it had gone through the till that it was priced at per kg on the shelf. Last watermelon 🍉 I'll ever be buying! It better be a good one!
I went as a seller car booting last weekend. I was decluttering the house to make it easier to clean. What I noticed was the amount of people sellingv heir personal items..hundreds of them. The organizers opened an additional football field to accomodate. Less buyers out and about, and they want the items for knock down prices...practically for free. Also, mountains of clothes. I made 152 euro in 4 hours, which wasnt bad, as the man next to me made 40, and the woman on the other side of me made 75...getting tougher and tougher...
I agree with your observations. We are having the same problems in the United States for the retired persons --- of which we are ones. But the ideas you and Mike have given the viewers has really helped when we go shopping. The ideas of reuse, reduce and recycle comes to mind before we shop now a days. Thanks for sharing.
You are correct Jane. The only thing I can do is shop the half price specials. Aldi still has the best prices on meat and cheese but there the savings start to disappear. I’m like you I shop 3 different shops but only because they’re close together. Interesting videos Jane. Thanks. Best wishes from Australia 🇦🇺
It is more complex currently, but I wonder if it's time for us to push the limits of what we do to save. So thinking along the lines of foraging, bartering, gleaning, mending, multi generational housing, even curbside gleaning might be the way to go.
Excellent video today. Totally agree it is getting harder, but I would add quality of service has plummeted. Companies demand payment up front and then provide poor service or support following purchase. Back in the day you would pay a deposit or half up front but then at least have some negotiating power with final payment if service had been poor or job not to standard these day’s companies have you over a barrel. No longer is the customer always right, in fact everything feels hard work for the consumer.
I live in Atlanta, GA, USA and i am retired. I learned how to sew my own clothes as a teenager so i mend my clothes to make them last. As an example, Just today i was sewing a pillowcase that had slightly torn at the bottom seam. it is fine to have a slightly shorter length. We are wearing jeans and shirts that are over 20 years old since we take care of our clothes and hang them to dry (except for towels and sheets go into the dryer). We drive a 1999 sedan so we have no car payments and we only have one car. I no longer go to a manicurist or hair dresser. I have a relative cut my hair and my husband's hair too. We do our own yard work and cook all meals at home from scratch. That saves a lot of money. We eat well and indulge in sweet treats every week. We do take 2 weeks vacation a year -- i used to take 4 weeks but have cut back a bit. I dont feel lacking or cheated at all. I feel happy about what we have, and have adjusted to a more frugal life. When you have the love of family and grandchildren, you don't need anything else.
As usual, you hit the nail on the head. It's harder to make money and there's less of it in our pockets yet we're expected to spend more to get less than what we had in the past.
A fixed income is becoming harder each day for us. Everything keeps going up so much that we buy very little extras. Pet food is really going higher each time we buy it also. I won't switch them to something that wouldn't be as good. If we do find anything even at thrift store it's got to be really marked down. We do shop Aldi, Walmart, and we have an outlet food store that has been a blessing. Eating from the freezer right now. It's just hard.
I agree with you Jane that things are much harder. In 2004 I bought my first house when I was 25 years old. I know that if I was 25 TODAY then I would definitely not be in a position to buy. My local charities shops have tatty tops, stitching loose and even one with a lovely (faint but noticeable) stain down the front and wanted £5 for it. My lifestyle has altered as a result of the COL crisis, I no longer buy meat, I now handstitch rips and holes in clothes especially my pyjamas, I rarely go into charity shops or Aldi as it’s just not as cheap as it use to be. I’m extra careful with electricity and don’t even get me started on the cost of childcare! I know many a parent that are unable to return to work after their initial parental leave because they can’t afford nurseries fees. It’s all very worrying.
Jane, I live in N. Idaho USA. You nailed it. My prediction is we here in the US will not have second hand stores. The prices have sky rocketed and the inventory is poor. Our world is sliding into a muddy pit. I have lived through a few recessions (I’m 64). I am seeing something different than I’ve ever seen before. I don’t know how people make it. Maybe many are not. Homelessness is growing all around us.
I am 49. My parents and in-laws are in their 70’s and saying the same thing. They all say they lived through the inflation of the 70s and 80s but it just didn’t feel like this.
Folks around where I live in Vermont have been complaining about the cost in our local second hand store for the past 4 or 5 years. Many depend on buying most things there and really feel the pinch. I honestly do not know how folks with children are making it; the cost of clothing and food is high! I do notice that I am getting a lot more “sales ads” on email than in years past. I am thinking that a bunch of the clothing and household goods companies are hurting.
You are absolutely right! My 3 local markets are the same most of the time. Hard to find those really deeply discounted items. Car prices for new or used are insane!
The least expensive market near us is Aldi. The other two I shop at are much more expensive for dairy products , paper products and pet food. The only meat I buy is for my 13 year old dog to entice her..
Thank you mentioning the charity shops!! I used to get our family of 5 clothes for the year for under $200. Now a dress there costs $15+. - as much as new! I used to love doing all that shopping too
This was the case with us. We are a one car family, we had just paid it off and the engine seized last Spring. We were quoted over 10k to fix it. Used car prices were so bad our savings didn’t come close and they were a terrible deal. They were more than new in some cases because supply was so low. The best deal overall was to finance a small reliable Toyota that we can pay off quick and use it for years. But it was so defeating to want to buy in cash and be thwarted at every turn.
We have a 20 year old car that is going to need to be replaced any time now. I absolutely do not want to have a car payment, but that may not be an option. I appreciate you sharing your choice and reasoning behind it -- sounds like a very wise, common sense decision.
I don't care if it seems to be impossible. Despite a modest income, I'm still skimming some off the top to pay myself first. What choice do I have? My car is 18 years old and I myself am not getting any younger. I feel like we will cope. We always do.
We've never gotten Lidl or Aldi and the closest to them was when Walmart with groceries came to town. Like you said, I'm agreeing with your points as you go through this video. I've seen store brands disappear off shelves first and often times never be restocked. This year my gardening has changed...I'm trying to grow more protein by way of dried beans for winter meals. Hoping to save money on our food budget in that way if it is successful.
Thank you so much for your videos. You both are so inspirational . We have 3 adult sons (21, 26 and 29) still at home. Thankfully they are also thrifty and save but so want their own homes. The only advice we give them is save and use the time you have whilst at home with us wisely. Please god their time will come x
I cut my grocery bill in half when I first started shopping at Aldi in the US. Now I have to shop around at all of the stores nearby (Aldi, Target, Sam's, Walmart, Dollar General) and Amazon to find where items are cheapest, and it isn't by much anymore!
Hi Jane. Spot on as usual. I’m not going to the hairdressers anymore. 2 times a year I go to a college now for a trim. No more colouring,embracing the greys. I go to a community grocer,costs £3 & I do my meals around what I get. Food is going up every week here in the UK. I’m not fussy I will eat anything. So long as my bills are paid I’m happy. Maybe it’s because I’m older (58) I don’t need the latest clothes etc. 🤗💐💐
I cleared out my cupboards for clothing I no longer wear to donate…I found tops and skirts that I had forgotten about and increased the space I have. I will be shopping my cupboards and wearing what I have…I haven’t bought any new clothes in three years; now with all that I have, I don’t need to as I have plenty of clothes I can mix and match to wear!
We live in the US in Colorado. I agree most prices are very similar from store to store. But we get fuel points for every dollar we spend at our local City Market. They give incentives such as 500 extra fuel points for doing a pick up order over $50 or 4x the fuel points when we shop on Friday. If I work all the incentives I can build up our fuel points and we can get $1 a gallon off of gas. It is a great help.
Sadly all you have presented is universally true. Charity shops in the US are very expensive, the best merchandise never makes it yo the floor, but hoes on their inline auction sites. Also, yes the discount food stores here are at nearly the same rates as the traditional chains. Used car prices are through the roof. Difficult times for so many. Excellent video.
You are absolutely right. I have cut back on services such as haircuts and lawn care and now need to do it myself to help make ends meet. Prices in second hand stores have increased and quality of merchandise available there has decreased as more people need to hang on to their old things and repair them rather than bring them to second hand stores or purchase a replacement. It is becoming increasingly difficult to reduce debts as monthly interest rates continue to climb each month so it is much more difficult to put "extra" monthly money toward paying down debt. $100 doesn't fill many grocery bags anymore. Thanks for all of your savings tips in these frustrating times.
a lot of 'price matching' on certain products from the main supermarkets to the Lidl/Aldi type supermarket but not cheaper - also shocked to see a Tesco brand Tshirt in the Charity shop for not much less than it would have cost new, and probably dearer than in Tescos own sale - I now only get my haircut 3-4 times a year and have stopped colouring it
I have lived through inflation as a young married woman trying to buy a home, the Global Financial crisis, and now, again, inflation. Is one worse than the other. Our economies have to keep moving and changing, they won't become stagnant. We have to be more and more creative in the way we deal with these situations, and whatever the situation is, there is always someone who is a lot worse off.
It is getting scary hard to stay afloat I agree. I live in Australia and I've always lived on. Low income but I'm frugal. I was talking with a friend and she agrees we are running out of things to cut out. Years ago you could just say " oh I will go with out hair cuts or take away or what ever " now I'm like I've run out of wants to cut and I'm having to look at cutting needs back. However I just got very lucky in a strange way. My roof leaked in. Storm so claimed insurance and I asked the builder " how much are you paying the painter and could you pay me instead and I can paint. Well blow me down I nearly died of shock at the huge amount they are going to pay me to paint both sides of a wall they are replacing and the skirting boards. Wait for it....$4,000 just over 4 actually. Not that most have current insurance claim but if anyone ever has one trust me it's worth thinking about parts you can do your self. In my country we can ask to be played put and find our builders or trades people. For the hole job or just part of it. I kinda wish now I opted for a complete pay out now after seeing amount I get for just painting 2 walls.
Spot on again Jane. There just doesn’t seem to be any way of saving at the moment. I hunt out bargains but just seem to be wasting my time as I’m just not finding any!
Unfortunately you are correct. I haven’t looked in a charity shop lately, but the last time I noticed the prices were higher. On Tuesdays savers does give seniors a 30% savings.
I agree with so much of what you are saying! Here in the US used car prices are so high it is crazy. I went to one of our charity shops recently and walked out without buying what I found because their prices were so high that I could buy new for just a few dollars more. Middle class folks definitely are having a hard time, money just doesn't stretch 😒
I believe the younger generation has it harder than previous generations, and whats sad is that im not sure theyve been prepared for it. Im already thinking how we could adapt our home in case we need to do multigenerational living. I dont want my kids to put off their lives (eg marriage and children) until they can afford to move out because it may not ever happen.
Same here--already thinking about how to accommodate multigenerational living; and we have elderly parents to consider too. I think the difference between the younger generations now and in the past is just like you said-- they are not prepared to deal with the change in lifestyle that is coming (already here). For the majority of them, they appear to have very different ideas than mine of what a want and a need is. They are for sure getting hit with exorbitant expenses in every area. However, when I look around at the twenty-somethings I know they are distressed by the cost of housing, yet feel eating out, having daily takeaway coffees, and buying additional dogs and cats are necessities.
I applaud you for making plans for the future. Most of us have raised our kids with ultra high expectations, in a consumeristic society. We now need to be there for them with the new reality they will be facing, a retracting economy as opposed to the 75 years of post WWII expansion. It will be a big adjustment for all of us.
I have 2 very different children.. a 20 yr old son who is extremely frugal and doesn't like alcohol and night clubs. he dresses smartly has his own paid for car and a sizeable amiount in savings towards a house deposit. on the other hand my 27yr old daughter is the opposite.. she spent her youth on going out, night clubs,bars, (we used to make half a cider last all night, now theyre drinking shorts and cocktails) hair + extensions, make up & paying to have her make up done, nails,lashes,eyebrows,fillers,botox , pets, leasing a top of the range car, clothes,shoes,handbags, designer pyjama's?????? . M son has no worries about the future whereas my dqughter is now finding it tough having scraped the money together for a fixer upper. I do think social media has raised people's expectations of what their lives should be like and I so wish that schools would provide finance lessons for the youngsters of today.
Supermarkets well over a year ago changed, had made this comment b4, not on your channel but on Prime of Midlife. Something changed with production and manufacturing and "who" owns them. In Ireland from nearly two year's, a lot of supermarkets lost their own branded products. Would say, big brands ( corporations ) have if they don't own them, given production companies no choice but to stop producing these products. Lidl, Aldi, Tesco and Dunnes are good examples of this here, so many special buys and own label items have been gone for well over a year now.
In the US we have Goodwill (charity shop). I still am able to get high quality items for much less. The point is to go during the week (which is hard for most as people are working) when it isn't crowded. I always find a good bargain and good quality items.
Also a monday as most people donate at weekend. Friday is when they put their best stuff out for the busy weekend.march and april is sposed to be optimum time to keep an eye on charity thrift shops as this is when most people declutter.
I do my main shop in Tesco and they are doing more Aldi price matches. Aldi is still cheaper for some things, so I do a supplement shop there. I was recently surprised to find Lidl quite expensive compared to Tesco and Aldi.
Jane this was a great subject matter and video. In our charity/thrift stores in Australia they try and sell broken bric a brac, who would want to buy that junk? The items are less quality to buy also, for higher prices. The discount stores are also dearer they no longer are a bargain as much as they used to be.
I agree with you comments about supermarket pricing. It seems like they are all agreeing a price to sell at. Also the very cheapest range of foods have totally disappeared from the shelves.the next level range items are very hit and miss. I also see things shrinking in size, but the price has still gone up. I also notice that there are fewer and fewer reductions in the shops. Apart from bread the reductions are few and far between. I also notice stores always seem to have gaps in stock on the shelves which makes you think shops are buying in less stock not reduce the need for them to reduce surplus stock.
My son is 30 he can't afford to live on his own. I have one tween child. I literally can't afford to live alone either! We share a house. Yes we help each other. But, we have separate lives.
Great video, as always. You really hit the nail on the head with how things have changed. We are helping our daughter set up home (in the frugal queen style) and have been shocked by the difference since covid. We went to a charity second hand furniture place that has previously had incredible good quality items dirt cheap, perfect for setting up a home. This weekend there were only tatty items at quite high prices and some items that could have been bought new for the same price.
Good thoughts and advice, Jane. For years I was paycheck to paycheck and ended up creating a lot of credit card debt which I am still paying off in my retirement, but I have managed to reduce my debt a lot and create a small long term savings. I am so grateful for a co-worker who encouraged me to start with just $25 per paycheck into a deferred compensation plan offered by my public service employer. I still am willing and able to learn about finances and I have adjusted my thinking on spending.🌹
Here in New England, Aldi is still significantly cheaper than the other grocery stores, including Walmart. Homeowner insurance is more expensive. Used cars are more expensive. Charity shops are more expensive - but thriving, as far as I can tell. They are often busy. I think perhaps some people are shopping at charity shops that have never shopped there before. The cost of eating out is jaw-dropping. We were given a gift certificate for $50 to the Italian restaurant Carraba's. I thought that my husband and I could probably use it twice. We used it up completely on our first dinner there - and that was not including the tip. We did not get appetizers or desserts, either. Just a year or so ago, a $50 gift certificate would have easily covered 2 separate dinners for 2 people. We went on a short 2 night vacation over Memorial Day weekend. It cost as much as a four day vacation used to cost a few years ago. The price of the motel room and the prices of meals at restaurants were unbelievable. We used to be able to find affordable motels and restaurants when we went on vacation. It is getting harder and harder to find them. Of course, we could pack our own food. (And we probably will do that in the future). I would really rather not camp. I have too many memories of camping in the rain on Cape Cod as a child. I feel like things are going back to the past. In some ways, it is a past I never knew. If we weren't camping - if we stayed in a motel - my mother never brought food on vacation. I know that I should not be complaining - many people have far greater struggles. I just keep thinking that I am prepared for what things cost, and yet I keep getting blindsided by the prices.
Good talk. A major issue in Oz are rents and very few house vacancies. Families are reverting to several generations living together and in many European communities this is the norm Older people are supported. Aldi arriving in Oz really shook the local supermarkets up with a bit of genuine competition. Although there range of goods are narrower Aldi prices are much cheaper. Suits me. Many of your recipes are budget friendly and I can recall eating Shepherds Pie (leftovers) rehashed but not complaining, it was tasty.
So true Jane and Mike. Here in New Zealand what was our cheapest supermarket is now mostly on a par with what used to be the most expensive supermarket! Never thought I'd be shopping at the most expensive supermarket because they have the best deals this week. Many of the own-brand items from the cheapest supermarket disappeared during the pandemic and have not returned e.g. cornflakes. Our charity stores are charing ridiculous prices for their goods, and friends who work in them have said to me that they have noticed a big drop-off in donations this year. It's getting so tough out there, I really feel for younger people, wages are not keeping up with inflation and rental prices here are nuts.
Agree the prices are similar in all grocery stores goods except for the loss litres advertised weekly which is mostly what I buy and has us stopping at more than one store on grocery shopping day. What is also annoying is the loss litres all have limited quantities and they run out of stock on first day of sale.
Thank you for this very relevant video. Born in 1972 and I know how fortunate I am in my 500 sq ft paid off cottage. I have experienced tough times through the years. I work at a food pantry/resale shop and I can see the upswing of families needing food, warm clothing, heating assistance.
Thanks for sharing!
Me and my husband are doing well to pay the basic bills. We have our 2 daughters back home with us. Our car died a year and a half ago, but our oldest daughter had bought one right before the car prices went through the roof. So as we navigate through these times, we have pulled together to keep a roof over our heads and we all have access to a vehicle to run the errands we need and to go to work. Everyone pulls their weight and somehow we are getting through 💖💖💐💐🌻🌻
I wish you well.
I'm in my 70's and have always been very frugal and am quite accomplished in many life skils. My entire life i have been asked to do things for other people...mend, sew, knit, bake etc... usually for free or very little pay and often treating the skills I'm being asked for as inconsequential or somehow inferior.
The young people today...late teens and 20's... are the first group to ask me to teach them how to do these things for themselves. They have zip in the way of funds, and are trying to stretch what pennies they have, but they always ask how they can repay me for my time and skills....what can they do to help me....what can they trade with me for my time etc. They are anxious to learn for themselves and be self sufficient in this new world. They are embracing frugality and thrift but with the kind of joy that young people exhibit. I am so proud and hopeful for them and their futures.
I wish we could get over the stigmatism of having our young adult kids live at home... they just can't afford it on their own. I feel if they help out and pay rent at home, they shouldn't be looked at negatively to still live at home. It helps the parents out and the kids.
It’s not negative. They just want their own homes.
My adult son & I purchased a house together, and we are both happy. He has his space upstairs, and I'm downstairs. We split everything in half. I just retired this year @72.
I agree, young adults are struggling. Good way to save money.
When I married in 1970 lots of young couples moved in with one or other of their parents house to save up for a deposit for a house of there own or to wait for a house to rent from their local council. We were lucky that we had savings and managed to buy a small terrace house on a mortgage. By the time we had paid the mortgage and the bills we had very little left each week but we managed.
I completely agree! My adult sons pay rent and help my husband and myself a lot.
I used to get my car washed, hair cut, yard work, dry cleaning, window washing, house power washing, etc done by professionals. Now, I can't afford it. Now I really can't do a lot of those things myself, though... so they usually go undone, or maybe someone comes along who can and will help. I can't afford any of those services anymore. I've also tried professional house cleaners (for the inside of the house). They were extraordinarily expensive where I live. I know it's hard work, but not some of the fees I've been quoted.
I'm certainly finding it much more difficult to save. I think I mentioned here that because of inflation, my social security income went up by $200 a month this year, which promptly put me out of eligibility for $600 worth of benefits I was receiving because of my low income. So, this year, I've started out each month in a $400 deficit. Obviously, I could see no way to save. I've tried no-spend years before, and could last until October. Well I'm in a sort of mandatory no-spend year this year. Because of that, plus all the other money saving efforts I'm making, which are extreme, I admit, because I'm so afraid of running out of money... I've actually had a bit left over each month... somewhere between $100-$400 a month! I'm shocked, but I already have savings funds set up from previous years. I can't believe it, but I am actually able to save a bit of money. I still feel financially strapped. As long as I don't spend on anything besides absolute necessities, (and I'm simply eating less food... it nearly terrifies me to shop for groceries because I know I don't have the money to buy what I normally would, or need) I've realized I'll probably be OK. I will be OK. God is working this deficit living out for me, and I'm (literally) eternally grateful! 🥲
Absolutely! Everyone seems to have their hands in our pockets. The news today is talking about the pace of inflation slowing, but that's on prices that have already increased out of reach. I'm also a retired teacher and mark online, and we haven't had a raise in more than ten years for marking. It seems like we (the World) are in a downward spiral. Best to shut off the news, stay home, and garden... and read second-hand books.
Well said
@@brightsunshinyday ouch! Luckily 50c in my local charity shop
@@brightsunshinyday ouch that’s a lot - pay 50p at our bowling club which goes to club funds or £1-£2 at local charity shops or the library which is free 😀
When I’m in the grocery store, I’ve also noticed people having less in their shopping baskets. Luxury items are rare. I just finished cutting my husband’s hair this morning. It saves $20 every two weeks which adds up.
I have been cutting my husband's hair as well as my own. Do our haircuts look perfect? Absolutely not, but we are not spending our money on barbers and beauty salons!
Great video as usual. Thank you Jane and MIke. Another point I would like to make is that with AI (Artificial Intelligence) being rolled out slowly but consistently, many professional jobs will be eliminated. Many don't see this happening. Yes, education is important, but many of these professional job will slowly be taken up by AI. I think it's important for people to take up a trade (electrition, plumber, carpenter, etc). My husband is a tradesman and is busier than ever. These jobs can't be flipped to AI, at least in the near future.
Plus many older people are happier using trades they know. My OH is the main plumber / heating engineer in our village and does all sorts of small and big jobs. Our neighbours like being able to come and knock on the door and talk to him about what they need. He diesnt charge to go and look at a job. He's like many trades, moving towards retirement age.
I used to have a medical transcription service from home making good money years ago, was phased out by technology. All physicians now use electronic medical records. Now at some of our office we do the "check in" answering medical questions and scanning our insurance cards, etc on a tablet/kiosk. No more register/check in person. Medical staff used to review your health information, now in some places we do it ourselves. It's very difficult for the elderly (my husband is 73) but as we are dying off and the new generation is coming on they can and will have to do it. Jobs are being eliminated by technology and once AI gets improved I'm not sure what we will work at.. definitely trade jobs are where the future is. My grandson just graduated high school, no degree for him. He and his father are opening their own asphalt sealing business. My son has worked for someone else all his life in construction and wants independence and to hopefully set up my grandson for a good future. Entrepreneurship in a trade is the new future.
It does seem like saving money is impossible now, but with a different mindset it can be done. I am almost a year into retirement and during this year have cut back severely on shopping trips. I realized that I had more than enough clothes to wear around the house. I have enough shoes, cleaning supplies and “stuff” to make do. That has become my mantra, “Make do!” I grocery shop with a calculator in my hand. When I get to the end of my allotted money, I’m done. Using all the skills I’ve learned over the years to stretch what I have is very satisfying. I think we are eating healthier since I no longer buy junk, processed or overpriced food. Thankfully my kids picked up my frugal habits and are practicing them within their homes.
Do you have to save up for a house deposit? Or have an affordability test to rent a flat? Do you have to cycle to work because there is no bus and there's no way you'll ever afford a car? You need more compassion for people at the start of their journey.
I used to send gently worn clothes to the second hand shops. Now I wear my clothes to a point where the only
place left is the trash. Plus more middle class people are shopping at the thrift stores, depleting inventory.
It shows how much the middle class is suffering as well as low income.
They’re rapidly becoming the working poor
@Bookmagic - I think a lot more people will be learning to mend and re-make their clothing.
I think very few people have avoided being touched by the cost of living crisis. The rises have hit every area of our lives so there is no way to avoid it. I think it is good that people are making their possession last longer much less ending up in land fill but this has a knock on effect for the people who would have previously given these things away ever on free cycle sights or to charity shops.
@@kidzngrandkidz840 We surely are!
@@kidzngrandkidz840 This is how I was fetched up in the 70s lol I remember seeing a proper dusters & thinking how posh because ours were old T-shirts cut up
Jane, all of us are going to be re-thinking how, when, and how often we shop; how much the electricity is on at home, and how often we are leaving the house. I am not sure how hair dressers and nail salon owners will stay in business, never mind restaurant owners.
Jane I love your top! Here in the US things are getting dicier by the day. Cutting back wherever we can. Hubby is 75 and I am 68 nearly 69. On Social Security plus his retirement check so only so much we can do. Charity shops don't offer much anymore. It's a sad state of affairs our world is in. Praying for you guys in France and all of Europe.
Thanks very much
An older gentleman and i were talking at the gas pumps today about how much it costs to fuel up our cars anymore. We had a laugh remembering the good old days when gas companies would give you a free car wash with a fill up or free kitchen items like rainbow colored beverage tumblers or oven mitts. And even cleaned your windshield and checked the air in your tires for free! They competed for customer loyalty! That's probably hard for our grandkids to grasp!
Especially when they can’t afford a car.
You are helping so many people! Thanks for all your saving reminders!👏
You are so welcome!
Hello from Romania. All eyes and ears here😊
I live in Canada. I did grocery shopping today. I automatically grabbed store brand but than noticed a name brand 30 cents cheaper. Store brands have gotten expensive
We all must check
Cut my own hair for the first time two weeks ago, I'll never go to a hairdresser again.
Hell yes to this! :) Nearly 30 years ago now I moved to London and did poverty-pay jobs to start with. I really was absolutely brassic. The first time I needed a haircut was the last time I went to a barber. I’ve cut my own hair ever since… using the exact same clipper set I bought 30yrs ago. I too will never go to the hairdresser again. I should probably work out how much money it’s saved me over the years.
My car is 13 years old. I live near the beach. The downside to that is overtime, the salt water eats at your vehicle. My mechanic told me of a place I could go to that would scrape the rust off the underside of my car for 85 dollars. They did a wonderful job and even cleaned the car engine and washed my car. I then took my car back to my mechanic who, for $150, added rust proofing to the underside…I now have a car that looks brand new inside and out. That car will now probably last me for the next 10 to 15 years if I’m lucky!
I read through all of the comments and see I am not the only one that thinks "things feel different." It is a really scary mess over here in the US. Jane and Mike, another great video. Have a great rest of your week.
If we can help others it can be so rewarding and a gift 🎁 of joy if we can help a bit. Humanity is a blessing
Thanks
I'm retired and unable to go back to work because of crippling arthritis. Fortunately, I know how to make a dime go the distance of a dollar, but I grieve SO for younger people who just don't know how. For groceries, I make my meal plans based on what my grocer has marked down that week and what I have coupons for. I rarely need anything so urgently that I'm moved to pay full price. I bought my used Volvo wagon 20 years ago with the intention of driving it for the rest of my life. Maintenance isn't cheap, but certainly less than payments on a replacement. My biggest money savers are homemade laundry detergent, which only takes 5 minutes to put together, and switching from toilet paper to bathroom wash. My old house is too small for a bidet or even a bidet attachment on the toilet, so I use a turkey baster and homemade reusable flannel wipes. Toilet paper is now over $1.00 a roll in the U.S., and it's an environmental nightmare. I hang my laundry outside to dry, and I cook from scratch. If you buy anything in a package, rather than making it yourself, you're paying for that package, and that's something I won't do willingly. I live very well on a poverty level retirement income and can afford anything I really want, even a luxury vacation every few years. It's not easy for most people, but it can still be done.
They know how! They can't earn enough to pay the rent or eat! Home owning or car owning is an impossibility!
How good to hear that someone can make it work!
@@FrugalQueeninFrance Actually, I teach a class for desperately poor women. We meet weekly at a charity clinic on the bus line in town. These are women on the dole who have almost nothing but have learned to watch every penny, so can now put food on the table and shoes on their children's feet. In addition to my lesson plans, we exchange new ideas, and it's amazing how they've learned to think deeply about financial strategies. I'm very proud of them. Sadly, no one taught me, and all the lessons I now share were hard-learned. Yes, deserted with two children and an invalid mother to care for, poverty level income, unemployed after The Crash of 2008. I was only one of millions ruined then. I recovered, and it's my mission to coach other women through such crises.
We are gradually changing the type of foods we eat in order to get maximum nutrition at the best price. This includes substituting plant proteins for red meat and cooking more meatless meals. With spice and seasoning, these are excellent, a culinary adventure, and we are actually beginning to prefer our new way of eating!
Great point!
We had "meatless" tacos last night using refried beans in lieu of meat...with all the veggies, salsa and guacamole no one missed the meat at all...
Me too! Loving all the fresh veggies and fruit, grains,legumes and more. I even belong to the Rancho Gordo bean club! Yes it's a culinary adventure! And a health adventure too!
I’m noticing two things here in the US affecting my grocery prices- I see manufacturers downsizing their products and then raising the prices at the same time. For example, ice cream has always been packaged in half gallons but now it’s rare to see that with most having gone down several ounces, but prices are either the same or higher. And also, in my quest to buy quality food items in a time of industrial farming, I’m paying exorbitant prices for things like pastured eggs and organic or high quality dairy. Thank you, Jane and Mike for a thoughtful video!
Thanks for watching
It's called "shrink-flation". Make the package smaller and charge the same price or higher!
Some brands of butter have downsized in the U.K. - 200gr instead of 250 gr.
@@liztoth4324 twinnings earl grey which my mother and I like has gone from 100 bags to 80 bags , going to tescos own or lidls own
@@adoptedscot in Lidl today tinned peaches gone up from £1 to £1.69 in last few months.
As a mum of two teens and a daughter in her mid twenties, I appreciate your comments on the challenges they face. Some people can be very scathing and it’s unfair. The next generation is really up against it!
They certainly are!
As a single mom I worked second jobs for years, you have to keep an open mind. Charity shops I go in once a month if I am looking for something, no expert. I did stop the hair color, nails, yard service etc., during the pandemic and we will not go back to paying people to do what we can do. I started a victory garden during the pandemic, grow our own vegetables, herbs and fruit. I have learned to make my own moisturizers, shampoo, face lotion, laundry soap, cleaning products, all cheaper and healthier than store bought. I have gone way back to old ways. Young people have it difficult for housing, needs a reset. I can see many ways to still be frugal, just different, times are changing.
@@smokeshow2142 Thank you, it really is not hard.
Agree. I have gone back to cleaning with white vinegar, baking soda.
Every single one of your points is true here in Michigan (USA) also! Crazy times!
So sad
I remember heavy shopping trolley's Oh Grief look now and its baskets which are common
I did a no spend month except for paying my bills, and it really helped, cuz now I don't want to go spend any money lol
This is a very truthful video. Things are changing in the wrong direction. corporations have too much power.I really first noticed not being able to make more money after the 2008 crash. I then discovered savings! It really adds up. I am self employed and always pay myself first and configure everything around that.
Thanks for your feedback
Excellent and so right about how things have changed in a relatively short time. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
@@FrugalQueeninFrance It’s only because of you that I now have a budget. I was making an effort to be economical but never had the discipline of a budget. Nowadays I look at my budget each month. I do this both so I can see whether I am sticking to it but also to make sure that the belt doesn’t need more tightening.
Yes things are more expensive but it strengthens our frugality muscles learning new ways to hold tight to our hard earned money.
Yes, the cost of second hands have gone way up and the quality and availability have gone down.
Absolutely
It is so difficult to save now. I'm on a small fixed income and everything keeps going up. Utilities are supposed to rise at the end of June again. I keep a very detailed budget and I stick to it. I budget $10. monthly for clothes, shoes & accessories and I'm doing a no spend year with it. Come December I'll have $120. and hopefully I'll be able to use that for extra food for the pantry. It's hard now and I believe it will get harder so I'm making plans and making do. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for watching
Thank you for another relevant video. I appreciate both of you putting out these videos.
Our pleasure!
I like your usual upbeat, can-do content, but this is a welcome balance as well. I appreciate it. It does feel difficult lately, and as I'm relatively young with young children it's nice to hear from those with more experience.
I understand
You are in luck to be young enough to plan your strategy and to be able to teach your children to be thrifty now. Crass consumerism is something to stand up against throughout our lifetime. Let them know what peer pressure can do to damage their future!
Everything is expensive including charity shops!
Am having to rewrite our budget as redundancy could be on the cards in September for my husband! Am really hoping it doesn’t happen but putting the bare bones budget in place now!
Crossing my fingers that doesn’t happen.
@@FrugalQueeninFrance Thanks Jane! Hubby is 61 so not far off retirement!
🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞 here’s hoping you husband keeps his job until he is ready to retire but good that you are preparing just in case.
@@patmartin9727 Thanks Pat!
I feel like 2nd hand shop prices are also rising because lots of people buy things at those shops and sell online for a profit.
Spot on, Jane and Mike.
I was going to buy a prepackaged bag of fresh cherries for a treat this week "on sale" for $5.99/lb. I assumed each bag was prepackaged at around a pound (I knew better, but didn't bother to weigh it myself); at checkout it rang out at over $13 for the bag. I politely told the checker we didn't want it.
We also recently had to buy some (ridiculously expensive) plywood for a home repair. My husband dutifully sorted through the heavy plywood sheets until we had the number we needed that were without cracks or other damage and stacked the damaged ones neatly to the side. We saw another customer do the same--he had to put 9 sheets to the side before he found enough that were of acceptable quality.
I guess my point is be on your guard--it feels like more than ever before, stores are pulling out every trick in the book to get their hands on our money. Don't be tricked or shamed into buying junk or paying more than what you planned to spend.
My daughter has a family of 5…(3 kids ..4, 6 and 10 years old) plus her husband. She told me yesterday that she saw an older lady at the grocery store buying 1 bag of groceries and found herself envious of her!!! She said how nice it would be to pay for one bag of groceries just for yourself to eat.😂
Her kids are good eaters and she feeds them well so we all know how expensive it has become.
Our 7 yr old Ford truck is worth more now than when we bought it!😮
That's about right!
I am very fortunate to have no mortgage or rent, but am finding that the cost of routine house maintenance and repairs also seems to be rocketing. You're right Jane everyone is feeling the pinch currently. It's worrying but it's good to support others and share information and skills. I'm very grateful for a garden and greenhouse and for cooking skills and like to share garden produce and home made jams etc where I can. In my neighbourhood a lot of people grow vegetables etc and people are generous sharing plants and seeds as end-of-driveway giveaways or for pennies.
As bleak as some of this is, it's encouraging to know that we aren't alone. Reading others' ideas and tips is very helpful.
My husband has been working on getting his builder's license, while at the same time realizing that his back injuries (with three previous surgeries) might prevent him from ever getting to use it. That means four disabled adults here, and we are looking carefully at how we use our money to stretch it further. Inflation is supposed to be "slowing", but not by much.
In the meantime, we're working hard on growing "high-value" food in the garden, both for ourselves and to share. I'm reading old British booklets and watching old wartime videos on victory gardening and paying attention to the "make do and mend" brochures.
Please keep your videos coming, Jane and Mike. You're both terrific gifts to the rest of us!
Thanks for watching
I find it all quite disheartening. I want to save and pay off the mortgage as much as I can, but sometimes I have to accept that it isn't possible. On the plus side, I am lucky to have a house and relatively small mortgage, and to be able to hold on to it - just! So many are finding things impossible and losing the roof over their head. I find it really upsetting to read. It makes me anxious for change and also keen to ensure that lessons in empathy and politics, as well as an awareness of society and its imbalances, are highlighted for my son.
Well said
I've just researched how much my car would cost right now second hand (my car is 10 years old, a small car) and it nearly costs the same I've paid for it New from the factory, 10 years ago😮!!! I'm in Spain.
Sounds right
It took me awhile and a few high-end hair salons in Austin, Texas to find someone reasonable. I finally did got my haircut for $20, and 1/2 a mile from my home, not a fancy place but I'm happy with the results
It's been a long time since I saw a bank give away a toaster. I so love your channel! Cheers!
I totally agree that our younger people are struggling to make a start in life. Unless someone is willing to teach them and assist them I just don't see how they can make it. Of course most of us had a hard time first starting out but now a days it is stacked against them.
They can’t make it even if they have great skills if the jobs don’t pay.
I paid £4.18 for a watermelon today! I didnt realise until it had gone through the till that it was priced at per kg on the shelf. Last watermelon 🍉 I'll ever be buying! It better be a good one!
I went as a seller car booting last weekend. I was decluttering the house to make it easier to clean. What I noticed was the amount of people sellingv heir personal items..hundreds of them. The organizers opened an additional football field to accomodate. Less buyers out and about, and they want the items for knock down prices...practically for free. Also, mountains of clothes. I made 152 euro in 4 hours, which wasnt bad, as the man next to me made 40, and the woman on the other side of me made 75...getting tougher and tougher...
Good for you
I agree with your observations. We are having the same problems in the United States for the retired persons --- of which we are ones. But the ideas you and Mike have given the viewers has really helped when we go shopping. The ideas of reuse, reduce and recycle comes to mind before we shop now a days. Thanks for sharing.
You are correct Jane. The only thing I can do is shop the half price specials. Aldi still has the best prices on meat and cheese but there the savings start to disappear. I’m like you I shop 3 different shops but only because they’re close together. Interesting videos Jane. Thanks. Best wishes from Australia 🇦🇺
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It is more complex currently, but I wonder if it's time for us to push the limits of what we do to save. So thinking along the lines of foraging, bartering, gleaning, mending, multi generational housing, even curbside gleaning might be the way to go.
All great but none of that will give you a credit score to buy a house. If you're in your 20s, you're likely to never own your own home.
Excellent video today. Totally agree it is getting harder, but I would add quality of service has plummeted. Companies demand payment up front and then provide poor service or support following purchase. Back in the day you would pay a deposit or half up front but then at least have some negotiating power with final payment if service had been poor or job not to standard these day’s companies have you over a barrel. No longer is the customer always right, in fact everything feels hard work for the consumer.
I live in Atlanta, GA, USA and i am retired. I learned how to sew my own clothes as a teenager so i mend my clothes to make them last. As an example, Just today i was sewing a pillowcase that had slightly torn at the bottom seam. it is fine to have a slightly shorter length. We are wearing jeans and shirts that are over 20 years old since we take care of our clothes and hang them to dry (except for towels and sheets go into the dryer).
We drive a 1999 sedan so we have no car payments and we only have one car.
I no longer go to a manicurist or hair dresser. I have a relative cut my hair and my husband's hair too. We do our own yard work and cook all meals at home from scratch. That saves a lot of money. We eat well and indulge in sweet treats every week.
We do take 2 weeks vacation a year -- i used to take 4 weeks but have cut back a bit. I dont feel lacking or cheated at all. I feel happy about what we have, and have adjusted to a more frugal life.
When you have the love of family and grandchildren, you don't need anything else.
As usual, you hit the nail on the head. It's harder to make money and there's less of it in our pockets yet we're expected to spend more to get less than what we had in the past.
A fixed income is becoming harder each day for us. Everything keeps going up so much that we buy very little extras. Pet food is really going higher each time we buy it also. I won't switch them to something that wouldn't be as good. If we do find anything even at thrift store it's got to be really marked down. We do shop Aldi, Walmart, and we have an outlet food store that has been a blessing. Eating from the freezer right now. It's just hard.
I agree with you Jane that things are much harder. In 2004 I bought my first house when I was 25 years old. I know that if I was 25 TODAY then I would definitely not be in a position to buy.
My local charities shops have tatty tops, stitching loose and even one with a lovely (faint but noticeable) stain down the front and wanted £5 for it.
My lifestyle has altered as a result of the COL crisis, I no longer buy meat, I now handstitch rips and holes in clothes especially my pyjamas, I rarely go into charity shops or Aldi as it’s just not as cheap as it use to be.
I’m extra careful with electricity and don’t even get me started on the cost of childcare! I know many a parent that are unable to return to work after their initial parental leave because they can’t afford nurseries fees.
It’s all very worrying.
Jane, I live in N. Idaho USA. You nailed it. My prediction is we here in the US will not have second hand stores. The prices have sky rocketed and the inventory is poor. Our world is sliding into a muddy pit. I have lived through a few recessions (I’m 64). I am seeing something different than I’ve ever seen before. I don’t know how people make it. Maybe many are not. Homelessness is growing all around us.
It’s increasingly worrying
I am 49. My parents and in-laws are in their 70’s and saying the same thing. They all say they lived through the inflation of the 70s and 80s but it just didn’t feel like this.
Folks around where I live in Vermont have been complaining about the cost in our local second hand store for the past 4 or 5 years. Many depend on buying most things there and really feel the pinch. I honestly do not know how folks with children are making it; the cost of clothing and food is high!
I do notice that I am getting a lot more “sales ads” on email than in years past. I am thinking that a bunch of the clothing and household goods companies are hurting.
You are absolutely right! My 3 local markets are the same most of the time. Hard to find those really deeply discounted items. Car prices for new or used are insane!
The least expensive market near us is Aldi. The other two I shop at are much more expensive for dairy products , paper products and pet food. The only meat I buy is for my 13 year old dog to entice her..
I really enjoyed this video Jane and Michael
Thank you mentioning the charity shops!! I used to get our family of 5 clothes for the year for under $200. Now a dress there costs $15+. - as much as new! I used to love doing all that shopping too
This was the case with us. We are a one car family, we had just paid it off and the engine seized last Spring. We were quoted over 10k to fix it. Used car prices were so bad our savings didn’t come close and they were a terrible deal. They were more than new in some cases because supply was so low. The best deal overall was to finance a small reliable Toyota that we can pay off quick and use it for years. But it was so defeating to want to buy in cash and be thwarted at every turn.
Exactly as I said, forcing people into debt
We have a 20 year old car that is going to need to be replaced any time now. I absolutely do not want to have a car payment, but that may not be an option. I appreciate you sharing your choice and reasoning behind it -- sounds like a very wise, common sense decision.
In Australia , we had this in the 90"s and we just just pottered through it. You will get through it too. :)
I don't care if it seems to be impossible. Despite a modest income, I'm still skimming some off the top to pay myself first. What choice do I have? My car is 18 years old and I myself am not getting any younger. I feel like we will cope. We always do.
We've never gotten Lidl or Aldi and the closest to them was when Walmart with groceries came to town. Like you said, I'm agreeing with your points as you go through this video. I've seen store brands disappear off shelves first and often times never be restocked. This year my gardening has changed...I'm trying to grow more protein by way of dried beans for winter meals. Hoping to save money on our food budget in that way if it is successful.
That's great
Thank you so much for your videos. You both are so inspirational .
We have 3 adult sons (21, 26 and 29) still at home. Thankfully they are also thrifty and save but so want their own homes. The only advice we give them is save and use the time you have whilst at home with us wisely. Please god their time will come x
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I cut my grocery bill in half when I first started shopping at Aldi in the US. Now I have to shop around at all of the stores nearby (Aldi, Target, Sam's, Walmart, Dollar General) and Amazon to find where items are cheapest, and it isn't by much anymore!
Hi Jane. Spot on as usual. I’m not going to the hairdressers anymore. 2 times a year I go to a college now for a trim. No more colouring,embracing the greys. I go to a community grocer,costs £3 & I do my meals around what I get. Food is going up every week here in the UK. I’m not fussy I will eat anything. So long as my bills are paid I’m happy. Maybe it’s because I’m older (58) I don’t need the latest clothes etc. 🤗💐💐
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I cleared out my cupboards for clothing I no longer wear to donate…I found tops and skirts that I had forgotten about and increased the space I have. I will be shopping my cupboards and wearing what I have…I haven’t bought any new clothes in three years; now with all that I have, I don’t need to as I have plenty of clothes I can mix and match to wear!
We live in the US in Colorado. I agree most prices are very similar from store to store. But we get fuel points for every dollar we spend at our local City Market. They give incentives such as 500 extra fuel points for doing a pick up order over $50 or 4x the fuel points when we shop on Friday. If I work all the incentives I can build up our fuel points and we can get $1 a gallon off of gas. It is a great help.
It is all getting very worrying.
Sadly all you have presented is universally true.
Charity shops in the US are very expensive, the best merchandise never makes it yo the floor, but hoes on their inline auction sites.
Also, yes the discount food stores here are at nearly the same rates as the traditional chains.
Used car prices are through the roof.
Difficult times for so many.
Excellent video.
Interesting task
You are absolutely right. I have cut back on services such as haircuts and lawn care and now need to do it myself to help make ends meet. Prices in second hand stores have increased and quality of merchandise available there has decreased as more people need to hang on to their old things and repair them rather than bring them to second hand stores or purchase a replacement. It is becoming increasingly difficult to reduce debts as monthly interest rates continue to climb each month so it is much more difficult to put "extra" monthly money toward paying down debt. $100 doesn't fill many grocery bags anymore. Thanks for all of your savings tips in these frustrating times.
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a lot of 'price matching' on certain products from the main supermarkets to the Lidl/Aldi type supermarket but not cheaper - also shocked to see a Tesco brand Tshirt in the Charity shop for not much less than it would have cost new, and probably dearer than in Tescos own sale - I now only get my haircut 3-4 times a year and have stopped colouring it
Thanks Lynne
Dear God have mercy for us all Amen 🙏??
I have lived through inflation as a young married woman trying to buy a home, the Global Financial crisis, and now, again, inflation. Is one worse than the other. Our economies have to keep moving and changing, they won't become stagnant. We have to be more and more creative in the way we deal with these situations, and whatever the situation is, there is always someone who is a lot worse off.
It is getting scary hard to stay afloat I agree. I live in Australia and I've always lived on. Low income but I'm frugal. I was talking with a friend and she agrees we are running out of things to cut out. Years ago you could just say " oh I will go with out hair cuts or take away or what ever " now I'm like I've run out of wants to cut and I'm having to look at cutting needs back. However I just got very lucky in a strange way. My roof leaked in. Storm so claimed insurance and I asked the builder " how much are you paying the painter and could you pay me instead and I can paint. Well blow me down I nearly died of shock at the huge amount they are going to pay me to paint both sides of a wall they are replacing and the skirting boards. Wait for it....$4,000 just over 4 actually. Not that most have current insurance claim but if anyone ever has one trust me it's worth thinking about parts you can do your self. In my country we can ask to be played put and find our builders or trades people. For the hole job or just part of it. I kinda wish now I opted for a complete pay out now after seeing amount I get for just painting 2 walls.
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Spot on again Jane. There just doesn’t seem to be any way of saving at the moment. I hunt out bargains but just seem to be wasting my time as I’m just not finding any!
Unfortunately you are correct. I haven’t looked in a charity shop lately, but the last time I noticed the prices were higher. On Tuesdays savers does give seniors a 30% savings.
I agree with so much of what you are saying! Here in the US used car prices are so high it is crazy. I went to one of our charity shops recently and walked out without buying what I found because their prices were so high that I could buy new for just a few dollars more. Middle class folks definitely are having a hard time, money just doesn't stretch 😒
I believe the younger generation has it harder than previous generations, and whats sad is that im not sure theyve been prepared for it. Im already thinking how we could adapt our home in case we need to do multigenerational living. I dont want my kids to put off their lives (eg marriage and children) until they can afford to move out because it may not ever happen.
Same here--already thinking about how to accommodate multigenerational living; and we have elderly parents to consider too.
I think the difference between the younger generations now and in the past is just like you said-- they are not prepared to deal with the change in lifestyle that is coming (already here). For the majority of them, they appear to have very different ideas than mine of what a want and a need is. They are for sure getting hit with exorbitant expenses in every area. However, when I look around at the twenty-somethings I know they are distressed by the cost of housing, yet feel eating out, having daily takeaway coffees, and buying additional dogs and cats are necessities.
They’ll want their own home and privacy, they might not ever get it
I applaud you for making plans for the future. Most of us have raised our kids with ultra high expectations, in a consumeristic society. We now need to be there for them with the new reality they will be facing, a retracting economy as opposed to the 75 years of post WWII expansion. It will be a big adjustment for all of us.
I have 2 very different children.. a 20 yr old son who is extremely frugal and doesn't like alcohol and night clubs. he dresses smartly has his own paid for car and a sizeable amiount in savings towards a house deposit. on the other hand my 27yr old daughter is the opposite.. she spent her youth on going out, night clubs,bars, (we used to make half a cider last all night, now theyre drinking shorts and cocktails) hair + extensions, make up & paying to have her make up done, nails,lashes,eyebrows,fillers,botox , pets, leasing a top of the range car, clothes,shoes,handbags, designer pyjama's?????? . M son has no worries about the future whereas my dqughter is now finding it tough having scraped the money together for a fixer upper. I do think social media has raised people's expectations of what their lives should be like and I so wish that schools would provide finance lessons for the youngsters of today.
Supermarkets well over a year ago changed, had made this comment b4, not on your channel but on Prime of Midlife. Something changed with production and manufacturing and "who" owns them. In Ireland from nearly two year's, a lot of supermarkets lost their own branded products.
Would say, big brands ( corporations ) have if they don't own them, given production companies no choice but to stop producing these products. Lidl, Aldi, Tesco and Dunnes are good examples of this here, so many special buys and own label items have been gone for well over a year now.
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In the US we have Goodwill (charity shop). I still am able to get high quality items for much less. The point is to go during the week (which is hard for most as people are working) when it isn't crowded. I always find a good bargain and good quality items.
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Also a monday as most people donate at weekend. Friday is when they put their best stuff out for the busy weekend.march and april is sposed to be optimum time to keep an eye on charity thrift shops as this is when most people declutter.
I do my main shop in Tesco and they are doing more Aldi price matches. Aldi is still cheaper for some things, so I do a supplement shop there. I was recently surprised to find Lidl quite expensive compared to Tesco and Aldi.
I have seen as you have.Rising prices means fewer items in the grocery cart.Likewise on other Canadian essentials.
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Glad you enjoyed it
Jane, I would love to get your insight on renting vs. buying a home.
Never ever ever ever rent……you’re just paying someone else’s mortgage instead of your own
Jane this was a great subject matter and video. In our charity/thrift stores in Australia they try and sell broken bric a brac, who would want to buy that junk? The items are less quality to buy also, for higher prices. The discount stores are also dearer they no longer are a bargain as much as they used to be.
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I agree with you comments about supermarket pricing. It seems like they are all agreeing a price to sell at. Also the very cheapest range of foods have totally disappeared from the shelves.the next level range items are very hit and miss. I also see things shrinking in size, but the price has still gone up. I also notice that there are fewer and fewer reductions in the shops. Apart from bread the reductions are few and far between. I also notice stores always seem to have gaps in stock on the shelves which makes you think shops are buying in less stock not reduce the need for them to reduce surplus stock.
Our charity shops here have £1 rails and £1 sales .I still won't overpay in a charity shop.
My son is 30 he can't afford to live on his own. I have one tween child. I literally can't afford to live alone either! We share a house. Yes we help each other. But, we have separate lives.
Great video, as always. You really hit the nail on the head with how things have changed. We are helping our daughter set up home (in the frugal queen style) and have been shocked by the difference since covid. We went to a charity second hand furniture place that has previously had incredible good quality items dirt cheap, perfect for setting up a home. This weekend there were only tatty items at quite high prices and some items that could have been bought new for the same price.
We agree, they want too much for tatty junk.
An excellent video Jane. All so true
Good thoughts and advice, Jane. For years I was paycheck to paycheck and ended up creating a lot of credit card debt which I am still paying off in my retirement, but I have managed to reduce my debt a lot and create a small long term savings. I am so grateful for a co-worker who encouraged me to start with just $25 per paycheck into a deferred compensation plan offered by my public service employer. I still am willing and able to learn about finances and I have adjusted my thinking on spending.🌹
Love that!
Here in New England, Aldi is still significantly cheaper than the other grocery stores, including Walmart. Homeowner insurance is more expensive. Used cars are more expensive. Charity shops are more expensive - but thriving, as far as I can tell. They are often busy. I think perhaps some people are shopping at charity shops that have never shopped there before. The cost of eating out is jaw-dropping. We were given a gift certificate for $50 to the Italian restaurant Carraba's. I thought that my husband and I could probably use it twice. We used it up completely on our first dinner there - and that was not including the tip. We did not get appetizers or desserts, either. Just a year or so ago, a $50 gift certificate would have easily covered 2 separate dinners for 2 people. We went on a short 2 night vacation over Memorial Day weekend. It cost as much as a four day vacation used to cost a few years ago. The price of the motel room and the prices of meals at restaurants were unbelievable. We used to be able to find affordable motels and restaurants when we went on vacation. It is getting harder and harder to find them. Of course, we could pack our own food. (And we probably will do that in the future). I would really rather not camp. I have too many memories of camping in the rain on Cape Cod as a child. I feel like things are going back to the past. In some ways, it is a past I never knew. If we weren't camping - if we stayed in a motel - my mother never brought food on vacation. I know that I should not be complaining - many people have far greater struggles. I just keep thinking that I am prepared for what things cost, and yet I keep getting blindsided by the prices.
Good talk. A major issue in Oz are rents and very few house vacancies. Families are reverting to several generations living together and in many European communities this is the norm Older people are supported.
Aldi arriving in Oz really shook the local supermarkets up with a bit of genuine competition. Although there range of goods are narrower Aldi prices are much cheaper. Suits me.
Many of your recipes are budget friendly and I can recall eating Shepherds Pie (leftovers) rehashed but not complaining, it was tasty.
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So true Jane and Mike. Here in New Zealand what was our cheapest supermarket is now mostly on a par with what used to be the most expensive supermarket! Never thought I'd be shopping at the most expensive supermarket because they have the best deals this week. Many of the own-brand items from the cheapest supermarket disappeared during the pandemic and have not returned e.g. cornflakes. Our charity stores are charing ridiculous prices for their goods, and friends who work in them have said to me that they have noticed a big drop-off in donations this year. It's getting so tough out there, I really feel for younger people, wages are not keeping up with inflation and rental prices here are nuts.
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Agree the prices are similar in all grocery stores goods except for the loss litres advertised weekly which is mostly what I buy and has us stopping at more than one store on grocery shopping day. What is also annoying is the loss litres all have limited quantities and they run out of stock on first day of sale.