She keep bringing up that she live on her own in a 2 bedroom but she doesn’t have her kids!!? Giving her mom “what she can??!?” And have the audacity to give/loan him $600 I’m mad
Thank you!! I was thinking the same thing 🤔why aren’t those kids in one of those “two bedrooms” that she mentioned? Who knows maybe they’re better off where they are… Looks like she’s going to the disco after court… The way some people dress for court on TV always amazes me! 💃
people are saying "I feel bad for her" & "he took advantage of her" but she stood there talking about how her mom has her kids and how she "gives what she can" this woman is a grown adult with children and instead of messing around almost marrying a guy she's known for 3 months and loaning him $600 maybe she should put her energy and money into being a mom, I don't feel sorry for her at all I feel sorry for her poor mom and children who are getting the short end of the stick because she can't grow up and do what good mother should🙄
@@relliej386 that could be true, but I feel like she would have said that instead of making herself look like a bad parent I hope those kids are doing good regardless of their mom running off & being selfish and I hope that grandma is healthy and well.
yup 38 no kids and single. i get home from work and do what i wanna do lol the only stress i deal with is bills and other things. but relationships and kids.. noooope. freebird.. also i can move around, wake up and sleep anytime of the day or night on off days. play all the games and music i want lol. its crazy how alot of ppl my age get butthurt that i do this "why youre not married? you aint got a girl? youre loser, get laid, youre weird" < those ppl have bad ass kids- husbands cheating on them -drama - etc.. they mad as hell lol. then some girls when i respectfully decline a date from them ( girls with kids and baby daddy drama etc) they get mad as hell. i can go on and on.
@@RawCyberHub I feel the same way. I made a decision a long time ago when my friends started having kids. Watching them go through pregnancy😳, going without sleep for weeks/months/years, the diaper changing, etc.... I had decided to save myself the drama and pain. Single life is WAYYYY underrated!!
Everything in this case was a no. Buying your own ring, rushing into marriage, prioritizing a man over your children, those brows, the wig, the fit, the lipstick 😭
First of all I can’t believe she 22 years old I legit thought she was pushing 50 with that dream girl hair dew! Secondly the fact that you would purchase your OWN engagement ring because a man who is 40+ can’t afford to do so is WILD to me!
Oh stop it! She definitely doesn't look 50 SMH that girl is young and dumb for sure. Hopefully she learns from this. Anyway who haven't done something stupid when they were younger? Or even older!?
She is 22,:a 2 bedroom apartment, her kids with HER mom, and buying a ring for a man? She is either desperate and/or irresponsible. If the police tell a man to run away from a relationship that's powerful!
She wanted a older man with "intelligence" to be a father figure to her two kids. She just wanted to have a older man so he can take care of her an the kids bc her actual baby daddy aint no father figure an obviously not around to be one lmfaooooo
I was 22 with two beautiful kids one was 7 and the other 1. And I did what I had todo for my children I RAISED THEM...Im Very Grateful that I choose to take the responsibility of my children who didn't ask to be here...I Gave them all the love and attention I had in me.
@@andreawashington5430 I congratulate you that you chose to grow up and take responsibility. Not all women/men can do that so just know people are proud of you, they may not show it in some circumstances but deep down you made/make many people proud for you to take that responsibility to raise the kids you chose to have and not pawn it off to someone else or want hand outs for every single thing. Im sure you are a wonderful and strong parent and i bet things get hard at times but dont ever doubt yourself and remember all the things you have gone through in life to get to where you are today. You are one of the few that actually grew a pair and grew up to take care of the situation an i am sure your kids love and cherish every single thing you do for them.
The plantiff thinks the court room is a secret club. Girl, wtf are you wearing?!?! And doing with your life?!? How is she a "single" mom but not raising her kids?
Live GROW Rescue so much for sisterhood . Instead of being hateful , and spiteful you could show some formed os compassion that have in you little black heart. This could any one of us. Humble yourself of life will humble it for you. SMH
From the comments that I’ve read I have gathered (her kid are in the comments)…she has bipolar disorder and she actually is older and her mom has the children full time due to her condition.
She's giving me Effie from dreamgirls!! 22 looking like a singer in the 60's! Soften your look, get you some fruit smoothies, take walks in your city, suck in the sites, network, put a plan into regaining your children & continue to pray, heal and live the best life until you can find LOVE! God blesses the child who got it's own, not an apartment but a sound house, mind and body! Good luck
Between the May ball dress, the dusty eyeshadow and the one shade away from crack lips pink lipstick combination and the buying rings for herself or the having a 2 bedroom (let’s not forget that she wanted us to remember that) but not having her children I’m just hoping she watched this episode back and reevaluate her life
@@francinewilliams1703 Absolutely. She was only 22 and I hope she learned some lessons, though she came out of the courtroom and said it was a lesson learned, he asked her what and she was like "Ummm"... She rushed into a marriage thinking because he was older he would be a good father. Sounds like she didn't have people guiding her in life; I hope she found good counsel afterwards.
Right. Young girls don't understand that having a older man interested in you isn't a good thing. If women his age don't want him he's more than likely trash.
@@t_onaysiaaaany comment against men is smart to you. She said she sought out older men. But u make the man look bad.number 2 u don’t know wat woman he can get
Poor girl my ass 🙄 she has kids that she doesn’t take care of. She’s like a no good baby daddy. More like poor kids because they don’t have a mother. And yes I have custody of all of my children
its not okay. she has 2 children tto care for. is she making enough money to retire when she reaches 65? will she be able to pay for her kids' college? she needs professional help not goddamn hugs because her decisions stink.
Her outfit is killing me softly....I can't take this seriously. He looks like the dude from the five heartbeats with those clothes all over the place. I cannot
Tyisha Woodroffe please stop!! Girl, I am snorting I am laughing so hard at you!! Killing me softly, lmbo!! I thought she was at least 40 something! Solid Gold outfit on!!
I’m so grateful for my father. He helped to cultivate and shape me into the young woman that I am. I do understand that not all young women are as fortunate to have fathers, but I couldn’t imagine my self esteem and self worth being this low.
Women who do not have fathers in their lives my heart goes out to them.. Remember there are resources available they can talk to a mature man, uncle, elder or people with life experience it’s never too late. Hang in there😎
Mmm a lot of women with fathers have low self esteem as well. It’s kind of a weird scapegoat people use, especially in the black community, to say that being fatherless is the reason women are like this.
@@SpiffyPenguin Respectfully you said it is a “weird scapegoat “ It is not necessarily a scapegoat it is a reality a male role model in the life of a young girl cannot be underestimated. I often hear womenfolk say I don’t need a man to raise my 👧🏾 . You may not need him but your children do. Notice the young woman said I started dating someone older and mature to help me raise my children. She is seeking the love of a father. But it is unfortunate that she is picking the wrong kind of men because she has not been nurtured by a good male role model. That is why she keep on going from man to man trying to fill the empty void in her heart. The things that a father does is he protect his daughter virtue he teaches her about the way real men are suppose to treat a woman. He teaches her how to carry herself as a young lady. Now if she had allowed a male role model, father, uncle etc to check this dude out most likely she would not have chosen him. Because a man knows another man it is in them to protect womanhood. Judge Joe Brown “ I am protecting womanhood and promoting Manhood. “ “ I couldn’t imagine myself esteem and self worth being this low” The young lady has self worth but she has to believe it for her self.. I give her credit she stood up in a self respecting way when she said “ I am Menstruating and you are not going to have sexual relations with me while my body is cleansing it’s self. How many women would have stood up for themselves in this regard.. ?He was probably yelling and screaming and cursing her out and throwing a guilt trip on her but she stood her Ground . She stood up for herself after she realized that she was paying for her own engagement ring 💍. So the young woman is learning. We all have periods in life when our self esteem may be low because of trauma, abuse, or a lack of life experience. But we brush ourselves off and keep it moving Always forward. I’m sorry about the long winded comment.😎
hearing that she was looking for someone who older to be responsible and presumably a good role model for her children...only to end up with him just really breaks my heart.
Trife!!! Definition of it. First of all wtf is she wearing?!? Second she is way older than 22. Thirdly why doesn’t she have her kids?!? She needs to be focusing on her kids and not this man. Ugh.
Engaged after 2 months, loaning him money, buying him rings, and getting another man right after. Something is mentally off with her. Then bragging about having a 2 bedroom but her kids live with her mom. Guarantee if she ever got her kids back they've been exposed to countless men. Smh
What in the world did she find about that loser!?! I don’t trust him as far as I can throw him! She acted desperate and he acted despicable. She really should change the color of her lipstick🤔
This is a case of an absent father this beautiful young lady needed her father so bad .. So sad I pray she doesn't get abused or taken advantage of again looking for love ..
I had the same situation with the police in Detroit when I was attacked. I was shocked..they do not care, they are so used to people calling for DV and then not following through that they do not even care a little bit, and they didn't do a report they just gave me a number for if I wanted to press charges and they were so nonchalant, I was like WOW 😳... Thank God that's not the kind of situation I'm in on the regular lol and also thank God I did not stay there long. Smh. Edited to say to his reply: I had marks, ripped clothes,broken glasses and a broken phone and they not only didn't arrest him but like I said they didn't do ANYTHING, they did not give AF. So no that's not a guarantee that he didn't hit her.
Sorry Mija wrong door… this is not the audition for dream girls or the new Shirley Temple movie LOL looks like my girl was gonna break out tap dancing 💃 🤣😂😅
Where is she going in the party dress😲 She doesn't look 22 but her life decisions justify 22....🙃😗 She can't raise her 2 children but she sponsors a man.. These court cases are classes in the school of life.
🤬Forget her tears, they are both a piece of work🙄.. I cry for her kids who grow up questioning where their mother is.. If your old enough to have them be mature enough to raise them and give them a better life than you had growing up.. She prioritized a man over investing in herself and her kids yet at the end she Still thinks he needs help..👀💭 Clearly she doesn't see her faults🤦🏽♀️SMH
Imagine she says he needs help mentally 😮girl your two kids live with your mother who you help occasionally, yet you enter into a contract to buy an engagement ring. Smh girl find your self worth.
ALL these people on here harshly judging this 22 year old woman for making a mistake. When there is 50 year old women doing worse. WE made mistakes when WE were her age.
It's not often you see two dictionary people in the same room together. She's the definition of Bad Life Choices and he's the definition of Sad Sack the Scammer.
She has no self worth ☹️ it’s so sad. I hope she learns to love herself and demand better. I don’t think her mom did a good job raising her and teaching her these harsh lessons. I felt so bad when I saw her cry. I hope for her sake and her kids that she builds up her self worth and finds herself a good man and also starts being a mother to her children.
This man literally finessed this vulnerable young lady to get her to pay for her own engagement ring and add to that he set it up for her to even finance the damn thing and she's still paying for it even after the split an time of going to court. 😂😂😂😂😂
Finessed my a**. If you are lending money to purchase your own engagement ring, that's a highway bill board neon red sign to 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ away from that man.
Cap! She was tryna position herself to live off homie, got caught cheating, and now she every dollar that spent back smh. Then admitting he was giving you money for the ring but you were applying it to made up debts. Case shouldve been dismissed
Something wrong w/both of them and past people on this show just for the fact they don't see how the scenario is insane. I'd like to ask her "The women you know in your life, paid for their engagement rings?" and dare her to tell me "yes they did".
The guy is the big liar coz he kept double talking. He first said she didn't get him a ring then quickly changed his mind when he saw the receipt in her hand lol what a looser taking advantage of a young girl
She said he owes her over $6000 but testified that her kids are living with her mom and she “gives what she can” while she’s alone in a two bedroom apartment?? And she think he’s sick??? Smh
This could be a training video about the importance of avoiding bad decisions. She's 22 and already has two kids, that she is not raising and she lives alone, except for the occasional lover. What is her source of income that she has extra money to buy a man a ring and loads of clothing? Of course, all of her problems are society's fault.
The frontal part of the human brain doesn't fully develop until around age 25 years old. That part of the brain deals with logical, and rational decisions.
At first I thought she was naive but as she spoke, she said her kids live with her mother, and she gives her mom money when she can…but she has money to giver her guy for clothes or the ring etc? She’s selfish and crafty not naive and a manipulator
But lady, you were so desperate to get married, you bought your own engagement ring. Sounds like true love. 😒 Just because Niki Minaj sells that lipcolor shade doesn't mean it will look good on you.
22 years old, two kids living with her mother, sends them some money "when she can", looking for a "father figure" i.e. sugar daddy, flat broke yet her priority is to finance a ring for herself. This woman has a bright future.
MD will definitely take SOMEONE to jail if there's a domestic abuse claim. Strange case all the way around. I think they're both lying at some points..
She keep bringing up that she live on her own in a 2 bedroom but she doesn’t have her kids!!? Giving her mom “what she can??!?” And have the audacity to give/loan him $600 I’m mad
I’m mad also!. Also pissed she’s 22 looking like an old I hit the wall lady.
Exactly she doesn’t even have custody of her own kids but wants them to have a husband? Girl bye 🙄
Thinking the same thing
Thank you!! I was thinking the same thing 🤔why aren’t those kids in one of those “two bedrooms” that she mentioned? Who knows maybe they’re better off where they are… Looks like she’s going to the disco after court… The way some people dress for court on TV always amazes me! 💃
kids she should have never had...really makes no since...
people are saying "I feel bad for her" & "he took advantage of her" but she stood there talking about how her mom has her kids and how she "gives what she can" this woman is a grown adult with children and instead of messing around almost marrying a guy she's known for 3 months and loaning him $600 maybe she should put her energy and money into being a mom, I don't feel sorry for her at all I feel sorry for her poor mom and children who are getting the short end of the stick because she can't grow up and do what good mother should🙄
Thank you!
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Exactly! 🙄
Her kids could be living with mom for better school opportunities but I do agree with everything else
@@relliej386 that could be true, but I feel like she would have said that instead of making herself look like a bad parent I hope those kids are doing good regardless of their mom running off & being selfish and I hope that grandma is healthy and well.
Girl bye get custody of your children idgaf about a damn ring 🙄 buy your kids something they may like
That part!!!!
Right on!
Nobody is mentioning how the judge asked her if she was really 22?! 😂 she do look 34.
Exactly
Yeah, her style especially, not a young woman's style. 🤦🏽♀️
Guys she was playing dress up for the part… she said she was looking for a older man to be a father to her children.🙄
She look older than I do and I'm almost 40
@@familytv9585 yeah I thought she was in her 30’s
Staying single is sooooo highly under rated.
Yes! Proud forever single !
yup 38 no kids and single. i get home from work and do what i wanna do lol the only stress i deal with is bills and other things. but relationships and kids.. noooope. freebird.. also i can move around, wake up and sleep anytime of the day or night on off days. play all the games and music i want lol.
its crazy how alot of ppl my age get butthurt that i do this "why youre not married? you aint got a girl? youre loser, get laid, youre weird" < those ppl have bad ass kids- husbands cheating on them -drama - etc.. they mad as hell lol. then some girls when i respectfully decline a date from them ( girls with kids and baby daddy drama etc) they get mad as hell. i can go on and on.
@@RawCyberHub I feel the same way. I made a decision a long time ago when my friends started having kids. Watching them go through pregnancy😳, going without sleep for weeks/months/years, the diaper changing, etc.... I had decided to save myself the drama and pain.
Single life is WAYYYY underrated!!
Amen.. and I love ❤ it. It's a difference between being alone and lonely...
8 years abstinent isn’t so bad considering these cases; a microcosm of our US men.
What gets me is when she says “I give my mom money when I can for my kids” her priorities are trash! Smh
Facts!
He look like he about to audition for Good Times.
Haha. You're crazy
More like Roots
@@edwardmcauliffe7771 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂”keeping ya head above waterrrrrrr making a way when we cannnnnnnn” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He is a dead ringer for the dad - Evans, was that his name?
“I’m looking for a father to my kids”
*admits the children don’t live with her*
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What tha???that???? I just got started so I'm not there yet.
Damn
I guess she will get the children once they’re married.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Please stop bashing my mom she suffers from bipolar disease and when she gets better she can finally afford to take care of us so stop
"Your turn to not make sense."
She hit the nail on head with that one.
Everything in this case was a no. Buying your own ring, rushing into marriage, prioritizing a man over your children, those brows, the wig, the fit, the lipstick 😭
Lmaoooo that outfit to court at that
Lol she look like she wanna say i was prom queen😂😂😂
The PINK toiletries bag used as a purse 🤦🏾♀️
@@KPbouj 😂😂😂
Right!? Lmao! She said she was 22 and I was like 😳🤧
First of all I can’t believe she 22 years old I legit thought she was pushing 50 with that dream girl hair dew! Secondly the fact that you would purchase your OWN engagement ring because a man who is 40+ can’t afford to do so is WILD to me!
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Nailed it.
Dreamgirl 😂😂🤣🤣
Oh stop it! She definitely doesn't look 50 SMH that girl is young and dumb for sure. Hopefully she learns from this. Anyway who haven't done something stupid when they were younger? Or even older!?
Yes! This look is definitely giving me Dreamgirl vibes!
She the most grandma looking 22 year old I've ever seen
It's the wig. More suited for a much older woman
Yo stfu my mom's actually yonger she lied in that video bc she suffers from bipolar disease
Lmao
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🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Fareal
I just came here for the comments. So far I have laughed my ass off!🤣🤣🤣
These damn comments was better than the episode smh shit was too funny 😂
Me Too!🤣🤣🤣🤣
She is 22,:a 2 bedroom apartment, her kids with HER mom, and buying a ring for a man? She is either desperate and/or irresponsible. If the police tell a man to run away from a relationship that's powerful!
She seems desperate and irresponsible. She is young tho, so hopefully she learns a lesson and grow up.
She wanted a older man with "intelligence" to be a father figure to her two kids. She just wanted to have a older man so he can take care of her an the kids bc her actual baby daddy aint no father figure an obviously not around to be one lmfaooooo
I was 22 with two beautiful kids one was 7 and the other 1. And I did what I had todo for my children I RAISED THEM...Im Very Grateful that I choose to take the responsibility of my children who didn't ask to be here...I Gave them all the love and attention I had in me.
@@andreawashington5430 I congratulate you that you chose to grow up and take responsibility. Not all women/men can do that so just know people are proud of you, they may not show it in some circumstances but deep down you made/make many people proud for you to take that responsibility to raise the kids you chose to have and not pawn it off to someone else or want hand outs for every single thing. Im sure you are a wonderful and strong parent and i bet things get hard at times but dont ever doubt yourself and remember all the things you have gone through in life to get to where you are today. You are one of the few that actually grew a pair and grew up to take care of the situation an i am sure your kids love and cherish every single thing you do for them.
He’s manipulated her. Don’t be an ass.
I genuinely thought she was in her 40s
🥴😂😂 I was thrown when she said 22
She sounds like a twenty-two-year-old but she does look 40 maybe it's the wig she's in disguise
She's 22 and already has two kids... She's fast forwarding through life
Me to like genuinely😩I kept staring at her… when they say “black don’t crack” she proved us wrong🥴🥴
No my mom is not 40 she's 30 rn she was not 22 in that video she suffers from bipolar disease
The plantiff thinks the court room is a secret club. Girl, wtf are you wearing?!?! And doing with your life?!? How is she a "single" mom but not raising her kids?
💯💯🤔💯💯
Secret club😭🤣
Live GROW Rescue so much for sisterhood . Instead of being hateful , and spiteful you could show some formed os compassion that have in you little black heart. This could any one of us. Humble yourself of life will humble it for you. SMH
From the comments that I’ve read I have gathered (her kid are in the comments)…she has bipolar disorder and she actually is older and her mom has the children full time due to her condition.
She is just a kid herself. Babies need to stop having babies.
This CHILD has alot of growing up to do. And needs to get her priorities in life together.
I don't think she is a child,I think she is older way older
Just my opinion
Hell..He'll.., that guy too. He in his 40s and still Rollin stoning it.. that nomad/vagabond life should've gotten old by now.
She wasn't looking for a father for her kids she was looking for a father for herself that girl has daddy insecurities
She's giving me Effie from dreamgirls!! 22 looking like a singer in the 60's! Soften your look, get you some fruit smoothies, take walks in your city, suck in the sites, network, put a plan into regaining your children & continue to pray, heal and live the best life until you can find LOVE! God blesses the child who got it's own, not an apartment but a sound house, mind and body! Good luck
Fruit smoothies?
@@christopherramon-reid2000 Lmaooo
I love this ! I'm taking this advice lol 💯❤
God bless you 🙏
The fruit smoothie advice was the best 😅😊😊
Between the May ball dress, the dusty eyeshadow and the one shade away from crack lips pink lipstick combination and the buying rings for herself or the having a 2 bedroom (let’s not forget that she wanted us to remember that) but not having her children
I’m just hoping she watched this episode back and reevaluate her life
😂😂😂😂😂😂 you are hilarious, I can’t stop laughing 👍🏽
I just spit out my drink with laughter...your comment is hilarious!
Baby you said what needed to be said
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😭😭why the lipstick color had to be all that 💀
I know this is hella old, but I hope she really learned her lesson. “Be aware of how you treat yourself, because you set the standard for others.”
I would love updates on some of these cases
@@francinewilliams1703 Absolutely. She was only 22 and I hope she learned some lessons, though she came out of the courtroom and said it was a lesson learned, he asked her what and she was like "Ummm"... She rushed into a marriage thinking because he was older he would be a good father. Sounds like she didn't have people guiding her in life; I hope she found good counsel afterwards.
I hope she learned that lipstick ain't her color
@@Bih1stOfAll 😂🤣 thank you
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There’s a reason women his own age won’t date him
Exactly!
Lol. She is a mess
This a very smart comment !!!!
Right. Young girls don't understand that having a older man interested in you isn't a good thing. If women his age don't want him he's more than likely trash.
@@t_onaysiaaaany comment against men is smart to you. She said she sought out older men. But u make the man look bad.number 2 u don’t know wat woman he can get
Idk who told her that was a good lip color, but they liiiieeeed to her
Ashy lips and ashy eyelids ...
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Y'all 😂😂 the lady in the black t-shirt (behind the defendant ) facial expressions are TAKING ME TO THE KINGGGG 😂😂😂
I was laughing at that too!!!
Chiiiiile listen..... 🎶I'm in the upper rooom🎶... 😂😂
lol!
@@jazzymoni7750 😂😂😂😂
I'm dying too 😂
Poor girl. I wish i could give her a hug and tell her that it’s okay to be single.
Me too 🥺 I really felt for her at the end.
Poor girl my ass 🙄 she has kids that she doesn’t take care of. She’s like a no good baby daddy. More like poor kids because they don’t have a mother. And yes I have custody of all of my children
its not okay. she has 2 children tto care for. is she making enough money to retire when she reaches 65? will she be able to pay for her kids' college? she needs professional help not goddamn hugs because her decisions stink.
It's ok to be single. It's not ok to be a single mom. It's tough on the mothers and even tougher on the kids.
Look at her eyes. You can see she's torn.
I just clicked… because I saw the frosty pink lipstick 😆 I’m like this is gonna be a good one!🤣😅
Her outfit is killing me softly....I can't take this seriously. He looks like the dude from the five heartbeats with those clothes all over the place. I cannot
Tyisha Woodroffe please stop!! Girl, I am snorting I am laughing so hard at you!! Killing me softly, lmbo!! I thought she was at least 40 something! Solid Gold outfit on!!
I'm dying 🤣 💀 😭 😂
😂😂😂😂
Not the five heartbeats 😂😂
It cracked me up the way the judge said oh after he said his age 😂😂
She lacks a lot of self-respect. She wants the family life even if her mate is a horrible person!
Family life minus the kids
Yep , it's very sad
Wow she looks so old. I think its the original "Dream Girls" makeup
She looks older than me and I’m 33 wheeeew Chile 😩
That dress, that color lipstick, that wig is a no no! His hair running from his forehead and that suit and his immaturity is a no no!
I don’t believe anybody that leaves their kids with their mom so they can focus on their romantic life lol
I’m so grateful for my father. He helped to cultivate and shape me into the young woman that I am. I do understand that not all young women are as fortunate to have fathers, but I couldn’t imagine my self esteem and self worth being this low.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤗 me too! I love my daddy so much!
My dad not a part of my life but thankfully i got my mom who really brought me up to not settle for this bs
Women who do not have fathers in their lives my heart goes out to them.. Remember there are resources available they can talk to a mature man, uncle, elder or people with life experience it’s never too late. Hang in there😎
Mmm a lot of women with fathers have low self esteem as well. It’s kind of a weird scapegoat people use, especially in the black community, to say that being fatherless is the reason women are like this.
@@SpiffyPenguin Respectfully you said it is a “weird scapegoat “ It is not necessarily a scapegoat it is a reality a male role model in the life of a young girl cannot be underestimated. I often hear womenfolk say I don’t need a man to raise my 👧🏾 . You may not need him but your children do. Notice the young woman said I started dating someone older and mature to help me raise my children. She is seeking the love of a father. But it is unfortunate that she is picking the wrong kind of men because she has not been nurtured by a good male role model. That is why she keep on going from man to man trying to fill the empty void in her heart.
The things that a father does is he protect his daughter virtue he teaches her about the way real men are suppose to treat a woman. He teaches her how to carry herself as a young lady. Now if she had allowed a male role model, father, uncle etc to check this dude out most likely she would not have chosen him. Because a man knows another man it is in them to protect womanhood. Judge Joe Brown “ I am protecting womanhood and promoting Manhood. “
“ I couldn’t imagine myself esteem and self worth being this low” The young lady has self worth but she has to believe it for her self.. I give her credit she stood up in a self respecting way when she said “ I am Menstruating and you are not going to have sexual relations with me while my body is cleansing it’s self. How many women would have stood up for themselves in this regard.. ?He was probably yelling and screaming and cursing her out and throwing a guilt trip on her but she stood her Ground .
She stood up for herself after she realized that she was paying for her own engagement ring 💍. So the young woman is learning. We all have periods in life when our self esteem may be low because of trauma, abuse, or a lack of life experience. But we brush ourselves off and keep it moving Always forward. I’m sorry about the long winded comment.😎
It’s the oh from the judge I damn near spit my drink out! 🫣
i really be wanting updates on these people in these court cases 😂
like what they doing in life now ? did she really learn her lesson ?
She does look 22. The wig, makeup, and outfit is what's aging her.
Wait. Live on her own in a two bedroom and her kids live with her mother 🙄🙄🙄 what.
The comments on this episode has me weak ☠️
hearing that she was looking for someone who older to be responsible and presumably a good role model for her children...only to end up with him just really breaks my heart.
She just found an older version of the guy she probably had her kids with. Irresponsible af.
He's not even good looking.
Where the hell she thought she was going?? A Club?? She seems a little desperate, Chi raise your children and stop tryna buy a Man
Lol! Right
Hope she puts her focus on her kids and learn to love herself 🙏🏾
Thank you for being so nice to my mom she needs it
@@micahliasimpson7176 🙏🏾 Been there with my mom… she’s in heaven now. ✊🏾
Yes It's Essential she does , b4 she can have a healthy relationship with someone else . I feel kind of bad for her 🫤
She and him look way too old 🫣🥴😬the judge was even shocked
That's exactly what i said and she thought the judge was just saying it because she's with this older man
🤣😂 Lord forgive me for laughing at this comment.
Trife!!! Definition of it. First of all wtf is she wearing?!? Second she is way older than 22. Thirdly why doesn’t she have her kids?!? She needs to be focusing on her kids and not this man. Ugh.
She don’t need to have the kids
If she threw a blazer over the dress it wouldn't look so inappropriate for court.
Lololol 🤣 at wtf she wearing
Engaged after 2 months, loaning him money, buying him rings, and getting another man right after.
Something is mentally off with her. Then bragging about having a 2 bedroom but her kids live with her mom.
Guarantee if she ever got her kids back they've been exposed to countless men. Smh
I'm here to find out who told this woman that pesto bismol lipstick was a good idea
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I did
Girl was so young . I feel bad for her BUT hopefully after that she learn a lesson.
I don’t. Her priorities are messed up
What in the world did she find about that loser!?! I don’t trust him as far as I can throw him! She acted desperate and he acted despicable. She really should change the color of her lipstick🤔
Pause! Don’t shame his name when that 22 year looks like she 40! And have 2 kids. If you gon drag him drag her. It’s a 2way street.
That Tina Turner wig, that lipstick and them flip flops. I can't
She needs to get her life together and make better decisions, & it looks likes she's going to "da club" after this
This is a case of an absent father this beautiful young lady needed her father so bad .. So sad I pray she doesn't get abused or taken advantage of again looking for love ..
I agree
First nice comment I’ve read in this videos comment section ❤️
I had the same situation with the police in Detroit when I was attacked. I was shocked..they do not care, they are so used to people calling for DV and then not following through that they do not even care a little bit, and they didn't do a report they just gave me a number for if I wanted to press charges and they were so nonchalant, I was like WOW 😳... Thank God that's not the kind of situation I'm in on the regular lol and also thank God I did not stay there long. Smh.
Edited to say to his reply: I had marks, ripped clothes,broken glasses and a broken phone and they not only didn't arrest him but like I said they didn't do ANYTHING, they did not give AF. So no that's not a guarantee that he didn't hit her.
I read the your message and I’m glad you’re out of that situation
@ZenobiaParker-vm8kl thank you.
Sorry Mija wrong door… this is not the audition for dream girls or the new Shirley Temple movie LOL looks like my girl was gonna break out tap dancing 💃 🤣😂😅
Where is she going in the party dress😲 She doesn't look 22 but her life decisions justify 22....🙃😗 She can't raise her 2 children but she sponsors a man.. These court cases are classes in the school of life.
🤬Forget her tears, they are both a piece of work🙄.. I cry for her kids who grow up questioning where their mother is..
If your old enough to have them be mature enough to raise them and give them a better life than you had growing up.. She prioritized a man over investing in herself and her kids yet at the end she Still thinks he needs help..👀💭
Clearly she doesn't see her faults🤦🏽♀️SMH
22?! Even JM couldn’t believe she was only 22 😳🥴
No way she is 22. She looks about 35 plus. Life was rough. She is beautiful but omg. What the mess is this lady thinking.
Plaintiff: "If you meet someone you hardly know, don't give them the benefit of the doubt" 😳😳😳
Desperate for anyone but not for her own kids
Wearing an 8th grade Social dress to court as an adult is crazy work 😩😭
What in the Effie meets Eddie King is this????😂😂😂😂
Imagine she says he needs help mentally 😮girl your two kids live with your mother who you help occasionally, yet you enter into a contract to buy an engagement ring. Smh girl find your self worth.
Girl, what? What is going on here 🥴😂😂
She look like she going to the 40 and up club.
This was the case of the dusties they deserve each other 😩
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$707 total for a ring 😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is hilarious
🤔Why is Angie Stone in the People’s Court suing David Ruffin?
ALL these people on here harshly judging this 22 year old woman for making a mistake.
When there is 50 year old women doing worse.
WE made mistakes when WE were her age.
I love 🫶🏽 how the judge ruled. A lot of lessons to be learned; big facts‼️🙏🏾
The defendant doesn’t even take care of her own children!!! (she’s a disgrace trying to get engaged)🤦♀️
I came here for the lipstick 💄😁
...and stayed for the outfit 😜
Hello Barbra this is Shirley, woman to woman.
This girl needs some help because how is running after some old man seem like the thing to do when you don't have your kids?
when was this filmed? what decade??
1992 🤣🤣!. I’m curious as well
I feel as if she needs guidance and taught self worth cause this whole case is a no. I hope she’s doing better for herself though
It's not often you see two dictionary people in the same room together. She's the definition of Bad Life Choices and he's the definition of Sad Sack the Scammer.
They look like they are going out dancing after this 😂😂
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In 1972 😩😂😂😂
@@shelocsher2396 😂😂😂 he’s giving me James vibes from Good Times
She should've left that damn pink💄at home!👁️👁️ No actually🗑️THROW THAT ISH AWAY..
@@bsure745 James cousin
Why she look like a 2010 version of Nicki Minaj😭😭
A Chinese bag would have pulled it all together 😂
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Lol... omg! That's it! I couldn't put my finger on it.
She looks way older than she really is! That Motown wig,outfit and pink lipstick is not fitting for a young lady.
She has no self worth ☹️ it’s so sad. I hope she learns to love herself and demand better. I don’t think her mom did a good job raising her and teaching her these harsh lessons. I felt so bad when I saw her cry. I hope for her sake and her kids that she builds up her self worth and finds herself a good man and also starts being a mother to her children.
That's me and my brothers mom
Wow I love how she has a complete Blank Stare while nodding with what the judge is saying listening to absolutely nothing she said
The Plantiff is carrying one of those " free gift with purchase" at Macy's bag.
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@@brettsfav4 🤭
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This man literally finessed this vulnerable young lady to get her to pay for her own engagement ring and add to that he set it up for her to even finance the damn thing and she's still paying for it even after the split an time of going to court. 😂😂😂😂😂
Finessed my a**. If you are lending money to purchase your own engagement ring, that's a highway bill board neon red sign to 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ away from that man.
Cap! She was tryna position herself to live off homie, got caught cheating, and now she every dollar that spent back smh. Then admitting he was giving you money for the ring but you were applying it to made up debts. Case shouldve been dismissed
@@rosej5029 🤣🤣 true
Something wrong w/both of them and past people on this show just for the fact they don't see how the scenario is insane. I'd like to ask her "The women you know in your life, paid for their engagement rings?" and dare her to tell me "yes they did".
The guy is the big liar coz he kept double talking. He first said she didn't get him a ring then quickly changed his mind when he saw the receipt in her hand lol what a looser taking advantage of a young girl
She said he owes her over $6000 but testified that her kids are living with her mom and she “gives what she can” while she’s alone in a two bedroom apartment?? And she think he’s sick??? Smh
She thinks she's in a club, not he can't bother to iron his shirt, he stored it in a ball.
She borrowed that wig from her great grandmother. I was shocked when she said she's 22 I would've guessed mid 30's.
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Don't allow the person who didn't love you, keep you from the one who will.
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
The shade! Are you really 22? Wow! Judge its the Motown Supreme's wig she have on and that outfit she's wearing! lol
She like 👁️👁️
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This could be a training video about the importance of avoiding bad decisions. She's 22 and already has two kids, that she is not raising and she lives alone, except for the occasional lover. What is her source of income that she has extra money to buy a man a ring and loads of clothing? Of course, all of her problems are society's fault.
100% agree
That's a good question.
The frontal part of the human brain doesn't fully develop until around age 25 years old. That part of the brain deals with logical, and rational decisions.
15:29. I keep cracking up at the kid in the ball cap in the front row. Is he making faces at Harvey?
Poor woman is 22 and looks 40. And completely lost.
At first I thought she was naive but as she spoke, she said her kids live with her mother, and she gives her mom money when she can…but she has money to giver her guy for clothes or the ring etc? She’s selfish and crafty not naive and a manipulator
She is not 22 there no way
It's the wig it makes her look older
@@aball7654and the terrible makeup
Uuuhh I can't her outfit😭😝😆
The guy at the end just adds insult to injury every time. No matter how much someone messed up no one deserves that
Doug is SAVAGE...His little dose of reality is a shot most litigants deserve...
Off the rip you can tell this gonna be a trip 😂
But lady, you were so desperate to get married, you bought your own engagement ring. Sounds like true love. 😒
Just because Niki Minaj sells that lipcolor shade doesn't mean it will look good on you.
Ma'am!💀🤣😭
your last sentence though...oh chileeee...😭😭😭😭😭
And you are sooo perfectly beautiful?
Lol!
22 years old, two kids living with her mother, sends them some money "when she can", looking for a "father figure" i.e. sugar daddy, flat broke yet her priority is to finance a ring for herself. This woman has a bright future.
The makeup tells me everything I need to know
MD will definitely take SOMEONE to jail if there's a domestic abuse claim. Strange case all the way around. I think they're both lying at some points..
Brah, we know that. She was so lying and creating false narratives to strengthen her case!