Love this! So many tell you to put yourself out there by pursuing men or even asking them out. But if we are obedient to God he will open (or close) the doors that he has for you. I once had a crush on this man from my old church. I would chat with him and try to drop hints. Then one day a friend told me to just ask him out for coffee. I debated and prayed about it. So glad I went with my gut that God told me not to because he later got married quickly to someone else 😅 God knows what’s for us! I’m still waiting and trusting God more each day ❤
When pursuing a romantic interest, prioritize building a strong foundation of friendship and trust. Let love be genuine and sincere. #BuildingHealthyRelationships"
Although I’m a man, I just happened to come across your video and also gave me advice…Yesterday, I was texting a friend from church about a woman I’m interested in at our church…I eventually told her I prayed about it and going to put it in Gods hands now…She said “Let go, Let God, but be practical” and I believe she was telling me no harm in asking…and then your video kind of gave me confirmation it’s ok for me to pursue. 😮
I have a crush on my Pastor,he's young and single. He is everything I'm looking for in a man. Fears The Lord,very strict about himself and The Lord,holds himself accountable. Very handsome,dresses well,the list goes on. But I'm asking The Lord to take away these emotions, because as much as I have a crush,I know he's not the one for me
This video is exactly what I’m going through 😱 crazy how I was just praying about this guy I really like at my new church 😩 hopefully he ends up asking me out soon! I am praying 🙏🏼 I’ll come with an update if he does and if it’s from God ❤
Literally my same story and last night to be exact. Of course I prayed first and eventually the scripture don’t awaken love before it’s time came to mind. I was praying hard! lol bc the old me would say something but now I’m like noo biblical men are intentional. But my flesh kept thinking of ways. Lol
You know it's a God thing when this just happens to come up while the situation and subject has been on your mind. Needed this and this is very helpful. Thank you ❤️🙏
Ive liked this guy for almost 5 years and yes i have prayed about it and i have been a bit too vocal about it but then during these five years we've had a wonderful friendship growth. My problem is, i dont know whether to let go of everything i feel and just focus of being friends and nothing more or to still hang around with the hope of we getting together. Ive prayed and i always have this nudge that he is the one no matter how faint the nudge is
This is also great advice for guys on how to Biblically aproach and communcate with a girl that they are interested in without hurting them. Thank you! :)
Thank you so much for this video! 😊 It’s very good advice and I hope to be able to use it when the next man I like comes into my life. Also, I would love to see your husband on one of these videos!
You are so welcome🫶🏻. For sure I get that🙂, his job keeps him pretty private and he is naturally that way, but you never know maybe in the future he will make an appearance. 🩷
This brother in Christ really likes me. Alot. However, i think he's stuck. Pray for us. He called me 'my love' today but he can't seem to pursue or set time together. Jesus told me its spiritual warfare. I know he loves me. I love him too. Warfare is real.
Thank you. He strikes me as a perfectionist. He's not someone to act hastily but he has amped up his attention to me. I sense a bit of fear in him that he may not be good enough. I know he's been hurt but who hasn't? Plus we are 60 years old. You acquire some baggage!
Thank you so much for your videos. You are amazing..I have done the same thing you are talking about There is a guy at gym . He is tall and has amazing eyes. But I don't know what to do. I did introduce myself to him. But it's awkward and I don't know how to proceed from this
Jesus is True Love relationship with Him is Most Important we should follow Jesus our Perfect Example i believe that the man should pursue the woman like how Jesus pursues His Church He puts together purposes and He gives confirmations 😊❤
Should I stray away if he is around 2 yr younger than me? I'm 23. He looks older or my age, I look young for my age. I've been praying to God to reveal the truth to me. The last time I had a crush I prayed that God would quickly reveal the truth to both of us without heartache. I knew within a couple weeks that he wasn't the one. Hopefully if this guy isn't the one then the feelings will pass swiftly.
Yes amen I’ll be praying with you! Absolutely do not stray away bc he is younger! My husband is 13 years older🙂. God knows what is best for us, just leave it with him!
Thanks for this video! How can one biblically deal with someone who appears interested in you but isn’t Christian.. Do you think such encounters if not meant for marriage, can be used by God to bring him to Christ..should I just be kind or try to avoid any interaction?
Try telling him about Jesus and the love of God to see if he is open to exploring, but first pray that God opens him up to receive the truth. If he doesn’t bulge then don’t be unequally yoked.
Sorry, I'm not the creator, but I do have some personal advice. Like you mentioned, I think it's a wonderful idea to use your position to spread God's word, and I do think God works in those ways. Maybe you're someone who they may be willing to listen to-- however! Referring to having an actual relationship, I've seen firsthand the effects of being unequally yoked. Right now, my brother entered a relationship where he's unequally yoked. Everyone in his life (family, friends, coworkers) advised him against it, but he didn't listen because he believed HE could save her. This has led to his relationship to drift from God, his Bible study that he started has also faded because he lost interest, and he's rebelled against our parents for this girl. The fruits of the relationship haven't been good or Godly because a believer should never be with an unbeliever. Now, for your situation, if the person you're talking about grows to fall in love with Christ, that's great, but even then I'd suggest you give them time. Let them grow first and mature. In the meantime, since you said they aren't Christian, make it clear you are. Discuss with them your values, beliefs, and boundaries. If they run or don't respect them, you have your answer. But if they aren't afraid, that isn't exactly a yes either. My brother's girlfriend has also shown interest in God, when it benefits her. She goes to church or reads her bible with my brother, but she's made no changes in almost a year and would try to lead him into temptation. This isn't to bash her, or nonbelievers, but it's just to show you that even if someone shows interest in Christ doesn't make it wise to jump into a relationship with them. That's why I advise you to help them mature first before. Lastly, just pray. Pray "that prayer" (Lord, if they're not from you remove them, or remove my feelings. Reveal to me what I cannot see), and wait.
I'd say pray about it. And maybe God could be using you but it's important to seek and pursue God's guidance. For now just keep it on the friendship side of things, because if yall date u might end up compromising a lot❤
Run!!!!!! Away!!!!!! You can get really hurt, in many, many ways! I have been there. Learn from my situation. It’s not worth it. You may not believe it if I told you my hell-on-earth story.
I used to like a guy, and I'm sure he liked me too, but in hindsight, I think he was an atheist. Took me a while to get o er him, but I'm glad I did. Never left the crush stage, plus we are still coworkers.
Mmmm, I could right a novel on this question but I will simply say she didn’t make the first move. He started pursuing when he inquired about her in Ruth 2:5 “Whose young woman is this?” And then by giving her favour and providing for her when he speaks to her in Ruth 2:8-9. He goes beyond the requirements of the law by instructing his workers to deliberately leave extra grain for her to glean (Ruth 2:15-16). And then sends her home with a ton of barley - an amount that is far more than a typical gleaner would get. Ruth was just minding her business gleaning. He approached her first and bent over backwards in kindness and protection of her. Also, the threshing floor is completely misunderstood. It is cultural. And there isn’t really a proper analogy I can give for a modern 21st century woman other than It is somewhat liken to a woman today asking a father to provide counsel and protection and to “screen” potential suitors and see her through to marriage. What she is not doing is asking him to marry her because she is an empowered woman and likes him and can’t wait for him to make a move.. he already has - this isn’t what’s going on here. I hope this helps…
i really like a guy from church, but i always wonder “would dating the guy i like give glory to God?”. i asked my parents if they can help me to courting him. they said no. i almost feel alone like where do i even start T_T
What if it's someone who youcan sense is slowly interested getting interested but you're not? How does one proceed? How do i let him know? Should i even?
Hi sis, even though you are just 16 it is always good to seek wisdom. It’s advice that I wish someone had told me at 16🙂. Even if God’s plan for you is marriage way later in life, my prayer for you would be to avoid any unnecessary heartache and to protect you from any of the enemies schemes. I have 3 younger sisters so when I make these videos I am always thinking of what I would give as advice to them when they were single. May God keep you and bless you - I am praying for you and your future spouse🩷
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Love this! So many tell you to put yourself out there by pursuing men or even asking them out. But if we are obedient to God he will open (or close) the doors that he has for you.
I once had a crush on this man from my old church. I would chat with him and try to drop hints. Then one day a friend told me to just ask him out for coffee. I debated and prayed about it. So glad I went with my gut that God told me not to because he later got married quickly to someone else 😅
God knows what’s for us! I’m still waiting and trusting God more each day ❤
Thank you for sharing your experience! 😅💚
Amen sis! Thank you for your story, way to exercise wisdom! God is so good🩷
I've been advised to ask a man out. That's carraazzy.
When pursuing a romantic interest, prioritize building a strong foundation of friendship and trust. Let love be genuine and sincere. #BuildingHealthyRelationships"
Amen!! Of course!!
Yes. This is what my 'guy' & I are doing. Good , solid friendship. Trust and fidelity. I feel very safe with him as well.
Although I’m a man, I just happened to come across your video and also gave me advice…Yesterday, I was texting a friend from church about a woman I’m interested in at our church…I eventually told her I prayed about it and going to put it in Gods hands now…She said “Let go, Let God, but be practical” and I believe she was telling me no harm in asking…and then your video kind of gave me confirmation it’s ok for me to pursue. 😮
@@ctaffy919 I’m so glad! I have an advice video coming out soon specifically for men regarding pursuing so stay tuned!
@@daniellashamaroseawesome, can’t wait. I’ll sub for that!
Your a brother. You can pursue. Go for it, tiger!!
@@danilaroche1156 I will! Plan on asking tomorrow before or after service! Pray for me! 😊
@@ctaffy919Love this, how did it go?
I have a crush on my Pastor,he's young and single. He is everything I'm looking for in a man. Fears The Lord,very strict about himself and The Lord,holds himself accountable. Very handsome,dresses well,the list goes on. But I'm asking The Lord to take away these emotions, because as much as I have a crush,I know he's not the one for me
You need to get busy with God's affairs.
This video is exactly what I’m going through 😱 crazy how I was just praying about this guy I really like at my new church 😩 hopefully he ends up asking me out soon! I am praying 🙏🏼 I’ll come with an update if he does and if it’s from God ❤
I’ll be standing with you in prayer! Yes please keep me posted🫶🏻
Literally my same story and last night to be exact. Of course I prayed first and eventually the scripture don’t awaken love before it’s time came to mind. I was praying hard! lol bc the old me would say something but now I’m like noo biblical men are intentional. But my flesh kept thinking of ways. Lol
I'm a relationship coach and strong sister. Keep me posted as well!
it’s always important to align everything with the Word and Prayer 😊❤
You know it's a God thing when this just happens to come up while the situation and subject has been on your mind. Needed this and this is very helpful. Thank you ❤️🙏
Absolutely! God is good🙌🏻! I’m so glad it was helpful’🩷
Ive liked this guy for almost 5 years and yes i have prayed about it and i have been a bit too vocal about it but then during these five years we've had a wonderful friendship growth. My problem is, i dont know whether to let go of everything i feel and just focus of being friends and nothing more or to still hang around with the hope of we getting together. Ive prayed and i always have this nudge that he is the one no matter how faint the nudge is
Great advice 👍🏼 God bless you and continue using you for his glory. 🙏🏼
Thank you! You too!
Excellent advice sister🙏🏽❤️❤️
I’m glad you liked it🩷
This is also great advice for guys on how to Biblically aproach and communcate with a girl that they are interested in without hurting them. Thank you! :)
You are so welcome, I’m glad it was helpful!
I will definitely subscribe. It feels like there are more good godly advice you can give and this video is not enough. 😅
I’m so glad!🩷
1:24 i relate sooo much bc i’ll literally imagine me and a crush getting married, starting a family, etc. 😂
Lol it’s hard sometimes isn’t it! We’re human and if it’s a desire of our heart it’s hard not to dream🩷
Thank you so much for this video! 😊 It’s very good advice and I hope to be able to use it when the next man I like comes into my life. Also, I would love to see your husband on one of these videos!
You are so welcome🫶🏻. For sure I get that🙂, his job keeps him pretty private and he is naturally that way, but you never know maybe in the future he will make an appearance. 🩷
It’s like his videos right on time. I literally have a crush that I met at work.
God is good!🙌🏻🩷
He must be serving and loving Christ.
perfect timing! Praise the Lord!
Thank you for this video😊
You are so welcome!🫶🏻
Suscibed ❤
I’m so glad!! Welcome🫶🏻
Love how simple this is!
Definitely needed this, thank you! ♥️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😌😊😊😊 So glad I eventually watched this
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Loved this! Exactly what I needed ❤
I’m so glad🩷
I loved it! Thank you for sharing 🩷
I’m so glad🫶🏻, you are so welcome!
Good. I enjoyed it.
I’m so glad!
Thank you and God bless you❤❤
Thank you Rose 🤗
So welcome sis🫶🏻
This is golden
This brother in Christ really likes me. Alot. However, i think he's stuck. Pray for us. He called me 'my love' today but he can't seem to pursue or set time together. Jesus told me its spiritual warfare. I know he loves me. I love him too. Warfare is real.
I’ll be praying for sure🩷
Thank you. He strikes me as a perfectionist. He's not someone to act hastily but he has amped up his attention to me. I sense a bit of fear in him that he may not be good enough. I know he's been hurt but who hasn't? Plus we are 60 years old. You acquire some baggage!
You should not tell him your feelings BEFORE he's expressed his first.
It appears the devil really attacks the ladies with crushes. Vain imaginations. Always involve the Lord in everything .
Its not pathetic at all. Your human. Transformation takes time.
Thank you so much for your videos. You are amazing..I have done the same thing you are talking about
There is a guy at gym . He is tall and has amazing eyes. But I don't know what to do. I did introduce myself to him. But it's awkward and I don't know how to proceed from this
First step is just to pray and leave it with God. I’ll be praying for you too. Let’s let God lead!🩷
Jesus is True Love
relationship with Him is Most Important
we should follow Jesus our Perfect Example
i believe that the man should pursue the woman like how Jesus pursues His Church
He puts together purposes and He gives confirmations
😊❤
My family, especially my siblings are psychotic narcs. Completely insane. Should I tell my new suitor, Daniella?
He acknowledged me and approached me first but I don’t know if he liked me. My discernment is usually great just nervous because he is a crush. Lol
I get that! Well it is a good sign he acknowledged you and approached you first🙂. Let’s pray about it and leave it in God’s hands sis🫶🏻
Should I stray away if he is around 2 yr younger than me? I'm 23. He looks older or my age, I look young for my age. I've been praying to God to reveal the truth to me. The last time I had a crush I prayed that God would quickly reveal the truth to both of us without heartache. I knew within a couple weeks that he wasn't the one. Hopefully if this guy isn't the one then the feelings will pass swiftly.
Yes amen I’ll be praying with you! Absolutely do not stray away bc he is younger! My husband is 13 years older🙂. God knows what is best for us, just leave it with him!
praise the holy God Almighty Amen he's so holy Amen 🌟🙏💪
🙌🏻🙏🏻🩷
Hallelujah❤
🙏🏻🩷🙌🏻
Thanks for this video! How can one biblically deal with someone who appears interested in you but isn’t Christian.. Do you think such encounters if not meant for marriage, can be used by God to bring him to Christ..should I just be kind or try to avoid any interaction?
Try telling him about Jesus and the love of God to see if he is open to exploring, but first pray that God opens him up to receive the truth. If he doesn’t bulge then don’t be unequally yoked.
Sorry, I'm not the creator, but I do have some personal advice. Like you mentioned, I think it's a wonderful idea to use your position to spread God's word, and I do think God works in those ways. Maybe you're someone who they may be willing to listen to-- however! Referring to having an actual relationship, I've seen firsthand the effects of being unequally yoked. Right now, my brother entered a relationship where he's unequally yoked. Everyone in his life (family, friends, coworkers) advised him against it, but he didn't listen because he believed HE could save her. This has led to his relationship to drift from God, his Bible study that he started has also faded because he lost interest, and he's rebelled against our parents for this girl. The fruits of the relationship haven't been good or Godly because a believer should never be with an unbeliever.
Now, for your situation, if the person you're talking about grows to fall in love with Christ, that's great, but even then I'd suggest you give them time. Let them grow first and mature.
In the meantime, since you said they aren't Christian, make it clear you are. Discuss with them your values, beliefs, and boundaries. If they run or don't respect them, you have your answer. But if they aren't afraid, that isn't exactly a yes either. My brother's girlfriend has also shown interest in God, when it benefits her. She goes to church or reads her bible with my brother, but she's made no changes in almost a year and would try to lead him into temptation. This isn't to bash her, or nonbelievers, but it's just to show you that even if someone shows interest in Christ doesn't make it wise to jump into a relationship with them. That's why I advise you to help them mature first before.
Lastly, just pray. Pray "that prayer" (Lord, if they're not from you remove them, or remove my feelings. Reveal to me what I cannot see), and wait.
I'd say pray about it. And maybe God could be using you but it's important to seek and pursue God's guidance. For now just keep it on the friendship side of things, because if yall date u might end up compromising a lot❤
Run!!!!!!
Away!!!!!!
You can get really hurt, in many, many ways!
I have been there. Learn from my situation. It’s not worth it. You may not believe it if I told you my hell-on-earth story.
I used to like a guy, and I'm sure he liked me too, but in hindsight, I think he was an atheist. Took me a while to get o er him, but I'm glad I did. Never left the crush stage, plus we are still coworkers.
❤🙏Please pray for me🙏I love him since first sight❤
Pray on it. It could be spiritual attack to torment you. Vain imaginations.
Question about guy pursuing...how would you deal with Ruth? A modern day example? Because she made the first move.
Mmmm, I could right a novel on this question but I will simply say she didn’t make the first move. He started pursuing when he inquired about her in Ruth 2:5 “Whose young woman is this?” And then by giving her favour and providing for her when he speaks to her in Ruth 2:8-9. He goes beyond the requirements of the law by instructing his workers to deliberately leave extra grain for her to glean (Ruth 2:15-16). And then sends her home with a ton of barley - an amount that is far more than a typical gleaner would get. Ruth was just minding her business gleaning. He approached her first and bent over backwards in kindness and protection of her. Also, the threshing floor is completely misunderstood. It is cultural. And there isn’t really a proper analogy I can give for a modern 21st century woman other than It is somewhat liken to a woman today asking a father to provide counsel and protection and to “screen” potential suitors and see her through to marriage. What she is not doing is asking him to marry her because she is an empowered woman and likes him and can’t wait for him to make a move.. he already has - this isn’t what’s going on here. I hope this helps…
i really like a guy from church, but i always wonder “would dating the guy i like give glory to God?”. i asked my parents if they can help me to courting him. they said no. i almost feel alone like where do i even start T_T
Please pray for me
Of course!
What if we aren’t allowed do date? Should we just keep quiet,or still let him know we like him?
What if it's someone who youcan sense is slowly interested getting interested but you're not? How does one proceed? How do i let him know? Should i even?
Dodge him, dodge him, dodge him, and keep dodging him.
Wanted to watch this and then I realise...... I'm just 16😢
Do 16 yo’s not have crushes on boys?
@auroraanavrin4336 I'll say we do.... though not everyone..... It was watching the intro and knowing that I don't plan on getting married anytime soon
@OluwaseunA-2Philippians 4:6 is still real, pray and ask God to guide you. Proverbs 3:5-6
@@nicthemedic Thanks 😊
Hi sis, even though you are just 16 it is always good to seek wisdom. It’s advice that I wish someone had told me at 16🙂. Even if God’s plan for you is marriage way later in life, my prayer for you would be to avoid any unnecessary heartache and to protect you from any of the enemies schemes. I have 3 younger sisters so when I make these videos I am always thinking of what I would give as advice to them when they were single. May God keep you and bless you - I am praying for you and your future spouse🩷