Chris Massey on Dan Schneider... | Tea Time w/ Raven-Symoné & Miranda

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  • @brieebird5700
    @brieebird5700 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +258

    There is a huge difference between a strict parent and an abusive boss. He may have been a child then, but he is an adult now, and should recognize the difference.

    • @nikimccool9758
      @nikimccool9758 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I would love to see how he'd react if his child was treated that way by someone other than him.

    • @jennamiller4426
      @jennamiller4426 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It’s a shame he came into this interview without watching the documentary.

    • @kylefong9963
      @kylefong9963 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Lol I doubt thats what he was saying. He’s stating that he understands the lreaction bosses may have because of how similar it is in relation to his parenting styles. He quite literally said he isn’t defending anyone… but just sees it from a different angle which was his perpective

    • @serenityq26
      @serenityq26 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      there is also a difference between reality and feelings. as an adult you should recognize the difference.............

    • @SAMEntalhealth
      @SAMEntalhealth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What is He going to change his experience to fit the narrative you want? 😅😅 talk about people that refuse to use the word force to FORCE someone to say something YOU want because YOU were there right? 😅

  • @bbxo_
    @bbxo_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +643

    He said nothing, he didn’t even watch the doc, SIR.. all he did was bring raven into the mess now.

    • @HJBX2
      @HJBX2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

      Thank you for letting me know because I was excited to watch. I’ll pass unless there is something concrete he wanted to clear up especially his mother speaking on his behalf

    • @mlw9195
      @mlw9195 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Exactly why is Miranda the only sane one here 😂

    • @bbxo_
      @bbxo_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@HJBX2 nope, just another boogie coded interview.

    • @Ninamlobeli
      @Ninamlobeli 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He kept on cutting Raven lol...

    • @kjdnyhmghfvb
      @kjdnyhmghfvb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      He said people shouldn't be criticizes for "speaking up late," and he supported Drake

  • @Seventh_hour
    @Seventh_hour 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +287

    Now why would he come on the show without seeing the documentary. How are you able to have an opinion without watching the entire series 😒

    • @Ninamlobeli
      @Ninamlobeli 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      His visit to the podcast was useless 😅.....i think he came to the podcast to trend/to be viral lol....I mean he was not even invited 😂😂

    • @LaShaynaMonique
      @LaShaynaMonique 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ninamlobeli not invited? huh?

    • @wcdchannel
      @wcdchannel 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@LaShaynaMonique
      They say in the video that he reached out to them claiming he had tea he wanted to spill on this pod.
      I don't know what tea he was talking about, since he spilled absolutely nothing, but he basically invited himself.

    • @LaShaynaMonique
      @LaShaynaMonique 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wcdchannel ohhhh I see!

    • @wcdchannel
      @wcdchannel 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@LaShaynaMonique
      It's confusing because he didn't watch the doc, he had no negative experiences on set, he claims what other people may view as "toxic" was just business as usual to him, so I don't understand what he's doing here.
      Don't quote me, but I feel like we got another T-Bo situation with this one. 👀

  • @officialbrandoncoleman
    @officialbrandoncoleman 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +303

    I'm ready for Raven to tell her side of the story about her being a child actor! What did she overcome and what was the obstacles as a little kid I definitely be in the breadwinner in her family !

    • @ReadingComprehension8X
      @ReadingComprehension8X 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      She supresses it apparently

    • @funsizedazzy6708
      @funsizedazzy6708 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      She talks about it a lot

    • @Zenn198-Ace
      @Zenn198-Ace 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      She would benefit on writing a book about it

    • @kjdnyhmghfvb
      @kjdnyhmghfvb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Shes talked about that before, a few times

    • @ReadingComprehension8X
      @ReadingComprehension8X 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@kjdnyhmghfvb from what I’ve seen so far she doesn’t remember anything about being on the set of The Cosby Show which I find interesting . I’ve forgotten about large chunks of my childhood though too .

  • @cuca_
    @cuca_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +594

    Soo Chris Massey admits at the start he didn’t even watch Quiet On Set?! Yet he reached out to Raven to come on her pod to speak about an issue he hasn’t even educated himself about?

    • @cuca_
      @cuca_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      And he then feels the need to mention he’s ’even closer than first name basis’ with drake bell since they were in Nicaragua together… I’m shook at how he didn’t feel the need to bother watching Quiet on Set. Speaks volumes about the Zoey 102 gang, but we already knew

    • @cuca_
      @cuca_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Also the audio quality is frustratingly bad 😫 all in all this vid ain’t it, raven

    • @zeanibanks3950
      @zeanibanks3950 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Why does he have to watch it? He lived through it lol. And at the end of the day Dan Schneider is problematic. But the lack of parenting is the real issue.
      I don’t think you need to watch a traumatic documentary to want to speak on it. Not sure if you saw his mom speak out and kinda forced him to have to make a statement.

    • @cuca_
      @cuca_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      @@zeanibanks3950 I think the point is he didn’t live through it, he fortunately didn’t have the traumatic experiences that his peers had. So he needs to inform himself instead of just contribute ‘i had a great experience’.
      The fact he mentioned he’s friends with drake bell, yet didn’t feel the need to watch the public documentary explaining what drake went through, just seems odd to me.
      This video is titled ‘Chris Massey on Dan Schneider’. For Chris to have an informed view, he needs to watch the groundbreaking documentary about it

    • @chelseahorizons
      @chelseahorizons 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He probably watched it after the interview, the interview is old

  • @dominickjvlogs
    @dominickjvlogs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    This felt weirdly disconnected from the Quiet on Set Doc. Why did you conveniently ignore the inappropriate Arian grande videos and the phyiscal bullying on Zoey 101 and the feet photos and asking kids to send him photos of their feet with Nickelodeon in sharpie written on it … talking about aggressive words is like uhhhhhhhhg what?!?! What about the pedophelia

    • @Bandon17
      @Bandon17 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      They started the video saying they didn't watch it. So they are going off of what has come out in the press basically.

    • @lanzi_xo
      @lanzi_xo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@Bandon17 Raven and Miranda watched it. Chris did not.

    • @dominickjvlogs
      @dominickjvlogs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Bandon17omg horrifying! They are being so dismissive and don’t even mention Ariana Grande’s clips being posted to C Porn websites 🤢😭

    • @andreszulainoo
      @andreszulainoo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      It looks like Raven and Miranda were willing to talk about the doc more but Chris had nothing to add on the subject because he didn't watch it and he seems to have had a good experience on set.

    • @Bandon17
      @Bandon17 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@dominickjvlogs you wanted them to have a deep conversation on a whole documentary in 24 minutes, come on now. Are you mad at them or Dan and the adults who fucked over kids.

  • @wcdchannel
    @wcdchannel 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +880

    Hmmm, I can't wait to see Alexa Nikolas' reaction to this one.

    • @seancolemusic6412
      @seancolemusic6412 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

      I was just thinking this!!!!!!

    • @sholabolaji2975
      @sholabolaji2975 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Why?

    • @catherinecampbell1215
      @catherinecampbell1215 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

      @@sholabolaji2975She’s been talking a lot about Chris and Kyle Massey and their mom lately. The mom has been very unsupportive of Alexa as of recent even though she was nice to Alexa as a child.

    • @crobinson41121
      @crobinson41121 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah ​@@catherinecampbell1215

    • @Delena00
      @Delena00 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      @@catherinecampbell1215 Probably because Alexa as an adult is a grifter who runs a for-profit off victims of abuse.

  • @RybatGrimes
    @RybatGrimes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    So what was the point of Chris being there? Watching the very thing you’re discussing the LEAST you could do. Otherwise, don’t bother even bringing it up. Just seems weird to me to be like “oh yeah, I didn’t watch it, but let me tell you about how my experience was really great, and other people were just upset because Dan got a little huffy sometimes. 😊” like that’s exactly why you should’ve sat your butt down and watched the doc because it’s way more than that, and the fact that Raven & Miranda had to correct him is case and point as to why this was completely unnecessary. He added nothing new, and didn’t know what he was talking about.

    • @TimmyTOnTheFly
      @TimmyTOnTheFly 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I’m sure he’s educated on the whole issue and he doesn’t have to watch it. He experienced it first hand from people around him. It’s hilarious to me is that because he has a different perspective on the situation, y’all throw a fit and make all these accusations and call him a bad person! 🤦🏽‍♂️💯

    • @sideeyed7682
      @sideeyed7682 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TimmyTOnTheFlyBecause that’s their true intentions, to have everyone believe the narrative. Just how they tried saying Schineder was racist but ironically the only two former cast members to side with him after this backlash were black guys. Schineder was many things but he wasn’t the guy that documentary made him out to be.

    • @KrisHoppz
      @KrisHoppz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right, then had the nerve to say he’s not there to defend anyone 😂. Come off it man. Literally the very least he could do was watch and not be willingly ignorant.

  • @tvtalkwithavi
    @tvtalkwithavi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    My 2 favorite parts "go to the bathroom and clean your nose" and " ya'll fine now, right?" LMAO Raven doesn't miss a single trick 🤣😂

    • @TeAmoConTodoMiAlma
      @TeAmoConTodoMiAlma 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Timestamps? ❤

    • @r.r911
      @r.r911 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​​​​@TeAmoConTodoMiAlma
      Clean your nose: 11:20
      Ya'll fine now, right?: 13:52

  • @Anonymous.Throne
    @Anonymous.Throne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +234

    Your personal experience doesn’t outweigh REALITY lmao. Cmon bro

    • @TLove-zc3dm
      @TLove-zc3dm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      He can ONLY speak from his own experiences…🙏🏽❤

    • @notyouraveragebear9326
      @notyouraveragebear9326 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      He never said they did “bro.” Just like Kenan Thompson, they can only speak from THEIR experience.

    • @Anonymous.Throne
      @Anonymous.Throne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Dude gave multiple analogies, blamed the parents, downplayed the severity, all to combat the issues or attempt to resolve the situation.
      ONCE AGAIN, his personal experience doesn’t outweigh reality… BRO.
      He doesn’t understand the full CONTEXT & severity because he didn’t watch the… (you guessed it) DOCUMENTARY.
      Therefore he doesn’t have the luxury to try and say what the problem is.
      LOG OFF IMMEDIATELY.

    • @Anonymous.Throne
      @Anonymous.Throne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@notyouraveragebear9326 Kenan Thompson ONLY spoke on his experience, gave sympathy, and nothing else.
      He didn’t attempt to out rule the situation with his experience.
      Why? Because he understands the full context.

    • @serenityq26
      @serenityq26 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      so his personal experience isnt reality......... its giving "i want to believe x so i wont listen to any evidence to contradict it". talk about not accepting reality..........

  • @KharMohn
    @KharMohn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +231

    Raven said yeah u talkin that shit but gon clean that nose real quick 😭😭😭

    • @YulitaLee
      @YulitaLee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

      like that could've been edited out. Come on. 😂

    • @lanzi_xo
      @lanzi_xo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@YulitaLee agreed!

    • @savannawhiteee
      @savannawhiteee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@YulitaLee i think chris asked for raven to keep that in the video because he thought it was funny

    • @vehzee
      @vehzee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was he doing c*ke???

  • @Quandryification
    @Quandryification 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Its hard having a discussion about a documentary you didn't watch. He needs to watch it then come back and discuss it.

  • @tammymom24bugs
    @tammymom24bugs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    I truly believe he knew who he could bully and be inappropriate without recourse. Bullying and being treated like they were are never okay anywhere. Adults or kids. Especially foot fetish!

    • @ChristmasMorning1995
      @ChristmasMorning1995 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      100%. Notice he never tried that with Miranda cosgrove, she was the star. He knew it. She also had supportive parents. Her parents didn’t throw her to the wolves like Amanda’s did.

    • @RybatGrimes
      @RybatGrimes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly. You can tell he was one of the bullies on the Zoey 101 set. He didn’t have a bad experience because he was the one causing it for others.

    • @TheSuburbanBase
      @TheSuburbanBase 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@ChristmasMorning1995 There are videos from behind the scenes where she is uncomfortable.

    • @Deenique16
      @Deenique16 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly predators know who to prey on

    • @tammymom24bugs
      @tammymom24bugs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And I’m sorry this may be unpopular opinion but just my opinion. It’s like saying oh I dated that rapist, he didn’t do it to me. I didn’t notice anything. So I can’t speak on what I don’t know. A rapist is a rapist weather he did it to you or not that doesn’t change the person. Drake Bell was a victim.! people that were bullied on Zoey101 were victims. we need to make that the front fourth of the issue because if I had a good experience with somebody who did that to people I would no longer associate with that person or talk about the good times. It diminishes what the victims go through.

  • @jostinaluver
    @jostinaluver 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    He didn't really say anything. He didn't even watch the doc to know what was said or rewatch the clips they were discussing. Some of the weird foot fetish stuff happened on his show!

    • @kjdnyhmghfvb
      @kjdnyhmghfvb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He said the Most Important thing several times. *"Your Parent should be with you on set at all times,"* like his Dad was. And If Drake's Dad was allowed to do that, or his mom listened to his warnings, that wouldn't have happened to Drake.

    • @jostinaluver
      @jostinaluver 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@kjdnyhmghfvb That's not the only thing. He was asked about some of the sexual content on the show and skirted around it.

    • @TimmyTOnTheFly
      @TimmyTOnTheFly 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m sure he’s educated on the whole issue and he doesn’t have to watch it. He experienced it first hand from people around him. It’s hilarious to me is that because he has a different perspective on the situation, y’all throw a fit and make all these accusations and call him a bad person! 🤦🏽‍♂️💯

    • @jostinaluver
      @jostinaluver 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@TimmyTOnTheFly He said he didn't see anything harmful. So no he is not well educated on the issue. He had no clue what exactly was brought up in the doc!

    • @masavoy0228
      @masavoy0228 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He was there lol

  • @sectionleader10
    @sectionleader10 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    Btw Raven you didn’t ruin my childhood when you came out lol you actually enhanced my childhood… also wassup Fam 🙃😉

    • @baxatakbaxatak2014
      @baxatakbaxatak2014 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Disney tried so hard to keep her in the closet 😂

  • @carriebacy4566
    @carriebacy4566 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    He was in his own world, with parents looking out for him. He was blessed with the experience, as he should have. Like all the kids were supposed to. At least this person is saying he didn’t have a hurtful experience.

  • @rebornfurnituredesigns2492
    @rebornfurnituredesigns2492 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Raven and Miranda handled this interview beautifully ❤️ I already commented that I feel like him speaking on a documentary he’s never seen is irresponsible and disrespectful, but Raven and Miranda used the their responsibility of hosting a podcast as an opportunity to attempt to educate him, and also showed respect to the people in the doc, regardless of what their friend and guest was saying. That’s amazing. Well done ladies!! 👏🏼❤️

  • @brieebird5700
    @brieebird5700 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    The way that this interview just confirms the divide between the favorites of Dan and the people abused by Dan is wild!

    • @monicagrindstaff5489
      @monicagrindstaff5489 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      EXACTLY

    • @ensabahnur3104
      @ensabahnur3104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      He wasn't a favorite of Dan though. And those abused by Dan, are on the lower end. I'm still not sure why people want to focus more on Dan Schneider than the actual pedos on set. Brian Peck went right back into obscurity, and no one is even talking about the other guy, hell I'm calling him the other guy

    • @KRIAJK
      @KRIAJK 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If Chris was a favorite he would've been in other shows or starring in his own.

  • @yanimadeit
    @yanimadeit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Yea. This is what Raven should be at the for front of. frfr facilitating these conversations. Whenever she is ready to tell her story. I will be tuned in. There is a lot of things child stars can learn.

  • @Morgan-lb9ow
    @Morgan-lb9ow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    It’s crazy how dismissive you’re being towards not mentioning Alexa at all- which proves her point that the cast was mean to her.

  • @maypush
    @maypush 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Chris’ moms public take on Dan and the documentary was shocking and disgusting. I’m surprised it wasn’t discussed even a little

    • @Puddinpie696
      @Puddinpie696 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      That would be actual tea lol

    • @monadejaneiro
      @monadejaneiro 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      If I knew Chris mother as well I would not sit and call that out on my podcast. I’ll just let my opinions stay in my head to avoid conflict. Raven has been in enough drama during “The View” and she probably didn’t touch base on it out of respect to his mom. If both of their families are cool then that could be a little difficult to discuss publicly not to mention putting Chris in that position could’ve been uncomfortable or embarrassing. I feel you tho 💯

    • @SosaA11
      @SosaA11 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That the parents should take some responsibility ? How is that disgusting. Yall people too trustworthy towards other people with children

  • @healinmyself1514
    @healinmyself1514 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    raven saying 'yall fine now right" sent me lol cuz it never ruined my childhood finding out she was gay if anything it made things make sense hahahaha

    • @Jalentheuntold
      @Jalentheuntold 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same! It didn’t ruin anything for me even as an adult I rewatch all the seasons of that’s so raven and ravens home but I didn’t watch quiet on the set because I believe that would in fact ruin things for me

  • @janitapegram
    @janitapegram 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    To be fair, your DAD or family member being strict is different than a PROFESSIONAL on set at work in an authoritative position being inappropriate with women or girls or kids, saying bad words, overworking kids, manipulating, overly touching. I think when we say "toxic" especially in relation to the documentary.. uh...it was a lot more than just yelling.

    • @ensabahnur3104
      @ensabahnur3104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, but to a child it's not that much difference. An authoritative adult telling you to move and get in line or their will be hell to pay is way more scarier than a guy on set, clearly...since no one ever tried him or his profession.

  • @Frdwrd
    @Frdwrd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Raven remains professional and overall respectful. Love that about her!!❤

  • @kaiyadarling586
    @kaiyadarling586 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    he could've stayed home, everything he said could've been addressed in a tweet

    • @Starfir33
      @Starfir33 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I feel like he just wanted to be in the spot light since everyone is getting the attention

    • @ensabahnur3104
      @ensabahnur3104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So, what did You want him to say?

    • @kaiyadarling586
      @kaiyadarling586 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ensabahnur3104nothing at all , especially cause he didn’t watch the documentary

    • @destinedforgreatness3030
      @destinedforgreatness3030 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kaiyadarling586are u slow or sum he worked for Dan on a whole show so him coming on he could speak on shit that most can’t like what don’t u get he worked for Dan u don’t gotta watch the doc he lived through that being his boss

  • @XoechitlHudson
    @XoechitlHudson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This was a terrible interview. I’m very disappointed in Raven, she was really making light of what Dan did and made it sound like the verbal abuse Dan showed was fine for the time. This is a serious matter and it’s so disrespectful to the survivors hearing the “excuses”.

    • @AsToldByTanasia
      @AsToldByTanasia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      No she didn’t. He did.

    • @ensabahnur3104
      @ensabahnur3104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      On some level it was "fine for the time," since it's 20 years later, however what they were saying is they grew up with way worse than that, and no one called it verbal abuse, because back then it wasn't considered that. This is also not "making light of what Dan did," he was speaking from his own experience, he didn't know about those females writers on another show, or what Alexa went through...None of us Did, and all of these folks are still holding things from us...so to expect him or Raven to just lambaste makes no sense. The people who worked with Drake didn't even know what happened to him.

  • @Baby-lb7mp
    @Baby-lb7mp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    This was disappointing, almost like justifying the networks actions. And belittling Alexa Nicole’s story! And y’all agreed???

    • @Amandamarie0701
      @Amandamarie0701 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because he’s saying her mom wasn’t a good parent I believe it

  • @caitlinpowell9010
    @caitlinpowell9010 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I cannot with him tiptoeing around all of what's happening here.

    • @ensabahnur3104
      @ensabahnur3104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But he doesn't know what's happening, none of us do. There were 2 pedos in the doc, can you name them?

  • @KatsKitchen18
    @KatsKitchen18 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I remember meeting Chris and kyle massey’s grandma working at my school at the time. She was one of the best ladies I had ever met. Helped me in a time where I lost my own grandma. Having a great foundation makes great adults!

  • @carterduchalard3019
    @carterduchalard3019 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I’m curious how Alexa Nikolas is gonna respond to this. I want to be open minded and listen to all sides of the table.

    • @Delena00
      @Delena00 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Probably downplaying his experience and state that it’s invaliding to her. No one else can ever have a different opinion apparently.

    • @kaylavarela7215
      @kaylavarela7215 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Alexa doesn’t know how to take in different perspectives. Hers is the only one she sees and if it isn’t the same or similar to hers then it isn’t valid in her opinion. You should value the opinions of more open minded individuals.

    • @mentallygrowing247
      @mentallygrowing247 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I think all Alexa wants is validation of her experience. I feel like if her fellow cast members would validate what happened to her and support her like she supports other stars would be nice. Validating and supporting her experience wouldn't invalidate someone else's.

    • @Delena00
      @Delena00 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@mentallygrowing247And when Kristin Herrera adamantly said that she did not bully Alexa, people called her a liar just because it didn’t line up with Alexa’s claims. People will validate stories that are actually true, not just stories Alexa says just because she can.

    • @cuca_
      @cuca_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@Delena00lmao, why would Kristin admit to bullying someone… use some critical thinking skills

  • @dominickjvlogs
    @dominickjvlogs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    I’m sorry this felt so disconnected from the doc - you didn’t mention Dan making Arian pour water on herself upside down while squeeling underage …

    • @kjdnyhmghfvb
      @kjdnyhmghfvb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So you wanted him to mention a specific moment? Not even Drake?

    • @WDFilms25
      @WDFilms25 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      He wasn’t there for that. He can only speak to what he was apart of

    • @dominickjvlogs
      @dominickjvlogs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@WDFilms25I think if you’re going to speak on child endangerment you should cover the actual topic - not like mention smaller other instances. Dan benefits from that kind of video clip

    • @WDFilms25
      @WDFilms25 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dominickjvlogs but literally that’s what the doc was about. these follow-up podcasts and interviews should be about that person experience in relations to the topic. Who are these people to speak on Ariana without her around. To speak in Jeanette to speak on Amanda. Let those people tell how they feel.

    • @dw4101
      @dw4101 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They aren’t there to talk about every specific incident detailed in the documentary. That’s what you watch the documentary for, genius. Plus, the clips of Ari are so widespread now that there is no need to mention them. I’m sure Ari is sick of people spreading and talking about such a humiliating moment in her life.

  • @seykadagmar
    @seykadagmar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    This was honestly stupid. Why is he conflating a toxic work environment with being chided at to do your duties. He really should have at least watched the f****** documentary. Not that it would change his experience but Chris seems to think his experience is universal... It's weird.

  • @kaylavarela7215
    @kaylavarela7215 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    It seems very distasteful for him to come on to tell his story which is essentially that his parents were there for him and he didn’t have to worry about the trauma or issues that others have. What does this do to contribute to the conversation? This could’ve been a quick minute or two clip uploaded to his instagram or said on live. Not an entire empty episode. Truly it seems like this is just meant to say, “sucks it was you but it wasn’t me.”

    • @lisah8438
      @lisah8438 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It brings another side of the conversation. Both sides matter.

    • @twilightsaver2
      @twilightsaver2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      So because he didn't experience trauma, he can't talk about it? Y'all are really weird! Both sides of the story are valid, it can help you understand how things changed and evolved, both good and bad. It shows you that there could've been some lucky ones (maybe due to his parents strong involvement on set). Things aren't just black and white

    • @katewardd6081
      @katewardd6081 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think his experience actually and how blind he is and the response by Raven exemplified the misogyny of the industry. It wasn’t his experience because he wasn’t the target. Girls and women were the people Dan Schneider was inappropriate with and exploitative to. As is the case with many girls and women throughout Hollywood.

  • @deneicefranklin8052
    @deneicefranklin8052 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I also am ready for all the stuff about Disney to come out. Because I’ve followed the stuff about Disney and Nick for years. I was literally in middle school or 5th grade(elementary).
    I think when it comes to these industries and brands/companies that work specifically with children, it’s easy for it to be pushed to the side or glanced over.

  • @macseth
    @macseth 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The way he started this video off by saying he didn’t even watch it. WILD lmao. Okkk

  • @CapitalCH
    @CapitalCH 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I love hearing Raven's thoughts on this subject. He should have watched the documentary if he was going around trying to get interviews about it.

  • @FancyAlly
    @FancyAlly 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Why would he not watch the documentary before talking about all this

  • @ladyt4219
    @ladyt4219 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    "Y'all fine now right?" With the stale face😂🤣🤣. We will never not love you raven. Period.

  • @kristinawitaK91
    @kristinawitaK91 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That’s so Raven was my absolute favorite show!! Raven was everything for me not in a creepy way but she motivated me so much in many ways! The fact she came out and is unapologetically herself is everything!! I love you Rae!!❤

  • @JojoRedd33
    @JojoRedd33 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Raven and Kyle my family just watched this! We needed to hear this greatly appreciated 💯🥰
    Blessings

  • @kjdnyhmghfvb
    @kjdnyhmghfvb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Not starting with "You know Raven had a crush on Janet Jackson, Janet if you see this..." Full little brother I'm telling! Energy

  • @KristinCimone
    @KristinCimone 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Okay now that i finished. Them realizing things now that may have happened to their favorite characters' real human is what ruined their childhood. They remember laughing and smiling at someone who was hurting on the otherside of the screen. Though we all grew up together, looking back knowing they helped you navigate life in diff ways via TV while they were struggling is heartbreaking.
    Also Raven, you being gay did not ruin our childhood. I feel like youve always held that "weight". Release that sis. I personally felt you gave both sides of the coin and i still sat, so i could see the future with you. We Cheetah Girled together. We Supernovad, we went back to revist Olivia! We was with you sis, rooting you on! You are our poster child, girl, woman, human for Disney Stars. I hope you know more people support Raven the human more than theyd like you to believe. You gave us Melanated girls life, fashion, love and truth. 🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿 We all grew up together. I dont know you but baby im always rooting for you. 🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿 Honor who Raven is.
    Also, i think Chris needs to go and watch the documentary.

  • @sollinadeonrutas9632
    @sollinadeonrutas9632 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Fun Fact: Chris was in the episode of TSR where Cody Linley peer-pressured Cory into shoplifting.

  • @kripamusic6285
    @kripamusic6285 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Raven, you are one of my favorite people all time. You where my first concert, and one of my biggest role models as a kid. So thankful for you and your journey!

  • @DeeSunbae
    @DeeSunbae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I'm glad he was able to share his experience and also not downplay anyone elses experience at the same time. Where he's basically saying, "I was a kid and I was doing as I was told." to as an adult he can look back now and say, "you know... that wasn't okay."

    • @veeewap
      @veeewap 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @Lareishere
    @Lareishere 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    What is he addressing again? Because I’m confused you’re talking about your experience when the documentary was about other people getting abused

    • @masavoy0228
      @masavoy0228 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He starred on one of the shows that was featured in the documentary.

    • @wingmanmelly
      @wingmanmelly 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @lareishere you r just jealous of their relationship. This was a beautiful conversation and display of how close they r still today

  • @kickingitwiththekerrs5718
    @kickingitwiththekerrs5718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Raven you never ruined my childhood when you came out. I was so in love with you!! lol you are still my biggest inspiration. I use to tell my mom Raven is like the big sister I never had. ❤😂 I still love you!!! You are an AWWSOME human being!

  • @lesily4445
    @lesily4445 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    why would you not watch the doc before coming on? Get on the same page as everyone else

  • @topangavontee
    @topangavontee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Drake Bells Father was on set ! So what’s his point ? Watch the documentary

    • @chantaljimenez4644
      @chantaljimenez4644 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Drake father was on set n he did his job good that they basically ball ball him basically. when the mom took over the job she job don’t let drake be alone with this dude and first she did was say that too far he can take u.
      She was so uninvolved she didn’t know what was up, a stranger knew in an instant.

    • @violetblossom50
      @violetblossom50 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Drake’s mom was the problem. His dad told the mom not to leave him alone with Brian and she still did.

    • @ensabahnur3104
      @ensabahnur3104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No he was not. Drake fired his father, and Brian Peck got full access to Drake... did you watch the documentary. Chris said his father was constantly there and walked him to and from set, and when they wanted to talk to Chris.they talked to his father first. Drake said his Dad was gobe, his mother wasn't around, and she let Brian Peck pick him up, and take him to his house... Again... did you watch the documentary?

  • @angenayyyy
    @angenayyyy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how intellectual raven is she really open everything up that people wanna know and get down to thank you raven.♥️

  • @saradawn9385
    @saradawn9385 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Why did you guys even have him on? He doesn't have a clue. Honestly, it's shameful on both sides. Also, Kyle Massey is also a child predator? The whole family dynamic is effed.

    • @Savagemode09
      @Savagemode09 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't know but he's perfect there is no point of him being there that it was a bunch of nothing because honestly I thought he was going to redeem himself and his brother

  • @Rikkulyoko1
    @Rikkulyoko1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    So he reached out to a celeb he had a connect with to use their platform to get some PR points, didn't really say all to much and didn't acknowledge or take accountability for it anyway. Then we jump to discussing parents (which I know need to take accountability in the matter) like dude, why don't you address anything people are actually asking you to take some accountability for?

    • @ensabahnur3104
      @ensabahnur3104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What would he be taking accountability for? He didn't do anything.

  • @tvtalkwithavi
    @tvtalkwithavi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Not Raven looking uncomfortable at the mention of Kyle Massey...oops 😬

  • @desatracy9281
    @desatracy9281 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Now bring Alexa on 😘 Double Dog Dare You, we want real content

    • @theycallmevero
      @theycallmevero 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yesssssssss!!!!

    • @ensabahnur3104
      @ensabahnur3104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Double dog dare you..." what are you "doing? "We want real content?" So you don't really care about them either way...you just want to be entertained...YIKES

  • @katewardd6081
    @katewardd6081 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    With so many cuts in this, leaving in the part where he’s told to go clean his nose is so funny.

  • @PharmGirl_23
    @PharmGirl_23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What many fail to realize is this : Dan was not into the black kid’s, the same as he was the white kids. So his skin color saved him from being victimized.

  • @Sece94
    @Sece94 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    There is no point to this honestly. Please lets not skirt the issues and problems that are so in our face its sickening. Childstars should not exist. This is terrible industry that not safe. Children should not be working to provide for their families.

  • @shinyduptown
    @shinyduptown 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Raven and Miranda, I wanna join a Tea Time with the 2 of y'all. Cause sometimes I feel like there's a special place for me to fit in with y'all as my favourite married couples where I can get a laugh or have some good times with positive vibes. Even do a toast.

  • @shanec3610
    @shanec3610 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Omg it's Ravens little brothers big brother 😱

    • @sholabolaji2975
      @sholabolaji2975 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Did you know he was on That’s so raven ?

    • @GetSlappedPlease
      @GetSlappedPlease 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts

    • @albertdaley9093
      @albertdaley9093 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      He was on thats so raven when cory was hangin with the new kids and they was stealin from the mall 😂😂😂

    • @GFY94
      @GFY94 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@albertdaley9093the 5 finger discount episode 😆

    • @baxatakbaxatak2014
      @baxatakbaxatak2014 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’d say he looks homeless, but he probably is…

  • @coolida23511
    @coolida23511 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This conversation seems somewhat disingenuous. Raven worked closely with Orlando Brown and Kyle Massey and look at how they both turned out. Chris claims his parents kept an eye on him on set but it doesn't explain why his brother turned out the way he did. It does not add up.

  • @dominickjvlogs
    @dominickjvlogs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Chris needs to watch the doc. In the doc it details how Drake Bell a “straight guy” was systematically raped and abused. It’s not a mark of honor or rite of passage or anything like that at all and any young people listening should be reporting these interactions without hesitation.

  • @Jasmyne444
    @Jasmyne444 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love seeing Raven in a more personal light!! ❤

  • @rachelhimes7715
    @rachelhimes7715 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Raven I was a huge fan of you at 13 in 2002. And here I am now a 35 year old “raging lesbian” and still a huge fan😅. We always know our people. Glad you are doing a TH-cam thing. It’s great to see you again . ❤

  • @charlieedwards4331
    @charlieedwards4331 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Raven telling Chris to go clean his nose was hilarious!

  • @Galaxygirl2238
    @Galaxygirl2238 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Why even ask to be on the show to speak on the doc if you didnt even watch it...

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because apparently her and her wife are the only one that watched it on the video (this video) 😂😭

  • @jaylayna
    @jaylayna 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Who from modern family was raven talking about?

  • @advillegas86
    @advillegas86 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Grateful for the content... swear I have to rewatch some of your older posts...but my wife and I enjoy you and Miranda's relationship and openness with your viewers❤

    • @advillegas86
      @advillegas86 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And you guys were right about what you were speaking on, becuase people are looking back at the old shows and seeing how not for nothing.. Dan and ppl like him used and abuse a lot of the kids.. and yes their young black male cast was miss treated or made to be viewed in another light (not so flattering)

  • @dantedante1111
    @dantedante1111 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    They couldnt edit out the part where raven told him to go to the bathroom and clean his nose? thats so embarrassing tf

    • @cuca_
      @cuca_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      They probably thought it was cute or funny 🤢 just made the podcast feel like a low-quality production which I’m guessing it is

    • @savannawhiteee
      @savannawhiteee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i think chris asked for raven to keep that in the video because he thought it was funny (you can kinda hear him say it in the video) but i agree

  • @unapolgeticlikeri
    @unapolgeticlikeri 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The Nickelodeon dude just felt like he was making excuses...

  • @camara1194
    @camara1194 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I didn’t get the David Henrie reference that Christopher and Raven laughed about.

  • @DarrisC
    @DarrisC 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So happy to have found this show. Great conversation.

  • @georgiareign
    @georgiareign 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    We need longer episodes 👏

  • @theceech
    @theceech 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    u didnt watch the doc..this feels lie a nothing burger....im happy u had a good experience, not all abusers abuse all ppl.

  • @lanzi_xo
    @lanzi_xo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Such an important subject, child actors NEED to be protected. The audio was pretty low and echo-y though, didn't sound like the mics were turned on.

  • @EdwardSanchezProductions
    @EdwardSanchezProductions 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Disney channel and Nickelodeon crossover

  • @Etherealsillygoose
    @Etherealsillygoose 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Ew. Justifying abuse by saying other spaces are abusive is gross. All abuse and toxic environments are worth looking into. He didn’t even watch the doc. He doesn’t understand how bad this makes him look

  • @Jewknow
    @Jewknow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Give these child stars a platform to speak there truth even if youre not ready tp speak yours yet raven ❤️❤️ lets get even deeper now👀

  • @veeewap
    @veeewap 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I’ll watch Alexa’s reaction I can’t with this guy

  • @moviequeen5101
    @moviequeen5101 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I want to see Quiet on Set: Disney Edition

    • @Deenique16
      @Deenique16 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      For your entertainment? I'm sure a lot of people don't want to relive certain traumas

  • @901indie
    @901indie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    For the record Rae, you never ruined my childhood, you made it brighter than it really was. When you came out, you let a lot of people know that they were not alone as kids. 🦄🫶🏾

  • @tserrhyo
    @tserrhyo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for talking about “for me it’s not toxic” like even when it may truly be net bad for me I might have been neutral or even enjoyed the experience before weighing its impact

  • @ninabendalliene1982
    @ninabendalliene1982 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    WOW! I find it disgusting that he is normalizing that he got upset on set when something went wrong. As a teacher and victim of child SA this just makes me mad. VIOLENCE IT IS NOT NORMAL. The speech tou are spreading is dangerous. Screaming is a way of violence and it is NOT NORMAL.
    I recommend you to investigate the educational theories of Waldorf and Montessori. Also, you need to learn what violence is.

  • @DantesflameX
    @DantesflameX 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I would have kept this in the vault.

  • @trelynwilliams6403
    @trelynwilliams6403 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I hate how she keeps cutting u off and the look raven gives her every time takes em out 😂 I get her frustration I do that to my sisters when we’re talking love you guys

  • @tanaknight9375
    @tanaknight9375 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You ladies are amazing..THANK YOU!

  • @6FlakyRose9
    @6FlakyRose9 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My favorite show from back then will always be that so raven ❤

  • @Puddinpie696
    @Puddinpie696 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I appreciate raven stearing the conversation

  • @verosan78443
    @verosan78443 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So what tea did he spill?? I'm confused

  • @ItsThatJaylaShow
    @ItsThatJaylaShow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    After Watching the interview and reading some of the comments, you guys were expecting him to have an traumatic experience like a drake bell. Just because he didn’t have an bad experience and just because he didn’t watch the docu-series? It doesn’t take away from his peers and other young child actors experiences. He acknowledged what was happening to his peers but he was speaking for himself because since he was there people assumed he was one of the victims. He also stated that he was a victim by the hand an older women but it was different for him because again like they said an older women coming on to a boy? A boy is going to look at it as becoming a man, a trophy. Most men have a sexual experience with an older women and brag about it. But he also said that parents need to be on set with their kids to make sure those things won’t happen.

  • @RamenKitsune
    @RamenKitsune 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Raven, you coming out made my childhood better!

  • @marybree6719
    @marybree6719 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Would you consider releasing the song now??

  • @didntcreateahandle
    @didntcreateahandle 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Y’all said a whole lot without saying much but just enough. As a girl mom who was once a girl , I thank you. 🎭

  • @rebornfurnituredesigns2492
    @rebornfurnituredesigns2492 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Him coming on to discuss a documentary he’s never even seen is so irresponsible and disrespectful.

    • @thewkovacs316
      @thewkovacs316 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      he doesnt want to see reality, because he has created a reality for hiimself

  • @ReadingComprehension8X
    @ReadingComprehension8X 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    We need all the Cheetah Girls on this podcast , and also Lynn Whitfield 🥺

  • @chiamakaifeoma7628
    @chiamakaifeoma7628 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    interesting he chose to come here when i’m almost certain alexa would’ve had him on the show. also why even start commenting if you won’t watch the doc.

    • @twilightsaver2
      @twilightsaver2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He didn't say he wasn't gonna watch the show, he said: he HASN'T seen it yet! Besides, he already mentioned that he came to Raven's show because he know her personally and deeply and how she's most likely to understand him than anyone else

    • @RubyMelodyMusic
      @RubyMelodyMusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think the cross between their families being close and both being specifically black child stars makes a lot of sense to me that he would come on here. While I believe Alexa would definitely have welcomed him on her podcast, I can definitely understand wanting to discuss this with someone who more closely identifies with his experience who he trusts. I also don’t think he would have enjoyed speaking on the topics that Alexa would discuss. Even when Raven and Miranda steered the conversation over to important topics, he barely wanted to touch on them. They often had to further elaborate on what he said based on facts and things that were learned from the doc.

    • @chiamakaifeoma7628
      @chiamakaifeoma7628 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RubyMelodyMusic everything you said is why it’s telling (to me) that he choose this route. likely due to comfort and because of exactly what you mentioned, he can steer away easily. alexa would have been on those topics exclusively…which really is the point of him wanting to speak out. i just find it odd. cause i’m sure he’s aware of what alexa has said (maybe not since he didn’t watch doc) but obviously he’s watching something to have intel enough to go on a podcast to tell his experience. him barely wanting to touch on them is like..🤔.. bc truly that was his purpose in speaking on the topic. my take on it🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @chiamakaifeoma7628
      @chiamakaifeoma7628 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@twilightsaver2 i mean…everything you just said is my point…and to drill it further…why comment on a doc about that you haven’t watched. he wanted to make a statement in place (like you said, where he has more personal connection to the interviewer) that he could ensure not too much pressure was applied. my opinion. i didn’t say anything negative about dude…just an observation. because you’re (he) going on there because of quiet on set but…didn’t watch it… confusing to me. but hey that’s me. it was good interview. just my take on his presence there

    • @RubyMelodyMusic
      @RubyMelodyMusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chiamakaifeoma7628 I get the comfort level for him to be on this platform but this entire interview felt odd to me as well. They tried their best but he didn’t even watch the doc and didn’t really even want to talk about it. While certainly not a waste of time, it just wasn’t a fruitful conversation and I do believe that was his intention. He wanted to set his own personal record straight and that’s it. It just feels nonsensical to specifically request to come onto someone else’s platform to do that and avoid meaningfully engaging in the discussion with them even when they are gently trying to pull you in that direction.

  • @raerotics7010
    @raerotics7010 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He’s the first guest to hold that cup in a way that allows us to see what it is .

  • @Destinystacy2
    @Destinystacy2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I feel like the podcast would be better if there wasn't so many cuts. It feels like a lot of important parts of this conversation were missing

  • @roseandlotus
    @roseandlotus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    HOW HAS HE NOT WARCHED the DOCUMENTARY 🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠

  • @thewkovacs316
    @thewkovacs316 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    the director and/or show runner is not your parent
    yelling at employees, no matter what the age....is abuse
    there are ways of motivating employees, even kids, without yelling at them
    "we are losing the light" is not an excuse
    allowing kids on the set to bully another actor....is not a good work environment

  • @123byeby
    @123byeby 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It seems like you all want him to speak on OTHER people’s trauma(Ariana /alexa/ etc). I loved all of these shows and What happened is incredibly tragic and heartbreaking but he can’t speak on what he didn’t experience, he can only share his opinion. Just like Raven can only share HER own experiences.