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Ed said "that man is still a dangerous person" speaking of a boss of his that lost his legs from cartel assassinations; Ed what is it about someone, or maybe this one person, that makes them dangerous?
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Talking about his addiction to alcohol was quite a deep and very real moment, I’m amazed at how Lex is able to get people to open up with an advanced A.I. like him.
Ed is able to treat legal alcohol problem - not so those dependent upon myriad of poisonous concoctions pumped into populaces around the planet without relief
“Nobody’s against you. They are just for themselves. Dont make a mistake of dehumanizing anybody” -Ed’s mom So powerful and tragic. The beauty of life.
Listening to Ed Calderon hits home. He always reminds me of my late father who chose a “different path.” Tijuana is a hell of a place. It taught me so many life lessons just by watching how my dad operated. He was truly a product of his surroundings. Had an amazing heart but a recklessness about him that you can only have by being raised in a lawless environment. I took a break from listening to Ed after my fathers murder because it would bring back memories that were too much to handle at the time. What he speaks of is real and anybody who is Mexican knows that he speaks the truth. I guess my point is that I wish Mexico was different. I blame it’s corruption for many dark times in my life. Tijuana is a stressful, fast paced, scary place. At least that was my experience. The corrupted have the power and it’s a shame. Such beautiful people in Mexico too. God be with the people of Mexico. Rest In Peace to the loved ones we’ve lost ❤🙏🏽 always enjoy Lex’s podcasts.
I remember as a kid we thought of Mexico as just a poor corrupt vacation place that did have cartels & danger but after 9/11 it's seemed to get progressively worse & it's not like America like most places doesn't have murderous criminals. it just wasn't something as public as it has become in Mexico and much of it is coming into the US. I imagine if we didn't prohibit drugs but not pretend they're harmless then we wouldn't have created such powerful criminal organizations. War on drugs, terrorism etc makes shit worse but disarming isn't an option either. Idk
Know that I'm an American and understand you in part and believe you. I have had many Mexican friends. One of them a co-worker and lady older then me. I'm, 38 btw. And Yo hablo un poco Espanol, y comprendas despasio. But she told me she fled her home cause of cartels and my Uncle Mike was a Spanish speaking missionary. (he's Mormon, I'm just Christian, but its a long story) He's been to Mexico many times and we talk a lot. Anyway. It's sad how cartels, corruption and bad people screw over their own people here in the US and in Mexico. Though Mexico has it rough as they are home to the cartels and not just their "office" so to speak. Many people flee to the US, like she did and I do not blame them at all. I dislike illegal immigration but for our neighbors on our southern border, I would help them all. We can't but there has to be a way. There has to be better ways. I pray people like you and I can be a part of that. I hope your doing okay today. Sorry to hear about your father. It sounds like you know how to keep the good he taught and showed, but leave the bad. Mad respect my Hermano. La Paz De Cristo be with us all. Peace.
Man, I love the chemistry between these two. Both of them are very different, from their background to their life experiences, and yet, you see them talking with huge respect and admiration from one another. This was really touching. Thanks Lex for having this great guest!
this is one of my favorite interviews ever on the lex fridman podcasts, if you're alive and learning this, congratulations, you've just gained the wisdom of hard-earned lessons from people who died or came close, from the comfort of your home. this is something you can not learn from trial and error, because making mistakes will kill you.
Of all of Lex's Interviews, this one shows the speed and depth of his mastery of focused mutability in an interview. Easily one of the top 5 Lex interviews ever. Great host, great guest, fast moving, deep subjects. Truly a master class in so many considerations. Well done, both!
I just hope Ed reads this comment section. Sending all the love in the world even though it's hard to convey via just a simple text on a website. Thank you Ed, for sharing your story and being honest about your addiction. Just know that it gives strength to other people.
I found myself just saying over and over during this 4 hours, "This interview is so good. So good." I wanna hear this man's take on so many things! Amazing job Lex and thank you Ed!
Im from Afghanistan and my mom told me that in the 80s, she was at a funeral for a man who was killed in a village bombing and at the funeral, one of the pilots who bombed the village was there and so was his family who knew the guy who was killed and his family. Both families and the pilot lived less than a couple of hours away from eachother. She stated at the funeral there were people from both sides of the conflict talking to each-other and chatting even though some of them, they'd likely go right back to the war and fighting each-other once it was over. I just find it weird someone can not only bomb a place they'd been to as a civilian in their own country but also end up killing someone they knew and then being invited to attend their funeral. Humans can be weird like that. Its beautiful, ugly and also epically tragic.
Yeah… that one was very moving. There’s so much in that story. And he shared it beautifully. Very sad. Two friends… different life choices… different sides of a journey intertwined… different endings. The car, the salary, the respect… did not last long. Cost him his life. Seems the guy who chose good won. If only that were always the case.
Worth listening to twice I love this man. As a Mexican as an American and as a man. We will never know all the great things he has done. We are just left with a man who is broken and trying to put himself back together. Thank you for showing us how to carry on!
I'm about 100 deep in Lex podcasts and this , hands down, is the greatest among the richest collections of practical considerations as it to be found on his channel. 10/10
It was incredible to hear Ed talk about his older brother. Who he was and how he lost him. My older brother was just like Ed’s brother Eric. My brother skated, bmx’ed, taught me to do the same and was better than me. My brother was also the vip of the family. He taught me to be the person I am today. We lost him in 2017 and his name was also Eric. I have enjoyed watching Ed talk about his experiences and even more so now that we share a similar life experience. Rock on Ed! You are an amazing person and inspiration!
Ed Calderon is actually improving his delivery and his story telling. I can tell, I think now I may know why. Stay strong Ed. I appreciate what you do, I think it serves a great purpose. Best interview he's done so far! GREAT JOB!
I'm amazed at all the atrocities he has witnessed and he is still fighting the good fight. Talking about the demons he has inside was haunting and yet he remains humble and still he does not pity himself. Bravo Ed. Saludos mi guerrero azteca 👏🏽
Ed Calderon is one of the coolest guys ever. On top of being a complete pro and one of the humblest dudes around, he truly supports and cares for the people around him. Love you Ed. And love you too, Lex. Thanks for making this conversation happen.
I think what has always struck me about Ed's interviews is the level of honesty that exists and is brought out effortlessly and without intent. It happens almost without any need to have chosen to. It's absolutely wonderful.
I’m American with a military background and I’ve been avoiding everything with alcohol as well. Other things occasionally, my alcohol is my weakness. I’m struggling with the concept of quitting for good and hearing Ed talk about his own inner struggles gave me some hope. Thank you lex, amazing show as always❤️
Brother you got this I'm an Army Vet had big problems with pills after my injury but now I'm done with them I still have my issues but I deal with it which ever other way possible I tried to laugh as much as possible and when I can't sleep I just watch stand up comedy and listen to people like this it's all we got us, our families and our experiences and coming to accept everything in it
Loved this interview! With MUCH due respect to Ed's mother, I don't 100% agree with it. Sometimes there are people who most definitely Are against you. They're for themselves sure, but they may also be completely out to get you and destroy you.
@Sheeple herder I agree that's why his interviews are so good he knows what he's talking about because he was in it fighting cartels and working for cartels
Man, I've been waiting to hear another podcast with Ed Calderon. He's really inspired me to invest more of my time into exploring more of the modern history and geopolitics of the U.S.' southern neighbors. May the future bless him for the hardship he's had in the past.
Thank you so much Lex, the dark speculations you both made on the nature of corruption, narcissism, and psychopathy was deeply reverberating. Most of us have met bad people like that, we need more conversations that speak on that.
@@TTGTanner well, not everybody in Mexico is in constant danger. And not everbody is in Mexico or US and A. There are nearly 8 billion people dwelling elsewhere.
As a mexican, it’s quite funny to see the reactions that people from around the world get when they hear these stories, and we be like “oh yeah, that’s an easy Sunday down there”. Give voice to people like Ed for having such massive experience and wisdom to share.
On the flip side as an Australian with some experience I would never presume that any part of the world would not required a whole lot of thought and subsequent planning. Simply said :)
Have loved Ed's interviews, listening to his experiences and how he has adapted to overcome various situations. His ability to make sense of it and put it into terms the rest of us can understand. Appreciate His willingness to be open about his personal life and struggles with PTSD and alcohol. Glad he didn't give up and continues to use his skills to help others.
It is always hard to push the stop button on a podcast from Lex. Twice as hard here. To me, it was deeply moving to see this troubled journey of a tough guy, who managed to take care of his outer and inner enemies and still retains a childlike innocence and human warmth. I wonder where he will be in 10 years.
10 years I see Ed still doing security training and helping others be better prepared. This man teaching thinking outside the box in a way most of us would never consider. Following his mindset of Non Permissive Environments and less Permissive Environments has been incredibly useful. I plan on taking one of his courses asap. His courses with Crisis Medical training group are no joke. Some of the best I've seen and I training/teach TCCC/TECC aka TacMed or High threat medical care.
It’s relieving to know Ed represents that part of Mexican culture the way he does, totally accurate. Such a well spoken intelligent guy. His experience’s and wisdom is so prevalent
Beautiful. So many lessons. I thought I could roll without worry.. I'm a 49 year old US man and this is eye opening. I don't fear combat, this talk though shines light on technique and targeting.
Unlike the FBI negotiator and the German spy guests, this guy seems transparent and genuine. These types of guests are the most fascinating ones because they acknowledge the "gray" areas of life and probe those with as much honesty as they can demonstrate. No absolutes, just reality in all its nuances of gray. Bravo for inviting this guy!
As a Mexican American thank you for this conversation, Lex. It's imperative for people to know what life is like in regions of Mexico where corruption and crime are prevalent. It gives people outside a fresh perspective on what is going on and may increase empathy toward the Mexican people.
Calderon is a garbage excuse for a human being. He was a corrupt cop and is responsible for a untold number of killings. Protect? I hope the cartels find him and do what they do with him
I’ve told my own kids so many times since this that no one is against you, just for themselves and it’s just SO true and an important distinction. I’m so grateful he chose to talk about his alcoholism… it’s a non-discriminating disease and him talking about it WILL help others. Loved this … thank you Lex and Ed for giving it to us.
Great interview. I sometimes struggle with guests when they go off track or start talking about abstract concepts. This was easy to follow and Ed was engaging.
"You were supposed to be strong" "Im not Jocko Willink, Im not David Goggins, I wake up at 10 and I have cornflakes with my 8 year old" That was more powerful than anything Jocko or Goggins have EVER said.
@PC Gamer DttV This guy fought against the mexican drug cartels, one of the most violent, evil, murderous organizations to ever exist. David goggins does pushups and chinups all day for no apparent reason. He can always quit any time. Don't ever try to compare goggins to this man.
Did 4 hours of stone work while listening to this , fantastic podcast Lex , I’m a massive fan of Ed have been for a few years now , quality human being 💯🤙
16:34 in. Lost my brother as well 8 years ago. Oddly comforting to hear "do you miss him" and a chance for Ed to go into more about his brother than the usual "I'm sorry". Wish when I told people they wanted to know more of what kind of a man he was.
@@iFielddressPedos I don't know much about mexican cartel dynamics. Is that a well known fact? But my comment didn't really relate to whether he was corrupt or not. Was more about Friedman's reaction to the brother's death being unique.
HOLY SHIT, this episode was fucking AMAZING! Ed Calderon needs a book, a movie, a series. Insane life he's lived. It opened my eyes in many ways. One takeaway was just to be more vigilant. You never know
…but also rather sad that his world view is that everybody is out to get him. In his case it’s kind of true…. death threats from both sides and now some notoriety which is not exactly a good thing for someone the cartel may want to come after. He is careful not to say where all he’s been or especially where he’s going or where he meets his kids. He did let his friend “Vince”’s name slip though. But for the average person living in a safe neighborhood in a safe country I don’t think it’s healthy to be this paranoid and obsess over knives and guns. In America anyone from ages 16 to 60 is most likely to die from a car accident. That’s a fact. So learning defensive driving, snow/wet driving and spending money on good tires and brakes and safety features like auto braking and lane departure warning is much more likely to save you. Now if you live in Africa or Latin America then yes… investing in bullet proofing your car, evasive driving techniques, self defense, weapons, guard dogs, private security and surveillance then becomes worthwhile if you have the means. I’m from Brazil where I’ve been robbed at knife point and my neighbors kidnapped for ransom and my best friend kidnapped for ATM withdrawals that’s where you have to be hyper vigilant and even with all these measures in place they can still get you or your kids as was the case with Silvio Santos’ children being kidnapped from home for ransom (super rich guy who owns a tv station). But in the USA, Canada or Europe owning a firearm is more likely to kill you or a loved one (accident, domestic abuse, suicide) rather than save you. Having some ability to defend yourself is good (BJJ, Boxing, in my case karate) and has many side benefits like strength and conditioning without the risks of carrying a loaded gun. The most important skill is to not put yourself in unsafe situations, not get involved in altercations, de-escalate (“I have to warn you I have hep-C” was a good one. Mine is “No man, I’m on probation. Can’t mess up. But if you wanna come by the dojo we can work it out.” I’ve never used it and don’t plan to. I’m a 47 year old adult. Fighting is for kids.
@@eddie1975utube 100% agree. I'm from Mexico, so a lot of what he said rings true for me when I'm back home but, yeah, generally speaking, I think the main takeaway for people in the US/Canada/Europe is: be more situationally aware, just in case. Be aware of your surroundings. Take a look around, etc. It's never a bad idea to be vigilant. The Hep C answer was absolutely brilliant lol. There's been times when some idiot does something incredibly disrespectful, and I always wish I kicked his ass, but ultimately I know de-escalating/walking away is always the best option. The ego can be a hard thing to set aside aometimes
@@Xalisko I hear that about the ego. It’s very true. And I agree about situational awareness. It’s good everywhere. But in Brazil it’s a must. There are guys constantly looking for their next victim, the next car to rob, the next house to break into… it’s a whole other level of risk and crime. You can’t wear a nice watch or necklace or ring and you shouldn’t have the latest greatest phone either. I love Brazil, the food, the culture but man, always looking over your shoulder…
@@eddie1975utube I heard from a Brazilian, about 25 years ago, that if you wear a nice ring on your finger they’ll cut your finger off, if they have to, in order to take it.
2:05:10 “You can’t pickpocket a naked man.” This is so true. My wife was the victim of revenge porn when she was younger. So she was always afraid of becoming too successful and too well known because she knew that video was out there. Well, she wrote a book about that experience to help others but the unintended consequence is she’s no longer afraid. That tape and the people who have possession of it no longer have power over her mind and feelings
Revenge porn works because people make it such a big deal… like omg young people are having sex!! How shocking!!! That’s why revenge porn doesn’t work everywhere. In some countries they don’t care and don’t care to even watch it!
One of the best yet. Ed has the experience, humility and way with words that, when combined with Lex's ability to empathise, ask a profound question and then step out of the way to really listen, wisdom and love for humanity is produced Loved it
Lex, from the bottom of my heart I want to thank you for all the work you do man. Another great conversation and this motivated me to get back to community service
I remember being a 15 year old watching the chainsaw execution thanks to a friend of friends from highschool and that was one of the darkest things I’ve ever seen. Crazy how Ed mentions it 11 years later
Wow first 5 seconds hit me! After two combat tours myself, there is no transition back. We train and train to fight and then are expected to come back and turn it off. Truly warps the mind. #ptsd
Great interview. Ed you are a real life action hero. I’m an alcoholic where your honesty helps me see a light where you should never judge yourself. You went thru shit.
I didn't look at the length of the podcast and several hours in, I am still intrigued. Thanks for giving this man good questions and an outlet to express his honest answers.
Mexico is my number 1 place to visit, do u suggest a city in particular, is it safe? I don't speak spanish but italian. Always had a fascination for your country
@@gabrielegagliardi3956 I would highly recommend a place like Oaxaca if you like nature. And one simple rule to follow in Mexico is never flaunt, never be the whiney person, if you don't know the person steer clear. And you can usually tell if the area is safe or not by the people in the area and the looks you receive.
@@gabrielegagliardi3956 you should be fine traveling as a tourist. Cartels don’t really target tourists, in fact many of the businesses in the most popular areas are cartel owned. They want your business and typically make sure it’s safe for traveling. Just plan to stay in tourist areas and make sure to not travel to unpopulated places at odd hours. Be safe
@@TonyTheDude310 No problem man, I'm not rich at all, I hate tourist flaunting anyway. I've never had problems in eastern Europe, nobody has ever targeted me. I just wondered if mexico was so much different than other places . Thank you for your answer an advice, cheers from Italy pal.
What a fantastic podcast Ed. Your stories and insight are gold brother. Been a longtime fan but this one seemed to be personal. I felt it. I thank God for you. Stay sharp.
I admired and would like to have had the opportunity to hang out with Ed Calderon before this interview. Having heard him speak about his life experiences has greatly increased by admiration and respect for him. And yeah, I would really love to attend his classes and maybe even hang out, Ed Calderon is one bad-ass, genuine, human being.
this was one of the best episodes of this podcast lex. i really admire your approach to conversations, people always open up to you and you arre always so open in your fears and vulnerabilities, we all can learn from you even if you think otherwise. thanks
1:39:52 That story about his friend stopped me in my track. Very sad for your lost. War is the worst. If you been in those situations, it never leaves you. Just takes a piece of your soul every time something happens. This was one of the best podcasts I have listen to in a while. Lex your interviewing skills probably top 3 among all podcasters.
The medicinal value of alcohol is it inhibits the sense of ugliness and pain. It also blocks our ability to generate beauty, or sense it in others. Without beauty we can not love, or be loved. Thank you for sharing your story.
Love how he admits that he wouldn’t trust some of his fellow law enforcement with his own car keys. The last FBI agent they had on would not have said that lol
It's based on experience and perspective. Homie lived in a country where corruption was cultural and was required to survive or succeed. The other dude likely worked in areas where corruption was likely less prevalent and he relied on trusting fellow law enforcement to survive. To generally apply either opinion while remaining ignorant to the factors which they each incorporated into their trust calculus is nonsense.
@@omg_stoppit Good point to add on, the corruption in America amongst law enforcement is a very real but different beast. Definitely due to culture, it seems like there is a slow slide or deterioration in the case of an Americans and working within the system for Mexicans, this probably due to American idealism clashing with reality. I also don't think the average American has a grasp on law enforcement corruption they either think it's as "they are racist" and maybe say the word systematically or think politicians eat babies and have the FBI cover it up. They don't see how institutions naturally corrupt people, when you start having to meet quotas or generate headlines or money or any way a job success is measured in a system or institution that warps or derails the original object of say, peace keeping or emergency response. It's not that these individuals are necessarily evil it's that humans are mailable, and herd mentality is common even amongst the most independent thinkers, especially if you are trying to excel and move up in an institution.
The openness about his struggles with alcohol and recovery was some of the most powerful stuff I've ever heard. I'm watching this 3 weeks after it came out and part of me wishes I hadn't listened just so I can listen to it for the first time. I was addicted to heroin for almost 10 years. I'm just a bit over 3 years sober and I have been in detox facilities and witnessed first hand the withdrawals people go through from alcoholism. During the day it seemed like I was the one who was suffering but at night the screams from the alcoholics having night terrors made me feel like I had a minor fever compared to what they had going on. I've never heard from any alcoholics (recovering or otherwise) that ever mentioned the clarity of the nightmares that they experienced but I was nodding my head when he said that very brief sentence about it like I knew that it was a thing that a lot of people had to deal with when they went through alcohol withdrawals. As I'm writing this he mentioned someone saying they had Hep C to avoid a physical conversation and part of it also hit me personally but only the Hep C part. I got my ass beat a few times while I was on the medication to handle it so apparently I was lacking in the de-escalation field.
Ed Calderon's story is an amazing journey of sadness, violence, loss, hope for a better future for his country and his people, and one of real bravery. You can feel the pain in his voice and on his face as he discusses some of the horrible things that he saw, and experienced. God bless him.
1:35:18 This story is so heavy and brought a tear to my eye. Humans are very complex, we’re all a mixture of good and evil. I’m slowly learning that as I get older.
I was looking to see if anyone pointed this story out. I'm having a hard time believing it tbh. I only questioned it some hours after listening and it seems less likely the more I think about it. Too bad 😞
@@granny83 Believe it. Before one became a cop and the other a secario, they were just two boys with a difficult upbringing in Tijuana. Each took a very different path but they made it out. IDK if respect is the right word, but their is a connection you maintain with someone that knew you during those formative years.
My last time seeing you was on the Shawn Ryan show when you came back to give a run down on how to travel and what to bring. I never knee you were fighting the same battle I am. God bless brother. I'm so proud to hear you were able to get sober,( a feet I havnt been able to match). I hope it sticks for you and your family. God speed.
I'm from Laredo, Texas and around 11 years ago, I had hit rock bottom... I actually covered the nightlife scene locally and across the border in Mexico for about 7 years, then my alcohol problem and the consumption of Benzos had me living an unconscious life mainly. For some reason I became so paranoid because I felt connected to the underworld and one day after noon Mass I went up to this old man at the parking lot and asked him if he was local legend Barbie's dad and he asked how did I know... I didn't know what to say other that I used to work for the local newspaper that's all. It's still wild here and 2 months ago I got stabbed at a jogging trail because some dude thought I was a gang member, there was more than likely a gang initiation going on because one of that dude's friend actually seemed like a cool dude and said everything that was about to take place is orchestrated by the universe. I was so at peace that particular night before the incident. The crazy part is that I'd been on a spiritual journey after reading Mircea Eliade's "Rites and Symbols of Initiation," and I wonder if the incident is archetypically connected. Been born and raised in a neighborhood where it has been announced back in the 90s on the national tv show Geraldo Rivera, that we are neighborhood is located in the "Heart of Gangland." Till this day, I have no idea why there seems to be bullies out there picking on others when we are simply outnumbered. One thing for sure, life goes on and ya can't let others try to diminish your light. There's enough darkness for all of us to shine. Peace.
I'm still going through this podcast and it's just unbelievable, I come from a dangerous city but everything he's told is pretty much on another level. Thank you Lex and Ed.
Damn Ed. I'm from Australia & have met refugees from around the world who've endured forms of torture & have lost family members. You're so stoic and solid. In the moment in a combat instance I might probably hold up, but you've done these interviews that rehash all these harrowing moments and you give solid info without flinching. Fyi I learned how to break zipties via you :)
Not only in Mexico, we also, here in the Philippines, celebrate all souls + all saints day on November 1 and 2, and same as Ed said, people actually party/drink in cemeteries. It's used as a semi reunion for families 😂
I have discovered that the philippines and mexico have alot in common. I had no idea. Yall use Pesos with different faces but they're the same coin. Alot of Spanish also in the philippines
I don’t know who to thank first so let me just say thank you both, thank you Ed for baring your soul for the world to see and thank you Lex for providing the platform for us to get to know these fascinating people
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0:59 - Corruption
34:41 - Cartels
50:02 - El Chapo
1:07:13 - Weapons
1:19:19 - Assassinations
1:28:05 - Counter-ambush teams
1:51:32 - PTSD and alcohol
2:14:11 - Improvised weapons
2:17:43 - Street fights
2:46:40 - Kidnapping
2:50:56 - Escaping restraints
3:00:24 - Imitation
3:08:52 - Narco cults
3:21:47 - Adolfo Constanzo
3:26:15 - Fentanyl
3:42:59 - Immigration
3:54:19 - Advice for young people
4:02:52 - Mortality
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Ed said "that man is still a dangerous person" speaking of a boss of his that lost his legs from cartel assassinations; Ed what is it about someone, or maybe this one person, that makes them dangerous?
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Yo, please invite Ioan Grillo. Thank you for your work, Lësha
Дождались, I have been waiting for this interview. Спасибо Лекс 💪
Talking about his addiction to alcohol was quite a deep and very real moment, I’m amazed at how Lex is able to get people to open up with an advanced A.I. like him.
3 cans of fosters don't seem like an alcoholic
Ed is able to treat legal alcohol problem - not so those dependent upon myriad of poisonous concoctions pumped into populaces around the planet without relief
@@donalhealy8196 Some people call that breakfast
@@donalhealy8196 A whole bottle of gin is pretty close I think.
Open up.....? Ed Calderon has been doing media rounds for years telling his stories to literally anyone who will listen to sell his products
Yes, Lex! This dude has lived 100 lifetimes.
Ed is awesome.. can’t wait to see this
Hes fake he worked for the cartel in TJ
@@rogelioduenas8317 yeah yeah, this is always commented without any proof
And 99 fake ones
@@rogelioduenas8317 what is fake about that, if your words are true?
“Nobody’s against you. They are just for themselves. Dont make a mistake of dehumanizing anybody”
-Ed’s mom
So powerful and tragic. The beauty of life.
If only other people could see that simple thing
Listening to Ed Calderon hits home. He always reminds me of my late father who chose a “different path.” Tijuana is a hell of a place. It taught me so many life lessons just by watching how my dad operated. He was truly a product of his surroundings. Had an amazing heart but a recklessness about him that you can only have by being raised in a lawless environment.
I took a break from listening to Ed after my fathers murder because it would bring back memories that were too much to handle at the time. What he speaks of is real and anybody who is Mexican knows that he speaks the truth.
I guess my point is that I wish Mexico was different. I blame it’s corruption for many dark times in my life. Tijuana is a stressful, fast paced, scary place. At least that was my experience. The corrupted have the power and it’s a shame. Such beautiful people in Mexico too.
God be with the people of Mexico. Rest In Peace to the loved ones we’ve lost ❤🙏🏽 always enjoy Lex’s podcasts.
I remember as a kid we thought of Mexico as just a poor corrupt vacation place that did have cartels & danger but after 9/11 it's seemed to get progressively worse & it's not like America like most places doesn't have murderous criminals. it just wasn't something as public as it has become in Mexico and much of it is coming into the US. I imagine if we didn't prohibit drugs but not pretend they're harmless then we wouldn't have created such powerful criminal organizations. War on drugs, terrorism etc makes shit worse but disarming isn't an option either. Idk
@@brandonmehrabi268 ever heard of alcohol or cigarette cartel?
On a smaller scale, or growing scale...Canada. from my perspective
Know that I'm an American and understand you in part and believe you. I have had many Mexican friends. One of them a co-worker and lady older then me. I'm, 38 btw. And Yo hablo un poco Espanol, y comprendas despasio. But she told me she fled her home cause of cartels and my Uncle Mike was a Spanish speaking missionary. (he's Mormon, I'm just Christian, but its a long story) He's been to Mexico many times and we talk a lot. Anyway.
It's sad how cartels, corruption and bad people screw over their own people here in the US and in Mexico. Though Mexico has it rough as they are home to the cartels and not just their "office" so to speak.
Many people flee to the US, like she did and I do not blame them at all. I dislike illegal immigration but for our neighbors on our southern border, I would help them all. We can't but there has to be a way. There has to be better ways. I pray people like you and I can be a part of that.
I hope your doing okay today. Sorry to hear about your father. It sounds like you know how to keep the good he taught and showed, but leave the bad.
Mad respect my Hermano. La Paz De Cristo be with us all. Peace.
I used to think people were a product of their environment until I learned that people are a product of their own decisions🤞🏽
Man, I love the chemistry between these two. Both of them are very different, from their background to their life experiences, and yet, you see them talking with huge respect and admiration from one another. This was really touching. Thanks Lex for having this great guest!
I've always loved listening to Ed, since his first JRE appearance. This was his best pod so far in my opinion. Thank you Lex, and thank you Ed.
I'd recommend you check out Ed's interviews with Sean Ryan some killer interviews as well
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Hearing this man speak about his brother brought tears to my eyes. Brothers have a special bond.
this is one of my favorite interviews ever on the lex fridman podcasts, if you're alive and learning this, congratulations, you've just gained the wisdom of hard-earned lessons from people who died or came close, from the comfort of your home. this is something you can not learn from trial and error, because making mistakes will kill you.
Great comment!
Booo fcking hoo. Watch some of the dismemberment videos instead.
Of all of Lex's Interviews, this one shows the speed and depth of his mastery of focused mutability in an interview.
Easily one of the top 5 Lex interviews ever.
Great host, great guest, fast moving, deep subjects.
Truly a master class in so many considerations.
Well done, both!
I just hope Ed reads this comment section. Sending all the love in the world even though it's hard to convey via just a simple text on a website. Thank you Ed, for sharing your story and being honest about your addiction. Just know that it gives strength to other people.
I found myself just saying over and over during this 4 hours, "This interview is so good. So good." I wanna hear this man's take on so many things! Amazing job Lex and thank you Ed!
The story about his friend warning him to leave is powerful, Fantastic interview his bravery is something to behold
Ed is a friend of truth and an enemy of everyone else.
I just saw that and I'm literallly crying, this interview makes you feel things, specially as mexican.
Im from Afghanistan and my mom told me that in the 80s, she was at a funeral for a man who was killed in a village bombing and at the funeral, one of the pilots who bombed the village was there and so was his family who knew the guy who was killed and his family. Both families and the pilot lived less than a couple of hours away from eachother. She stated at the funeral there were people from both sides of the conflict talking to each-other and chatting even though some of them, they'd likely go right back to the war and fighting each-other once it was over. I just find it weird someone can not only bomb a place they'd been to as a civilian in their own country but also end up killing someone they knew and then being invited to attend their funeral. Humans can be weird like that. Its beautiful, ugly and also epically tragic.
What time do they start this story
Yeah… that one was very moving. There’s so much in that story. And he shared it beautifully. Very sad. Two friends… different life choices… different sides of a journey intertwined… different endings.
The car, the salary, the respect… did not last long. Cost him his life. Seems the guy who chose good won. If only that were always the case.
Worth listening to twice I love this man. As a Mexican as an American and as a man. We will never know all the great things he has done. We are just left with a man who is broken and trying to put himself back together. Thank you for showing us how to carry on!
I'm about 100 deep in Lex podcasts and this , hands down, is the greatest among the richest collections of practical considerations as it to be found on his channel. 10/10
It was incredible to hear Ed talk about his older brother. Who he was and how he lost him. My older brother was just like Ed’s brother Eric. My brother skated, bmx’ed, taught me to do the same and was better than me. My brother was also the vip of the family. He taught me to be the person I am today. We lost him in 2017 and his name was also Eric.
I have enjoyed watching Ed talk about his experiences and even more so now that we share a similar life experience.
Rock on Ed! You are an amazing person and inspiration!
Ed Calderon is actually improving his delivery and his story telling. I can tell, I think now I may know why. Stay strong Ed. I appreciate what you do, I think it serves a great purpose. Best interview he's done so far! GREAT JOB!
yea this one felt as real as it gets and no bullshit, it is life on life's terms.
I'm amazed at all the atrocities he has witnessed and he is still fighting the good fight. Talking about the demons he has inside was haunting and yet he remains humble and still he does not pity himself. Bravo Ed. Saludos mi guerrero azteca 👏🏽
Ed Calderon is one of the coolest guys ever.
On top of being a complete pro and one of the humblest dudes around, he truly supports and cares for the people around him.
Love you Ed.
And love you too, Lex. Thanks for making this conversation happen.
I think what has always struck me about Ed's interviews is the level of honesty that exists and is brought out effortlessly and without intent. It happens almost without any need to have chosen to. It's absolutely wonderful.
Calderon is a garbage excuse for a human being. He was a corrupt cop and is responsible for a untold number of killings
@@iFielddressPedos While I 100% agree with your screen name, I'm not sure I agree with your opinion of Ed lol what are you on about?
I’m American with a military background and I’ve been avoiding everything with alcohol as well. Other things occasionally, my alcohol is my weakness. I’m struggling with the concept of quitting for good and hearing Ed talk about his own inner struggles gave me some hope.
Thank you lex, amazing show as always❤️
I wish you the best, thank you for sharing.
Brother you got this I'm an Army Vet had big problems with pills after my injury but now I'm done with them I still have my issues but I deal with it which ever other way possible I tried to laugh as much as possible and when I can't sleep I just watch stand up comedy and listen to people like this it's all we got us, our families and our experiences and coming to accept everything in it
You can do it
Ed's quote from his mother, "Nobody's against you, they're for themselves."
Eloquent and cutting, everybody just lookin' after their own bag.
Everyone is an objectivist in one way or another
Love it and will now use it
Loved this interview!
With MUCH due respect to Ed's mother, I don't 100% agree with it. Sometimes there are people who most definitely Are against you. They're for themselves sure, but they may also be completely out to get you and destroy you.
@@MrX-zz2vk only if you get in their way.
That's where the strong fall short, we just want to support everyone around us that's worth raising up.
Had not heard of Ed before this show but he is one of my favorite guests so far. thank you for having him on!
Should check him on Joe Rogan and other podcasts. People on both sides of the border should listen people like him
He was a dirty cop in Mexico personally responsible for deaths. I wouldn't praise him so much
There's a really good interview with him on the Shawn Ryan show
Calderon is a garbage excuse for a human being. He was a corrupt cop and is responsible for a untold number of killings
@Sheeple herder I agree that's why his interviews are so good he knows what he's talking about because he was in it fighting cartels and working for cartels
Man, I've been waiting to hear another podcast with Ed Calderon. He's really inspired me to invest more of my time into exploring more of the modern history and geopolitics of the U.S.' southern neighbors.
May the future bless him for the hardship he's had in the past.
Helping them would be a good look from outside observation 🧐
Best Ed Calderon podcast I've seen yet nobody asks questions and goes deep like lex
It’s so amazing the stories and conversations that Lex has with people and the depth of it all
Thank you so much Lex, the dark speculations you both made on the nature of corruption, narcissism, and psychopathy was deeply reverberating. Most of us have met bad people like that, we need more conversations that speak on that.
From the beginning part of this podcast, you can tell Ed is a survivor and an incredibly strong person that deserves so much love
YOU survived since birth, didn't ya?
@@MrEihtnot all of us survived the trenches of Mexico
@@TTGTanner well, not everybody in Mexico is in constant danger. And not everbody is in Mexico or US and A. There are nearly 8 billion people dwelling elsewhere.
@@MrEiht Mexico is the murder capital
As a mexican, it’s quite funny to see the reactions that people from around the world get when they hear these stories, and we be like “oh yeah, that’s an easy Sunday down there”. Give voice to people like Ed for having such massive experience and wisdom to share.
Me as a foreigner living in mexico I can really relate to what he says more and more
It’s crazy how normalized violence and corruption is down there, I didn’t realize how bad things were until I left and moved to the States.
On the flip side as an Australian with some experience I would never presume that any part of the world would not required a whole lot of thought and subsequent planning. Simply said :)
@@potterj09 and of course the necessary creativity to circumvent the local tyrants i guess
That’s the sad part becoming accustomed to it . I hear you though.
Have loved Ed's interviews, listening to his experiences and how he has adapted to overcome various situations. His ability to make sense of it and put it into terms the rest of us can understand. Appreciate His willingness to be open about his personal life and struggles with PTSD and alcohol. Glad he didn't give up and continues to use his skills to help others.
Calderon is a garbage excuse for a human being. He was a corrupt cop and is responsible for a untold number of killings
This man is one of the most interesting people to do podcasts. God bless this man
Ed is a brilliant interview. Highly intriguing stories and experience to tell. Thanks
It is always hard to push the stop button on a podcast from Lex. Twice as hard here. To me, it was deeply moving to see this troubled journey of a tough guy, who managed to take care of his outer and inner enemies and still retains a childlike innocence and human warmth. I wonder where he will be in 10 years.
10 years I see Ed still doing security training and helping others be better prepared. This man teaching thinking outside the box in a way most of us would never consider. Following his mindset of Non Permissive Environments and less Permissive Environments has been incredibly useful. I plan on taking one of his courses asap. His courses with Crisis Medical training group are no joke. Some of the best I've seen and I training/teach TCCC/TECC aka TacMed or High threat medical care.
It's very easy, it is just one click. Are you daft?
Calderon is a garbage excuse for a human being. He was a corrupt cop and is responsible for a untold number of killings
It’s relieving to know Ed represents that part of Mexican culture the way he does, totally accurate. Such a well spoken intelligent guy. His experience’s and wisdom is so prevalent
nah he does not know what is going on, he is fall of shit!
Beautiful. So many lessons. I thought I could roll without worry.. I'm a 49 year old US man and this is eye opening. I don't fear combat, this talk though shines light on technique and targeting.
Unlike the FBI negotiator and the German spy guests, this guy seems transparent and genuine. These types of guests are the most fascinating ones because they acknowledge the "gray" areas of life and probe those with as much honesty as they can demonstrate. No absolutes, just reality in all its nuances of gray. Bravo for inviting this guy!
As a Mexican American thank you for this conversation, Lex. It's imperative for people to know what life is like in regions of Mexico where corruption and crime are prevalent. It gives people outside a fresh perspective on what is going on and may increase empathy toward the Mexican people.
wepa!
@Z 100% Z??
Absolutely... people here also need to learn gratitude. So many take these things for granted.
But its sad that it paints Mexico in such a bad light
I'm so glad to have listened to this. Completely changed my perspective on immigration from Mexico. Insane story
Been watching Ed since his days on Shawn Ryan's videos....such an awesome guy with tons of experience to teach and hand down for generations to come!
@ShawnRyanShow fans stand up. Love to see how much bigger he's getting, both Ed and Shawn.
I’ve been watching Ed since he came out the womb
He's also a dirty cop who killed and extorted people.
@@iFielddressPedos 1.Well killing isn't bad, murder is. 2. Link me to your source?
Can listen to Ed drop his knowledge and wisdom all day. We must protect this man.
Calderon is a garbage excuse for a human being. He was a corrupt cop and is responsible for a untold number of killings. Protect? I hope the cartels find him and do what they do with him
I’ve told my own kids so many times since this that no one is against you, just for themselves and it’s just SO true and an important distinction. I’m so grateful he chose to talk about his alcoholism… it’s a non-discriminating disease and him talking about it WILL help others. Loved this … thank you Lex and Ed for giving it to us.
Great interview. I sometimes struggle with guests when they go off track or start talking about abstract concepts. This was easy to follow and Ed was engaging.
"You were supposed to be strong"
"Im not Jocko Willink, Im not David Goggins, I wake up at 10 and I have cornflakes with my 8 year old"
That was more powerful than anything Jocko or Goggins have EVER said.
@PC Gamer DttV you just dont understand it.
@PC Gamer DttV This guy fought against the mexican drug cartels, one of the most violent, evil, murderous organizations to ever exist. David goggins does pushups and chinups all day for no apparent reason. He can always quit any time. Don't ever try to compare goggins to this man.
Time stamp?
Trade all the things just for my babies to stay little a little longer so we can eat nuggies and watch paw patrol.
2:06:40
Ed Calderon has been my favorite person to listen to since starting to listen to Lex. He's very calm, well-spoken, his experience is invaluable.
Did 4 hours of stone work while listening to this , fantastic podcast Lex , I’m a massive fan of Ed have been for a few years now , quality human being 💯🤙
@@mloc-u8u working class Heroes 😂💯🤙
16:34 in. Lost my brother as well 8 years ago. Oddly comforting to hear "do you miss him" and a chance for Ed to go into more about his brother than the usual "I'm sorry". Wish when I told people they wanted to know more of what kind of a man he was.
❤❤
Calderon is a garbage excuse for a human being. He was a corrupt cop and is responsible for a untold number of killings
@@iFielddressPedos I don't know much about mexican cartel dynamics. Is that a well known fact? But my comment didn't really relate to whether he was corrupt or not. Was more about Friedman's reaction to the brother's death being unique.
HOLY SHIT, this episode was fucking AMAZING! Ed Calderon needs a book, a movie, a series. Insane life he's lived. It opened my eyes in many ways. One takeaway was just to be more vigilant. You never know
…but also rather sad that his world view is that everybody is out to get him. In his case it’s kind of true…. death threats from both sides and now some notoriety which is not exactly a good thing for someone the cartel may want to come after.
He is careful not to say where all he’s been or especially where he’s going or where he meets his kids. He did let his friend “Vince”’s name slip though.
But for the average person living in a safe neighborhood in a safe country I don’t think it’s healthy to be this paranoid and obsess over knives and guns.
In America anyone from ages 16 to 60 is most likely to die from a car accident. That’s a fact. So learning defensive driving, snow/wet driving and spending money on good tires and brakes and safety features like auto braking and lane departure warning is much more likely to save you.
Now if you live in Africa or Latin America then yes… investing in bullet proofing your car, evasive driving techniques, self defense, weapons, guard dogs, private security and surveillance then becomes worthwhile if you have the means.
I’m from Brazil where I’ve been robbed at knife point and my neighbors kidnapped for ransom and my best friend kidnapped for ATM withdrawals that’s where you have to be hyper vigilant and even with all these measures in place they can still get you or your kids as was the case with Silvio Santos’ children being kidnapped from home for ransom (super rich guy who owns a tv station).
But in the USA, Canada or Europe owning a firearm is more likely to kill you or a loved one (accident, domestic abuse, suicide) rather than save you.
Having some ability to defend yourself is good (BJJ, Boxing, in my case karate) and has many side benefits like strength and conditioning without the risks of carrying a loaded gun.
The most important skill is to not put yourself in unsafe situations, not get involved in altercations, de-escalate (“I have to warn you I have hep-C” was a good one. Mine is “No man, I’m on probation. Can’t mess up. But if you wanna come by the dojo we can work it out.” I’ve never used it and don’t plan to. I’m a 47 year old adult. Fighting is for kids.
@@eddie1975utube 100% agree. I'm from Mexico, so a lot of what he said rings true for me when I'm back home but, yeah, generally speaking, I think the main takeaway for people in the US/Canada/Europe is: be more situationally aware, just in case. Be aware of your surroundings. Take a look around, etc. It's never a bad idea to be vigilant. The Hep C answer was absolutely brilliant lol. There's been times when some idiot does something incredibly disrespectful, and I always wish I kicked his ass, but ultimately I know de-escalating/walking away is always the best option. The ego can be a hard thing to set aside aometimes
@@Xalisko I hear that about the ego. It’s very true. And I agree about situational awareness. It’s good everywhere. But in Brazil it’s a must. There are guys constantly looking for their next victim, the next car to rob, the next house to break into… it’s a whole other level of risk and crime. You can’t wear a nice watch or necklace or ring and you shouldn’t have the latest greatest phone either. I love Brazil, the food, the culture but man, always looking over your shoulder…
@@eddie1975utube I heard from a Brazilian, about 25 years ago, that if you wear a nice ring on your finger they’ll cut your finger off, if they have to, in order to take it.
@@mR-dc4oq yeah. I’ve heard that too. It’s rare but I don’t doubt it.
Definitely my favorite interview of Ed Calderon! Almost brought tears to my eyes at a few points
I definitely tearedup a few times
Calderon is a garbage excuse for a human being. He was a corrupt cop and is responsible for a untold number of killings
@@iFielddressPedos do you have some receipts for that kind of accusation?
@@bigoso404 I'm not gonna go search around for a bunch of links. If you Wana find out go look
Listening to this makes me realize my life is just too good. Honestly too good.
Why?
@@georgemulford2910 Because you don't have worry about your face being cut off, just because your 2nd uncle decided to disobey the cartel.
the pig who lives in the pasture who's meal is always provided, who's comfort is always guaranteed eventually reaches it's slaughter
@@hoodparticles The pig in the wild dies as well, but needs to struggle.
@@pocnit but at least it can go where it wants to go. Struggle also makes you grow as you can see in the case of ed
This is my favorite one. He is so well spoken and explains every detail with patience
2:05:10 “You can’t pickpocket a naked man.”
This is so true. My wife was the victim of revenge porn when she was younger. So she was always afraid of becoming too successful and too well known because she knew that video was out there.
Well, she wrote a book about that experience to help others but the unintended consequence is she’s no longer afraid. That tape and the people who have possession of it no longer have power over her mind and feelings
Revenge porn works because people make it such a big deal… like omg young people are having sex!! How shocking!!! That’s why revenge porn doesn’t work everywhere. In some countries they don’t care and don’t care to even watch it!
4 hours of Ed?! This is going to be good.
Lex your level of professionalism and overall production went up a notch. Thank you for another great show.
☎️ꜱᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇꜱꜱᴀɢᴇ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ..✍️
Gotta say Lex, I love these 4+ hour episodes! Coffezilla close enough and now this... You're a savage and thank you.
What a great podcast. Loved every moment. 4 hours just wasn’t enough
One of the best yet. Ed has the experience, humility and way with words that, when combined with Lex's ability to empathise, ask a profound question and then step out of the way to really listen, wisdom and love for humanity is produced Loved it
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Lex, from the bottom of my heart I want to thank you for all the work you do man. Another great conversation and this motivated me to get back to community service
I remember being a 15 year old watching the chainsaw execution thanks to a friend of friends from highschool and that was one of the darkest things I’ve ever seen. Crazy how Ed mentions it 11 years later
@@Dioleate get a grip
@@Dioleate quit being a punk
@@Dioleate funkytown lol
@@dmoney2163 funky town fucked me up bad.
@@HAHAd2 the grip is slippery
Ed is a substantial human being. This is fantastic. Thank you both for this wonderful arrangement of words. ❤
Wow first 5 seconds hit me! After two combat tours myself, there is no transition back. We train and train to fight and then are expected to come back and turn it off. Truly warps the mind. #ptsd
My respect for this fella is immeasurable....we need more people like Ed in the world. Big love from Scotland!
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I was just thinking that Ed would be a great guest on the pod! My NSA agent must’ve been in contact with you, Lex!
I woke up at 3am clicked your show,
Another stellar show.you just get better.ty
for keeping me thinking .
Great interview. Ed you are a real life action hero. I’m an alcoholic where your honesty helps me see a light where you should never judge yourself. You went thru shit.
I didn't look at the length of the podcast and several hours in, I am still intrigued. Thanks for giving this man good questions and an outlet to express his honest answers.
Ed is a real g. Thank you for having him in your show, Lex. Cheers from Vancouver
Been a huge fan of Ed for a while but there's so much here I hadn't heard before. Incredible interviews every time.
Calderon is a garbage excuse for a human being. He was a corrupt cop and is responsible for a untold number of killings
Me too I was surprised
As a Mexican I thank both of you for this conversation
Mexico is my number 1 place to visit, do u suggest a city in particular, is it safe? I don't speak spanish but italian. Always had a fascination for your country
@@gabrielegagliardi3956 I would highly recommend a place like Oaxaca if you like nature.
And one simple rule to follow in Mexico is never flaunt, never be the whiney person, if you don't know the person steer clear.
And you can usually tell if the area is safe or not by the people in the area and the looks you receive.
@@gabrielegagliardi3956 you should be fine traveling as a tourist. Cartels don’t really target tourists, in fact many of the businesses in the most popular areas are cartel owned. They want your business and typically make sure it’s safe for traveling. Just plan to stay in tourist areas and make sure to not travel to unpopulated places at odd hours. Be safe
@@TonyTheDude310 No problem man, I'm not rich at all, I hate tourist flaunting anyway. I've never had problems in eastern Europe, nobody has ever targeted me. I just wondered if mexico was so much different than other places . Thank you for your answer an advice, cheers from Italy pal.
@@rob8694 I imagine you know more than the locals, probably some city in mexico is safer than LA
Me as someone from Brazil I always respect the Mexican people and the Ukrainian people for their resilience love and loyalty for where they stand
What a fantastic podcast Ed. Your stories and insight are gold brother. Been a longtime fan but this one seemed to be personal. I felt it. I thank God for you. Stay sharp.
I admired and would like to have had the opportunity to hang out with Ed Calderon before this interview. Having heard him speak about his life experiences has greatly increased by admiration and respect for him. And yeah, I would really love to attend his classes and maybe even hang out, Ed Calderon is one bad-ass, genuine, human being.
Wish Ed nothing but the best. Seems like a down to earth and sincere bloke
this was one of the best episodes of this podcast lex. i really admire your approach to conversations, people always open up to you and you arre always so open in your fears and vulnerabilities, we all can learn from you even if you think otherwise. thanks
This is podcasting at it's very finest absolutely gripping educational entertainment Bravo
The best and thoughtful questions for this knowledgeable, experienced guest. I learned so much here about some bad realities. Thank you.
1:39:52 That story about his friend stopped me in my track. Very sad for your lost. War is the worst. If you been in those situations, it never leaves you. Just takes a piece of your soul every time something happens. This was one of the best podcasts I have listen to in a while. Lex your interviewing skills probably top 3 among all podcasters.
Que curada ver a un paisano del mismo terruño conversando con Lex. ¿Alguien más de Tijuana por aquí?
Casi, casi; de la capital.
Nuevo Leon aqui
Libertad.
💯
The medicinal value of alcohol is it inhibits the sense of ugliness and pain. It also blocks our ability to generate beauty, or sense it in others. Without beauty we can not love, or be loved. Thank you for sharing your story.
Alcohol is a horrible drug but it definitely is effective at numbing peoples emotions
I was literally, just thinking about when the next time Ed would appear on someone's podcast, like 2 days ago. Thanks Lex! Time to dive in!
Love how he admits that he wouldn’t trust some of his fellow law enforcement with his own car keys. The last FBI agent they had on would not have said that lol
That's the difference between an FBI agent, and a civilian. Ed is a civilian.
Very, very good point Mason!
It's based on experience and perspective. Homie lived in a country where corruption was cultural and was required to survive or succeed. The other dude likely worked in areas where corruption was likely less prevalent and he relied on trusting fellow law enforcement to survive. To generally apply either opinion while remaining ignorant to the factors which they each incorporated into their trust calculus is nonsense.
in mexico tho
@@omg_stoppit Good point to add on, the corruption in America amongst law enforcement is a very real but different beast. Definitely due to culture, it seems like there is a slow slide or deterioration in the case of an Americans and working within the system for Mexicans, this probably due to American idealism clashing with reality. I also don't think the average American has a grasp on law enforcement corruption they either think it's as "they are racist" and maybe say the word systematically or think politicians eat babies and have the FBI cover it up. They don't see how institutions naturally corrupt people, when you start having to meet quotas or generate headlines or money or any way a job success is measured in a system or institution that warps or derails the original object of say, peace keeping or emergency response. It's not that these individuals are necessarily evil it's that humans are mailable, and herd mentality is common even amongst the most independent thinkers, especially if you are trying to excel and move up in an institution.
Ed is such a good dude and you can tell he has a lot of heart. This was such a good episode
The openness about his struggles with alcohol and recovery was some of the most powerful stuff I've ever heard. I'm watching this 3 weeks after it came out and part of me wishes I hadn't listened just so I can listen to it for the first time. I was addicted to heroin for almost 10 years. I'm just a bit over 3 years sober and I have been in detox facilities and witnessed first hand the withdrawals people go through from alcoholism. During the day it seemed like I was the one who was suffering but at night the screams from the alcoholics having night terrors made me feel like I had a minor fever compared to what they had going on. I've never heard from any alcoholics (recovering or otherwise) that ever mentioned the clarity of the nightmares that they experienced but I was nodding my head when he said that very brief sentence about it like I knew that it was a thing that a lot of people had to deal with when they went through alcohol withdrawals. As I'm writing this he mentioned someone saying they had Hep C to avoid a physical conversation and part of it also hit me personally but only the Hep C part. I got my ass beat a few times while I was on the medication to handle it so apparently I was lacking in the de-escalation field.
Ed Calderon's story is an amazing journey of sadness, violence, loss, hope for a better future for his country and his people, and one of real bravery. You can feel the pain in his voice and on his face as he discusses some of the horrible things that he saw, and experienced. God bless him.
1:35:18 This story is so heavy and brought a tear to my eye. Humans are very complex, we’re all a mixture of good and evil. I’m slowly learning that as I get older.
I was looking to see if anyone pointed this story out. I'm having a hard time believing it tbh. I only questioned it some hours after listening and it seems less likely the more I think about it. Too bad 😞
@@granny83 Believe it. Before one became a cop and the other a secario, they were just two boys with a difficult upbringing in Tijuana. Each took a very different path but they made it out. IDK if respect is the right word, but their is a connection you maintain with someone that knew you during those formative years.
One of my absolute favorite guests. Great episode!
Ed is a national treasure. Thanks lex for having him on!
I've listened to a lot of Ed's interviews, this is one of the best, arguably THE best.
My last time seeing you was on the Shawn Ryan show when you came back to give a run down on how to travel and what to bring. I never knee you were fighting the same battle I am. God bless brother. I'm so proud to hear you were able to get sober,( a feet I havnt been able to match). I hope it sticks for you and your family. God speed.
Honesty is a mighty virtue, thank you, and best to you.
Focus on God ask him for a sign and what he wants you to do and he’ll reveal himself
Beautiful surprise in this podcast today🧡 I love seeing people recover.
I'm from Laredo, Texas and around 11 years ago, I had hit rock bottom... I actually covered the nightlife scene locally and across the border in Mexico for about 7 years, then my alcohol problem and the consumption of Benzos had me living an unconscious life mainly. For some reason I became so paranoid because I felt connected to the underworld and one day after noon Mass I went up to this old man at the parking lot and asked him if he was local legend Barbie's dad and he asked how did I know... I didn't know what to say other that I used to work for the local newspaper that's all. It's still wild here and 2 months ago I got stabbed at a jogging trail because some dude thought I was a gang member, there was more than likely a gang initiation going on because one of that dude's friend actually seemed like a cool dude and said everything that was about to take place is orchestrated by the universe. I was so at peace that particular night before the incident. The crazy part is that I'd been on a spiritual journey after reading Mircea Eliade's "Rites and Symbols of Initiation," and I wonder if the incident is archetypically connected. Been born and raised in a neighborhood where it has been announced back in the 90s on the national tv show Geraldo Rivera, that we are neighborhood is located in the "Heart of Gangland." Till this day, I have no idea why there seems to be bullies out there picking on others when we are simply outnumbered. One thing for sure, life goes on and ya can't let others try to diminish your light. There's enough darkness for all of us to shine. Peace.
I'm still going through this podcast and it's just unbelievable, I come from a dangerous city but everything he's told is pretty much on another level. Thank you Lex and Ed.
This opener hits hard. Shoutout to anybody else who has experienced that.
Lex asks some of the most poignant questions, devoid of cynicism… I really appreciate his approach.
Some fancy wording right there gonna have too look these up.
15:45 man you can see the respect in Lex’s face. What a role model dude
Thank you Ed and Lex for sharing this with us. Incredible
His sincerity and honestly is so apparent Lex is just amazing at pulling out the human side to all these situations ❤
Damn Ed. I'm from Australia & have met refugees from around the world who've endured forms of torture & have lost family members. You're so stoic and solid. In the moment in a combat instance I might probably hold up, but you've done these interviews that rehash all these harrowing moments and you give solid info without flinching. Fyi I learned how to break zipties via you :)
They called me Pedro Negro :P
Thank you for interviewing Ed. Awesome guy I’ve been following since he first showed up on JRE.
Powerful and profoundly inspirational. Ed's work is sorely needed. Thanks Lex!
Another killer episode Lex and Ed was a amazing guest. A+
Not only in Mexico, we also, here in the Philippines, celebrate all souls + all saints day on November 1 and 2, and same as Ed said, people actually party/drink in cemeteries. It's used as a semi reunion for families 😂
That's awesome, what is the name of your day of the dead?
@@KC.665 It's on my initial comment, all souls + all saints day
Yeah the Philippines and Mexico are like cousins in someways
Philippines is the Mexico of Asia.
I have discovered that the philippines and mexico have alot in common. I had no idea. Yall use Pesos with different faces but they're the same coin. Alot of Spanish also in the philippines
I don’t know who to thank first so let me just say thank you both, thank you Ed for baring your soul for the world to see and thank you Lex for providing the platform for us to get to know these fascinating people