How to ward off the evil eye, Calabrese style

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2024
  • 2-This video shows my Nanna demonstrating how to ward off the evil eye - a Calabrian folk healing ritual. A step-by-step procedure is below. Please note that there are many variations of this practice. Blog Post here: nipotidiagata....
    The following is my family’s method of protection, or ritual to thwart the evil eye (and determine if you are fascina, or bound by malocchio). Following this, there is also a video showing my Nanna demonstrating this Calabrian folk healing ritual.
    Materials:
    Glass, Water (3/4 full), Tablespoon, Oil (any oil will do; my Nanna uses vegetable oil)
    Steps:
    1- Fill a glass 3/4 full with water, and place on flat surface.
    2- Pour vegetable oil on tablespoon.
    3- While thinking of the person who is ill, dip your thumb into the oil and drop 4 drops in a cross formation (sign of the cross).
    4- If the person is fascina, the oil droplets will either “clump” together as one oil puddle on the water’s surface, or make a “horn” shape.
    5- If the person is not fascina, the oil droplets will simply fall into the water in separate drops.
    6- Repeat until all oil is used.
    7- If “commissioned” to perform the ritual, the person would be informed if they are or are not. If they are, they are supposed to feel better after the ritual is complete.

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  • @zinagrillo1
    @zinagrillo1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you so much for this! My nonna was from Delianova Calabria and she used to do this when I was a kid. My mother passed away when I was only four and and my nonna raised me. She did this when an animal was injured badly or really sick with no real reason for ill health. I remember our dog got hit by a car and his injuries were quite bad, but after she did this, he was walking in two days. She also did this when a pig that we had was impaled by a bean stick branch and the wound was quite catastrophic and the pig got better. She did this for both people and animals and I only just remembered it the other day. Thank you again for the explanation. ❤❤❤

    • @g-train9372
      @g-train9372 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s awesome. My Nonna was also from Delianova.
      She did this for my wife when she kept falling ill and was suffering constant bad luck. Nonna was adamant that my wicked sister in law put the Malocchio on her. It took Nonna two times to get the curse off my wife. Brilliant. My Irish wife was very greatfull.

  • @MrSteelermania
    @MrSteelermania 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    These moments are indispensable. I miss my nonna every day. Keep documenting her stories and tradition. Forza Cosenza

  • @SephardicHawaiian
    @SephardicHawaiian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Iʻm Portuguese and we do the exact same thing. We call this reading the oil. My grandmother, my great grandmother and two of my great aunts were all curandeiras and often removed what we called may olhado or mau olho. It is caused by jealously, either intentional or unintentional.

  • @rhondadeleon7414
    @rhondadeleon7414 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am Calabrese too and I know this is true, it helped so many times. There're a lot of superstitions, I have them instilled in me.

  • @lillianned.s.o7765
    @lillianned.s.o7765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank-you for sharing it's great to keep praying on traditions and you have a wonderful Nona. God bless

  • @Drea62621
    @Drea62621 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This takes me back to my childhood 🙌

  • @ladylv1952
    @ladylv1952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    shes beautiful

  • @Delordem
    @Delordem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey !! My family from Cosenza too!

  • @ajayr8781
    @ajayr8781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I didn't understand how to do this? Could you please repeat it again. Thanks

    • @kogallfixation
      @kogallfixation 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rewatch

    • @clamshell6863
      @clamshell6863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello, yes. I will explain it. When one has signs or symptoms of the evil eye, they do a test with a bowl of water and a tablespoon spoon of olive oil or any oil if you don't have olive, but Olive Oil works the best. Before the person or you of you do it yourself does the test they say a prayer and do the sign of the cross. Now you dip your finger into the Tablespoon of oil and drop the drippings into the water. You should do like three to five of these. If some of the oil droplets come together in one ball and not crooked but stay in one place after they have swirled in the water for ten seconds after being dropped that means you are not cursed with the evil eye. However, if they do come together and some make very weird sloppy shapes and don't stay in one place, you do have the evil eye curse callled Il Malacchio and need to get it off of you. Italians usually seek a priest or an religious enthusiast who gives you prayers and blessings and a cornicello charm to sway off evil curses and spirits. They come in silver or gold or just plastic ones and should be worn at all times.

    • @xzx7357
      @xzx7357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@clamshell6863 does any water work normally i know holy water is the best but does normal water work too?

  • @dorianbuciza4101
    @dorianbuciza4101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    La nonna is right
    We did the same in Albania

  • @h4nabx125
    @h4nabx125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    please can you ask her what to do if the oil all forms together at the top because mine has :(

  • @sarageorge2625
    @sarageorge2625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true that always happens to me

  • @ptitamourdou
    @ptitamourdou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    do you mean that evil eye can be evoked by magic (legatura/fattura)?(3:44)

  • @ChilliFedor
    @ChilliFedor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    facinata I ytink means Bewitched.

  • @Krczma
    @Krczma 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi this is awesome... also I tried it and welp it had little bible inside big bible and big buble was "muddy" not clean... second time it was clean it acctually scared mě a little 😄

  • @mukeshcv
    @mukeshcv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great

  • @MaloneMantooth
    @MaloneMantooth 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I heard of the Miloqui from Sebastian Manescelco.

    • @MelissaLavoieOCT
      @MelissaLavoieOCT  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      One of my favourite comedians!!

    • @MaloneMantooth
      @MaloneMantooth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MelissaLavoieOCT: What's the red pepper from the rear view mirror? Lol

    • @MelissaLavoieOCT
      @MelissaLavoieOCT  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MaloneMantooth 🤣

    • @MaloneMantooth
      @MaloneMantooth 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MelissaLavoieOCT: Lol....I'm honestly asking you what is the deal with it? I know that was in the skit.

    • @MelissaLavoieOCT
      @MelissaLavoieOCT  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MaloneMantooth oh lol! So the red pepper is actually a horn or “cornicello”. I have one on my rear view mirror, but for it to protect you against the malocchio while you’re driving, it has to be the red one with the gold crown on top!

  • @1MNUTZ
    @1MNUTZ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just wear sunglasses and you can see whos trying to give you the stink eye but they can't see you then laugh at them

  • @asteriaramona3463
    @asteriaramona3463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This video was FAR from clear. But blessings for sharing. 🙏🏼

    • @alidelatierra
      @alidelatierra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I found it very clear she even showed us what it looked like on someone who has it and someone who doesn’t

    • @brysonberrett1496
      @brysonberrett1496 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not the video that is far from clear. It might be that your knowledge of this subject is. I mean no disrespect by this.

    • @michellesamaroo7816
      @michellesamaroo7816 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brysonberrett1496 thank you for your opinion.

  • @Nebuchadnezzar357
    @Nebuchadnezzar357 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t understand can you tell me how do u know

  • @humanbeing33
    @humanbeing33 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't understand anything

  • @Lanztoronto
    @Lanztoronto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi my Nonna was a patitucci as well
    Where in cosenza is Nonna from?
    My grandma was Giovanna

    • @MelissaLavoieOCT
      @MelissaLavoieOCT  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi! The Patitucci’s in my family were actually from Fiummefreddo Bruzia :)

    • @Lanztoronto
      @Lanztoronto 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MelissaLavoieOCT thank you for your reply. The photo you had looked like my relatives. It’s amazing how the patitucci features are similar.

  • @v.5799
    @v.5799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm unclear. Please can you clarify. Do you do this only to determine if you have the evil thing or to get rid of it? I enjoyed your nana very much. It made me homesick for my own Italian grandma who is in heaven now.

    • @MelissaLavoieOCT
      @MelissaLavoieOCT  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      From what I understand, this is to determine if you are facinata. Thank you for your kind words

    • @spiritualbeing4303
      @spiritualbeing4303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@MelissaLavoieOCT please explain how to perform this ritual.

    • @Carobarolime
      @Carobarolime 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MelissaLavoieOCT ^

    • @MelissaLavoieOCT
      @MelissaLavoieOCT  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I may do a follow-up to this video, taking into consideration the questions and constructive criticism as well! This video was made for a school project, however I’d really love to expand on it. Thank you everyone for watching and sharing in our culture ❤️

    • @Carobarolime
      @Carobarolime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MelissaLavoieOCT ok love thank youu appreciate it

  • @kjvbible1611
    @kjvbible1611 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    fleshie no? Is that the correct spelling?
    What does it mean?

  • @shelbyjones85
    @shelbyjones85 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cold or hot?

  • @andromedamaxima1543
    @andromedamaxima1543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    impossible to understand

  • @l.a.tahamtani227
    @l.a.tahamtani227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Nebuchadnezzar357
    @Nebuchadnezzar357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hole shit I’m fucked thank u so much lady god bless u

  • @vincenzoapicella9550
    @vincenzoapicella9550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    a no nu piatt no tiniv

  • @vincenzoapicella9550
    @vincenzoapicella9550 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    a no ai guaiate pur a meric

  • @jennifermaxine2453
    @jennifermaxine2453 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with these being superstitions, however you were extremely condescending, judgemental & disrespectful as you kept saying "lots of superstitions in that culture ".