I left Zim at 19 worked in Botswana for 2years and moved to the UK. I have put myself through University here and I have my own family. I don't have any sympathy for these guys here. "Mum used to love us" No mate Mum used to spoil you. I blame the mother for bad parenting.
Zim and SA are too different, they grew up with lots of government support. So nje blame the SA system not the brothers. I will never pay rent at home no matter what. No matter how old I am NEVER
Snethemba Maduna then hopefully you currently living at home and well settled never to return home either. It’s a pity your parents will have to pay that home while you an adult.
@@ln7087 ohh it's different situations. I'm a woman I believe family is everything. There is no age for someone to move out of the house. As long as there is space. A blood member will be welcome anytime
Thank you, I'm a South African lady, I left home at the age of 17, I am in University now and I've had a job, financially assisted my family for 2 years but sadly I lost that job but I'm trying to get hired again. Mind you my family can't afford to pay for me fees, I rely on bursaries and student loans. These men are weak man yoh
Ijooo mama,they might be old enough but they will be always be kids to you,you gave birth to them so you have to make sure they have roof under their heads
This is sad, imagine your mom loving imali more than you her child yoh! To the extent that she wants to kick you out because you don't pay rent, why are you paying rent in the first place
Being an adult doesn't mean anything because your home should be a refuge or sanctuary for when things ain't going okay you can always lay your head there + the guy isn't working yoh!
@@bulelanibotman What if something happens to his Mom and she can't work and pay the bills, then what ? I can see helping your growns kids out when they fall on hard times but you should never get comfortable living off your parents. You should be working and starting your own family. Just my opinion.
I also agree with whatever you said because they're also grown ups & they should fend for themselves but the problems is that they can't find out because there isn't any so that's the problem.
They need to pay rent not go mama bona but municipal rent, well lenna I dnt c any problem with mama bona wanting them to pay rent coz they r staying at that house and someone needs to pay municipal rent vele, the rent is for municipal services like water,maybe electricity if they r using it, sewage, garbage bins etc..... The only thing that hurts ke gore she's kicking them out even though if she doesn't sekoloto sa masepala setlo tshwara mmago bona tšatši le lengwe
Really wow at the society norm. Look at the age of this man still talking mom’s house matter and money issues while the poor woman suppose to be looked by born and enjoy motherhood. Mind you the girl she’s out.
My first job was when i was about 18 years there about working as general hand at Delta. Second into my first job, i moved out of the parent's house...though my mom as hurt dad said let my boy go and enjoy....but manje ezi ibaba ezingaka feeling comfortable in house of a poor old lady hayi man...the presenter did a bad job. Presenting skills lack bog time...the lady has the right to kick those boys out!
What do they mean she loves money, aren't they in arrears for rates n taxes n the mother wants to pay those things and no go to Dubai or something..camon now
I’m sorry to say this, but these guys feel entitled. When are they going to learn to be independent? They must move out of their mother’s house if they don’t want to help her out. I think they are selfish. Your mother raised and now that you are adults, she doesn’t owe you anything. Go hustle. I’m sorry Mam’ Angy, you are wrong on this one. Letting them stay at their mother’s house without paying is enabling the behavior of being lazy. I don’t see a problem with what their mother is doing. It’s called tough love
Amadoda amadala. They need to leave home and try something. What would they do if mum didn't own anything? Are they going to fold their arms and complain? Guys try something to survive on.
I miss this woman...... aaaaah mam Angie mara why 😭😭😭😭😭
I left Zim at 19 worked in Botswana for 2years and moved to the UK. I have put myself through University here and I have my own family. I don't have any sympathy for these guys here. "Mum used to love us" No mate Mum used to spoil you. I blame the mother for bad parenting.
Zim and SA are too different, they grew up with lots of government support. So nje blame the SA system not the brothers. I will never pay rent at home no matter what. No matter how old I am NEVER
Snethemba Maduna then hopefully you currently living at home and well settled never to return home either. It’s a pity your parents will have to pay that home while you an adult.
@@ln7087 ohh it's different situations. I'm a woman I believe family is everything. There is no age for someone to move out of the house. As long as there is space. A blood member will be welcome anytime
Thank you, I'm a South African lady, I left home at the age of 17, I am in University now and I've had a job, financially assisted my family for 2 years but sadly I lost that job but I'm trying to get hired again. Mind you my family can't afford to pay for me fees, I rely on bursaries and student loans. These men are weak man yoh
Ijooo mama,they might be old enough but they will be always be kids to you,you gave birth to them so you have to make sure they have roof under their heads
Mxm amadoda angaka🙌
Tyhini lo Mama eeeeeh zange ndayiva kele ufune rent kubantwana bakho
These grown men need to establish themselves...I mean come on guys
@Vicky Kgoete very true
True Vicky she's selfish indeed
Very touching episode 😢😢😢😢
R150 is too for 2 grown men...? Arghaaa Mam Angies youre an enabler maan
This is sad, imagine your mom loving imali more than you her child yoh! To the extent that she wants to kick you out because you don't pay rent, why are you paying rent in the first place
Uh, because you are an adult. He should be taking care of her at this point.
Being an adult doesn't mean anything because your home should be a refuge or sanctuary for when things ain't going okay you can always lay your head there + the guy isn't working yoh!
@@bulelanibotman What if something happens to his Mom and she can't work and pay the bills, then what ? I can see helping your growns kids out when they fall on hard times but you should never get comfortable living off your parents. You should be working and starting your own family. Just my opinion.
I also agree with whatever you said because they're also grown ups & they should fend for themselves but the problems is that they can't find out because there isn't any so that's the problem.
They need to pay rent not go mama bona but municipal rent, well lenna I dnt c any problem with mama bona wanting them to pay rent coz they r staying at that house and someone needs to pay municipal rent vele, the rent is for municipal services like water,maybe electricity if they r using it, sewage, garbage bins etc..... The only thing that hurts ke gore she's kicking them out even though if she doesn't sekoloto sa masepala setlo tshwara mmago bona tšatši le lengwe
Really wow at the society norm. Look at the age of this man still talking mom’s house matter and money issues while the poor woman suppose to be looked by born and enjoy motherhood. Mind you the girl she’s out.
Mothers spoil their sons and raise their daughters.
My first job was when i was about 18 years there about working as general hand at Delta. Second into my first job, i moved out of the parent's house...though my mom as hurt dad said let my boy go and enjoy....but manje ezi ibaba ezingaka feeling comfortable in house of a poor old lady hayi man...the presenter did a bad job. Presenting skills lack bog time...the lady has the right to kick those boys out!
What do they mean she loves money, aren't they in arrears for rates n taxes n the mother wants to pay those things and no go to Dubai or something..camon now
They r just making excuses
These guys are not working, must they go and steal to pay rates and taxes?
I’m sorry to say this, but these guys feel entitled. When are they going to learn to be independent? They must move out of their mother’s house if they don’t want to help her out. I think they are selfish. Your mother raised and now that you are adults, she doesn’t owe you anything. Go hustle. I’m sorry Mam’ Angy, you are wrong on this one. Letting them stay at their mother’s house without paying is enabling the behavior of being lazy. I don’t see a problem with what their mother is doing. It’s called tough love
Amadoda amadala. They need to leave home and try something. What would they do if mum didn't own anything? Are they going to fold their arms and complain? Guys try something to survive on.
They need to man up!!! And stop being entitled
They must leave !!! Go make your own house 🏡
Nje
Abasebenzi nje
These free loaders need to man up!! Smh I'd be damned
Paying rent at your own home
Grown men making excuses 🙄
What kind of mother is this. WTF
she wants to bring in men
Banje vele bonke abantu besifezane to them ut all about imali
That's not true.
She is fade up with them they must be mature, look for work or hussle, be responsible and put food on the table or must move out.Mum is 100% right.