TikToker trapped in gambling addiction that nearly destroyed his life - BBC Newsnight

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  • @enveeproductionz
    @enveeproductionz ปีที่แล้ว +182

    I've lost over $1.5 million to this disgusting addiction and I'm only 31 years old. I lost a house, my dream car and more. Currently on the path to loosing my 2nd house. This addiction is something people on the outside could never understand. Every day I find it easier to understand why some people choose suicide. The pain and shame is so overwhelming.

    • @bashirmeti5639
      @bashirmeti5639 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      100% agree bro , the worst addiction of all , is gambling 😢😢

    • @escaping-ob8ym
      @escaping-ob8ym ปีที่แล้ว +14

      be strong brother

    • @screamingmute8256
      @screamingmute8256 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah bro I just lost 1k im feeling like a dumbass

    • @funkyfreshzorro00
      @funkyfreshzorro00 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did you lose 1,5 milion?

    • @gurusheat3506
      @gurusheat3506 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      im glad there are people feeling the same pain as me. sometimes i dont know to take it on myself or others

  • @balambarasentertainment3007
    @balambarasentertainment3007 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    The only time a gambler wins is when quiting ✋️.

    • @richard7645
      @richard7645 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You can never have enough money that's how it's a trap

    • @SevenEllen
      @SevenEllen ปีที่แล้ว +13

      HERE'S someone who knows what they're talking about. :-D FINALLY! I gambled for a year, got bored of losing, quit, and earned back all my losses by working overtime.

    • @marinellagiuliano2095
      @marinellagiuliano2095 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Best comment here..that will stick with me..thank you❤

    • @ExitGambling
      @ExitGambling 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👍👍👍👍

    • @sabahmursal8477
      @sabahmursal8477 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SevenEllenthats the only way ..good comment im gonna stcick on you comment

  • @michaelbradley5603
    @michaelbradley5603 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Im 42 ive gambled 25 years, lost everything, it aint worth it

    • @richard7645
      @richard7645 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How you lost everything?

    • @mmckay3
      @mmckay3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He means he has no car or house or possessions due to gambling all the money.

    • @flowertree2732
      @flowertree2732 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @Lion-988
      @Lion-988 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@hakansukur1627Haram değil mi bunlar zaten bro.

    • @waynerobinson9948
      @waynerobinson9948 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fobt machines are every where bookies high street amusement arcades clearly because players loose massive amounts faster than the norm fruit machines, these machines need banning altogether

  • @peterjordan5947
    @peterjordan5947 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Initially, when he first said, "im struggling with withdrawals" I thought he meant cash withdrawals from his betting account

  • @AngelesStar1990
    @AngelesStar1990 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Don't give up Louis!!! I gambled over 11 years and finallly was able to quit but had about 4 relapses the last 2 years. Its a lose lose situation because even if you go back and win, a compulsive gambler will try to win more. Just stay away from any gambling venues.

    • @richard7645
      @richard7645 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Greed is a sin

    • @ooocake4910
      @ooocake4910 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@richard7645 wow Richard! How loving you sound. Greed is a sin but how about some comforting words to someone who may not know God?

    • @Tes-mm5rp
      @Tes-mm5rp ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@richard7645 Not working for the money and love of money greed are all sins. I wouldn't phrase is this way but I totally understand you.

    • @jeffersonuche1841
      @jeffersonuche1841 ปีที่แล้ว

      I VE HAD WORSE SITUATIONS SOMETIMES I GAMBLE FOR NO DEFINITE REASON IS LIKE I ENJOY THE TRILLS BUT LOSE THEN CRY

  • @riddledeeznutz6650
    @riddledeeznutz6650 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Thank you for sharing your story Lewis, you are an inspiration. The fact you have relapsed and still over and over get up and continue to share your story is an inspiration

  • @SW-zh2qn
    @SW-zh2qn ปีที่แล้ว +40

    As someone who worked in the bookies for 10+ years. This what bookmakers do. They set up shops in the poorest and most deprived areas to keep people in the grip, you often see area managers and higher people telling staff to check on customers welfare not realise it’s only for the company’s legislation in the event of them getting sued hence the jobsworth like people who think they have a career in that industries. Our government will never intervene because of the TAX from the machines and over the counter bets. A nation suffers so a few small people can gain. Gambling is worse than taking crack cocaine, at least when you buy crack you get what you buy, gambling is uncertain and in the houses favour. Too many good men and women lose there life’s over gambling

    • @markrung9362
      @markrung9362 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      well said, it's grim I lost 14k one time and never touched it again. I knew right then and there this was a dark place to get involved in. Never going back

  • @Ralphg888
    @Ralphg888 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    It’s a terrible addiction I’ve lost 4K in the last week after being a year clean it hurts man it makes me feel like nothing else matters

    • @battleborn8658
      @battleborn8658 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We're in the same boat my friend. I needed that money too. I really have lost hope.

    • @kjlnz03
      @kjlnz03 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was clean 6 months before relapsing last week.

    • @zachduplechin8352
      @zachduplechin8352 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know how you feel. Lost 8k in one week

    • @therim1714
      @therim1714 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've lost around 800-900 if converted to USD. It just so hard man, I'm in my 20s and most of it were my tuition. It's just so addictable because of that feeling that it's like an easy money. But as soon as you lose, you'll just continue to bet and bet with the hopes of gaining those loses. It destroyed my self and my Academics.

    • @jaylenbrown7757
      @jaylenbrown7757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@therim1714 that's facts if you lose an you've won before you'll keep betting lose after lose , horrible feeling

  • @lewdogzombies
    @lewdogzombies ปีที่แล้ว +133

    This is honestly heartbreaking and shows how easily people can fall into the trap of gambling and how easily it can become addictive. Absolutely disgusting, please never gamble

    • @Inshallahsiuuuu
      @Inshallahsiuuuu ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Gambling, like drinking, is fun if you do it responsibly. Only gamble what you’re willing to lose and don’t go beyond your limits. Plenty of morons have no self control though

    • @paulc3749
      @paulc3749 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Inshallahsiuuuu, you obviously have no clue about the addictive side of gambling

    • @lol-pz1ni
      @lol-pz1ni ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Inshallahsiuuuu stupidest ill founded comment I've seen, how do you think addiction works

    • @swissjamonigrowchannel8708
      @swissjamonigrowchannel8708 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Inshallahsiuuuu casino propaganda ..it gets almost everyone addicted.. your not that special guy that plays years and is not addicted...even he plays only what he is willing to loose🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣your a clown

    • @festusaniemeka3350
      @festusaniemeka3350 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Inshallahsiuuuubro don’t talk what u don’t know cause u got a mouth

  • @Flocon_1
    @Flocon_1 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Gambling ads needs to stop

    • @Goreburger.
      @Goreburger. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The ads are just as stupid as gambling itself but the real problem is online gambling and how easy it is to play. If you have a phone you have a casino in your pocket the whole time and that hurts..

  • @33gate1
    @33gate1 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My online gambling addiction has cost me £40 000 in the last 8 years 😢. And i still convince myself i could win it all back. So sad this addiction.

  • @PowerPackDeveloper
    @PowerPackDeveloper ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I m 33 ...betting from last 12 years.. till now lost 33 lakhs...my father died because of me because i had not money to cure ...i feel like suicide...i m lost...dont know what to do...i m in huge debt... please somebody help...i m crying everyday

    • @BabyGangsterIsMe
      @BabyGangsterIsMe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      then sign up for SELF EXCLUSION list, u wont go there anymore ..if u do, they arress u

  • @billyosullivan9079
    @billyosullivan9079 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    As somebody who has lived through this, watching this video is heartbreaking. But reading the comments is even more heartbreaking. Over a 10 year span I gambled every penny I had. I thought I’d never be able to stop. It’s coming up 6 years since I last placed a bet. The road is tough, it’s long. But the end comes around quicker than you could ever imagine. Since stopping I’ve cleared my debt and gained a perfect credit rating, got engaged and married, bought a house and have a son. I’m not saying this to gloat, but to hopefully show even 1 person that YOU can do this too.
    If anybody just needs help or even to talk. I’m here. Accept the help.

    • @Impulsive9
      @Impulsive9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to talk to someone to be honest.
      Let me know if you can still reply here

    • @switzerlandSal
      @switzerlandSal ปีที่แล้ว

      Can u please tell us how u manages to quit

    • @Impulsive9
      @Impulsive9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@switzerlandSal the only way to quit is to self exclude from everything and replace gambling with a hobby or two hobbies etc

    • @MsDeathGuy
      @MsDeathGuy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How many pennies are we talking about here?

    • @Grayweb3
      @Grayweb3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please I need someone to talk to..

  • @tommasol9701
    @tommasol9701 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I lost about 500€ with scratch tickets, then one day I won 1000€ and never bought one again, it's been 3 years and I'm happy to walk away from gambling with a profit

    • @PureExile
      @PureExile ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At last, someone with a working brain in the comments. You're in the top 1% of gamblers in the world!

    • @AIMAGICSTREAM
      @AIMAGICSTREAM ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Smart. Exactly how to do it.

    • @RonniePickeringMate
      @RonniePickeringMate 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This guy could have been 64k up off a single accumulator. I’m not sure I’d ever get over knowing I blew that plus more after.

  • @deoanhx1x641
    @deoanhx1x641 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It is not about the money. It’s the high that they chase when they win.

    • @richard7645
      @richard7645 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Its a good rush though

    • @andrewbowen6875
      @andrewbowen6875 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Even deeper than that as the real addiction is the actual play time that they crave.

  • @zamiadams4343
    @zamiadams4343 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Tragic story, my friend has a severe compulsive gambling problem, he spent £15, 000 on slots in the last 2 weeks and has emptied his bank accounts and shows no sign of stopping . Any time I say anything about it he turns on me saying "you're not perfect either mate" and "I love the buzz of walking into the bookies" I can't be around him anymore, he's going fast down the tubes.

    • @koltred
      @koltred ปีที่แล้ว

      what a tragedy. that poor dumbass.

    • @PureExile
      @PureExile ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There's very little you can do. He's an adult and is free to do as he wishes with his own money. If he snaps at you then don't talk about it. However, NEVER GIVE OR "LOAN" THIS PERSON ANY MONEY FOR ANY SUPPOSED PURPOSE. Your friendship with him is probably doomed anyway but giving him money only makes things worse for both of you.

  • @thebritchad2044
    @thebritchad2044 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Gambling should be banned in the uk

    • @kelvinkusamba6877
      @kelvinkusamba6877 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      infact, all over the planet. or at least online gambling should be banned

  • @whitebeltlyfbjj3393
    @whitebeltlyfbjj3393 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My dad has a gambling problem and it was horrible for us growing up

  • @webiplus
    @webiplus ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I've never gambled in my life apart from 1 day where I sat at a casino table to observe & play. Straight away I could feel the temptation & desire to keep playing. I sympathise with gambling addicts, its like any other addiction.

    • @SevenEllen
      @SevenEllen ปีที่แล้ว

      So refreshing to hear someone who gets it!

    • @richard7645
      @richard7645 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I had an addiction years ago. I'm just a gaming person, but with inflation being how it is, then I understand why people turn to gambling is such a big thing nowadays.

    • @pyroandi6797
      @pyroandi6797 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's by far the most expensive one

    • @TheGreatDetectiveKnows
      @TheGreatDetectiveKnows ปีที่แล้ว

      The worst thing that can happen is winning on that first day especially if it's a large amount; completely rewires your brain to think of it as an option and as if winning is easy when it isn’t. If you lose on your first session you just think “this is stupid why do people gamble” and never play again. If you win then you start the cycle. (I can win again) and you might but then eventually you won’t but since you’ve won before, you put in more. Nothing. You’re frustrated you start betting higher. You lost everything you’ve won before + some, now you need to win your money back so you keep going. You promise you'll stop if you get it back. You may get it back but what about those previous winnings you lost? You keep going, you lose, you just want your money back and you’ll quit you swear. You've gotten it back several times so it's possible. You nearly get it back. You keep going. You lose everything you have. You use your savings. You get a win but it’s not enough anymore. You have to bet higher. Nothing. Now you work extra hours, borrow money just to go back and get that win. You lose or get such small wins that it's frustrating and useless. You keep going. You lose. Now you need to pay everyone off so you go back. It’s hell.

    • @koltred
      @koltred ปีที่แล้ว

      you dont have to play with more than you can afford. the 'addiction' requires low intelligence and impulsivity. both are traits that are harbored and learned over years and years.

  • @SebastianLundh1988
    @SebastianLundh1988 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The trick to not losing is never gambling.

    • @AIMAGICSTREAM
      @AIMAGICSTREAM ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or to only gamble what you can afford to lose. With 64k he could have paid rent for 3 years.

  • @Clustersey
    @Clustersey ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The thing is with the pokies and table games at casinos, is that nobody wants to walk out of there with anything less than they walked in with. And that a lot of the times results on continuous betting in an attempt to get positive. And that’s how people lose most of the time. And then the next time you come, you’ll get say $500 ahead. And then you’ll start to think about how last time you lost $1500. So now you have got to try and win another $1000. And than you’re back to neutral. And than now you’ll want to get ahead. Most of the time you will lose it all.

    • @bobbysrt
      @bobbysrt ปีที่แล้ว

      that's how i think every time 😢😢😢

  • @EggsForDessert
    @EggsForDessert ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What he said about using gambling to deal with anxiety and depression really hits home. Sometimes you just need your brain to stop and gambling occupies your brain and senses so much it does the job. But when you stop it all comes crashing back.

  • @fhdrgshjl1879
    @fhdrgshjl1879 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Unless you can eliminate the gambling industry, do not gamble.

    • @richard7645
      @richard7645 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's big business. The system's designed to put you in debt anyways. The more money there is the more debt there is

  • @enkhyy
    @enkhyy ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Delete all the apps, stay offline unless supervised and be accountable for daily activities.

    • @waynerobinson9948
      @waynerobinson9948 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Defo agree with delete the apps would advise barring yourself first as you can easily install again as I did but now not able to access any gaming site online so removes that part of the temptation to chuck your money down the drain.
      So only able to go in shops and arcades still not the answer but stops me playing after work online and waking up next day in the dumpster 🤮

  • @Sardar_ousaf
    @Sardar_ousaf 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Best thing government can do is to shut them all sites and casinos but they won’t

  • @igweogba6774
    @igweogba6774 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is a huge problem in Africa. People are even selling their pots and pans to fund their gambling habit

    • @7digitGoal
      @7digitGoal ปีที่แล้ว

      Not only in africa is all country also

  • @DaRkLoRd-rc5yu
    @DaRkLoRd-rc5yu ปีที่แล้ว +18

    With gambling the biggest thing to know is it's a losing game. The game is rigged against you. And while you might win sometimes it's a profitable business designed to extract your cash. Keep playing and losing is inevitable. You need to know when to quit. Dopamine is a hell of a drug, but you have to find ways to ignore it.
    I would say find other things that give dopamine to distract you but that's bad advice as otherwise you'll constantly be chasing that high and it will lead to other bad decisions. I think the most important thing is to come to accept the low points and that you don't always need to be running on that exciting feeling of a win. Try to be content with the everyday. Maybe even cut out the highs to find a happier steady state. The lows will probably still be there but hopefully they are lesser too. And it's less of a fall from the extreme high points that make them feel alot more pronounced.

    • @ciararespect4296
      @ciararespect4296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said. Our society is geared to instant gratification like the be more dog adverts telling you to buy useless stuff
      Exercise is a good dopamine fix but even that can be abused. Its all about finding a happy medium i suppose

    • @antiflyingipis
      @antiflyingipis ปีที่แล้ว

      Seemed like an experienced gambler.

    • @markchapman2933
      @markchapman2933 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gambling is not "rigged", the bookmaker just has a profit margin (overround).
      A bookmaker's odds compiler might believe all 4 horses in a race have the same 25% chance (25 X 4 = 100%). The fair odds for something known to have a 25% chance is 3/1. Because if all 4 horses had the same 25% chance then a punter could back all 4 @ 3/1 and whoever won would break even... ie £1 bets on all 4 means an overall stake of 4 X £1 = £4... And with 3/1 a £1 stake wins £3 + the £1 stake. £4 staked and £4 returned whoever wins. Which is why the bookmaker adds a profit margin / overround and actually offers not 3/1 but 11/4 (2.75/1) about all 4 runners. 11/4 is 26.7%, so 4 X 26.7 = 106.8%. No longer a "fair" 100% book. The punter no longer able to back all runners and break even. However, with sports betting it is NEVER actually known what the real chance of each horse / team is. So if a knowledgeable punter has worked the same race out as A 25%, B 30%, C 25% and D 20% (25 + 30 + 25 + 20 = 100%)... Then B is in his opinion a good bet @ 11/4, because a 30% strike rate on his 11/4 bets would show a healthy profit. So over time, losing is not "inevitable" if the punter is able to evaluate form into chance better than the odds-compiler.

    • @markchapman2933
      @markchapman2933 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ciararespect4296 Who says it's "instant"?
      Sometimes takes me two hours to study a race.

  • @Tweakkkkkk
    @Tweakkkkkk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    gambling addiction will lead you to other disgusting addictions like drugs and porn. Where it gets real is that i've beaten drug addiction like 4 times in my life to the point i don't even worry about it anymore , but i find it difficult to quit gambling. I always give myself the excuse of how i'm going to pay off my debts if i don't gamble. Sickening indeed!

  • @chrissylee2359
    @chrissylee2359 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m going through the same have been for 20 years it’s so difficult to stop it’s soul destroying it’s not even about money it’s about the rush to keep placing bets !

  • @jakenguyen7374
    @jakenguyen7374 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have lost about 100k USD. over the years of gambling. Then it dawned on me that nobody ever getting rich gambling all their life. Maybe only a few pro poker players. I quitted because it consumed all my free time. I wish to undo it but I can't. I felt better when I considered it was a failed busses venture. Lesson learned the hard way. I stay away from gambling ever since. Good luck everyone to find your way out.

  • @clandeszipp4564
    @clandeszipp4564 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Time from 16 to 26 is nothing! As he was a kid at 16, he's a kid at 26 as well! Let us see where he is in 10 years from now.

  • @nickchkheidze9189
    @nickchkheidze9189 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The worst thing that can happen to a gambler is that he wins lol

    • @theungartaker9367
      @theungartaker9367 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why? I win most days it helps me buy things and is called not being a loser. Only losers have gambling addictions do you see anybody in comments complaining about winning? No just a bunch of babies who couldn't pick a winner in a 1 horse race.

    • @theungartaker9367
      @theungartaker9367 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @xana5649 😂I'm a bit harsh I know but its true. How can they admit to being so sh*t at something? Its like "Hi I'm a f*cking j*rkoff and I'm addicted to being sh*t". Its an insult to me and everyone else to call this a disease.

  • @peterlpool1387
    @peterlpool1387 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s a terrible addiction to have. It should be illegal to have gambling adverts yet gambling companies donate money to government.

  • @paulterry7672
    @paulterry7672 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He needs someone to manage his money for him the addiction never goes away and betting companies target you all the time

  • @TheJoshhollis
    @TheJoshhollis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This guy was evil, he’d gamble and then beg tiktok viewers on live streams to donate to him

  • @andrewbee3331
    @andrewbee3331 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Get rid of bookies and online. Gambling is awful. You wouldn’t walk into a pub and spend £300 in a day or blow £100’s on drugs in a day. Pure scum and so are the majority of people that work in them.

  • @GoDaddyYow
    @GoDaddyYow ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Im literally crying right now because I am also fighting this addiction…it consumes you…you will feel like money lost its value…you will lose your family and friends…its so hard to avoid…

    • @LukaLavigne
      @LukaLavigne ปีที่แล้ว

      @@saul_badman1570 Are u a sick troll ?

    • @jasonramdas
      @jasonramdas ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@saul_badman1570 no way I quit feel better not playing.

    • @davox4507
      @davox4507 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@saul_badman1570are you serious you clown

    • @Awakened1NE
      @Awakened1NE 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're not betting right

    • @ZahdShah
      @ZahdShah 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      just do cryptocurrency instead. better returns, more risk management.
      Gambling is just being Skinner's rat. Addicted to dopamine.

  • @Truth1994
    @Truth1994 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gambling addiction is horrible. Especially losing your wages within a few hours/days of receiving them.
    To all gamblers, please please please at the minimum pay off all your expenses (rent, loans, borrowed money, bills) before you gamble the rest.
    Obviously in an ideal world, don’t gamble at all - but at least if you lose it all, you have the essentials paid.

  • @scottmoseley5122
    @scottmoseley5122 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am sickened how mainstream sports betting is now in the USA. Our grandparents were right in being prudish and keeping it out of thier communities. Shame on us for voting it in.

  • @ludomirwanot32
    @ludomirwanot32 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i lost around 800k in stocks with my addiction over the last 5 years or so, no longer gambling, but addictions are very hard to stop

  • @mtumnene
    @mtumnene ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lost 6k in space of 1 couple weeks and have debt, don't know how to hold on anymore 😞

  • @zulfadhlihakim-jo9xj
    @zulfadhlihakim-jo9xj ปีที่แล้ว +8

    they let u taste the sweet victory sometimes..and then take all of it again until u got nothing left....

    • @tfptravel.food.peace.3788
      @tfptravel.food.peace.3788 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, It's so exciting and I'm happy as hell when I win!!! It's like I'm on a high. I've never done cocaine but they say the feeling is mother same. You feel on top of the world! But the losses. .....feeling lower than low, being broke, feeling controlled.....etc. I'm over it.

  • @ellemarr7234
    @ellemarr7234 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I came back to following football after 10+ years and the most striking thing is the onslaught of betting ads around the pitch and placed on every shirt. Even multiple on one. It is shocking that people in the comments are so dense to think this is normal. I thought American sports were bad, but they are no where near as saturated as football.

  • @joarvatnaland6904
    @joarvatnaland6904 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's just unbelievable to me how this industry is allowed to operate by UK, EU, and others. It should be closed down.

  • @michaelfennell
    @michaelfennell ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Unfortunately I can relate to this video.. any one reading this, please do not gamble. And if you do, there is a way out

    • @nonjabulobebee5081
      @nonjabulobebee5081 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is the way out. I need help. I gambled my salary this month. I've been doing it for 11 months now. I'm so depressed 😭😭

    • @richard7645
      @richard7645 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wake up to a new day, forget yesterday

    • @HiYcdi07
      @HiYcdi07 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nonjabulobebee5081bro u need to seek help, we can do this bro ❤

  • @joshJ.
    @joshJ. ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The worst thing for a new person gambling is winning 🥇 if you lost maybe you wouldn’t really do it again

  • @pstar7224
    @pstar7224 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Change the place , come to India , moving away from distractions can help , old patterns don't trigger in different setting.

  • @Hejajhsja
    @Hejajhsja ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m doing gambling too. I hate that SM. But whatever I see it, I want to play it. 99% I lost it. But still I’m doing it.. tbh idk how stop it.

    • @JonathanJoestar-ir8vk
      @JonathanJoestar-ir8vk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My uncle is too, He has been divorced and bankrupted. You guys are hopeless.

  • @nathanieldortch6253
    @nathanieldortch6253 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    😮😢I feel 😪 his pain and my heart goes out to him, I am African American man and a military veteran and I was never a gambler until I met my Ex wife whom is Filipino and Japanese mixed and most Asian women are hard core gambler's and I was introduced to casinos 🎰 and gambling from my ex wife and my gambler addiction was only when I was with her and after 14 years of marriage and living to her expectations, I divorced her and motivation to Not gamble anymore and I have not been to a casinos gambling for at least 12 years now, her addiction was my addiction and weakness, since she is gone our of my life, so did gambling went away, so stay strong and keep fighting everyone because the glitzy life and those slots machines and online gambling, is just not worth ruining your lives and loosing your lively hood and loosing relationships because of those casinos and online gambling sites, that shit will make you feel Suicide 😢sometimes and I am speaking from past experiences 😢.

  • @justshan2413
    @justshan2413 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Gambling never makes anyone money besides the host and the veteran one. That should be common sense by now from how many people lose money from it. Not to mention these newbie gamblers use their psychology instead of Maths.

    • @hanywhiskey
      @hanywhiskey ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its an addiction. a process in the brain. not easy to get out of

    • @justshan2413
      @justshan2413 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hanywhiskey I agree with you. My point was that before getting into gambling one must know that it's not a feasible way of making money. For example I know getting into drugs will make me miserable and addicted even if I get to feel good temporalily, thus before that happens I must not engage in it.

    • @bananacat4998
      @bananacat4998 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justshan2413 There are even gambling in games bro

    • @justshan2413
      @justshan2413 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bananacat4998 How much can gambling in games affect you compared to betting using real money.

  • @JobJourney7
    @JobJourney7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You need to believe that money isn’t the way to happiness. It can pay bills and take you on vacations but remember, any job can do that. Casinos should be banned and that’s one thing governments dont bother with, they think its helping by generating more tax money and revenue for cities but they should know that it’s destroying generations, and those generations are supposed to take care of them when they retire

  • @BIBIWCICC
    @BIBIWCICC ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why isn’t the UK putting an extra tax on the tax dodging companies in Gibraltar.

  • @ayomidefrancis-akinlolu3035
    @ayomidefrancis-akinlolu3035 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😢😢😢, I just lost a huge amount which isn’t mine to this addiction, it feels like I’m being cursed 😢😢😢. I’ve tried so hard but still find myself doing it

    • @bashirmeti5639
      @bashirmeti5639 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s same with everyone bro , the wrist addiction is gambling 😢😢

    • @Awakened1NE
      @Awakened1NE 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're not betting right

  • @CatsMeowPaw
    @CatsMeowPaw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For those wondering 'why don't they just walk away?', the desire to play and break even with just one more bet is incredibly strong. But, it can be broken. You can say no at any time. It may require changing your social group if everyone else gambles and pressures you to do it, but it's not impossible.

  • @suzieheng3953
    @suzieheng3953 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My brothers, sisters, friends, and neighbors are going through these gambling things. Some die in silence never been heard. Some strong stay away. This casino is everywhere 24 hrs a day. 7 days a week is very dangerous. They say it is social fun. Waking up people, it is destroying humanity doesn't matter what color you are. Have faith in god and stay far, far away to survive. They are destroying families, and mostly people keep quiet because they are 😳 😢embarrassed.

  • @mikecain6947
    @mikecain6947 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AS long as gamblers blame themselves then the gambling industry will never be forced to take action - stop advertising, stop give aways, stop courtesy buses, stop free food and drinks, stop all the bells and whistles on one armed bandits. stop
    designing casinos so you can't find your way out etc.

  • @ExitGambling
    @ExitGambling 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In England Betting shops are everywhere hard to not play

  • @Ulnvtcydr
    @Ulnvtcydr ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good luck mate, it's a killer.

  • @malcolmwatts2487
    @malcolmwatts2487 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A responsible government would ban these gambling dens off our streets, yes, blood money (Tax) is all the chancellor(s) care about but it's not good enough as victims such as those on benefits are among those who risk living on next to nothing turning to stealing and petty crime to survive & also the employed are getting fleeced out of their hard earned. Bookmakers are a dangerous menace & all should be closed down including all the on-line firms just only allow bets on the racecourses/Greyhounds.

    • @MoeruAcckkountu
      @MoeruAcckkountu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They could but people will try something else. Japanese hang strict gambling laws. Su they play gacha, they win something in int shop. Take it to another shop it for something. People are stupid and desperate

    • @MoeruAcckkountu
      @MoeruAcckkountu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They could but people will try something else. Japanese hang strict gambling laws. Su they play gacha, they win something in int shop. Take it to another shop it for something. People are stupid and desperate

  • @barty2381
    @barty2381 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enough is not being done, someone said we all have a choice to gamble or not, when your heavily into Gambling addiction and losing all hope and in despair, it's not as easy as that!

    • @koltred
      @koltred ปีที่แล้ว

      man fuck you just because you cant control yourself doesnt mean i shouldnt be able to gamble.. if your spending over 10% of your net worth on entertainment, its a YOU issue.

  • @jakel8627
    @jakel8627 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Gambling is positive for my mental health. Makes me feel in control and like i can achieve things that would otherwise be out of reach. So-called "gambling problems" are 100% psychological. You simply need to be prepared to lose it all. Gambling impulsively is different to gambling in a cautious and calculated manner. You gotta behave and operate like a casino, and not a customer who just throws money at a game for thrill and excitement.

    • @GTA6radio
      @GTA6radio ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Boi i figured out, i‘m only there for thrills and excitement
      I could win as much as i want, i would just gamble higher till all the lights go out
      And thats a problem

    • @koltred
      @koltred ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks for this comment i seriously cannot believe the amount of childish impulsive sad sacks of shit in these comments trying to sympathize and coerce others into believing 'something should be done' about gambling. theres people who will bet their entire net worth on a coin flip. you know what?? fuck them. society isnt here to change your diaper when you shit in it.

  • @suzanne7277
    @suzanne7277 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can relate to Lewis, I have a gambling addiction too, It’s horrible. I want to stop, been about 11 years for me also 😢

    • @piperaquarion3258
      @piperaquarion3258 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same. How much have you lost?

    • @stewartglendenning4588
      @stewartglendenning4588 ปีที่แล้ว

      As a secretary of a GA group I am sure that I can help you if you really want to stop

    • @flowertree2732
      @flowertree2732 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hugs ❤. Been 16 years for me. I’m surprised I’m still alive. One of the loneliest feelings ever.

    • @suzanne7277
      @suzanne7277 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@flowertree2732 hugs to you too ❤️. So many times I say never again and always back in, even though I don’t want to go there. Yes, I agree, it’s a lonely life, occasionally people will talk to me there and I see some regulars that I say hi to, but it’s not the same as spending time with family. Gambling robbed me not only from my money but from spending time with my son who was 8 when it started and now he’s 19. I was there for him sometimes but gambling took a lot of my time away from my son and my partner 😢

    • @onyedikakanu8783
      @onyedikakanu8783 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stewartglendenning4588 how can you help, please?

  • @DrWho-g5u
    @DrWho-g5u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What’s gone is gone !
    Don’t chase your losses ever through gambling.
    Just be grateful that you have your functional limbs and arms.
    Get back to work and start living your life again with friends and family. There’s so much more in life to enjoy
    Again remember! What’s gone is gone now
    Doesn’t matter how much we lost If we continue thinking about it, we ain’t moving forward. Learned it the hardest way

  • @simonmcourt
    @simonmcourt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Keep tough kid..I lost £20.00 once..felt terrible..never again.

  • @abolfazldelav2744
    @abolfazldelav2744 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I ban my self from online casino but when I go out I see every where bookie and you see the shop and you go inside and you lose I very addicted

  • @joshryan3672
    @joshryan3672 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gambling is the most hardest thing to get rid of,it’s something that goes away after you’ve lost but every payday that comes round its allready ingraved in your mind,I moved to an entire new country with strict gambling rules to get away from it,best thing I ever did was

    • @DrWho-g5u
      @DrWho-g5u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Which country did you move to mate?

    • @joshryan3672
      @joshryan3672 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DrWho-g5u I moved to Western Australia.and rinsed 15k through the casino first week here,I blacklisted myself from the casino and now I win every day with out gambling!,

  • @dchubad
    @dchubad ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Truth be known, it is about 2/5 people in the UK have a real issue with gambling. Well the real issue is not with gamblers it is the casinos, bingo halls and bookies who blatantly rip people off. The odds of winning anything is marginal where as they win 99.9% of the time.

  • @4exgold
    @4exgold ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i really do sympathise with the poor guy. it absolutely is a shocking addiction.......football and horses brought me into casinos which are the crack cocaine of gambling for sure. funny i was able to ditch the sports gambling easily cos I felt I had no "control" over what a football team or a horse did in another country but with the online casino games it feels like i have more control (total bollox of course). Also they give you a lot of cash bonuses etc that keep you going back. The "relapsing" thing is so true too. I've been able to get away from it for a week or so but always succumb in the end.

    • @fuzzmosisr8601
      @fuzzmosisr8601 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the first week's always the hardest. Online casino's are the worse. The ease of it all is terrible.

    • @swissjamonigrowchannel8708
      @swissjamonigrowchannel8708 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gambling is the worst😢

    • @koltred
      @koltred ปีที่แล้ว

      hey dummies you bet too high. apparently you guys cant figure out how numbers work.

  • @Foxie635
    @Foxie635 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think depressed people are prone to going to the casino.

  • @davidsmeglap4023
    @davidsmeglap4023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fifty cents wins 64000 dollars at 16 years old. Handling that would be really rough for anybody. The thought is why would I work and grind 40k per year when 64k just falls out of the sky.

  • @bobbysrt
    @bobbysrt ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this is starting to ruin my marriage. i lost 3k tuesday after winning 1k i got greedy and didnt leave 😢😢😢

    • @nonbeliever3745
      @nonbeliever3745 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Time to get out of it mate. Take the steps to self exclude and fill your time with positive actions instead - the brain needs stimuli to replace the experience, it’s hard to just stop and have nothing to fill the void. You can do it, just forget the losses as if they never happened, because once you’re done with it it’s like it was a different person. Good luck!

    • @bobbysrt
      @bobbysrt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nonbeliever3745 thank u my friend!!!!!! im on it! havent gambled at alll. gona. start working out again! to fill that void!

    • @lorrenlindsey6445
      @lorrenlindsey6445 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry about that buddy 😢. That’s how gambling works, it surely takes more than it gives. I’ll be happy to share healthy tips and investments tips to cover that void for you 👏🏻

    • @itsasia_
      @itsasia_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@bobbysrt how are you doing now? I have a brother that is going to be hitting rock bottom soon. I'm worried about him.

    • @bobbysrt
      @bobbysrt ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@itsasia_ i stopped gambling when i got my car bro. i feel amazing. it been like a month so far

  • @inlovedesign4300
    @inlovedesign4300 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless you. Keep hope alive. I am experiencing the same challenge, and understand how you feel. One day at a time…🌸🌸🌸

  • @SCzxjk
    @SCzxjk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The UK government make over 3 billion a year from gambling Tax.
    Also there are some very wealthy people involved in the betting industry. There are also taxes paid by people working in the betting industry. The government couldn't give a toss about the poeple suffering because of gambling. Neither do most of you,if it doesn't affect you then it doesn't matter. Isn't that right!!

  • @Impulsive9
    @Impulsive9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Think it finally is my turn to share my story.
    Feel free to flame me, I deserve it.
    Last year I was down 1.6k.
    This year I got the 1.6k back and reached 7.2k
    One hour ago they became 3.6k.
    I'm done forever with this shit, I mean I got my money back plus 2k more while I had 5.6k plus but still burnt them.
    I feel like shit right now but inside of me I know I'm done for good.
    I'm so embarrassed, I wanna cry and scream, I feel like I'm dead inside right now.
    Worst thing is how it affects you, f this bs .
    Never get near it guys I'm begging you, it ain't worth it at all.
    Also I can't sleep now either, my brain is fu**ed...
    I wish I had someone to talk to right now but I don't...

  • @mppspiker225
    @mppspiker225 ปีที่แล้ว

    its happen to me and now started from scratch where u dont want to work anymore

  • @flyagaric1607
    @flyagaric1607 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They need to ban every gambling ad including those darn bingo ads which are just as bad. Every time those ads come on its like a trigger to relapse.

    • @theungartaker9367
      @theungartaker9367 ปีที่แล้ว

      And ban all restaurants to stop people being fat.

  • @ericastones1052
    @ericastones1052 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am glad he is taking some reasonability for his gambling addiction and that the additaments around doesn't help either and he is getting the help needed before it was too late.

    • @SevenEllen
      @SevenEllen ปีที่แล้ว

      "Reasonabilitiy"?? O_o If you mean 'responsibility', you did NOT listen to this video. He was a CHILD when he started, someone with no life experience and therefore no clue or guidance as to what he was getting himself into. Addiction is just that; it has nothing to do with intelligence, willpower or responsibility, because the brain is wired differently. Gambling addicts simply can't stop by themselves without outside help, any more than the alcoholic or drug addict can't, because the addiction has hijacked their brain and taken control.

    • @ericastones1052
      @ericastones1052 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SevenEllen addiction can happen at any age as long as purity has passed those pheromones and he was 16 years old when he started and waited until he was 18 years old (legally adult) to go into gambling fully and relapsed a few times and admitted to it because only you can control your actions by free will. Yes there temptation around him whether it is on the streets or online. He wasn’t pushed by friends or family because by the sounds of it his friends and family never knew and because of that he never seek that support he needed to help him overcome his addiction. Addiction wakes up the good feeling pheromones in your brain when you win and from the adrenaline rush you want more of it. I should to smoke and through will power and years of pushing myself I managed to quit and I started smoking at 16 years old and at 27 years old I was able to fully quit my smoking addiction and have saved so much money.

  • @markchapman2933
    @markchapman2933 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel sorry for gamblers who get into trouble, just as I do with any addiction. However - just to put the other point of view. Fact is the vast majority of gamblers do so without having a problem. Vast majority love having a bet on their favourite sport, some occasionally and some regularly. Vast majority able to keep stakes to a reasonable level. It's not like we need to make a profit to enjoy ourselves either (although some of us do). Part of the fun is studying the form and pitting our wits against the bookmaker / market... And yes, sometimes seeing the selection win. Let's face it, loads of adults love going down the pub. Do they ever make a profit from their pint? No... And unfortunately some of them will get addicted to alcohol. Just like some will get addicted to gambling. Should we be clamping down on pubs?

  • @fordji1000
    @fordji1000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i just came here after losing my weekly paycheck at the Casino at Leicester square for the million times, started this year very well until i relapsed back in FEB fast forward i have lost over 2000 pounds.

  • @Stevexnycautomotive
    @Stevexnycautomotive ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All good things comes to a end. Adjust yourself don't go mental.

  • @bishyeahbish3758
    @bishyeahbish3758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What I've never understood about gambling is that it's common knowledge/sense that you have only a very small chance of winning and a 90% chance of losing.....and I don't get why people just go ahead with it anyway knowing they're almost certainly going to lose. The house ALWAYS wins and there's no broke bookies.

  • @peznino1
    @peznino1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stop it at the source. Capitalism has many benefits but it comes with many downsides such as a gambling industry that ruins many many lives.

  • @bigyin2013
    @bigyin2013 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Also a gambler 35 year old in i started at a very young age tried to stop so msny times never happens

  • @DeanyDeath
    @DeanyDeath ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh seriously…….withdrawals?? From gambling addiction??? It’s hardly like heroin, booze or benzodiazepines is it?? If you don’t gamble……nothing physical happens…….you may get worked up mentally but you won’t get sick. If you can get that addicted to gambling you are prone to become addicted to anything imo.

    • @Zopicloned
      @Zopicloned ปีที่แล้ว

      Stress can make you sick and even psychological addictions like gambling can cause huge stress

  • @kultaseppa
    @kultaseppa ปีที่แล้ว

    Just won big and got out of debt and fell right back in after just 5 days .. this is hell

  • @Sardar_ousaf
    @Sardar_ousaf 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gambled 80k€ in last two years still gambling every weeks earnings around 1k a week. . Trying to stop but still unable to but I will stop and I will for sure. . Can’t b fool all my life.

  • @Candy630
    @Candy630 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish you all the best

  • @marshallcarpenter-e8p
    @marshallcarpenter-e8p ปีที่แล้ว

    gambling addiction is the worst addiction. you need money to fuel your addiction. after winning big its hard to leave to casino even when youre up a couple grand. i struggle every day. slots., card games, scratchers. i hope everyone that reads this helps themselves and know youre not alone. sometimes its better to save that little money we work hard for and put that hard earned money somewhere to show instead of burning it. myself am still struggling. we can do this. baby steps

  • @chuachua-hj9zd
    @chuachua-hj9zd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Casino helps to take one mind off things , just like alcohol….

  • @unathleticutd
    @unathleticutd 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The thing I don’t understand is how he was able to win the 64k as he was only 16 and I’m pretty sure that bookmakers whether online or in shop are going to ask for age identification before paying out such a large sum of money ???

    • @danielsaunders3356
      @danielsaunders3356 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey says he uses his Dads account doesn't he?

  • @frankspencer6935
    @frankspencer6935 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There are still channels on YT promoting a myth that you can beat the bookies by buying some course/software from them and they are banned for winning too much. The only ones who win are those who have prior knowledge and aren't gambling at all.
    Best to earn your money, pay your bills and put some in a high risk ISA and forget about it.

  • @paulbarrow7320
    @paulbarrow7320 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Horrible addiction iv bin addicted since i was 17 im 51 in 3 weaks gambling haa ruined my life and im still doing it i cant stop iv tried everythink over the years and still cant stop lost my family my missus my kids everythink and still cant stop my metal health is realy bad and my health is bad suprized im still alive the govement should do a lot more to help with gambling addiction iv give up the same cycle fir 36 years its bin a horrible life wouldnt wish it on anybody

  • @7Neighbours
    @7Neighbours ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Don’t give up Lewis . The house ALWAYS wins

    • @theungartaker9367
      @theungartaker9367 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell that to Billy Walters and the millions of people who make a living out of gambling.

  • @ShaunBradley-g4o
    @ShaunBradley-g4o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100% bookies on streets and towns the thing what does me. There 4 bookies on one town center next too each other. That the hardest thing for a person who bad with it.. it's about time there shut them down.. altogether. the fobs are the worst thing in them places.. you can wast money in them. Matter in mins

  • @sonoffate1311
    @sonoffate1311 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am addicted to gambling,it's killing me

  • @Grayweb3
    @Grayweb3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Drug addict is far more better than gambling addiction and I feel so sick to see government refuse to protect it's citizens against such... I have attempted suicide severally.. dropped out of school due to gambling... Got into this mess at age 19... While in college.. feel so sick and miserable about myself... I need help

    • @FilipaCrack
      @FilipaCrack 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Be strong man

  • @josh77577
    @josh77577 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    there are as many gambling shops in the UK as there is weed shops in canada lmao.

  • @sirgo0se97
    @sirgo0se97 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I swear if those crypto bots show up here 💀

    • @Ulnvtcydr
      @Ulnvtcydr ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just reported one lol

  • @debi8057
    @debi8057 ปีที่แล้ว

    If there were better activities for young people after 21 maybe we would have less gamblers

  • @johndo7742
    @johndo7742 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A shame that a well known commentator and presenter whose fame is largely built on BBC's cricket coverage has taken up voiceover work for online gambling advertisements.