What’s the most important lesson you would give to new parents...or old ones?! If you want to be the first to know when our Transformational Parenting Programs begin, sign up here 👉go.mindvalley.com/-6qZ4U7N
Advice would be: Live consciously whenever possible and for as long as possible especially when spending time with them. Also how about a program focused only on building strong relationships which includes love, family, friends, workplace, socially and also with potential partners and clients.
I respect you today not because of your position but because of the fact that you were able to create time to take care and love your kids. Please extend my greetings to your amazing kids.
If I'm being honest, I'm trying to become "THIS" kind of mom. So not many people in my life have the bravery to take the blinders off. But I don't want to live that way, I don't want to stay stuck in the same programing. I encourage new parents to dive deep into their childhoods, really look at and examine THEIR OWN BEHAVIORS and relationships with their friends and families. Understand how each and every interaction shaped who you are and what kind of life you've created because of it. Make peace with the past hurt and be informed of how to make better decisions. Let go of people who don't build you up, who don't ADD value to your life. You can't get healthy in the environment that made you sick, but you can detach from situations so you can regain your personal power in order to make decisions that are best for you and who YOU want to become. Become informed without reciting facts and statistics. Learn how to use this information and apply it to yourself, in order to live a healthier life. It is not ammunition to use against others, knowledge is the power you use to make yourself a better person. Finally... Do yourself a favor, and tell everyone to mind their own business!! But MOST importantly, you remember to do the same. Focus on you, stay in your own lane! Since we're all hear, on this channel, it IS safe for me to say the law of attraction works, especially in parenting. So what are you creating? What are you focusing on? What are you perceiving to be true about yourself and the world you live in? If it doesn't make you feel uplifted, if it doesn't help you raise your vibration, if it causes you to live in fear, and if it causes you to doubt yourself, let it go. So you can create space for you to become the best parent that YOU dream of becoming. When you have faith in who you are, and are in alignment with your beliefs. The whole game changes and you realize that you CAN do it.No, not even that. You were BORN to be your child's parent. You just have to believe that you are a worthy enough parent🖤
How to be a good mom without money? I am a single mother, unemployed and suffering with depression and panic attacks, but I hide it all from my boys. Am I doing right? I mean, they are two 16 years-old twin boys. In Brazil we have a very different culture about growing our children. They don't "have to" leave their parents home at this age. So, anyway, they are the best students of their school and they like to study a lot instead of going out or going to parties and things like that. I never forced them to be like they are, it came out naturally. But I do try to "teach" them to be happy with what they have and to make choices which will make them proud of themselves. And not to feel guilty when something goes wrong because we are only human beings. I love them and I do the best I can, but I feel that I do not care much about myself. Vishen, keep on doing the best you can 'cause I don't believe that there is a right or wrong, but I do believe in inconditional LOVE.
First of all... you are really beautiful soul who thinks about their children so immensely,... based on your story I can say that you are blessed with children who understand you and your situation Loving is the way, but to love you need to have the connection... Connect with them...and tell them u love them , make them understand that you don't need to know all the answer right there... sometimes it takes time.... It's okay to be wrong and even it's benefits us all... We still do mistakes.... Tell them not to feel guilty about that ... whatever happens only for a reason,.... It's okay...no matter how good or bad the situation is, it will be gone... 😄
The Lord is your strength! Depression is a spirit May God free you from depression and anxiety and May you be anxious for nothing . It's gonna be ok. Keep going. You boys are going to continue to excel in Jesus name
I am so grateful for all the nice and sincere words. Thanks a lot, may God and the good vibrations be with each one of us. You are all very special people in my heart. Gratitude always!
I was raised by two loving parents. My father had no father his entire life as his father left his mother when he was born. We are all human and make mistakes. He therefore had no context of knowledge to draw from. He made mistakes that hurt me but at some point in our lifetime we realize that our parents did the best job of raising us at that time with the knowledge they had to draw ftom. This training may help but every child is different as are their struggles with life.
I have had a desire to teach parents to see that their children are energetically sensitive and that they need to be taught coping skills, grounding techniques and self understanding in order to function wholly with this aspect of themselves. We have children that don’t understand what they are going through because their parents don’t realize this. My own daughter was suffering from debilitating anxiety until I realized she had empathic abilities. From the point I realized this I started teaching her grounding techniques and openly discussing her experiences as young empath. It had been life changing for both of us.
Google translation for Non Hindi speakers: 'Indian culture is very closely linked to tradition. They are a quintessential example of the term “it takes a village to raise a child.” '
@@Mindvalley thanks for replying... Well right now I am 26 and unmarried so can't say much about the feeling behind being a parent but for making myself happy and motivated I have something special..."the Mindvalley"...You don't have any idea how you guys helped me alot in many ways like a true friend...really doing great job...Love you Mindvalley. 😊♥
Please let me know when u have the sessions... btw I really appreciate the ideas mind valley brings out...I'm happy to see like minded individuals who really care!! Thanks for all u do!
Just be present in your children’s lives. Love them cuddle them read to them acknowledging their accomplishments and guidance, faith, genuine interest in the child also helps Children look up to you and hear the words you say and can feel your energies too. Life was not meant to be a rat race and neither is spirituality. All these GIFTS we have been given to share and not for profit. This is why so many are struggling. Remain humble in all your dealings. Especially with our children.
Very nice video i really liked it...From my experience of life we give everything to our childrens because there were times our parents couldn't afford it...so we learned to have patience...we learned the struggle...we learned how to handle hard times...but when we are fulfilling our childrens need...they want more...we were ready to handle every aspects of life...but our childrens are not...i don't mean by making our child suffer for things...but make them realize..how things were hard before...buy things which are needful..We must always think before saying yes ....is it really needful.....with the same amount u can help others who really need something...if they think ...it will really make them strong with patience ...to get something in life.......
I'm by no means a perfect father, but one thing I can say with pride is that I think I learn as much from my son as he learns from me and that helps me be a better father.
Im in love with Mindvalley, the university of life. Is it possible to join your IT team, work with you and be part of the noble cause "Personal Development" ?
Being a good father or loving mother it's 24 hour job . I wish someday we establish parenting school in our society to educate ourselves how to become very loving and responsible parents. We spend couple of years in school and graduate just to work for corporations and banking systems.
Also, Grand-parenting could be included in this AND discussion with one’s own adult children, acknowledging mistakes that you now see you’ve made along the way helping in the healing of their inner child wounds so they can be the parents their inner being sees them as.
What do you think you can do to help those of us who have just become “ empty nesters “ and are now RIDDLED with all the “should haves and could haves” and are watching children (in my case 4) who are struggling in many different ways and some who blame us- their parents . We grew up in the “ Age of Enlightenment “, we sought out shrinks to end old behaviors, we sent our kids to shrinks when we thought that they needed extra emotional support. We allowed them to cry and get the “ yucky stuff “ out of their system, we validated their feelings, we encouraged them to be themselves..... and yet here we are wishing we could do it all over again!
Really... you have great opportunity to convert it in your language and make your own video to inspire your relatives . This will help you to remember all info. and make changes in your life
Hi Kartik, unfortunately we don't have it available in other language other than English, however many times TH-cam gives you options for captioning in other languages. Hope that helps!
Hi Michael, Vishen meditates and performs forgiveness exercises, you can check these resources: th-cam.com/video/oeQfRtiY-ZM/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/dBHyFw7KqB8/w-d-xo.html
Hello Sir!! Lovely Video!! I know this is not a right video to ask something but sir I have few questions for you sir, what does it mean to read a book in just one week or 4 to 5 books in a month ??? is this possible to read entire book (line by line) in just a day or week ??? Or there is a method or rules/techniques to read a book ?? ... Waiting for your prompt response sir .... Thanks!!
Hi there Fátima, there are ways to improve your reading skills and speed. We have a quest on this, we invite you to check our free Masterclass in the subject: www.mindvalley.com/superreading/masterclass
This is sick! The main purpose of parenting, is to teach children how to function in society and create a life that person wants to live. Including boundaries, personal life, personal space, and getting along with yourself and others!! So many new age ideas teach children, how to live selfishly, that isn't healthy or realistic!
Hey man i love mindvalley and i have a name for you, a woman who's a n expert in childs raising. she is Rada Bond fom www.lebtivity.com check her she's an awesome person and you are going to love her
What’s the most important lesson you would give to new parents...or old ones?!
If you want to be the first to know when our Transformational Parenting Programs begin, sign up here 👉go.mindvalley.com/-6qZ4U7N
Advice would be: Live consciously whenever possible and for as long as possible especially when spending time with them.
Also how about a program focused only on building strong relationships which includes love, family, friends, workplace, socially and also with potential partners and clients.
I too am a new mom. Blessed with a beautiful daughter in March 2019.
I respect you today not because of your position but because of the fact that you were able to create time to take care and love your kids. Please extend my greetings to your amazing kids.
If I'm being honest, I'm trying to become "THIS" kind of mom. So not many people in my life have the bravery to take the blinders off. But I don't want to live that way, I don't want to stay stuck in the same programing.
I encourage new parents to dive deep into their childhoods, really look at and examine THEIR OWN BEHAVIORS and relationships with their friends and families. Understand how each and every interaction shaped who you are and what kind of life you've created because of it. Make peace with the past hurt and be informed of how to make better decisions. Let go of people who don't build you up, who don't ADD value to your life. You can't get healthy in the environment that made you sick, but you can detach from situations so you can regain your personal power in order to make decisions that are best for you and who YOU want to become.
Become informed without reciting facts and statistics. Learn how to use this information and apply it to yourself, in order to live a healthier life. It is not ammunition to use against others, knowledge is the power you use to make yourself a better person.
Finally... Do yourself a favor, and tell everyone to mind their own business!! But MOST importantly, you remember to do the same. Focus on you, stay in your own lane! Since we're all hear, on this channel, it IS safe for me to say the law of attraction works, especially in parenting. So what are you creating? What are you focusing on? What are you perceiving to be true about yourself and the world you live in? If it doesn't make you feel uplifted, if it doesn't help you raise your vibration, if it causes you to live in fear, and if it causes you to doubt yourself, let it go. So you can create space for you to become the best parent that YOU dream of becoming. When you have faith in who you are, and are in alignment with your beliefs. The whole game changes and you realize that you CAN do it.No, not even that.
You were BORN to be your child's parent. You just have to believe that you are a worthy enough parent🖤
@@withloverose7902 well said
Why do I feel this is the best videos of Vishen ? I think it's just raw touch and reality
Thank you Neethu, we definitely appreciate the feedback!
Your fluent communication made me watch till the end. You are exceptional and amazing Vishen
How to be a good mom without money? I am a single mother, unemployed and suffering with depression and panic attacks, but I hide it all from my boys. Am I doing right? I mean, they are two 16 years-old twin boys. In Brazil we have a very different culture about growing our children. They don't "have to" leave their parents home at this age. So, anyway, they are the best students of their school and they like to study a lot instead of going out or going to parties and things like that. I never forced them to be like they are, it came out naturally. But I do try to "teach" them to be happy with what they have and to make choices which will make them proud of themselves. And not to feel guilty when something goes wrong because we are only human beings. I love them and I do the best I can, but I feel that I do not care much about myself. Vishen, keep on doing the best you can 'cause I don't believe that there is a right or wrong, but I do believe in inconditional LOVE.
Repeat “ I am blessed “ “ I am blessed in health , wealth , love “
Your thoughts create . Look into neville Godard
First of all... you are really beautiful soul who thinks about their children so immensely,... based on your story I can say that you are blessed with children who understand you and your situation
Loving is the way, but to love you need to have the connection... Connect with them...and tell them u love them , make them understand that you don't need to know all the answer right there... sometimes it takes time.... It's okay to be wrong and even it's benefits us all... We still do mistakes.... Tell them not to feel guilty about that ... whatever happens only for a reason,.... It's okay...no matter how good or bad the situation is, it will be gone... 😄
Wow! You seem like a good mom. Salute, it's tough. I think you are doing wonderfully! I have two boys 15 and 16
The Lord is your strength! Depression is a spirit May God free you from depression and anxiety and May you be anxious for nothing . It's gonna be ok. Keep going. You boys are going to continue to excel in Jesus name
Please take care of yourself too..you are doing a great job !!
I am so grateful for all the nice and sincere words. Thanks a lot, may God and the good vibrations be with each one of us. You are all very special people in my heart.
Gratitude always!
I was raised by two loving parents. My father had no father his entire life as his father left his mother when he was born. We are all human and make mistakes. He therefore had no context of knowledge to draw from. He made mistakes that hurt me but at some point in our lifetime we realize that our parents did the best job of raising us at that time with the knowledge they had to draw ftom. This training may help but every child is different as are their struggles with life.
I have had a desire to teach parents to see that their children are energetically sensitive and that they need to be taught coping skills, grounding techniques and self understanding in order to function wholly with this aspect of themselves. We have children that don’t understand what they are going through because their parents don’t realize this.
My own daughter was suffering from debilitating anxiety until I realized she had empathic abilities. From the point I realized this I started teaching her grounding techniques and openly discussing her experiences as young empath. It had been life changing for both of us.
This is good StarBorneVirg, it is truly important!
Love this! You are on fire. Don’t stop. Thank you 🙏🏼
Thank you Ann-Marie!
Thanks Vishen!
भारतीय संस्कृति पारंपरिक रूप से बहुत निकट से जुड़ी हुई है। "हम एक बच्चे को पालने के लिए एक गाँव लेते हैं" शब्द का सर्वोत्कृष्ट उदाहरण हैं। ❤️😊🙏🏽🇮🇳
Google translation for Non Hindi speakers: 'Indian culture is very closely linked to tradition. They are a quintessential example of the term “it takes a village to raise a child.” '
This is one of the best video made by you Visen. I respect you so much. Thank you.
Thank you very much Anindita, we appreciate you!
Awww! Lovely ....Kids ....your a wise person .
A big love for this one, I am 40 and a father of a fabulous 5 year old boy, God bless us all❤😇
Thank you for sharing the truest feelings of a father.. It touched me so beautifully.. Peace
Can’t wait to see what you have in store. Many blessings always
Thank you Cathy, please make sure to register to receive more updates!
Awesome Vishen 😊
Beautiful video... What else we need in our life if we can make happy those people we actually love... Keep doing that...👍😊
But to make yourself happy first, no other way you can give to others first, you gotta give to yourself first! Learning about parenting is one way!
@@Mindvalley thanks for replying... Well right now I am 26 and unmarried so can't say much about the feeling behind being a parent but for making myself happy and motivated I have something special..."the Mindvalley"...You don't have any idea how you guys helped me alot in many ways like a true friend...really doing great job...Love you Mindvalley. 😊♥
Thank you for letting us know Hunter007, we are so happy and proud of you! Keep it up!
Just lovely
Please let me know when u have the sessions... btw I really appreciate the ideas mind valley brings out...I'm happy to see like minded individuals who really care!! Thanks for all u do!
This is a wonderful video. Thanks.
Just be present in your children’s lives. Love them cuddle them read to them acknowledging their accomplishments and guidance, faith, genuine interest in the child also helps Children look up to you and hear the words you say and can feel your energies too.
Life was not meant to be a rat race and neither is spirituality.
All these GIFTS we have been given to share and not for profit.
This is why so many are struggling.
Remain humble in all your dealings. Especially with our children.
Very beautiful one
भारतीय पूर्वजों को इन मामलों पर बहुत अच्छी समझ थी। ❤️😊🙏🏽🇮🇳
So cute they are ❤️ Vishen
Thank you Shiva!
कोई भी शिक्षक आपके अपने माता-पिता से अधिक महत्वपूर्ण नहीं है। वे आप से पहले यह सब कर चुके हैं।
❤️🇮🇳🇳🇿🙏🏽😊
Very nice video i really liked it...From my experience of life we give everything to our childrens because there were times our parents couldn't afford it...so we learned to have patience...we learned the struggle...we learned how to handle hard times...but when we are fulfilling our childrens need...they want more...we were ready to handle every aspects of life...but our childrens are not...i don't mean by making our child suffer for things...but make them realize..how things were hard before...buy things which are needful..We must always think before saying yes ....is it really needful.....with the same amount u can help others who really need something...if they think ...it will really make them strong with patience ...to get something in life.......
Thanks so much for the awesome video 🔥 This will definitely help me improve my Mindset, Business, and Life!! Keep it up! 💯💯🙌
I'm by no means a perfect father, but one thing I can say with pride is that I think I learn as much from my son as he learns from me and that helps me be a better father.
That is amazing! Isn't that what counts? Because, is there anything that is absolutely perfect?
@@Mindvalley precisely, nobody is perfect, but our growth as individuals is where the key is. You're a real inspiration
Thank you Practical Inspiration, glad we can be there for you and others!
Im in love with Mindvalley, the university of life.
Is it possible to join your IT team, work with you and be part of the noble cause "Personal Development" ?
I'm also wanna join mindvalley call it dream.
Thank you Salim, you can check our careers page for the openings we have, see if they fit to you: careers.mindvalley.com/
Made me cry 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Being a good father or loving mother it's 24 hour job .
I wish someday we establish parenting school in our society to educate ourselves how to become very loving and responsible parents. We spend couple of years in school and graduate just to work for corporations and banking systems.
We agree Rahim, they teach us every other topic but not parenting, which is so important!
I totally agree.
Yes please, yes please🖤🖤🖤
Also, Grand-parenting could be included in this AND discussion with one’s own adult children, acknowledging mistakes that you now see you’ve made along the way helping in the healing of their inner child wounds so they can be the parents their inner being sees them as.
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I watch all your videos but never write on comment section .All I can say be there for your children and grow up with them .
What do you think you can do to help those of us who have just become “ empty nesters “ and are now RIDDLED with all the “should haves and could haves” and are watching children (in my case 4) who are struggling in many different ways and some who blame us- their parents . We grew up in the “ Age of Enlightenment “, we sought out shrinks to end old behaviors, we sent our kids to shrinks when we thought that they needed extra emotional support. We allowed them to cry and get the “ yucky stuff “ out of their system, we validated their feelings, we encouraged them to be themselves..... and yet here we are wishing we could do it all over again!
Excellent....
How can we convert this in our language...coz I wanted to send this video to my relatives but they don't know much English
Really... you have great opportunity to convert it in your language and make your own video to inspire your relatives . This will help you to remember all info. and make changes in your life
Hi Kartik, unfortunately we don't have it available in other language other than English, however many times TH-cam gives you options for captioning in other languages. Hope that helps!
POWERFUL MESSAGE!
by the way how you CONTROL YOUR ANGER???
Meditation and awareness will help u dude...
Hi Michael, Vishen meditates and performs forgiveness exercises, you can check these resources: th-cam.com/video/oeQfRtiY-ZM/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/dBHyFw7KqB8/w-d-xo.html
Michael Pontillas walk away
Michael Pontillas i believe your just frustrated and not angry.
I recommend you reading the book "The Danish Way of Parenting". It taught me about the best mindset for raising people!
I had some works.But my mind had attracted to your speech ❤. Watched untill the end although I'm still not a father. 👌
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💓💟🌋🌷🍰🍹💞💕💖💗💙💚💛💜🌹🏝🏞😄😍😛🏝nagyon aranyos film jó egészséget kívánok Boldog névnapot.🏝😛🏞🌹💜💛💚💙💗💖💕💞🍹🍰🌷🌋💟💓🍮
Hello Sir!!
Lovely Video!!
I know this is not a right video to ask something but sir I have few questions for you sir, what does it mean to read a book in just one week or 4 to 5 books in a month ??? is this possible to read entire book (line by line) in just a day or week ??? Or there is a method or rules/techniques to read a book ?? ... Waiting for your prompt response sir .... Thanks!!
Hi there Fátima, there are ways to improve your reading skills and speed. We have a quest on this, we invite you to check our free Masterclass in the subject: www.mindvalley.com/superreading/masterclass
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This is sick!
The main purpose of parenting, is to teach children how to function in society and create a life that person wants to live. Including boundaries, personal life, personal space, and getting along with yourself and others!!
So many new age ideas teach children, how to live selfishly, that isn't healthy or realistic!
I my self being a student want to become great parent 😂😂😂strange thinking
Any vaccancy ! Let me know ...would love to be purposeful with my career too
You can check our careers page here: careers.mindvalley.com/
Hayden looks like vishen
Children dont come with instruction manuals. . .we're all amateurs doing the best we can with what we have.
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Hey man i love mindvalley and i have a name for you, a woman who's a n expert in childs raising.
she is Rada Bond fom www.lebtivity.com
check her she's an awesome person and you are going to love her
Thank you Elie, please ask her to contact our support team, they can assist her into sending her work for review and publishing :)
Where is mommy..???
They separated the marriage and living as a partners