10 THINGS I STOPPED BUYING | becoming minimalist & debt free
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ค. 2024
- In this video, I'm sharing 10 things I stopped buying when I started exploring minimalism, and things I stopped buying to get out of debt faster. These are things I have either cut from my budget, or things that I no longer see value in spending my money on.
What are some things you stopped buying to save money?
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TIME STAMPS ⏱
occasion wear 0:48
subscription services 2:12 (i do still have netflix lol)
home decor 3:12
plants 4:32
storage 4:52
trendy clothes 5:33
duplicates in other colors 6:10
pre-orders 6:40
supplements 7:55
cheaper "knock-offs" 8:40
outro 10:07
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Hi, I'm Christina - I'm a blogger slash vlogger slash human on the internet slash pharmacist, hence the "apothecary" theme in my name. I'm living in Toronto, Canada and on my channel you'll find me on my journey towards minimalism, being content with less, my debt free journey, and content on my LOW BUY. I also focus a lot of fashion. I think anyone can curate a personal style we can be confident in, using pieces from out own closet or with carefully thought out new pieces. I'm happy to take any requests, too! Your girl is flexible (not physically). Feel free to leave me a comment below - I always make sure to read and respond, and I love chatting with you guys. Thank you SO much for watching and taking the time out of your day to support my teeny little channel. Love xx, Christina.
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I have a lot of dupes in the SAME colours...working on that next 😂 - what have you stopped buying?
I'm totally the same with the dupes. I want Birkenstocks and only want Birkenstocks. I put a pair of dupes in my cart the other day, but ultimately I knew I wouldn't be happy. So Birkenstocks it is!
Fancy trendy clothes
The dupes thing has been such a struggle for me, when I find an item that I really really love, it's hard for me to talk myself out of the fear that the product will be as continued and I'll live with regret forever. But nine times out of 10 when I have purchased dupes, I end up not wearing them nearly as much as I thought I would or my style changes, and buying the dupes is what I end up regretting.
Love this concept! I no longer spend money on makeup subscription boxes like Birchbox. I have spent all of 2020 trying to use up all those samples and I still have a ton. Really stupid! I also no longer watch Amazon Hauls or anything like Old Navy/Walmart, etc...They were filled with things I did not know I "needed" until I watched them. No more!
I haven’t bought anything from amazon for a few years now, and rarely did so before. why would I support a company that doesn’t pay any taxes and has extinguished so many small businesses, not to mention contributing to instant gratification mentality and over-consumerism that has exacerbated our climate crisis?
This ☝️👏👏👏
And why I never shopped Amazon
Me too!
Best comment!
Same reason I haven't stepped foot in a Walmart in almost 10 years
Think it about this way: do you want to support an unethical non-tax paying company like amazon? Could you get it directly from the seller's platform? or opt for a local option instead? or just get it secondhand from a thrift shop / friends / secondhand groups? It might be cheaper too e.g: freecycle groups. :) For plants, opt for low maintenance and low light plants. I don't have many natural daylight areas in my flat either... you'll already be a minimalist in choosing specific plant types.
I totally agree with you regarding Amazon. I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I only use Amazon 1-2x a year, and I prefer to purchase directly from a seller or shop locally. I really don't have use for Amazon 🤷♀️
It's been like 2 years I haven't use amazon at all, it's been quite easy tbh.
Loved the moment when you discussed plants ‘not being their best little plant selves’! Totally with you - good content!
Haha they def won’t be in my care! 😭 🌱- thank you!
The only items I pre-order are books because it helps the authors a lot (especially when they aren't as well known or from a marginalized community).
That’s true! I never considered that 🙏🏻
So you’re the reason people always spell my name wrong haha they always use a y
@@Feliciatanktop Funny, people always spell my name like yours 😂
Post Kondo-ing my whole life I spend MORE money lately on storage solutions. I have ADHD-related "object impermanence" so if I can't see it - I can't find it or forget I have it - I buy a replacement instead of using the one I have. Long-term, just buying (or thrifting) a storage solution saves me money, time, and keeps me from buying duplicates and pitching originals accidentally because they expired or got attacked by moths. Different brains need different things - this one I used to agree with you on, but I realized from observing myself I should just bite the bullet and get the storage tray/ basket/ pot lid rack/ whatever. I still try to thrift or upcycle these first, though - always a good plan :).
Loved this! Stopped buying seasonal decor, new toddler clothes, jewelry, perfumes and excessive makeup!
Personally, I no longer buy magazines subscriptions and cookbooks. They look cute on a shelf, but I never open them 😅
1. Outfits for the occasion
2. Subscription services
3. Home decor & knick knacks
4. Plants
5. Storage solutions
6. Trending clothes
7. Duplicates in other colours
8. Pre order items
9. Supplements
10. Dupes
1. Fancy clothes and underwear
2. Makeup or skin care, unless I'm replacing a staple item
3. Aspirational fitness clothes and gear
4. Doesn't apply anymore because COVID- but eating out and getting drinks
5. Also doesn't apply anymore - but entertainment like going to the movies or live music.
I'm also about 10 months from being debt free, you're almost there Christina!! I'm also pregnant and I'm trying to figure out a new set of challenges with limiting buying unnecessary items. I'm 20 weeks into this pregnancy and have yet to buy a single baby item, so I'd say I'm doing pretty well. Although I'm nesting like a SOB - I want all the furniture and home goods I've been putting off buying while I'm on my debt free journey.
Great info I'm still on my no spend. I've saved a lot. I never spend money outside for coffee. I think the prices are ridiculous and my coffee at home is so much better lol 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙋🏻
I have been trying to spend less on premade clothing unless it is something unique and exactly what I am looking to add to my wardrobe. Instead I am leaning more on “hobby” spending to make more of my own clothing. Not only do I get pieces I know I will love and cherish, I can make sure they work perfectly for me, they are unique, I can get entertainment out of the process of making them, and I get to support smaller businesses when I purchase yarn and fabric. It is an investment, but it creates a lot more intentional thinking and purchasing.
Number 10: Yes, so true. I have been guilty of the same. I have learned that you can't get enough of what you don't really want.
Yes! Recently I bought something and while a friend told me what I bought was enough I kept feeling that for our needs I needed the stronger more durable one in that line. After much deliberation, I ended up exchanging it and purchased the more durable one instead. It felt good and I have no regrets and I am at peace with the purchase. Dupes, smaller items, etc, are ok but you have to know yourself and how you will use it. Nobody can do that for you. That is key!
CHRISTINA THIS WAS SO GOOD! You are so comfy on camera and these shots were so buttery! Loved it all!
Thank you my friend!
I completely agree on the cheap dupes. I'm never happy when I do that and just feel disappointed or ashamed that it's not the real thing or not what I actually want.
Some other things I've stopped buying: candles, perfume, eye shadow (i kept one palette and a few neutral colours, but no more buying colours I'll never realistically wear), nail polish, impractical shoes, subscription boxes, and specialty food items that only get used for one recipe.
Totally agree on those eyeshadow palettes. I wear eyeshadow maybe once a month if that, but I have so many palettes I just "had" to have. Eyeshadow actually makes my eyelids feel dirty. I don't even really like it. I see all these youtubers and their eyeshadow tutorials and I try to convince myself I like eyeshadow.
yes to that!! all of the things erin mentioned
I do buy duplicates but in the same color, my favorite black tshirt i bought 3 of them. I love the idea of uniform so my outfits are all jeans and black shirts.
Same!
Ending my subscription to Amazon prime has done wonders for me stopping my impulse buying (and making me question if I really truly need something that I think I need). When I get to the checkout and see how much I have to pay for shipping, I immediately close out of the browser. Even if shipping's $5, that's a deal breaker for me, and I saved so much money because of this roadblock.
I love that you know what you want. I think so much about minimalism and sustainability is making conscious decisions. Hearing you have a valid way about your decision making is inspiring! :)
1. Outfits for the occasion
2. Subscription services
3. Home decor & knick knacks
4. Plants
5. Storage solutions
6. Trending clothes
7. Duplicates in other colours
8. Pre order items
9. Supplements
10. Dupes
That last one is a big one for me. Get the item you actually want!
Back in '05 I really wanted an iPod mini (the blue one lol) and literally everyone was telling me to get the zune instead. I knew even then I would not be happy until I got my mini 😂
Great video! I own a home and try not to buy home decor items. I hate Knick knacks. Too much dust and we appreciate negative space. When we purchase an item it’s something that is going to last. I no longer buy gym memberships. I workout at home. I found its better and I can be more consistent. Trending clothes is on my list too. I’m methodical with what I add to my wardrobe.
this gave me a BOOST in my minimalism/low buy journey. i’m doing a no spend october. i’m not needing clothes bc i’m not really going out, i don’t need new decor bc i’m living with my parents. great vid!
Ok.... This advice was exactly what I needed . 😃 it feels really good when you can “ overcome” the impulse to purchase. I 100 % agree with the little things like supplements and decor items. They build up.. you see the clutter , then feelings of stress begin..... Excellent advice... I used it today while looking online ( closed the computer and said you don’ t need that in another colour ! ) ... Thank you 😀🤩😀
I have been pre ordering way too much! I think by the time I end up getting the item, I am no longer interested in why I wanted it in the first place 🤦♀️
Totally feel you. I realized I was probably more addicted to spending money than I was addicted to the stuff I was accumulating. It’s a big thing to notice - you got this!
It is delightful to see how far you have come over the past few years since your brave beginnings of a NO buy year to tackle your enormous student debt....you have grown into yourself so very nicely Christina....a sweet, youthful grown up is emerging with the accompanying insight and wisdom....Big Hugs
I absolutely loved this video. You gave me so many great ideas :) thank you!
Love this video. Couldn't agree more with you about the storage!!! Never understood that!!! I'd love to see how you budget monthly.
Love when you say: I want to buy, but I don’t! Many times I fell the same but since my house isn’t that big and I don’t want my wardrobe full of clothes, I can handle the purchase “need”!
I stopped buying/using nail polish for 2 years now and i feel my nails are getting healthier. Can't wait to cut out more stuff. It's all about progress
Agree about buying things in multiple colors. I would do that all the time with shoes and tshirts. And you’re right I would end up only wearing one or two colors instead of all 5. I find that a lot of my buying comes from the fear or the inability to make decisions. So until I work on that it’s going to be hard to control the shopping. When I go shopping now and if there are too many choices I try to force myself to either pick one or walk away. Tfs!❤️
Hi!! This is an amazing, so real and very practical video. The best that I have seen. You were honest and I love how you said you know yourself and your behavior and that influences what you choose to no longer buy. Same for me. Alot of times people forget that part. I do all of what you said in this video. No exception! Good work!
I've been guilty of buying duplicates in different colours of a clothing item and never wore them. Too many items of home decor and storage solutions - guilty as charged! I've done my time and now going straight :) Great video as always Christina.
Your journey is so inspiring and it has inspired me to start mine maybe a year ago ! I think theres still a lot of work but im getting there ! I spend a lot less on makeup, plants too (but this one is recent 😅); i realised i can make my own baby plants and i can enjoy the ones i already have instead of always wanting a new one, a new kind with a new shape and form, etc.
On a journey to minimalism, and finding your content so helpful and inspiring! Thank you! (Amazon is such a tough one to let go of. Making small strides, so hopefully one day! 🙏🏻)
For me, I’ve found that I would rather purchase high quality items over anything fast fashion or cheaply made/cheaply produced. For example, My biggest spend recently was buying some really nice underwear from organic basics. I can guarantee they will last me years because the quality is so unreal and the fabrics are gorgeous. I will get way more wear out of those than some fast fashion undies that fall apart after 3 washes. The upfront cost is worth it because I won’t need to re purchase for a very long time. What I’m saying is that the biggest lesson I’ve learnt lately is quality over quantity.
Amazing video Christina, and certainly gives me lots to think about! I live in a dorm and have to move 1-2 times a year, so I am forced to be a more minimalistic, simply because I don't have the space or energy for it.
Can you do a video about your boyfriend and your low buy? Did you ever feel embarrassed about your shopping habits in front of him? Did you used to hide packages from him? What has he thought of this whole process?
this is giving me so much to think about. thank you for this
Sephora sale and Nordstrom Anniversary Sale both get me in trouble! Fear of missing out syndrome!
I agree with you on all of these items. I used to always buy something I loved in multiple colors, then never wore any of the extras. Supplements are useless... I mean I could go on and on about how I’m very similar and it’s a learning process. I think once you get to a certain age and realize you are donating or giving away so much stuff constantly to keep clutter down, it makes you re analyze your spending habits.
Fantastic video! Thank you 🌿
This was a great video. I love these as well. I can relate to buying clothes for the occasions...
I agree with your list!
Same with no to dupes! I always prefer the real thing😍
Loved the tips. And your hair looks really beautiful in this video! 💜
Nice to see the book on Russia and a wooden doll Matreshka:) enjoy watching your videos-wish you all the best🌱
This is awesome! Would you be able to make a favorites video?? Even if it’s a long time favorite item like a top 10 or top 5. Love your videos! They are super inspiring!!!
This is a great list.
Sooo helpful.
New subscriber here! I super agree about dupes - I end up buying a few, then end up buying the original one anyway.
Love your content! It's so refreshing amidst all these other videos trying to get me to spend more when I want to save more. Keep up the good work!
Thank you!
Love the content of this video ❤️
yes,
i’m also doing quality or quantity.
I agree with all your suggestions except Amazon prime as I buy household supplies that are cheaper than I would get in a brick and mortar store. Supplements are a big waste of money, just eat a healthy diet ! I get my plants from clippings from friends 👍🏼
Agree and I do the same ... but I also have to buy plants! That’s not something I could or want to stop. I am a rare plant collector and caring for them aids in my mental health, so don’t feel guilty spending on them (and I also propagate which is also satisfying!)
AWESOME List! well done, I'm happy that I found you. I need to chill out on buying houseplants right now. ughh haha..
Thank you
Congrats!!!
I so agree about dupes. I am the same way
Love the list. I don't have debt, but I love to find ways to live below my means. I pretty much do almost everything on this list, except for supplements. I'm vegan, so I do take a daily multivitamin, but I definitely had to eliminate all the extra stuff.
I just ended my subscription to Amazon Prime today! I think i will probably buy less.
I stopped buying make up and cosmetics since in the past I had issues with allergy due to way too many experiments. Now using few products which I substitute when needed and its simple, less clutter and mess. Working on no buying clothes...that is a hard one 🤔
And I have so many clothes that they could last me untill the rest of my life!🙄🙄🙄
#StyleApothecaSquad!!💜🙋🏾♀️ Love it and I need to get back on my No buy I fell off a bit. 🙈
Are you in the low buy FB group, Myrna? It's so supportive - come join if you're not! facebook.com/groups/884900135258002/
You got this, beautiful!!
I hear you! 🙈 I recently fell off a bit and bad habits have been creeping back in! 😫
I am actually buying more duplicates (2-3 maximum duplication) but only if I am using it constantly. It keeps me from buying something different and not liking it as much.
I find I have a tendency towards duplicates in the SAME colours 😂 those I find I wear more often - youre right, it all boils down to how to much you’re using them!
I had no idea you were from Toronto!! I live at Church and Carlton. Love your channel!
Thank you :) Just canceled my Amazon prime, haha!!
Nice Job!
I never buy by internet, I like physical contact with the item I am about to buy, like to feel it, try it on... I stopped buying books (borrow them from the library), make up and jewellery (use only what I have), minimized buying clothes and shoes...
I am not buying plants anymore because mine are actually thriving and I have lots of friends who also have different varieties of house plants so we're planning on exchanging "baby plants" once in a while. I even had a huge indoor plant given to me by a friend because it has outgrown its space in her home.
Trading things with friends or buying used items from them is something I'm starting to do more. I've been giving away some things that I liked a lot but no longer have a place for, and my friends have been super grateful. Turns out sometimes they remember and offer me stuff that I might need and they no longer use. It's also fun to have a little something that reminds you of a friend in your home.
I also try to look on Marketplace and Kijiji for used items when I want to purchase something. I bought a few handbags in great condition for a fraction of the price. I really get just as much satisfaction from them as I would from a brand new handbag. I also go to thrift stores for house decor items or kitchen items.
I try to repair what I already have instead of buying new stuff all the time.
I had the tendency to shop for "the best outfit for the occasion" before. Now, I really know my style quite well and I have a few options for every type of occasion that I can choose from. I tend to buy clothing that is classic, elegant and really fits my body type and style, instead of trying to purchase a new "statement" outfit that I won't wear more than a few times.
These days I've been starting to make my own Christmas decorations because I do love arts and crafts and I'm actually quite good at it. It keeps me busy and I end up saving money on the whole.
I've been buying a lot from Amazon during the pandemic when everything was on lockdown, so I was an Amazon Prime subscriber for a while, but I think I need to unsubscribe now. Shops are all open on regular hours and I indeed do not need next day delivery for everything.
Thanks for this video. Very motivating!
oh my, the duplicate ones are what I always do! Imagining myself in diff colours and thinking i would wear them whne in reality i only wear 1 colour🤷♀️
Expensive makeup, occasion dresses could be altered is something you could do. I have a wedding coming up next year, I have plenty to choose from.
I don’t look much at amazon anymore.
No nick nacks, plain and simple is what I want now.
Everything comfy and simple is my journey now.
Very few trends, if any!!
If you eat correctly you don’t need supplements. NO DUPES at all!! I don’t buy designer anything, unless it Eileen Fisher, all her pieces are durable and forever pieces.
I’ve received so many plants mostly from my mother in law, I wish I could have picked my own, but I have so many that are just living but wouldn’t be what I would have chosen. For me I love duplicates, and wear them all, but they have to be in neutral colors, that’s key for me.
I loved your points. The comment about Amazon Prime hit home - I was subscribed for a while but I didn't like how it made me shop mindlessly so I stopped the subscription. Now I use Amazon only occasionally and it's not so hard to add up to $25 once in a while to qualify for a free shipping. And I don't mind to wait extra few days for the delivery lol
Totally!! Being without it is a money saver in my opinion for sure!
Awesome...love your channel...just subscribed... hi from Ottawa :)
Eghh just take a multivitamin in the morning. The rest you dont need. I take a multivitamin just in case my body needs something it isn't getting from the foods I'm eating. So, I cover myself. So far I have been pretty healthy " knock on wood" lol great video
Loved this video! Small step but I no longer buy cat toys or cat toy subscriptions for my kitties. They add up and they don’t even play with them for the most part, so what’s the point! 😂
Most of these make sense anyway!
completely agree with your same shirt with multiple colours and dupe items. i don't get having multiple colours either cuz you basically wearing the same thing?? where is the versatility, i need different style so that i don't look boring. and dupes, yeah if i had money i would purchase the original thing too. i have the same principle as you xD
OMG YOU'RE FROM TORONTO HELLO FROM HAMILTON
I _love_ Amazon-Shopping. I put so much stuff in my cart. And then I let it sit in the cart for about 2 weeks before I really purchase it. Usually I don't need it after 2 weeks. Makes Amazon-Shopping much cheaper. But Amazon Prime is great for me. Usually my only source of TV. We never go to the movie theater. As a family of 4 going to the movie theater twice a year costs as much as the Amazon Prime subscription. So it is totally worth the money for us. And I purchase stuff on Amazon. Food, fabric, stuff for sewing which is much cheaper there than in the special shop at our city, ... Amazon has several e-books for free. You can purchase them for 0,00 Euros.
I don't get makeup or skincare sub boxes anymore. It saved approximately 1k a year. Saving for a home, so watching all discretionary spending.
One thing that I don't buy anymore is cotton rounds, balls or Q-tips. It's no secret that these items are wasteful, plus I feel like I can easily get by without them since I hardly ever wear makeup.
I also stopped buying cheap dupes unless I know the dupe is actually better. I kept buying items that are SIMILAR to what I ultimately want, then would end up with too many dupes and upset with myself for accumulating things I don't even like 😒
Ugh I'm so guilty of the duplicates trap....I even buy the exact same item in multiples so I have a "back-up" 🤦🏻♀️ I'm just starting to declutter my things as I've really started to feel so overwhelmed by what I have and have found myself stress shopping again a lot lately. My goal is to get it under control and have loved watching your content for inspiration and motivation and encouragement 💕
Twins!! I uploaded a similar video today! I totally relate to inventing occasions to buy outfits for. “So and so recently got married, and mentioned maybe wanting children, so maybe they might have a baby shower soon. Ima buy this dress for the shower.” 😂
😂😂 totally! Going to go watch!
Very strange question: do you remember where your laptop stand is from? I'm looking for one for my at-home office since I'm still remote and love how simple yours is!
It’s called “Rain Design 10032 mStand for all MacBook and Laptops Stand” and I got it from the Source!
@@Christinamychas thank you so much, I'm so extremely appreciative! 🥰 ❤️
I remember when I first started dating my partner, I felt like I had to have a new dress for every date, and that I couldn't re-wear one, which is the stupidest thing ever especially because he is and has always been a minimalist himself, not to mention he doesn't care about fashion enough to even notice what I'm wearing. 😆
Plants don’t survive in my home either. But I want to be a plant mom so badly.😂😆🙈
Her teeth are perfect
I just cancelled my spotify and netflix. Will use spotify free version and logging in to other free aps for entertainment. its a little each month but ads up. those 2 cancelled will be $288 a year ! going on the debt...
Love it!
I believe storage items isn’t just to put away things you don’t use. I have storage containers for everything I use daily in my drawers, whether it’s my clothes or kitchen stuff.. I mean you have a clearer view of the things you have and you don’t see papers or your socks scattered around in a drawer.
That’s true! I just mean this in the context of storing more stuff!
@@Christinamychas yes absolutely, if it was to buy those boxes just to store things away I wouldn't. I live in a small space so I try to get very minimal with the things I own!
Can you do a facts video so we can get to know better and also a clothing or styling hacks video? Thanks (:
Totally! 🥰
I thought you were in Kensington market
Yep!! ❤️
I was aggressively paying down debt and then April.. June-ish rolled around and I was like ❌.
How do you stay motivated, keep the momentum up? I was doing a loan a month, but now I feel like it’s an insurmountable $$ amount and lost my motivation to do it, because let’s face it, the world is a shithole right now (at least in the United States).
You got this! Shithole or not, i feel like it’s not worth giving up on your goals and the future you want and see for yourself ❤️ - that’s what keeps me going too. I agree motivation ebbs and flows, but keep going!
This is not a willpower thing, this is a new normal thing. Don't worry about the time that will pass, it will pass anyway. See what helps keep you on board, be it spreadsheets, or colorcharts (color a square per X amount paid down), and extrapolate that to your retirement. You will feel like such a bossass B when you get it done, and you'll be right.
did you just say "five weddings that month"
I love Amazon prime and get my money’s worth. Please no negative comments. It’s my opinion.
Hey Dodos! Question of the day: what is the smallest mammal in the world?
Plants?!?!? Really? I would sell some of my gold to keep at least 1 olive tree on my balcony. I have 2 rt now. No, I don’t have an owl. I live in California..... I would be flogged and arrested for having one.
Haha i live in toronto with a brick wall as my view so my plants just die! It’s so sad!
I have a lot of dupes in the SAME colours...working on that next 😂 - what have you stopped buying?