"My family comes first and im always giving them the love they need always neglecting myself." , "not appreciated for my efforts." Damn that hit me so hard I cried. Thank you for your words. Knowing I'm not alone even though everyday I am. ❤
Thank you for listening and commenting. Your not alone in this, sacrifice for our kids is what we do , and most of the time without any gratitude or a simple thank you except mothers day, and even then, its obligated to thank us not like they do it because they want to, they do it because the holliday tells them to. Subscribe and keep updated with my music, I have more like this on the way.
@@chirondawn2966that is oh so very true. Thanks for your reply to my comment. I wasn't expecting something directly from you and i really appreciate your words. I'm going to listen to all you have uploaded and I can't wait to hear more from you! ❤❤
I hear you! I wish I would have heard my wife sooner!!! It seems that none of us understand the other side. I have cried so many times to Dax’s song. This hits from the other side mostly because I never had expectations for my wife but that doesn’t mean she didn’t feel any. She may have not have any for me but I sure as hell do!
@@BrandiZografos Thank you so much!! A lot of people think I am clapping back but I too love Dax and this is " her" rebuttle to what dax says in his song in a way of saying" I hear you, I understand you, I relate to you, so lets change the societal standards and allow all of us to feel how we feel and express ourselves free of judgement and criticism and make a positive change "
Thank you for putting it from a woman's perspective we are mothers and Aunt and teachers and soldiers and doctors and we are often times thought of as oh you're okay you know you can just get over it. When most people don't understand that to be a woman it's just as hard to be a man. Were abused mentally physically emotionally we hold Blue Collar jobs just like a man and come home at the end of the day and feel so alone and feel so helpless and feel like you did absolutely everything right and it was absolutely wrong. Thank you for your bravery to write it from a woman's perspective I hope @Dax hears this
Very sad song but so very true you shouldn't ever have to compete with social media to know or understand how beautiful you are because the creater created you in his own image and that's a very true important thing to remember always where ever you go
My man couldnt even finish the song before changing so i think that speaks enough in itself... but i truly hope you can release this as a 'produced' single (at minimum) and i d love to see a whole album of your talent ❤
@@emilymorrison-vg4fz Thank you so much for the comment and suppprt, Im in the middle of my official EP, and this song will be on it once approved by @thatsDax team due to it being a remix of his song. I wish you all the joy and self love you deserve. Thank you girl. - Chiron Dawn
I got to say that it take a lot of strength and will power to take a stand. I appreciate you. Its a great accomplishment. You should be very proud of yourself. I know i am proud of you. I will be the first to say that you song actually had an impact on my life. As i man i found myself questioning if a woman I loved, would stand up against someone trying to ruin, belittle, or create doubt in her mind against the man she was with. Just to make himself a better mire qualified man to take his place. Sweetheart, you showed me this which i already knew but doubted. So thank you for helping me finally seeing my truth. Now with all the love i have for her, I can let go knowing my live was strong enough to let her go. Ty
The problem is that you are wrong. This might be your experience. But your husband is gone because he is working for you. While most men will never hear they are good enough or will only get flowers at their funeral is true.
I don't think she is just talking about when he is gone at work, some men even though they are physically home they aren't mentally there. Some men do get told they are enough and small gifts given to them and still a never actually home whether work or just not home in a mental/emotional way.
Actually your spouse and kids should ALWAYS come first. Even before religion. If you can't put your spouse or kids first then you shouldn't have a family in the first place.
@@Buttercup20151 Nope wrong. I'm sorry to tell you but if that's the way you really think you shouldn't be married. No matter what your spouse and kids comes first over anything else and any church will tell you that.
Fym then she comes next??? If she’s the one that if she makes a song like this then she deserves to be last, bottle everything up and put your kids and husband first then. I’m shaking my head because of how blind women are
a man can’t even release a song about how he feels without a woman trying to one up him. the songs daft anyway y compete with birds on tiktok live you’re own life😂
To be fair men put their families first too neglecting himself. Why you think he's always working? For himself? No he always working to give his family the life he never had. Haha
Well, I'm sad that there are many women that feel this way, at least they aren't looked down on by society in general, for emoting about it or talking to their friends about it - THAT is one of the worst inequity's, one of the toughest realities, that men are expected to deal with, shrug.
Ironically My image on this song is the same way Dax added his info trying to get eminem attention and I wrote this a complimentary to what Dax says in his song. Both men and women have a stigma around us and what " makes" us "good " men and women . This has to stop!! I wrote this to say hey, I hear you men, I understand you, I relate to you and women running a household work just as hard as men that work outside of the home without getting paid, without gratitude, without recognition ect. Most men know the disappointment of working like dogs in all climates as they watch others around them get promotions, awards, raises ect. I an not trying to " one up" or compete with dax, I am trying to show the world how men and women go through very similar things and how communication ,understanding, and honesty with ourselves and others will remove the societal stigma of what " to be a man" or " to be a woman" really means .
im trying to make that happen!! i left him a message on this video in the same way he left a message for Eminem to call him on one of his.....guess he is just getting too big now!!! Thank you for listening and taking time to comment . I really appreciate you all!!
I have been waiting for SO LONG for a woman to post a rebuttal to his song. I feel like his song could be valid, but he blames women, whining the entire time. This is spot on. As a man, I know (somewhat) what the women in my life have sacrificed and been through. As a MAN I feel like the majority of these issues affecting men are due to men, but I guarantee you, based on the people Dax is associating with, he blames "toxic masculinity" on women.
Thank you so much for your honest comment and for tuning in. Your woman is very lucky to have you be so open minded that you see the truth, pros and cons to both sides. Nobody is perfect, but with compassion, understanding, honest communication, and an open mind, we can have a better more respectful, less victim minded society. One of my song lyrics from " Lonely World" says - We are broken, but not hopeless Thank you for your feedback and hope you and your SO listen to more of my songs and relate to eachother in a sincere way!!
It's his story, his life, so he's to blame who he feel, just as you,... We all have different lives and experiences, no need to try an correct a life you haven't lived in...
I don't think you understand the song that Dax wrote. Real men don't expect you to be something that you're not. You shouldn't let those outside influences make you strive to be something make believe. Or something other than the real you.
I do not think you understand my remix to what Dax said, to a woman, in our heads and what we are raised to believe and how society is, a woman's perception is quite different, hence why I wrote this remix. We were enlightened by Dax telling us a mans point of view so we understand men better. I wrote it from a woman's point of view to show how different it is. Both songs are subjective, not objective therefore everyone has their own story and point of view. I was telling mine in my version. Perception is NOT reality, it is the filter in which we see the world. Communication is NOT key, Comprehending the conversations IS !! Thank you for listening, and thank you for your comment and opening the doorway to understanding.
I'm curious on why some of the things you talk about in your song are about what women do to women. Just seems odd that you are making a song about struggles you bring on yourself and not of struggles that are naturally expected from you.
@@atheistskeptic8748 my reading compression is perfectly fine, sweetie. Maybe you need to take another listen to Dax's version if you're criticizing her for doing, at worst, the exact same thing he's saying.
I'm curious on why some of the things you talk about in your song are about what women do to women. Just seems odd that you are making a song about struggles you bring on yourself and not of struggles that are naturally expected from you.
"My family comes first and im always giving them the love they need always neglecting myself." , "not appreciated for my efforts." Damn that hit me so hard I cried. Thank you for your words. Knowing I'm not alone even though everyday I am. ❤
Thank you for listening and commenting. Your not alone in this, sacrifice for our kids is what we do , and most of the time without any gratitude or a simple thank you except mothers day, and even then, its obligated to thank us not like they do it because they want to, they do it because the holliday tells them to. Subscribe and keep updated with my music, I have more like this on the way.
@@chirondawn2966that is oh so very true. Thanks for your reply to my comment. I wasn't expecting something directly from you and i really appreciate your words. I'm going to listen to all you have uploaded and I can't wait to hear more from you! ❤❤
@@Motherdragon87 Thank you for the support and feel free to share with anyone that would benefit from listening
I really needed to hear this tonight. ❤ Hang in there, mommas! 🥰❤️🫶🏼 We've got this. 😊💯
You got this!
I hear you! I wish I would have heard my wife sooner!!! It seems that none of us understand the other side. I have cried so many times to Dax’s song. This hits from the other side mostly because I never had expectations for my wife but that doesn’t mean she didn’t feel any. She may have not have any for me but I sure as hell do!
Love love love dax !!!
But wow bamm!!!
Chica nailed this rt now
@@BrandiZografos Thank you so much!! A lot of people think I am clapping back but I too love Dax and this is " her" rebuttle to what dax says in his song in a way of saying" I hear you, I understand you, I relate to you, so lets change the societal standards and allow all of us to feel how we feel and express ourselves free of judgement and criticism and make a positive change "
Beautiful ❤️💪🙏 Shine💞
Thank you! Im happy to know people are actually hearing my music
Thank you for putting it from a woman's perspective we are mothers and Aunt and teachers and soldiers and doctors and we are often times thought of as oh you're okay you know you can just get over it. When most people don't understand that to be a woman it's just as hard to be a man. Were abused mentally physically emotionally we hold Blue Collar jobs just like a man and come home at the end of the day and feel so alone and feel so helpless and feel like you did absolutely everything right and it was absolutely wrong. Thank you for your bravery to write it from a woman's perspective I hope @Dax hears this
Very sad song but so very true you shouldn't ever have to compete with social media to know or understand how beautiful you are because the creater created you in his own image and that's a very true important thing to remember always where ever you go
My man couldnt even finish the song before changing so i think that speaks enough in itself... but i truly hope you can release this as a 'produced' single (at minimum) and i d love to see a whole album of your talent ❤
@@emilymorrison-vg4fz Thank you so much for the comment and suppprt, Im in the middle of my official EP, and this song will be on it once approved by @thatsDax team due to it being a remix of his song. I wish you all the joy and self love you deserve. Thank you girl.
- Chiron Dawn
@@chirondawn2966i love your voice amazing❤❤
2 sides of a story we need to learn to see love again ❤❤
I got to say that it take a lot of strength and will power to take a stand. I appreciate you. Its a great accomplishment. You should be very proud of yourself. I know i am proud of you. I will be the first to say that you song actually had an impact on my life. As i man i found myself questioning if a woman I loved, would stand up against someone trying to ruin, belittle, or create doubt in her mind against the man she was with. Just to make himself a better mire qualified man to take his place. Sweetheart, you showed me this which i already knew but doubted. So thank you for helping me finally seeing my truth. Now with all the love i have for her, I can let go knowing my live was strong enough to let her go. Ty
❤❤❤ great song
The problem is that you are wrong. This might be your experience. But your husband is gone because he is working for you. While most men will never hear they are good enough or will only get flowers at their funeral is true.
@@JaegundLol so you just making your rounds with your poor reading comprehension skills.
I don't think she is just talking about when he is gone at work, some men even though they are physically home they aren't mentally there. Some men do get told they are enough and small gifts given to them and still a never actually home whether work or just not home in a mental/emotional way.
As a man I understand where your coming from
God comes first then you come next and then your kids or your husband ❤❤❤ like your voice
Actually your spouse and kids should ALWAYS come first. Even before religion. If you can't put your spouse or kids first then you shouldn't have a family in the first place.
@@coolsteve1985God always comes first, then your spouse, then your children. God is above all things.
@@Buttercup20151 Nope wrong. I'm sorry to tell you but if that's the way you really think you shouldn't be married. No matter what your spouse and kids comes first over anything else and any church will tell you that.
Fym then she comes next??? If she’s the one that if she makes a song like this then she deserves to be last, bottle everything up and put your kids and husband first then. I’m shaking my head because of how blind women are
It's a lonely home. That's deep.
Beautiful song voice perfect but it hits hard ❤️🎶😌🫶
Thank you!
a man can’t even release a song about how he feels without a woman trying to one up him. the songs daft anyway y compete with birds on tiktok live you’re own life😂
To be fair men put their families first too neglecting himself. Why you think he's always working? For himself? No he always working to give his family the life he never had. Haha
Love it both versions
Well, I'm sad that there are many women that feel this way, at least they aren't looked down on by society in general, for emoting about it or talking to their friends about it - THAT is one of the worst inequity's, one of the toughest realities, that men are expected to deal with, shrug.
Ironically My image on this song is the same way Dax added his info trying to get eminem attention and I wrote this a complimentary to what Dax says in his song. Both men and women have a stigma around us and what " makes" us "good " men and women . This has to stop!! I wrote this to say hey, I hear you men, I understand you, I relate to you and women running a household work just as hard as men that work outside of the home without getting paid, without gratitude, without recognition ect. Most men know the disappointment of working like dogs in all climates as they watch others around them get promotions, awards, raises ect. I an not trying to " one up" or compete with dax, I am trying to show the world how men and women go through very similar things and how communication ,understanding, and honesty with ourselves and others will remove the societal stigma of what " to be a man" or " to be a woman" really means .
Love you and Dax should sing together ❤
im trying to make that happen!! i left him a message on this video in the same way he left a message for Eminem to call him on one of his.....guess he is just getting too big now!!! Thank you for listening and taking time to comment . I really appreciate you all!!
i feel you i send love damn i got tears arnt competing you are si fucking beautiful i love you stay imperfectly perfect nd brilliantly beautiful
Thank you so much!!!
I have been waiting for SO LONG for a woman to post a rebuttal to his song. I feel like his song could be valid, but he blames women, whining the entire time. This is spot on. As a man, I know (somewhat) what the women in my life have sacrificed and been through.
As a MAN I feel like the majority of these issues affecting men are due to men, but I guarantee you, based on the people Dax is associating with, he blames "toxic masculinity" on women.
Thank you so much for your honest comment and for tuning in. Your woman is very lucky to have you be so open minded that you see the truth, pros and cons to both sides. Nobody is perfect, but with compassion, understanding, honest communication, and an open mind, we can have a better more respectful, less victim minded society. One of my song lyrics from " Lonely World" says - We are broken, but not hopeless Thank you for your feedback and hope you and your SO listen to more of my songs and relate to eachother in a sincere way!!
It's his story, his life, so he's to blame who he feel, just as you,...
We all have different lives and experiences, no need to try an correct a life you haven't lived in...
@@JeromeJerome-h5rI've also been hurt by women in my life, but I'm a grown up and don't blame all of my problems on women.
@@chirondawn2966this make me cry more about the song❤😂
I can understand Dax’s view as well as your view. Relationships prosper under team work. This relieves pressure from both you and your partner.
I don't think you understand the song that Dax wrote. Real men don't expect you to be something that you're not. You shouldn't let those outside influences make you strive to be something make believe. Or something other than the real you.
I do not think you understand my remix to what Dax said, to a woman, in our heads and what we are raised to believe and how society is, a woman's perception is quite different, hence why I wrote this remix. We were enlightened by Dax telling us a mans point of view so we understand men better. I wrote it from a woman's point of view to show how different it is. Both songs are subjective, not objective therefore everyone has their own story and point of view. I was telling mine in my version. Perception is NOT reality, it is the filter in which we see the world. Communication is NOT key, Comprehending the conversations IS !! Thank you for listening, and thank you for your comment and opening the doorway to understanding.
A few comments have annoyed me but there are two sides to a story, love this version as much as daxs
If you understand Dax, then this song is unnecessary.
Suara Kau Sumbang Tak Payah Nyanyi ...
Wow
The only reason I want to leave cause my husband is always gone . I need not just the love but the hugs and kisses he promised.
This is not right why is it that whenever men talk about their feelings they are always immediately attacked by toxic feminists
Don't marry someone who don't love u
inaccurate just gonna say that no need.
@Thatsdax
Nope don't like that.
Smh...not impressed at all....
I'm curious on why some of the things you talk about in your song are about what women do to women. Just seems odd that you are making a song about struggles you bring on yourself and not of struggles that are naturally expected from you.
Do you think the regular pressures on men are solely from women? LMAO.
@@Jaegund No I didn't imply that at all either so your comment makes absolutely zero sense. Maybe reading comprehension isn't your strong suit.
@@atheistskeptic8748 my reading compression is perfectly fine, sweetie. Maybe you need to take another listen to Dax's version if you're criticizing her for doing, at worst, the exact same thing he's saying.
@@Jaegund lol you are the perfect candidate for ignorance is bliss
@@atheistskeptic8748 what a great, well thought our argument. Good job, bud!
I'm curious on why some of the things you talk about in your song are about what women do to women. Just seems odd that you are making a song about struggles you bring on yourself and not of struggles that are naturally expected from you.