If a female do Adultery she still get maintenance/ Alomeny which is also cruelty against men. And second thing if that child is not husband why he maintain that child looks like our courts are brain less.
True. Also, cyber crime police in India is not legally responsible for retrieving deleted WhatsApp Messages. How can the man get proofs? Even if a man catches the wife redhanded, the first instinct would be to scold her and then apply for divorce. Not to open camera and record video. Unless the man is cunning. So how can man get proofs in such a situation. Cyber crime police in India should be made legally responsible for retrieving deleted WhatsApp Messages in extramarital affair related divorce cases.
Yeah but these rules are made by men. So be a happy pessimistic and wait, we will reach the same condition what west is facing and eventually society will crumble, that day we will see what men who are angry, frustrated and hopeless with week mind can actually do.
@@firstpostcommenter8078 whatsapp messages can't be retrieved because it's end to end encrypted ...So no one can even retreieve it even whatsapp itself...
What a meaningful conversation about divorce and other family law issues! I am very glad I chanced upon it. Geeta Luthra explains complex matters so simply and effectively, I feel sure that lots of people will gain not just information, but also food for thought. Bani's interventions and questions are also intelligent and to the point. Well done!!
I m 38 divorced from mumbai. My wife used my body, my money n drained me emotionally. Daily arguments, no work at home, no respect, no financial contribution, no true love and threat me every day and doubts on me and had eye on my money and property. Best solution is to stop marriage, no kids and stay stress free life with lovely pets and parents. kids after some age don't stay with parents to look after in old age
Host is good in terms of asking right questions, and the advocate is experienced, intelligent and a good speaker. After a very long time, I have watched the 1 hr+ video completely. Just one suggestion - please try to do similar podcasts end to end in hindi for the wider reach. Thanks.
Remove maintenance and alimony from her matrimonial cases. And you'll see a sharp decrease in divorce cases. We can't call a marriage sacred and a game of extorting 'just money' from the males.
Also, does same-sex marriage mean that if America is puking idiotically after drinking too much? Indians should also and it is ok. Why we are having inspiration from USA? Don't we have our own brain?
Also, marriage means money exchange. Earlier, it was wrongfully done in the form of dowry, now, it is wrongfully done in the form of maintenance. So, Money = marriage. No gender is doing any charity while marrying.
My ex was far too childish to be a good mother or a wife. She would play mental games with everyone all the time. Barely took care of our son. Had an affair finally I had to divorce her and lose 50L but it was worth it. I am free now, son is doing well. Life is short, it's better to take care of your parents, siblings and yourself than believe in having a happy marriage.
@@athensmajnoo3661 a woman is an emotional creature. No matter how good the husband is she will leave him if she not feeling happy. On top of that she will take half of his property, make him pay alimony...Not to forget she will do character assassination, file false allegations.....
@@athensmajnoo3661 a woman is an emotional creature. No matter what how good the husband is she will divorce him if she is not feeling happy. She only cares about her happiness...
As long as money is involved, never. Courts know the reality as much as people do, they are not brainless, they are greedy. By torturing the man, they get money, the entire system can extort money from them. That's why it's done
Arranged marriage were actually arranged through known families and not online connections. The word evolving is used in a different context whereas evolving means for any frivolous reason people are filing for divorce and laws are allowing separations. All the constant social modifications have been on taking the women out of their responsibilities and living a life as per their whims and fancies. No one has the guts to accept these detrimental changes being constantly thrown into the society. All Modernised women are feminist to different extent. All separated couples are infinitely unhappy from inside till they die. I have dealt with many people in my meditation classes in Europe and I know what is the end result. This is the result of lawless extremely materialistic and irresponsible society. Government which is majorly made up of uneducated power hungry politicians is there to blame for letting this cancer spread in the society. Divided society benefits them.
Families are the core of a nation , when you poison the characteristic of a marriage either through cruelty, falsehood, adultery or through legal means , you can easily break a nation gradually over a decade..
Underrated comment. India will be destroyed in a decade or lesser with this new laws. Those who support this biased law even those fake feminists will see what will happen to the future of this country
Praying our indian people take marriage seriously and just not do it to extract most monetary benefits from their spouse..become a self independent, caring and a loving partner. These wordly pleasures & social media are ruining your marriage. I have also observed this we women Don't want to get a tag of divorcee and are emotionally vulnerable 😢
Life is nowadays fast food live short enjoy with many bodies and die early woman's love destruction today most false cases are on man killing them slowly in process
I'm telling you this, only women can solve this problem. The issue is with weak men, who are in thousands in our generation. Until good women openly start supporting men when they are given the raw end of the deal, it won't change. Men cannot do this, only women can make it happen because the govt listens to what women voters want, not what men voters want, as it is easy to win women's vote.
Divorce rate is increasing since empowerment has been implemented.....and marriage survival rate is collapsing....No interest and zeal to lead life in togetherness......Nowadays there is a new trend to stay alone and stay with freedom.... its better, growing children should be taught to manage their life by themselves.... Institution of Marriage is being reduced to shambles.....
I don't think it will happen law cannot be different for rich and poor, educate and uneducated. India has too much diversity for a common law. Listen to what the lawyer said
Triple talaq was not a bad idea, it was just discriminatory. Government should give this facility to all indian adult citizens irrespective of gender and faith.
If that is done then Indian ethos will need to change. Our country is pro marriage that's why divorce is not as easy and pre-nups are not allowed legally. If divorces are made easier then it will affect inheritance, maintenance, and pre-nups and UCC for all kinds of marriage. Till date we have different kinds of marriage accepted and they have different rules, like a wife in Indore was ordered by the district court to apply sindoor as per Hindu tradition because she was married by Hindu tradition. A Muslim woman for example will not be ordered the same thing. So what you are asking is to make divorce easier but that will involve a lot of changes to various laws and social ethos, not an easy thing and definitely can't be done anytime soon.
498a ,dv act and rape on false promise of marriage are among the most misused law in india. But our govt is silent on this issue...Recently SC ask centre to make reform in 498a and dv act...but still no response from government...
In India adultery infidelity is legal, live-in is legal but still someone is saying divorce will not increase how is that?? Laws are partil towards women... maintenance n alimony laws should be amended from time to time....at last from indian society culture values live-in should be banned in all form
Yes please bring back adultery as crime. I lost my life. Ours was a beautyfull married life with small fights only. Hus started a company and girl joined as cordinator. They used to go to meetings and they went for physical relationship also. Iam shattered. I couldn't goto higherstudiies or have to leave high paid job i got in Dubai for him. Now i can't see him same aas before bcz im shattered now. Now they are blaiming me for telling this to family. I lost everything my careeer family life and all.
Why do all podcasts now only give half baked information? Adv Bol rahin hai 7-8 saal ladne ke baad alimony milti hai, interim maintenance ka kya jo day 1 decide hoti hai?
@@amritanurie4885 kusha is an influencer and actress so she needs to be dramatic. An interviewer has to be a good listener. With a good set of questions
@@ShivMathur there is no trust in society itself. This is kali yuga. We need CCTV cameras everywhere now. Even bodycams. Now don't tell me to commit suici&e. Yes, there is no trust. Can we all die
When times have changed why the divorce law's still are not changed? Equality of both Men and Women must be brought. Mens right commission must be brought too.
Women if you decide to leave a man then don't take his money, have some self respect, if kids are with you still don't ask for money if he doesn't volunteer to give money for his kids. Your kids may witness a loser in father but a hero in their mom. Be strong girls! A man who doesn't value you, he doesn't deserve a family.
No. Yeh fake Saint banne ki zaroorat nahin. Bachhe Uske bhi Hain. Paise to dene padenge usko. And if a girls career and life has taken a setback the. Also he will pay. Duniya practicality pe chalti. Nahin to tameez se shaadi nibhaane ko bolo aadmi ko.
@@googly83inNo, 50-50 custody do dono ko. Koi paise ki transfer in the name of child support is not nessesary after that. Child support is only valid if the children are given to one parent. And the case of "dhang se shadi nibhane bolo usko", ladki ko bhi bolo ye baat, wo jyada divorce karti hai, ladke nahi.
@@googly83inohh sati Savitri. aaj kal ladkiyan kaise shadi nivati hain bahut achhe se malum hai mujhe. Boyfriend se maje leti hain aur pati se maintenance leti hain
@@wowser2153 So, you're in favour of taking kids away from the man? Also, if child support is to be made, the woman who gets it must provide receipts of where the money was spent. Also, the usage of child support money must be first agreed upon by both the parents, the woman should not be the only one making the decisions by taking the money from the man. If you have any problem with this, please provide any alternative solution which is FAIR TO THE MAN AS WELL.
Fix the maintenance upto 5 years or less than.... Why life long....are Gents labourers.... Actually there father has to bear bcoz gave birth.... But not husband na....
❤.mam very best interview on divorces and others severals topic also.all questions reliable to social justice and increasingly divorces matters.so very good interview lots of love and good wishes to better future.very handsome look cute and hot.see you again👌🏻👍💋🙏
@@ridhamatri9447 Get a better partner is all I would say. No one has to tolerate anybody’s bullshit. It happens only when a man chooses a wrong women OR he falls for her when he is weak. Never depend on anyone to make you feel happy.
I just came after watching a video where they were fighting in the court for maintenance for a wife where the argument was she is paying 1.5 lakh in rent and has nothing to eat 😂 Bro the Indian law is a joke
Regarding the first 5minutes of talk, it is shocking that one person can block their partner from giving divorce and preventing them from moving on with their life. Alimony, Child custody can be dragged but if divorce case itself is dragged for years/decades then how can the partner marry someone else. Years of his life wasted. Justice delayed is justice denied. Also, if courts expect people to be honest about the income details of a person during maintenance/alimony issues, then Prenup should also be unambiguously legal isn't it?
38:40.... Child Custody 50:43......... How come "an Alienated & Brainwashed" Child Mind can decide? And then why we have age of maturity as 18 years? मेरा बच्चा 3 महीने से 7 साल का हो गया....😢
Family law is sexist every where And conservative. Fathers are not considered parents, husbands loss in a divorce, cruelty towards men, dowry threats, mental cruelty towards men are never considered. Family law needs a complete overhaul or institution of marriage will fail more and more.
If the husband does adultery going outside, then the wife is also found in adultery with whom he gets in contact with her , who came to her from somewhere other places. In the earlier era, if men go out for earnings and he found himself in adultery. Then it's used to happen also that some other's wife used to be involve in adultery deliberately in the absence of her husband in the house. Now, who are going to checkout what's my wife is doing in the absence of me? And.. the real question is that ....... Why is a man seen always as a culprit in the first eyes? ☹️ do woman cannot adultery in the first eyes? ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
Marriages and married life are expensive. Adding to it Lovelessness is concern everywhere. Love means two individuals who don't want anything from each other. Each other's presence itself makes them goalless.
Good points. But all her examples are from outside India. Talking about Trusts, Prenups and Postnups. 😵💫😵💫All I infer is - Men, please don't get married. Even if you can take the risk of marriage, will your old parents be happy when you go through a messy divorce. All the years your case is in court, whole family goes through depression. Believe me, your parents would be wishing "isse achha to beta kunwara hi rehta.. saari zindagi"
i feel she's hding lot of facts to balance the argument. everyone know how much Indian wives have become cruel. i personally know many cases of male victim and none of case where female is victim
One big reason is wife is forced to live with in laws, and forced to give their salaries, do house hold work, leave their parents, and be a slave for in laws
Dear it is called being raised by parents who had ethics and not slavery. If you cannot support your in-laws who sacrificed their life to raise your husband then you are of no use and also worst then animals. And before preaching knowledge from your big brain apply this same logic on your mother and father then you will realise. Exception - Logic not applies on 4 legged animals
Actually these judges are confused themselves And are trying to balance out everything, that's why it has become confusing cruelity can be anything..... may be it can be a cruelity for husband but not for judge Everybody has its own bearing capacity Cruelity is being called out on the basis of the state of mind of judge... Not on husband's perspective So childish
There are laws for child support and alimony that are agreed upon by the court, but enforcing them is another matter because so many dynamics change over time especially if the partner is not making the same amount consistently throughout their lives how are you going to be able to keep running to court and keep asking for a review so often. It would only apply to people who are stable and consistent with their income. Otherwise it’s a huge problem.
As working women we can't attend court and waste our salary on court cases Why should we waste our hard earned time and money on courts n fighting stupid mindsett of people's ??? Govt must issue an auto divorce certificate of spouse without wasting single penny of people and monthsand times Stupid society
We want to stay together without divorce but I am getting unstable employment and not earning to her expectations so the child is not with her father mostly and my wife not with me in her house because of this reasons quote from past 10 years I also dont want any divorce what is the solution when she wants to stay in her house and keep my daughter and I don't want to fight unnecessarily
Unless language is simplified in judiciary system this business will continue till the end of kaliyugam. It has become easy to earn money by giving contradictory judgements with complex words example "MAY BE" which spoil entire carrier of the person.No strict orders.
Idiotic and biased: initially the speaker says alimony, child, child name, spouse (wife') name is all the rights of women. For the heck of argument: let's agree... What will same sec couple do with respect to name, surname, child, alimony etc,? Who and what will hold good wrt to all theses topics... Speaker talks all about women and later represents 2 gay men (irony of advocacy) Can we speak about the consequences of filing fake DV case against women?
When we have choices for multiple partners and polygamy system no one would like to compromise for even loud words. In Bharat culture we need to have only Bharat marriage act applicable for all. Parllel system are problematic.
Just remove....... maintenance from it Then look see, mazaa aa jayega Jo ladki shaadi se pehle bina job k reh sakti hai Talaak k time bhi same way reh sakti hai Fir bhi maintenance????
49:10 you said its wrong why ? she is marrying a high staus man , and joinning his family , if you dont know the thing then dont say , if man is rich then its not a problem , mukesh ambani wife doesn't give a f about it , she liked it because she is now billionare thanks to ambani surname , if she cant change name then , she has no rights to lands and money.
Why should only women leave her house? Why only she leave her surname and not man. Why should she name her child after him. Instead men should be doing this all..
@@hrishant100 अबे सोलहवी सदी के सड़े अंडे! दस साल पहले ले अपने पति को विदा करा के। करोड़ों में एक हैं। और हम बहुत खुश। और तो और मेरे पड़ोस में एक लड़की अपनी सास को भी अपने मायके ले आई, चार पांच साल हो गए बहुत खुश हैं। तुम बस गड्ढे में पड़े रहो।।
As a woman i think Educated women shd not depend on alimony, maybe they can take money if Husband has cheated, and they are more than 3-4 yrs old togather. Whats the point of newly wed/divorced getting alimony.
Why a husband should be forced to pay wife a maintenance and Alimony 😢😢😢For women,...My body my choice...😢For men also my money....my property 😢😢😢 why she should be given when she is able to earn...well educated and able body,..if it is so a husband should also get maintenance and Alimony if he not able to earn....When it is money.... husband money is mine..and when it comes to women property it's their streedhan😢😢😢very unequal law...😢😢😢
Divorce is freedom for someone from abuses. Indians seem to always interfer between husband and wife. Women are mostly expected to work for husband family (out of love/ society) .
the lady talked about women rights very proudly but she did not talk about women responsibilities when it comes to maintain herself after divorce... if everything in marriage is choice then it must be on both sides... if a girl has her choice to do what she wants in a marriage then a man must also have choice to whether maintain his wife, would it be right?
Men filing for divorce is lot less than women .. obviously bcz men have to give maintenance, and alimony...just see if laws change..men ll file double divorces
This proves you don't understand relationships. Men already pay for their wives during marriage. So they already accept these terms. Women will continue to file cases and even false accusations as long as it goes unpunished
@@prateekmehndiratta1596 when? In which ritual? If you are talking about men paying after marriage every month from their salary. Then let me tell you some men don't pay anything to their wife in their lifetime. Also wives used to do household chores and take care of children in the home so men should pay their wives when men are being paid by their employers for works they are doing outside home.
Whatever you are talking, is it good that so many divorces are happening. What is the cause of divorce. Divorce is a crime and no one should be justifying it. The reason for divorce needs to be understood and accepted and root cause should be resolved rather than allowing free will. No divorcees are happy. Look at the Western society what’s happened to them. We are letting it happen here too
This is to be explained to the judiciary foremost. Not common people. You are correct. But the case here is of warning people of the consequences, not to break apart institution of marraige. Judiciary and laws have broken that.
Indian girks should not jump into marriage and produce children imnediately instead concentraye on career development. Gettind married and producing children no longer viable in India as India has become very very costlier and in cities yravelking also takes mot of time. If required Indians shoulg go for livin relation atleast for 5 years.
Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
Please have the entire conversation in English,,,suddenly hindhi comes in and we are not able to understand,,,,u will lose subscribers,,program was interesting but,,, ,it was loosing the flow because of the sudden change in language
Mam mujhe to phansa k Mumbai chembur ki poori family destry ka rrhi hai paise mang rhe hai meri life hel kar rhe hain matter itna hai ki Paisa mang rhe hai jo main nhi de sakte 1 week ka arrange maarrige and she refused to .congumate whole family extorting money to get separated
Let the husband return all the money that he has siphoned away via joint account; property that gets registered in his name only where more than 80% is paid by the wife ...all expenses borne by the wife...
If a female do Adultery she still get maintenance/ Alomeny which is also cruelty against men.
And second thing if that child is not husband why he maintain that child looks like our courts are brain less.
The courts and judges are wicked and hate men .
marxist people are pushing these trash
True. Also, cyber crime police in India is not legally responsible for retrieving deleted WhatsApp Messages. How can the man get proofs?
Even if a man catches the wife redhanded, the first instinct would be to scold her and then apply for divorce. Not to open camera and record video. Unless the man is cunning. So how can man get proofs in such a situation. Cyber crime police in India should be made legally responsible for retrieving deleted WhatsApp Messages in extramarital affair related divorce cases.
Yeah but these rules are made by men. So be a happy pessimistic and wait, we will reach the same condition what west is facing and eventually society will crumble, that day we will see what men who are angry, frustrated and hopeless with week mind can actually do.
@@firstpostcommenter8078 whatsapp messages can't be retrieved because it's end to end encrypted ...So no one can even retreieve it even whatsapp itself...
What a meaningful conversation about divorce and other family law issues! I am very glad I chanced upon it. Geeta Luthra explains complex matters so simply and effectively, I feel sure that lots of people will gain not just information, but also food for thought. Bani's interventions and questions are also intelligent and to the point. Well done!!
I m 38 divorced from mumbai. My wife used my body, my money n drained me emotionally. Daily arguments, no work at home, no respect, no financial contribution, no true love and threat me every day and doubts on me and had eye on my money and property.
Best solution is to stop marriage, no kids and stay stress free life with lovely pets and parents. kids after some age don't stay with parents to look after in old age
Used ur body 😂how???
Stay single and celibate. India is the most populated country in the world.
@@domesticviolence8560 overpopulated becoz of up bihar mp hindi States
@@Jungle_boy123bewokuuf!
@@Jungle_boy123he must be having 6 packs body😂😂😂😂
Host is good in terms of asking right questions, and the advocate is experienced, intelligent and a good speaker.
After a very long time, I have watched the 1 hr+ video completely.
Just one suggestion - please try to do similar podcasts end to end in hindi for the wider reach. Thanks.
Very knowledgeable. I could feel an empowered women in her
Remove maintenance and alimony from her matrimonial cases. And you'll see a sharp decrease in divorce cases. We can't call a marriage sacred and a game of extorting 'just money' from the males.
Also, does same-sex marriage mean that if America is puking idiotically after drinking too much? Indians should also and it is ok. Why we are having inspiration from USA? Don't we have our own brain?
Also, marriage means money exchange. Earlier, it was wrongfully done in the form of dowry, now, it is wrongfully done in the form of maintenance. So, Money = marriage. No gender is doing any charity while marrying.
Guys will start giving divorce then. It will increase the rates from other side and women will suffer. There needs to be a balance
Give your lady a freedom to earn without any liability she will not claim maintenace from u be ready to treat urself like European man
Extortion 🤔
Need AI to assist lawyers and judges.
Everyone can't distribute their own brand of justice
True
She fought and win Anubhav Mohanty case respect from Oddisa.
Today's relationships are materialistic. 💔 Marriage is a defunct institution. 💔 Stay single stay happy. 🙏
LOL 7 janam ka rishta hai Hinduism me.
Wonderful thought. I hope you will not change your thoughts later.
@@rinkukumar-tk8jm Of course not.
Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.
Just marry your hand and Stay single stay happy
Dear single, your comment seems to make great sense.
My ex was far too childish to be a good mother or a wife. She would play mental games with everyone all the time. Barely took care of our son. Had an affair finally I had to divorce her and lose 50L but it was worth it. I am free now, son is doing well. Life is short, it's better to take care of your parents, siblings and yourself than believe in having a happy marriage.
Parents aren’t doing a good job raising daughters any more.
@@PhilipTikka yes, parents these days arent raising good sons anymore.
Million $ques is that who has the Son's custody
@@vishwajeetdubey6475 sons lives with me, he got into IIT this year.
@@asofotida443 Congratulations Bro, thank god both of you got out🙏,
BTW she was a very heartless mother 👎
A man sacrifices his happiness for his family.
A woman sacrifices her family for her happiness.
Poor guy, hope you aren't married, or dont have plans to marry. No woman will be happy with someone with this mindset☹️
@@athensmajnoo3661 it seems you don't understand what is written.....
@@satveerrudra8424 Please explain it for me.
@@athensmajnoo3661 a woman is an emotional creature. No matter how good the husband is she will leave him if she not feeling happy. On top of that she will take half of his property, make him pay alimony...Not to forget she will do character assassination, file false allegations.....
@@athensmajnoo3661 a woman is an emotional creature. No matter what how good the husband is she will divorce him if she is not feeling happy. She only cares about her happiness...
Paternity test should be legalised. Court thinks every wrongs r don by men only. I don't know when will this indian injuciary system be judiciary.
True
As long as money is involved, never. Courts know the reality as much as people do, they are not brainless, they are greedy. By torturing the man, they get money, the entire system can extort money from them. That's why it's done
Arranged marriage were actually arranged through known families and not online connections. The word evolving is used in a different context whereas evolving means for any frivolous reason people are filing for divorce and laws are allowing separations. All the constant social modifications have been on taking the women out of their responsibilities and living a life as per their whims and fancies. No one has the guts to accept these detrimental changes being constantly thrown into the society. All Modernised women are feminist to different extent. All separated couples are infinitely unhappy from inside till they die. I have dealt with many people in my meditation classes in Europe and I know what is the end result. This is the result of lawless extremely materialistic and irresponsible society. Government which is majorly made up of uneducated power hungry politicians is there to blame for letting this cancer spread in the society. Divided society benefits them.
Very True 😢
truth
Families are the core of a nation , when you poison the characteristic of a marriage either through cruelty, falsehood, adultery or through legal means , you can easily break a nation gradually over a decade..
Formal plus Spiritual Education is the core of nation.
@@aapbeete9761 and who teaches them to a child at the begining ?
@@honestpetvideos9307 parents
Which circles back to the original post lol
Underrated comment. India will be destroyed in a decade or lesser with this new laws. Those who support this biased law even those fake feminists will see what will happen to the future of this country
Marriage Strike is best option to Indian Men to live peacefully and avoid alimony scams.
Applies only when someone wants to marry you !
@@inspiringyou5642 yeah true
@@inspiringyou5642 better worry about yourself.
@@inspiringyou5642femcel
@@inspiringyou5642 femcel ☕
Praying our indian people take marriage seriously and just not do it to extract most monetary benefits from their spouse..become a self independent, caring and a loving partner. These wordly pleasures & social media are ruining your marriage. I have also observed this we women Don't want to get a tag of divorcee and are emotionally vulnerable 😢
Finally a sensible comment, instead blaming another gender ☺️🙏
Life is nowadays fast food live short enjoy with many bodies and die early woman's love destruction today most false cases are on man killing them slowly in process
I'm telling you this, only women can solve this problem. The issue is with weak men, who are in thousands in our generation. Until good women openly start supporting men when they are given the raw end of the deal, it won't change. Men cannot do this, only women can make it happen because the govt listens to what women voters want, not what men voters want, as it is easy to win women's vote.
1:12:11 amazing discussion, got a new perspective of looking at divorce/dissolution of a relationship. Thanks to you 2!!
We’re glad you liked it. More soon!
Social media is the biggest cause
Amazing interview. Happy to hear Geeta Ji’s progressive views towards same sex marriage
Prevention is better than cure. No marriage = no divorce
Absolutely
Yes, none of us would be commenting here if our parents thought the same
@@athensmajnoo3661
The laws were different those days.
@@quanttools3302 there was no law to punish people whoo didnt marry, right?
Everyone should marry atleast once. It teaches us the value of freedom.
That was a beautiful conversation. Structured and Lucid.
Divorce rate is increasing since empowerment has been implemented.....and marriage survival rate is collapsing....No interest and zeal to lead life in togetherness......Nowadays there is a new trend to stay alone and stay with freedom.... its better, growing children should be taught to manage their life by themselves.... Institution of Marriage is being reduced to shambles.....
Prenuptial agreement should be legal and must be signed in each and every marriage. So one cannot use other to become richer.
Pre nups are not legal in India. Hope they are legalised soon.
I don't think it will happen law cannot be different for rich and poor, educate and uneducated. India has too much diversity for a common law. Listen to what the lawyer said
very useful conversation,🎉
Bcz adultry is not a crime now.
Thanks! Very informative.
Its not 'die-vorce', it's 'dee-vorce'.
About 400/500 years there were no surnames that even children inherited
Marriage is one of the basic reason for divorce . Where there is no marriage, there is no divorce 😁😁😁😁
What about kids?
@@athensmajnoo3661 kids are because of marriages, where there is no marriage, there is no kids😁😁😁😁
@@beingfithumane kids get produced even without marriage...... how old are you???
@@athensmajnoo3661 then produce, I am talking about marriage and divorce, you are involving kids 😁😁😁
@@beingfithumane yeh, because none of us would be commenting here if our parents thought the same🤣🤣
Triple talaq was not a bad idea, it was just discriminatory. Government should give this facility to all indian adult citizens irrespective of gender and faith.
Exactly
Exactly
Interesting view.
If that is done then Indian ethos will need to change. Our country is pro marriage that's why divorce is not as easy and pre-nups are not allowed legally. If divorces are made easier then it will affect inheritance, maintenance, and pre-nups and UCC for all kinds of marriage. Till date we have different kinds of marriage accepted and they have different rules, like a wife in Indore was ordered by the district court to apply sindoor as per Hindu tradition because she was married by Hindu tradition. A Muslim woman for example will not be ordered the same thing.
So what you are asking is to make divorce easier but that will involve a lot of changes to various laws and social ethos, not an easy thing and definitely can't be done anytime soon.
@@meghasanyal4861they didn't care about Indian ethos when they create those divorce laws which only favours women.
498a ,dv act and rape on false promise of marriage are among the most misused law in india.
But our govt is silent on this issue...Recently SC ask centre to make reform in 498a and dv act...but still no response from government...
In India adultery infidelity is legal, live-in is legal but still someone is saying divorce will not increase how is that?? Laws are partil towards women... maintenance n alimony laws should be amended from time to time....at last from indian society culture values live-in should be banned in all form
Yes please bring back adultery as crime. I lost my life. Ours was a beautyfull married life with small fights only. Hus started a company and girl joined as cordinator. They used to go to meetings and they went for physical relationship also. Iam shattered. I couldn't goto higherstudiies or have to leave high paid job i got in Dubai for him. Now i can't see him same aas before bcz im shattered now. Now they are blaiming me for telling this to family. I lost everything my careeer family life and all.
@@eeza143that is too bad, hope you get justice one day.
Go out and find a job, dont depend on your husband who is a cheater.
Why do all podcasts now only give half baked information? Adv Bol rahin hai 7-8 saal ladne ke baad alimony milti hai, interim maintenance ka kya jo day 1 decide hoti hai?
Vo nahi bolegi kyuki usko customer chahiye lakho me fees legi Ghar todne ka
The anchor’s style of talking is a bit like Kusha Kapila… she also resembles her a bit
Except she's a much better and grounded person compared to kusha Kapila.
Except she's a much better and much more grounded person compared to kusha Kapila.
She was cheating on her husband. That's why her husband took divorce from her.
@@amritanurie4885 kusha is an influencer and actress so she needs to be dramatic. An interviewer has to be a good listener. With a good set of questions
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Progressive has been constantly used for wrong reasons. Prenup is built on mistrust.
Pre-nuptial agreements are needed today. You can't trust anyone
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 if there is no trust then don’t marry only. Trust less relationships are meaningless
@@ShivMathur there is no trust in society itself. This is kali yuga. We need CCTV cameras everywhere now. Even bodycams. Now don't tell me to commit suici&e. Yes, there is no trust. Can we all die
@@ShivMathurtell that to women. If they don't want to fullfill role of a wife then don't marry and divorce later.
@@ShivMathurby that logic divorce, insurance or any such things shouldn't have been existing
Appreciate the subtitles!
When times have changed why the divorce law's still are not changed? Equality of both Men and Women must be brought. Mens right commission must be brought too.
Women if you decide to leave a man then don't take his money, have some self respect, if kids are with you still don't ask for money if he doesn't volunteer to give money for his kids. Your kids may witness a loser in father but a hero in their mom. Be strong girls! A man who doesn't value you, he doesn't deserve a family.
No. Yeh fake Saint banne ki zaroorat nahin. Bachhe Uske bhi Hain. Paise to dene padenge usko. And if a girls career and life has taken a setback the. Also he will pay. Duniya practicality pe chalti. Nahin to tameez se shaadi nibhaane ko bolo aadmi ko.
@@googly83inNo, 50-50 custody do dono ko. Koi paise ki transfer in the name of child support is not nessesary after that. Child support is only valid if the children are given to one parent.
And the case of "dhang se shadi nibhane bolo usko", ladki ko bhi bolo ye baat, wo jyada divorce karti hai, ladke nahi.
@@googly83inohh sati Savitri. aaj kal ladkiyan kaise shadi nivati hain bahut achhe se malum hai mujhe. Boyfriend se maje leti hain aur pati se maintenance leti hain
@@gonnacry4513what 50-50 . You think both live in same town or neighborhood ??
@@wowser2153 So, you're in favour of taking kids away from the man?
Also, if child support is to be made, the woman who gets it must provide receipts of where the money was spent. Also, the usage of child support money must be first agreed upon by both the parents, the woman should not be the only one making the decisions by taking the money from the man.
If you have any problem with this, please provide any alternative solution which is FAIR TO THE MAN AS WELL.
First divorce interview which talked about surname issue n other imp things.
When women talk does it always have to be extremely partial/baised towards women?
It kills the trust for such kind of people.
Stay single.
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Fix the maintenance upto 5 years or less than.... Why life long....are Gents labourers.... Actually there father has to bear bcoz gave birth.... But not husband na....
❤.mam very best interview on divorces and others severals topic also.all questions reliable to social justice and increasingly divorces matters.so very good interview lots of love and good wishes to better future.very handsome look cute and hot.see you again👌🏻👍💋🙏
Divorce is an amazing things for tragic or incompatible or dangerous union. I don’t think it’s a food thing otherwise.
Two Words-
WESTERN CULTURE
@@nooneknowstheactualtruth men are not getting self centred and they are still tolerating all the bullshit of alimony and gender biased laws.
@@nooneknowstheactualtruth but men are still tolerating all the bullshit 🙂
@@ridhamatri9447 Get a better partner is all I would say. No one has to tolerate anybody’s bullshit. It happens only when a man chooses a wrong women OR he falls for her when he is weak. Never depend on anyone to make you feel happy.
Really? In a patriarchal society? And men go crying cruelty when asked to live separately from parents. Fuckin grow up
No, laws and justice. Those are the two words you should look at.
Maintenance is the root cause of divorces in India. Men are harassed by women only for maintenance and alimony mostly.
Make marriage easy.
Make no question divorce and easy.
Don't criminalise institution of marriage...
There is no alimony
Lawyers made law , lawyers extort money , lawyers get rich😂
Why you go lawyer then
Law toh Legislative hi banayenge bhai🙂👍
@@arkapravade7234 yes but most of them who frames laws are lawyers in the legislative assembly ,it is not like modi ji personally making these laws
I just came after watching a video where they were fighting in the court for maintenance for a wife where the argument was she is paying 1.5 lakh in rent and has nothing to eat 😂
Bro the Indian law is a joke
Regarding the first 5minutes of talk, it is shocking that one person can block their partner from giving divorce and preventing them from moving on with their life.
Alimony, Child custody can be dragged but if divorce case itself is dragged for years/decades then how can the partner marry someone else. Years of his life wasted. Justice delayed is justice denied.
Also, if courts expect people to be honest about the income details of a person during maintenance/alimony issues, then Prenup should also be unambiguously legal isn't it?
38:40.... Child Custody
50:43......... How come "an Alienated & Brainwashed" Child Mind can decide? And then why we have age of maturity as 18 years?
मेरा बच्चा 3 महीने से 7 साल का हो गया....😢
Family law is sexist every where And conservative. Fathers are not considered parents, husbands loss in a divorce, cruelty towards men, dowry threats, mental cruelty towards men are never considered.
Family law needs a complete overhaul or institution of marriage will fail more and more.
If the husband does adultery going outside, then the wife is also found in adultery with whom he gets in contact with her , who came to her from somewhere other places.
In the earlier era, if men go out for earnings and he found himself in adultery. Then it's used to happen also that some other's wife used to be involve in adultery deliberately in the absence of her husband in the house.
Now, who are going to checkout what's my wife is doing in the absence of me? And.. the real question is that .......
Why is a man seen always as a culprit in the first eyes? ☹️ do woman cannot adultery in the first eyes? ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
Because pr#stitution exists and mainly caters to the males. So it dosent have to be somebody else’s wife. Simple.
Greeds of huge Alimony and maintenance, free from responsibilities are cause divorce.
Kyuki live in relationship ab crime nahi h , is par fine or saja honi chahiye
Marriages and married life are expensive. Adding to it Lovelessness is concern everywhere. Love means two individuals who don't want anything from each other. Each other's presence itself makes them goalless.
Because just like developed nations , education and earning power of women are increasing resulting in intolerance for crap
That is one thing men should learn from modern women.
@@Home-o2v4hplaying victim and made gender biased laws?
@@Rebellgamers no.....men should learn to not tolerate bullsh!t or nonsense and they should walk away.
@@Home-o2v4h Exactly
still they need alimony
Good points. But all her examples are from outside India. Talking about Trusts, Prenups and Postnups.
😵💫😵💫All I infer is - Men, please don't get married. Even if you can take the risk of marriage, will your old parents be happy when you go through a messy divorce. All the years your case is in court, whole family goes through depression.
Believe me, your parents would be wishing "isse achha to beta kunwara hi rehta.. saari zindagi"
Basically u need to punish based on wrong side. But judiciary don't do it. So marriage is gone due to family acts
#justiceisdue.....😢😢😢We need Gender neutral law😢😢😢😢. Alimony and maintenance are main cause of increasing rate of diavorce😢😢😢...
i feel she's hding lot of facts to balance the argument. everyone know how much Indian wives have become cruel. i personally know many cases of male victim and none of case where female is victim
Madam please advice Indians to go for livein relationships and see compatabity for 5 years.
इसी livein ने तो देश का नाश कर रखा है अभी और बढ़ावा दो
One big reason is wife is forced to live with in laws, and forced to give their salaries, do house hold work, leave their parents, and be a slave for in laws
where it is written ? give reference
Dear it is called being raised by parents who had ethics and not slavery. If you cannot support your in-laws who sacrificed their life to raise your husband then you are of no use and also worst then animals. And before preaching knowledge from your big brain apply this same logic on your mother and father then you will realise. Exception - Logic not applies on 4 legged animals
Actually these judges are confused themselves
And are trying to balance out everything, that's why it has become confusing
cruelity can be anything..... may be it can be a cruelity for husband but not for judge
Everybody has its own bearing capacity
Cruelity is being called out on the basis of the state of mind of judge...
Not on husband's perspective
So childish
We need sharia law. I am Hindu though. Especially, for marriage.
There are laws for child support and alimony that are agreed upon by the court, but enforcing them is another matter because so many dynamics change over time especially if the partner is not making the same amount consistently throughout their lives how are you going to be able to keep running to court and keep asking for a review so often. It would only apply to people who are stable and consistent with their income. Otherwise it’s a huge problem.
As working women we can't attend court and waste our salary on court cases
Why should we waste our hard earned time and money on courts n fighting stupid mindsett of people's ???
Govt must issue an auto divorce certificate of spouse without wasting single penny of people and monthsand times
Stupid society
That can be done, also we need to remove the maintaince laws.
@@gonnacry4513maintenance can't be removed for sure
Why even get married in the first place?
@@themanwithnoname9578kyunki bhai.. Log GU चाटे बिना नहीं मानेंगे 😂
Why you beg maintenance or beg from male?
Why you take child with you ?
The only worrisome is when a mother careless ignorant and negligent of her own child.
We want to stay together without divorce but I am getting unstable employment and not earning to her expectations so the child is not with her father mostly and my wife not with me in her house because of this reasons quote from past 10 years I also dont want any divorce what is the solution when she wants to stay in her house and keep my daughter and I don't want to fight unnecessarily
Why does it look like that the laws are made by the rich and powerful for the poor and weak? Can either of the two empathise?
Unless language is simplified in judiciary system this business will continue till the end of kaliyugam. It has become easy to earn money by giving contradictory judgements with complex words example "MAY BE" which spoil entire carrier of the person.No strict orders.
Please koi bataye bache ka kya ho sakta hai, because father is not interested in child before birth now he is is living with another women.
Idiotic and biased: initially the speaker says alimony, child, child name, spouse (wife') name is all the rights of women.
For the heck of argument: let's agree...
What will same sec couple do with respect to name, surname, child, alimony etc,? Who and what will hold good wrt to all theses topics...
Speaker talks all about women and later represents 2 gay men (irony of advocacy)
Can we speak about the consequences of filing fake DV case against women?
When we have choices for multiple partners and polygamy system no one would like to compromise for even loud words. In Bharat culture we need to have only Bharat marriage act applicable for all. Parllel system are problematic.
Very serious and Bad happening in our society every one need tolerance but dont know why not thinking about the life should be Better
Is this an old interview??
Mam even trust are misused , esp if a third part is manage it , which in most cases. In American those third parties have done fraud in these trust.
Do not marry. Live free from these stresses
Just remove....... maintenance from it
Then look see, mazaa aa jayega
Jo ladki shaadi se pehle bina job k reh sakti hai
Talaak k time bhi same way reh sakti hai
Fir bhi maintenance????
49:10 you said its wrong why ? she is marrying a high staus man , and joinning his family , if you dont know the thing then dont say , if man is rich then its not a problem , mukesh ambani wife doesn't give a f about it , she liked it because she is now billionare thanks to ambani surname , if she cant change name then , she has no rights to lands and money.
Why should only women leave her house? Why only she leave her surname and not man.
Why should she name her child after him.
Instead men should be doing this all..
@ninanani4085 tum le jao... Le jaogii... Aukat hai...
@@hrishant100 अबे सोलहवी सदी के सड़े अंडे! दस साल पहले ले अपने पति को विदा करा के। करोड़ों में एक हैं। और हम बहुत खुश।
और तो और मेरे पड़ोस में एक लड़की अपनी सास को भी अपने मायके ले आई, चार पांच साल हो गए बहुत खुश हैं।
तुम बस गड्ढे में पड़े रहो।।
@@hrishant100 10 साल पहले ही ले आई। Gem of a Person। करोड़ों में एक. और हम बहुत खुश हैं।
अब खुश ? 😀 सोलहवीं सदी से present में आजा।
@@Ninanani-4085 tumhara dard to dikh rha hai.. jhutha khusi Aaj bhi 16vi satabadai wala hai.... Kya khak modern banoge tum log...
Judiciary is biased
At 24.05 it's totally insane. Women nowdays use the very law for profits that was made to to protest them.
As a woman i think Educated women shd not depend on alimony, maybe they can take money if Husband has cheated, and they are more than 3-4 yrs old togather.
Whats the point of newly wed/divorced getting alimony.
❤💋Geeta ji useful information.
Punished to lie nahi.... Punished to be married
All these issues are only for Hindu Marriage act..not for muslims
Why a husband should be forced to pay wife a maintenance and Alimony 😢😢😢For women,...My body my choice...😢For men also my money....my property 😢😢😢 why she should be given when she is able to earn...well educated and able body,..if it is so a husband should also get maintenance and Alimony if he not able to earn....When it is money.... husband money is mine..and when it comes to women property it's their streedhan😢😢😢very unequal law...😢😢😢
Please explain pre nuptial , most people are not aware in india
Simple, don't give any benefit to either parties for divorce. Tax both parties if they need divorce. Imthen it will decrease
Divorce is freedom for someone from abuses. Indians seem to always interfer between husband and wife. Women are mostly expected to work for husband family (out of love/ society) .
Seriously rightly said.....
Tax both of them...... no matter what
The anchor is trying to get out the issues on which couples fight
Nowadays, marriage has become a business model all because of practice of law but not by law that is why the divorce numbers r increasing
the lady talked about women rights very proudly but she did not talk about women responsibilities when it comes to maintain herself after divorce... if everything in marriage is choice then it must be on both sides... if a girl has her choice to do what she wants in a marriage then a man must also have choice to whether maintain his wife, would it be right?
Men filing for divorce is lot less than women .. obviously bcz men have to give maintenance, and alimony...just see if laws change..men ll file double divorces
I disagree with the logic. The very first person who moves to court (matrimonial cases) are Women, almost 70%+.
This proves you don't understand relationships. Men already pay for their wives during marriage. So they already accept these terms.
Women will continue to file cases and even false accusations as long as it goes unpunished
@@AzaeZel-r4u when did men pay their wives during marriage?
Always @@abcd-hj8kc
@@prateekmehndiratta1596 when? In which ritual? If you are talking about men paying after marriage every month from their salary. Then let me tell you some men don't pay anything to their wife in their lifetime. Also wives used to do household chores and take care of children in the home so men should pay their wives when men are being paid by their employers for works they are doing outside home.
Whatever you are talking, is it good that so many divorces are happening. What is the cause of divorce. Divorce is a crime and no one should be justifying it. The reason for divorce needs to be understood and accepted and root cause should be resolved rather than allowing free will. No divorcees are happy. Look at the Western society what’s happened to them. We are letting it happen here too
This is to be explained to the judiciary foremost. Not common people. You are correct. But the case here is of warning people of the consequences, not to break apart institution of marraige.
Judiciary and laws have broken that.
Thanks for this ,howtodivorce a narsist
Jaise hi case aate hai sub logo ki income ZERO ho jaati hai.. Very true😂😂😂👌🏻👍🏻
Indian girks should not jump into marriage and produce children imnediately instead concentraye on career development. Gettind married and producing children no longer viable in India as India has become very very costlier and in cities yravelking also takes mot of time. If required Indians shoulg go for livin relation atleast for 5 years.
Waise bhi aaj ke zamane me गाय पालने ki koi zarurat nahi hai.. Bahut saare Dairy farm खुले hua hai... Baas bahut saara MAAL hone चाहिए पास me..phir to kam chal चल hi जाएगा.. 😅😅😅
What if the wife does cruelty with the husband? What's the remedy?
Solution is selling fan😂
Please have the entire conversation in English,,,suddenly hindhi comes in and we are not able to understand,,,,u will lose subscribers,,program was interesting but,,, ,it was loosing the flow because of the sudden change in language
Mam mujhe to phansa k Mumbai chembur ki poori family destry ka rrhi hai paise mang rhe hai meri life hel kar rhe hain matter itna hai ki Paisa mang rhe hai jo main nhi de sakte 1 week ka arrange maarrige and she refused to .congumate whole family extorting money to get separated
Let the husband return all the money that he has siphoned away via joint account; property that gets registered in his name only where more than 80% is paid by the wife ...all expenses borne by the wife...