🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
@@mrscarter6279 if she is divorce, the ex-husband is still responsible to pay at-least child support & may spousal support. Where is the father of these children & why is he not financially contributing? 🤔
I just find it hard to believe that when a mother leaves she’s deemed as not ready or not fit but when the father leaves he’s deemed as an automatic dead beat father
My thing is what’s the point of leaving ?? I mean if the relationship had issues cool but it was all love and cum when they layed up ⬆️ now a baby get involved people want to disown each other it don’t make no sense! A mom can be a dead beat while having her kids and a dad can be a dead beat while having there kids by not giving a flying flip what your kids are doing , how your kids are feeling, people are using that dead beat term wrong in my eyes .
Why does birth control even exist, seems like a waste of time if women don't actually use it when having sex with bums who have no interest in being fathers? I should know my father is a drug addict who is currently in prison.
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫
Why don’t they tell the whole story? They have no idea about this woman’s history, credit rating, or why she has five kids in the first place if she can afford it. Again the news media not doing their job!
Can I get an Amen to this comment because I have never been without employment/ income 😅 A lot of people assume that because someone is a single parent, they are sitting home.
So you don't have any kids I hope and not married. Stop being disrespectful and trolling. Stop the racism because if she wasn't black you wouldn't waste your time. Respect black women. They don't disrespect you all. This ish getting outta hand
@UCFMXqk7fLnaehKdtcdmdQ8g this hefer is trolling, she's in everybody comment section saying something about race. She don't even know if they white or black. 😒
@@nicoyablackmon7004 stop playing the victim card Marriage exists so that women don't suffer and have a support structure. It also gives responsibility to fathers but you have degraded and thrown marriage out of the window and decided to sleep with people who are low life's. Will you women ever take responsibility for your choices?
First, women should have children with better partners instead of deadbeats. Second, have children if you're financially secure. Third, how do you gett to have 5 kids??? That's some serious irresponsibility right there.
@@rolandserna7805 🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
Well i guess pick better partners to reproduce with? and don't have a second or third child if you're struggling to take care of the first one? 🤷 just a thought
Are you serious? She’s all alone and caring for these kids with no help. Maybe if men learned how to use condoms or idk... stay and man up and be a father and in your words- “take responsibility” for THEIR CHILDREN she wouldn’t be in this mess. Really appalling how you can place all the blame on her and judge someone when they’re in such a sad situation...
@@jesslynne I agree that the father is as responsible as the mother. My problem is with the mother as well. If the father has not voluntarily engaged himself in helping with his children, why have the mother not filed for court ordered child support from him? 🤔
@@jesslynne They don't use condoms because they trust women with birth control. A foolish notion to be sure. But this happened 5 times at least. The woman knew she had no birth control or a marketable skill, and you claim she has no responsibility.
Life hits you hard I have four kids made some real bad life choices I'm only hanging in here for my kids. People don't know I'm struggling I keep my babies well feed, well clothed, they're all so smart I always take time to read with them and teach them new things, they're all in school, I keep up with my children, I may not have everything I need for myself and I am fine with that as long as my children don't go without that's all I care about. I love doing it it's what I'm supposed to do anyway as their parent. I hope people watch this and read what I am saying and take it as a warning to not have kids too soon. Get your life in order set yourself up to always win. If my mom wasn't dying and sick I'd have so much more support life can throw so much at you. Don't be irresponsible like I was do better for yourself. If you have children don't give up. You have to fight for the life you want for them and the life they deserve its a must.
This woman is one of the most selfish people I have seen. She knew her situation, yet she brought five children into it when not one of them asked to be here, and ABC is feeding her selfishness.
The govt has to be removed from the family equation in order to fix this. Remove welfare (section 8, child support, food stamps etc) and women will relearn to get MARRIED BEFORE YOU CARRY A CHILD. In this day and age the WOMAN has full say over if a child is born or not so IT IS THEIR FAULT when a kid is born. These bad decisions of having children without a MARRIAGE is incentivized by the govt throigh welfare and as long as the govt interferes this will only continue. This is by design
Marriage is just a piece of paper that doesn’t guarantee anything especially not a successful two parent household I’m quite sure you know that right?? If it did these programs might not have made it into existence.. I do agree, these programs are a trap/barrier to promote single parent households and poverty. However, with or without these programs their would still be unwed, single parent households and struggling families. I don’t think these women said let me have a child by a man that I know won’t be present so I can collect the meager government support they receive. I’ve yet to see a family live lavish off government assistance.
I don't think u know much about welfare, u made a couple of decent points but u should really look un the poverty guidelines, u have to be piss poor to get anything. I remember making $50,000 and I looked up the guidelines just for shits and giggles, and it said I could support ppl on my salary. In Texas you can't have more than 2, 000 worth of assets or you cannot get help. So basically in reinforces the notion of not pulling urself up by your boots straps like ppl say they want you to do. You either have to literally not work ar all, or work a little low paying job to get any help, not owe a car and have zero assets. Now how many ppl are really gonna do that? Oh yeah keep in mind wic/food stamps only pay for food, not soap, detergent, cleaning supplies, tissue, paper goods, etc. So again ppl made these simple ass statements like they know what their talking about but they don't even know how these programs work and how much of a hassle they are. Oh yeah don't forget the 10 year housing waiting lists. It's not that simple. I do think the welfare system should be totally revamped, simplified and should have time limits on it. Ppl shouldn't be penalized for having a job, and climbing out of poverty and I think should be able to get on and off of it when they need to instead of feeling they have to stay on it forever bc if they get off they will have a rough time of getting assistance again if they fall on hard times.
I complete agree. The government coddles women with all these government programs and transfers the consequences of their bad behavior to the rest of society. Broken homes, criminality, poverty, low child achievement, and other things are all detriments that could be minimized if the government was out of the picture.
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
I’m a single mother. My husband passed away from complications with type 2 diabetes. Does that mean I’m less than? - I swear some of the comments here are just rude.
🤍 We know there are is a multitude of different reasons for why a woman may find herself alone raising her children. It important we keep sharing our stories, even if they try to discredit them.
This is why you’re suppose to be married to a successful man before having children. If you have to send your children to stranger daycare, you messed up. Children should be with their mother full time.
Hon, u said a mouthful. I feel this and yet I'm crazy. If a woman's job at 7/11 really is bulk of income in house yes someone like me can tell u. Right now retail is making same or slight better than CNAs. I honestly don't wanna have kids bc Men mostly cannot meet that. Strange daycare is only hope postpone shelter till later in life. I seen a woman middle-aged..she had 4 kids 4 diff men bc each one hooked her by simply provide part of his money once in a while... Marriage don't protect u from dustmites
Lord the ignorance😂 Newsflash, a lot of successful parents have murdered, raped, sold, etc. their child/children. It has nothing to do with being a single or married individual. There are a lot of homeless married couples who are struggling. It just looks worse when it is a single parent. Let’s not forget the case with the so called perfect American family where the father killed his daughters at some oil rig or wherever it was. I’m just saying, don’t judge.
@@naturalwalker5407Amen marriage doesn’t guarantee anything just saying. Look at all these divorces I mean you just have to be ready for children period.
Cause family members see the bad decisions their family member makes and than she wants help for the situation she put herself in while strangers dont directly deal with the person their pitying
Because the family have had enough. Trust me you end up supporting them than your own kids yet they are a fully grown adult. You help them pay bills but your own child needs stuff. Then next month they f up again and ask for more support. Eventually you give up and focus on your child...Because at least it's a safe investment.
How she got into her situation does not help her at the moment...So those asking where, why, and how does not do this mother justice. The family was in a crisis and God delivered. None of us, whether we make good decisions or not are perfect. Never judge what is not on your plate and be careful of what you judge before it ends up on your plate. I wish this mother many blessings to cover her family. 🙏
How is the parent who choose to stay some how worse than the parent who left? I don’t understand the bashing of singles moms who are trying their best.
WHERE are the FATHERS at ? What, are they only around for the conceptions ? They are RESPONSIBLE for these children THEY created...put these guys in a damn jail for 21 years until the kid is a fully legal adult or castrate them !
But if the mother left everyone would say “ oh she’s not ready “ Or something like “ give her time she needs it “. But when the father leaves he’s an automatic dead beat lol make it make sense
Who the heck cares where the father is. People break up and move on, they have kids together. Stop bashing these black women and being a racist troll. Either help or gtf out the comment section.
@@chrisz8585 if she knows who the father is? If he not dope dealer or in jail? If he is a decent person, she should give the kid/kids to him. She is a poor decision maker, Right?
Thanks instead of being a d***k about it and laughing, they should wish her the best and pray for her. The disrespect the black woman has to encounter on an everyday basis is pathetic. Any other race doesn't get that disrespect and I can't understand why. What's the damn beef with black women? I just don't get it.
By definition of being human, we ALL suffered and we ALL struggled. Some of us managed to close our legs and put our dicks away until times were better. People like you and Nicoya Blackmon allow nonsense to continue by supporting this insanity instead of ending all of this BS with one kid, OR maybe being in a common relationship, or marriage (ha!). You send absurd support, the vast majority deal in facts and call her out on it. She probably got herself in this situation because of jerks like you backing it, until she's about to be crushed by her own weight. At the end of the day, BOTH of you aren't helping; and the rest of us refuse. We have own on problems (and it's not being a single mother of 5 kids).
Housing in America is out of reach for the working class. All basic needs especially housing and healthcare are non existent for single moms. Less and less family services available. We pay our taxes politicians dismantle social service programs yet they get the best healthcare and exclusive housing. God Bless single moms. Office workers are offered healthcare but physical labor jobs offer little or no healthcare or benefits at all.
So do single dad's gd.itd be nice if the media acknowledged the other half of human existence instead of always trying to trigger sexists and wackadoos w bias stories
@@SuccessfulladiesSoftLife and they exclude everyone else as usual.thats not diverse or even balanced.sad america's been turned backwards so easily by the media
@@BLACKTALKTODAY blm either.like where's the outcry against the single largest reason families are torn apart ? Then they basically sell the kids via foster care and nobody says defund them or defund cps.black fathers all fathers denied any parental rights beyond paying for the kids.society is fkd
1. Where is the father? Why isn't he helping, being responsible? 2. Should the news try and attempt to talk to the father/fathers and ask why they aren't taking responsibility? 3. Shouldn't the mom know better after having one kid? Should they say 'well maybe you should stop if you keep living like this?' 4. If you can't afford sex, don't do it. In the end your kids pay the price because of your decisions. It's no one's fault but theirs.
@@BossDogChillin The children suffer. Yes the man should be responsible but the burden eventually falls on mothers. Women think of yourself first. Family planning is key to staying out of the struggle. A good Mom doesn't bring children into a struggle. The women presenting this piece are not homeless living in the hood. Achieve stability in your life and then decide to bring children into the world. No one is talking about birth control. We deserve the life the reporter has and also the life of the woman who helps women secure housing. The very minimum is provided for Black women but they are living their best lives. Ask them about the choices they made that prevented them from struggling like mules, donkeys and oxen. Black women are born to struggle and work hard. That's a lie-your feet stink and you don't love Jesus. Not me! It's insulting to hear women believe they were meant to climb tall mountains as if we're Superman. We need to rethink our behaviors. Women are not meant to work like men. Think about that the next time you get pregnant without a hard working husband.
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
@Jennica O'Connor only whining because the whiners aren't recognizing the other half of whiners ...and they only said 80 percent is because women seek help before men do ..so I challenge that statistic...I thought we were supposed to be in equal positions...if so, why do women recieve more benefits than men??..is it because of my biological makeup??isn't that sexist???...I'm confused as to what the message we are really sending...maybe we shouldn't take care of people who make poor decisions over and over again...its called ENABLING...when you tell a woman that she dont need the father to be there because they will take of her..theres a huge problem with that...were sending the wrong message to people by doing that ...life has consequences and rewards for all of our choices we make...she would stop having kids if she had to figure out a way to take of them without assistance and by default due to the stresses of survival she would be extremely more cautious of who shes having kids with and when she has them ...pay attention to the systemic effects and QUIT WHINING
It's a shame that men leave the woman and kids to fend for themselves, been there done that once thoes kids start working They are going to bless that mom for sticking by them like my son does for me, I just know it.
Is it rude to wonder about the location of the men that impregnated these mothers, why are they not contributing to their care/well being, and most importantly why the mothers haven’t IMMEDIATELY filed for court ordered/enforced child support from those bums who have contributed to their children living in impoverishment?
The issue is you can help people like her, but on average but they still mess up. You should not be having that many kids if you yourself are not in the position to support them.
Her whole life was cause by her own hands from the men she chose to mate with, to her attitude that drove decent men away to a point they could no longer deal with the headache.
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
Walmart is just so generous. Have you been to one lately? 30 cash registers and only 1 is ever open, but 50 self checkout stations available. It's easy to pay $15 an hour when you plan on eliminating 80% of your work force and push them onto the gov't to support them. Workers advocating for $15 min wage don't realize they won't have a job when it passes. All by design
Brizuh K In GOV't We trust: Raise minimum wage: Lied! Forgive student debt: Lied! Everybody gets $2k: Lied! Elections were fair: Lies, your vote DON'T count! The sheeps are so gullible!
The problem is executives hoarding more money for their boards and for themselves. That's why automation is happening, to keep more money to themselves. It's wild we blame workers trying to survive and we don't scrutinize the executives making BILLIONS from starvation wages
@@blackwomanorangecat if you're employed legally you are paying taxes. The taxes she's paid in (for I'm guessing her whole life) is outstanding compared to the crap the government returns. I know this for fact.... I pay almost $200 every pay period and have since I was old enough to work and yet I can't get help. If I lost my job I'd be in the same position. Luckily, I still have a job. My hours were cut in half so I don't qualify for help but God forbid... I take pride in my work ethic but I will sacrifice my pride and ego to feed and house my children.
@@Believer_75 ok...again. she received help from a service that would have helped her from the beginning if she would have spoke up. Her teenage daughter had to speak up. I'm not blaming her. I'm just stating the facts.
Het ssi checks and unemployment checks and u can get paid to clean your own apartment u can rent 3 bedrooms get the snapcard u no food stamps u can get the faicet cover with the holes to save money on the water bill
Granted it was irresponsible to have this many kids, but she's working. She's trying. I hate when I see moms who are trying to work and have a career fall behind while other moms sit on their asses in luxury affordable housing. Help the working moms first
Psalm 127:3-5 Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate.
"Good nice guys" commit adultery, abuse their wives, refuse to provide, and walk away from their families everyday just like the overtly bad guys. Women aren't filing for divorce in droves because their husbands were wonderful people.
Christ alive lady, I'd have trust issues after the first baby daddy. It's like women are just incapable of realizing how easy it is to get pregnant and then abandoned. 😒
Young women need to be taught to vet potential fathers better. This is the education we need. Men should only be promoted to fathers when a woman has ensured they are able to hold down a job, provide a stable income and contribute to housing etc. Too many women have kids without any expectation on the father because they know the state will step in and play daddy. The more women can do this (and rely less on the state for support) the more money we have to spend on families where a parent has died/become ill etc and need help I feel for the kids. They all deserve better.
Want to resolve the single mother problems? Hold women accountable for their choices in life. Women need to stop dating losers, and deadbeats, and start thinking about whether or not the man she is with will make a good father, and partner.
@@raeannejordan Perhaps. But adults who are mentally grounded in reality understand that that doesn't happen 100% of the time, and they opt to take *RESPONSIBILITY* for themselves first. What a concept, ja?
@@raeannejordan adults also don't just blame men all the time for their problems, ma'am. That's childish. As afore mentioned, an adult takes responsibility for their choices in life.
@@raeannejordan how are you even sure this woman was in a relationship with any of her childrens fathers or that she even knows who her children’s fathers are?
Well most people grew up in that kind of environment some chose to better themselves some chose the stay and keep the cycle going some women don't know the difference between a good man and a bad man to get them pregnant and we know the type of guy they will choose and the cycle begins again
How are you gonna judge someone just trying to provide for her kids. Hindsight is 20/20 this is reality right here, and they get looked over or even condemned so that people more fortunate don't feel uncomfortable. The reality is our country isn't helping a lot of poor people no matter their circumstance because of the way we handled covid. Now we're catching up after many people have died
They were struggling before the pandemic and after the pandemic... Who cares.... I have plenty of street corner for new street walkers/workers... This is a man's 🌎 James Brown
Helping a single mother is the same as helping the orphan and the widow, things that people should be doing, especially Christians. Christian people should be the first ones to provide for the orphan and widow. I believe that is what Jesus Christ would want us to do
No Madame the they are not the same. Orphans & widows became orphans & widows due to death. Single mothers became single mothers due to either having children outside of wedlock or a woman spreading her legs for any loser that comes along who then become absentee fathers.
@@gsxr1189 if a person falls from the top of the staircase because they were playing on the staircase, would you think that they are less worthy of your assistance than someone who fell from the staircase because they were crippled? Don't all the fallen deserve the same amount of help?
@@foreverworshipjesuschrist3263 Replace "falls because they were playing on the stair case" with "intentionally jumped off the staircase" & your facsimile would be more accurate.
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
Yes it so sad that many of us are affected by this pandemic the economy and theirs no help for us that are hopeless with no resources or family sometimes it feels like what are you living for 😢
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
They have already conquered us, colonized, enslaved, invaded, displaced, they screwed us up so much that even my fear was also stolen from me The problem is not me, you or him
All I see is what about dads... Clearly this is a specific story about A MOM. It's like having to compliment everyone in the room just cause you wanna compliment your wife. These types of stories aren't ment to deem ppl more worthy than others, rather to give people a glimpse into a world that'd never get to experience. Let us all be greatful. We shouldn't use our pain/trauma to compete for sympathy.
What about single fathers????of all walks of life and color? They have it just as hard...however if you bring that up then it turns sexest?? I dont think so...the media is driving this culture of skin color and how much worse one has it than another when it depends more where you live and the choices you make but then again where would the story be...i just hate this crap...if you are going to report this stop being so bias...
This is why we all need to accept the responsibility of laying down and having children. they did not ask to be here.
100%
@@cheesecakebuns9383I know the feeling.
My mom always held it over my head that she didn't leave
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
It’s just not a good idea to have children if you’re not married.
You don’t know her story.
@@je9833
So what? It’s still not a good idea.
It's also not a good idea to have 5 children and hasn't been for a long time.
She could be divorced, you don’t know her story
@@mrscarter6279 if she is divorce, the ex-husband is still responsible to pay at-least child support & may spousal support. Where is the father of these children & why is he not financially contributing? 🤔
Why do have so many kids if you can't support them
@Jennica O'Connor stop bringing God into this woman’s promiscuity & nastiness.
@Minute Meditations Take responsibility don’t blame other people for YOUR OWN PROBLEMS
Wtf???? Stop trolling
Just pretend she's white and then you wouldn't ask.
@@nicoyablackmon7004 what your prob with white ?
I just find it hard to believe that when a mother leaves she’s deemed as not ready or not fit but when the father leaves he’s deemed as an automatic dead beat father
So true
My thing is what’s the point of leaving ?? I mean if the relationship had issues cool but it was all love and cum when they layed up ⬆️ now a baby get involved people want to disown each other it don’t make no sense! A mom can be a dead beat while having her kids and a dad can be a dead beat while having there kids by not giving a flying flip what your kids are doing , how your kids are feeling, people are using that dead beat term wrong in my eyes .
Ja. It's an unfair double standard. There are a lot of deadbeat mothers too.
Facts, it ain’t fair
I hate that this is too comment… but you’re not wrong
Why does birth control even exist, seems like a waste of time if women don't actually use it when having sex with bums who have no interest in being fathers? I should know my father is a drug addict who is currently in prison.
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
White men actually take care of their kids/children and stay in the picture
Lol where are the fathers? Being a single mom is a choice, when u popping out babies outside of marriage.
How do you know she wasn’t married?
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫
Ask that woman were the child's fathers are
they don’t know
Why???
Nobody asks single dads where's the mothers! Stupid af, it didn't work out, none of your business. Probably went to live off a lighter skin woman
@@nicoyablackmon7004 sounds like a single Mother to me ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️
@@marcoman234 off course
Why don’t they tell the whole story? They have no idea about this woman’s history, credit rating, or why she has five kids in the first place if she can afford it. Again the news media not doing their job!
Animals carnal desires lustful nature no self discipline control
Pretend she's another race then and stfu please!
@@nicoyablackmon7004 you stay in everybody's comment section acting like white women can't be worn out single moms either
For all the judgemental people out of there- NOT all single mums are jobless. I wish this lady and her children the best
Can I get an Amen to this comment because I have never been without employment/ income 😅 A lot of people assume that because someone is a single parent, they are sitting home.
6:11 this actually made me tear up but I am so glad she has decent friends who actually tried to help her, rather than mock her.
Being divorced.. understandable!
But having kids, when not married is dumbshit
So you don't have any kids I hope and not married. Stop being disrespectful and trolling. Stop the racism because if she wasn't black you wouldn't waste your time. Respect black women. They don't disrespect you all. This ish getting outta hand
@@nicoyablackmon7004 u r playing race card ??
@@nicoyablackmon7004 let me tell u one thing ....we dont give f about black/white
But truth is truth
@UCFMXqk7fLnaehKdtcdmdQ8g this hefer is trolling, she's in everybody comment section saying something about race. She don't even know if they white or black. 😒
@@nicoyablackmon7004 stop playing the victim card Marriage exists so that women don't suffer and have a support structure. It also gives responsibility to fathers but you have degraded and thrown marriage out of the window and decided to sleep with people who are low life's. Will you women ever take responsibility for your choices?
People are saying how they should've been married first, as if husbands don't cheat or leave too 🙄
First, women should have children with better partners instead of deadbeats. Second, have children if you're financially secure. Third, how do you gett to have 5 kids??? That's some serious irresponsibility right there.
@@rolandserna7805 🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
Unfortunately, poor families have some many damn kids. Having to many kids equal poverty. Simple like this
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
Well i guess pick better partners to reproduce with? and don't have a second or third child if you're struggling to take care of the first one? 🤷 just a thought
1000% correct
Yes
Preach!
Lack of empathy.
@@candice446 the glorification of mediocrity and stupidity have to stop
5 children, no husband, and she wonders why she is homeless.
What you did wrong was not take responsibility with your own body.
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Are you serious? She’s all alone and caring for these kids with no help. Maybe if men learned how to use condoms or idk... stay and man up and be a father and in your words- “take responsibility” for THEIR CHILDREN she wouldn’t be in this mess. Really appalling how you can place all the blame on her and judge someone when they’re in such a sad situation...
@@jesslynne How about keep your legs close so you wont be poor and left raising kids alone she wasn't smart enough to learn that after the first one
@@jesslynne I agree that the father is as responsible as the mother. My problem is with the mother as well. If the father has not voluntarily engaged himself in helping with his children, why have the mother not filed for court ordered child support from him? 🤔
@@jesslynne They don't use condoms because they trust women with birth control. A foolish notion to be sure.
But this happened 5 times at least. The woman knew she had no birth control or a marketable skill, and you claim she has no responsibility.
Life hits you hard I have four kids made some real bad life choices I'm only hanging in here for my kids. People don't know I'm struggling I keep my babies well feed, well clothed, they're all so smart I always take time to read with them and teach them new things, they're all in school, I keep up with my children, I may not have everything I need for myself and I am fine with that as long as my children don't go without that's all I care about. I love doing it it's what I'm supposed to do anyway as their parent. I hope people watch this and read what I am saying and take it as a warning to not have kids too soon. Get your life in order set yourself up to always win. If my mom wasn't dying and sick I'd have so much more support life can throw so much at you. Don't be irresponsible like I was do better for yourself. If you have children don't give up. You have to fight for the life you want for them and the life they deserve its a must.
Why would i pick a single mom when there are enough women without kids, try to sell me on your pitch 😂
Yea and my tax dollar keep going up,because I know you get every government assistance that I’m force to pay for
Why do you choose to struggle instead of send your kids to their fathers or the father’s families?
Enjoyed the video. These women need to stop having all these children if they are poor.
This woman is one of the most selfish people I have seen. She knew her situation, yet she brought five children into it when not one of them asked to be here, and ABC is feeding her selfishness.
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The govt has to be removed from the family equation in order to fix this. Remove welfare (section 8, child support, food stamps etc) and women will relearn to get MARRIED BEFORE YOU CARRY A CHILD. In this day and age the WOMAN has full say over if a child is born or not so IT IS THEIR FAULT when a kid is born. These bad decisions of having children without a MARRIAGE is incentivized by the govt throigh welfare and as long as the govt interferes this will only continue. This is by design
Marriage is just a piece of paper that doesn’t guarantee anything especially not a successful two parent household I’m quite sure you know that right?? If it did these programs might not have made it into existence.. I do agree, these programs are a trap/barrier to promote single parent households and poverty. However, with or without these programs their would still be unwed, single parent households and struggling families. I don’t think these women said let me have a child by a man that I know won’t be present so I can collect the meager government support they receive. I’ve yet to see a family live lavish off government assistance.
I don't think u know much about welfare, u made a couple of decent points but u should really look un the poverty guidelines, u have to be piss poor to get anything. I remember making $50,000 and I looked up the guidelines just for shits and giggles, and it said I could support ppl on my salary. In Texas you can't have more than 2, 000 worth of assets or you cannot get help. So basically in reinforces the notion of not pulling urself up by your boots straps like ppl say they want you to do. You either have to literally not work ar all, or work a little low paying job to get any help, not owe a car and have zero assets. Now how many ppl are really gonna do that? Oh yeah keep in mind wic/food stamps only pay for food, not soap, detergent, cleaning supplies, tissue, paper goods, etc. So again ppl made these simple ass statements like they know what their talking about but they don't even know how these programs work and how much of a hassle they are. Oh yeah don't forget the 10 year housing waiting lists. It's not that simple. I do think the welfare system should be totally revamped, simplified and should have time limits on it. Ppl shouldn't be penalized for having a job, and climbing out of poverty and I think should be able to get on and off of it when they need to instead of feeling they have to stay on it forever bc if they get off they will have a rough time of getting assistance again if they fall on hard times.
I complete agree. The government coddles women with all these government programs and transfers the consequences of their bad behavior to the rest of society. Broken homes, criminality, poverty, low child achievement, and other things are all detriments that could be minimized if the government was out of the picture.
The truth!
Idiot
The consequences to have kids with Chad , Tyrone and Ray Ray.
True
lol
Why she kept having all these kids all under ten
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
I’m a single mother. My husband passed away from complications with type 2 diabetes. Does that mean I’m less than? - I swear some of the comments here are just rude.
You are worthy. Keep your head up Queen ❤️
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We know there are is a multitude of different reasons for why a woman may find herself alone raising her children. It important we keep sharing our stories, even if they try to discredit them.
Thank you all for your kind words ❤️
You are so much MORE than. Never forget that!
“Rude” means the truth. An irresponsible woman like this doesn’t need coddling. This woman is a cautionary tale.
I agree. ever since i became a single mom every mistakes puts the fear in me. Im so afraid to lose my job.
This is why you’re suppose to be married to a successful man before having children. If you have to send your children to stranger daycare, you messed up. Children should be with their mother full time.
Hon, u said a mouthful. I feel this and yet I'm crazy. If a woman's job at 7/11 really is bulk of income in house yes someone like me can tell u. Right now retail is making same or slight better than CNAs. I honestly don't wanna have kids bc Men mostly cannot meet that. Strange daycare is only hope postpone shelter till later in life. I seen a woman middle-aged..she had 4 kids 4 diff men bc each one hooked her by simply provide part of his money once in a while... Marriage don't protect u from dustmites
Lord the ignorance😂 Newsflash, a lot of successful parents have murdered, raped, sold, etc. their child/children. It has nothing to do with being a single or married individual. There are a lot of homeless married couples who are struggling. It just looks worse when it is a single parent. Let’s not forget the case with the so called perfect American family where the father killed his daughters at some oil rig or wherever it was. I’m just saying, don’t judge.
@@naturalwalker5407Amen marriage doesn’t guarantee anything just saying. Look at all these divorces I mean you just have to be ready for children period.
The media glamorize these life choices.
SINGLE MOTHERHOOD IS A CHOICE!!!
Big Evil.
I’m America, yes it is.
Lol dumbest comment of the year 🤣😂😅🙄
@@nicoyablackmon7004 dumb choices will get you dumb comments. 🙄
In the past mostly widows were single mothers, society could easily take care for those unlucky ones. This days it is mostly by choice ...
For any man to procreate and put his children in a situation like this is beyond disgusting
For any woman to procreate and put her children in a situation like this is beyond disgusting
Maybe one should've teach her the lesson, but its five kids, I cant muster any sympathy after 5 kids
Stupid woman who want five kids out of wedlock will search for trashy men why are you surprised disgusting people will get disgusting partners
Shouldn't have a bunch of kids unmarried out of wedlock then take responsibility for the life you created.
Isn't it peculiar how total strangers tend to assist one more than blood relatives? God bless us all.
Cause family members see the bad decisions their family member makes and than she wants help for the situation she put herself in while strangers dont directly deal with the person their pitying
You're stuck with their stupid decision
Because the family have had enough. Trust me you end up supporting them than your own kids yet they are a fully grown adult.
You help them pay bills but your own child needs stuff. Then next month they f up again and ask for more support. Eventually you give up and focus on your child...Because at least it's a safe investment.
@@KC-cb7ov it's hard to make good choices, esp while marriage is so unlikely. If ppl think celibacy is Hell, I think being alone w. Kids is much worse
Take care of your own children
She did.
@@lkm3s she’s failing at it spectacularly.
How she got into her situation does not help her at the moment...So those asking where, why, and how does not do this mother justice. The family was in a crisis and God delivered. None of us, whether we make good decisions or not are perfect. Never judge what is not on your plate and be careful of what you judge before it ends up on your plate. I wish this mother many blessings to cover her family. 🙏
She’s poor but thought it’s smart to keep having kids yea it’s a business and lifestyle for these women
How is the parent who choose to stay some how worse than the parent who left? I don’t understand the bashing of singles moms who are trying their best.
WHERE are the FATHERS at ? What, are they only around for the conceptions ? They are RESPONSIBLE for these children THEY created...put these guys in a damn jail for 21 years until the kid is a fully legal adult or castrate them !
But if the mother left everyone would say “ oh she’s not ready “ Or something like “ give her time she needs it “. But when the father leaves he’s an automatic dead beat lol make it make sense
I've been saying that for years, old to shut up. I won't.
Who the heck cares where the father is. People break up and move on, they have kids together. Stop bashing these black women and being a racist troll. Either help or gtf out the comment section.
@@chrisz8585 if she knows who the father is? If he not dope dealer or in jail? If he is a decent person, she should give the kid/kids to him. She is a poor decision maker, Right?
Some of the people on the comments never struggled and it shows. Hope she does better in life and that everything works out.
Thanks instead of being a d***k about it and laughing, they should wish her the best and pray for her. The disrespect the black woman has to encounter on an everyday basis is pathetic. Any other race doesn't get that disrespect and I can't understand why. What's the damn beef with black women? I just don't get it.
By definition of being human, we ALL suffered and we ALL struggled. Some of us managed to close our legs and put our dicks away until times were better. People like you and Nicoya Blackmon allow nonsense to continue by supporting this insanity instead of ending all of this BS with one kid, OR maybe being in a common relationship, or marriage (ha!). You send absurd support, the vast majority deal in facts and call her out on it. She probably got herself in this situation because of jerks like you backing it, until she's about to be crushed by her own weight. At the end of the day, BOTH of you aren't helping; and the rest of us refuse. We have own on problems (and it's not being a single mother of 5 kids).
@@GodfatherXXI are you kiddi
@@a.i2335 Don't talk to me. I'm not putting up with your nonsense AT ALL.
And to add to the suffering she brought 5 kids to life?
Everyone struggles with housing ,childcare ,employment.
Why do black women keep doing this- children need fathers .
No kidding why is this news.
This will not work, if we don't have the parents working together.
Housing in America is out of reach for the working class. All basic needs especially housing and healthcare are non existent for single moms. Less and less family services available. We pay our taxes politicians dismantle social service programs yet they get the best healthcare and exclusive housing. God Bless single moms. Office workers are offered healthcare but physical labor jobs offer little or no healthcare or benefits at all.
Yes, irony is physical jobs. Cashier's in my area make same as CNA but less responsibility
The majority of people do not pay income tax.
@@naturalwalker5407 CNA's and EMT's also have huge personal liability despite making minimum wage, I'm surprised people still do those jobs.
So do single dad's gd.itd be nice if the media acknowledged the other half of human existence instead of always trying to trigger sexists and wackadoos w bias stories
The majority of single mothers are Black Woman. So the media wants to reach it's base demographic on the story.
@@SuccessfulladiesSoftLife and they exclude everyone else as usual.thats not diverse or even balanced.sad america's been turned backwards so easily by the media
@@disiamtheillusion I agree and black women don’t see this as a issue they don’t blink
@@BLACKTALKTODAY blm either.like where's the outcry against the single largest reason families are torn apart ? Then they basically sell the kids via foster care and nobody says defund them or defund cps.black fathers all fathers denied any parental rights beyond paying for the kids.society is fkd
@@disiamtheillusion I agree i cant stand it
Where are the fathers? Why have a kid or many kids if you can't afford to take care of them?
Women cant keep welfare if the father is around. She chose the government.
1. Where is the father? Why isn't he helping, being responsible?
2. Should the news try and attempt to talk to the father/fathers and ask why they aren't taking responsibility?
3. Shouldn't the mom know better after having one kid? Should they say 'well maybe you should stop if you keep living like this?'
4. If you can't afford sex, don't do it.
In the end your kids pay the price because of your decisions. It's no one's fault but theirs.
For real, I'd have trust issues after the first kid. Women aren't even try to be cautious anymore.
@@BossDogChillin The children suffer. Yes the man should be responsible but the burden eventually falls on mothers. Women think of yourself first. Family planning is key to staying out of the struggle. A good Mom doesn't bring children into a struggle. The women presenting this piece are not homeless living in the hood. Achieve stability in your life and then decide to bring children into the world. No one is talking about birth control. We deserve the life the reporter has and also the life of the woman who helps women secure housing. The very minimum is provided for Black women but they are living their best lives. Ask them about the choices they made that prevented them from struggling like mules, donkeys and oxen. Black women are born to struggle and work hard. That's a lie-your feet stink and you don't love Jesus. Not me! It's insulting to hear women believe they were meant to climb tall mountains as if we're Superman. We need to rethink our behaviors. Women are not meant to work like men. Think about that the next time you get pregnant without a hard working husband.
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
What about the single fathers?
@Jennica O'Connor only whining because the whiners aren't recognizing the other half of whiners ...and they only said 80 percent is because women seek help before men do ..so I challenge that statistic...I thought we were supposed to be in equal positions...if so, why do women recieve more benefits than men??..is it because of my biological makeup??isn't that sexist???...I'm confused as to what the message we are really sending...maybe we shouldn't take care of people who make poor decisions over and over again...its called ENABLING...when you tell a woman that she dont need the father to be there because they will take of her..theres a huge problem with that...were sending the wrong message to people by doing that ...life has consequences and rewards for all of our choices we make...she would stop having kids if she had to figure out a way to take of them without assistance and by default due to the stresses of survival she would be extremely more cautious of who shes having kids with and when she has them ...pay attention to the systemic effects and QUIT WHINING
Who???? 😆🤣😂 The innocent lol
A freaking me too
Single moms what a joke
00:54 having more kids than you could financially support
It's a shame that men leave the woman and kids to fend for themselves, been there done that once thoes kids start working
They are going to bless that mom for sticking by them like my son does for me, I just know it.
Wheres the dad?
To commerate Trumps presidency, I put a vid of his presidency. Check it out, I think you’ll like it!!!
Exactly where’s my homie at ?
@@GomezMedia1 hello beauty
@@davidortiz1283 I’m a dude
daddy is a looter but we don't know which one
i work for that hospital in detroit same position they pay ok for a single person but definately not 5 people hope it gets better
Is it rude to wonder about the location of the men that impregnated these mothers, why are they not contributing to their care/well being, and most importantly why the mothers haven’t IMMEDIATELY filed for court ordered/enforced child support from those bums who have contributed to their children living in impoverishment?
The issue is you can help people like her, but on average but they still mess up. You should not be having that many kids if you yourself are not in the position to support them.
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I really hate the fact that you report this as news
Why wouldn't the pandemic negatively effecting citizens be news, Justin?
Yes nobody wants to see a black woman struggling SMH, just other races. Stupid comment.
Her whole life was cause by her own hands from the men she chose to mate with, to her attitude that drove decent men away to a point they could no longer deal with the headache.
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
Walmart is just so generous. Have you been to one lately? 30 cash registers and only 1 is ever open, but 50 self checkout stations available. It's easy to pay $15 an hour when you plan on eliminating 80% of your work force and push them onto the gov't to support them. Workers advocating for $15 min wage don't realize they won't have a job when it passes. All by design
Preach
Not to mention raising minimum wage only causes inflation lol... doesn’t change anything
Brizuh K In GOV't We trust:
Raise minimum wage: Lied!
Forgive student debt: Lied!
Everybody gets $2k: Lied!
Elections were fair: Lies, your vote DON'T count!
The sheeps are so gullible!
Brizuh K Let the free market work and wages will rise. Abolish the FED
The problem is executives hoarding more money for their boards and for themselves. That's why automation is happening, to keep more money to themselves. It's wild we blame workers trying to survive and we don't scrutinize the executives making BILLIONS from starvation wages
Yesterday I got kicked out of the hospital because I told COVID patients to stay positive.😈
This should not be funny, but it is 😂
There needs to be a program to teach women to not To be a single mother
What a Shame that the Goverment can't help her. What the heck are we paying our taxes for?
Ikr. It's kind of Sad,.
Lol blame joe Biden
Did you watch the video? She received help from a service that is being funded by our taxes. Wtf?
@@blackwomanorangecat if you're employed legally you are paying taxes. The taxes she's paid in (for I'm guessing her whole life) is outstanding compared to the crap the government returns. I know this for fact.... I pay almost $200 every pay period and have since I was old enough to work and yet I can't get help. If I lost my job I'd be in the same position. Luckily, I still have a job. My hours were cut in half so I don't qualify for help but God forbid... I take pride in my work ethic but I will sacrifice my pride and ego to feed and house my children.
@@Believer_75 ok...again. she received help from a service that would have helped her from the beginning if she would have spoke up. Her teenage daughter had to speak up. I'm not blaming her. I'm just stating the facts.
Het ssi checks and unemployment checks and u can get paid to clean your own apartment u can rent 3 bedrooms get the snapcard u no food stamps u can get the faicet cover with the holes to save money on the water bill
Also use daylight instead of the lightbulb food donation from the school clothes
The jobs is one step for provision but lack raising the kids, because they almost never around
Such a beautiful voice u are not doing nothing wrong God is holding u hard God will provide 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
God aka the Government or gofundme
Granted it was irresponsible to have this many kids, but she's working. She's trying. I hate when I see moms who are trying to work and have a career fall behind while other moms sit on their asses in luxury affordable housing.
Help the working moms first
Keep having unprotected $3x with all those quality guys.
You’re doin amazing sweetie 😂
So her being homeless is funny because she's black? SMH wtf is going on where this is funny? Sad
SO we cant ask...where is the husband and why is that so many of our sisters single moms with multiple kids?
Psalm 127:3-5
Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate.
Surely, u know life never made women feel valued or respected for bearing kids
@@naturalwalker5407
God values everyone the same.
Look at the smirk on the female reporter face 3:12
Women for once in their life need to choose the good nice guy at first. There would never be poverty lol.
That would be difficult when there are guys who mask up their true toxic selves pretty well.
"Good nice guys" commit adultery, abuse their wives, refuse to provide, and walk away from their families everyday just like the overtly bad guys. Women aren't filing for divorce in droves because their husbands were wonderful people.
Christ alive lady, I'd have trust issues after the first baby daddy. It's like women are just incapable of realizing how easy it is to get pregnant and then abandoned. 😒
Young women need to be taught to vet potential fathers better. This is the education we need. Men should only be promoted to fathers when a woman has ensured they are able to hold down a job, provide a stable income and contribute to housing etc. Too many women have kids without any expectation on the father because they know the state will step in and play daddy. The more women can do this (and rely less on the state for support) the more money we have to spend on families where a parent has died/become ill etc and need help
I feel for the kids. They all deserve better.
This should not be happening to any family in America. --Bonnie Robinson
If you make horrible choices like this, it shouldn’t not happen.
Want to resolve the single mother problems? Hold women accountable for their choices in life.
Women need to stop dating losers, and deadbeats, and start thinking about whether or not the man she is with will make a good father, and partner.
Or men can stop being losers, and actually do what they say they will do in a relationship.
@@raeannejordan Perhaps. But adults who are mentally grounded in reality understand that that doesn't happen 100% of the time, and they opt to take *RESPONSIBILITY* for themselves first.
What a concept, ja?
@@raeannejordan adults also don't just blame men all the time for their problems, ma'am. That's childish.
As afore mentioned, an adult takes responsibility for their choices in life.
@@raeannejordan If you are dating losers, then maybe it's time to rethink the men you are choosing.
@@raeannejordan how are you even sure this woman was in a relationship with any of her childrens fathers or that she even knows who her children’s fathers are?
This is what bbc and cnn should be concerned more about then worrying about women of the world.
Move to a free state like Florida or South Dakota. Jobs and low Covid death rates.
Florida???? Lol, I'm from there and Covid is definitely not low. Far from low lol
@@nicoyablackmon7004 covid is a scam
Well most people grew up in that kind of environment some chose to better themselves some chose the stay and keep the cycle going some women don't know the difference between a good man and a bad man to get them pregnant and we know the type of guy they will choose and the cycle begins again
How are you gonna judge someone just trying to provide for her kids. Hindsight is 20/20 this is reality right here, and they get looked over or even condemned so that people more fortunate don't feel uncomfortable. The reality is our country isn't helping a lot of poor people no matter their circumstance because of the way we handled covid. Now we're catching up after many people have died
They were struggling before the pandemic and after the pandemic... Who cares.... I have plenty of street corner for new street walkers/workers... This is a man's 🌎
James Brown
Children should not just be party favors..illegitimate children are just that..we have tried to just sweet lemon it up..it is what it is
Helping a single mother is the same as helping the orphan and the widow, things that people should be doing, especially Christians. Christian people should be the first ones to provide for the orphan and widow. I believe that is what Jesus Christ would want us to do
No Madame the they are not the same. Orphans & widows became orphans & widows due to death. Single mothers became single mothers due to either having children outside of wedlock or a woman spreading her legs for any loser that comes along who then become absentee fathers.
@@gsxr1189 if a person falls from the top of the staircase because they were playing on the staircase, would you think that they are less worthy of your assistance than someone who fell from the staircase because they were crippled? Don't all the fallen deserve the same amount of help?
@@foreverworshipjesuschrist3263 Replace "falls because they were playing on the stair case" with "intentionally jumped off the staircase" & your facsimile would be more accurate.
Her children would have been considered bastards and an affront against god. If she were a widow it would be different.
It's hard for all SINGKE PARENTS...those working are lucky !!! 💖❤️💛💛💚🤍🖤💙💜🦄
If you can't feed them then don't breed them
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
I feel bad for the kids.
Abc makes me sick
Same here
Liberal news
Welfare people really had it hard during the pandemic.
Don’t feel sorry one bit. 5 kids? Gtfo
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
Be careful who you let In your bed.
Lots of moms are struggling....lots...
Where is the male father?
Where is your male father?
It could be multiple men
Yes it so sad that many of us are affected by this pandemic the economy and theirs no help for us that are hopeless with no resources or family sometimes it feels like what are you living for 😢
Wow!
Where is the father? Or father's parents? Common don't skip on that information!!
🎉Look at the support & love 🥰 given in the comments to single moms of other races. But lots of HATE & JUDGEMENT for black women!!! Everything black women are, do, & wear is WRONG or BAD according to them. Pure RACISM!!! Well, no matter what they feel, WE ARE FREE PEOPLE. Racist are the ones who remain enslaved 😵💫 And those who are just assuming bad things… you don’t know if she was married. You don’t know what happened. But you can see she’s a darn great 👍🏽 mom ❤
Why do these people have five or more kids?!
0:29 That is Bowie MD!
Why do YOU get paid when you have a baby? Why do you keep having them?
Where's our 1400???
Everybody poor says God will provide
True
Thats alot of kids if you cant afford to take care of them
These young guys have beautiful long, curly black hair🎉🎉🎉🎉
They have already conquered us, colonized, enslaved, invaded, displaced, they screwed us up so much that even my fear was also stolen from me The problem is not me, you or him
@Melissa Oestreich the history haven't wrote yet the history is now
@Melissa Oestreich where are the future heroes the Will be in the future history books?
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All I see is what about dads... Clearly this is a specific story about A MOM. It's like having to compliment everyone in the room just cause you wanna compliment your wife. These types of stories aren't ment to deem ppl more worthy than others, rather to give people a glimpse into a world that'd never get to experience. Let us all be greatful. We shouldn't use our pain/trauma to compete for sympathy.
Excuse
What about single fathers????of all walks of life and color? They have it just as hard...however if you bring that up then it turns sexest?? I dont think so...the media is driving this culture of skin color and how much worse one has it than another when it depends more where you live and the choices you make but then again where would the story be...i just hate this crap...if you are going to report this stop being so bias...
I’m a single father with two girls and I don’t struggle at all. What’s wrong with single mothers? Being a single dad is NOT hard at all.
Speak for you.
@@orangesnbread I did.
#Singlemotherhoodisachoice
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