Very interesting discussion, ladies, thanks. We formed a blended family, and we have been married for 22 years. He came with three girls, and I, two girls. The girls' mum died; the boys' dad walked out. Initially, adjusting had its challenges, but from the outset, we decided on basic principles of parenting together. We each had the responsibility of raising/disciplining them as our own children. The children are now old and (some) married, and see themselves as real brothers and sisters.
This episode clearly shows how our childhood experiences shape us.Manuela's opinions are grtly affected with her earlier experience with a blended family
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣This is the most hilarious bump love show I've watched. Well done ladies, you keep blessing me with your different experiences and give a more mature perspective to things concerning family and life. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thankyou ladies for this dose😹😹😹was much needed ...everyone is real and honest about their opinion rather than faking it for the picture perfect show👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾but wowww please a part 2 of this is really needed😹😹😹
@@bumploveug but we need another episode on blended family. These kids from outside are for the man and they need to belong, so at what age should they be introduced to the family for the rest of their siblings to know them. Some come as a result of their father's mistakes telling lies to their moms so I don't think children should suffer bse of their parents mistakes. They need to belong. Kindly think through and plan for us an episode with gents involved if possible. Otherwise thank you so much for the show. I felt it could continue. I really enjoyed and learnt
I have never agreed with taking the child born out of wedlock from their mother to bring them to your home just to keep the man from seeing the other woman. NO.! This child needs his mother if they can.
I was raised in a blended family,very big because 3 mum's.but it wasn't easy because all the kids loved my mum but as they grew older,their moms put negative words in their minds and so we all went separate ways,my mum left 13 years later because it was a crowd and depressing.i wouldn't even want that for myself in future so help me God
Omg I have evened and laughed so hard. Me too not ready to be a step mother. A least when the kids are older like 10plus but the guy can bring you a 1 year bby and you have sleep less nights.
It depends how those older children have been raised. Some of them (tebagambwako) and that only can raise problems in your marriage. As for me, I would rather have a 1yr old. I raise that 1yr and install in her/ him the good manners and behaviors I want her/ him to have. But it’s very hard to know how difficult that situation would be until when you are in it. Have been there. Will never do it again tho.
This was a lit conversation! Those who step out of their committed relationships and have kids should co-parent. Oh, and I'd definitely leave, just like Pumla, even at 50. Money just isn't worth my peace of mind. Side note: So good to have Angie in this one. As an OG on BL, I bet this is an old episode, I recognise the setting, clothes and hairstyles! Lol Love and appreciate you ladies ❤
My story of step family(ahuh you ladies have given it a fly name "blended") anyway it was 4wives with 1 man(Papa) and I found myself staying with mum while Dad asked for us during holidays to join the children of his other lady,for me that was war,I real detested staying with my father all I wanted was mum. So I wasn't okay having another lady mothering me and yet she wasn't harmful in anyway,I just felt safe with mum and wen I grew up and had conversations with mum,it's something that always broke her heart, knowing that we were away from her with someone that wasn't our mum.But we all grown everyone on his/her own but am sure it's not easy
Faridah nakazibwe could be a great person to explain how she is raising her kids in a blended family.. she has mentioned it before how her kids manage.
The packing and leaving your home bit got me laughing coz i remembered a lady i used to interract with who told me she packed her bags and some household stuff in a small lorry and left her house. On arrival home her elderly mom refused to let her unpack her stuff. She was told to spend the night and go back to her house the next day. The lorry had to stay overnight. She was 60 years old 😂😂
Eishhh this episode 🔥 🔥 🔥🤣🤣🤣. No man packs wen he is wealthy. But the truth is women we never deserve to go thru this blend. I pray men learn to get their act together.
@@bumploveug manuela i like your opinion . If u want then bring the kid or go with your kid. Our hearts are not balls .And its not among the ten commandments to have kids out the marriage
I am here raising 4 of them so far so good but in the start it was not easy,now one is out of home,l met her in p7 she finished,the two l found in lower primary are at university. Mine is tough love and there is no pretence or short cut.
This was an interesting conversation. I grew up in a 'blended family' and it was bits and pieces of what you talked about but I think the bigger percentage of African families are 'blended'. Fast forward I get married (young) and my husband has a child from a previous marriage. He lived with his mother but came to ours every other weekend. And like you have talked about, my house my rules, period! Thinking back (he is a grown boy now and we have a FANTASTIC relationship), I don't think it would work well if he fully lived with us. I was not and don't know if I am ready to be a full time step mum.
I have loved loved this episode! The way I am afraid of dating again because I do not know how I will handle this blending business. I am forever #TeamPumla. Even at 45 I will park and leave you bweswiii
Watching this in 2022. I think every mother should raise their child. Rosette's comment at the end is the winner "when the man is poor u pack". Very hilarious 😅😅😅
I was 6years when they started bringing step brothers and sisters for my mother, Im now 30years my dad is still bringing more kids.... My mum has natured them but they still call her a devil.... I have asked my husband to favor me by not bringing me step kids I would rather step out of marriage 😱😢
It can be hard. Some of those step- children no matter how much love a step- mother shows them, they never appreciate. I think all children deep down wish their dad stayed with their biological mother and they lived happily ever after.
Very interesting discussion, ladies, thanks.
We formed a blended family, and we have been married for 22 years. He came with three girls, and I, two girls. The girls' mum died; the boys' dad walked out. Initially, adjusting had its challenges, but from the outset, we decided on basic principles of parenting together. We each had the responsibility of raising/disciplining them as our own children. The children are now old and (some) married, and see themselves as real brothers and sisters.
Wow! Thanks for the job well done ✅
Did u have more kids together?
I never comment but Angie got me to. Gurl,I love how u articulated your points in this episode.
I love her💐
This episode clearly shows how our childhood experiences shape us.Manuela's opinions are grtly affected with her earlier experience with a blended family
I just love the way Angie brings her points out
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣This is the most hilarious bump love show I've watched. Well done ladies, you keep blessing me with your different experiences and give a more mature perspective to things concerning family and life. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Hahaha I've never laughed this much. This conversation was heated but very insightful. Thanks ladies.
Thankyou ladies for this dose😹😹😹was much needed ...everyone is real and honest about their opinion rather than faking it for the picture perfect show👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾but wowww please a part 2 of this is really needed😹😹😹
My mom never segregated, at times my step siblings would come and report their moms to my mom.
Kudos to Angie in this episode ! She's been so real
Angie, you are amazing!! Don't pack when the man is wealthy 😂😂 hilarious!! Love from zambia
I would really love to feature in this conversation to share my experience on blended families. Thank you Bump Love. BIG FAN Here
This was amazing. Missed you Angie. Will be waiting for part two
Love Rachel’s hair. Also agree even at 45years, pack and have yourself at least instead of being where you are not supposed to be!
Lady with the Bob hair style wearing the white blouse and blue jeans looks so much like a younger version of the American actress Viola Davis!! 🥰😇
Welcome back mama Asante❤️❤️
I love Angie she's has great sense of humour😉
Right? 😂 had me gagging with that last bit
This is an interesting topic, I like Angie's insights, kudos ladies
I"m aslo with the lady at end I don't want to be a stepmother to anyone my kids will always come first., great topic ladies .
Whenever I miss bump love I come back to episodes I didn't watch earlier thanks bump love mob love Angie
You ladies are killing me😂😂😂can't wait for part two. Great show
Angie is the spice we've been missing in recent episodes... blending families is really difficult!!?
We are so happy to have he back 😊
@@bumploveug But it looks like an episode recorded a long time ago. We notice the details like Rachel's hair and the set
@@bumploveug but we need another episode on blended family. These kids from outside are for the man and they need to belong, so at what age should they be introduced to the family for the rest of their siblings to know them. Some come as a result of their father's mistakes telling lies to their moms so I don't think children should suffer bse of their parents mistakes. They need to belong. Kindly think through and plan for us an episode with gents involved if possible.
Otherwise thank you so much for the show. I felt it could continue. I really enjoyed and learnt
You have started the year with hot messages thank you we are proud of you
Thanks hun
Rachael I hear you. The biological parent has to be part of the Parenting journey.
Thank you ladies
Your such a blessing to my life
I can now breath but step kids !!!
this was interesting....and then rosette had to make the closing point .. to crown it all this was a lovely episode
Nice topic bump love, in my house "buli mbuzi ku muguwa gwayo" every kid has to be with his/her mum. Otherwise i love u ladies
This episode is so realllll.
When I come to Uganda from Kenya ...I will search for this queens, beautiful, elegant, blessed
How did I miss this..what this is amazing!!
Pumla just killed me😂😂mbu even at 45 i will pack!!this has by far been the best episode i have watched
I have never agreed with taking the child born out of wedlock from their mother to bring them to your home just to keep the man from seeing the other woman. NO.! This child needs his mother if they can.
I agree with Angie, every child deserves to live with the mom especially if they are below 15yrs.
I was raised in a blended family,very big because 3 mum's.but it wasn't easy because all the kids loved my mum but as they grew older,their moms put negative words in their minds and so we all went separate ways,my mum left 13 years later because it was a crowd and depressing.i wouldn't even want that for myself in future so help me God
This show is to die for. but honestly blended families are crazy
Wow welcome back beautiful Angie always honest en open
you dont know how many times I've played minute 30 to the end been 🤷sweet!! hey Ladies! you're such a vibe danm....aww 🥰🥰
Angie I missed you!
This is the episode we needed.... Waiting for part 2 & 3
Waiting
Omg I have evened and laughed so hard. Me too not ready to be a step mother. A least when the kids are older like 10plus but the guy can bring you a 1 year bby and you have sleep less nights.
It depends how those older children have been raised. Some of them (tebagambwako) and that only can raise problems in your marriage. As for me, I would rather have a 1yr old. I raise that 1yr and install in her/ him the good manners and behaviors I want her/ him to have. But it’s very hard to know how difficult that situation would be until when you are in it. Have been there. Will never do it again tho.
One of the best episodes, I have rewatched it a couple of times and you ladies are hirarious. Was hoping for more time didn't want it to end! Great!
This was a lit conversation! Those who step out of their committed relationships and have kids should co-parent. Oh, and I'd definitely leave, just like Pumla, even at 50. Money just isn't worth my peace of mind.
Side note: So good to have Angie in this one. As an OG on BL, I bet this is an old episode, I recognise the setting, clothes and hairstyles! Lol
Love and appreciate you ladies ❤
I noticed too.
Yes it is🙈
Lol @ Og..we love you right back..
Hahaha
This show was so lit🔥🔥 luv u ladies💗💗💗
My story of step family(ahuh you ladies have given it a fly name "blended") anyway it was 4wives with 1 man(Papa) and I found myself staying with mum while Dad asked for us during holidays to join the children of his other lady,for me that was war,I real detested staying with my father all I wanted was mum. So I wasn't okay having another lady mothering me and yet she wasn't harmful in anyway,I just felt safe with mum and wen I grew up and had conversations with mum,it's something that always broke her heart, knowing that we were away from her with someone that wasn't our mum.But we all grown everyone on his/her own but am sure it's not easy
Faridah nakazibwe could be a great person to explain how she is raising her kids in a blended family.. she has mentioned it before how her kids manage.
Hehehe kyoka Manuela,as for me if the kid's mother is still alive let the kid stay with his or her mother!babies are safe with their mothers.
Oh my God, this was fun and educative
Keep up the good work @bump love... raw and honest discussions there!
Naye bumplove will be the death of me.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You must do this show again....
Most interesting yet educative episode.😍😍
Racheal, i really love your honest.
Thanks for the show ladies. Eagerly waiting for part 2.
🤣🤣🤣 I am with you Pumlar, 45 is the new 25
hahaaa
This is my best show.
Angie you can be a good actress
Eh...I don't even know who I agree with...you ladies need to do part 2 of this! Angie thanks for the mature point of view!
This show 🙌🙌🙌🙌 just ended too soon
The packing and leaving your home bit got me laughing coz i remembered a lady i used to interract with who told me she packed her bags and some household stuff in a small lorry and left her house. On arrival home her elderly mom refused to let her unpack her stuff. She was told to spend the night and go back to her house the next day. The lorry had to stay overnight. She was 60 years old 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣woowww! So much real talk and emotion in one episode. This is goooood stuff.
I never comment but today🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, Angie!! I had missed you minute 32-34, great content, Manuel this men will destabilize you! Just do you 🤗
Angie Angie Angie pliz don't make us miss u this much. Missed you like crazy .....thanks babes for the show
Angie speaks reality,it should be continued
Wow....so interesting
I love Angie's way of thinking.
Indeed raising a child that’s not yours is a grace. Sibyangu Bambi but if it happens you just need to seek God’s wisdom and grace.
You have made my day colourful
We are going to invest in our bodiiiesss...I've enjoyed this episode...real issues being discussed here.. thanks always..tusiima
Such an interesting topic. I too grew up in a blended family and more. Can you talk about inheritance in such a family?
This is the best episode so far
Thank you for the show ladies
Bumplove nakajigwako naye newaddeyo data yenna mulabemu mwe,I love you Girls
Eishhh this episode 🔥 🔥 🔥🤣🤣🤣. No man packs wen he is wealthy. But the truth is women we never deserve to go thru this blend. I pray men learn to get their act together.
Haaahaaaa loved this!! See you in part 2!!
Indeed! 😂
@@bumploveug manuela i like your opinion . If u want then bring the kid or go with your kid. Our hearts are not balls .And its not among the ten commandments to have kids out the marriage
Ok this was hilarious,thanks ladies for your openess,🤣🤣🤣🤗
I am here raising 4 of them so far so good but in the start it was not easy,now one is out of home,l met her in p7 she finished,the two l found in lower primary are at university. Mine is tough love and there is no pretence or short cut.
I have enjoyed your shows like this one
Angie kudos to being real.
Hahaha, the conclusion though.
Great discussion
This was an interesting conversation. I grew up in a 'blended family' and it was bits and pieces of what you talked about but I think the bigger percentage of African families are 'blended'. Fast forward I get married (young) and my husband has a child from a previous marriage. He lived with his mother but came to ours every other weekend. And like you have talked about, my house my rules, period! Thinking back (he is a grown boy now and we have a FANTASTIC relationship), I don't think it would work well if he fully lived with us. I was not and don't know if I am ready to be a full time step mum.
But some step mothers go beyond. With the rules
@@kiraboneema808 also true
Best show eveeerrrrr😂😂😂😂 real life scenarios
I have loved loved this episode! The way I am afraid of dating again because I do not know how I will handle this blending business. I am forever #TeamPumla. Even at 45 I will park and leave you bweswiii
By far the best
Okay this show is 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 love you ladies
I was too raised by blended family.
Every house has its story of blended
Best show Ever
Can’t believe am laughing out loud at 1:00am
Pumla the end killed me...Angie the articulation 👌🏽👌🏽
Hahahaha its Angie for me!!! Kindly do this again i feel like we dint finish well
See you in Part 2 😂
Yes, still as traditional. 👌
True😂
@@bumploveug can't wait 😂
Watching this in 2022. I think every mother should raise their child. Rosette's comment at the end is the winner "when the man is poor u pack". Very hilarious 😅😅😅
I've really enjoyed this, after watching this show, I have no plans to pack. I pack and go where?!🤣🤣
These ladies 😂😂, the end made me laugh so hard.
Do part two🙏🙏it was fun and informative
😂😂😂😂 very hilarious. Laughed so hard . Thanks ladies for being honest. Very insightful .
Hahahah wow this was beautiful. Angie I just love you.
Oohh God ladies you made me laugh so hard.
I swear angie u were the best student in this whole discussion 😁we only pack if the baby daddy is from the stingy men association of poverty🤣
And Pumla
waiting for part 2 this episode comes 2nd to the family planning experiences.
OmG loll hadnt watched thos show in a while! Packing going where 😂😂 Angie wow! Dont pack when the man is wealthy!!!! 🙌🙌🙌 Angie wow 😂😂
I waited anxiously for this episode to be uploaded... I see why it took long to come up😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love you last points Angie, when a man is wealthy, girls don't pack.
The honesty Pumla is at 💯,thanks beb
Best conversation and show ever.
This episode was so real, everyone was. Thing is blending families is just too hard. Especially for a woman
Real talk love you ladies!
I was 6years when they started bringing step brothers and sisters for my mother, Im now 30years my dad is still bringing more kids.... My mum has natured them but they still call her a devil.... I have asked my husband to favor me by not bringing me step kids I would rather step out of marriage 😱😢
It can be hard. Some of those step- children no matter how much love a step- mother shows them, they never appreciate. I think all children deep down wish their dad stayed with their biological mother and they lived happily ever after.
I have always wanted u guys to talk about this topic
Angie, is on point!!
Manuela your hair is fire🔥 🔥