People who caught their partner cheating, how did you find out?
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Story 3 is so unbelievable that I have to believe it. If it was a lie, it'd be much more realistic. That's actually an insane number of coincidences, borderline divine intervention.
For such a large world, it sure is a small place.
If it was the one with people in Belgium, I think that they like our soul incarnations that have experienced this over and over again sounds like hell lol cyclic hell lol
Reality is so often stranger than any fiction. Some things we often call unbelievable are usually just an everyday occurrence
"Of course truth is stranger than fiction. Fiction has to make sense."
Mark Twain
Story 2. The body shaming on TOP of the actual cheating and the very likely planned murder he was going to commit if OP stayed. What a piece of work, not even mentioning the very likely grooming he was doing since OP was 17 and he probably knew her before that (so 16 or younger) disgusting
The ending of story 3 really confirms the old adage of "You lose them how you get them" about cheating.
5:37 This us why I would never willingly date anyone who has ever cheated. Cheaters are disgusting, they don't deserve second chances, with anyone else.
rule #1 of cheaters: if they cheated with you, they'll also cheat on you
@@chriswursch2110 I don't really care if it was with me. If it's within them to do at all they can stay away. Being willing to hurt your partner like that is unforgivable.
If I got a new gf and I heard from people she knew that she had cheated in the past, I'd leave her.
@@AtotehZ I pretty much agree with you yea, one caveat I would add is if they just straight up come out and tell me about it unprompted I might give them a chance, because owning up to your past mistakes is a good indicator of personal growth
I know someone who found out her (now ex) boyfriend was cheating on her with another guy because he had a video of himself being intimate with the guy he was cheating with. Kicker was, when she confronted him with the evidence, he was disgusted that she'd "insinuate he liked men"
Really? A video of him being intimate with a guy is insinuating?
@@Olimar92 According to the ex, yeah
What...the what the... ...ouch 😢
Don't think he knows what that word means 😂
How do you even refute that 😭
I’ve been cheated on 3 times with 3 different guys over a handful of years. Needless to say my trust in people is pretty much 0 and trying to get into new relationships or feeling like I’m good enough is very very difficult.
Not really my place to aay but Don't let your past stop you from meeting new people or define what other people will be like. There are a lot of people out here who all are looking for someone good like you are.
It's really really hard to get confidence back after hearing their excuses for why you weren't satisfying enough for them but time heals when you can open yourself up to learn to love yourself and become more confident because there's someone out there that sees you as their angel that fell from heaven. It's hard to trust again and hard to believe in love after repeated cases but it gets easier over time, especially if you can find someone who really makes you feel like you're radiating.
It's okay to take time to heal and set boundaries around how intimate and how much commitment you can put in but def don't rush yourself to go headfirst!
I always feel sooo bad when loyal people get cheated on.. i have never been cheated on nor have i cheated, im also loyal..but i become scared to get into any new relationships since after highschool after seeing how much damage it done to some of my friends bc they are super loyal loving caring most feminine women i know, get cheated on just because..for no reason other than their ex-es just felt like it or just attractions.. i really hope you find the courage to open up again when someone comes into your life and seem genuine..even if they turn up to not be genuine, just know that it is not your fault..fear is common..even i have fears of it when i never experienced it.. but at the same time, there is no rush, dont force yourself at this time if you still feel not ready.. your inner peace is more important.. it takes time to heal, some people can even take decade to heal.. may we all find peace and heal from past and become strong minded and strong hearted to face the future ❤
I came home, with our then 17 yr old son, on a night where it had been planned that we would be staying the night with friends, said plans fell through, so my son and I came home early..My son walked in the house first and I heard him say "Who the "F' are you?!' His little tart was in our home, alone! Hubby had gone to get gas station sushi, and the look on his face...
Edit: We'd been married for 18 years at that point and, once he admitted to the tart, he then proceeds to tell me he'd actually been cheating on me for 6 years. Told me he never loved me and only stayed with us because it was cheaper to live. The worst was he told me that he loved her the way I loved him. We are still together, but only until I can afford to be on my own. My love for him is nearly gone now, but I pity him, she doesn't love him the way he loves her...and she sleeps around on him.
Wow my heart goes out to you m. I hope you met someone who values you. Wishing you the best
Please put you and child first. Completely cut off emotionally from this guy until you're able to afford to physically distance yourself
Relative of mine found out because her husband was in pretty serious car wreck, with his side piece and while he was supposed to be at work. Bastard lost some fingers, got sorta branded for life. They stayed together, I have later figured out he was likely an abuser.
Other relative figured her guy was cheating, when she kept smelling unfamiliar perfume in their home, always when she came home. One day she pretended to leave for work and it didnt take long for the perfume girl to appear. She busted thru dead bolted door and caught them right there, it was epic in every possible way. Sadly she married this waste of air later, dude is one of my least favorite people and she is very dear to me.
Women will always be with the asshole no matter what
You are not wrong by the way. It IS risky. If it works for some people that’s fine but I can’t see myself getting married too young, there’s just too many bad possibilities. Not saying that getting married doesn’t older changes or lessens the risk at all but it seems like things fall out more often with young couples.
One of my exes faked having DID (multiple personalities). They used that as an excuse to be posting tiktok videos of them kissing and cuddling someone who lived closer (long distance between us). "It wasn't me, it was this alter!"
Then made me look like the bad guy for breaking up with them "suddenly" over the phone while they were out shopping with a new friend group they just met. They ended up dating one of those new people almost immediately after I dumped them
Did Claire and OP get together? That would have been a happy ending!
Yes! I need to know this!
It pisses me off when people keep the engagement ring. You don't get to keep it if you aren't getting married. *for most circumstances
Story 18's ending caught me so off guard.
Story 2. Yeah getting married young is risky as hell. I took the risk of marrying someone when I was 20 and he was 23. We had known each other for like 6 months before we got engaged and married 2 or 3 months later. We were both in the Navy too. Long story short, we have been married for almost 10 years and I'm currently watching our 5 month old munching on her fingers and smiling at me 😘 It sometimes works out and in our case it did.
My late sister and her husband got married at 19 years old. He was a week younger than her. They were married until her death at 45 almost 46 years old. They were together most of their lives at the time.
I remember when they turned 40. They both realized that they were together more than half their lives at that point 😂
No no, underage marriage is objectively wrong. That's a child.
Literally, when I heard him say “17 and 21” I said out loud “weird”
Its really not that weird, its a 4 year age difference, and give it a couple months later she would have been of legal age. Would it have still been weird then? Not advocating for child marriage at all, but these specific circumstances don't exactly fit the bill of a child marriage.
My ex got caught when her secret boyfriend unexpectedly showed up at our house one random night and let himself in.
He told me, to my face. It was, shall we say, a group activity. Since I'm ace, and we were in a poly relationship, I let it go. Still hurt though. After things ended between up, for unrelated but horrifying reasons, he stalked me for 5 months. Ugh.
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Oh goodness....
I'm female for the record. A few years ago, I had a really adorable girlfriend. She was shy and cute, but would happily do stuff with me if I managed to get her over. After almost a year, our relationship strained a little because I was always the one making plans or wanting to see her, nothing came from her side. I told her we should take a break, think things over. Not a breakup, we were still together.
After a few weeks, she sends me a message on discord. Something about how she had to tell me something, but I had to promise to not get angry (red flag!!!!!!!!). I tell her I wouldn't yell at her. She says she hooked up with a guy. forgivable, I guess, since she's being upfront about it.... But then says it's the guy who she KNEW harassed me in high school.
I kept my promise, I didn't yell. I blocked her
I found out through friends.
I’m sorry. I wish my husband’s coworkers would have told me.
I once heard that, " eating ain't cheating".
Also, you would not drive a car without a "spare" tire.
And treating people/ relationships as if we are objects is by definition dehumanizing.
@@Undomaranel You're funny.
@@UKnowMeIMURDaddy You're dehumanizing.
@@Undomaranel Love you. ❤️
@@Undomaranel its a normal way notorious cheaters justify what they do so its really nothing new. cheaters - at least majority of them are narcs. These people unconciously thinks people as nothing but disposable things. They live on "self-glorification"and "self-importance" and as long as their chosen partner is feeding them this - they are content. Once that benifit is gone or got found out - majority of them jump ship without regret because they are simply leaving a disposable thing who in their unconcious mind does not deserve their glorious self. Cheating-cases is very high because "self-glorification"and "self-importance" are the most predominant values of society today.
Was with a girl for 4 years, engaged for 2. Started having some issues when I got a new job that had me work weird hours, and we also got a roommate who was a friend of mine. About a week before the wedding, I found out that they were having sex when I was out at work late. I left, got a new place and lived solo for a while, and she and him became a couple. They broke up when she found out he was sleeping with their roommates girlfriend (some habits die hard I guess) and she left the state. He ended up marrying the girl he was cheating on my ex with, and she ended up cheating on him, so karma was served
Binging all your vids rn!
Man story 16 is… a mess.
"then kind of out of nowh-" ad plays
Don't feel bad about the married young comment. I know two people who married or are getting married young and it's nothing but red flags and issues constantly. One got married to escape her overbearing mom, only to become a mom to her husband. The other was basically groomed in a bad place in life by a church leader and the stories I hear from her sister and mom are heartbreaking. Her dad is letting it happen because he's best friends with the guy. I'm sure it works out for some, but so far the only thing I've witnessed is bad stuff or a nice honeymoon phase before people split.
Story 16 ending was wild
its like the universe went oh no cant have that then went out of its way to make it happen so they get caught. lol.
I knew a woman who walked in on her husband and another woman. She held a gun on them and live streamed the show. Hilarious.
Story 16 is just 😳
Cheating sucks... sometimes literally...
Not me but my mom. Pretty much as soon as her and my father had me, he stopped coming home after work, talking about his day, everytime he had the same story to tell: "I need to fix the car". Their car was just fine, everyone understood he just liked doing stuff with it as he loved mechanic work, but all of a sudden, every day, all the time. He stopped coming home for the night, stopped eating what mom made and eventually started bringing home made food in jars. None of us would eat it, only him. When I was a teen my friend told me she sees my father from time to time with different women acting "very friendly". At the same time he was abusing us at home. Now my parents are separated for a few years, my mother is with a man who waits for his divorce to be finalized and my father is with a woman who cheats on her husband with him. The history repeats itself kind of
Love how no one is talking about story 16 but WOW
And reaction other than "insta-breakup" is wrong.
"They had to get training for not sleeping with coworkers"
How the heck does that training work out?
"Thanks for coming everyone, we'll get started. Our training topic is about sleeping with coworkers.
Don't do it.
Well, that's it, who wants lunch?!"
It was always safe to gather.
What game is playing in the background?
2:54 my parents got married at age 20 and admitted they were too young. They are still married and love each, but both of them said they should have waited and just dated and got married later on. Before anyone asks no my mother wasn’t pregnant. They didn’t have their first child until they after five years of marriage.
Jesus who were yall with?!?!? Carl on Desperate Housewives?!
Not my story. They separated when kiddo was about 1.5. She made sure to set aside every other weekend for him to have the kid. One weekend when kiddo was about 3 he came home talking about 'the baby', how he loved it, he wanted to see it again. She didn't think much of it until a couple days later when dad got tagged in a random lady's facebook pic. Long story short. Kid was about 11 months and DEFINITELY his, very distinctive features, meaning he had done the deed while they were still together. Neither he nor kiddo brought up the baby again so she assumes he separated from the other baby mama too. Still, she wonders how long it had been going on and how many half siblings her son has running around.
What game is this?
I got a random feeling to get on the bus and go across town. Sure enough I saw my boyfriend with his ex pushing her kid in a stroller. 🤦🏾♀️
What is the name of a game in the background?
Perfect timing right before bed hell yeah
Easily the worst people on earth are cheaters.
Dude took his wife and kids overseas and just kept making new families in Asia like damn some people shouldn’t get married or have kids FFS 🤦🏾♂️
What's the name of the game in the background? I've seen it before, I think it was some console racing game, forgot the name tho.
I'm pretty sure it's Hot Wheels Unleashed
What game is this
Story 18: That one ended dark.
I saw them shaking hands with each other
It was the late ‘90s & I was pregnant with our youngest. The APs live in bf knocked on the door and told me. They lived on the same street and she worked with the Nex at the local big box/super center store. That was the first time. He turned out to be a serial cheater.
The family knowing is worse than just the cheating IMO! How can you look someone in the face knowing that?! And to call them family!
9:04 Honestly, me too 😂 I love the sweet, satisfactory taste of vengeance, but can appreciate the clean break aways
Story 18 has a lot of inconsistencies and I’m not sure if it’s legit
Story 2 they were actually too young to marry especially 17 .. hell no
IS THAT THE FUCKING MYSTERY MACHINE?!
If they’ll cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you.
I found out on my Family’s Vacation! His mistress was following us on our family vacation.
what the fuck
One thing all have in comon is crowing distand. It shows that they have lost interest. If you love them you will get scared and try to push more but i have heard that best way is to also grow distand. Because they will wonder why you are not pushing and think twice about leaving you. It is a pretty nice psychological fact. And cheaters stay cheaters. They always look for the greener grass
Getting married at any age is risky.
Can finally clean wingstop in peace
save me a wing pls
Me too!
I was in a discord call with my now ex and her friend that was “like a sibling” I get distracted easily so sometimes I’ll go silent people I vc with more frequently know that means I’m still there and if they want my attention to say my name and I’ll re-focus but my ex didn’t realise that so she started flirting with the friend meanwhile I focused in when she said to her friend that I was afk and she started to be like I love you more than him my dumbass still stayed with her until we eventually broke up when we moved apart from each other shocker the moment we broke up they started publicly dating but their anniversary lines up with the time we were still together
I genuinely don’t get people that cheat like literally break up with them and then go to the person you wanted to cheat with it will literally hurt more that you’ve been unfaithful and didn’t love them than you just straight up going I don’t share those feelings anymore
*This is (partly? why I’m a celibate homebody forever.*
My ex would cheat while I was at work and I found out when my brand new stripper work underwear had shit stains on them 😑
🤢🤢🤢
As a cheater there’s so many men and I don’t like stick to one guy. It’s not being a coward or being selfish I just know when to move on 💁🏿♀️
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My besties partner cheated on her and she found out when she was in labour as the hospital did a blood test and it came back positive with an STD.
They are no longer together.
Story 16:….. this men got hella child support to pay. PAY UP MY BOY. SHOULD HAVE JUST PULLED OUT