Islam is a religion who makes us to Believe in Jesus, We Muslims 100% Believes in Jesus, We Muslims Believes that Jesus is the Christ, We Muslims Believes that Jesus will Come Again to this World, Jesus did Miracles by the Permission of Allah, Jesus himself Never said “Im God” also Never he said anyone to “Worship Me” Jesus was Just a Prophet and Messenger Of Allah Only to Guide The People of Israel, ----------------------- *Jesus Denies Being God* | Read ⬇️ ----------------------- "My Father is greater than me." [John 14:28] “I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to My God and your God.” [John 20:17] “Jesus said: 'Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.” [Mark 12:29] “Jesus, Fell with his face to the ground and Prayed.” [Matthew 26:39] “Jesus said, “My teaching is not my own, It comes from the one who has sent me.” [John 7:16] “I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgement is just because I seek not my own will, but the will of the Father who has sent me." [John 5:30] “The crowd answered, This is Jesus, the Prophet.” [Matthew 21:10-11] --------------------- *The Coming Of Prophet Muhammad In Bible* --------------------- “I still have many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now. When he the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come, He will glorify me, for he will take what is mine and declare it to you.” [John 16:12-14] --------------------- *Allah Clears About Jesus* --------------------- [Quran:- 5:72]:- “Jesus has said, "O Children of Israel, worship Allah, my Lord and your Lord." [Quran:- 19:30]:- “Jesus has said, "Indeed, I am the servant of Allah. He has given me the Scripture and made me a Prophet.” [Quran:- 4:171]:- “Christ Jesus the son of Mary was no more than a messenger of Allah, So believe in Allah and His messengers. Say not "Trinity" desist: it will be better for you: for Allah is one Allah: ---------------------
I married my husband in 2018, i was 18 he was 20 both virgins. We both became dedicated Christians without baptism since our parents believed in child baptism. Now we have one of the best marriages and love our daughter so much. We talk about Jesus Christ everyday even if it's just in prayer. When one falls, the other is there and we are teaching our daughter to wait for prayer before we get eating despite her being 1year old and now she waits for us to sit and pray before she starts crying for food. If i knew that being a virgin was not shameful to the extend i know it now, i would have told anyone about it and inspired some more people. May the lord help everyone looking for a marriage to have one like mine in Jesus' name AMEN
Oh my dayss, you guys seem so cute.. i want what you have respectuflly its so hard finding a dedicated nice christian guys bc all the guys hitting on me only want one thing.. i wish you all the best and God bless❤
Im 32 and I wish I was still a virgin but sadly I'm not so it seems I'm unworthy of a virgin wife. Hell it seems I'm unworthy of marriage in general. Its probably why I'm still alone and no one wants me.
@@BansheeKing22 I can understand why you are in this state of mind. But accepting the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus Christ and repent. As long as you are honest to whoever you meet and follow Christ, your sins will be forgiven and you shall be given a new life. We all have sinned at some point and we will sin again but we have salvation that we just need to accept and worship His Holy name
@@kianamcintyre9671 Hmmmm, why do you want a nice guy..???😅 If i'm honest nice guys won't last... Sooner or later they get trapped in sin because we humans are unfortinatly weak to resist temptations... And this world is broken and hard!!! It takes intense hard times with the Lord to even have a change to last in this world... Look at me for instance, i'm a 27 year old man who came to the Lord while having everything against that happening... I'm born in the Netherlands which is like the sodom and gomorrah of the world... My parents do not believe... my siblings do not believe... my grandparents did believe, yet (to my knowledge) never shared it with me... My communitie is anti God and anti religion... Almost nobody keeps any of the commandments... People adore all kinds of things of the creation in stead of the creator... Nobody knows what love is, instead rely on trading in ''everything''... And the lies, all the lies to keep everybody away of the trued of God... They (and sometimes even we) suppress the trued of what we instinctively know, because we all love the darkness (or part of it) rather that the light... But we can be victorious warriors of God by the glory of the King of kings, Yeshua hamashiach (Jesus Christ) our Lord, saviour and God!!! 🕊❤😇 Do not go for a nice man because you might think nice men are harmless, they are not they ar just weak... Be not affraid you won't find someone who will lead you in love like we are suppose to!!! 😬 The nice man won't last. Test a man if he is more man than Adam was.... By what i mean: One who would sacrifice himself for the sake of you and others!!! 🕊❤😇 That's not a nice man, that's a Godly man who will make you both grow everyday!!! 🕊❤😇 Let us pray: Dear Father in heaven, hear us and answer us!!! We are so thankfull that you called us to love you and worship you here on earth!!! O father, we absolutly need you, to make the right person come into our lives... We need you, just like we always did and do!!! O Father, help all those single Christian warrior find the right wife for them and lead them in love just like you do... And help all the single christian woman to keep themselfs for those men and love them like only a woman can!!! We are called to be a kingdom of priests to represent Your Holy Name here on earth. But on our own we cannot do this o father.... We need you in the rain and the sun... Please father help us!!! In the mighty name of your glorious son: Yeshua Hamashiach (Jesus Christ). We thank you for what you have done in our lives already and ask you to help us all, Amen!!! 🕊❤😇 P.S. I'm still a virgin (and if you knew how i look you wouldn't believed it)... 😅 Not that i find myself that attractive but others are in shock when i say i'm still a virgin... 😂 So it's not even impossible to meet a men who grew up outside of the church and be a virgin... 😬
Summary for quick reference: 1. Physical Attraction[1 Cor 7:3-5] 2. Emotional Connection/Maturity[Prov 18: 24] 3. Spiritual Maturity [Heb 5: 12-14] 4. Common Values[Eph 2: 10] 5. Grounded Chararcter[1 Tim 5:8] No perfect relationship, every one cane grow and become better. However, make sure your core values align, and that you do not marry what they could become, but who they currently reveal themselves as. ✌️
The attractiveness comes from appreciating who the person is. I've met people whose looks were not attractive to me until after I started getting to know them. And vice versa, I've found that people who i found to be physically attractive became unattractive as I got to know them better.
This video is a good attempt. But I would like to add that actually the example of marriage has already been provided for by Gd. Jesus Christ is the groom, who is the bride? The Church! Does the Church tell Gd to wait till she feels better before she will respond? No. Does the Church tell Gd that hey, because you made me upset today, you won't be getting any honey tonight? No. Does the Church disrespect or scorn at Gd because she thinks Gd did not live up to her expectations? NO NO NO. Many Christians do not even know how to behave as spouses, how then can they even learn be Christians? The RECIPE to a happy marriage is ALREADY provided for in the Holy Bible. And it is just this! : Wives respect your husbands (at all times), Husbands love your wives as yourselves (at all times). And note, your duty is not conditional on what you perceive of the other party. It is YOUR DUTY REGARDLESS. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church- 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[c] 32 This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
I wish I would have seen this years ago. My 23 yr old husband who claimed to be a mature Christian left my daughter & I 2 days before Christmas... the heartbreak has been UNREAL. I saw him for his potential and thought I was a strong enough Christian to lead him to Christ. Since leaving he's pursued a life of partying, drugs, gaming, & another woman who is a pedophile... after months of being blocked I reached out trying to make it work and failed- this vid was the answer to many many prayers if letting him go is the right thing to do. Please pray for Grant that he will turn back to God. As of me, I'm happily married to God and find joy & satisfaction in serving Him & His amazing promises.
Your first mistake was marrying a non-Christian. If there's no baptism before the marriage....there's no marriage, simple. I got along great with a Muslim girl, she was literally perfect! But then I found out she was Muslim. I asked her if she'd convert to Christianity for me and she said no. So I ended it. Sometimes I regret it but I know it's right. You can't marry someone who's not already on fire for Jesus Christ, end of story.
Here's the biggest point - GOD HAS YOUR HUSBAND/WIFE! If you ever get discouraged, just remember God has your perfect match for you. Every time you think about marriage, pray for your future husband/wife! I do this. I haven't met him yet, but I know God will bring us together at the perfect time. So in the meantime, I will better myself, walk in my walk, and our paths will merge somewhere down the line. I hope and pray that he does the same.
Awww! I can relate a lot! I've contemplated becoming a nun for a while, but my family wants me to date / make sure that marriage is not an option for me. I'm 24, still a virgin, and am a die-hard believer of Jesus Christ, yet a small part of me dreams of being a mother and wife (even if I don't out-rightly admit it). I don't know what lies ahead, but I do know that if God is keeping someone out there for me, I hope we will become close friends and maybe become a married couple! Here's hoping! 🙏
Paul says, it’s better to be single, if, you have the gift. He says I would spare you all the heartaches of a relationship. He focuses on serving God more completely. I think if you can, stay alone and celibate. This world is being destroyed and he’s coming back asap. Focus on going home. Jesus is your husband
Paul says, it’s better to be single, if, you have the gift. He says I would spare you all the heartaches of a relationship. He focuses on serving God more completely. I think if you can, stay alone and celibate. This world is being destroyed and he’s coming back asap. Focus on going home. Jesus is your husband
Dont be unequally yoked... I married before I was following Jesus and trying to navigate being tied to someone who hates my desire to seek God...is...so...difficult. Lord help those unmarried to be patient and wait on your plan while seeking your face! Also please help those of us married to unbelievers to suffer for Christ in a quiet way that represents Him correctly so that our spouses too may be filled with the Holy Spirit according to Your perfect time Father!
Talk to your FATHER ,fall at HIS throne of Mercy..HE gives rest to HIS beloved. I hope you grow soo much in CHRIST so that you may reflect HIM ...hopefully it will change HIS heart but if his will is to pull you away from THE LORD then he is not worthy of you because it's not right that's the work of the enemy.
It may be just as difficult to marry someone who feels that being christian is a one and done. Do they study the word? If not...do they know it by heart? Do they say they have already read the bible when you ask them to read together? It can be more difficult to deal with a proud christian, than an unbeliever who is tired of NOT knowing him.
@pauldyrkacz5515 yes that seems very burdensome. I pray people find equally yoked in all facets, especially hunger for the Lord, continually. Praying for marriages 🙏✝️
I'll be turning 20 soon and now i've started to dawn upon these big things like marriage, children, job and education. My parents don't have a good marriage or bond due to past baggage but i want to have a godly marriage that brings love & comfort to me. Thankyou Your videos are aways helpful.
Hey honey, I'm 25 and I'm also looking for marriage. I'd like to get to know you. We can take our time. Let's be friends without meeting in person, and if it goes well, we can talk about a relationship. Sound good? If you're interested, I'll give you my email and from there I can get your number and add you on WhatsApp. I don't have any social media accounts except for IG for my business. Who knows, all 5 core essential concepts could line up for us! ❤ If you're not interested, just ignore this comment. Thanks for taking the time to read this, God bless. 🙏
Kinda same for me 😅 i'm turning 20 soon too and thinking about these things either. I have unbelieving parents so i don't have a good role model in them. Hope your future marriage will be blessed by the Lord and full of true love! 😊
I'm not at the age to want to marry but these 5 tips will help me down the road! I have liked different girls who were mostly Christians but they each taught me a lesson that will help me down the road in the future of what to look for in a marriage. Even though the friendships didn't work out but I look at it as growth on my well-being. "Commit your actions to the lord and your plans will succeed"- Proverbs 16:3 I am trying to commit my actions to God now because I haven't been dependent on him although its been in my prayers for a female to come into my life (unless if they're there now) to marry someday who follows God and for who they are!
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I have dated guys who have taught me lessons to prepare for who God has for me as of right now. I’m just running after Him and waiting in Him to bring me the man He approves of. I’ll keep you guys in my prayers ❤
10000000x better to learn that when you're young. Don't wait till you age old...like me and think "ummm....I think it's good to marry to serve God better? But I don't know anything about marriage." lol
Me and my wife got married before we came into faith, and it's incredible to see how the Lord has been able to use even our weaknesses in our sin while we were unbelievers for his good works. Coming into my faith I recognize where he has protected us from ever being in a point of no return (death, divorce, financial setbacks, etc) and placed believers in our lives to step in through the Holy Spirit to make up for where we've fallen short. Praise be to God with how well he is at having such sovereignty that is often only noticeable in hindsight and how he intricately dances his sovereignty with our free will to do his works.
Thank you! Very helpful! Im 26 and Im in a waiting season not just for my man of God to arrive but to take advantage of this single season to grow spiritually and mentally in maturity✨
Hey Carla. I'm 25 and I'm looking for my wife now. It'll take me at least a year to marry any woman, but we could start off as friends. I live in Canada and I'm waiting for marriage, I've never been with a woman. If you're interested, I'll give you my email and we can go from there, sound good? God bless you, and thanks for reading. 🙏 PS: if we do end up getting married, you'll have to start using apostrophes! 😂 Yeah, I'm a grammar cop. If you don't know the difference between your and you're, I'll probably laugh at you. 😂 As you can see, I've never been with a woman...😅
I honestly believe God brought my wife to me at my job and she saved me from going down the path I was going, which was very bad. We got married after a year of dating and becoming very best friends. God works in mysterious ways, I Love Jesus.🙏🏻💚
Thank you for this. I’m in my early 30s and still waiting for someone who meets all of these. It is frustrating at times but I’m thankful to be growing during this time. 🙏
Yeah, it's frustrating for me too. I'm 25 and I'm looking for my wife. The most frustrating thing is when you find someone who you think is literally perfect, but then they turn out to be a complete lie. And then I met another one who was perfect, but she turned out to be Muslim, and I'm looking up going, "why are you doing this?" 😂😂😂 But anyway, my advice to you is to not date casually while you're waiting. And even when you're looking for marriage, make a man wait at least 3 months, although you should wait until marriage. I'm waiting until marriage, and I feel like I have a superpower that no other guy has: I'm not controlled by women's bodies. It's really powerful. I think that practice is also beneficial for women, use it to avoid developing bad habits and use it to test your future husband. A man who can't wait 3 months doesn't want marriage. Let me tell you a secret about men: we don't need to sleep with a woman to know if we will marry her or not. I know it sounds crazy but it's true.
I am 35 and still single also waiting and praying and trusting and knowing the Lord will show my future spouse when the time is right This book helped me a lot Where is my mate And I got a lot of revelation out of it 🎉
@@ruthgenson308 Ruth, I don't believe in that. You're 35, when is God gonna give you your spouse, when you're 55? What's the point of that? The idea of being single for 50 years just doesn't seem appealing to me, and I highly doubt God wants anyone to be without their spouse for half of their life. I just don't understand the purpose behind that. I think you just need to be more open to people. Not every man is a bad man, you know?
@@stevemacinnis5000 You don’t have to believe in that. I just mentioned my heart in this nothing else. I know that the Lord knows my heart and that counts
@@ruthgenson308 I know, I'm sorry if I offended you. I'm just curious though, how long would you be willing to wait? What's the cut-off? Like, at what point do you go, "I can't wait any longer, I'm just gonna find a decent guy and marry him"?
That's crazy! You're not doing charity work! Attractiveness is a prerequisite for a potential spouse. Because guess what? If someone doesn't look good, they have no choice but to have a good personality, that's the only thing they can bring to the table, and that's especially true for women. This is a good tip that I developed. Ask yourself, "would that girl still act like that if she looked like Kim Kardashian?" And if it's a guy, ask yourself, "would he still act like that if he looked like Dwayne Johnson?"
@@stevemacinnis5000 There are no ugly people. If someone doesn't find a certain person attractive, somebody else will. Also, attraction is way deeper than superficial looks. But if people would be so immature to only look for looks: looks will fade and then what? Then what about the obligation to provide your spouse with physical intimacy? That's why true love is so much deeper
Im an atheist, clicked out of curiosity and was expecting some general video saying you should both love God, find a wife who does motherly duties and vice versa but you addressed important but overlooked qualities/aspects Christians dont consider often in when getting married, every Christian should watch your video before getting married
I’ve said something similar. Don’t look at potentials. Potential is a promise. Look at patterns. Patterns are what naturally comes out from their character.
what no one knows about marriage before going into it is how incredibly hard it is. it is very, very hard. don’t use marriage as a solution to find happiness
Just got married on the 10th of February. Pray for me guys. It's not easy, although beautiful and I absolutely love it, there are times that suck. Some thoughts some observations about friends and all that jazz Not easy, but always have God in the center guys. Remember, His ways are higher.
I think the first one would be make sure they are a mature Christian. There’s this girl at my work who recently started wanting to have a relationship with God the Father and she liked me and I also liked her but I was blinded by feelings. She kept saying she doesn’t want to come to church and stuff like that until she reads the whole Bible. She even ghosted me a few times because she didn’t want to respond to the questions. I think she started loosing interest (probably in me) because I came off as “clingy”. I have the spiritual gift of exhortation and she was the first Christian woman I’ve been discipling except I shouldn’t have been going that (I’ll explain why if anyone wants to know). Anyway, I realized there are places she needs to grow spiritually and mentally. My lesson from this is to guard your heart (proverbs 4:23) and to act on character rather than feeling, and to take a persons maturity before anything else (I’m personally not attracted to anyone if they are not a growing Christian)
"She kept saying she doesn’t want to come to church and stuff like that until she reads the whole Bible." That is a red flag and an excuse... I get someone wanting to read the bible in entirety but that shouldn't be an excuse to keep you from the body of church or growing.
She would have been better off being discipled by an mature woman in the faith. If you continue then it would be good in marriage; but then again, it would be done after other criteria would be done. It’s understandable but emotions and lusts are blinding so you can’t make a clear decision like that. It’s hard but preserving your feelings for a good mature, responsible Christian woman is helpful for you. Anything less; or in the trajectory is going to be unavoidable pain for you in the future.
@@mattr.1887 1 Samuel 15:22-23, And Samuel said, Hath the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams. 23 For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the Lord, he hath also rejected thee from being king. The context of this verse is Saul saved some of the animals from the Amalekites to sacrifice to God rather than destroying them, rebellion from God. Samuel comes to Samuel and asks a rhetorical question saying that obeying God is better than sacrificing. As a believer, choosing not to go to church, which Jesus died for, is a sin and rebellion from God. James 4:17, Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.
@@Theohybrid yes, I was going above boundaries. This is what I sent her after I got counseling: Savanna, I think it will be best to both of us if I introduce you to my friend Grace who has a woman’s Bible study and can help you moving forward. You are the first woman I’m discipling and I’m treating as a fellow man. In the Bible, women should rather be discipled by their parents, other women, or their husband. I want to help others grow but I overstep boundaries instead… it’s not a sin to help teach another woman or having a formal get-together but would I be acting in away which seems dishonorable, as a Christian?
I don't think you're tired of relationships You just like how comfortable being single is vs trying to be comfortable with another person, which requires more effort and compromise
This is very helpful, I once was blinded by my emotions but God redirected me to the man of God which is suitable partner for me and I've finally found these 5 core to my bf/future husband.
This is a great topic! I believe it's also very important to seek the blessing of the people whom God has placed in our lives as authority such as our parents, spiritual leaders, church elders, etc. As we pray for God's wisdom whether our present partner is the one who He has made for us, He may use people who have authority over us to help us see our partner's traits and values that we mayーdeliberately or unknowinglyーbe overlooking.
If you want my advice, follow the religion of the seals of the prophethood Muhammad peace be upon him. Islam tells you that there is no God worthy of worship except 1. The Creator wasn't 3, he is not a son or a human or a Holy Ghost. He is only 1. People before Jesus peace be upon him were worshiping only 1, after God sent Jesus (peace be upon him) as a noble prophet and messenger of him, people started worshiping him too which is totally wrong. Those who receive the message of Islam and insist on following falsehood, their final destination is hell
@@AgainstNeWorldOrderlol monotheism not only makes a religion true. Also we don't believe any last prophet who doesn't prophesized anything biblical. Stop taking our scriptures and changing it.
@@elroi8325 true because jew are more monotheists than Christians (since christians worship 3 not 1) yet they are in a clear error (rejecting God final prophet and messenger, and following a book that has been corrupted)
@@AgainstNeWorldOrder There is no final prophet in tanak(Bible). Christians Don't worship three Gods. Who told you the book was corrupted? You have No knowledge about where this monotheistic faiths(Judaism,Christianity) came from. The old scripture scrolls found in qumran also same as the canonized Bible. Where is the genealogy of your final prophet? How he came to conclusion that book was corrupted but never knew the Gods name of Bible? Stop claiming Jesus spoke Aramaic, its similar to alla(God in Aramaic) lol The Holy name of God never changed, Jesus was Jew he knew Hebrew scriptures. There is no Alla known to any prophet in Bible. Stop stealing our scriptures.
@@elroi8325 even if you claim that you worship only one. Your actions and talk clearly show that you worship more than one. Both Abraham and Moses (peace be upon them both) knew God as one God. Moses (peace be upon him) clearly states that God is the one and only God. Show me anywhere in scripture (even your own corrupted scripture) that people of Noah or Moses or any nation before Jesus (peace be upon him) called the name Jesus (peace be upon him) as a God!??
Things to consider before getting married. First pray for that desire and above all wait for the whisper of the Holy Spirit for the answer. Remember praying has the sole purpose of knowing if that union is the will of GOD and not our desire. Please wait for GOD's response to make your marriage profitable. While you wait for the answer to your prayer, the suggestions in this post will do you good to know and understand
What a wonderful and timely video. Just this morning I was wondering what the right reasons to marry someone would be and this video came at just the right time. Your drawings are so cute. Thanks for this lovely video. We all need to save this video …..It’ll come in handy in the future. ♥️
It is SO important to note that your physical attraction to your spouse will NOT protect you from temptation with a more attractive person down the line. Proverbs 31:30 says “charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised” Physical attraction won’t last!!! It will not be the driving force of a relationship in any way. It’s important to have intimacy, but that doesn’t always mean physical. Physical intimacy is a gift from God. Relationships should be built on a foundation of trust that no matter what you are going to serve the Lord. The purpose of your marriage is to serve the Lord. Physical attraction and intimacy is a privilege to have, not a foundational point. I appreciate you making this video brother. I love your content! This is just near and dear to my heart.
Beauty and infatuation are holy and godly as well. Read Song of Solomon. That's also God speaking. You really wanna be married to a man who thinks you're unattractive?
My wife is not the most attractive woman on earth. She's cute and that's good enough for me. I am satisfied therefore I don't want any upgrades. A cheater is a cheater regardless of whether his fling is more attractive or not.
Well, in 1 Corinthians 7 the Bible says that you should not deprive your spouse physical intimacy, unless you both agree to abstain for a while for prayer. This is true for the entire marriage, so yes, also when looks have faded, there should still be physical intimacy. Because physical attraction is so much more than fleeting looks...I think true love is so much deeper! It would be bad news indeed if there would be no more sex because looks have faded!
Just as Adam was asleep when God made Eve for him, it is also important that we leave it all to God to pick the right partner for us. Hence spiritual maturity could've come first. Great video!❤
I'm praying for a husband and what you've said here is definitely helpful as i had been asking around if physical attraction is a necessity. Thank you for this video
Thank you so much for this. I truly wish to find a truly Godly man (of course in God’s time) and this video is definitely something I will be using when God brings the man He has ordained for me. Also keep me in your prayers as I continue my walk with Christ. I love you all my brothers and sisters in Christ ❤❤
I was praying for guidance on this matter just a couple hours ago, and the first video that poped up on my feed was this. God bless you brother. You are helping people and changing their lives for good.
As someone who has dated women outside of my faith a few times I now think of two things my grandpa said to my dad and my dad told me. When dating a women meet her parents, the next was marry a women who share the same values as you. This video helps even more then my grandpa's advice. I do highly recommend dating someone who is a Christian as a Christian.
You know what is so beautiful to me? I don’t have a significant other. I’m 23. And I have full contentment and commitment in the lord. And guess what? There is no marriage in heaven! I will be married to Jesus!
Thank you so much!!! This came at the perfect time. I've been in a relationship for 6 months. She is a wonderful disciple who loves God so so much. But I am unable to find her physically attractive. It is with great regret that I have to break up with her. But I think it's the best. And it's been a lesson in understanding how crucial physicality actually is. It's not evil, but the world has twisted it. Though I am breaking up with her today I feel comforted, and I know that there is a man out there for her who can love her and serve her needs completely. Thank you for your encouragement! And please do keep making these amazing videos!
A word of advice. Be committed to your decision, be unwavering. If she's like my ex you'll see all the stages of grief occur before your eyes. When you start that conversation it's a mission and you must be resolute in your decision, it's not a negotiation. Good luck and may God bless you both.
I was in a similar situation in my previous relationship, I wasn’t physically attracted to her and I felt like we weren’t compatible due to a lot of immaturity in the both of us. I tried to force it to work and it ended up making things much worse, I commend you for your maturity and pray that things you and her both continue to keep your eyes on the Lord as you have that hard conversation.
I know this is really hard and you may have let it go on too long (easy human error, hindsight is 20/20), but I want to commend you for not being on the other, more common side of the spectrum of placing too much emphasis on appearance and not even giving attraction a chance to grow. I know God will use this 6 month period for the good of both of you. God bless!
@@brooke96591 appearance isn't every, but it's crucial. All healthy relationships have chemistry and compatibility at their core. I never want my wife to ask me if I think she's beautiful and respond with "meh" that's not fair to her or me.
Watching this has made my day and has further increased my Faith! God bless you for your talent and explanation!!! I’ve recently been praying to keep God first in what I’m currently going through and it has lifted God in my eyes more than ever! Is appreciate any prayers anyone is willing to give. Thank you and God bless you all
I am definitely am NO WHERE NEAR old enougj to marry .. however, this is good to know .. im not even dating now, but Ive learned quite a bit on how to see others and things i need to work on myself .. especially my values , interests , and my calling .. i need to identify who i am in God first before calling any shots, and i guess the biggest thing for me was not compromising Gods calling for me ... even if it really hurts . Lord, thank you for this video . And God bless anyone who reads this as well as the man who makes several helpful, insightful videos like these
Let me give you some advice, kid. Most people are conditioned to have 2 different modes of dating. They either casually date, or they date to marry. My suggestion to you is to only focus on one mode if you want marriage. Only date to marry. Don't take your clothes off with someone unless you expect to marry that person eventually. I don't like how you said, "I'm not even dating yet, let alone looking for marriage." That's a bad mindset. For some reason, people think they can have it all. But they don't realize how stupid they look. "I'm old enough to make my own decisions, but I'm not ready for marriage yet, so let me just get my fill in before marriage real quick. Then when I'm ready to settle down, I'll settle down." I hate that phrase, settle down. Why are you degrading down to something? And getting your fill in before marriage, that's like playing video games before your homework! You understand? The reason I'm giving you this advice is because I'm practicing what I'm preaching. I've never touched a woman. And now I'm not controlled by women's bodies, it's a very powerful and useful tool to have. 99.9% of straight men are controlled by women's bodies, and that's very bad because then they can't think or make good decisions. If you want to experiment with dating different people, then you shouldn't get married at all. Just date casually for the rest of your life. When you're a young adult, you'll look like a hero, but after 30, you'll look stupid. Right now as a young adult, I look stupid because I don't mess around with women, but when I'm married, I'll look like a hero. Well, I'm gonna be married for a longer period of time than I'll be a young adult. You do the math. So, that's my advice. Figure out if you really want marriage because most men don't truly want marriage, you know? I hope you understand this. I had to tell you this or else I wouldn't be able to sleep tonight. Discover what you truly want. If it's marriage, go all out! God bless. 🙏
Physical attraction is not THE most important factor, yet it is placed in the number 1 position. Too many will place more emphasis on this than the other factors BECAUSE it is named first and it aligns with their desires, mindset, circumstances.
This is different for men and women and varies within the population of each gender per individual considerably. Attraction is a very important factor and in my opinion it is also used to steer a person toward a potential mate God has for them. I've seen it work in many situations. For some looks will hold more importance for others not so much. The church tends to coddle those of the latter persuasion but that stems from the invasion of feminism which basically tries to get men to appreciate women for all the things we generally don't. Yes beauty is fleeting but that's across the board. Anyone who starts out at a particular level of beauty will look worse over time. There is a noticeable difference between an attractive woman who has aged and a homely one. They both look worse respectively.
@@jasonwilliams8321 Physical attraction is way deeper than looks. I believe that in a truely loving marriage partners grow more and more attached towards each other, also physically, even when they age/have aged. They will find each other more beautiful over time.
Wow you guys are such a blessing. Im so grateful because I found your channel. Beautiful work and amazing messages you're sharing with us. Love to you and God bless you 💕💗
You know the last part about a man that can't provide reminded me of another video where I don't remember the christian TH-camr but he said before you look for a gf or bf specifically gf ask yourself are you grounded yet meaning do you have a job ect or basically can you stand in your own two feet.
I think an issue here is what do they mean by provide a lot of women want more than is necessary to survive in which case they're actually seeking someone with a really high paying job who can afford a "homestead" a boat homeschooling. 😅 some of that stuff is just not necessary and maybe you would get more out of living a humble life with less worldly things
God bless, truly these are the most important aspects to have in mind if you wish to marry someone. In my case, physical attraction is the deal breaker here. Hopefully God can show me the answer.
People I get attracted to inspire me to quench or grieve the holy spirit. They are narcissistic that's why I'm still single at 47. I never fall in love with a worthy man I disregard them emotionally and romantically. I'll probably never get married. I get a very bad feeling about the man if I fall in love with them and God tells me to let them go.
Yo las veo subtitulado en español y de paso refresco un poco mi ingles jeje, y me encantan tus consejos. Son tan sabios y llenos de la palabra de Dios, y es que si no van acompañados por la palabra, no sería igual. Muchísimas gracias por estos consejos, como joven lo valoro en mi corazón. 💓
I would like to share a testimony, I remember asking god like 1 or 2 years ago for someone and her characteristics and i remember i said "God someone who loves you more than me, Someone like 1 Pedro 3", and other characteristics, and i said at the end, God make your will at your time because your will is perfect, and I've found someone that its literally what i asked to God even the slightest things like hair type, but I know i need to wait and i will wait the time it takes independent of how long it takes, mathew 21:22 was the first verse i saw when asking God for confirmation and i suddenly remembered what i had asked for, Even our goals are connected! God is good all the time. don't go out there looking for someone that God doesn't approve because he always have the best for his children. Overall ask god and he will give, seek and you shall find , call and he will answer. And always say to God "do your will" and he will do the best God bless you all! ❤
You really hammered physical attraction with the first point, but that particular passage speaks to me more about sex. You should not deprive one another of sex, and you shouldn't necessarily turn your nose up at something your partner wants to do. I'm not saying you should agree to everything, but you should be open and be willing to compromise. Also, I think the passage shoots down the idea of "sexual compatibility". Those people who say "you should try it before you buy it". Just like how physical attraction may not be there initially, sexual compatibility may not be there initially. Openness and communication can go far in both places. And like you said, it helps prevent temptation.
Divorced twice, I realize now had I truly known God' plan of marriage and its sacredness I would have not. I was faithful to both, they were not, and I realize I married for the wrong reasons. Please search your hearts, than seek God to know if it is meant to be, that you give yourselves to one another for life. I have forgiven them and pray for all sinners misled by the darkness. Seek first God in all things, not in our human narrowed ways.
You have the responsibility to give each other the affection and physical intimacy that your partner need and if there’s hesitancy or reluctance in that area from either party future temptations arise if someone else shows up who they’re physically attracted to If physical attraction isn’t there immediately I wouldn’t completely disregard someone Physical attraction is not the most important factor but it is a factor and I would encourage everybody not to undermine the importance of romance and physical intimacy Emotional connection Proverbs 18:24 there are people in our lives that stick closer than a brother In other words there are people who have our backs If we’re making a decision to connect our lives to someone permanently wouldn’t it be wise for us to choose a friend who sticks closer than a brother someone who we can feel safe with who can accept us for who we are and even make fun of and just enjoy life with and the reason why this is so important is because as our bodies decay and age the flower of youth will fade and what will be there once it’s gone will hopefully be your friendship with a true friend Hebrews 5:12-14 The author of Hebrews makes a clear distinction between someone who is of full age or mature and someone who is unskilled and in need of the basics so when you’re looking for someone to marry try to distinguish if your potential partner is just a Christian or a devoted follower of Christ Are they humble or do they put people down do they lead you to purity or physical Do they work hard or are they lazy Colossians 3:17
It's interesting, even if I think to myself that I won't get married ever, I find this is very important to teach young Christians how to act if they want to marry each other ;) God bless all our weddings and futures children. Amen
I m turn 26 years old this week and waiting for Gods promise for my future Russian wife 4 feet 11 inches tall and has very long chestnut hair and amber brown eyes to walk slowly and steadily into my life on may 5th 2025 within next year. I Trust in God that His plan and promise for my future Marriage will be fulfilled.
This is hugely convicting the third part made realize that I still need to grow a littl be bit more In maturity so thanks for posting God bless you sir in Jesus name amen 🙏
I'm always afraid that I'm not doing more for living for God because of my laziness and procrastination. But I will never reject Jesus because He saved me from my former sinful lifestyle. Yet I am still a sinner but I'm different than I was before 🙏🏿❤️✝️
It's tough when you meet someone who meets all of these things except that you think your callings don't line up, despite both being good... so you let him go, knowing it's the right thing to do at least in that moment. But it leaves you really wondering if there's someone out there who is even better suited for you. Just gotta trust God on this one. Lord, give me patience and contentment.
What I like the most about this is that it lacks Magical Thinking. I’ve had my own issues and couldn’t figure out why my problems wouldn’t cease and eventually resorted to Magical Thinking rather than solving my problems with actual wisdom but I think the church has a bad problem with enforcing similar beliefs. You need to be financially independent. Even in genesis speaks on leaving your parents and clinging to your wife. The clinging to the Word is not an excuse to not go get a job or learn some skills. Be mature in yourself. Have some good people on your team. Know your personality and if said person compliments yours; essentially, can you enjoy spending time with one another. As a Christian, do they show their devotion to Christ in word, deed, and belief. There are pretty girls and guys in the church with distorted beliefs. You’ve got to vet that and ask questions. It’s okay to serial date because you’ve got to see what’s what and if you guys are compatible. Don’t let desperation lead you. You will settle for unhealthy things. Similarly don’t have too firm extrabiblical aspirations of a Christian family that isn’t even technically Christian. -having a kid homeschooled vs public is a preference and requires a lot of work. It is okay to have this preference as it has its benefits but you’ve got to count the costs of it and if someone wants to contribute to that. -be realistic. -be honest -maybe find a church convention or something to help in your search while you learn more about Christ. -Politics. They aren’t absolute. Even there are differences in conservatism so be mindful of that.
Truly he has shared good things I hope we get to get that man or woman that God has for us. Being gone through divorce or left by someone is so hurting, but our God is more than anything and He will lead to our destiny 🙏🙏🙏
I’ve counseled with numerous married and divorced couples over the last 30 years. I’m just going to tell it like it is. The #1 reason I’ve seen marriages fail both Christian and non-Christian is that no matter how much of a traditional role and responsibility a man keeps the wife simply REFUSES to submit to and respect her husband appropriately. That is the #1Reason Across-the-board With Very Very Little Exception. Being overly opinionated, contrary, argumentative, disrespectful, dishonoring is an absolute epidemic even among Christian women. Also, I’ve never once seen a man neglect a respectful wife.
I don't think having an opinion or engaging in (intellectual) conversation has anything to do with a lack of submission. I can't imagine a husband would want a spouse that doesn't have an opinion of her own and never thinks for herself. I do think the tone in which those conversations are held is very important though, it should always be respectful and loving between spouses.
Amen!! 🙏 Remember to always pray to Lord Jesus Christ, God the Father, and Holy Spirit for advice and to talk!! Amen!! Praying really helps when you mean what you say!! Amen!! thank you so so much Lord Jesus Christ, God the Father, and Holy Spirit for guiding me and so many others for this wonderful video/channel!! Amen!! 🙏😊
Men of god and woman of god need to vet eachother to know if we are both actually following christ if pursuing marriage( are you are who you say you are) . Outside the church the level of degeneracy and sleeping around between single and married folk cheating and divorcing and some say they are christian yet do not display the power of christ in there life . Guard yourselves man of god from selfish and promiscuous ladies to avoid that trauma and going through divorce and getting half your stuff taken .
First of all... It's so hard to become a spiritually mature person, and second it's so hard to FIND a spiritually mature person. Most of girls from churches i know are very physically focused.. It is more important to them if you are going to gym and how you look than what is the condition of your heart and how is your relationship with the Lord doing..
Peace be unto you. It is good that you have that knowledge. 1 Samuel 16:7 Complete Jewish Bible 7 But Adonai said to Sh’mu’el, “Don’t pay attention to how he looks or how tall he is, because I have rejected him. Adonai doesn’t see the way humans see - humans look at the outward appearance, but Adonai looks at the heart.” Proverbs 31:30-31 Complete Jewish Bible ש 30 Charm can lie, beauty can vanish, but a woman who fears Adonai should be praised. ת 31 Give her a share in what she produces; let her works speak her praises at the city gates. Proverbs 2:1-11 Complete Jewish Bible 2 My son, if you will receive my words and store my commands inside you, 2 paying attention to wisdom inclining your mind toward understanding - 3 yes, if you will call for insight and raise your voice for discernment, 4 if you seek it as you would silver and search for it as for hidden treasure - 5 then you will understand the fear of Adonai and find knowledge of God. 6 For Adonai gives wisdom; from his mouth comes knowledge and understanding. 7 He stores up common sense for the upright, is a shield to those whose conduct is blameless, 8 in order to guard the courses of justice and preserve the way of those faithful to him. 9 Then you will understand righteousness, justice, fairness and every good path. 10 For wisdom will enter your heart, knowledge will be enjoyable for you, 11 discretion will watch over you, and discernment will guard you.
Questioning authority, or challenging authority isn't always a bad thing. Nor is it a sign of spiritual immaturity. Those in authority are not always doing the right thing according to Scripture. In those cases, it's better to obey Yahweh rather than man.
I’m 33 and entrepreneur. I definitely don’t want to get married if I don’t have enough money to sustain a family…. And definitely don’t want to have a 9-5 all my life….
I let unbelief of God’s existence enter my heart now I can’t get it out what do I do I prayed about it, I’m in the word every day. But I can’t get it out. What do I do? I’m tired of fighting I don’t have much strength left to do anything.
I’ve been there when it comes to overwhelming doubt. Don’t give up, keep reading the word and praying. Jesus will get you through it. You make the decision when it comes to belief and unbelief, so hold on, and Jesus will sustain you. Also, try to strengthen your apologetics (if you haven’t done that already). Worship God often too, worship has helped me very much in getting through hard times of doubt or other spiritual attacks/struggles. Sometimes it feels impossible but just push through and don’t give up. It may also be demonic if you opened the door to a demon through unbelief, so you need to cast it out if that happens to be the case. I’m just giving every option I can think of, I hope this helps. I’m praying for you.
I think you might need to process that unbelief. It is normal. On the other side of doubt isn’t always unbelief. I took some too me away from the church and seen how nonbelievers were and they made excuses for their lives or had their own problems; much like the church. They were no different nor any better. I don’t believe God is scared or angry for your questions. Ask God honestly about them. He wants to hear what you have to say. Have some honest prayer with a friend. Who will understand and will wish the best for you; which is loving of a friend to do, have a hard discussion and pray about it.
@@Theohybrid thanks, but I believe my heart as settled saying “their is no God.” I am thinking about my experiences with God, but I can’t get to it what do I do?
Think about the complexity of the world. How did it come to be? Do you believe that nothing created the universe? Nothing cannot do anything, because it is nothing. However, the same way a building has a builder, creation has a creator. That is God! Life is hard, and it is easy to question God's existence and abilities when we are struggling. God never promised that we would have an easy life on earth. He never promised that we would have a family that loves us. Everyone is given free will to chose evil, and it pains the Lord to see his children act in disobedience to his commandments, yet he lets us choose anyway. Those who chose evil will have their reward in hell. It sounds like you have a choice to make. You can choose to believe in God and Jesus whom he sent, or not and risk your salvation.
Don’t marry the potential, marry the the person which they trully are. Gold!
Very wise, thanl you.
Just learned this. Good advice!
@@tblazer4932pretty much
It is both. Marry them for who they are but also accepting who they will become.
Islam is a religion who makes us to Believe in Jesus,
We Muslims 100% Believes in Jesus,
We Muslims Believes that Jesus is the Christ,
We Muslims Believes that Jesus will Come Again to this World,
Jesus did Miracles by the Permission of Allah,
Jesus himself Never said “Im God” also Never he said anyone to “Worship Me”
Jesus was Just a Prophet and Messenger Of Allah Only to Guide The People of Israel,
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*Jesus Denies Being God* | Read ⬇️
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"My Father is greater than me." [John 14:28]
“I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to My God and your God.” [John 20:17]
“Jesus said: 'Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.” [Mark 12:29]
“Jesus, Fell with his face to the ground and Prayed.” [Matthew 26:39]
“Jesus said, “My teaching is not my own,
It comes from the one who has sent me.”
[John 7:16]
“I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgement is just because I seek not my own will, but the will of the Father who has sent me." [John 5:30]
“The crowd answered, This is Jesus, the Prophet.” [Matthew 21:10-11]
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*The Coming Of Prophet Muhammad In Bible*
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“I still have many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now. When he the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come, He will glorify me, for he will take what is mine and declare it to you.” [John 16:12-14]
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*Allah Clears About Jesus*
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[Quran:- 5:72]:-
“Jesus has said, "O Children of Israel, worship Allah, my Lord and your Lord."
[Quran:- 19:30]:-
“Jesus has said, "Indeed, I am the servant of Allah. He has given me the Scripture and made me a Prophet.”
[Quran:- 4:171]:-
“Christ Jesus the son of Mary was no more than a messenger of Allah, So believe in Allah and His messengers. Say not "Trinity" desist: it will be better for you: for Allah is one Allah:
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I married my husband in 2018, i was 18 he was 20 both virgins. We both became dedicated Christians without baptism since our parents believed in child baptism. Now we have one of the best marriages and love our daughter so much. We talk about Jesus Christ everyday even if it's just in prayer. When one falls, the other is there and we are teaching our daughter to wait for prayer before we get eating despite her being 1year old and now she waits for us to sit and pray before she starts crying for food. If i knew that being a virgin was not shameful to the extend i know it now, i would have told anyone about it and inspired some more people. May the lord help everyone looking for a marriage to have one like mine in Jesus' name
AMEN
Oh my dayss, you guys seem so cute.. i want what you have respectuflly its so hard finding a dedicated nice christian guys bc all the guys hitting on me only want one thing.. i wish you all the best and God bless❤
@@kianamcintyre9671 thank you. Giving it to the Lord will be the best you can do. I pray that you will find the love of your life in Jesus name
Amen
Im 32 and I wish I was still a virgin but sadly I'm not so it seems I'm unworthy of a virgin wife. Hell it seems I'm unworthy of marriage in general. Its probably why I'm still alone and no one wants me.
@@BansheeKing22 I can understand why you are in this state of mind. But accepting the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus Christ and repent. As long as you are honest to whoever you meet and follow Christ, your sins will be forgiven and you shall be given a new life. We all have sinned at some point and we will sin again but we have salvation that we just need to accept and worship His Holy name
@@kianamcintyre9671
Hmmmm, why do you want a nice guy..???😅
If i'm honest nice guys won't last...
Sooner or later they get trapped in sin because we humans are unfortinatly weak to resist temptations...
And this world is broken and hard!!!
It takes intense hard times with the Lord to even have a change to last in this world...
Look at me for instance, i'm a 27 year old man who came to the Lord while having everything against that happening...
I'm born in the Netherlands which is like the sodom and gomorrah of the world...
My parents do not believe...
my siblings do not believe...
my grandparents did believe,
yet (to my knowledge) never shared it with me...
My communitie is anti God and anti religion...
Almost nobody keeps any of the commandments...
People adore all kinds of things of the creation in stead of the creator...
Nobody knows what love is, instead rely on trading in ''everything''...
And the lies, all the lies to keep everybody away of the trued of God...
They (and sometimes even we) suppress the trued of what we instinctively know,
because we all love the darkness (or part of it) rather that the light...
But we can be victorious warriors of God by the glory of the King of kings,
Yeshua hamashiach (Jesus Christ) our Lord, saviour and God!!! 🕊❤😇
Do not go for a nice man because you might think nice men are harmless, they are not they ar just weak...
Be not affraid you won't find someone who will lead you in love like we are suppose to!!! 😬
The nice man won't last. Test a man if he is more man than Adam was....
By what i mean: One who would sacrifice himself for the sake of you and others!!! 🕊❤😇
That's not a nice man, that's a Godly man who will make you both grow everyday!!! 🕊❤😇
Let us pray:
Dear Father in heaven, hear us and answer us!!!
We are so thankfull that you called us to love you and worship you here on earth!!!
O father, we absolutly need you, to make the right person come into our lives...
We need you, just like we always did and do!!!
O Father,
help all those single Christian warrior find the right wife for them and lead them in love just like you do...
And help all the single christian woman to keep themselfs for those men and love them like only a woman can!!!
We are called to be a kingdom of priests to represent Your Holy Name here on earth.
But on our own we cannot do this o father....
We need you in the rain and the sun...
Please father help us!!!
In the mighty name of your glorious son:
Yeshua Hamashiach (Jesus Christ).
We thank you for what you have done in our lives already and ask you to help us all, Amen!!! 🕊❤😇
P.S. I'm still a virgin (and if you knew how i look you wouldn't believed it)... 😅
Not that i find myself that attractive but others are in shock when i say i'm still a virgin... 😂
So it's not even impossible to meet a men who grew up outside of the church and be a virgin... 😬
Summary for quick reference:
1. Physical Attraction[1 Cor 7:3-5]
2. Emotional Connection/Maturity[Prov 18: 24]
3. Spiritual Maturity [Heb 5: 12-14]
4. Common Values[Eph 2: 10]
5. Grounded Chararcter[1 Tim 5:8]
No perfect relationship, every one cane grow and become better. However, make sure your core values align, and that you do not marry what they could become, but who they currently reveal themselves as. ✌️
The attractiveness comes from appreciating who the person is. I've met people whose looks were not attractive to me until after I started getting to know them. And vice versa, I've found that people who i found to be physically attractive became unattractive as I got to know them better.
@@MoonPhaze5 I agree!
@@MoonPhaze5💯
This video is a good attempt. But I would like to add that actually the example of marriage has already been provided for by Gd. Jesus Christ is the groom, who is the bride? The Church! Does the Church tell Gd to wait till she feels better before she will respond? No. Does the Church tell Gd that hey, because you made me upset today, you won't be getting any honey tonight? No. Does the Church disrespect or scorn at Gd because she thinks Gd did not live up to her expectations? NO NO NO. Many Christians do not even know how to behave as spouses, how then can they even learn be Christians? The RECIPE to a happy marriage is ALREADY provided for in the Holy Bible. And it is just this! : Wives respect your husbands (at all times), Husbands love your wives as yourselves (at all times). And note, your duty is not conditional on what you perceive of the other party. It is YOUR DUTY REGARDLESS.
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church- 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[c] 32 This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
@@MoonPhaze5 Yep that's more in play for women though than men. Hard wiring.
I wish I would have seen this years ago. My 23 yr old husband who claimed to be a mature Christian left my daughter & I 2 days before Christmas... the heartbreak has been UNREAL. I saw him for his potential and thought I was a strong enough Christian to lead him to Christ. Since leaving he's pursued a life of partying, drugs, gaming, & another woman who is a pedophile... after months of being blocked I reached out trying to make it work and failed- this vid was the answer to many many prayers if letting him go is the right thing to do. Please pray for Grant that he will turn back to God. As of me, I'm happily married to God and find joy & satisfaction in serving Him & His amazing promises.
i prayed for you and for him
A woman, who is a pedophile?
Your first mistake was marrying a non-Christian. If there's no baptism before the marriage....there's no marriage, simple. I got along great with a Muslim girl, she was literally perfect! But then I found out she was Muslim. I asked her if she'd convert to Christianity for me and she said no. So I ended it. Sometimes I regret it but I know it's right. You can't marry someone who's not already on fire for Jesus Christ, end of story.
Lol you lead him? What church are you goinh to that teaches that garbage? Why didnt you go for a nice Christian man? You have major issues
@@stevemacinnis5000amen
Here's the biggest point - GOD HAS YOUR HUSBAND/WIFE! If you ever get discouraged, just remember God has your perfect match for you. Every time you think about marriage, pray for your future husband/wife! I do this. I haven't met him yet, but I know God will bring us together at the perfect time. So in the meantime, I will better myself, walk in my walk, and our paths will merge somewhere down the line. I hope and pray that he does the same.
Awww! I can relate a lot! I've contemplated becoming a nun for a while, but my family wants me to date / make sure that marriage is not an option for me. I'm 24, still a virgin, and am a die-hard believer of Jesus Christ, yet a small part of me dreams of being a mother and wife (even if I don't out-rightly admit it). I don't know what lies ahead, but I do know that if God is keeping someone out there for me, I hope we will become close friends and maybe become a married couple! Here's hoping! 🙏
@@Epitaph_of_SeikilosReal 😭‼️ God’s got us girl don’t worry
@@afrofaeries Thank you!!! 😭❤
Paul says, it’s better to be single, if, you have the gift. He says I would spare you all the heartaches of a relationship. He focuses on serving God more completely. I think if you can, stay alone and celibate. This world is being destroyed and he’s coming back asap. Focus on going home. Jesus is your husband
Paul says, it’s better to be single, if, you have the gift. He says I would spare you all the heartaches of a relationship. He focuses on serving God more completely. I think if you can, stay alone and celibate. This world is being destroyed and he’s coming back asap. Focus on going home. Jesus is your husband
Dont be unequally yoked... I married before I was following Jesus and trying to navigate being tied to someone who hates my desire to seek God...is...so...difficult. Lord help those unmarried to be patient and wait on your plan while seeking your face! Also please help those of us married to unbelievers to suffer for Christ in a quiet way that represents Him correctly so that our spouses too may be filled with the Holy Spirit according to Your perfect time Father!
Talk to your FATHER ,fall at HIS throne of Mercy..HE gives rest to HIS beloved.
I hope you grow soo much in CHRIST so that you may reflect HIM ...hopefully it will change HIS heart but if his will is to pull you away from THE LORD then he is not worthy of you because it's not right that's the work of the enemy.
It may be just as difficult to marry someone who feels that being christian is a one and done. Do they study the word? If not...do they know it by heart? Do they say they have already read the bible when you ask them to read together? It can be more difficult to deal with a proud christian, than an unbeliever who is tired of NOT knowing him.
@pauldyrkacz5515 yes that seems very burdensome. I pray people find equally yoked in all facets, especially hunger for the Lord, continually. Praying for marriages 🙏✝️
Watch Fredy de Anda he is a Latin pastor and mostly speaks Spanish but he also speaks in English. He has very good content about marriage subjects.
I'll be turning 20 soon and now i've started to dawn upon these big things like marriage, children, job and education. My parents don't have a good marriage or bond due to past baggage but i want to have a godly marriage that brings love & comfort to me. Thankyou Your videos are aways helpful.
Hey honey, I'm 25 and I'm also looking for marriage. I'd like to get to know you. We can take our time. Let's be friends without meeting in person, and if it goes well, we can talk about a relationship. Sound good? If you're interested, I'll give you my email and from there I can get your number and add you on WhatsApp. I don't have any social media accounts except for IG for my business. Who knows, all 5 core essential concepts could line up for us! ❤ If you're not interested, just ignore this comment. Thanks for taking the time to read this, God bless. 🙏
Same ❤
Kinda same for me 😅 i'm turning 20 soon too and thinking about these things either. I have unbelieving parents so i don't have a good role model in them. Hope your future marriage will be blessed by the Lord and full of true love! 😊
@@vanes8399 oh my thankyou😭💖 i also hope for a godly happy marriage for you and your future partner.
@@vanshikaandriyas9094 thank u so much! 😄🩷
Just got married on the 27th!!! THANK YOU
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The end of all videos you say “Jesus loves you”, never failed to make me tear. Thanks for the great videos and gospel sharing💕
Same! 💖😭
You’re drawings are so cute 😊 Thanks for the tips!
Those are not drawings thats pictures of me and my husband Mikey. Thank you for the compliment 😊
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The fact the Bible says even Marriages should have consent is so real to me
Are you talking about consent for sex? It says that spouses should consent (i.e. they shouldn’t say “no” unless they agree to abstain).
@@alexanderjosephross yes!! And also in big decisions
I don’t know who stated that husbands or wives don’t have certain consent during marriages but they’re wrong
This is an extremely valuable lesson. Thank you for sharing this. I pray it blesses single Christians all over the world
thank you so much for your encouragement and your support :)
I'm not at the age to want to marry but these 5 tips will help me down the road! I have liked different girls who were mostly Christians but they each taught me a lesson that will help me down the road in the future of what to look for in a marriage. Even though the friendships didn't work out but I look at it as growth on my well-being. "Commit your actions to the lord and your plans will succeed"- Proverbs 16:3
I am trying to commit my actions to God now because I haven't been dependent on him although its been in my prayers for a female to come into my life (unless if they're there now) to marry someday who follows God and for who they are!
Me too. I am in love with an unbeliever and trust me it's very hard. I do have a desire to marry someday but right now i really need to heal.
Grace and Peace to you. Would you like to be included in our Theology Group chat on a Different platform for further discussion?
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I have dated guys who have taught me lessons to prepare for who God has for me as of right now. I’m just running after Him and waiting in Him to bring me the man He approves of. I’ll keep you guys in my prayers ❤
@@GloriaVSimon-ro7nn my advice is pray to God He’ll help you be bold in his word and act on character rather than feelings
10000000x better to learn that when you're young. Don't wait till you age old...like me and think "ummm....I think it's good to marry to serve God better? But I don't know anything about marriage." lol
Me and my wife got married before we came into faith, and it's incredible to see how the Lord has been able to use even our weaknesses in our sin while we were unbelievers for his good works. Coming into my faith I recognize where he has protected us from ever being in a point of no return (death, divorce, financial setbacks, etc) and placed believers in our lives to step in through the Holy Spirit to make up for where we've fallen short. Praise be to God with how well he is at having such sovereignty that is often only noticeable in hindsight and how he intricately dances his sovereignty with our free will to do his works.
Thank you! Very helpful! Im 26 and Im in a waiting season not just for my man of God to arrive but to take advantage of this single season to grow spiritually and mentally in maturity✨
Hey Carla. I'm 25 and I'm looking for my wife now. It'll take me at least a year to marry any woman, but we could start off as friends. I live in Canada and I'm waiting for marriage, I've never been with a woman. If you're interested, I'll give you my email and we can go from there, sound good? God bless you, and thanks for reading. 🙏 PS: if we do end up getting married, you'll have to start using apostrophes! 😂 Yeah, I'm a grammar cop. If you don't know the difference between your and you're, I'll probably laugh at you. 😂 As you can see, I've never been with a woman...😅
I've been waiting since I was 23..I'm 40 and still no wife.
@@stevemacinnis5000... How'd it go? :)
@@Contrarian-v7p Well she didn't respond to me! I still got no one. Are you interested, Courtney?
@@Contrarian-v7p Not good. LOL
I honestly believe God brought my wife to me at my job and she saved me from going down the path I was going, which was very bad. We got married after a year of dating and becoming very best friends. God works in mysterious ways, I Love Jesus.🙏🏻💚
Ty for sharing
Thank you for this. I’m in my early 30s and still waiting for someone who meets all of these. It is frustrating at times but I’m thankful to be growing during this time. 🙏
Yeah, it's frustrating for me too. I'm 25 and I'm looking for my wife. The most frustrating thing is when you find someone who you think is literally perfect, but then they turn out to be a complete lie. And then I met another one who was perfect, but she turned out to be Muslim, and I'm looking up going, "why are you doing this?" 😂😂😂 But anyway, my advice to you is to not date casually while you're waiting. And even when you're looking for marriage, make a man wait at least 3 months, although you should wait until marriage. I'm waiting until marriage, and I feel like I have a superpower that no other guy has: I'm not controlled by women's bodies. It's really powerful. I think that practice is also beneficial for women, use it to avoid developing bad habits and use it to test your future husband. A man who can't wait 3 months doesn't want marriage. Let me tell you a secret about men: we don't need to sleep with a woman to know if we will marry her or not. I know it sounds crazy but it's true.
I am 35 and still single also waiting and praying and trusting and knowing the Lord will show my future spouse when the time is right
This book helped me a lot
Where is my mate
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@@ruthgenson308 Ruth, I don't believe in that. You're 35, when is God gonna give you your spouse, when you're 55? What's the point of that? The idea of being single for 50 years just doesn't seem appealing to me, and I highly doubt God wants anyone to be without their spouse for half of their life. I just don't understand the purpose behind that. I think you just need to be more open to people. Not every man is a bad man, you know?
@@stevemacinnis5000 You don’t have to believe in that.
I just mentioned my heart in this nothing else.
I know that the Lord knows my heart and that counts
@@ruthgenson308 I know, I'm sorry if I offended you. I'm just curious though, how long would you be willing to wait? What's the cut-off? Like, at what point do you go, "I can't wait any longer, I'm just gonna find a decent guy and marry him"?
This is an interesting take. For years I’ve thought I should ignore attraction and solely focus on spirit and mind. Truly something to think about.
That's crazy! You're not doing charity work! Attractiveness is a prerequisite for a potential spouse. Because guess what? If someone doesn't look good, they have no choice but to have a good personality, that's the only thing they can bring to the table, and that's especially true for women. This is a good tip that I developed. Ask yourself, "would that girl still act like that if she looked like Kim Kardashian?" And if it's a guy, ask yourself, "would he still act like that if he looked like Dwayne Johnson?"
@@stevemacinnis5000 There are no ugly people. If someone doesn't find a certain person attractive, somebody else will. Also, attraction is way deeper than superficial looks. But if people would be so immature to only look for looks: looks will fade and then what? Then what about the obligation to provide your spouse with physical intimacy? That's why true love is so much deeper
I may not be old enough to get married. But this is for my future. Thank you guys for this message! God bless you so much!
Im an atheist, clicked out of curiosity and was expecting some general video saying you should both love God, find a wife who does motherly duties and vice versa but you addressed important but overlooked qualities/aspects Christians dont consider often in when getting married, every Christian should watch your video before getting married
I see there's a lil Christian in you 🙃
@@gintoki_sakata__ same❤️
I’ve said something similar. Don’t look at potentials. Potential is a promise. Look at patterns. Patterns are what naturally comes out from their character.
what no one knows about marriage before going into it is how incredibly hard it is. it is very, very hard. don’t use marriage as a solution to find happiness
You are 100% correct.
Just got married on the 10th of February. Pray for me guys. It's not easy, although beautiful and I absolutely love it, there are times that suck. Some thoughts some observations about friends and all that jazz
Not easy, but always have God in the center guys. Remember, His ways are higher.
I think the first one would be make sure they are a mature Christian. There’s this girl at my work who recently started wanting to have a relationship with God the Father and she liked me and I also liked her but I was blinded by feelings. She kept saying she doesn’t want to come to church and stuff like that until she reads the whole Bible. She even ghosted me a few times because she didn’t want to respond to the questions. I think she started loosing interest (probably in me) because I came off as “clingy”. I have the spiritual gift of exhortation and she was the first Christian woman I’ve been discipling except I shouldn’t have been going that (I’ll explain why if anyone wants to know). Anyway, I realized there are places she needs to grow spiritually and mentally.
My lesson from this is to guard your heart (proverbs 4:23) and to act on character rather than feeling, and to take a persons maturity before anything else (I’m personally not attracted to anyone if they are not a growing Christian)
"She kept saying she doesn’t want to come to church and stuff like that until she reads the whole Bible." That is a red flag and an excuse... I get someone wanting to read the bible in entirety but that shouldn't be an excuse to keep you from the body of church or growing.
She would have been better off being discipled by an mature woman in the faith.
If you continue then it would be good in marriage; but then again, it would be done after other criteria would be done.
It’s understandable but emotions and lusts are blinding so you can’t make a clear decision like that. It’s hard but preserving your feelings for a good mature, responsible Christian woman is helpful for you. Anything less; or in the trajectory is going to be unavoidable pain for you in the future.
What if she wanted to read the whole Bible first so she could figure out which denomination God belongs to?
@@mattr.1887 1 Samuel 15:22-23, And Samuel said, Hath the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams.
23 For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the Lord, he hath also rejected thee from being king.
The context of this verse is Saul saved some of the animals from the Amalekites to sacrifice to God rather than destroying them, rebellion from God. Samuel comes to Samuel and asks a rhetorical question saying that obeying God is better than sacrificing. As a believer, choosing not to go to church, which Jesus died for, is a sin and rebellion from God. James 4:17, Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.
@@Theohybrid yes, I was going above boundaries. This is what I sent her after I got counseling:
Savanna, I think it will be best to both of us if I introduce you to my friend Grace who has a woman’s Bible study and can help you moving forward. You are the first woman I’m discipling and I’m treating as a fellow man. In the Bible, women should rather be discipled by their parents, other women, or their husband. I want to help others grow but I overstep boundaries instead… it’s not a sin to help teach another woman or having a formal get-together but would I be acting in away which seems dishonorable, as a Christian?
Im so tired of relationships. Ive been happily single for years now but i give my best to those brave enough to get into all of that lol.
I don't think you're tired of relationships
You just like how comfortable being single is vs trying to be comfortable with another person, which requires more effort and compromise
This is very helpful, I once was blinded by my emotions but God redirected me to the man of God which is suitable partner for me and I've finally found these 5 core to my bf/future husband.
This is a great topic!
I believe it's also very important to seek the blessing of the people whom God has placed in our lives as authority such as our parents, spiritual leaders, church elders, etc.
As we pray for God's wisdom whether our present partner is the one who He has made for us, He may use people who have authority over us to help us see our partner's traits and values that we mayーdeliberately or unknowinglyーbe overlooking.
If you want my advice, follow the religion of the seals of the prophethood Muhammad peace be upon him. Islam tells you that there is no God worthy of worship except 1. The Creator wasn't 3, he is not a son or a human or a Holy Ghost. He is only 1. People before Jesus peace be upon him were worshiping only 1, after God sent Jesus (peace be upon him) as a noble prophet and messenger of him, people started worshiping him too which is totally wrong. Those who receive the message of Islam and insist on following falsehood, their final destination is hell
@@AgainstNeWorldOrderlol monotheism not only makes a religion true. Also we don't believe any last prophet who doesn't prophesized anything biblical. Stop taking our scriptures and changing it.
@@elroi8325 true because jew are more monotheists than Christians (since christians worship 3 not 1) yet they are in a clear error (rejecting God final prophet and messenger, and following a book that has been corrupted)
@@AgainstNeWorldOrder There is no final prophet in tanak(Bible). Christians Don't worship three Gods.
Who told you the book was corrupted?
You have No knowledge about where this monotheistic faiths(Judaism,Christianity) came from. The old scripture scrolls found in qumran also same as the canonized Bible.
Where is the genealogy of your final prophet? How he came to conclusion that book was corrupted but never knew the Gods name of Bible?
Stop claiming Jesus spoke Aramaic, its similar to alla(God in Aramaic) lol
The Holy name of God never changed, Jesus was Jew he knew Hebrew scriptures. There is no Alla known to any prophet in Bible.
Stop stealing our scriptures.
@@elroi8325 even if you claim that you worship only one. Your actions and talk clearly show that you worship more than one.
Both Abraham and Moses (peace be upon them both) knew God as one God. Moses (peace be upon him) clearly states that God is the one and only God.
Show me anywhere in scripture (even your own corrupted scripture) that people of Noah or Moses or any nation before Jesus (peace be upon him) called the name Jesus (peace be upon him) as a God!??
Yoooo...you are PREACHING! I'm sharing this with my friends and my pastors. We need this! Thank you! Grace and peace to you!
thank you so much for sharing our channel and for supporting us!! we hope to continue making videos that can bless the church :)
Things to consider before getting married. First pray for that desire and above all wait for the whisper of the Holy Spirit for the answer. Remember praying has the sole purpose of knowing if that union is the will of GOD and not our desire. Please wait for GOD's response to make your marriage profitable. While you wait for the answer to your prayer, the suggestions in this post will do you good to know and understand
Thank you!
5 Core Essentials:
1) Physical Attraction
2) Emotional Connection
3) Spiritual Maturity
4) Common Values
5) Grounded Character
What a wonderful and timely video. Just this morning I was wondering what the right reasons to marry someone would be and this video came at just the right time. Your drawings are so cute. Thanks for this lovely video. We all need to save this video …..It’ll come in handy in the future. ♥️
This channel is so impactful. Learning every day
Thank you to GOD for using you to share such crucial knowledge 🙏🏽 ❤
It is SO important to note that your physical attraction to your spouse will NOT protect you from temptation with a more attractive person down the line. Proverbs 31:30 says “charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised”
Physical attraction won’t last!!! It will not be the driving force of a relationship in any way. It’s important to have intimacy, but that doesn’t always mean physical. Physical intimacy is a gift from God.
Relationships should be built on a foundation of trust that no matter what you are going to serve the Lord. The purpose of your marriage is to serve the Lord. Physical attraction and intimacy is a privilege to have, not a foundational point.
I appreciate you making this video brother. I love your content! This is just near and dear to my heart.
Beauty and infatuation are holy and godly as well. Read Song of Solomon. That's also God speaking.
You really wanna be married to a man who thinks you're unattractive?
My wife is not the most attractive woman on earth. She's cute and that's good enough for me. I am satisfied therefore I don't want any upgrades. A cheater is a cheater regardless of whether his fling is more attractive or not.
Well, in 1 Corinthians 7 the Bible says that you should not deprive your spouse physical intimacy, unless you both agree to abstain for a while for prayer. This is true for the entire marriage, so yes, also when looks have faded, there should still be physical intimacy. Because physical attraction is so much more than fleeting looks...I think true love is so much deeper! It would be bad news indeed if there would be no more sex because looks have faded!
Just as Adam was asleep when God made Eve for him, it is also important that we leave it all to God to pick the right partner for us. Hence spiritual maturity could've come first. Great video!❤
Said every INCEL.
I'm praying for a husband and what you've said here is definitely helpful as i had been asking around if physical attraction is a necessity. Thank you for this video
May God guide us in our search
Thank you so much for this. I truly wish to find a truly Godly man (of course in God’s time) and this video is definitely something I will be using when God brings the man He has ordained for me. Also keep me in your prayers as I continue my walk with Christ. I love you all my brothers and sisters in Christ ❤❤
I was praying for guidance on this matter just a couple hours ago, and the first video that poped up on my feed was this. God bless you brother. You are helping people and changing their lives for good.
As someone who has dated women outside of my faith a few times I now think of two things my grandpa said to my dad and my dad told me. When dating a women meet her parents, the next was marry a women who share the same values as you. This video helps even more then my grandpa's advice. I do highly recommend dating someone who is a Christian as a Christian.
AMEN!!! PRAISE THE LORD!! GREAT VIDEO AND MESSAGE!!✝️✝️✝️🙌🙌🙌🙌
Yesss I love all these core essentials and I’m in complete agreement!!
You know what is so beautiful to me? I don’t have a significant other. I’m 23. And I have full contentment and commitment in the lord. And guess what? There is no marriage in heaven! I will be married to Jesus!
@@hopehansen5573 God bless you
Thank you ❤. God bless you indeed... This couldn't have popped up in my recommendation on a better time🥺❤️ God bless y'all ❤
Thank you so much!!! This came at the perfect time. I've been in a relationship for 6 months. She is a wonderful disciple who loves God so so much. But I am unable to find her physically attractive. It is with great regret that I have to break up with her. But I think it's the best. And it's been a lesson in understanding how crucial physicality actually is. It's not evil, but the world has twisted it.
Though I am breaking up with her today I feel comforted, and I know that there is a man out there for her who can love her and serve her needs completely.
Thank you for your encouragement! And please do keep making these amazing videos!
A word of advice. Be committed to your decision, be unwavering. If she's like my ex you'll see all the stages of grief occur before your eyes. When you start that conversation it's a mission and you must be resolute in your decision, it's not a negotiation. Good luck and may God bless you both.
@@KarkandMadnessAdmin thank you for your encouragement. I definitely will stand firm.
I was in a similar situation in my previous relationship, I wasn’t physically attracted to her and I felt like we weren’t compatible due to a lot of immaturity in the both of us. I tried to force it to work and it ended up making things much worse, I commend you for your maturity and pray that things you and her both continue to keep your eyes on the Lord as you have that hard conversation.
I know this is really hard and you may have let it go on too long (easy human error, hindsight is 20/20), but I want to commend you for not being on the other, more common side of the spectrum of placing too much emphasis on appearance and not even giving attraction a chance to grow. I know God will use this 6 month period for the good of both of you. God bless!
@@brooke96591 appearance isn't every, but it's crucial. All healthy relationships have chemistry and compatibility at their core. I never want my wife to ask me if I think she's beautiful and respond with "meh" that's not fair to her or me.
Watching this has made my day and has further increased my Faith! God bless you for your talent and explanation!!! I’ve recently been praying to keep God first in what I’m currently going through and it has lifted God in my eyes more than ever! Is appreciate any prayers anyone is willing to give. Thank you and God bless you all
Very, very, VERY good points! Thanks for taking the time to make this. I am sure it will help many people!
I am definitely am NO WHERE NEAR old enougj to marry .. however, this is good to know .. im not even dating now, but Ive learned quite a bit on how to see others and things i need to work on myself .. especially my values , interests , and my calling .. i need to identify who i am in God first before calling any shots, and i guess the biggest thing for me was not compromising Gods calling for me ... even if it really hurts . Lord, thank you for this video . And God bless anyone who reads this as well as the man who makes several helpful, insightful videos like these
Let me give you some advice, kid. Most people are conditioned to have 2 different modes of dating. They either casually date, or they date to marry. My suggestion to you is to only focus on one mode if you want marriage. Only date to marry. Don't take your clothes off with someone unless you expect to marry that person eventually. I don't like how you said, "I'm not even dating yet, let alone looking for marriage." That's a bad mindset. For some reason, people think they can have it all. But they don't realize how stupid they look. "I'm old enough to make my own decisions, but I'm not ready for marriage yet, so let me just get my fill in before marriage real quick. Then when I'm ready to settle down, I'll settle down." I hate that phrase, settle down. Why are you degrading down to something? And getting your fill in before marriage, that's like playing video games before your homework! You understand? The reason I'm giving you this advice is because I'm practicing what I'm preaching. I've never touched a woman. And now I'm not controlled by women's bodies, it's a very powerful and useful tool to have. 99.9% of straight men are controlled by women's bodies, and that's very bad because then they can't think or make good decisions. If you want to experiment with dating different people, then you shouldn't get married at all. Just date casually for the rest of your life. When you're a young adult, you'll look like a hero, but after 30, you'll look stupid. Right now as a young adult, I look stupid because I don't mess around with women, but when I'm married, I'll look like a hero. Well, I'm gonna be married for a longer period of time than I'll be a young adult. You do the math. So, that's my advice. Figure out if you really want marriage because most men don't truly want marriage, you know? I hope you understand this. I had to tell you this or else I wouldn't be able to sleep tonight. Discover what you truly want. If it's marriage, go all out! God bless. 🙏
4:12 sometimes the one God intends for us to marry, is closer than we realize
Physical attraction is not THE most important factor, yet it is placed in the number 1 position. Too many will place more emphasis on this than the other factors BECAUSE it is named first and it aligns with their desires, mindset, circumstances.
This is different for men and women and varies within the population of each gender per individual considerably. Attraction is a very important factor and in my opinion it is also used to steer a person toward a potential mate God has for them. I've seen it work in many situations. For some looks will hold more importance for others not so much. The church tends to coddle those of the latter persuasion but that stems from the invasion of feminism which basically tries to get men to appreciate women for all the things we generally don't. Yes beauty is fleeting but that's across the board. Anyone who starts out at a particular level of beauty will look worse over time. There is a noticeable difference between an attractive woman who has aged and a homely one. They both look worse respectively.
@@jasonwilliams8321 Physical attraction is way deeper than looks. I believe that in a truely loving marriage partners grow more and more attached towards each other, also physically, even when they age/have aged. They will find each other more beautiful over time.
Wow you guys are such a blessing. Im so grateful because I found your channel. Beautiful work and amazing messages you're sharing with us. Love to you and God bless you 💕💗
Oh Lord im almost 32. But i know im not ready so ill be still.
Ill wait in patience and let you guide me day by day.
Im no longer the owner of my self
That’s a powerful prayer 🙏🙏🙏
Do I have to worry about this ever? No, because even though I am interested in being in one, I will never EVER be in a relationship
You know the last part about a man that can't provide reminded me of another video where I don't remember the christian TH-camr but he said before you look for a gf or bf specifically gf ask yourself are you grounded yet meaning do you have a job ect or basically can you stand in your own two feet.
I think an issue here is what do they mean by provide a lot of women want more than is necessary to survive in which case they're actually seeking someone with a really high paying job who can afford a "homestead" a boat homeschooling. 😅 some of that stuff is just not necessary and maybe you would get more out of living a humble life with less worldly things
Lots of women out earn their husbands nowadays.
thank u holy spirit amen
God bless, truly these are the most important aspects to have in mind if you wish to marry someone. In my case, physical attraction is the deal breaker here. Hopefully God can show me the answer.
Thank you ,the whiteboard animation and the voice over is so engaging!!!!!
This was both educational and informative as it was detailed in outlining scriptural principles. 😊
People I get attracted to inspire me to quench or grieve the holy spirit. They are narcissistic that's why I'm still single at 47. I never fall in love with a worthy man I disregard them emotionally and romantically. I'll probably never get married. I get a very bad feeling about the man if I fall in love with them and God tells me to let them go.
Thank you Broe, the information was helpful
Yo las veo subtitulado en español y de paso refresco un poco mi ingles jeje, y me encantan tus consejos. Son tan sabios y llenos de la palabra de Dios, y es que si no van acompañados por la palabra, no sería igual. Muchísimas gracias por estos consejos, como joven lo valoro en mi corazón. 💓
Loved this video!! you're changing lives and making a difference fs blessings to you!!
This was an absolute treasure! ❤🙌🏻
Hello im 16 years old, and i have a gf, and i wanna is thanks for the tips. Im fully a follower of christ who has determination in God.
You are still a child , focus on JESUS ,guard your heart
I would like to share a testimony, I remember asking god like 1 or 2 years ago for someone and her characteristics and i remember i said "God someone who loves you more than me, Someone like 1 Pedro 3", and other characteristics, and i said at the end, God make your will at your time because your will is perfect, and I've found someone that its literally what i asked to God even the slightest things like hair type, but I know i need to wait and i will wait the time it takes independent of how long it takes, mathew 21:22 was the first verse i saw when asking God for confirmation and i suddenly remembered what i had asked for,
Even our goals are connected! God is good all the time. don't go out there looking for someone that God doesn't approve because he always have the best for his children.
Overall ask god and he will give, seek and you shall find , call and he will answer. And always say to God "do your will" and he will do the best God bless you all! ❤
Very insightful and encouraging video. Thank you!
You really hammered physical attraction with the first point, but that particular passage speaks to me more about sex. You should not deprive one another of sex, and you shouldn't necessarily turn your nose up at something your partner wants to do. I'm not saying you should agree to everything, but you should be open and be willing to compromise. Also, I think the passage shoots down the idea of "sexual compatibility". Those people who say "you should try it before you buy it". Just like how physical attraction may not be there initially, sexual compatibility may not be there initially. Openness and communication can go far in both places. And like you said, it helps prevent temptation.
i understand your line of thinking and i agree with alot of what you said. thank you for sharing your thoughts :)
If sexual compatibility aint there form the get go it generally never will be. Friendship and love on the other hand can grow.
Wow, this was such a blessing. Thank you so much!!!! Please keep following GOD and making content for him.
You guys always make great videos with spirit-filled wisdom!
Divorced twice, I realize now had I truly known God' plan of marriage and its sacredness I would have not. I was faithful to both, they were not, and I realize I married for the wrong reasons. Please search your hearts, than seek God to know if it is meant to be, that you give yourselves to one another for life. I have forgiven them and pray for all sinners misled by the darkness. Seek first God in all things, not in our human narrowed ways.
You have the responsibility to give each other the affection and physical intimacy that your partner need and if there’s hesitancy or reluctance in that area from either party future temptations arise if someone else shows up who they’re physically attracted to
If physical attraction isn’t there immediately I wouldn’t completely disregard someone
Physical attraction is not the most important factor but it is a factor and I would encourage everybody not to undermine the importance of romance and physical intimacy
Emotional connection
Proverbs 18:24 there are people in our lives that stick closer than a brother In other words there are people who have our backs
If we’re making a decision to connect our lives to someone permanently wouldn’t it be wise for us to choose a friend who sticks closer than a brother someone who we can feel safe with who can accept us for who we are and even make fun of and just enjoy life with and the reason why this is so important is because as our bodies decay and age the flower of youth will fade and what will be there once it’s gone will hopefully be your friendship with a true friend
Hebrews 5:12-14
The author of Hebrews makes a clear distinction between someone who is of full age or mature and someone who is unskilled and in need of the basics so when you’re looking for someone to marry try to distinguish if your potential partner is just a Christian or a devoted follower of Christ
Are they humble or do they put people down do they lead you to purity or physical
Do they work hard or are they lazy
Colossians 3:17
Can you make a video on divorce, remarriage, and widowing, please?
It's interesting, even if I think to myself that I won't get married ever, I find this is very important to teach young Christians how to act if they want to marry each other ;) God bless all our weddings and futures children. Amen
Be a Christian should not be the only thing we should look for but we should look if they have the same values as us or they have good fruits or seeds
This was such a great video! Thank you God for allowing me to come across it!🙏🏽
Great vital video!! I have to take notes.😅
Thank you bro for this beautiful sharing, God bless you!
I m turn 26 years old this week and waiting for Gods promise for my future Russian wife 4 feet 11 inches tall and has very long chestnut hair and amber brown eyes to walk slowly and steadily into my life on may 5th 2025 within next year. I Trust in God that His plan and promise for my future Marriage will be fulfilled.
I just give my knowledge of what I learned to someone else for this video, cause I don see myself getting married. There is just no one around.
This is hugely convicting the third part made realize that I still need to grow a littl be bit more In maturity so thanks for posting God bless you sir in Jesus name amen 🙏
I'm always afraid that I'm not doing more for living for God because of my laziness and procrastination.
But I will never reject Jesus because He saved me from my former sinful lifestyle. Yet I am still a sinner but I'm different than I was before 🙏🏿❤️✝️
It's tough when you meet someone who meets all of these things except that you think your callings don't line up, despite both being good... so you let him go, knowing it's the right thing to do at least in that moment. But it leaves you really wondering if there's someone out there who is even better suited for you. Just gotta trust God on this one. Lord, give me patience and contentment.
Thank you so much! God bless you greatly.
Ahh 4 definitely stuck out to me. Now it makes sense
this is so good and so rich thanks for sharing!! sooo goood
What I like the most about this is that it lacks Magical Thinking. I’ve had my own issues and couldn’t figure out why my problems wouldn’t cease and eventually resorted to Magical Thinking rather than solving my problems with actual wisdom but I think the church has a bad problem with enforcing similar beliefs.
You need to be financially independent. Even in genesis speaks on leaving your parents and clinging to your wife. The clinging to the Word is not an excuse to not go get a job or learn some skills.
Be mature in yourself. Have some good people on your team.
Know your personality and if said person compliments yours; essentially, can you enjoy spending time with one another.
As a Christian, do they show their devotion to Christ in word, deed, and belief.
There are pretty girls and guys in the church with distorted beliefs. You’ve got to vet that and ask questions. It’s okay to serial date because you’ve got to see what’s what and if you guys are compatible.
Don’t let desperation lead you. You will settle for unhealthy things.
Similarly don’t have too firm extrabiblical aspirations of a Christian family that isn’t even technically Christian.
-having a kid homeschooled vs public is a preference and requires a lot of work. It is okay to have this preference as it has its benefits but you’ve got to count the costs of it and if someone wants to contribute to that.
-be realistic.
-be honest
-maybe find a church convention or something to help in your search while you learn more about Christ.
-Politics. They aren’t absolute. Even there are differences in conservatism so be mindful of that.
Love this! I totally agree! ❤
Really makes me think! Thank you for sharing!
Truly he has shared good things I hope we get to get that man or woman that God has for us.
Being gone through divorce or left by someone is so hurting, but our God is more than anything and He will lead to our destiny 🙏🙏🙏
I’ve counseled with numerous married and divorced couples over the last 30 years. I’m just going to tell it like it is. The #1 reason I’ve seen marriages fail both Christian and non-Christian is that no matter how much of a traditional role and responsibility a man keeps the wife simply REFUSES to submit to and respect her husband appropriately. That is the #1Reason Across-the-board With Very Very Little Exception. Being overly opinionated, contrary, argumentative, disrespectful, dishonoring is an absolute epidemic even among Christian women. Also, I’ve never once seen a man neglect a respectful wife.
What about men cheating on wife? There is plenty of them.
@@Daryakieyes, because their flesh has not died. It's a terrible sin in the sight of God. May God forgive them.
@@Daryakie And plenty of women cheating on their husbands.
I don't think having an opinion or engaging in (intellectual) conversation has anything to do with a lack of submission. I can't imagine a husband would want a spouse that doesn't have an opinion of her own and never thinks for herself. I do think the tone in which those conversations are held is very important though, it should always be respectful and loving between spouses.
My wife and I love this vido
Amen!! 🙏 Remember to always pray to Lord Jesus Christ, God the Father, and Holy Spirit for advice and to talk!! Amen!! Praying really helps when you mean what you say!! Amen!! thank you so so much Lord Jesus Christ, God the Father, and Holy Spirit for guiding me and so many others for this wonderful video/channel!! Amen!! 🙏😊
Men of god and woman of god need to vet eachother to know if we are both actually following christ if pursuing marriage( are you are who you say you are) . Outside the church the level of degeneracy and sleeping around between single and married folk cheating and divorcing and some say they are christian yet do not display the power of christ in there life . Guard yourselves man of god from selfish and promiscuous ladies to avoid that trauma and going through divorce and getting half your stuff taken .
First of all... It's so hard to become a spiritually mature person, and second it's so hard to FIND a spiritually mature person. Most of girls from churches i know are very physically focused.. It is more important to them if you are going to gym and how you look than what is the condition of your heart and how is your relationship with the Lord doing..
Peace be unto you. It is good that you have that knowledge.
1 Samuel 16:7
Complete Jewish Bible
7 But Adonai said to Sh’mu’el, “Don’t pay attention to how he looks or how tall he is, because I have rejected him. Adonai doesn’t see the way humans see - humans look at the outward appearance, but Adonai looks at the heart.”
Proverbs 31:30-31
Complete Jewish Bible
ש 30 Charm can lie, beauty can vanish,
but a woman who fears Adonai should be praised.
ת 31 Give her a share in what she produces;
let her works speak her praises at the city gates.
Proverbs 2:1-11
Complete Jewish Bible
2 My son, if you will receive my words
and store my commands inside you,
2 paying attention to wisdom
inclining your mind toward understanding -
3 yes, if you will call for insight
and raise your voice for discernment,
4 if you seek it as you would silver
and search for it as for hidden treasure -
5 then you will understand the fear of Adonai
and find knowledge of God.
6 For Adonai gives wisdom;
from his mouth comes knowledge and understanding.
7 He stores up common sense for the upright,
is a shield to those whose conduct is blameless,
8 in order to guard the courses of justice
and preserve the way of those faithful to him.
9 Then you will understand righteousness, justice,
fairness and every good path.
10 For wisdom will enter your heart,
knowledge will be enjoyable for you,
11 discretion will watch over you,
and discernment will guard you.
Let god be the judge of your life :)
Questioning authority, or challenging authority isn't always a bad thing. Nor is it a sign of spiritual immaturity. Those in authority are not always doing the right thing according to Scripture. In those cases, it's better to obey Yahweh rather than man.
You are correct.
Ecclesiastes 3:1
Complete Jewish Bible
3 For everything there is a season,
a right time for every intention under heaven -
fantastic video. spot on across the board. thank you!
I’m 33 and entrepreneur. I definitely don’t want to get married if I don’t have enough money to sustain a family…. And definitely don’t want to have a 9-5 all my life….
I let unbelief of God’s existence enter my heart now I can’t get it out what do I do I prayed about it, I’m in the word every day. But I can’t get it out. What do I do? I’m tired of fighting I don’t have much strength left to do anything.
I’ve been there when it comes to overwhelming doubt. Don’t give up, keep reading the word and praying. Jesus will get you through it. You make the decision when it comes to belief and unbelief, so hold on, and Jesus will sustain you. Also, try to strengthen your apologetics (if you haven’t done that already). Worship God often too, worship has helped me very much in getting through hard times of doubt or other spiritual attacks/struggles. Sometimes it feels impossible but just push through and don’t give up. It may also be demonic if you opened the door to a demon through unbelief, so you need to cast it out if that happens to be the case. I’m just giving every option I can think of, I hope this helps. I’m praying for you.
You should fill your mind with thanksgiving of what God has done in your life for you (daily). Thanksgiving and praise will drive out the enemy.
I think you might need to process that unbelief. It is normal.
On the other side of doubt isn’t always unbelief.
I took some too me away from the church and seen how nonbelievers were and they made excuses for their lives or had their own problems; much like the church. They were no different nor any better.
I don’t believe God is scared or angry for your questions.
Ask God honestly about them. He wants to hear what you have to say.
Have some honest prayer with a friend. Who will understand and will wish the best for you; which is loving of a friend to do, have a hard discussion and pray about it.
@@Theohybrid thanks, but I believe my heart as settled saying “their is no God.” I am thinking about my experiences with God, but I can’t get to it what do I do?
Think about the complexity of the world. How did it come to be? Do you believe that nothing created the universe? Nothing cannot do anything, because it is nothing. However, the same way a building has a builder, creation has a creator. That is God! Life is hard, and it is easy to question God's existence and abilities when we are struggling. God never promised that we would have an easy life on earth. He never promised that we would have a family that loves us. Everyone is given free will to chose evil, and it pains the Lord to see his children act in disobedience to his commandments, yet he lets us choose anyway. Those who chose evil will have their reward in hell. It sounds like you have a choice to make. You can choose to believe in God and Jesus whom he sent, or not and risk your salvation.
Oh my God...thanks alot sir...we have really opened my eyes on that.
This was great! Thank you 🌈