Why Sibling Relationships Are So Important | Vantage with Palki Sharma
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- Why Sibling Relationships Are So Important | Vantage with Palki Sharma
Sibling relationships are a unique blend of camaraderie and competition, fostering bonds that last a lifetime. They offer companionship, support, and shared memories. They also shape one's identity and social skills. Quirks abound, from playful teasing to heated debates, yet they strengthen understanding and tolerance. On April 10, the U.S. celebrated National Siblings Day to honor this bond. But it is not the only country with such a celebration. Europe celebrates Brothers and Sisters day on May 31. India has Raksha Bandhan in the month of August every year. Such celebrations remind us to cherish the laughter, fights, and secrets shared with our siblings. What does research say about sibling relationships? What makes them so enduring and special? Palki Sharma tells you.
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You cant live with them and cant live without them ❤
siblings ain't sheit !
I have not seen or spoken with my sister in 40 years, and I am OK with it!
I’m happily living WITHOUT my siblings.
You suk tbh@@woodsmanforlife1677
@@woodsmanforlife1677 same here have not seen or spoken to my sister in 5 years... she only wants money... now she on to sucking the fathers money dont know what she will do after her father is dead.... and yeah i am very happy with not talking to her
It's saying in my state that “No can be ur biggest well wishers like siblings & no one can be ur biggest enemy as Siblings ” 😂 Siblings are the key ❤️
its the sour truth... my sister is one of my enemies 😀😀😀😀😀
Hahaha - Well said learned later in life.. It’s like “Knowing the world after white hair comes in head”… Learned in life “Don’t trust anyone - meaning anyone for that matter”… Live your dreams - Achieve your dreams - live your life on your terms with adhering society norms”… If anyone feels that you’re on right track for yourselves - then go ahead not listening to anyone or any negatives even from your own family members be it a siblings or relatives, sometimes parents too depends..
Well mine belongs to latter category. It's been 2 years since we talked and the last time I tried to mend ways didn't work well and everything was back to square one in 3 days. So i have let it stay the way it is
That kidney line at start and clothes at end 😂😂
I loved that line 😂
Why there is a culture for brother sister bond , and not for brother brother bond why ?
That's hypocracy. Clothes are materialistic things. Who cares?
It's all fun and games until siblings get married and file a law suit against each other to get inherited property
Bad parenting makes this happen and most importantly if the kids witnessed such from their own parents so never talk nonsense about your brother and sister too. If your parents weren't biased then both will take lightly and share it without a fuss.
Must be Americans
You have told the truth .it is exactly what happens in every ones life
@@narasimsagi1yes I ve experienced ut myself. It is because if bad parenting
I had watched many people change after marriage siblings become enemies the worst enemies
Siblings are a headache. When they grow up the fight for property is no more innocent and it's proven.😢
Very few are really good from heart.
You are right. I have seen my father and uncle become strangers all thanks to property disputes.
That's why its parents responsibility to share their property to children without taking consent from elder children.
But unfortunately siblings relationship ruined in the name of their carelessness.
Yes I agree, friends are important part of life but Siblings are 'Real Best Friends' in life because friends are chosen by us but siblings are pre- chosen for us and hence the bond formed is totally natural
We are four sisters and we had a whale of a time as we grew up together side by side. We played together, prayed together, ate together and loved each other immensely. Sometimes we fought, squabbled, called each other names and finally became friends again and always stood up for one another.
Now we are leading separate lives in our marital homes , yet at any given time, we are " All for one and one for all."
Any ONLY child attendance 😢😢😢
🥲
its torture of a lesser kind but still a torture nonetheless, specially when u don't have many friends. i am single child too.
fuck, i have 2 friends and they are only children of their parents, both of em have depression of some sort, no friends besides me and they are not even friends with each other.
Single child is not a curse. There are so many siblings out there who haven’t spoken to each other for years. It’s all in the mind
Isliye cousins exist karte h.
lucky
Thank you palki for being India's global voice ❤, we did not had any Al Jazeera or any other similar global channels earlier to be India's global voice.
Unfortunately The Chinese don't have siblings, they have little emperors.
It goes same to Palki's daughter also
😢
It changing with the three child policy now 😂
Ending note about borrowing clothes got me good and I laughed out loud. Me and my brother share a beautiful bond and he's been my guardian angel.
after seeing the video i just randomly barged into my brother's room to annoy him😂
In a world of one and done and none and Done,some of us chose to have two Children.while we respect other's choices, we must say, sibling bond is healthy and parents cant replace a brother or a sister.
More the siblings lesser the inheritance property😂
You are evil.
😂😂😂
Inverse proportional 😂
You must be fun in parties and festival !!
Sad to learn that many people in comments had bitter relationship with their siblings ....
One learns situational leadership, team building with siblings
I love my siblings and cherish that special bond i shared with them. They are my lifelines..
palkis got some beef regarding her sis borrowing her clothes 😅😅😂
Big Kudos to the channel for speaking on this topic in the world of individualism!
This news channel is giving important to lot of study. This is so educating.. THANK YOU.
Palki Sharma spitting facts!!!
Fighting bond is strong 😅
I cant imagine my life without my 2 brothers and around 54 first cousins। It is just fin fun and more fun when we all meet। I thank my grand parents for having 8 or 9 children and giving me a biggg famiy witb lots of love and funny fights।
Not only sbiling relationships, Every relationship is important part of life.
Very very true. Lucky to have them
It's one of the best relationship of the world.❤❤.People who have siblings are the lukiest ones. After all there will be a person for whom you will be the priority...
Your conclusion statements will be really entertaining and thought heavy always
The dynamics are not same in every sibling relationship. Depending on same gender or mixed gender siblings, the bond is stronger or weaker. It also depends on how parents treat their children without giving too much attention to one of the child, making the other child jealous.
when u see 2 siblings fighting, don't dare to interfere. If done, in no time you will be in 2v1 battle
In Karnataka, it is called nagapanchami/vadahutt panchami. On this day, sisters gift brothers and there are some more things like putting butter on brothers back etc.,
Ofcourse we are lucky
We share our feelings each other
If u wish or not..u learn sharing...without siblings we cant enjoy our childhood💙
I'm very grateful to my sister for being there for me
Being a single child , I'd say I'm the happiest...I have my parents that's enough doesn't mean that I need siblings to share evtg... 😅
and one day they will pass away and you will be left alone, same will be with everybody's parents that's harsh reality, marriage may or may not last in these days and you get married after many years of your life, while the sibling stays with you from your childhood to your deathbed or you on theirs, can any other person stay that long in your life ? No! While its okay you don't have a sibling, but happiest really ? And feeling proud about it ? Sad really
@@souptikmukhopadhyay6531 Iv never felt lik I wanted one I'm happy with that.. Eventually everybody is alone n juggling with their lives ... Everything is fun n nice until one gets married n gets parted with their partners..... Rest all is history!!!
Great to hear this !! My son is going to be an only child mostly ;!!
I love how palki addressed the entire segment for this one
Very importend 📖📯Thank You for Sharing Palki🖐️♥️
The last line is so true!! 😂😂
I'm an only child and I'm happy about it.
U r lucky
what other choice do you have ? But for sure you have missed out on one hell of a experience
East or west, sister is the best!🥰
So true the ending
Beautiful❤
Palki, you always end your stories with a BANG 😅
Certainly 💯
wow superb ......(Mumbai)
Great content💟
Siblings are god sent angels and demons ❤
That last line…😂😂
Parents affect sibling dynamic. Period.
“Don’t borrow clothes without asking”😂❤❤
Most cases in courts are with brother and sisters for properties. Parents struggle to raise them for their selfish needs in old-age but forget that they are making a platform to fight with each other .
We can't even distribute one glass of water evenly between two . Always girl child are sufferers, they won't send them good school or good carrier oportunity.
This question to all parents, if you have only one laddu whom you will give whether it is first child or second child . Nobody will b satisfied if given half ...
Most choose male child not female child but morning to evening patith dialogues will be spoken.textbook is different reality different...
Yes its precious if their bond is strong. I feel sad for lone kids.
Superb
0:28 rakshaa bandhan is the OG one, all others are appropriation,
and the saddest thing is, they're doing it without even crediting the origin.
Household is the smaller version of the world. If can't even get along and learn conflict resolutions growing up with our family, with strong family ties, how do we expect ourselves to get along and have good relationships with other people with whom we have no blood relation? Relationships with family is the fundamental or the most basic of every relationship we will ever encounter in lifetime. Most people who can't get along and don't have good relationships with their family members will also don't have good relationships with anyone period.
👏👏👏👏
And you end up having two categories of siblings in your adulthood.
Good siblings Bad siblings
3:48 so true.. i always fight with my sister when she takes my tshirt
I ve a twin brother...he lives in Bangalore now...I miss him a lot cuz I ve to do many household work.😅
There will be no meaning of siblings in future as most couples are having only 1 kid nowadays.
Some got Laxman type others have Kans and kaurav type brothers. Depands on destiny.
Good content Ms. Palka❤
You could also mention praggnanda and vaishali😊
the last point was personal
😂
If ur mum or dad keep on oscillating between u and ur sibling after u r 18 be warned..there is more to it than meets the eye. Please take decisions based on what is good for u rather than getting too much emotional with oscillating parents
True... I am a sufferer of this. Learnt lately after lots of tears
@upasanasarma5870 we even had paused our lucrative overseas career to be near aging elders. And then we were witness to constant tick tock tick tock. It best to clarify everything before taking any major decisions involving aging parents. People nowadays tend to value independence and privacy over emotional attachments specially in metro cities.
Can u elaborate pls..do u mean parents showing favouritism
@cloweeist Parents in old age nowadays have option between kid1 , kid2 , staying independent. Whatever option they choose they need to be very transparent about it and not keep everyone involved guessing. Many parents are unable to choose between two or more of their kids. This lack of planning leaves many involved vulnerable. Please read between lines as these are delicate matters that r usually never discussed openly. Favoritism is part of every parents control mechanism. Most kids don't take it seriously once they cross 18yrs of age.
The ending got me 😂😂😂😂
I am not fortunate enough I have an elder brother who never talks to me. 😭
I feel very bad about it. I tried many times but never got a positive response from him.
Leave him...love him and keep love in your heart, but keep your distance...end of the day you need to take care of your body and mind. I learnt it the hard way.
@@silentbooks3879 yeah same I am doing from last 4-5 years. Badly impacted our kids, no connection there as well. Thanks for your suggestion.
After my father’s passing I returned with my family to take care of my mother and family. The siblings created disputes in the house through my mother, long story short, I am now divorced and my former wife suffers depression.
What about toxic siblings who want you dead?
They are still siblings 😅
No one is perfect. Just coz you are siblings, it's not all fun and care...some are toxic....keep away....love if u must from a distance...but plz keep off.
Kill me with kindness 😂
10 years or more age gaps ? I have a 10 years age gap with my brother. He left home when I was just 12. There is love but we are not so close and I feel very lonely.
In my village, (in 2007-8 something )there was a family having 7 kids and two of the older ones killed one of their brother.
I kept on smiling 😸😁😁,ask me why?
Why?
Because you are from Alabama
@@martinbitrus I am a product of sibling relationship
@@yongjudejam7793so your father married his cousin?
Me who is an only child😥😥
and when your parents are sick . it falls on you. there are inconvients just like advantages
@@Joshua.2433 This is true from my personal experience :D
You're luckiest one
moy moy😊😊😊
Palki gave perfect report on sibling relationships 😂
2:55
Agree, clothes and make ups are off limits!
I liked the way you finished by saying don’t take clothes without asking 😂😂😂😂
My siblings wanted me dead
IT'S ODD THAT EVERY FRIEND I KNOW WHO HAD SIBLINGS FOUGHT DAILY NOT LITERALLY BUT ARGUED AND YELLED AT FREQUENTLY. IN OUR FAMILY NOT ONCE DID WE EVER DO ANY OF THIS. ALTHOUGH OUR PARENTS WOULD HAVE NEVER PUT UP WITH THIS IN ANY CASE!!
Unfortunately! I don't have sibling.
We never fought for property.we adk parents what were their wishes.we carried out our parents wishes.my brother just send me document snd i just sign and got my poat as my parents wishes.thsnks mom and dad raising us wisrly.
I have elder brother who beaten me up and thrown me out of house. He has local politician & police support.
They will realize one day. Till then plz keep away and thank God u r still alive
not applicable for all.. Not all siblings are good
Ever heard property disputes?
Palki is just a talented storyteller😂😂
Was a bit disappointed. I was expecting Palki to moan about the most important sibling relationship in the verld - the Iron Brotherhood of Pakistan and China.😂
Why you Forget Bangladesh
I have to buy two of almost everything, because my sister will take mine! ..and she doesn't ask.
If you have budget then only you can marry your partner and feed them.
So , better to have financial independence before becoming a parent or take responsibility.
Many things are important but the crucial factor is the independence that comes up with financial freedom
Nepal has “Vai Tika” which falls on oct/nov.
Okkkk!
Just as long as you don’t borrow clothes without asking😂😂😂
So true…
pinpoint
Me an only , my wife an only , my MIL , FIL an only, my child an only. I haven't seen my cousins for over 23 years. I love my life.
My brother is younger than me but taller than me and whenever i scold him about studying, he show a sense of acknowledgement while knowing it fully that he can beat the shyt out of me in no time.. I dont talk to my sister or talk occasionally but whenever i need money she transfers it although she curse it while doing it.. when i am in cold war situation with mother the brother and sister acts as medium to transfer messages. hehehe.. It is very annoying but it is needed now.
Idk, people are cynical in this comment section, you need to realise upbringing plays lot of role how your relationship with your sibling gonna end up.
Not all sibling monsters when they become adult. If you got one i feel sorry for you.
Just don't borrow clothes without asking. Palki, Wasn't that personal 😂😂❤
Sibling rivalry.. then parents having favoritism.. its not good
i have no sibilings but i do have a a lot of good qualities. characte doesnt depend on sibilings...
lol I never get my clothes back
Just don't borrow clothes without asking 😂😂😂
Everything changes after marriage
As long as you don’t borrow clothes without asking 😂😂😂😂