Learning game feels a lot like learning to drive, there’s no way you’re gonna learn to drive by watching videos, you have to go out and learn through iterated failure.
I'm not driving a car before I understand the fundamentals of how it works. It's always good to have strong theoretical knowledge before you do anything, otherwise you are relying on a highly inefficient process of trial and error learning without understanding why it's a success or failure.
@@hughmungus7933 I would argue at times strong theoretical knowledge with no real experience would be worse, because you go into the scenario thinking that you have certain knowledge but it’s never been vetted. Least when you’re a beginner you have that humility and are entirely open to learning.
Visualize well and you won’t need to learn by so many mistakes. Driving is easier and has less variables than game yet game is natural to us, driving obviously is not. Learn to drive. Go to the source for game. Consult coaching when you are ready to put in the effort thru and thru 100%
Let me just say this, shout out to all the people that are participating in these "dates", it took some guts, but I mean they're obviously nervous. I freaking knew that you're gonna talk about this Alex 😆
When I first found this channel I kind of thought Alex seemed like a dousche & had a lot of cliche advice. But after sticking around, I've been thoroughly impressed with the amount of research, thought & care put in to each video. Alex consistently provides the audience with real world scenarios to show how his advice translates into real life. A lot of these "dating coaches" live in a bubble, and its because they don't realize their techniques never translate to real life.
Lol this guy is a fuc**** charlatan girls do t chose you over doing test they just find you attractive first then decide to give you a chance. LEARNING GAME don’t work if you are not attractive for the girl.
Another way to think of this is improv. YES, AND… this is more bantering than passing a test. It’s totally playful, but it requires practice with everyone you meet. If you aren’t a social sniper, you’ll eventually learn to turn it around. Don’t think of it as passing a test. She’s not a teacher, she’s just wants to have fun. So should you
The more you fail when they apply pressure, the more they hammer you. The more you get hammered, the more you're losing. Think of it like a sport. Everytime she gets you to puss out on your own views or ideas, she gains a point. The more points she gets, the stronger she gets and vice versa. Girls look at a guy pussing out in any way as a show that he is submissive to her.
We really need to educate women. They really don't know what we have to go through when we see them, plucking up the courage to approach then trying to keep the conversation going, stressing out that we are being interesting enough and trying to pass these bullshit tests! Its so easy for women to get laid, all they have to do is go out and just pick the nearest guy. But for guys we have to spend hours of intensive study then going out and practicing.
Ashley in a dating context is a time waster, even if you pass them all she will still say no because she came in already set on saying no to everyone she doesn't even try to hide it. This girl was genuenly trying to see who among the guys was truly someone worth spending time with (even if it never happens she just played along)
Very helpful video. Will try to apply this to the next speed dating round and my longer in-person interactions. Ironically once you know how to pass their tests, these types of girls are the most fun, because the conversation is laced with witty banter and flirting, instead of boring get-to-know you shit. Also they’re often more intelligent than the average girl.
There's a big difference between you and that dude...she gave him a shit test straight off the bat. While you spoke to her for an hour before you decided "to flirt" with her.
Ive seen a lot of different dating advice channels on youtube and i gotta say no one compares to you alex! The information you provide on this channel is top tier. Keep it up !
Yea I didn’t agree with that but it does show brothers really hate their own kind lol. Once again folks you don’t see cheetahs and panthers fuckin in the wild. Stop doing unnatural shit
How realistic is this though. A real shittest happens because it’s the girl’s organic, native response to being attracted. I don’t think that’s what happened here. I doubt she was attracted to him and she was just being difficult for the sake of being difficult for the video. I guess that doesn’t change how he should have handled it though although a girl who is genuinely attracted can be a little more forgiving . At any rate, massive respect to the guy
Why even deal with a girl like this? I get that "shit tests" can be like this But to pass this "test", you are allowing the girl to be borderline disrespectful and rude to you without standing up for yourself. There was another girl on there who was really feminine and sweet. I would have just been like, "next!"...
She wasn't even being a bitch. This level of banter is pretty mild dude. There are some downright bitchy girls where i'd agree with you, but she actually seems quite fun and flirty
every PUA talks about pass sht tests - no one has ever broke down so articulately as Alex has! I have literally failed 100s of sht test without even knowing they were going on!!!! I thought the girl was bein bitchy and i needed to be nice THANK U
- If you are wondering why there are alot men out there on the social media simping and worshiping women - Rememer that you are also out here trying to learn some “Magic gaming words” that you believe it would make a girl who is “literally humiliating you before or during the date” pull her pants for you later 🤣🤣🤣🤣 - the concept of “Try Harder” is reason why simping is out there
Gentleman, there are many variables in game and interacting with women. You can fuck up a lot and still recover. However, there is one thing you cannot do. One thing that you must be 100% perfect on…you can never, ever, EVER lose frame. Lose frame and you’re done. Weather it’s a first date, a second date, a FWB, your GF, or your wife. You lose frame, it’s over.
Depending on the girl, your banter can easily be misconstrued as being combative or argumentative. Some girls will view it that way regardless of how you frame your verbal game
Absolutely. Even as far back in middle school I had this situation arise in drama class where this chick who might've been the finest girl in school thought I was cute and had been trying to get me to make a move on her. One day during a speech, she made some joke about how I was desperate... Can't remember how she put it exactly, but it was a very sexual joke she came up with outta the blue. I took no offense and thought it was legit funny. The next day I was to give a speech and I used a joke I read out of readers digest I thought would be hilarious. It was to the effect of her being so flat that she put her bra on backwards and it fit better. I cracked the F up over it. Clearly she wasn't flat, and clearly I was merely joking, or at least I thought it'd be clear. But when I spit that joke, NOBODY in the damn class laughed (class was prolly 75-80% female) except ME. I STILL have no idea why she took so much offense to that joke. After that joke, things were not the same. She quit flirting with me and such. Im sure I could've pulled her my senior year or something, but it took years after the fact to even be on normal grounds again. All I can say is these chicks are double standard-having primadonnas. Same shit with age jokes. Women can say all kinds of things about men that u could never say about them in return. And even tho plenty chicks do have a good sense of humor, it ain't cool that you've gotta walk on proverbial egg shells around many chicks with banter because they're so sensitive.
The only thing I can come up with as to why that joke ruined our sexual flirtation and chemistry was that she might've taken it as an IOD, and the possibility other girls might've told her my joke was f'd up (like, socially I wasn't calibrated or something). But ultimately I have no idea why it went so sour after that.
I am an emotionally gay man and do this. I test other men. I never ask a guy out on a date; they ask me out. If an attractive guy offers to take me to a restaurant, I will meet him. If the guy wants to meet up to walk along the beach etc. then I will probably say ‘no’.
these two shit tests aren't really comparable imo. One example the girl breaks rapport with a "joke" with poor comedic timing. The other situation, the girl makes a fun, light hearted flirty comment. Way easier to respond to, not exactly apples to apples.
Doesn't matter cuz neither of them are sh1t tests. A chick asking "what's your ideal first date" isn't a sh1t test. It's her being curious. Now if she was like "what, has it been like six months since you've talked to a chick or something?" THAT is a sh1t test.
When she said "That would be youuu" I was going in my head "mission accomplished" I can even tell that you disengaged after that and ended the virtual date because had his been a real date you would have taken that statement and turned into a sexual conversation that ends with you two in bed inside 10 minutes
Are these "dates" scripted? Seems phony, like set up to meet your talking points for this video. If not then the girl needs some therapy, she is overly defensive thinking that the first guy was calling her a slut and then thought you were saying she takes advantage of people. And I don't think she was that interested in the first guy but was more interested in you, thus you looked like you did way better.
The tests shown in the video are just rude. I understand that those tests are scripted with purpose, but if I had experienced that attitude on a date, I would reconsider if I wish to keep the conversation with that person.
@@blackout2430 i disagree, i know plenty of white women that are attracted exclusively to black men. maybe it depends on location, but i think the issue in this case was he didn’t handle the situation properly.
@@anthonynyc Yeah and those women are psychologically damaged and have self hate issues. I wouldn’t want a woman like that. Nothing but a headache. Why would you want to be with someone who hates their own race and hates themselves? Enjoy the daddy issues lol
There are many ways to answer: "Oh, so you like gay guys?" "That's why i like you so much, cause you look a bit like a dude" "So you're saying I have a great sense of style, nice"
That's been my approach. Even ribbing them a little for them trying to play such a 'childish' game. It seems to work quite well as it makes her aware you're not just fixated on the specific words and you're actually aware of the game that is going on in the background, like, you're above playing this game and she was naive to have tried to play it with you.
Omg she not even that hot and test like crazy, why even bother talking to a women like that, it's so unattrative, a women also needs to show some desire for the man, not just trying too bash them down... LOL
LMAO It's hilarious the hoops men will go through This is why I encourage young guys to break out of the social conditioning that molds them into female validation seekers. There are alternatives to this, and the main one is directly paying for it where it's legal Not only are you saving time and money, you're also preserving your dignity as a man...
@@indianpe624 Gynocentric conditioning speaking right here Dignity because you don't have to lower yourself by playing her games and trying to win your approval You pay for many services. Why not pay for an additional one? "Ohh no society told me that my worth as a man is determined by my ability to get sex for free at all cost ! What will people think of me ! I must use game and jump over a thousand hoops on fire while bending backwards just for the chance of getting some sex that will most likely not be as enjoyable as I want it to be " No you'd rather squirm and jester like a clown in court for his queen. Get rid of that gynocentric mindset and embrace life
@@stephanea5364 another victim of the gynocentric conditioning. The more of you, the better for me. I'll tell you that I have enough dignity to stop myself from wasting time trying to find ways to get women's approval and validation while humiliating myself by wasting time and money on dates, family gathering, and other social settings where I'll have to behave like a good little boy and have to listen to things I have zero interest in. The inversion of value is really astonishing here. "Let me learn how I can change myself to get another human to like me" lmao
Learning game feels a lot like learning to drive, there’s no way you’re gonna learn to drive by watching videos, you have to go out and learn through iterated failure.
Yeah I crashed 8 cars (3 in the same spot) in my teens before I learned to drive
I'm not driving a car before I understand the fundamentals of how it works. It's always good to have strong theoretical knowledge before you do anything, otherwise you are relying on a highly inefficient process of trial and error learning without understanding why it's a success or failure.
@@jonastechmanski1592 lol
@@hughmungus7933 I would argue at times strong theoretical knowledge with no real experience would be worse, because you go into the scenario thinking that you have certain knowledge but it’s never been vetted. Least when you’re a beginner you have that humility and are entirely open to learning.
Visualize well and you won’t need to learn by so many mistakes.
Driving is easier and has less variables than game yet game is natural to us, driving obviously is not.
Learn to drive. Go to the source for game.
Consult coaching when you are ready to put in the effort thru and thru 100%
Let me just say this, shout out to all the people that are participating in these "dates", it took some guts, but I mean they're obviously nervous.
I freaking knew that you're gonna talk about this Alex 😆
me, passing a shit test.
girl: "Congratulations, you've won an iPad!"
not an iPad but a bJob
not an iPad, but a bJob
not an iPad, but a bJob
not an iPad, but a bJob
not an iPad, but a bJob
When I first found this channel I kind of thought Alex seemed like a dousche & had a lot of cliche advice. But after sticking around, I've been thoroughly impressed with the amount of research, thought & care put in to each video. Alex consistently provides the audience with real world scenarios to show how his advice translates into real life. A lot of these "dating coaches" live in a bubble, and its because they don't realize their techniques never translate to real life.
Alex shows how passionate he is to game by how he explains game, well done
Lol this guy is a fuc**** charlatan girls do t chose you over doing test they just find you attractive first then decide to give you a chance. LEARNING GAME don’t work if you are not attractive for the girl.
Some of these are painful but good on these guys for putting themselves out here like this. Only way to get better
Another way to think of this is improv. YES, AND… this is more bantering than passing a test. It’s totally playful, but it requires practice with everyone you meet. If you aren’t a social sniper, you’ll eventually learn to turn it around. Don’t think of it as passing a test. She’s not a teacher, she’s just wants to have fun. So should you
I like your way of reframing it.
100%
5:15 perfect teaching lesson. “How to know you passed a girl’s test” … seems obvious but many guys fail here.
Great content dude word up
The more you fail when they apply pressure, the more they hammer you. The more you get hammered, the more you're losing.
Think of it like a sport. Everytime she gets you to puss out on your own views or ideas, she gains a point.
The more points she gets, the stronger she gets and vice versa.
Girls look at a guy pussing out in any way as a show that he is submissive to her.
We really need to educate women. They really don't know what we have to go through when we see them, plucking up the courage to approach then trying to keep the conversation going, stressing out that we are being interesting enough and trying to pass these bullshit tests!
Its so easy for women to get laid, all they have to do is go out and just pick the nearest guy. But for guys we have to spend hours of intensive study then going out and practicing.
Most women don't care about men
This wasn't as brutal as Ashley's tests, more playful
Ashley it’s about to hit the wall, but she’s a brat
I genuinely think it’s because Ashley’s tests were coming from a place of insecurity, this chick was having fun
Ashley in a dating context is a time waster, even if you pass them all she will still say no because she came in already set on saying no to everyone she doesn't even try to hide it.
This girl was genuenly trying to see who among the guys was truly someone worth spending time with (even if it never happens she just played along)
Very helpful video. Will try to apply this to the next speed dating round and my longer in-person interactions. Ironically once you know how to pass their tests, these types of girls are the most fun, because the conversation is laced with witty banter and flirting, instead of boring get-to-know you shit. Also they’re often more intelligent than the average girl.
@@DougTheThugFist 10000000000%
"Just put up with any kind of behavior from women bro it's just flirting!"
Wow that first guy was painful to watch. His problem was he was desperate for booty and approached the date from a position of desperation.
Desperate for the WP because he hates his own race
@@blackout2430 How you know that?
@@camels9654 open your eyes lol
Yeah he looked not only intimidated but also looked like he was looking to chicks for approval.
Awesome segment man. She tore that poor fella to pieces! Awesome tactics.
There's a big difference between you and that dude...she gave him a shit test straight off the bat. While you spoke to her for an hour before you decided "to flirt" with her.
Is there really a difference when the girl shit tests you? It's a test and can come at any time and multiple times, so be prepared
To the first situation I'd say, you are jumping to the third date
He the first dude I ever heard that said he hate BURGERS!? 🤣🤦🏽♂️
Ive seen a lot of different dating advice channels on youtube and i gotta say no one compares to you alex! The information you provide on this channel is top tier. Keep it up !
yea dude please never start doing paid partnerships where you read an add for 30 seconds mid video
Yo Alex! this was an awesome video bro!! Please do more like these! It would really help us out.
Lol Alex did homie wrong for putting him in the thumbnail
Yea I didn’t agree with that but it does show brothers really hate their own kind lol. Once again folks you don’t see cheetahs and panthers fuckin in the wild. Stop doing unnatural shit
How realistic is this though. A real shittest happens because it’s the girl’s organic, native response to being attracted. I don’t think that’s what happened here. I doubt she was attracted to him and she was just being difficult for the sake of being difficult for the video. I guess that doesn’t change how he should have handled it though although a girl who is genuinely attracted can be a little more forgiving .
At any rate, massive respect to the guy
Underrated observation
It doesn't matter if a girl who is really attracted can be forgiving, you have to get used to handling these situations perfectly.
Why even deal with a girl like this? I get that "shit tests" can be like this But to pass this "test", you are allowing the girl to be borderline disrespectful and rude to you without standing up for yourself. There was another girl on there who was really feminine and sweet. I would have just been like, "next!"...
its just playful banter, i find it pretty fun
She is feminine and sweet
She wasn't even being a bitch. This level of banter is pretty mild dude. There are some downright bitchy girls where i'd agree with you, but she actually seems quite fun and flirty
She was not rude. Challenging is the right word.
All girls will test your frame though, doesnt matter how sweet they are at first
every PUA talks about pass sht tests - no one has ever broke down so articulately as Alex has! I have literally failed 100s of sht test without even knowing they were going on!!!! I thought the girl was bein bitchy and i needed to be nice
THANK U
- If you are wondering why there are alot men out there on the social media simping and worshiping women
- Rememer that you are also out here trying to learn some “Magic gaming words” that you believe it would make a girl who is “literally humiliating you before or during the date” pull her pants for you later 🤣🤣🤣🤣
- the concept of “Try Harder” is reason why simping is out there
Gentleman, there are many variables in game and interacting with women. You can fuck up a lot and still recover. However, there is one thing you cannot do. One thing that you must be 100% perfect on…you can never, ever, EVER lose frame. Lose frame and you’re done. Weather it’s a first date, a second date, a FWB, your GF, or your wife. You lose frame, it’s over.
Depending on the girl, your banter can easily be misconstrued as being combative or argumentative. Some girls will view it that way regardless of how you frame your verbal game
Absolutely. Even as far back in middle school I had this situation arise in drama class where this chick who might've been the finest girl in school thought I was cute and had been trying to get me to make a move on her.
One day during a speech, she made some joke about how I was desperate... Can't remember how she put it exactly, but it was a very sexual joke she came up with outta the blue. I took no offense and thought it was legit funny.
The next day I was to give a speech and I used a joke I read out of readers digest I thought would be hilarious. It was to the effect of her being so flat that she put her bra on backwards and it fit better. I cracked the F up over it. Clearly she wasn't flat, and clearly I was merely joking, or at least I thought it'd be clear. But when I spit that joke, NOBODY in the damn class laughed (class was prolly 75-80% female) except ME.
I STILL have no idea why she took so much offense to that joke. After that joke, things were not the same. She quit flirting with me and such. Im sure I could've pulled her my senior year or something, but it took years after the fact to even be on normal grounds again.
All I can say is these chicks are double standard-having primadonnas. Same shit with age jokes. Women can say all kinds of things about men that u could never say about them in return.
And even tho plenty chicks do have a good sense of humor, it ain't cool that you've gotta walk on proverbial egg shells around many chicks with banter because they're so sensitive.
The only thing I can come up with as to why that joke ruined our sexual flirtation and chemistry was that she might've taken it as an IOD, and the possibility other girls might've told her my joke was f'd up (like, socially I wasn't calibrated or something). But ultimately I have no idea why it went so sour after that.
@@sereneoceanbreeze4447 dude, never make a joke on her physical appearence like that in public... and you still have no idea why she reacted badly?
@@Vic-E. You understand what you're telling me is I must tolerate double standards, correct? The very same double standards women won't put up with.
@@Vic-E. Basically, if I slapped you into oblivion, or aimed for your genitals, I'd be wrong to; yet you'd be correct to, as a female.
I am an emotionally gay man and do this. I test other men. I never ask a guy out on a date; they ask me out. If an attractive guy offers to take me to a restaurant, I will meet him. If the guy wants to meet up to walk along the beach etc. then I will probably say ‘no’.
This is a reminder to you
to create your own rule
book, and live your life
the way you want it.
-Reese Evans♾
“I wait until the third date to show affection…”
😂😂😂 I dying 🤣🤣🤣
these two shit tests aren't really comparable imo. One example the girl breaks rapport with a "joke" with poor comedic timing. The other situation, the girl makes a fun, light hearted flirty comment. Way easier to respond to, not exactly apples to apples.
Doesn't matter cuz neither of them are sh1t tests. A chick asking "what's your ideal first date" isn't a sh1t test. It's her being curious.
Now if she was like "what, has it been like six months since you've talked to a chick or something?" THAT is a sh1t test.
Nah you respond to it the same.
I was watching the fail live and was facepalming. Respect to him for going on the date tho
Kevin fails wilder
9:00 Advanced shit. Its like talking to a 7yr old child.
Cool girl. Much more charming than some of the other guests.
F'n great content with live examples
The games will never stop with these kinds of girls. They’re not worth it.
You don't know what you're talking about.
.... Great stuff!
The moment the games begin, my camera goes black, and I'm off.
The joke's on you. I subscribed a long time ago
Everything wasn't test. Just normal questions also
When she said "That would be youuu" I was going in my head "mission accomplished" I can even tell that you disengaged after that and ended the virtual date because had his been a real date you would have taken that statement and turned into a sexual conversation that ends with you two in bed inside 10 minutes
She would make a perfect lawyer
Crash, burn and learn boys, thats how you emerge victorious, what say, Alex?
Nice breakdown
I want to be on one of these Alex. Been testing my stuff in real life but we all need some at-bats.
Drop in bro. No time like now o’clock
@@Ynkno Now as in tonight?
I feel like 99% of shit tests are just the girl stalling for time because she feels on the spot and doesn’t know what else to say
That just seems exhausting.
This is wicked Alex! I'm rusty! I need to join your master mind again - how do i proceed? /Adam
Hit me up on facebook. Search for "Pabs Nit" if you are not my friend
These shittests illuminate our animalistic nature…this is literally ubiquitous in non-human animals lol
Oh? Please illuminate us all on how shit testing is ubiquitous in animals when they don't speak?
That’s really alexys in the thumbnail??
Don't nobody got time for a woman to s*** test a guy just be real and show the real person nobody don't want to meet the representative
This is some fire content
Lol at the first guy hahahaha
how can i join your speed date session Alex?
Podcast link
Why would she test me while seeing otters. We have been friends for awhile she tried to make me jealous and tried to make me mad
Are these "dates" scripted? Seems phony, like set up to meet your talking points for this video. If not then the girl needs some therapy, she is overly defensive thinking that the first guy was calling her a slut and then thought you were saying she takes advantage of people. And I don't think she was that interested in the first guy but was more interested in you, thus you looked like you did way better.
hmm, very insightful
she talks like coach kyle lol
The tests shown in the video are just rude. I understand that those tests are scripted with purpose, but if I had experienced that attitude on a date, I would reconsider if I wish to keep the conversation with that person.
You want her fat cake, you better step your game up
poor blackdude92 :/
Wouldn’t have that problem if he’d make it natural by having standards and seeking out an attractive woman his own color
@@blackout2430 i disagree, i know plenty of white women that are attracted exclusively to black men. maybe it depends on location, but i think the issue in this case was he didn’t handle the situation properly.
@@anthonynyc Yeah and those women are psychologically damaged and have self hate issues. I wouldn’t want a woman like that. Nothing but a headache. Why would you want to be with someone who hates their own race and hates themselves? Enjoy the daddy issues lol
"I'm not Ukrainian, how would I go at myself" wasn't passin, it was just a logical response because what she said was so stupid
New couch?
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Polish women are beautiful
How would you answer: "You look like gay" or something like that I wonder
There are many ways to answer:
"Oh, so you like gay guys?"
"That's why i like you so much, cause you look a bit like a dude"
"So you're saying I have a great sense of style, nice"
Thanks for noticing or ...glad you like it. Or say I m not gay but my boyfriend is. Lol . Another is ....your flirting needs work.
@@YngGreen lmao. Oh so you like gay guys? That's kinda weird but okay
I said this to my husband and he said "Yeah, I'm gay for you..."
loosing it a bit at the end
actually talking to young hot 20 around 30 year old women is very fake and cringey because you try to come up with something to say
@6:20 So, you mean sarcasm?
alexys was 🔥
Girl has personality that you can probably have complex convos with
If she is "testing" you. She most likely DOESN'T like you. Women that actually want you won't play most of these games
She's bubbly and cute as f my type of girl
This is too painful to watch
I feel you can call her out and say listen I know you're testing me its cute you can stop now
That's been my approach. Even ribbing them a little for them trying to play such a 'childish' game. It seems to work quite well as it makes her aware you're not just fixated on the specific words and you're actually aware of the game that is going on in the background, like, you're above playing this game and she was naive to have tried to play it with you.
@@lukeylukeluke2 I've done the same, the girls get embarrassed cause they're called out. Seems to work
Painful to watch
Omg she not even that hot and test like crazy, why even bother talking to a women like that, it's so unattrative, a women also needs to show some desire for the man, not just trying too bash them down... LOL
LMAO
It's hilarious the hoops men will go through
This is why I encourage young guys to break out of the social conditioning that molds them into female validation seekers.
There are alternatives to this, and the main one is directly paying for it where it's legal
Not only are you saving time and money, you're also preserving your dignity as a man...
Right. You'll have so much dignity when you pay for punani. So much dignity that you'll explode. Such backwards logic smh
@@indianpe624
Gynocentric conditioning speaking right here
Dignity because you don't have to lower yourself by playing her games and trying to win your approval
You pay for many services.
Why not pay for an additional one?
"Ohh no society told me that my worth as a man is determined by my ability to get sex for free at all cost !
What will people think of me !
I must use game and jump over a thousand hoops on fire while bending backwards just for the chance of getting some sex that will most likely not be as enjoyable as I want it to be "
No you'd rather squirm and jester like a clown in court for his queen.
Get rid of that gynocentric mindset and embrace life
@@stephanea5364 another victim of the gynocentric conditioning.
The more of you, the better for me.
I'll tell you that I have enough dignity to stop myself from wasting time trying to find ways to get women's approval and validation while humiliating myself by wasting time and money on dates, family gathering, and other social settings where I'll have to behave like a good little boy and have to listen to things I have zero interest in.
The inversion of value is really astonishing here.
"Let me learn how I can change myself to get another human to like me" lmao
Based
Nothing wrong with paying if you feel like it. Saying you preserve your dignity is full out lying to yourself
On a first date you think I'm gonna be all over you?
Me: probably, it typically happens 💁🏻