Gas lighting is the worst. It’s amazing and everything you mentioned is absolutely 💯 true. I feel super disgusted at how blind I was and thanks to your class I feel validated and empowered to be more vigilant and not feel guilty for 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ away. Thank you.
After watching your videos I am now feeling like the best thing you can do for yourself as a woman is to 100% focus on your self and just pretend he does not exist.a
Same. I was reading about how we can literally become addicted to the stress hormones associated with roller coaster relationships. Your nervous system has to reset.
Yes, that was the moment I realised I was wasting my time. His objective was to humiliate me so he could feel better about himself and assert his dominance. So I quietly exited his life. I hope he still relishes his pontificating speech in retrospect when he counts the cost.
I am going through the same thing I don't even pay him no attention. I am leaving him alone on the 22nd. Just stay silent until you leave that's all you can do and pray.
Wow this is so true I'm going thru this now I'm 63 he's 53 saysvim everything he wants but his actions speak louder I've let him know that and that I'm not looking for convenience
I've been very quiet because I just cannot wrap my mind around the insults, namecalling and constant critism. Tbh, I've dealt with this behavior for 9 years so I'm beat down and defeated. There's no peace in my home if he's present and my anxiety goes through the roof upon his arrival.
Omg. Just about ever conversation with my ex. I never saw it before and I will not be there again. 3 yrs. Thank God for opening my eyes and healing my heart.
Woa… good deeds erase sins…yup that is my ex bf. Just ended things tonight. I was seeing red flags, gas lighting and lack of ownership of poor behavior….sorry thank goodness I have learned and or I am aware.
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Gas lighting is the worst. It’s amazing and everything you mentioned is absolutely 💯 true. I feel super disgusted at how blind I was and thanks to your class I feel validated and empowered to be more vigilant and not feel guilty for 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ away. Thank you.
After watching your videos I am now feeling like the best thing you can do for yourself as a woman is to 100% focus on your self and just pretend he does not exist.a
Exactly and leave in silence come up with am exit plan.
Best thing to do is stay silent open your ears and open your eyes and OBSERVE him. Everything is revealed.
It's like a language for him..
really fluent in gaslighting 😄
That's why you listen and eyes open GOD will let you SEE
I've gotta get used to doing things I enjoy again..
Got too 'comfortable' in hell
Same. I was reading about how we can literally become addicted to the stress hormones associated with roller coaster relationships. Your nervous system has to reset.
Hahaha Hahaha So true..
Detox from this. You deserve to be safe.
Yes, that was the moment I realised I was wasting my time. His objective was to humiliate me so he could feel better about himself and assert his dominance. So I quietly exited his life. I hope he still relishes his pontificating speech in retrospect when he counts the cost.
None of those lame tactics are NEW. They've just been given a new name; gaslighting
Smh this his is happening to me as we speak … smh ughh
I am going through the same thing I don't even pay him no attention. I am leaving him alone on the 22nd. Just stay silent until you leave that's all you can do and pray.
13 yrs I used to keep da peace but no more
Wow this is so true I'm going thru this now I'm 63 he's 53 saysvim everything he wants but his actions speak louder I've let him know that and that I'm not looking for convenience
Yes leverage the good he does to negate the bad behaviour!
I am in a relationship exactly exactly like this and it’s soooo very frustrating .
I've been very quiet because I just cannot wrap my mind around the insults, namecalling and constant critism. Tbh, I've dealt with this behavior for 9 years so I'm beat down and defeated. There's no peace in my home if he's present and my anxiety goes through the roof upon his arrival.
These videos are absolute youtube gold, thank you dee 🎉🎉🎉
Facts "I" Thank you, Derrick ❤
Omg. Just about ever conversation with my ex. I never saw it before and I will not be there again. 3 yrs. Thank God for opening my eyes and healing my heart.
Future faking is an old tactic
Indeed it is.
I finally left that bastard alone "I" for a minute but it didn't last long. I was real smart but his conivin patterns got me
I am right now. .fighting alone. Can't even talk to him without him going off
Woa… good deeds erase sins…yup that is my ex bf. Just ended things tonight. I was seeing red flags, gas lighting and lack of ownership of poor behavior….sorry thank goodness I have learned and or I am aware.
Words and actions not matching up is a problem.
No integrity.
Big brother thank you for spreading your knowledge
THAT'S CRAZY AND FACT
My BF taught me what a rat smells like, and what a mirage looks and feels like. Lights on, gig's up.
You be on point!!!! Thanks for confirmation. 💯💯💯
ON POINT ✔️
It makes perfect sense
I needed this! Thank you!
I for all of your examples
He just doesn't have anything to say
You are hitting on it.. My ex did every single one of these gaslighting to me…
Yes!!!! Some of these are classified as “deflection”.
great message❤
True true true
These are the words that are used I pay the rent etc.
Y’all ever feel grateful that a person exist?
So true.
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Ahhhh I’m done dating
What is the point what does he want out of this
Control. To feed his ego.
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