How To Love Difficult People | SavedNotSoftPodcast

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  • @nora.fl28
    @nora.fl28 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +425

    the timing for this is crazy...

    • @NalediReads
      @NalediReads 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Right! 😭

    • @briannau.9492
      @briannau.9492 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Literally same

    • @josingh1429
      @josingh1429 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      His always is😭

    • @Ffuhr
      @Ffuhr 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      LITERALLY

    • @coconutpie7007
      @coconutpie7007 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      SAME GIRL SAME WOW

  • @briannau.9492
    @briannau.9492 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +187

    Timing is impeccable, it’s scary . 😭😭😭thank you !!!

  • @zoeyedo6521
    @zoeyedo6521 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +127

    " once you understand the fight, you understand how to love difficult people " wow, emy
    wow
    holy spirit move

  • @joannachristene1667
    @joannachristene1667 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +67

    "Jesus was the bigger person for you" I CANNOT THIS IS SO GOOD

    • @teamivvon
      @teamivvon 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      !!

  • @joyouse9085
    @joyouse9085 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +71

    YOOO TODAY AND YESTERDAY I PRAYED TO GOD TO HELP ME LOVE THE PEOPLE I HAVE TROUBLE LOVING!!!😭 God is good

  • @saranox7319
    @saranox7319 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to anger.

    • @Shikorina7
      @Shikorina7 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen✨

  • @corysecrets5005
    @corysecrets5005 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    "God Loves the People that you HATE. " ❤

  • @leila_alexis_
    @leila_alexis_ 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Also I want to add that in order to forgive and love difficult people, it needs to be Jesus in us that is doing the loving and forgiving but it is impossible to do it if we are not being spiritually filled with things of the Lord. If we are dwelling too much in the flesh than it is impossible to love and forgive our enemies so get close to Christ and you will develop love for them naturally.

  • @Georginna123
    @Georginna123 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    People are not the enemy, the spirit behind their actions are, but their actions are their free will. And people need to be held accountable for their free will choices against other people. People are not entirely blameless.

  • @chaejordan
    @chaejordan 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    That prayer ??!!! Amen! 💗

  • @cambryiawhitfield-suber9539
    @cambryiawhitfield-suber9539 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Thats why repentance, renouncing, denouncing, divorcing from those things are IMPORTANT!!! Binding it with the blood of Jesus Christ and then establishing a new covenant with God and ask him to wash you clean with his blood to be renewed ❤

  • @leahraisanen5545
    @leahraisanen5545 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    you know what’s funny, as soon as i casted out anxiety I got an ad that said “it’s not about getting rid of anxiety, it’s about dealing with anxiety.” That’s crazy!

  • @ccg9623
    @ccg9623 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Probably the 100th person to say this but the timing is justttttt👀 I work in Customer Service jobs for 10 years now and every year every day I start hating humans even more. I start fighting with my own family members, and even with my mother. Coming back slowly to God, the past month, to Jesus and I prayed so hard for him to send someone to explain to me and help me with this. And now, your video. You might not see this but THANK YOU for this video🙏

  • @tedriunas
    @tedriunas 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    God’s timing is crazy !!! I was angry and stormed in the shower came to TH-cam and boom this popped up !

  • @stephanieramirez4418
    @stephanieramirez4418 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Stop!!! I HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR AND ABOUT THIS 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ Lord have mercy on us!!! PRAYING FOR YOU EMY

  • @maggieriordan7769
    @maggieriordan7769 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    hahaha no way this ep just came out. this was a word for so many of us clearly and so timely, thank you for your obedience !!!!!

  • @JocelynFlowersBloom
    @JocelynFlowersBloom 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Such an important topic.
    We aren’t called just to love the loveable- we got to love our ENEMIES!
    Christ is the most beautiful example!
    Thank you for this 🎉💕‼️

  • @emeraldcollier178
    @emeraldcollier178 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I've come back to this about 4 times since it aired as a reminder when I'm facing TOUGH situations... this episode TRULY has centered me and stopped me from fighting battles that aren't even mine. Thanks so much!!!

  • @destinynkechi3053
    @destinynkechi3053 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Perfect timing. Seem's like a lot resonates, me included✨

  • @melaninmanifestingqueenpod5040
    @melaninmanifestingqueenpod5040 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Man this is so timely especially when my Bible study was heavy on forgiveness and I think this ties hand and hand! I can see your aura and your spiritual maturity is GLOWING. I had to look away and back and look at other things because I don’t always see auras and especially light that’s bright. Thank you for your obedience and your ministry ❤ this is needed

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    We see absolutely NOTHING in the new testament about generatíonal curses or them being broken. Just about being dead in trespasses and sins and being quickened or made alive through the law of the Spirit of life in Christ. His Blood cleanses and restores and delivers and His Spirit enlightens and empowers renews and transforms. I've often wondered about this teaching of generational curses (coming from an abusive alcoholic background) and it's not supported in the scripture. When God saved me he made me a new creature. Old things are passed away and ALL things have become NEW!
    Thank you Jesus for your love, mercy and grace and the delivering power of the gospel of God!

    • @tessb.1576
      @tessb.1576 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      A lot of SUPERSTITION is what I hear.
      For some time I used to believe this, but Jesus took all curse and sin to the cross. Hallelujah!

    • @RoDaMochi
      @RoDaMochi 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Literally the first thing I thought

    • @jesusiskingofmyheart
      @jesusiskingofmyheart 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@RoDaMochi YES! God bless you:)

  • @raquel8078
    @raquel8078 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Truly this was well said and a message for believers everywhere. It was so encouraging.
    One correction I will make is the point about generational curses. What you’ve explained about your grandma struggling with something , your mom struggles with it and then you struggle with it is learned behaviour, not a curse.
    We cannot be saved, free indeed with Jesus in our hearts and still have a curse over our family, that’s not biblical and it’s implying the holyspirit living in us isn’t powerful enough to over come it.
    As you said we can come against things in the name of Jesus and be freed from strongholds. But again, a stronghold is not a curse.
    I hope this is well received ❤

  • @memethegreatest2299
    @memethegreatest2299 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is such a great video! Thank you for breaking this down the way that you did. I heard something the other day and it mentioned how sometimes the enemy will make you recall offenses because he can’t predict the future he can only remind you of the past. Don’t get stuck in offenses, over come them, as Jesus over came the world.

  • @ShelbyHarris09
    @ShelbyHarris09 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Emy ❤ you are giving the spirit of Deborah with this one 🙌🏾 a true tenacious and amazing leader! Warrior for Elohim, Al Shaddai 🙌🏾🙏🏾 Glory to God in the highest ✨

  • @ItsAryanna56
    @ItsAryanna56 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Ooh God is good! The timing of this!! The lord knows I’ve been praying and struggling with loving the difficult people at work 😭

  • @briannaferreira5496
    @briannaferreira5496 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Christ is really moving and speaking through you

  • @callistacypers5146
    @callistacypers5146 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm actually struggling to be patient and kind with one of my roomates because she's complaining a lot about my other roomate, and God remembered me about that episode, and it helped me so much!

  • @hopecoleman3375
    @hopecoleman3375 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Girl, you must’ve hopped on here fresh off of fast because the way you just ate me up!!! I am speechless and grateful… I’m walking out in conviction and obedience as we speak lol Thank you times two💛✨

  • @bri6880
    @bri6880 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    God is good. i love reading thru the comment section here. This ep was also for me, God has been speaking to me about putting on the full armor and loving on my coworker and im like but how??? shes sooo difficult 😣😩And i also have been asking God to show me His love more because i dont fully know/ grasp His love for me. So when I can connect the love He has for me to the love He has for her then i think thats when the lightbulb will go off and ill know how to love her. but yeah thank you Emy for your obedience to the Spirit ❤ God Bless you girl. May the Lord continue to bless you and use you in mighty ways!! In Jesus name!✝️

  • @jtwlover
    @jtwlover 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’m literally doing a devotional over loving difficult people! The timing of this video!!

  • @naomicollazo838
    @naomicollazo838 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    i’m so glad you’re talking about this!!!!!!! this is one of the first things i did when i came to christ. denounced all generational agreements alters and curses. changed my entire life

    • @naomicollazo838
      @naomicollazo838 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      please read john ramierz books he talks a lot about these generational spirits

  • @Themarisaramirez
    @Themarisaramirez 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This couldn’t have came at the right time. Thank you for this. My 23 YT old brother relapsed over a month ago after being sober (alcoholic) for a little under a year. I’ve been praying for him and I’m hoping he comes to God and leaves his life to take up a new one with Christ at the top.

  • @tuscanyfairer9547
    @tuscanyfairer9547 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Definitely needed to hear this one!😮

  • @liquidleaves
    @liquidleaves 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This was so eye opening. Good reflection for us and come to the Lord.

  • @graceyasiel6743
    @graceyasiel6743 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A lot of lifting curses is done through deliverance. Fasting and praying is where to start.

  • @user-ep3op6nj7t
    @user-ep3op6nj7t 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was watching this video last night . And some crazy stuff happen after wards . Deff stired up some spirits . As you were convicted to say everything you said . I had chills . This women knows what she’s taking about and she is a real women of god . Truth will set you free

  • @thaliasintjago9927
    @thaliasintjago9927 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Its Like every time i watch your video’s I’m in the same situation at the same time like now. Its like God is always speaking through you to me. Its like he is convicting me or just talking to me. And some times explaining why I’m in this season or situation.

  • @avilalovee
    @avilalovee 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love your Voice! You are very Feerless in the Spirit of the Lord 🪽🙏

  • @mannuellagomes6625
    @mannuellagomes6625 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Jesus touch my heart behind this mensage. God is good💓

  • @paulettenimako1247
    @paulettenimako1247 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh big sister, I needed this message. May God keeps blessing you with wisdom, non sweetened Gospel and what your heart desires according to the Scriptures.
    Long story short, my biological father whose are more than 15 years old older than my Mom abandoned her at her early twenties pregnant with me. My Grandma has experienced the same story, and my Mom raised me with anger, grudge against my biological father. And this podcast is an umpteenth confirmation that bring forgiveness, love to this part of my family is what Holy Ghost wants me to do.
    You will be in my prayer 🙌🏾

  • @vikkinech
    @vikkinech 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    what!!! this is an answered prayer. thank you Jesus!! needed it ❤ I've been praying for God to help me and give me the strength to love difficult people

  • @camillefaith2005
    @camillefaith2005 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The timing of this is crazy lol. 💀

  • @oliviaspaceee
    @oliviaspaceee 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Seeing this on my feed today was a straight message from God. I just asked him for clarity over my family situation and this literally came out of nowhere and Emmy spoke about literally everything I’m going through, down to specifics. God is so good! He’s such a good father. Praise Jesus, always. So thankful for his assurance.

  • @DariusHaynes_
    @DariusHaynes_ 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I appreciate you dropping this vid, this was well needed

  • @sxplopezG_Blaaksheep
    @sxplopezG_Blaaksheep 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was Gods word ! Thank you for letting him use you to deliver it!! ❤ GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME

  • @angelllllllllllllllllll
    @angelllllllllllllllllll 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love you Emy!! Thank you for this!

  • @destinyamaya7783
    @destinyamaya7783 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Gods timing is perfect always! Thank you God & thank you Amy for this amazing opportunity to hear this word today. 💕

  • @alexabezpalko6250
    @alexabezpalko6250 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God is so good
    This episode was the first thing that popped on my TH-cam watches and I flipped to Luke before starting and that’s how you know Gods intentional , this episode healed me and awakened my soul to be more like Jesus even with those it’s hard to love .

  • @jordyn8784
    @jordyn8784 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    wow, such an powerful message! You can see God working through Emy. Praying everyone has a blessed week and continues to lead with love !

  • @abbyososki4815
    @abbyososki4815 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    THIS IS FREEING - thank you! ❤

  • @katherine8932
    @katherine8932 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you Jesus for this ! The timing is so intentional 🙏🏼

  • @oziomaanyanwu902
    @oziomaanyanwu902 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wheww this episode is itttt!!! 😮‍💨

  • @shaylafarrell6283
    @shaylafarrell6283 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    the timing on this... this message is life changing. thank you for your obedience and openness to the Holy Spirit to share this message and for allowing Him to use you to touch His children.

  • @rayhadali7354
    @rayhadali7354 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love this video you inspire me so much ❤🙌🙏

  • @coconutpie7007
    @coconutpie7007 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    EMY GOD BLESS YOU, and may God keep using you

  • @zionb18
    @zionb18 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    oh this spoke to me so heavily 😭 thank you Jesus

  • @issyagurl_
    @issyagurl_ 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    timing is a blessing😭😭

  • @kasial2335
    @kasial2335 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I needed it! Thank you God and You sis❤

  • @Yo-sj2fp
    @Yo-sj2fp 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow! So excited to listen because I need this

  • @mariaelenibalagiani385
    @mariaelenibalagiani385 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤😊 thank you !!!

  • @joyly3660
    @joyly3660 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really needed this this was perfect timing 🙌🏽

    • @Kay-kh4gv
      @Kay-kh4gv 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen! I was listening to it while cooking and my sister called me and she was frustrated with her fiancé and I was just repeating what you said in the first few minutes about understanding the fight and I truly believe what you’re doing is amazing and is helping so many from all walks of life.
      Keep it going(I’m sorry to the person I replied to but I wasn’t able to comment but I had to comment. Hope you all have a great night God bless

  • @leslieperez5494
    @leslieperez5494 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I can’t believe I watched this video! Definitely switched my perspective and reality.God bless you Ive never heard this before❤

  • @haileyc24
    @haileyc24 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Emmy.. God bless you ❤️

  • @londonamiyah5388
    @londonamiyah5388 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    God knew i needed thisss

  • @shannonh2164
    @shannonh2164 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Jesus 🙏🏽❤️

  • @alexisaariel
    @alexisaariel 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was so powerful Emy and life changing AND right on time. Thank you for your obedience 🙏🏽 God has blessed you with an amazing anointing to teach his word 🤍🤍

  • @strawberrystin
    @strawberrystin 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re such an amazing teacher Emy
    and ur really funny ❤i eat these podcasts up

  • @littlekeelie
    @littlekeelie 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this makes so much more sense now; i’ve been dealing with heart pains and the hospital i went to said i was good but then contradicted themselves saying there was something and then there wasn’t after doing a cat scan, and another hospital prior said i was healthy and now im realizing that panic attacks and anxieties have been talked down to me

  • @realkyraful
    @realkyraful 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    looked up and said thank you God 😂 amen needed this one

  • @christiannaaldridge
    @christiannaaldridge 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yea this timing is crazy Emy, God is so good Hallelujah

  • @JourneywithJoyN
    @JourneywithJoyN 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank God for you Emy!

  • @aleena395
    @aleena395 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for this. I really needed to hear this. God bless you

  • @Pytsky
    @Pytsky 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen, God bless you ❤❤❤

  • @nellymc3804
    @nellymc3804 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    One of my goals for this summer is to watch all of your videos every morning! 😊 May 26th-August 12th so I bet I’ll have enough time to watch all of them every morning and be done watching all of them by the end of summer! I’m so excited I love your videos ❤️

  • @Jennifer-ep6fm
    @Jennifer-ep6fm 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Like everyone was saying the timing of this is amazing. When is saw this video I couldn't watch it straight away so I had to save it 😭, we thank God! 🙏🏾💗

  • @Organicially.a
    @Organicially.a 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Very important video !!!

  • @daneala6435
    @daneala6435 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Praise God, so needed this. Thank you ❤️

  • @user-zo6re5hu3x
    @user-zo6re5hu3x 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love this really because you just helped me ❤ thank you really

  • @igabutman4568
    @igabutman4568 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That timing!!!!! Wow

  • @Kayo-07
    @Kayo-07 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Talk about prayer warrior 🖤🖤

  • @ughchelsey
    @ughchelsey 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    beautiful timing 😊

  • @blehbleh8510
    @blehbleh8510 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is literally so timely, like I’ve been having trouble loving someone from school and today I only talked to 2 classmates of mine saying they found the people that are more of an outcast annoying and that really made me rethink what Jesus had done for us, God is truly working on my heart that even people that others didn’t wanna mixed with he’d love them anyways because that’s just who our God is. Thank you emy for todays podcast 😫 ABBA’s timing is impeccable

  • @kevaughngolding9156
    @kevaughngolding9156 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I live with my parents and Everytime they call me to do something for them I feel this pain on the right side of my head. While I was completing a chore, I had a small discussion with the LORD told Him that I dont want to continue hating and resenting my parents because it's clearly hurting me and I don't like disagreements. I also really appreciate my parents and my heart wants to love them but I find it difficult to. I was on WhatsApp and I saw someone share this video. I am so happy that I watched this video because this has really been a huge blessing and an answered prayer. Thank you, and I pray that you and I will find healing and restoration through forgiveness, repentance and fighting the good fight of faith! May the peace of God overshadow you in this moment ❤🙏🏾

  • @briannaferreira5496
    @briannaferreira5496 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This episode is so goooooddddd, you betterr

  • @Necha16.
    @Necha16. 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This one is so powerful! Thank you Emy for being a vessel by for God. God is speaking through you!!!

  • @teamivvon
    @teamivvon 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    too good!!!

  • @trulyjakila5633
    @trulyjakila5633 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The lord and the Holy Spirit in work. This video allowed so much clarity, understanding, and repentance

  • @sxt4447
    @sxt4447 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I know God created me for such a time as this to be the generational curse breaker in my bloodline ❤ Jesus gave us the authority to overcome ALL the power of the enemy. NOTHING will harm us!

  • @shevytheelite3461
    @shevytheelite3461 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Soo good !!!

  • @PromisesBelieved
    @PromisesBelieved 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for this episode! This was God sent! Praise Jesus! 😃

  • @koketsomorake9239
    @koketsomorake9239 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God spoke through you so clearly to me Emy! So much of what you said resonates with me. Such an edifying episode and I truly feel blessed. God bless you and keep you. Praise God!❤

  • @luumunopeace
    @luumunopeace 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's like we are afraid to love them the way Christ loves us. Because we think/see it as being okay with their sin or that it makes us look weak. But really you being the bigger person is by showing them how to love, by loving them the way God loves us❤😊

  • @signlanguageministries2709
    @signlanguageministries2709 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    yes the timing is so so awesome and crazy and i know i am a guy i don't know if i am the only one listen to podcost but recently i believe the Lord is showing me gernational curses in family through dream and it will be broken off in Jesus Name!!

  • @celestepant5oja
    @celestepant5oja 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The lord knew I needed this

  • @NicholasMartinCruz
    @NicholasMartinCruz 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I Love This Channel 😁

  • @bree-rose1885
    @bree-rose1885 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    this s so on timeeeeee

  • @zobnabrisaca
    @zobnabrisaca 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    but also remember that we are all children of God not just you and me but also those people that may did you wrong we’re all on our journey and each is different so the someone who is hurting or hurt you you also hurt others either intentionally or unintentionally

  • @alexamartinez1723
    @alexamartinez1723 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love

  • @cambryiawhitfield-suber9539
    @cambryiawhitfield-suber9539 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Teach Emmy!!!!

  • @miachen7543
    @miachen7543 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had a hard weekend and was feeling very convicted and conflicted with my behavior and the timing is insane