Ballum Part 5 - Ben FINALLY Tells Callum He Was Raped!

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  • @jmatt4679
    @jmatt4679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    "If someone's hurt you I need to know" aww

  • @banannakis6723
    @banannakis6723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    Callum's last little broken, "who" breaks my heart, and then Ben looks up and they share a look and Callum just knows. Beautiful acting by Max and Tony, great job by both of them.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah tony and max did a great job

    • @littlemissxtra756
      @littlemissxtra756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Deep down Callum already knew who it was.

    • @banannakis6723
      @banannakis6723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@littlemissxtra756 True, there is knowing, and then there is knowing it out loud. Makes sense, something that evil, takes a while for anyone to let come to the light.

    • @Straykidsfamily24
      @Straykidsfamily24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ben didn't even have to say anything callum knew who it was straight away

    • @artl1832
      @artl1832 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100 percent

  • @sambroughton2912
    @sambroughton2912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Callum’s final “who” was gut wrenching, one little word said with breathtaking knowledge

  • @DRizzo1205
    @DRizzo1205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Callum's "no" at the end is what got me. Just getting that confirmation made everything snap into focus and shatter his world at the same time. Brilliant acting on both parts

  • @briandbedford4178
    @briandbedford4178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Callum is so loving and kind. Really great and emotional acting.

  • @arbsan8366
    @arbsan8366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    To see Ben freeze up at the fear of Callum knowing what happened to him is so heartbreaking 🥺

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah it is poor ben

    • @artl1832
      @artl1832 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s like Ben slowly falling into pieces 😢

  • @candyb2205
    @candyb2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    so thankful we have Max and Tony as our Ballum. this scene killed me. fantastic acting from both. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @meikyes739
    @meikyes739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    This is my new go to scene when I wanna rewatch some heartbreaking Ballum scenes. Max an Tony did such a perfect job portraying them. Ben nervously rubbing his lip with his fingers trying not to chew his fingernails. The look between him and Callum and Ben's fake smile instead of a verbal answer.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah I have rewatched the scene so many times

  • @xxwhispersxx2856
    @xxwhispersxx2856 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    With what little they give Tony Clay to do, he certainly rocks it.

  • @imogen5141
    @imogen5141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I think this was such a clever way for Callum to find out. Rather than just being told by ben or finding out through someone else. It was really touching and I feel so emotional. Callum's soft 'who' makes my heart break!!!!!!

    • @laurafabianmarrero
      @laurafabianmarrero 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I totally agree
      This was unexpected
      Didnt think they would do it this way
      The writers surprise me

    • @lawrence5584
      @lawrence5584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Also it lends far more credibility to Ben's story. It's one thing to say it to Callum's face, it's quite another to find him at the police station, reporting it. I've said this time and time again, I don't think Callum really could have accepted this revelation as fact any other way. Callum was so filled with anger, he needed something more to show the validity of Ben's words.

  • @SaharaColeman
    @SaharaColeman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I gasped so loud when I saw this title! I’ve been waiting since the day it happened to Ben for Callum to find out. I love them together and they need each other.

  • @ashleyp.eveerson3377
    @ashleyp.eveerson3377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Stellar performances this ep from both actors! I'm so glad Ben is finally opening up to his husband....

  • @littlemissxtra756
    @littlemissxtra756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    So brave going to the police all by himself.🥺

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah it definitely was brave to do that 💯

  • @domtube4783
    @domtube4783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    The fact that Callum knew because of the room he was in 😭

    • @meikyes739
      @meikyes739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But they have a room especially for interviewing SA-victims? Is this a more than daily occurrence that they have a room for just this purpose or do they just have too much space?

    • @lexi219
      @lexi219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@meikyes739 Sexual assault is horrifyingly common.

    • @blueblue232
      @blueblue232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@lexi219 And hospitals usually have rooms specifically for SA too

  • @tashastoma
    @tashastoma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I had a feeling this is how Callum would find out seeing him at the station, the "if someone has hurt you" you could feel the pain in Callums voice

  • @Poireikhuman
    @Poireikhuman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This two's acting is amazing

  • @sunshinelife99
    @sunshinelife99 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was most sweetest scene, The whole thing was heart breaking.

  • @nataliebarrow6348
    @nataliebarrow6348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This was played so beautifully 🥰

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    This scene is so heartbreaking 😢

  • @theataylor936
    @theataylor936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Callum finds out that Ben never cheated on him but to be sexually assaulted is just ten times worse

    • @regishel
      @regishel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well, Ben didn't have consensual sex with Lewis. Yeah that was why they broke up and I do see a future where they get back together.
      But they did have problems before though, like when Ben willingly kissed Lewis in public.

    • @SoyDoisa
      @SoyDoisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@regishel not to excuse him, but he was pretty drunk and he didn't initiate that kiss, Lewis did. Soon as his brain caught up with them Ben put a stop to that kiss immediately and told Lewis that he loved his husband. Looking back, you now realize that Lewis was setting it all up in my opinion.

  • @inesarif8497
    @inesarif8497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I bloody love Callum so much 😭

  • @shifashahine2005
    @shifashahine2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Aww I really hope they get back together I love Ballum 💙💙🥺.

    • @KaleemAkbar786
      @KaleemAkbar786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not Happening

    • @Guitar-qv6gu
      @Guitar-qv6gu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@KaleemAkbar786 they did get back together.

  • @chenzhou7288
    @chenzhou7288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I’ve been repeating the clips starting this part…🥺🥺🤭🤭
    Ben doesn’t even need to say out his name and Callum knows exactly whom!! See!! That’s the tacit understanding between them, I wonder if even jay can do this compared to Callum🤗🤭

  • @tinolewis9763
    @tinolewis9763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Never knew the word who would bring me to tears

  • @lynnecrisp
    @lynnecrisp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    That's exactly how a raped person reacts. They pull back. Btwn fear & shame & they put up walls of what they think they're protecting themselves. It's traumatic & bad enough for a woman but a guy feels more shame cuz they feel they should of stopped the rape. I was raped 4 seperate times (yrs apart but it's still rape) & it's something no one should go thru

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm sorry that happened to you

    • @lynnecrisp
      @lynnecrisp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@angelaholmes8888 Ty I appreciate that. God bless u

  • @Calaveraqueen24
    @Calaveraqueen24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    as a sa survivor i know how hard it was for him

    • @laurafabianmarrero
      @laurafabianmarrero 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm SO SO sorry this happen to You
      You áre Brave and strong
      💓💓

  • @kimanihenry1049
    @kimanihenry1049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    😇😇🥺 my poor babies this is so sad

  • @Itsmeandmyadhd
    @Itsmeandmyadhd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I glad he told him but the fact he saying still staying no to be back with Callum break my heart Eastender I want more Ben and Callum alright

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah me too but ben needs to heal from what happened to him hopefully they will get back together

  • @denadyt.9064
    @denadyt.9064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It must be hard to report it. Even though it’s just a tv show but huge respect for Ben to do this.

  • @mechellemybell1000
    @mechellemybell1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I love this! Tho I find it rather odd that Callum just vaguely barges into the room … but he prob though Ben got assaulted by someone at a sex party.
    Tho I did love Ben not wanting him near him. I think Ben learning again to “enjoy” sex could be a really interesting storyline to pursue cause Ben has been such a sexual person.
    Also Ben zoning out when Callum walked in. And then Callum’s “who” getting more desperate cause he realizes it was lewis before Ben admits it but he doesn’t want to fully face it

  • @louisemacallister6561
    @louisemacallister6561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    No words.... 💔💔💔

  • @chenzhou7288
    @chenzhou7288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    05/26/2022---08/18/2022!!!
    Literally I’m counting the days ever since that night!! Till today finally the moment we’ve been waiting for!! I got scared even when I saw the clip title!! I was like really!!! What!! This is not a trick right!!! Thank goodness zebra you are the best!! You didn’t trick us!!😅😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣

    • @zebra5702
      @zebra5702  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Of I wouldn’t trick you, it’s day we’ve all been longing for and you’re most welcome 😊

    • @chenzhou7288
      @chenzhou7288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zebra5702 of course I know you won’t, you are literally the best!!!👏👏😊😊😊, I’m just doubting myself and be like omg is this actually happening or it’s just too good to be true!😆😆😆😆😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, being hurt by these soaps all the time leaves you some trauma definitely😂😂😂😂 and you always doubt yourself are they actually giving you what you want or just another trick to play with you😄😄😄😄, I honestly thought that they would drag this up till Christmas🥶😱😱😱😅😅😅😅😅

  • @rivers0ng
    @rivers0ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was pure pain omfg

  • @janinegough8555
    @janinegough8555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This made me cry 😢

  • @jonparrish7763
    @jonparrish7763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Go on lads.. GET IN THERE..

  • @deborahlewis
    @deborahlewis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Please Ben don’t split up with Callum please x

  • @Itsmeandmyadhd
    @Itsmeandmyadhd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It’s likly someone from the police would of found Callum’s told him what room Ben was in not said why just Ben was there and he was in the room

  • @ronbrock6153
    @ronbrock6153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Now I hope they turn Stewart loose on Lewis. That would be a great way to write him out, he beats the shit out of Lewis. Phil uses his contacts to whisks him away from the old Bill.

  • @kattiwilson6884
    @kattiwilson6884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    God I just love Ballum! Do you have a link to the whole episode?

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There's a channel on TH-cam called ballum offical you should check it out

  • @gathou2002
    @gathou2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Just ❤️

  • @phillipbates9587
    @phillipbates9587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Calum his reaction

  • @Js2Jo
    @Js2Jo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The scene is so heartbroken to me on the show!!

  • @finntran1672
    @finntran1672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He forgot his husband works at the local police station?

    • @danbonnibell
      @danbonnibell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      tbf we all did

    • @SoyDoisa
      @SoyDoisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danbonnibell lol

    • @SoyDoisa
      @SoyDoisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No, he knew but tbf it shouldn't have been so easy for Callum to know Ben was in there. It's kept pretty confidential unless you are the officer on the case. I assumed either Callum caught a glimpse of Ben on the CCTV or someone MAYBE mentioned that Ben was there?

  • @Itsmeandmyadhd
    @Itsmeandmyadhd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Callum say he nearly broke me and you up but they not get her as it is and Ben won’t go back there as I feel he kinda believe what Lewis as saying about there relationship

  • @levypoulter
    @levypoulter 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ben shutting down cuz he cant manage the stress , so on point !

  • @CourtneySawyer-zs6rc
    @CourtneySawyer-zs6rc 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Callum knows now that Ben never had a consensual encounter with Lewis Butler. I hope that Callum can gain Ben’s forgiveness for being himself when he believed that Ben cheated on him.

  • @josiahgreen-moth4820
    @josiahgreen-moth4820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Eastenders is better and we not even in September man clenshaw must be busy

  • @marknoonan4720
    @marknoonan4720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tell him Ben!!!!

  • @elisabethlandier9539
    @elisabethlandier9539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Je viens de decouvrir ces vidéos découlant d une série, je suppose, je suis française, donc je ne la connais pas
    Je retrouve la situation exacte que ma niéce a subie quand son petit ami l' a violée, :la peur, la honte
    Aucune personne ne doit et ne peut pas disposer de l autre, jamais.
    Aucune excuse ne peut pas étre donnée ni acceptée
    Rien ne peut pas justifier cet acte, RIEN

  • @johnbunn7738
    @johnbunn7738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Callum say poo

  • @KathleenCorson-t1v
    @KathleenCorson-t1v 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know you're hurting right now Ben. But you really need Callum right now. You tell him what Lewis did he will be on your side and he will support you and help you through it Ben. Like Phil and Jay and Kathy did but Callum he's a cop but despite the fact you guys are not together anymore and you fellas marriage is over but once Callum knows then this will be way for you guys to be reunited with each other again. Callum loves you Ben.

  • @johnbunn7738
    @johnbunn7738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Callum say 💩

  • @Julie-ok4ht
    @Julie-ok4ht 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When is this?!

    • @chenzhou7288
      @chenzhou7288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Episode of 8/18

    • @Julie-ok4ht
      @Julie-ok4ht 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chenzhou7288 Thanks

    • @chenzhou7288
      @chenzhou7288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Julie-ok4ht you’re welcome 😇

  • @97212066
    @97212066 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    sorry, who did that to ben?
    im trying to watch but i cant find...is there a previous video?

    • @Guitar-qv6gu
      @Guitar-qv6gu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lewis Butler.

    • @97212066
      @97212066 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Guitar-qv6gu Thanks!

  • @startracker5895
    @startracker5895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would have asked for another copper.

  • @IntimateHealing
    @IntimateHealing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is this the original ben?

  • @TedClint
    @TedClint 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cal发现ben是被rape的,而且ben尝试跟callum解释很多次,ben也让别人瞒着callum这些事实之后,callum肯定很自责😢

  • @claudiacooper2452
    @claudiacooper2452 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ben got arrested

  • @lucaslinares7806
    @lucaslinares7806 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did they break up?

    • @UnknownIndian
      @UnknownIndian 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Callum thought Ben cheated on him with Lewis, but what really happened is Ben got raped and Callum didn't know until this episode

    • @daddygarrity
      @daddygarrity 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ben was raped and callum thought ben cheated

    • @Julie-ok4ht
      @Julie-ok4ht 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Callum thought Ben cheated on him.

  • @Thomas-bz2hy
    @Thomas-bz2hy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow

  • @thehopelesshobbit8731
    @thehopelesshobbit8731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Copying story lines again

    • @cr8t3r86
      @cr8t3r86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's not copying storylines, all soaps have done the same stories as each other but they do it to spread awareness It's not like they can do an alien invasion storyline or a galactic war, they stick to real life issues and male rape is one of those and anyway David Platt got drugged and passed out, Ben was held down whilst he was saying no the whole time so it's different in that sense, so what happened in the two storylines were completely different mabye it'd be copying if they had the story play out EXACTLY like David Platts but no they didn't

  • @1slummzzs
    @1slummzzs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The writers were sloppy the way callum found out… n then he had a complete 180, forgetting the inherent problems of his n ben’s relationship 🥴. Swiftly asking Ben for a reunion, like…. Ben needs time to heal…. Unrealistic and out of character 🫠

    • @itsallagame7354
      @itsallagame7354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Learning that his husband was raped comes first and he’ll forget about everything else in order to help him. That’s very realistic except for sociopaths who lack any compassion

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@itsallagame7354 I totally agree 💯

  • @m.grahamburger2042
    @m.grahamburger2042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    are we supposed to feel sorry for poor ben? he's ruined many peoples lives,

    • @SoyDoisa
      @SoyDoisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So that means he should be raped? Wow. Seek some therapy friend because if you feel that way about a fictional character I'd hate to think how you deal with people in real life.

    • @Guitar-qv6gu
      @Guitar-qv6gu ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, cos he was raped.