Her take away being don’t post your man and life in social media being the problem is crazy. The take away is your man was trash. Social media wasn’t going to stop him from cheating and telling them all her business.
That first story is CRAZY oh hell no. That other woman was definitely a stalker, however, forget her and dump that dude immediately! No messy man is worth dealing with all the negativity he will inevitably attract.
As a short girlie, I've never had a man dislike my height. I even dated a man (for like 4 years) who was a full foot taller and he never once complained. What is wrong with that bowling man?
@@chanelnoelle4127 Well, how'd that work for him LOL. I'll never understand negg'n but I'm the type to return the negative comment favor, giggle, then walk out of your life.
@@kiterafreyhe wanted to put her down, either he’s childish and hate women or he’s childish and want to control women. She didn’t wear what he wants and it made him upset. So he planned to make her feel bad about herself.
THANK YOU! Why not smell like the freshest linen in the world on your first date. Make the other party want to get you dirty…at some point, not the first date lol
I don’t understand and everything shower vs regular since I thought you clean everything during a shower either way. Anyways, I absolutely used to do a body scrub and all that before dates just to feel good.
That time my hinge date left me stranded in the middle of the night bc instead of taking me home he took me to his house and I didn’t wanna have segg with him so he left me at a random gas station in Houston at like 3am 🙂
Girl i did the same thing even worse went riding w them. I was dumb and thirsty at the time. Thank God's I have a real boyfriend living w me now. Never again. And if we ever break up I am just done dating altogether
People are seriously unhinged in the head 🤦♀️😑, both women & men need to stay safe out there , especially on the apps. That lady thinking all people on dating sites had " good intentions" is the funniest naive thing 🤣 .
I feel like that bowling date guy probably watch those alpha male videos. Their main advice is basically to neg somebody or just insult them to try to get their confidence down. It seems like this guy actually thought that would work. He also probably learned that advice to be aggressive such as trying to get her to come over or to tell her what to wear. When in actuality that is very unattractive unless you are dating a very insecure woman.
I came here to write this but you got there first! You are absolutely coreect and what's worse if these idiots really think this advice works. Don't you see the lady's panty stiffening up from dryness? Come on!
tiktok really proves how we need to know less about eachother like because whenever i scroll through that app i'm being forced to know about a random person's business
To be fair, I take an everything shower regularly, and I don't have sex ever. I'm not even dating. I still haven't had sex despite being 27. I just like the routine and feeling pampered.
I will never understand how men will literally invite a woman to eat out and then act shocked/disgusted when the woman actually eats? Like hello? What are you here for?
I am married to my husband that I met on Hinge! We met in 2019, married 2022. He was my first and only date from Hinge. This was after YEARS of horrible dates, narcs, sociopaths, etc from tinder, bumble, OK cupid, plenty of fish, you name it 😂
If you have your text messages sent to your notification bar( dropbar)Where you can have a setting on to see the text or not. You can drop the drop bar down, press on tthe little down arrow, read the text and it still appears like you didn't read it. It only shows youve read it AFTER you've opened the text in app. Just a little tip around wanting to read texts without letting the other person know you've read it.
12:40 why is this me asf. I deadass will call the hospital and ask the police dept about any reported accidents😂. I just remember having an ex in high school that said “you always jump to somebody cheating, I could've been dead or hurt somewhere” So now I like to check those boxes before I go crazy about you cheating 🤣
What's an everything shower?.. Glad that was answered..lol. I was sitting here thinking, I wash everything everyday...😂 I'm an 80's baby and all this new lingo makes me feel old 🤦🏾♀️
I'm so thankful that most of my online dating days were legit and good! I never got stood up and I'm married to the love of my life that I met online for almost 8 years now! I can't even IMAGINE being single and trying to date now! Seems like the men are getting more and more immature for some reason. Good luck to anyone actively online dating right now, stay safe out there yall.
They are, because the people they've been stepping on for years are finally standing up for themselves and they don't like it. Instead of changing with the times, they're turning into bigots.
I would say it’s just naivety, but her “panic attack” over a guy not responding is strange. Either she has trauma related to abandonment or she’s actually full of herself.
@happycarrot8166 and then her text "omg I'm having a panic attack right now, can you just tell me if you're ok??" Probably just reinforced his decision to ghost
@real_cherita no, a lot of times it isn't trauma or naivete. Some people are just dumb and also full of themselves. Not everything leads to a road map of trauma
The girl having a panic attack and using this as a way to make him respond is so strange.. I’m 100% sure deep inside she didn’t actually think he had a car accident. She was just trying to guilt trip him into not ghosting him. I understand she would be disappointed but they literally never met before so it’s very odd to have a full on mental breakdown RIGHT AWAY when he doesn’t respond anymore 😆 she KNEW 100% he wasn’t in an accident lol that’s just weird
How people CHOOSE to share such with the internet will forever baffle me🙆🏾♀️. I'm not an angel either but some things I've ONLY shared with the good Lord and taking to my grave!😬
"Hinge the dating app designed to be deleted" Just not the way they hoped lol, and definitely single and not looking videos like this always make me glad I'm this way now!!💜💜💜💜
I can think of a few things I'd rather do than date a man.... like... eating glass.. stepping on a cactus... being mauled by a bear... so many preferable scenarios.
Socrates Sculpture Park is cool!! It's almost like an outdoor gallery. It's full of sculptures by less-known artists and they change over time. I personally would have enjoyed that as a first date 😅
💜tried dating apps (never hinge) maybe 1.5 year ago, and never went back. Been single for 3years now and voluntarily celibate. Don't need any of the drama that comes with that either.
Woah! I remember a time when all these stories were by word of mouth now all I have to do is open an app. I would hear stories like these from friends, co-workers, etc but I tell my son's father and my current husband how grateful I am of them because I won't fight for a man. I said that from the time I saw two young ladies fight in the middle of the street when I was 10yrs old. I knew from that point on i'm not fighting over any relationship physically nor mentally.
Calories are real and I will die on that hill😂 I lost 50lbs just counting calories and not going over. I know so many people don’t count calories and that is all good but don’t deny that calories exist
People probably heard that one TikTok that says same products will have different calories in raw vs cooked stage, and now think they are calories experts lol.
I am happy for all the women who saw the red flags and run. The other ones…. Um I wish you the best but their character is showing if they entertain others disrespect and bull.
Listen if she knew about me I’m mad at her too don’t mean imma deal with her talk to her or anything but I’m mad at both of em but the betrayal and all that lands in the man of course but I’m still mad bc that’s just being a bad person messing with someone you know is in a RELATIONSHIP with someone else
@ violence definitely isn’t the answer I would never go so hard for someone who wasn’t acting like “my man” 😂 you crack me up when you say that love your videos ❤️❤️
Literally this! Especially a married man/woman. Ik there are plenty of women out there that will sleep w married men/vice versa. Most of the time when you're married, you wear a ring, so it is harder to hide your spouse and the affair partner not know about them. Even if you remove it before dates, you can typically tell if a ring is normally worn on a specific finger. Sadly, the ring to some will carry them like a moth to a flame. Please be advised though, even if you don't believe in God, then karma will meet with you eventually and always when you least expect it.
I met my now husband on hinge! We had our first date at a slim chicken 3 months later he proposed and a year after that we got married! And we just celebrated our 2nd anniversary!
I will always be mad at the man. However, that said, if she knew he wasn't single and she still chose to be with him, I'm gonna be mad at her too. She might not own my loyalty, but she is still beholden to the same social contracts we all are, and if you're trash, I'm gonna treat you like trash. I'm just upholding my end of the social contract. Whereas, if she didn't know, she's also a victim and I hold no angry for her. But either way, he better count his days on Earth cuz they're about to be up. Though, to be fair, I'm just guessing how I'd feel because I've not be the partner being cheated on. I have been the young dumb 18 year old who believed him when he said he was divorced, but I've never been the party that was cheated on.
I wonder how many people could actually partake in that first "put a finger down if" clip... I'll once again proclaim the joys of Single Life and being my own life boss. I ain't got the time nor money to commit to another, and honestly I don't want something that sounds more demanding for romance / sex when I don't care for either. I'll be a platonic friend though.
Why would you not take everything shower before meeting someone you just met. I want to make sure I smell completely clean no matter what and I look completely clean?
THE FIRST 10 SECONDS ARE STRAIGHT UP PRODUCER NETFLIX DRAMA… no ma’am some people just don’t have personality and rather than find themselves they fill the void with toxic ass red flags 😭
Honestly I feel her when she says she was so excited and she took and everything shower, it’s not that I’m doing this cause I expect something to happen or anything it’s just it’s my process to make ME feel good and confident and ready. And the summary statement isn’t gonna include me specifying “I took an everything shower I was so excited, but I skipped this and this and this because I don’t need those on first date”. Like there’s first date everything shower, tenth date everything shower, married everything, etc. and I assume that since you know it’s a first date you’d know it’s a first date everything
I think sometimes everything showers just feel like a way to “prepare.” Some people like to get a new outfit or new shoes for a date, others might get their hair done or schedule a nail appointment before that date. I think it’s not necessarily for sleeping with someone (though it definitely can be) and more so as a way to get rid first date jitters and trick your brain into thinking you’ve prepared for the moment. Like studying for a big test? I’ve only done everything showers for guys I was super duper into, nothing happened afterwards, but for the guys I was going out with because my friends said I should give them a chance? Heck, I think I had prickly legs on one of those dates. 😅
17:40 Trust me, majority of guys like shorties. I'm 5'8" (not really tall but above average height for a woman ig) and almost every single man I met from an app made a comment about how they thought I'd be shorter. This one guy was literally 6'7" and he looked visibly disappointed when he told me he thought I'd be shorter.
The girl who's "cousin works in HR" nope... her timeline doesn't make sense. She met the girl on June 1st and already on June 2nd, this girl had applied to your job, was set to be trained by you, but couldn't come in bc she was in the hospital bc you beat her up the day before, which was just the 1st day you met her AND your job wanted to fire you but your cousin saved your job bc you allegedly fought this girl the day before; again, that you met the day before.
💜 and planning to stay that way. Dating apps are so bizarre to me, like a meat market/shopping, I just couldn't do it, props to those that find success!
💜 For about a month now. I realized I want a more intentional dating experience, so I turned them loose and wished them happiness. No blocking, no blow-outs. I’m on the apps. These videos are my research of what to avoid 😅
7:35 I don’t think the story has anything to do with you posting your significant other. I think it’s more of your significant other is cheating on you and you blame the female.😂
Holy hell, thank goodness I’m single cuz the first story would’ve made me contemplate my entire life WTH why are men this messy what happened to just being honest… 😭😭😭
texter backer ? 🤣😂😂 and i didn't know there was such a thing as "everything shower" for me its an everything shower everyday....isnt it suppose to be that ?? 🤔
My first date with my husband was supposed to be the third week in December, we’d met in early November of 1997. I was the night Manager at the video store here locally, and ever since we met and started to talk, he would stop by every single evening on his way home just to say hello ☺️. It turns out on the weekend we were supposed to go out, Titanic was released and my daughter was absolutely dying to see it. I took her to the movie (my son wasn’t interested) and we put our date off until the next weekend. Ray took me to ‘The Outback’ for dinner, we ordered the exact same thing and talked for HOURS. Afterwards we went to see a movie, ‘As Good as it Gets’ 😉…pretty apropos I’d say 💖. We just happened to be talking about marriage and things yesterday, we’d both been married before. I have 2 children, he has 3. He said he sort of knew the day that he got married to his ex that something was missing/wasn’t right. Our 26th wedding anniversary is next month on the 27th. He told me that he was sure and certain about marrying me because I was his best friend, and I still am. It made me tear up. I love him more today than I did the day I married him. I’m an incredibly fortunate person. I’ll be 59 this year, and Ray will be 65. Through sickness and health…the statistics of a healthy partner leaving a chronically ill one are so incredibly high. While I was completely paralyzed in the hospital, (down the entire left side of my body), Ray just held me and cried with me. I have MS. He assured me that he wasn’t going anywhere, and that we would get through this TOGETHER. I will never leave his side, I adore him, and am forever grateful for him.🥹 🌸💖🌸
Honestly, I’m single and the thought of dating gives me anxiety. There is too much flakiness going on, too many crazy’s, and people who just don’t know how to act. I’ve noticed especially nowadays people don’t know how to properly date let alone communicate and it’s so disheartening especially for someone who’s in their late 20’s.
I've been to Jeff Ruby in Louisville and Nashville, and both are nice. Louisville has the most amazing women's bathroom I've ever stepped foot in. Instead of your typical trough of sinks and standard stalls.. you walk into a deluxe powder room and then you go into another separate basically 1/2 bath w a private toilet and sink to yourself. 10/10 would recommend hahaha their food is top notch, but I can't afford to eat there. I was treated by my grandma 😅
As a gf that was mad at the girl. For me it’s when it keeps going cus girl now you know lmao. First time I took him back wasn’t mad at her or nun, they end up leaving each other alone for a while but she sent him their memories and a “I miss you” so they started again for the second time and I was pregnant this time and she knew so I was really just like again?? Then she wanted to fight me like I was the problem and we did🤣 I understand no loyalty to me but damn do you got morals? Empathy?? Compassion??? Girls girl???? Hell SOME😂 either way I’m single now but I feel like it’s normal human emotion to be mad at BOTH.
I thought of a dating review site also but then thought about how people give businesses bad reviews just cuz they don't like someone who works there or whatever & thought it's something that could. Go down hill quickly haha 💜💜💜
I’m not gonna lie but the one where the guy got drunk sounds like it might’ve been a situation where the guy still missed his ex, got drunk, and then blocked the girl because he regretted going on a date when his heart was somewhere else. Friends probably helped him secure a date to get his mind off of the other person but still not ok to ghost her like that
Right. How you gonna start off the video saying this is why you shouldn't put your business out there, then proceed to out your business out there? That whole story is just ghetto
The last girl was so cool I’d love to have a conversation with her, or maybe be friends. She feels like a real person. This whole video is crazy though 😂
we listen and we tell the judge😭😭
Girl you’re funny ❤😂
LMAOO
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"My boyfriend" but he cheated on you. Why are people defending these men?
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The fact that sis is saying "my boyfriend " in present tense is wild to me. You still claim him 🤦🏾♀️
I rebuke that type of thinking 😒
She’s rIdE oR dIe 🤡
Her take away being don’t post your man and life in social media being the problem is crazy. The take away is your man was trash. Social media wasn’t going to stop him from cheating and telling them all her business.
"we listen and we don't judge" no ma'am, call me Judy because I am judging.
Yeah bro, you're on the Overboss Court right now as we speak. I'm the honorable judge and I just gotta say "You're an idiot".
Imma call you Judge Lynn Toler cuz you done tol’ her 💅.
me
Chilllleeeeeee sameeee
0:41 THIS IS THE LONGEST PUT A FINGER DOWN SCENARIO IVE EVER HEARD😂😭
Congratulations, you’re not on TikTok a lot 😂
@@BusiswaG I don't have one at all🥴
@@theeemrsjacksonsame lol I live off TH-cam compilations 😂
@lanigirl01 absolutely 😂 I have TH-cam and that's it that's all 🤗🫶🏾
@@theeemrsjackson premium is so worth it for these and asmr videos for sleep!
Imagine giving yourself a whole panic attack over someone you don’t know. Stand up!!
Pretty wild, it honestly took me back to high school before I knew what ghosting was smh 😂
no seriously i was like girl???
That first story is CRAZY oh hell no. That other woman was definitely a stalker, however, forget her and dump that dude immediately! No messy man is worth dealing with all the negativity he will inevitably attract.
The one where the guy said that the woman was short was a man who wanted to mess with her self esteem. What a jerk.
As a short girlie, I've never had a man dislike my height. I even dated a man (for like 4 years) who was a full foot taller and he never once complained. What is wrong with that bowling man?
He was just annoyed she didn’t wear the outfit he wanted
Bowling man was trying to lower her confidence so that he would have more of a chance.
@@nightskylerj That just makes me ask again, what is wrong with him? Wanting a girl to wear an outfit you picked...sus.
@@chanelnoelle4127 Well, how'd that work for him LOL. I'll never understand negg'n but I'm the type to return the negative comment favor, giggle, then walk out of your life.
@@kiterafreyhe wanted to put her down, either he’s childish and hate women or he’s childish and want to control women. She didn’t wear what he wants and it made him upset. So he planned to make her feel bad about herself.
I do an everything shower before a date/event just so I feel thoroughly cute and pampered. Even if I don’t expect anyone to see my “everything” lol
That!
Yes! This sets the mood for the whole evening lol.
I would clean everything every date. I never did anything but it just made me feel more confident. Nothing wrong with being super clean
THANK YOU! Why not smell like the freshest linen in the world on your first date. Make the other party want to get you dirty…at some point, not the first date lol
Isn’t it normal to do an everything shower every few days anyway?? 😅 that was my thought anyway!
Yea totally agree! I just do it just because as well.
I don’t understand and everything shower vs regular since I thought you clean everything during a shower either way. Anyways, I absolutely used to do a body scrub and all that before dates just to feel good.
It means shaving the intimate area as well
That time my hinge date left me stranded in the middle of the night bc instead of taking me home he took me to his house and I didn’t wanna have segg with him so he left me at a random gas station in Houston at like 3am 🙂
I'm sorry that happened to you and I'm happy you are safe and made it home stay blessed 🙏🏾🫂 queen
Never get in their car on first date always drive yourself or get Ubers there and back
I’m glad you’re still here 😂
Girl i did the same thing even worse went riding w them. I was dumb and thirsty at the time. Thank God's I have a real boyfriend living w me now. Never again. And if we ever break up I am just done dating altogether
People are seriously unhinged in the head 🤦♀️😑, both women & men need to stay safe out there , especially on the apps. That lady thinking all people on dating sites had " good intentions" is the funniest naive thing 🤣 .
I feel like that bowling date guy probably watch those alpha male videos. Their main advice is basically to neg somebody or just insult them to try to get their confidence down. It seems like this guy actually thought that would work.
He also probably learned that advice to be aggressive such as trying to get her to come over or to tell her what to wear. When in actuality that is very unattractive unless you are dating a very insecure woman.
I came here to write this but you got there first! You are absolutely coreect and what's worse if these idiots really think this advice works. Don't you see the lady's panty stiffening up from dryness? Come on!
That’s not alpha male comment that’s the toxic fringe redpill bs
I thought the same thing. Very manosphere coded.
That would make sense poor dude probably sought out that advice looking for a wife when it’s for getting a ho. That’s sad all around if so.
tiktok really proves how we need to know less about eachother like because whenever i scroll through that app i'm being forced to know about a random person's business
Doesn't TikTok have an algorithm that recommends videos based on content you've watched?
SHE was delusional? That woman fought her for a man that cheated, and she STILL claimed him.
“I like my girls to look fly.” Sir, you need to fly on out of here.
The second girl is wild. All that over a common boyfriend? And she has a daughter? Lord save our sisters from the shackles of men.
Amen to that
Bad men*
Right!!
To be fair, I take an everything shower regularly, and I don't have sex ever. I'm not even dating. I still haven't had sex despite being 27. I just like the routine and feeling pampered.
I will never understand how men will literally invite a woman to eat out and then act shocked/disgusted when the woman actually eats? Like hello? What are you here for?
They want to control women. That's it.
I am married to my husband that I met on Hinge! We met in 2019, married 2022. He was my first and only date from Hinge. This was after YEARS of horrible dates, narcs, sociopaths, etc from tinder, bumble, OK cupid, plenty of fish, you name it 😂
I’ve been talking to a wonderful guy every day for two months now - also met online dating. Crazy.
Met my fiancé on Hinge ❤
@sophiabrockenbrough9932 love this for you
Same but bumble. Videos like this make me so thankful to God I found him.
@@beautifulxrebellion thank you 😊
"is he sent by your enemies" SEEEEEENT MEE
If you have your text messages sent to your notification bar( dropbar)Where you can have a setting on to see the text or not. You can drop the drop bar down, press on tthe little down arrow, read the text and it still appears like you didn't read it. It only shows youve read it AFTER you've opened the text in app. Just a little tip around wanting to read texts without letting the other person know you've read it.
That stalker girl didn't love her but she WANTED to be her...
12:40 why is this me asf. I deadass will call the hospital and ask the police dept about any reported accidents😂. I just remember having an ex in high school that said “you always jump to somebody cheating, I could've been dead or hurt somewhere” So now I like to check those boxes before I go crazy about you cheating 🤣
❤ happily married but I'm rooting for everyone dealing with dating now❤❤❤ It seems like a nightmare
What's an everything shower?.. Glad that was answered..lol. I was sitting here thinking, I wash everything everyday...😂
I'm an 80's baby and all this new lingo makes me feel old 🤦🏾♀️
😂😂😂
I'm so thankful that most of my online dating days were legit and good! I never got stood up and I'm married to the love of my life that I met online for almost 8 years now! I can't even IMAGINE being single and trying to date now! Seems like the men are getting more and more immature for some reason. Good luck to anyone actively online dating right now, stay safe out there yall.
They are, because the people they've been stepping on for years are finally standing up for themselves and they don't like it. Instead of changing with the times, they're turning into bigots.
1st girl, "POLICE HEEEEELP! POLICE!!!" 👮👮👮
Why was her first thought, "omg hes not responding because hes dead!" How full of yourself must you be to not even consider that he just ghosted you?
Seriously, how embarrassing, it's obvious
I would say it’s just naivety, but her “panic attack” over a guy not responding is strange. Either she has trauma related to abandonment or she’s actually full of herself.
@happycarrot8166 and then her text "omg I'm having a panic attack right now, can you just tell me if you're ok??" Probably just reinforced his decision to ghost
@real_cherita no, a lot of times it isn't trauma or naivete. Some people are just dumb and also full of themselves. Not everything leads to a road map of trauma
@gle.. lol!
The girl having a panic attack and using this as a way to make him respond is so strange.. I’m 100% sure deep inside she didn’t actually think he had a car accident. She was just trying to guilt trip him into not ghosting him. I understand she would be disappointed but they literally never met before so it’s very odd to have a full on mental breakdown RIGHT AWAY when he doesn’t respond anymore 😆 she KNEW 100% he wasn’t in an accident lol that’s just weird
I don't know why people can give themselves up to these men 🙄
Calories aren’t real???? That’s a crazy statement
How people CHOOSE to share such with the internet will forever baffle me🙆🏾♀️. I'm not an angel either but some things I've ONLY shared with the good Lord and taking to my grave!😬
"Hinge the dating app designed to be deleted" Just not the way they hoped lol, and definitely single and not looking videos like this always make me glad I'm this way now!!💜💜💜💜
I can think of a few things I'd rather do than date a man.... like... eating glass.. stepping on a cactus... being mauled by a bear... so many preferable scenarios.
Socrates Sculpture Park is cool!! It's almost like an outdoor gallery. It's full of sculptures by less-known artists and they change over time. I personally would have enjoyed that as a first date 😅
We got one of those here in wny, griffins sculpture park. Check it out ❤
Same, I like lowkey dates too, don’t take me to dinner 🙏🏻
Same here. I’ve always loved walking dates.
Same here! And a sculpture park sounds so nice!
"was he sent by your enemies " is wiilldd !
I’m a 20 yr old who’s never dated, and these videos just reinforce my fear of dating😅😅I’m considering becoming a nun
21 and SAME HERE. I'd rather stay alone, thank you very much
You'll find someone. These people are just uh special
@@Hello.How-are-you-tonight. nah, not worth it. Men are notorious for being r@pey POSes.
And I'm meant to want one in my own home?
Actual nightmare.
Busiswa is such an auntie lmao
💜 newly single and in no rush to jump back in the dating scene LOL
My worst nightmare lol
💜tried dating apps (never hinge) maybe 1.5 year ago, and never went back. Been single for 3years now and voluntarily celibate. Don't need any of the drama that comes with that either.
The editing in this video is especially funny, great job queen!
Woah! I remember a time when all these stories were by word of mouth now all I have to do is open an app. I would hear stories like these from friends, co-workers, etc but I tell my son's father and my current husband how grateful I am of them because I won't fight for a man. I said that from the time I saw two young ladies fight in the middle of the street when I was 10yrs old. I knew from that point on i'm not fighting over any relationship physically nor mentally.
That first lady had me so confused 😅
Calories are real and I will die on that hill😂 I lost 50lbs just counting calories and not going over. I know so many people don’t count calories and that is all good but don’t deny that calories exist
Same here. 70lbs down, no exercise because I'm disabled. All calorie counting.
People probably heard that one TikTok that says same products will have different calories in raw vs cooked stage, and now think they are calories experts lol.
Eggzactly
Yup! It works.
I am happy for all the women who saw the red flags and run. The other ones…. Um I wish you the best but their character is showing if they entertain others disrespect and bull.
Listen if she knew about me I’m mad at her too don’t mean imma deal with her talk to her or anything but I’m mad at both of em but the betrayal and all that lands in the man of course but I’m still mad bc that’s just being a bad person messing with someone you know is in a RELATIONSHIP with someone else
I 100% understand it, but to put hands one her? She doesn’t owe you ANY loyalty. Also, she still kept saying, “my man”. LOL
@ violence definitely isn’t the answer I would never go so hard for someone who wasn’t acting like “my man” 😂 you crack me up when you say that love your videos ❤️❤️
Literally this! Especially a married man/woman. Ik there are plenty of women out there that will sleep w married men/vice versa. Most of the time when you're married, you wear a ring, so it is harder to hide your spouse and the affair partner not know about them. Even if you remove it before dates, you can typically tell if a ring is normally worn on a specific finger. Sadly, the ring to some will carry them like a moth to a flame. Please be advised though, even if you don't believe in God, then karma will meet with you eventually and always when you least expect it.
These just make me happy I’m still single 😭✌️
💜love you girl, tune in all the time when you post!
I have never clicked so fast 😂
I met my now husband on hinge! We had our first date at a slim chicken 3 months later he proposed and a year after that we got married! And we just celebrated our 2nd anniversary!
I will always be mad at the man. However, that said, if she knew he wasn't single and she still chose to be with him, I'm gonna be mad at her too. She might not own my loyalty, but she is still beholden to the same social contracts we all are, and if you're trash, I'm gonna treat you like trash. I'm just upholding my end of the social contract. Whereas, if she didn't know, she's also a victim and I hold no angry for her. But either way, he better count his days on Earth cuz they're about to be up.
Though, to be fair, I'm just guessing how I'd feel because I've not be the partner being cheated on. I have been the young dumb 18 year old who believed him when he said he was divorced, but I've never been the party that was cheated on.
I wonder how many people could actually partake in that first "put a finger down if" clip...
I'll once again proclaim the joys of Single Life and being my own life boss. I ain't got the time nor money to commit to another, and honestly I don't want something that sounds more demanding for romance / sex when I don't care for either. I'll be a platonic friend though.
Everything showers are so you smell great and feel great, I used to do that every week even twhen I was single and celibate
these men don’t care i learned the hard way on these dating apps😂
Why would you not take everything shower before meeting someone you just met. I want to make sure I smell completely clean no matter what and I look completely clean?
It usually implies all grooming, shaving, etc. because you plan or hope to have sex.
@delilaha yea so that's not true for everyone sorry
THE FIRST 10 SECONDS ARE STRAIGHT UP PRODUCER NETFLIX DRAMA… no ma’am some people just don’t have personality and rather than find themselves they fill the void with toxic ass red flags 😭
Honestly I feel her when she says she was so excited and she took and everything shower, it’s not that I’m doing this cause I expect something to happen or anything it’s just it’s my process to make ME feel good and confident and ready.
And the summary statement isn’t gonna include me specifying “I took an everything shower I was so excited, but I skipped this and this and this because I don’t need those on first date”. Like there’s first date everything shower, tenth date everything shower, married everything, etc. and I assume that since you know it’s a first date you’d know it’s a first date everything
lol they do have Facebook groups where people post about bad encounters they’ve had with certain people on the dating apps
I’ve seen some, they’re crazy.
@ so entertaining
Haibo! That first story🥴😧...ivale mfana!
ivale MANJE!! 😭😭
“Was he sent by your enemies?”Lmfao!
I think sometimes everything showers just feel like a way to “prepare.” Some people like to get a new outfit or new shoes for a date, others might get their hair done or schedule a nail appointment before that date. I think it’s not necessarily for sleeping with someone (though it definitely can be) and more so as a way to get rid first date jitters and trick your brain into thinking you’ve prepared for the moment. Like studying for a big test? I’ve only done everything showers for guys I was super duper into, nothing happened afterwards, but for the guys I was going out with because my friends said I should give them a chance? Heck, I think I had prickly legs on one of those dates. 😅
IF ONLY they put THIS MUCH ENERGY into parenting their children or bettering themselves 😢
17:40 Trust me, majority of guys like shorties. I'm 5'8" (not really tall but above average height for a woman ig) and almost every single man I met from an app made a comment about how they thought I'd be shorter. This one guy was literally 6'7" and he looked visibly disappointed when he told me he thought I'd be shorter.
yayyy i’m finally early!!! i can’t wait to watch 🤍
The girl who's "cousin works in HR" nope... her timeline doesn't make sense.
She met the girl on June 1st and already on June 2nd, this girl had applied to your job, was set to be trained by you, but couldn't come in bc she was in the hospital bc you beat her up the day before, which was just the 1st day you met her AND your job wanted to fire you but your cousin saved your job bc you allegedly fought this girl the day before; again, that you met the day before.
I’m new to your channel, I absolutely love your videos! I’m also nosy and single 😂💜
The no you said was so fast 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
What a way to open up the video, the story was nonstop chaos 🥴
💜 and planning to stay that way. Dating apps are so bizarre to me, like a meat market/shopping, I just couldn't do it, props to those that find success!
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For about a month now. I realized I want a more intentional dating experience, so I turned them loose and wished them happiness. No blocking, no blow-outs. I’m on the apps. These videos are my research of what to avoid 😅
7:35 I don’t think the story has anything to do with you posting your significant other. I think it’s more of your significant other is cheating on you and you blame the female.😂
I'm still confused about her story
Holy hell, thank goodness I’m single cuz the first story would’ve made me contemplate my entire life WTH why are men this messy what happened to just being honest… 😭😭😭
"NOPE .. MMHMM ..WIFE NO MAAM" my reaction the same lolol .. Mario sound effects lol .... but that first story was WWIILLLDDD !!!!!
💜💜💜-which means I'm VERY single 😂
Oh I'm here 1st day yay!!!
I love how there’s multiple stories from NYC. It really is rough out here. But I did meet my bf of 2.5 years on Bumble
texter backer ? 🤣😂😂 and i didn't know there was such a thing as "everything shower" for me its an everything shower everyday....isnt it suppose to be that ?? 🤔
Everything shower includes things like peelings, massage, brushing, deep conditioning etc. Nobody does it with every shower.
People don’t put your feet with shoes on furniture. People sit there. That is so unclassy.
My first date with my husband was supposed to be the third week in December, we’d met in early November of 1997. I was the night Manager at the video store here locally, and ever since we met and started to talk, he would stop by every single evening on his way home just to say hello ☺️.
It turns out on the weekend we were supposed to go out, Titanic was released and my daughter was absolutely dying to see it. I took her to the movie (my son wasn’t interested) and we put our date off until the next weekend.
Ray took me to ‘The Outback’ for dinner, we ordered the exact same thing and talked for HOURS. Afterwards we went to see a movie, ‘As Good as it Gets’ 😉…pretty apropos I’d say 💖.
We just happened to be talking about marriage and things yesterday, we’d both been married before. I have 2 children, he has 3.
He said he sort of knew the day that he got married to his ex that something was missing/wasn’t right.
Our 26th wedding anniversary is next month on the 27th. He told me that he was sure and certain about marrying me because I was his best friend, and I still am.
It made me tear up. I love him more today than I did the day I married him. I’m an incredibly fortunate person. I’ll be 59 this year, and Ray will be 65.
Through sickness and health…the statistics of a healthy partner leaving a chronically ill one are so incredibly high. While I was completely paralyzed in the hospital, (down the entire left side of my body), Ray just held me and cried with me. I have MS.
He assured me that he wasn’t going anywhere, and that we would get through this TOGETHER. I will never leave his side, I adore him, and am forever grateful for him.🥹
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Honestly, I’m single and the thought of dating gives me anxiety. There is too much flakiness going on, too many crazy’s, and people who just don’t know how to act. I’ve noticed especially nowadays people don’t know how to properly date let alone communicate and it’s so disheartening especially for someone who’s in their late 20’s.
I've been to Jeff Ruby in Louisville and Nashville, and both are nice. Louisville has the most amazing women's bathroom I've ever stepped foot in. Instead of your typical trough of sinks and standard stalls.. you walk into a deluxe powder room and then you go into another separate basically 1/2 bath w a private toilet and sink to yourself. 10/10 would recommend hahaha their food is top notch, but I can't afford to eat there. I was treated by my grandma 😅
Lol I was you during that first part!! what?!
hinge makes me think of unhinged lol. Very sinister sounding app.
As a gf that was mad at the girl. For me it’s when it keeps going cus girl now you know lmao. First time I took him back wasn’t mad at her or nun, they end up leaving each other alone for a while but she sent him their memories and a “I miss you” so they started again for the second time and I was pregnant this time and she knew so I was really just like again?? Then she wanted to fight me like I was the problem and we did🤣 I understand no loyalty to me but damn do you got morals? Empathy?? Compassion??? Girls girl???? Hell SOME😂 either way I’m single now but I feel like it’s normal human emotion to be mad at BOTH.
💜not single, but I stayyyyyyy and am a big fan
This is the longest put-a-finger down I've ever seen 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I thought of a dating review site also but then thought about how people give businesses bad reviews just cuz they don't like someone who works there or whatever & thought it's something that could. Go down hill quickly haha
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Wow these stories are insane! For a good hinge story I met my finance on Hinge! We’ve been together three years. Not all are bad!
I’m not gonna lie but the one where the guy got drunk sounds like it might’ve been a situation where the guy still missed his ex, got drunk, and then blocked the girl because he regretted going on a date when his heart was somewhere else. Friends probably helped him secure a date to get his mind off of the other person but still not ok to ghost her like that
💜 so glad I found out not find out about hinge
Okay... 30 seconds and I'm ehm what?
A Certified Situation Analyst. CSA 😂
Girl, that, "WHAT," almost made me choke on my food😂😭
i was not ready for that first one......
In AZ we have a Facebook group that ppl leave reviews on men 😂😂😂😂
Pretty sure most cities have women’s groups chats to warn each other about shady men on dating apps
5:12 now everyone knows hr is your cousin
Right. How you gonna start off the video saying this is why you shouldn't put your business out there, then proceed to out your business out there? That whole story is just ghetto
I needed this 😂Lemme get a snack 💜
The last girl was so cool I’d love to have a conversation with her, or maybe be friends. She feels like a real person. This whole video is crazy though 😂
1:15 that is actually insane 💀