He must've done a massive amount of cheating cause he is so paranoid it's ridiculous. He need to come clean to his wife and clear his own conscience so they can live in peace
As women when do we start putting ourselves first? When do we stop staying in relationships/marriages to make our spouse happy when we are unhappy? They wife needs therapy too
He knew that picture wasn’t his wife. Why he acting like he ain’t never seen her naked? 15 years, he should know every wrinkle & dimple on her body…She should just leave. He’s looking for a reason to go anyway.😢He’s the cheater sadly.
I remember seeing the 1st story awhile back, and I’m curious to know if Larry ever changed his ways, because I definitely wouldn’t be able to tolerate his ongoing paranoia. The woman in the 2nd gets absolutely no sympathy from me. The pain that she’s currently feeling is probably only a fraction of the pain that she caused his WIFE, because I don’t believe for a minute that they waited until he left his wife to start messing around.
First story, if after good therapy the foolery continues, it's time to dissolve the relationship. Having a healthy mind is so important these days. Second story, the relationship started on the wrong foot. If they put the same energy in building like they do in chasing & accusing foolery, they would alot further in a positive relationship
These woman are crazy to even put up with this foolery. He is loosing his mind and people know it. It’s only woman calling and telling him that foolishness. She is silly for not asking for his phone
He would be with his coworkers for sure! He really disrespects her period!! Wow! I think he’s the cheater! 15 years would be the last year we spent together!! Wow! He’s an idiot! Poor lady I felt her pain! Unlock his phone and let’s see what’s in it!
If he dont get the help she better get gone. Some people just jealous nature and will make your life hell. My first husband was like that. I had to haul ass.
Karamo you know what I like least about your show, its the fact you try to make almost all of your guest look sympathic by bringing up there past. Sometimes it feels like that is your only method to do deal with issues is to bring up the past even if it's not directly linked to is happening and hope that causes your gues to open up. Here is a life lesson for you, having a terrible past doesn't automatically make someone sympathic, it's how they act in the present which is the deciding factor.
Most of our actions unconsciously is based off of our past mainly or childhood. Broken people come from broken homes or trauma from childhood or teen life that’s not dealt with later in life. So he’s really getting them to see how their childhood trauma is effecting their adulthood and to seek help that’s beyond a talk show. He does offer certain people help outside of the show.
Naw this man is experiencing Trauma men. I don’t even think he cheating either, I just think he doesn’t have the tools to process his grief and one problem going into another.
I really don't feel sorry for Candice. If he was serious about you he would've closed that chapter with his wife first. She got into a relationship with someone who's still married. Honestly, seeing this type of nonsense on this relationship is pathetic. They're too old for this!
She started dating a married man. She was wrong from the beginning. This man is sitting here still married and dating his side chick for 6 years accusing her of cheating. The side chick had no concern about his marriage. You get what you bargain for when you’re doing dirt.
Candice, Why would you settle for a man that is still married to his wife? Why would you want to be with a man that cheats on you? He's looking at naked women and talking to other women still to this day. Even though you say you love him, love isn't enough. Don't ever stay with him on the hope and prayer that he will change. If he truly loved you, he would get his divorce and commit to you and you only. If he truly lived you, he wouldn't want to hurt her. You should move on because as you get older, it's difficult to find a decent, available man. He's delusional! He's cheating by watching videos of naked women and talking to other women. If he can't make you his number one, you shouldn't make him your number one!!! You deserve so much better. He seems like a sleeze ball. If he hasn't divorced in ten years, he never will! Jason looks rough!!! What does Candice see in him? I don't see it.
My ex husband was this paranoid because he was cheating up a storm, He found A penny in the bed & said it was a man I was sleeping with, When I come home from work & take a shower. I just had sex with someone, I had to get a divorce I got worse than that.
10:28 Reddit does not do porn, I'm sorry but this man has some real issues and if he's not cheating , Then he needs to really stop letting people mess with his head , I believe her !! Please tell me that they are unlocking his phone too !! His grief may be what's fueling this But it is not fair that they didn't unlock his phone also. Because a lot of times the person who's doing the accusing At this level especially is doing something wrong. I really hope that Therapy helps Because they seem to really love each other a lot. And he needs to handle these people that are Straight lying about his wife to him and causing issues in Their lives. 26:13 The same way you got him is the same way you're going to lose him , How can she sit there and say that They were all good friends, I don't want" good friends " If they end up with my husband 🤨 If he did it to her he'll do it to you !! 28:55 I already don't believe this man and no it's not because he's a man !! 31:12 She sounds extremely paranoid because of the way she met him 🤔 33:37 What is the audience chick talking about right now ? He didn't manipulate her into being with him while he was married , She went along with it she's a grown woman no one made her do anything !! 😤 Her tone when she said" I work to support us " Sounds like she's holding resentments against him for getting injured , He said he's disabled he didn't do that on purpose so she It's to stop blaming this man for what was done to him. No way would I ever be able to live with someone treating me the way she's treating him , Cameras, accusations ! If she's wrong, I don't know if their relationship's gonna be able to recover from the way she is acting towards him! 43:07 I think she needs to have a talk with her " Best friend " Because even if. She didn't do anything wringram she didn't tell Her.
Reddit took down my pics of my natural nails cause they looked shiney. They said I did not list the products used 😂😂 they we’re naturally like that 😅, so his accusation had me rolling lol couldn’ve named literally any other site
He cheating on her to cover up what he doing… the stuff he saying sounds crazy. Girl, leave the devil but I heard it’s easy to get married but hard to get out of marriage
I loveeeee how this lady nonchalantly explains how she met Jason 😂Karma is eating her alive. Got her acting like a lovesick teenager😨being married to Jason is a joke😂
His weak ass need to put those people in check who are lying on his wife. She seems like a good woman. If his love was so strong, he would defend her like a true king. These outside people know he's stupid and are enjoying messing with him. I hope she leaves him and find someone who will love, support, and defend her.
I know someone who his co workers kept telling him his wife was cheating on him, just for the fun of it and he went a dug a hole, accompanied her one Sunday on way to church, and buried her alive. It’s not funny but his co workers were playing with him and he took it serious and ended her life.
I would hate him! Girl how do you live with someone like this!! Annnnnddd there’s no way one person should unlock their phone it should always be both!
Paranoia can come from what the husband is doing in secret too! They should've unlocked his phone. How would he see her on these sites (dating, porn, etc.) If he's not on them?
He said, “No,” he didn’t cheat; but he shook his head in an up- and-down motion / in an affirmative manner (“yes”). … … … He’s a horrible, cheating husband. I’m sorry. He could be having trauma from all of his familial loss; however, he’s abusing his wife smh
I think she needs to divorce him he's too insecure. She can do so much better. For the first couple is nothing wrong with standing by your man but not at a point where it becomes disrespectful and abusive😢
I feel they glossed over the second guy too much. Yes there wasn't proof of sleeping around but he was interacting with, and getting dirty pics from other women. While it's not proof of sex he's far from squeaky clean and ahe has good reason to not trust him
I'm sorry, it's not always a deep issue, behind something. Sometimes it is what it is...I get he's lost ppl in his life but to be honest this is just a case of a guilty conscience..If you text me out of the blue and say I'm cheating or lying....then you have some underlying issues going on..She needs to unlock his phone...I wonder how the tables will turn...
When the "Unlock the phone" epidsodes come on I feel like it shouldn't be onesided, both parties should have their phones unlocked. More likely than not the accuser is the one cheating but wants to deflect it to the other person.
Ok. The 2nd couple....Candice was ANNOYING AF....she had ZERO trust in her Man.....but still wouldn't leave the relationship. Then she personally added women on his Tic Toc (Self Sabotage) and then complained about him following women on Tic Toc!!!...she came off as weak & dumb.
I think the first husband is probably cheating. And Karomo , you are a gem, I do not know how you keep your composure and temperament in these situations, I have not heard you raise your voice or get combative. You are the God of Patience, cause wow.
Mam, this is the part of your relationship of Sickness and health. He is ill. He has had many travesties in a short period of time. He needs a Psychologist, possibly a Psychiatrist 😢 If he doesn't get his paranoia in check, you may have to fear for your life
This some Narcissistic behavior. Might have always been there but it was a lot more people around now it’s just her. Or to give benefit of the doubt he is grieving and just lashing out. Whoever these people are telling him this are not his friends what kind of people do this to someone while they know he has lost half his family. People are dirty I would sage down the house, the car and myself after work cause somebody is really jealous of the first couple.
2nd people he’s too old to be acting like that! Wow! He knows he’s cheating and he still loves his wife! I knew it!!! He’s a manipulator!! And he’s laughing like a child! Lady move on and find u real man! But like they say how u get them is how u lose them! He’s is MARRIED! She need to leave him u til he get a divorce!
The first couple reminds me of me and my ex. I haven't watched the whole segment (right before the phone unlocks) but he was paranoid and doing the same things. We lasted longer than we needed to. Around 7-8 months. And I saw the flags and left. Hard to believe that there were at least a hint of signage before they were married or even after before they got to this point. She deserves way better. Edit: just finished the segment. I hate that for both of them. Hopefully he gets help and doesn't continue to push her away. And if he does, I hope she finds the courage to leave.
I been with someone like that it will never end. It's so degrading as a woman especially when you know it's not your character. he is cheating or mentally ill.
Not even 5 minutes in, and he has thoroughly gotten on my nerves. He’s believing his own delusions- why not unlock his phone?!
omg riiiiiight
Once someone cheated and see how easy it is. They start accusing their partner of cheating too so they can live with their guilt.
U are so right am going true that right now.
So true been there, the one who's always blaming is the one that's cheating.. been there
Facts!!
I went through this.
I went through this as well.
He must've done a massive amount of cheating cause he is so paranoid it's ridiculous. He need to come clean to his wife and clear his own conscience so they can live in peace
As women when do we start putting ourselves first? When do we stop staying in relationships/marriages to make our spouse happy when we are unhappy? They wife needs therapy too
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😅😊😮😮😅😮😮 35:09
He's the one doing the cheating check his phone
Yes
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Yes he is cheating 100%
Definitely
He knew that picture wasn’t his wife. Why he acting like he ain’t never seen her naked? 15 years, he should know every wrinkle & dimple on her body…She should just leave. He’s looking for a reason to go anyway.😢He’s the cheater sadly.
Right. He wanted her to fail. He wants to leave and is causing problems to justify when he divorces her. There is another woman waiting on him.
@@blulicious2 Facts 💯💯
@@blulicious2 that may it! Ain't no way I would put up w that mess! She gotta be sick of that, it's definitely not love😢
They should unlock his phone 📱
I was thinking the same thing!
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Exactly
NOWWWW
He's a DELISIOAL AND A PHYSIO. SHE SHOULD LEAVE HIM TO KEEP HER SANITY AND PEACE OF MIND. RUN RUN LADY.😢🇯🇲
Buddy so paranoid from his own dirt 😭😭🤦🏽♂️
Yall don't know that
@@auzy2u845 he didn’t unlock his phone. No transparency on his part. It’s shady.
He definitely cheated.. he nodded his head yes as saying no. Mind and body disagreed with what the mouth said.
I peeped that too!
His phone should have been unlocked,
Freudian slip
I saw that too!
It was her saving him as “the devil“ for me😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
I remember seeing the 1st story awhile back, and I’m curious to know if Larry ever changed his ways, because I definitely wouldn’t be able to tolerate his ongoing paranoia.
The woman in the 2nd gets absolutely no sympathy from me. The pain that she’s currently feeling is probably only a fraction of the pain that she caused his WIFE, because I don’t believe for a minute that they waited until he left his wife to start messing around.
Right!
He's the cheater! It seems he is obsessed with making her look bad,that he makes himself look crazy stupid!
He's definitely hiding something should've checked his phone...
His body language gives off he's the one that cheated. Especially when they ask him.. tighten up before you lose her.
She should have unlocked his phone. When someone continuously is on your case about doing something usually they're the one that's doing all the dirt
He done got on my nerves 😂
Me and you both
And mine
He deflects he cheating
😂😂
He so insecure it’s making him toxic. But I think he hiding something, the ones accusing always up to no good.
First story, if after good therapy the foolery continues, it's time to dissolve the relationship. Having a healthy mind is so important these days.
Second story, the relationship started on the wrong foot. If they put the same energy in building like they do in chasing & accusing foolery, they would alot further in a positive relationship
If he believes this truly, he'd leave. He knows he's lying.
I couldn't stay with someone who is constantly accusing me like this...
The way I love being unbothered...he on my nerve 🤨🤬
Karamo is a good therapist for couples
No, has bias towards men. He does help some people.
These woman are crazy to even put up with this foolery. He is loosing his mind and people know it. It’s only woman calling and telling him that foolishness. She is silly for not asking for his phone
15 years of marriage and he doesn’t believe his wife? ….
Fear, doubt and Self sabotage
He would be with his coworkers for sure! He really disrespects her period!! Wow! I think he’s the cheater! 15 years would be the last year we spent together!! Wow! He’s an idiot! Poor lady I felt her pain! Unlock his phone and let’s see what’s in it!
Whats that ole saying? " Guilty dog always barks first" or something like that!
Hit dog will howl
This man has always been abusive but now he's doing it in obvious ways. This doesn't come out of no where
Not true.
@@auzy2u845 based on what ? I’m basing my opinion on what is in the video what are you basing your opinion on ?
@@isabellesantos7186 You said that it doesn't come out if nowhere.
With the first couple, I don't think he will stop accusing his wife.
If he dont get the help she better get gone. Some people just jealous nature and will make your life hell. My first husband was like that. I had to haul ass.
Karamo asked if he ever cheated on his wife and he said no but nodded yes at the same time. Hes dirty.
Karamo you know what I like least about your show, its the fact you try to make almost all of your guest look sympathic by bringing up there past.
Sometimes it feels like that is your only method to do deal with issues is to bring up the past even if it's not directly linked to is happening and hope that causes your gues to open up.
Here is a life lesson for you, having a terrible past doesn't automatically make someone sympathic, it's how they act in the present which is the deciding factor.
Just stop Watching. You're so bitter damn
Most of our actions unconsciously is based off of our past mainly or childhood. Broken people come from broken homes or trauma from childhood or teen life that’s not dealt with later in life. So he’s really getting them to see how their childhood trauma is effecting their adulthood and to seek help that’s beyond a talk show. He does offer certain people help outside of the show.
Naw this man is experiencing Trauma men. I don’t even think he cheating either, I just think he doesn’t have the tools to process his grief and one problem going into another.
I think so too
Have you cheated on your wife? his head almost say Yesss and his mouth said No,I believe he is cheating and that's why he is accusing her.
man i wanna take my man here, but they can’t and will not unlock my phone 😭
😂😂😂😂 lmao
YOUR phone, or his phone?
😂😂
@@NubianP6 😭😭😭
I really don't feel sorry for Candice. If he was serious about you he would've closed that chapter with his wife first. She got into a relationship with someone who's still married.
Honestly, seeing this type of nonsense on this relationship is pathetic. They're too old for this!
This with candace is a pure case of backfire dont matter hw long it takes it comes back
His teeth say he lying😂....he the one that's been cheating.
She started dating a married man. She was wrong from the beginning. This man is sitting here still married and dating his side chick for 6 years accusing her of cheating. The side chick had no concern about his marriage. You get what you bargain for when you’re doing dirt.
The married man had NO concern . He’s the one who took vows.
@@brittanywallace8811 Are you saying that she was not aware that he was married? The problem is her lack of self respect.
Candice, Why would you settle for a man that is still married to his wife? Why would you want to be with a man that cheats on you? He's looking at naked women and talking to other women still to this day. Even though you say you love him, love isn't enough. Don't ever stay with him on the hope and prayer that he will change. If he truly loved you, he would get his divorce and commit to you and you only. If he truly lived you, he wouldn't want to hurt her. You should move on because as you get older, it's difficult to find a decent, available man. He's delusional! He's cheating by watching videos of naked women and talking to other women. If he can't make you his number one, you shouldn't make him your number one!!! You deserve so much better. He seems like a sleeze ball. If he hasn't divorced in ten years, he never will!
Jason looks rough!!! What does Candice see in him? I don't see it.
A Guilty conscience is a disease.
My ex husband was this paranoid because he was cheating up a storm, He found A penny in the bed & said it was a man I was sleeping with, When I come home from work & take a shower. I just had sex with someone, I had to get a divorce I got worse than that.
He needs to be more worried about getting some Carmex than looking for NONEXISTENT evidence of cheating agaisnt hus wife. What a POS.
I'm surprised Karimor missed his reaction when asked if he ever cheated... his mouth said"no" but his head nodded "yes"🤔🤔🤔🤔
10:28 Reddit does not do porn, I'm sorry but this man has some real issues and if he's not cheating , Then he needs to really stop letting people mess with his head , I believe her !! Please tell me that they are unlocking his phone too !! His grief may be what's fueling this But it is not fair that they didn't unlock his phone also.
Because a lot of times the person who's doing the accusing At this level especially is doing something wrong. I really hope that Therapy helps Because they seem to really love each other a lot. And he needs to handle these people that are Straight lying about his wife to him and causing issues in Their lives. 26:13 The same way you got him is the same way you're going to lose him , How can she sit there and say that They were all good friends, I don't want" good friends " If they end up with my husband 🤨 If he did it to her he'll do it to you !! 28:55 I already don't believe this man and no it's not because he's a man !! 31:12 She sounds extremely paranoid because of the way she met him 🤔 33:37 What is the audience chick talking about right now ? He didn't manipulate her into being with him while he was married , She went along with it she's a grown woman no one made her do anything !! 😤 Her tone when she said" I work to support us " Sounds like she's holding resentments against him for getting injured , He said he's disabled he didn't do that on purpose so she It's to stop blaming this man for what was done to him. No way would I ever be able to live with someone treating me the way she's treating him , Cameras, accusations ! If she's wrong, I don't know if their relationship's gonna be able to recover from the way she is acting towards him! 43:07 I think she needs to have a talk with her " Best friend " Because even if.
She didn't do anything wringram she didn't tell Her.
Probably why he has a man shed. He probably tje one taking women in there.
Exactly! When they said *Reddit,* I was like “Wait, what”?? 😂
Reddit took down my pics of my natural nails cause they looked shiney. They said I did not list the products used 😂😂 they we’re naturally like that 😅, so his accusation had me rolling lol couldn’ve named literally any other site
He’s covering up his actions by accusing her they should unlock his phone🤷🏾♀️
He cheating on her to cover up what he doing… the stuff he saying sounds crazy. Girl, leave the devil but I heard it’s easy to get married but hard to get out of marriage
Sounds like somebody's trying to break up your marriage.
His insecurities are very concerning. He needs years of therapy to undo his delusional thoughts..
I loveeeee how this lady nonchalantly explains how she met Jason 😂Karma is eating her alive. Got her acting like a lovesick teenager😨being married to Jason is a joke😂
Not her saying she’s the type that doesn’t like to SHARE 😭😂
How would anyone have proof that she was sneaking someone in his mancave, unless it was a neighbor.
I think he is losing his mind honestly.
His weak ass need to put those people in check who are lying on his wife. She seems like a good woman. If his love was so strong, he would defend her like a true king.
These outside people know he's stupid and are enjoying messing with him. I hope she leaves him and find someone who will love, support, and defend her.
He's the one cheating! Unlock his phone, too!😮
I just love the way you hear words from both side
If asking if you want a taco means somebody cheating then I’m cheating every week! Hell I just cheated yesterday 😂
Mr .Karamo 😂so sweet ...love this show ❤ 💕 😍
I was with someone like this for 8 years. The mental toll it takes is traumatic. I hope he gets help.
I know someone who his co workers kept telling him his wife was cheating on him, just for the fun of it and he went a dug a hole, accompanied her one Sunday on way to church, and buried her alive. It’s not funny but his co workers were playing with him and he took it serious and ended her life.
Oh wow!
I would hate him! Girl how do you live with someone like this!! Annnnnddd there’s no way one person should unlock their phone it should always be both!
Did anyone else watch this mans body movements during his vido i swear he look mad sus
They SHOULD unlock HIS phone
They don’t dive deep enough into Reddit
Thank u Karamo for understanding d source of dis man's insecurity
The thing thats so funny to me about this is I JUST FOUND OUT REDIT HAS PORN this year too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😮
Blew my mind
😮 I’m just finding out now
Unlock his phone
I don't believe zero of what comes out of his mouth. 👋🏽🚫👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽
The grass always looks greener on the other side!!!!! 😏😌
Paranoia can come from what the husband is doing in secret too! They should've unlocked his phone.
How would he see her on these sites (dating, porn, etc.) If he's not on them?
He's seriously delusional hey
The second couple is too old to fight about tiktok or the phone ?!!?
He said, “No,” he didn’t cheat; but he shook his head in an up- and-down motion / in an affirmative manner (“yes”). … … … He’s a horrible, cheating husband. I’m sorry. He could be having trauma from all of his familial loss; however, he’s abusing his wife smh
He is CRAZY
He’s the type of person to manipulate you by throwing in valid statements amongst the lies.
I think she needs to divorce him he's too insecure. She can do so much better. For the first couple is nothing wrong with standing by your man but not at a point where it becomes disrespectful and abusive😢
I feel they glossed over the second guy too much. Yes there wasn't proof of sleeping around but he was interacting with, and getting dirty pics from other women. While it's not proof of sex he's far from squeaky clean and ahe has good reason to not trust him
His coworkers messing with his head, they may be jealous or just like spinning him up
I'm sorry, it's not always a deep issue, behind something. Sometimes it is what it is...I get he's lost ppl in his life but to be honest this is just a case of a guilty conscience..If you text me out of the blue and say I'm cheating or lying....then you have some underlying issues going on..She needs to unlock his phone...I wonder how the tables will turn...
When the "Unlock the phone" epidsodes come on I feel like it shouldn't be onesided, both parties should have their phones unlocked. More likely than not the accuser is the one cheating but wants to deflect it to the other person.
That hubby is hurting so bad. Karamo nailed it😮
Fiancé? How can you be a fiancé when the dude is still married?
I love Karamo
Ok. The 2nd couple....Candice was ANNOYING AF....she had ZERO trust in her Man.....but still wouldn't leave the relationship. Then she personally added women on his Tic Toc (Self Sabotage) and then complained about him following women on Tic Toc!!!...she came off as weak & dumb.
Fear is a crippling thing...
I think the first husband is probably cheating. And Karomo , you are a gem, I do not know how you keep your composure and temperament in these situations, I have not heard you raise your voice or get combative. You are the God of Patience, cause wow.
“I don’t like to share…” says the home wrecker. 😂
You have awesome real life helping solve the problem shows Congratulations.....🎉
Always unlock both phones this man on shit
I think I would’ve left him. I can’t live like that for four years plus.
Right, usually the person pointing the finger. Is the one cheating smh ..
i’m in tears wish them all the best
Mam, this is the part of your relationship of Sickness and health. He is ill. He has had many travesties in a short period of time. He needs a Psychologist, possibly a Psychiatrist 😢
If he doesn't get his paranoia in check, you may have to fear for your life
This some Narcissistic behavior. Might have always been there but it was a lot more people around now it’s just her. Or to give benefit of the doubt he is grieving and just lashing out. Whoever these people are telling him this are not his friends what kind of people do this to someone while they know he has lost half his family. People are dirty I would sage down the house, the car and myself after work cause somebody is really jealous of the first couple.
2nd people he’s too old to be acting like that! Wow! He knows he’s cheating and he still loves his wife! I knew it!!! He’s a manipulator!! And he’s laughing like a child! Lady move on and find u real man! But like they say how u get them is how u lose them! He’s is MARRIED! She need to leave him u til he get a divorce!
I would have felt bad too. After so many years you will bring something like too me.
The relationship for me can never be the same.
In the first clip, can someone please tell me why am I seeing piano keys every time her husband opens up his mouth?
He lying to her 💯
He’s definitely cheating
He's embarrassing...ain't no way in hell
He’s sick in the head 😢
The first couple reminds me of me and my ex. I haven't watched the whole segment (right before the phone unlocks) but he was paranoid and doing the same things. We lasted longer than we needed to. Around 7-8 months. And I saw the flags and left. Hard to believe that there were at least a hint of signage before they were married or even after before they got to this point. She deserves way better.
Edit: just finished the segment. I hate that for both of them. Hopefully he gets help and doesn't continue to push her away. And if he does, I hope she finds the courage to leave.
😂😂”do you want some tacos” 🌮😆
I been with someone like that it will never end. It's so degrading as a woman especially when you know it's not your character. he is cheating or mentally ill.
He's the cheater/ suffering schizophrenia