No one will understand unless they wear our shoes...I, too was a nyab es niam pog tsi nyiam, lawv tsi nyiam yus ces yus cov kids los lawv yeej tsi nrog yus hlub os. It's been 18 years...txoj kev phem yeej tsi yeej txoj kev zoo ib zawg li os, it took them 18 years to see me as a nyab...nowadays lawv hlub yus lawm thiab ma...flashback to the past mam tu siab kawg 😢😢
I would record the mother in law and share it. Niam pog siab phem yuav npam loj, yus yog niam xwb yus tsis muaj cai tsim ib tug neeg npaum no. Even as family stop tolerating toxic family members. OG’s get so much excuses to act the fool in this community, and every one tolerates and enables it. So annoying. Your husband couldn’t protect you, not worth it.
I hate these kind of mother in law. This is why you have to be careful who you date and marry. If you are not #1 in his life he gon keep choosing his family and you just gonna keep getting mentally abuse.
Life is sad and sometimes is not fair. God gives the good people with the bad people. And the bad with a good people. Honestly to God I am the Mother in law and My stories is totally different then this one.. I wish that God gives the good people with a good people and the bad people together with the bad people but rarely not how we think and wanted in life.. Many times I think and think but is because me as single love our children so much. The woman only wants our son and not us. A very toxic woman comes from toxic background. Created Small heart woman feels threatened by our love to our children’s and family.. Is good to have a very strong toxic mom in law strong and breaths fire like this but also don’t deserve a honestly good daughter in law. That’s why life sometimes isn’t fair.
Kev npam yeej muaj tiag ov tab sis yog yus tsis tau ua phem es niam pog cia li tsis nyiam yus niam pog foom xwb mas yeej meem tso siab lug xwb os txhua leej txhua tus aw yus tej lus yog lus tseeb hos niam pog tej lus yog lus cuav xwb mas niam pog txawm yuav foom es niam pog mus kaws av kaws pob zeb kaws xis mas tib si los yog yus tsis tau ua phem mas yeej tsis npam tsis daig kiag li nawb muaj lub ntuj thiab daim av ua pov thawj rau yus thiab niam pog os cov me viv ncaus aw tsis muaj leej twg yuav ua tau pov thawj rau yus thiab niam pog tsuas yog lub ntuj thiab daim av xwb ov yus tsis tau ua phem yeej meem tso siab lug.
Kuv twb ntsib lm o leej twg g tau pom cov niam pog uas foom22 nyab no mas tu siab tsaj li o kuv ma ntxhub cov niam pog no tsaj li tu ko ce yog kuv tu niam pog thiab ntag naw tsis txawv deb li o
I agreed, should have divorced him and that toxic family sooner but I know you were giving them time and opportunities. Just glad you both find someone else who suites you better and accepted you the way you are.
Yog muaj tseeb lis koj hai Tej zaum Nws tus tub yog Nws thiab nws cov ntxhai yav me qos uas qab tshaj plaws rau lawv sawvdaws noj puab yuam.rau qhov yog yus tus txiv mas yus thiaj cem thiab khib Nws xwb.tsi yog yus tus txiv tej zaum tsi nyiam nws los yeej yuav hlub tej me nyuam thiab yuav tsi foom neb oblee npaum kos.tsi txhob tus siab mog luag ib txwm hai tia noj mov zaub tsuag nyob nrog kev sib hlub zoo dua nyiaj kub.noj nqaij txhiab nqaijcis coj nyiaj coj kub los nyob nrog kev sibntxub ce tsua zoo lis nyob hauv qhov cub xwb no tiag.
Kuv xav hnov kom ib tug neeg paub paub nej tsev neeg lub qe tuaj tham thiaj li txaus ntseeg....yog koj thiab niam pog tuaj tham xwb ces nyias yuav hus nyias kwj tse kom du du...muaj ib hom nyab thiab niam pog mas yeej phem sib xws nawb
Ab yog yus twb paub hais tias yus tsis yog tus phem , nws yog niag niam pog phem tiag tiag no xwb ces ua cas los yeej tsis khaum yus li os, ntshai nws ua dab tsi na.
Ua ntawv sign ciav yog yug tau tus menyuam yog lawv DNA ces nyab txiav niam pog caj dab. Cas yuav ruam ua luaj lawv twv yus ces kawg yuav tau twv lawv kom muaj yeej muaj swb. Nyom ces txhawm nyom kiag mus ib ntxhis ntag
Your ex is too cowardly for a husband, if he loves you like he said he move y'all away. And he is on his mother side telling you to be ua siab ntev just let her said all those mean words to you. I'm glad you divorced him and you know your worth is to get away from them.
I'm in a similar boat as you, except mine isn't as mean and evil. Its a sad sad life, but I'm thankful that I have a loving husband who always put me first.
Your ex was a Mama's boy, that's why he didn't stand up for you. There is no winning when your husband is not man enough to be his own person but his mother's! Don't worry, if you truly are innocent, Karma will get her in time and none of her nyabs that she likes will be there to care for her because deep down they hate her too but they keep their mouths shut to avoid her terrible tongue! Hope you filed for child support from that man-child ex of yours. After all, even if he can't stand up against his mother, he should at least be held accountable for his children!
Cov niam poj phem lis no mas Xav ua lub ncaws xwb tiag. zoo lis tsis tau ua nyab duab los lis zoo lis nam poj tu ntau poj lawm thiab no ma tu niam poj kob ma yog dab tus ntxhais xwb os Xav ma dab yuav tsis phem lis ntawv thiab ob 😂😂
I can understand if your MIL hates you, but the whole family including the other daughter in law also hate you just doesn't make sense. There's something missing in your story that you left out.
Poj hmoob ruam aw ca yug tsi khwv rau yug noj es pheej yuav mus thov niam pog lawv noj xwb na. Koj tsi muaj tes muaj taw lov. Ntshe koj tub nkees dhau lawm pob
Inlaws or MIL like in this story DO really exist. You wouldn't believe it if you haven't gone through similar experiences as a nyab Hmoob. I also married into a family that loves to foom alot and loves saying we are the parents and we are as the heaven. But never see thier own wrong doing. Tragically it took my mil life and my FIL is still following her footsteps causing him to have several mental stroke that has made him slow and psychically disabled it's like he is living his karma. As far as the husband he is either strong enough to stand for his own marriage or is too scare to lose his parents so he rather let you suffer. I also have HBP because of the stress so now I decided it's better to separate and I am also off HPB medicine. Don't let people disrespect you to the point it affects you especially when you don't ask them for money and make your own and live on your own.
Oh heck no, he is a literal son of a *BTCH* ! If he knew his mom was evil, he should have chosen his wife because his wife and kids is the family HE started. He used his own judgement and character to select a wife. I’m tired of hearing parents say “I birthed you, you have to respect me and do what I say.” Kids do not choose to be born, but parents choose to have kids. If anything, the parents need to love the kids most. Respect will be learned and earned if parents can model it. I’ve seen too many in laws like this smh
Maybe koj yuav tsis ruam npaum puas? Your niam pog didn’t even care to pay for your bride price and your husband can’t protect you and you still let your mother in law walk into your house to insult you and then you just sat while she insults you? Sounds unrealistic. You could had call the police and report her verbally abusing you inside your home and ask her to leave before the police comes and to escort her out. And your own birth mother just sat and watch while her child is being abuse? Some of these story author makes it seem like they don’t have a mouth.
Can’t fully believe your story. If everyone in the family hate you, there must be a reason other than you being short. There is definitely more to the story than you tell. I highly doubt you are as innocent you claim.
zoo li zaj no tsi txau tseeg.kuv yog ib tus niam pog thiab nyaj yuav tsi mauj ib pob,ib leej niam yeej tsi foom yus tus mes nyuam li nav.tsua yog xav foom kom zoo xwb sa.xav Nov leej niam pog sab thiab .
Oh so he picked his Mom over you I guess at the end he didn't love you or the kids. He is a Momma boy and he held his family 80 and you got 20. I guess for you in the end you realized it, but I'm not sure many can resonate with your relationship because I was hoping for your husband to support you till death do us part in the end his ego mattered more. Yet, you claim amicable I don't like the lesson learned in your story bad for us wives to follow. We deserve love and not a broken family. Your kids are broken.
Your ex didn't love you and your children enough to move you guys away from his toxic family.
No one will understand unless they wear our shoes...I, too was a nyab es niam pog tsi nyiam, lawv tsi nyiam yus ces yus cov kids los lawv yeej tsi nrog yus hlub os. It's been 18 years...txoj kev phem yeej tsi yeej txoj kev zoo ib zawg li os, it took them 18 years to see me as a nyab...nowadays lawv hlub yus lawm thiab ma...flashback to the past mam tu siab kawg 😢😢
I wouldn't fight for a husband whose mother is evil. Not worth my physical and mental health. Know your worth.
Evil in-laws…how could you ever hate your grandchildren…? They’re so adorable…😩!
I’m so glad that this woman decided to choose herself at the end. Love yourself enough to walk away. Peace is everything.
I'm glad you're happy now
Pog laus os pog laus aw.....luag tsis tau txhaum koj ces koj txawm yuav foom2 luag koj tsa taw hlo los yeej tsis khaum tsis npam luag li os....rov los npam rau cov koj hlub2 xwb nawb.
I definitely can relate to your story; my wicked mil. She was cruel and cursed me all the way until the end of her death bed.
Waiting for tus niam pog mag npam.
I would record the mother in law and share it. Niam pog siab phem yuav npam loj, yus yog niam xwb yus tsis muaj cai tsim ib tug neeg npaum no. Even as family stop tolerating toxic family members. OG’s get so much excuses to act the fool in this community, and every one tolerates and enables it. So annoying. Your husband couldn’t protect you, not worth it.
I hate these kind of mother in law. This is why you have to be careful who you date and marry. If you are not #1 in his life he gon keep choosing his family and you just gonna keep getting mentally abuse.
Your husband doesn't deserve you. He belongs with his evil family. I'm happy to hear you're happy and stres free now, sister. God bless you, sister.
Yus tsis tau ua phem ces yeej tsis npam yus. Koj niam pog mas yuav npam loj.
Tuaj mloog koj lawm os
Tus me nyab hauv zaj no zoo kawg zoo tsis phem kiag yom.
Thov txhob tau cov nyab li tus no.
Life is sad and sometimes is not fair. God gives the good people with the bad people. And the bad with a good people. Honestly to God I am the Mother in law and My stories is totally different then this one.. I wish that God gives the good people with a good people and the bad people together with the bad people but rarely not how we think and wanted in life.. Many times I think and think but is because me as single love our children so much. The woman only wants our son and not us. A very toxic woman comes from toxic background. Created Small heart woman feels threatened by our love to our children’s and family.. Is good to have a very strong toxic mom in law strong and breaths fire like this but also don’t deserve a honestly good daughter in law. That’s why life sometimes isn’t fair.
Yog lawm leej twg tsis tau nrob cov niam pog phem mas yuav tias ntshee tsis phem npaum li ntawv pob. Nej puas paub tias luag tsis nyiam thiab ntxhuv lawm mas us neej nyuaj tshaj plaus. Noj, pw, mus kev, zaum, sauv, tej me yuam los yeej txhaum tag nrho li os. Raug leej. Leej twg thiaj paub xwb os. Hais mas tsis txais ntsheeg kiag li hos.
Kev npam yeej muaj tiag ov tab sis yog yus tsis tau ua phem es niam pog cia li tsis nyiam yus niam pog foom xwb mas yeej meem tso siab lug xwb os txhua leej txhua tus aw yus tej lus yog lus tseeb hos niam pog tej lus yog lus cuav xwb mas niam pog txawm yuav foom es niam pog mus kaws av kaws pob zeb kaws xis mas tib si los yog yus tsis tau ua phem mas yeej tsis npam tsis daig kiag li nawb muaj lub ntuj thiab daim av ua pov thawj rau yus thiab niam pog os cov me viv ncaus aw tsis muaj leej twg yuav ua tau pov thawj rau yus thiab niam pog tsuas yog lub ntuj thiab daim av xwb ov yus tsis tau ua phem yeej meem tso siab lug.
Kuv twb ntsib lm o leej twg g tau pom cov niam pog uas foom22 nyab no mas tu siab tsaj li o kuv ma ntxhub cov niam pog no tsaj li tu ko ce yog kuv tu niam pog thiab ntag naw tsis txawv deb li o
Leej Niam ntxim ntxub. She need Jesus
Niaj pog poj dag nos mas yeej yuav npam xwb is.
Niam laus aw yeej tsi npam li o vim yus tsi txaum na
I agreed, should have divorced him and that toxic family sooner but I know you were giving them time and opportunities. Just glad you both find someone else who suites you better and accepted you the way you are.
Thov koj tu txiv thiab tu niam poj hais lawv fab tuaj naws mog púas yuav mauj tiag thiab ob Mog 😂😂😂😂😂
Yog muaj tseeb lis koj hai Tej zaum Nws tus tub yog Nws thiab nws cov ntxhai yav me qos uas qab tshaj plaws rau lawv sawvdaws noj puab yuam.rau qhov yog yus tus txiv mas yus thiaj cem thiab khib Nws xwb.tsi yog yus tus txiv tej zaum tsi nyiam nws los yeej yuav hlub tej me nyuam thiab yuav tsi foom neb oblee npaum kos.tsi txhob tus siab mog luag ib txwm hai tia noj mov zaub tsuag nyob nrog kev sib hlub zoo dua nyiaj kub.noj nqaij txhiab nqaijcis coj nyiaj coj kub los nyob nrog kev sibntxub ce tsua zoo lis nyob hauv qhov cub xwb no tiag.
Kuv xav hnov kom ib tug neeg paub paub nej tsev neeg lub qe tuaj tham thiaj li txaus ntseeg....yog koj thiab niam pog tuaj tham xwb ces nyias yuav hus nyias kwj tse kom du du...muaj ib hom nyab thiab niam pog mas yeej phem sib xws nawb
Miller Susan White Laura Walker Paul
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Mi nyuam ces ib co ces ib hlis kiag xwb yeej qaug qav lawm hos. Kuv tus kheej kiag.
This family, all they do and say is Npam only.
Ab yog yus twb paub hais tias yus tsis yog tus phem , nws yog niag niam pog phem tiag tiag no xwb ces ua cas los yeej tsis khaum yus li os, ntshai nws ua dab tsi na.
I am so proud your niam pog poj dab haus nrhav yaj yog nws ntag.
Mloog nawb kab lias
Hoyo Niam Pog lam cem Nyab hais tias xyov Nyab puas tsim txiaj xwb os. Niam Pog twb tsis paub hais tias nws cov ntxhais uas tsis tau muaj txiv twb mus nhro puas tsawg tus menyuam pov tseg lawm os.
tiam no cov niam pog phim hnyuj vais siab phem li no cim nroov tseg nco nroov cia, thaum nws laus lawm tsis txhob hlub nws kom nws txom nyem nws yeej yuav npam ib hnub twg xwb, neb txiav txim siab yog lawm cov niam pog zoo li no cas cuag li nws tsis txawj nyiam qau thiab nco qau li tsov tom siab phem,
Ab cas tu siab ua luaj no
Rodriguez Edward Davis Jason Taylor Edward
So thaum kawg niam pog li warning thaum pib tshwm sim muaj tseeb. Mag veg thaum laus.
Ua ntawv sign ciav yog yug tau tus menyuam yog lawv DNA ces nyab txiav niam pog caj dab. Cas yuav ruam ua luaj lawv twv yus ces kawg yuav tau twv lawv kom muaj yeej muaj swb. Nyom ces txhawm nyom kiag mus ib ntxhis ntag
Your ex is too cowardly for a husband, if he loves you like he said he move y'all away. And he is on his mother side telling you to be ua siab ntev just let her said all those mean words to you. I'm glad you divorced him and you know your worth is to get away from them.
I'm in a similar boat as you, except mine isn't as mean and evil. Its a sad sad life, but I'm thankful that I have a loving husband who always put me first.
niam pog niag phem npaum kom. nrauj kiag tsw ntev no mob pw da quav koj thiaj tsw tau tu 😅😅😅
Your ex was a Mama's boy, that's why he didn't stand up for you. There is no winning when your husband is not man enough to be his own person but his mother's! Don't worry, if you truly are innocent, Karma will get her in time and none of her nyabs that she likes will be there to care for her because deep down they hate her too but they keep their mouths shut to avoid her terrible tongue! Hope you filed for child support from that man-child ex of yours. After all, even if he can't stand up against his mother, he should at least be held accountable for his children!
This mother in law is a medical doctor and miss universe all in one. Oh... and she is also God!!! Hahaha.... Mother in law from HELL!
Cov niam poj phem lis no mas Xav ua lub ncaws xwb tiag.
zoo lis tsis tau ua nyab duab los lis zoo lis nam poj tu ntau poj lawm thiab no ma tu niam poj kob ma yog dab tus ntxhais xwb os Xav ma dab yuav tsis phem lis ntawv thiab ob 😂😂
I can understand if your MIL hates you, but the whole family including the other daughter in law also hate you just doesn't make sense. There's something missing in your story that you left out.
What a coward husband.
Wow…to wish death and ill will upon your children and grand children? Niam Pog…you are something else!
Poj hmoob ruam aw ca yug tsi khwv rau yug noj es pheej yuav mus thov niam pog lawv noj xwb na. Koj tsi muaj tes muaj taw lov. Ntshe koj tub nkees dhau lawm pob
Sounds just like my mnl 😒 I got so annoyed just by listening to this 😂
Inlaws or MIL like in this story DO really exist. You wouldn't believe it if you haven't gone through similar experiences as a nyab Hmoob. I also married into a family that loves to foom alot and loves saying we are the parents and we are as the heaven. But never see thier own wrong doing. Tragically it took my mil life and my FIL is still following her footsteps causing him to have several mental stroke that has made him slow and psychically disabled it's like he is living his karma. As far as the husband he is either strong enough to stand for his own marriage or is too scare to lose his parents so he rather let you suffer. I also have HBP because of the stress so now I decided it's better to separate and I am also off HPB medicine. Don't let people disrespect you to the point it affects you especially when you don't ask them for money and make your own and live on your own.
Oh heck no, he is a literal son of a *BTCH* ! If he knew his mom was evil, he should have chosen his wife because his wife and kids is the family HE started. He used his own judgement and character to select a wife. I’m tired of hearing parents say “I birthed you, you have to respect me and do what I say.”
Kids do not choose to be born, but parents choose to have kids. If anything, the parents need to love the kids most. Respect will be learned and earned if parents can model it. I’ve seen too many in laws like this smh
Maybe koj yuav tsis ruam npaum puas? Your niam pog didn’t even care to pay for your bride price and your husband can’t protect you and you still let your mother in law walk into your house to insult you and then you just sat while she insults you? Sounds unrealistic. You could had call the police and report her verbally abusing you inside your home and ask her to leave before the police comes and to escort her out. And your own birth mother just sat and watch while her child is being abuse? Some of these story author makes it seem like they don’t have a mouth.
Can’t fully believe your story. If everyone in the family hate you, there must be a reason other than you being short. There is definitely more to the story than you tell. I highly doubt you are as innocent you claim.
zoo li zaj no tsi txau tseeg.kuv yog ib tus niam pog thiab nyaj yuav tsi mauj ib pob,ib leej niam yeej tsi foom yus tus mes nyuam li nav.tsua yog xav foom kom zoo xwb sa.xav Nov leej niam pog sab thiab .
Cov niam pog phem phem no es nws puas nrog nws tus tub pw ne? 😂 cas yuav phem cuag li luag los yuav nws tus txiv, los txeeb nws yav qos lawm na.
Oh so he picked his Mom over you I guess at the end he didn't love you or the kids. He is a Momma boy and he held his family 80 and you got 20. I guess for you in the end you realized it, but I'm not sure many can resonate with your relationship because I was hoping for your husband to support you till death do us part in the end his ego mattered more. Yet, you claim amicable I don't like the lesson learned in your story bad for us wives to follow. We deserve love and not a broken family. Your kids are broken.
U r ruam noj quav...get out early. 😂
Weak as guy. No backbone.
Yeah, must be you. How can a whole family and clan hate you? Be honest and change your ways.