People are missing the point of this. As a mother struggling. She saw another mother who was struggling and still helped in the only way she could she gave extra time to help her mentally. And the woman who didn't have enough, gave her word of mouth of her services in a support group. Women. We should help each other in any way we can to make our lives better and easier
@@subteeninhumansamuraiamphi5019 well she’s a member of an online support group and got a maid to help and spoke about wanting to do better for her kids. so i think the point was now that she’s moving she’s going to start treatment
@@subteeninhumansamuraiamphi5019she wasn’t equipped to help with the psychological issue but she did what she could to help relieve some of the symptoms
I finished the series last night& this scene totally ripped my heart out. I cried uncontrollably during the whole series. she was so humble , so kind& endured so much drama in her life
It's fiction. - Oops. I just learned the series is based on a real-life story. My bad! Apologies. I never watch Netflix, I just saw this clip on TH-cam, got intrigued when I was looking up Andie MacDowell and wondered about her children and saw praise of this series that both of them were in. And it is a beautiful and inspiring clip.
But many hoarders do keep it sort of organized. Categorized and in boxes etc (makes it double as hard getting rid of since they kept those items in good shape!). I thought it was super realistic. Maybe missing some of the dust that would accumulate in reality but the random items all neatly stored yet cluttered up everywhere is so real. Kind of like a neverending overflowing garage or "randoms" closet
As a child of a hoarder... this is impressive skill.. though it is normal for people afflicted with hoarding to need someone outside the family to help push them over the threshold to clean up. they have a lot of negativity toward family members trying to help. It was always my dream to help my afflicted family member.
It's atestament to the skill of the writers and the actors that the most uplifing moment in the series was when she is cleaning out all the stuff form the hoarder woman's house.
Margaret Qualley said in the W magazine interview that this song was her favorite from the Matilda soundtrack growing up. Now it's in one of her own pieces of work. 💘🤩 Love that for her.
The part where she sinks into the couch....I cried my eyes out. I was there for years, disappearing, being so alone I felt the feeling would never leave, that it became a part of my very bones. 😢 what an amazing series!!!!
I will always love this song. This song always brings out the happy 4 year old child out from me. Because I was 4 years old when I first heard the song from Matilda and since then I loved the song I will always love the song
This song will always take me right back to my childhood rewinding my Matilda VHS tape and watching it over and over again. I also looked similar to Matilda when I was a kid and just loved that movie and especially the scene with this song. ❤
Midwest magic cleaning channel does mainly hoarder houses for free. He explains a lot behind the whys it’s not always able to sell or donate etc. and how hard it is for hoarders to get rid of stuff. It’s not laziness. 🌸
I watched this series. It was absolutely wonderful. Heartbreaking and then heartwarming. I have never rooted so much for a character to be safe and succeed. One of the best shows I have seen in a very long time.
When she started counting that cash I felt so relieved, like I had drunk a big cup of water after being thirsty for days. This series paints the life of someone who lives day by day and I wish everyone saw this. It's education, but powerfully moving and inspirational.
This scene is lovely but realistically won't work. The pregnant lady is psychologically attached to the items, she wouldn't be able to stop herself from freaking out and not supervise the clean up.
Broken things and old newspapers and such aside they should have sold the rest lawn sale/Facebook marketplace and such, then donated the rest of the stuff they didn't need but isn't garbage. It also helps the hoarder long term into separating garbage and feeling less shame about having kept things in excess if a share of their hoard is validated as not junk but also not needed to be kept by themselves either.
That takes serious time and organisational skills; suffice it to say that it was a nice dry day, that stuff could be picked through (maybe not in suburbia, but in a more densely populated area. Great series though.
@@wendyhuntingtonparkerfages8844 Yeah, but it's about this semi-hoarders mental state. Hoarders don't immediately go dumpster diving for junk to replace or reclaim their junk if they've processed it as a trade, getting money or food in return. It also helps them recognize trash as trash when put into perspective that it's stuff that you're not able to even give away, let alone sell. Helping them devalue garbage is very important to making sure their hoarding doesn't get worse.
CUANDO VI ESTA PELÍCULA POR PRIMERA VEZ ME SENTI MUY MAL TRISTE ENOJADA PUES VI MI VIDA EN ELLA Y CUANDO ELLA LIMPIO LA CASA CON LA ABITACION IMAGINADO QUE ERA DE SU HIJA A SI ME PASO A MI TRANAJABA EN UNA CASA A VIA UNA NINA DE LA EDAD DE LA MIA Y LA MIA LE FALTABA TODO MIENTRAS YO TRABAJABA PARA CUIDAR DE LA NINA DE ELLOS LA MIA ESTABA FALTA DE TODO HASTA DE SU MAMA Y PAPA FUE DURO VIVIR A SI Y VER ESTA SERIE PERO DIOS MI PADRE ES BUENO JUSTO FIEL VERDADERO Y YA NO VIVO DE ESE PASADO MAS VIVO CON LA ESPERANZA LA FE EN MI PADRE CELESTIAL QUE CAMBIA TODO EN MI BIEN Y DE TODOS TE AMO PADRE JEHOVA DIOS VERDADERO ERES MARAVILLOSO PERFECTO
I understand the point of this scene and I realize some homes are in much worse shape (esp when it comes to food/ animal issues/ mould etc. I know there wouldn’t have been time to look through/organize everything while packing but it might have made sense to get it all to the shelter, organize there, use whatever possible, try to sell and raise money for the shelter. I admire the strength of all these characters.
@@SlashAndInkOfCrimson Yes… All I’ve seen is this clip (as I’ve stated), which depicts a very unrealistic scene. A hoarder sees value in keeping the items they’ve hoarded. Therefor they have issues letting go of them (even when seeing it causes issues/harm) causing the items to pile up. No hoarder lets go this easily of their collected items, just like you won’t just hand over the keys to your car (or whatever) because someone else says it’s garbage and you won’t need it. I may comment about a clip I’ve watched, right? Or do I need to see the entire show before I may place a comment here, your grace?
I've just started watching this show, and I'm shocked. How is it possible that the richest country in the world doesn't protect their citizens with honest labor law regulations? 12$ per hours and the employee is not reimbursed for gas and has to buy their own supplies and cleaning products? It's really depressing that companies can officially offer such conditions
So how is that all going to get cleaned up? The weekly trash pickup sure isn't going to do it, and if they do that lady is going to receive a very large bill. Loading a truck or van and going to the dump is also going to easily cost that $90 and more... I get the scene and all but the mess was just moved from in the house to outside the house to the yard.
I wanted her to bring it to the shelter for the kids there but there isn't always enough time in the episode and it might be too much storytelling to follow
When I moved a couple of years ago I had a couple of things (a desk and some beatiful plants) that I couldn't get into my car (no place) so I put it next to the road. In less than 10min my things found a new home! ✌️
She couldn't get rid of all her children's memories, but allowed that cleaning lady to just throw everything out? No way did she do that in a few hours
She is a financially struggling mother, though. She's also pregnant. So you can hopefully see that she did not have that much money. She also appeared to not have a husband to help her finances. The fact is that your comment shows where your priorities are at. That, you're helping because you want money, not because it's the good out of your heart. That's fucking horrible and so insensitive, looking at her situation.
You can’t leave all that trash outside like that. She should have her own trash removal vehicles. Also why did she throw out all of that? I seen some electronics. Why throw away toys?
It's a movie. They don't "show everything". In real life, there would probably be some sorting of things that could be sold and other things to be given to charity. But more importantly a hard core hoarder would have psychological problems parting with their stuff. There's a wide range of afflictions. They're not getting into the nitty gritty in the movie.
i think its possible if you're mentally organizing as you go. if you notice, they throw everything in together without any system but if they'd pack accordingly, it'd take much less time to deal with it later on.
People are missing the point of this. As a mother struggling. She saw another mother who was struggling and still helped in the only way she could she gave extra time to help her mentally. And the woman who didn't have enough, gave her word of mouth of her services in a support group. Women. We should help each other in any way we can to make our lives better and easier
nice sentiment but hoarding is a deep psychological problem that doesn’t go away because of a simple talk.
@@subteeninhumansamuraiamphi5019 well she’s a member of an online support group and got a maid to help and spoke about wanting to do better for her kids. so i think the point was now that she’s moving she’s going to start treatment
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beautiful comment and 💯💯💯💯
@@subteeninhumansamuraiamphi5019she wasn’t equipped to help with the psychological issue but she did what she could to help relieve some of the symptoms
I finished the series last night& this scene totally ripped my heart out. I cried uncontrollably during the whole series. she was so humble , so kind& endured so much drama in her life
It's fiction. - Oops. I just learned the series is based on a real-life story. My bad! Apologies. I never watch Netflix, I just saw this clip on TH-cam, got intrigued when I was looking up Andie MacDowell and wondered about her children and saw praise of this series that both of them were in. And it is a beautiful and inspiring clip.
I edited my dumb comment..
this serries and scene made me cry more than I thought it would. her unwavering strength and sheer will was unbelievable
I’m a grown man and this show breaks my heart I’ve been struggling with similar issues but as a man it’s hard to discuss it with anyone
This is the cleanest mess I’ve seen…
But many hoarders do keep it sort of organized. Categorized and in boxes etc (makes it double as hard getting rid of since they kept those items in good shape!). I thought it was super realistic. Maybe missing some of the dust that would accumulate in reality but the random items all neatly stored yet cluttered up everywhere is so real. Kind of like a neverending overflowing garage or "randoms" closet
@braria9855 yea there are stages. It's a cumulative disorder though, the end is when it get bad.
haha yeah they could only do the clutter not the actual mess with hoarding
cause its a netflix show
I never wanted this show to end ive never rooted for a character so much in my LIFE
I NEEDED to see her win
As a child of a hoarder... this is impressive skill.. though it is normal for people afflicted with hoarding to need someone outside the family to help push them over the threshold to clean up. they have a lot of negativity toward family members trying to help. It was always my dream to help my afflicted family member.
It's atestament to the skill of the writers and the actors that the most uplifing moment in the series was when she is cleaning out all the stuff form the hoarder woman's house.
Damn every time I hear this song I get so emotional that was my childhood song from Matilda and Ice Age and now Maid too. Rusted Root is a legend :)
Margaret Qualley said in the W magazine interview that this song was her favorite from the Matilda soundtrack growing up. Now it's in one of her own pieces of work. 💘🤩 Love that for her.
no shame or anger, just mamas helping mamas
The part where she sinks into the couch....I cried my eyes out. I was there for years, disappearing, being so alone I felt the feeling would never leave, that it became a part of my very bones. 😢 what an amazing series!!!!
I broke out in a smile right when I heard this.
I will always love this song.
I will always love this song. This song always brings out the happy 4 year old child out from me. Because I was 4 years old when I first heard the song from Matilda and since then I loved the song I will always love the song
@@josephmendoza9523 Same 😂
I like how she's like, you know what I'm invested so lets keep going.
What a great scene, I adored it right away
Ice Age, Matilda and now Maid, hell yeah!! Rusted Root is classic!!!!🙌😌😌😌🔥
Don’t forget Big mouth.
This song will always take me right back to my childhood rewinding my Matilda VHS tape and watching it over and over again. I also looked similar to Matilda when I was a kid and just loved that movie and especially the scene with this song. ❤
This was a perfect 1 and done series. A complete story arch. Of course I wanted more but i think it ended just as it should have.
Midwest magic cleaning channel does mainly hoarder houses for free. He explains a lot behind the whys it’s not always able to sell or donate etc. and how hard it is for hoarders to get rid of stuff. It’s not laziness. 🌸
The most poewrful show I have ever seen
I watched this series. It was absolutely wonderful. Heartbreaking and then heartwarming. I have never rooted so much for a character to be safe and succeed. One of the best shows I have seen in a very long time.
When she started counting that cash I felt so relieved, like I had drunk a big cup of water after being thirsty for days. This series paints the life of someone who lives day by day and I wish everyone saw this. It's education, but powerfully moving and inspirational.
I cried so hard during the last episode.. 😢🥲
Stu is adorable 😍
After everything she did not sell her soul to the devil. True character lady...
There's no possible way they could make Margaret Qualley more adorable.
*Alex: "Hold my broom."*
😍🤗🧹
This scene is lovely but realistically won't work. The pregnant lady is psychologically attached to the items, she wouldn't be able to stop herself from freaking out and not supervise the clean up.
But she was the one asking for help, so she was ready to let go..
Yeah I was gunna say… a cleaning service doesn’t cure hoarding disorder
This scene is amazing on several levels.
…when I saw the title, I legitimately thought this was about Medical Aid In Dying
Hi fellow Canadian!
@@jessicanolan7408 What does this mean? I mean, I’m flattered, but I’m actually an American.
By nightfall the pregnant mom will have moved all that clutter back into her house
I’m not crying you’re crying
I struggle with this. This made me feel a bit better about my situation. ❤
Sending strength 💪✨
When you hear the matilda song come on you know it’s gonna be some fun and cleaning 🧹
Broken things and old newspapers and such aside they should have sold the rest lawn sale/Facebook marketplace and such, then donated the rest of the stuff they didn't need but isn't garbage. It also helps the hoarder long term into separating garbage and feeling less shame about having kept things in excess if a share of their hoard is validated as not junk but also not needed to be kept by themselves either.
That takes serious time and organisational skills; suffice it to say that it was a nice dry day, that stuff could be picked through (maybe not in suburbia, but in a more densely populated area.
Great series though.
@@wendyhuntingtonparkerfages8844 Yeah, but it's about this semi-hoarders mental state. Hoarders don't immediately go dumpster diving for junk to replace or reclaim their junk if they've processed it as a trade, getting money or food in return. It also helps them recognize trash as trash when put into perspective that it's stuff that you're not able to even give away, let alone sell. Helping them devalue garbage is very important to making sure their hoarding doesn't get worse.
..anyone else catch the knob hill farms basket at just after 20 seconds?? :D
CUANDO VI ESTA PELÍCULA POR PRIMERA VEZ ME SENTI MUY MAL TRISTE ENOJADA PUES VI MI VIDA EN ELLA Y CUANDO ELLA LIMPIO LA CASA CON LA ABITACION IMAGINADO QUE ERA DE SU HIJA A SI ME PASO A MI TRANAJABA EN UNA CASA A VIA UNA NINA DE LA EDAD DE LA MIA Y LA MIA LE FALTABA TODO MIENTRAS YO TRABAJABA PARA CUIDAR DE LA NINA DE ELLOS LA MIA ESTABA FALTA DE TODO HASTA DE SU MAMA Y PAPA FUE DURO VIVIR A SI Y VER ESTA SERIE PERO DIOS MI PADRE ES BUENO JUSTO FIEL VERDADERO Y YA NO VIVO DE ESE PASADO MAS VIVO CON LA ESPERANZA LA FE EN MI PADRE CELESTIAL QUE CAMBIA TODO EN MI BIEN Y DE TODOS TE AMO PADRE JEHOVA DIOS VERDADERO ERES MARAVILLOSO PERFECTO
I understand the point of this scene and I realize some homes are in much worse shape (esp when it comes to food/ animal issues/ mould etc.
I know there wouldn’t have been time to look through/organize everything while packing but it might have made sense to get it all to the shelter, organize there, use whatever possible, try to sell and raise money for the shelter.
I admire the strength of all these characters.
Lol. I haven’t seen the series, nor do I know the entire context, but a hoarder doesn’t let go so easily of their “valuable” hoarded items.
So you don't know anything about the show, and are making comments on how it's playing out?
@@SlashAndInkOfCrimson Yes…
All I’ve seen is this clip (as I’ve stated), which depicts a very unrealistic scene.
A hoarder sees value in keeping the items they’ve hoarded. Therefor they have issues letting go of them (even when seeing it causes issues/harm) causing the items to pile up.
No hoarder lets go this easily of their collected items, just like you won’t just hand over the keys to your car (or whatever) because someone else says it’s garbage and you won’t need it.
I may comment about a clip I’ve watched, right? Or do I need to see the entire show before I may place a comment here, your grace?
@@hviring7441 I was just asking a question. 🤷♀️
Ok this is not the point I know but I was hoping that it would be more than throwing out trash bags
I will run I will, I will cry I will*
I've just started watching this show, and I'm shocked. How is it possible that the richest country in the world doesn't protect their citizens with honest labor law regulations? 12$ per hours and the employee is not reimbursed for gas and has to buy their own supplies and cleaning products? It's really depressing that companies can officially offer such conditions
loved this show
I wish for this every episode of Horders
stu's cool
Movie name is Maid the episode is episode 9
❤🌻
We need new season asap
Almost the same right now, so what? Why can’t I be famous because of this? 😅
So how is that all going to get cleaned up? The weekly trash pickup sure isn't going to do it, and if they do that lady is going to receive a very large bill. Loading a truck or van and going to the dump is also going to easily cost that $90 and more...
I get the scene and all but the mess was just moved from in the house to outside the house to the yard.
She threw away some nice stuff she could have tried selling
True, but you get to a point that if you can't get rid of it immediately the process just starts again.
I wanted her to bring it to the shelter for the kids there but there isn't always enough time in the episode and it might be too much storytelling to follow
In Real Life they would have donate it
When I moved a couple of years ago I had a couple of things (a desk and some beatiful plants) that I couldn't get into my car (no place) so I put it next to the road. In less than 10min my things found a new home! ✌️
@@carmengomez3748 People in my building always leave good things in the laundry room for others to take. It's really sweet.
She couldn't get rid of all her children's memories, but allowed that cleaning lady to just throw everything out? No way did she do that in a few hours
What episode was this?
Episode 9
Can I recommend you? The reason she is asking is because none have money.
That was so little money for what she did. She should have been charged 400 for having to clean alll that up
She is a financially struggling mother, though. She's also pregnant. So you can hopefully see that she did not have that much money. She also appeared to not have a husband to help her finances. The fact is that your comment shows where your priorities are at. That, you're helping because you want money, not because it's the good out of your heart. That's fucking horrible and so insensitive, looking at her situation.
Episode?
Episode 9
You can’t leave all that trash outside like that. She should have her own trash removal vehicles. Also why did she throw out all of that? I seen some electronics. Why throw away toys?
Turkce yada almanca yapabilirmiyiz acaba?
I'm sorry but WTF a lot of the stuff chucked could of been recycled/gifted to charity shops what a waste of good stuff
Takes a lot more time though 🤷🏼♀️ Time she did not have.
Most of what she threw out was old, used junk and anyone driving by is welcome to help themselves
Looks like a clean hoard so her not taking that stuff to a charity is giving me hives 😵💫😵💫🤢
It's a movie. They don't "show everything". In real life, there would probably be some sorting of things that could be sold and other things to be given to charity. But more importantly a hard core hoarder would have psychological problems parting with their stuff. There's a wide range of afflictions. They're not getting into the nitty gritty in the movie.
I cant belive she went back to her abusive ex abd got pregnant by him from the 2nd time
This scene is a lie... no way u could finish it all in one day, at least u need 3 days
It is a tv show...
Thts y it's called a TV SHOW,nimrod!
She didn't do everything she just made it easier to manage
i think its possible if you're mentally organizing as you go. if you notice, they throw everything in together without any system but if they'd pack accordingly, it'd take much less time to deal with it later on.
basically what @Audrey Bennet said