Easy Steps to NEVER Get Rejected When Approaching A Girl

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  • @tapsunofficial
    @tapsunofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    Don’t be scared of rejection fellas it builds character

    • @Soldierzero0
      @Soldierzero0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I post some quality contents on Seduction

    • @uncleyogie4698
      @uncleyogie4698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Rejection blessing in disguise

    • @IfollowmyAbbaYAH
      @IfollowmyAbbaYAH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      No means next opportunity. Keep it moving and turn up with your life for life. If she's the right one she'll fall right into your lap and the vibe will match as well. So just have fun with your purpose in life gents.

    • @polycrase
      @polycrase 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am full of character.

    • @Made_in_Rome
      @Made_in_Rome 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      aight bet let me ask Melli out for a date then...

  • @TheVillageBeast
    @TheVillageBeast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Rejection is part of the game 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

  • @luchalerae7687
    @luchalerae7687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Damn Yellow looks great on you💛💛💛

  • @88_TROUBLE_88
    @88_TROUBLE_88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Can't reject what's never offered..

  • @KOOLBREEZE1
    @KOOLBREEZE1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rejection is normal not everyone is gonna like you but if you show a girl you are about your business she will never reject you because she see that you are very ambitious and there is not many like you you are a one of a kind

  • @KingCountry2
    @KingCountry2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Watching your videos be boosting my confidence and giving me a reality check at the same time.

    • @iulianfeizi1017
      @iulianfeizi1017 ปีที่แล้ว

      You look gorgeous with your yellow dress

  • @dantetaylor371
    @dantetaylor371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    That sunlight is hitting you just right

    • @riofacts8283
      @riofacts8283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely is.

    • @dantetaylor371
      @dantetaylor371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Trust-Yourself-1st lol nah sun is making her skin look even better

    • @Peanut-zo6ip
      @Peanut-zo6ip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damn! She is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen!👌👍

    • @dantetaylor371
      @dantetaylor371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Peanut-zo6ip I totally agree

    • @jadenroskruge7980
      @jadenroskruge7980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dantetaylor371 I believe we all n agreement here😭🤲🏽

  • @mannysfitnessfortress989
    @mannysfitnessfortress989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Great video... You must know your self worth and not think negatively if she's not interested. Short of her being Married, involved, or not into men.....if you've got your life together..and you're a BOSS ...its HER Loss. She hasn't even taken time to get to know you to see your worth.. Great video Melli!

    • @solobi96
      @solobi96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

  • @loveistheway7
    @loveistheway7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loookkkk at herrr hairrrr

  • @ranipaul5487
    @ranipaul5487 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mellifluous your Hair style is Onpoint it suits your Facial Features.

  • @MenageWorldEntertainment
    @MenageWorldEntertainment 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The greatest trick in her background, is that well placed mirror - it just creates another dimension💥💥

  • @michealharrell5666
    @michealharrell5666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Compliment number 1...Melli you present well and your content is powerful number 2 your sense of humor is very magnetic number 3 saving the best for lasr that you always look stunning. Thank you

  • @gdawg1ish
    @gdawg1ish 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @mr.owatson9150
    @mr.owatson9150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Melli, I would have loved to had someone like you to tune into about approaching and talking to females in my teenage and early adult dating years. I love how you break it down to not really being a physically attractive thing but a PSYCHOLOGY THING. You can find beauty in the most physically unattractive person by first getting to know them. Once they've made love to your mind the body succumbs. On behalf of all those shy wallflowers out there, including myself, BIG THINKS!

  • @rishi_uppal
    @rishi_uppal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1. Talk to her to know her whether she's just good looking or also fulfills your minimum standards and requirements. Because all that glitters isn't gold. First conversation is for testing waters. Don't go with mentality to impress her. After that if you think she's fulfill minimum standards. Talk to her to show your interest and desire not desperation.
    2. Break the touch barrier by a quick non sexual touch to her and also watch her response. If she's comfortable or flinches back. Start with shoulder, inside elbow, arms, wrist, hands and fingers. Then thighs.
    3. Go without any expectations. You don't have pressure. Go with abundance mentality. You don't fear to lose her.
    4. Remember she's a human. She's has same insecurities, imperfections, flaws, fear, nervousness and awkwardness as you have. If she's is very beautiful. Think she's okay not that great. Never think she's very beautiful. Treat her like a regular normal girl. Don't put her on pedestal and become her fan. Don't undervalue or undermine yourself. Think about all the characteristics qualities you have as a man. She's don't see herself the way you see her. Even if she's 10 for you, she don't think she's 10. And if you think she's 10 keep it to yourself. Don't express it. She don't know what you think of her or how you perceive her until you speak it to her. Therefore act normal.
    5. Approach her. You never know until you try. Don't be afraid of rejection. Remember regret will hurt more than rejection. Therefore be confident. Moreover rejection is never personal. Slow down your movements and speech. Wear a warm smile. It makes you look handsome and attractive, happy and positive person, friendly and approachable person.

  • @PeerPressure22
    @PeerPressure22 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When the light hit just right 😍🌹

  • @pradeepanandraj7985
    @pradeepanandraj7985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    1. Speak to her
    2. Touch her
    3. Kill all your expectations
    4. Treat her like she is a woman
    5. Give her a compliment
    6. Give her a little attention

    • @Naesman1167
      @Naesman1167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am I off base? I so want you… Wow!

  • @stevekouts4709
    @stevekouts4709 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Melli, you look stunning in yellow!!!

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Seriously She did the Ghosting and Rejection in the beginning from start for quite awhile and I told her that I appreciated Her Honesty and better in the beginning than after 2 or 3 years of Relationship or marriage so I Thanked her for it and meant it !! So now I am not wasting time and can just move on and I have more Freedom !!! So it turned out to be a Great thing especially for Me!! Taking Risks and chance then failing was also a great thing because I learned alot about her and me and paid more attention to her Red Flags !!!

  • @NarutoUzumaki-pl4bu
    @NarutoUzumaki-pl4bu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its like you get even more gorgeous after every video you post😩❤

  • @WTDSChannel13News
    @WTDSChannel13News 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How good you look with straight hair we've been wondering how many videos you're going to bless us with like this your hair is always laid every video

  • @Iconic-x2t
    @Iconic-x2t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Melli! Just bluntly honest! I love it!

  • @angelbertnde66
    @angelbertnde66 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yellow is good on you, Melli !

  • @him3145
    @him3145 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t want any form of relationship so I will use this as what not to do 👍🏾👍🏾

  • @roberttyre8609
    @roberttyre8609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The blasé way you swear cracks me up Melli. Love it 😂

  • @dx9967
    @dx9967 ปีที่แล้ว

    I must say, you're the OG female giving dating/relationship advice, coming from someone who has been studying in-depth in this area. Keep doing your awesome sh!t:) thanks

  • @carolinablue5838
    @carolinablue5838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That yellow compliments your tone well Melli

  • @aakashdeep1909
    @aakashdeep1909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish all women were as clear & direct as you are… Life would be so much better & uncomplicated… Lots of Love & Respect 👏👏

  • @blessingmaisane3782
    @blessingmaisane3782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "because she might be a good girl today"🤣

  • @retoohri7646
    @retoohri7646 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    @mellimonaco, you have a really nice straight language (6:24 ff.) coming to the point.
    Keep on heading into the direction of ignition, nice to follow. Thanx.

  • @papacashflow
    @papacashflow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this

  • @darionwilliams7677
    @darionwilliams7677 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My goodness Miss Melli is so damn gorgeous I can’t decide if it’s her smile or those huge eyes of hers that get to me or even that coco skin tone

  • @rodney5107
    @rodney5107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like ur style of going to the point n staying on it.

  • @joecampos7999
    @joecampos7999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're as smart as you're cute Melii, and your videos are helping a lot of dudes who struggle when interacting with women in general.

  • @koolwebbie
    @koolwebbie ปีที่แล้ว

    Straight hair, yellow dress 👗 and that Cali sun 🌞 hitting you is beautiful 🤩

  • @piano_tutors_online
    @piano_tutors_online 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Honestly, Aunty Melli.
    You are right with what you have listed.
    Honestly, I can't how many girls I have linked up to with these tricks. I keep on getting the friend of their friends and their friends and their friends and so on.
    You are such a blessing Melli.
    Thank you. 😊😊😊😊🙃🙃

  • @edwardwilliams3693
    @edwardwilliams3693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like your personality from what I observed.
    I like how your goofy. You seem to be happy all the time. And when I watch you you light up the day.
    Even if the day is already bright you let it shine even stronger

  • @apollo209
    @apollo209 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Never realized i needed a Melli in my life! 🙌

  • @sunriseeternity300
    @sunriseeternity300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm interested in this house. It's beautiful from these video angles.

    • @exmilitary6536
      @exmilitary6536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Am sure there is a lot of beautiful houses where ur from..why u choose my baby Meli own?

  • @Cj-bb3xw
    @Cj-bb3xw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE THIS NEW LOOK

  • @li0nh3art302
    @li0nh3art302 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re heaven sent, appreciate you!

  • @kenrasmussen4270
    @kenrasmussen4270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    loving the hair Melli

  • @oceangleam800
    @oceangleam800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Melli is quality woman.

  • @antoinehector1436
    @antoinehector1436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the way you talk and your good advices .I appreciate it.

  • @ProfessionalMDJkeyze
    @ProfessionalMDJkeyze ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this presentation ❤❤❤

  • @toyinsawyerr71
    @toyinsawyerr71 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melli is damn too good with this job.

  • @fitindia8856
    @fitindia8856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1) speak to her
    2) touch her ( non sexual)
    3)kill ur expections
    4) treat like women
    5) Give her compliments( personality)

    • @JJj-qo9pb
      @JJj-qo9pb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      6)Give her little attention

  • @tobby_fabulous
    @tobby_fabulous 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look stunning gurl

  • @Ben256MB
    @Ben256MB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The whole issue about the complimenting is not what about what you said . It's about the who's giving the compliment , if the guy who's giving the compliment the girl likes him . This nigga can say the goofy compliment ever and she would still respond positively . On the flip side if the chick don't like the guy forget it!

  • @howardwilliams9575
    @howardwilliams9575 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the new hair style.. she's perfect to me cuz she is honest...funny and fine as hell!!

  • @dondamage_offical
    @dondamage_offical 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I like this look, it suits you 🔥🔥🔥

  • @dontblameme2135
    @dontblameme2135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Melli is goated she break down fact so good 🔥🔥 vid

  • @robertpena7859
    @robertpena7859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are Absolutely Gorgeous MelliMonaco there is no man on this Planet that will reject you🌹

  • @Guap.o.o
    @Guap.o.o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    200k on the way.meli be goin krazzy w it too

  • @alanm8400
    @alanm8400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your hair like this 😍

  • @JNT4067
    @JNT4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MELLI AKA THIS DUDE

  • @robertdoughty3655
    @robertdoughty3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melli you have beauty and smarts that is very rare.

  • @orrinbynum5978
    @orrinbynum5978 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi. I love the new hair style and the bright colored blouse. I always love your various topics of conversation. I still find you very entertaining and comical. Thank you for your content and amusement.

  • @demondjones7536
    @demondjones7536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the fact that you don't mind to engage

  • @letstalkaboutit1414
    @letstalkaboutit1414 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That color looks really nice on you

  • @slaughterking5625
    @slaughterking5625 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    U are the best Melli 😊

  • @joesmith-th3jq
    @joesmith-th3jq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Any suggestions? When she talks about finding the right balance, you obviously have to show some interest and I’m sure you have to stay in certain amount of feet away but not too close but not too far away, I’m gonna need a ruler lol. Also if there is all this head game playing of what’s too much or too little, then I know why everybody single. These girls keep playing these stupid head games, then everybody’s going to be single forever. No wonder why the divorce rates are the highest.

  • @jcferg7733
    @jcferg7733 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re so smooth...awesome...

  • @XRavenHunt
    @XRavenHunt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1-Speak to Her
    Me: "I knew there was a catch"

  • @williemurphy2421
    @williemurphy2421 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melli looking good.

  • @thetruthone1
    @thetruthone1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They all truth 💯🤝 definitely do all those tips when approaching

  • @Lebaroninthisplace
    @Lebaroninthisplace 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That accent, oh my God!!! LOVER!!!

  • @caparamiro8864
    @caparamiro8864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Melli. You're so original so clear and eloquent. I love your videos . I really learn a lot from them.

  • @2005Azm
    @2005Azm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are gifted ! I like your personality !

  • @steveo1919
    @steveo1919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As always: informative, entertaining and visually satisfying!

  • @jonsabo8849
    @jonsabo8849 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy rainy Monday Meli.

  • @donstoddard8458
    @donstoddard8458 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are truly the best. A beautiful woman that tells the truth

  • @dalemusco3267
    @dalemusco3267 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That Yellow is gorgeous on you!

  • @terrancemystrothornhill5299
    @terrancemystrothornhill5299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this woman i can't lie. She is sooooi dope. Hey Mell.

  • @YBRL007
    @YBRL007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    encore une autre vidéo incroyable, merci. La joie non filtrée que vous apportez est très rafraîchissante x 10. en particulier la cohérence ainsi que l'honnêteté pour le sujet traité. vous êtes très talentueux et touchez de plus en plus de personnes chaque jour, vous souhaitant le meilleur et beaucoup de succès chaque jour. un peu excité par la vidéo de demain, merci Ms.Lover
    baiser double joue

  • @Teechasin1
    @Teechasin1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo voice get me every time 😭❤️

  • @Sujoanghosh
    @Sujoanghosh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My goodness - your hands are simply an object of art - beautiful aren't they - It's mix of artistic and philosophical from the palmistry point of view !

  • @nathanglover9255
    @nathanglover9255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your candidness, and sense of humor . Your accent is really cool 😎 👌

  • @Shaunfroggydog
    @Shaunfroggydog 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another great video! Thanks for making these!

  • @aaronlopez7510
    @aaronlopez7510 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This actually makes hella sense especially the 3rd one

  • @KennyPeeples
    @KennyPeeples 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your hair Melli

  • @titoc973
    @titoc973 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why u so nice with us, i love u, i pass all this shit with girls and i from french guiana and There IS so much game .U inspire me

  • @audleysaunder8052
    @audleysaunder8052 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are doing good ,very helpful knowledge 🌼🌺 thanks for your help

  • @uncleyogie4698
    @uncleyogie4698 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melli you're killing that canary yeIlow!
    Personally I read energy and body language.

  • @MichaelLee-kf2ye
    @MichaelLee-kf2ye 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice hairstyle!👍👍👍👍👍

  • @GamerGee
    @GamerGee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2:23 this is a touchy one pun intended. METOO is a real deal. Even the shoulder LOL. You can only do that if she likes you before you know it

  • @lamontmoye9175
    @lamontmoye9175 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's wisdom girl....All the good advice you give - I do all that shit !!!

  • @stevekouts4709
    @stevekouts4709 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look stunning in yellow Mellie❤️

  • @corneliusharris2656
    @corneliusharris2656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So when a Woman has an objective and you are not it , move on to the next Treasure.

    • @lionelhutz5137
      @lionelhutz5137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's keep it 💯, 80% of the men out there aren't most womens' objective.

  • @drmankind
    @drmankind 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😂😂😂😂 Melli, my Melli... You're so funny..😂

  • @munch174s5
    @munch174s5 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the hair 🔥

  • @owendyer5623
    @owendyer5623 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your topics and your accent also you look grate

  • @nychrisvs
    @nychrisvs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    All good ideas! #3 is on point-Kill All Expectations! The touch on the knee part is very iffy in the USA. MM You got me binge watching your vids 🤣. The delivery with the accent is funny as hell.

  • @MayhemMechanic
    @MayhemMechanic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The circus reference you were looking for is "Tight-Rope". Good video 🤙

  • @williamcouncil9066
    @williamcouncil9066 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you said Happy. It reminds me of a song; "HAPPY" Written by Michele Le grand , words by Mr. William Smokey Robinson, "Let Happy be Where Sadness was, My life began when Happy smiled sweet like candy to a child." The reality of your views makes me happy. Thank You

  • @TheOriginalRiddim
    @TheOriginalRiddim 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    1. Speak to her.
    2.Touch her. - in a nonverbal manner. Example, her shoulders. However, read her body language to know if it's okay to do so.
    3. Kill all your expectations. - don't assume what will happen.
    4. Treat her like a woman. - she is only a regular human being or person. If she doesn't like you take your awesomeness else where.
    5. Give her compliments. - non-sexual/physical compliments but don't over do it. Example, I like that you can have a conversation. You can compliment her charisma, ambition, personality, etc.
    6. Give Her a little attention, not too much.
    These things will leave her wondering if you like her or not.

  • @KpakpatoTv-ks6hd
    @KpakpatoTv-ks6hd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You always have something new for entertainment , you look "smart". Having followed those 6 steps and not in the end asking for contact information is a waste of time: how would she get back or find you

  • @TheStonersCommittee
    @TheStonersCommittee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I never seen this look 😍😍😍😍

  • @lionhxartedmono395
    @lionhxartedmono395 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ms melli when me u gone get a telly jp over there shining like a green diamond price tag or no ?

  • @stephanottley6214
    @stephanottley6214 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the tips😘😘