All your expected to do is act mature and learn how to be self sufficient. You seem like the same person to say that you were tought nothing about being an adult when you were a teen. Just make good grades and go to high school dog.
Dear whoever needs this, Im a teen who used to compare herself to others. I hated lots about my body and would always compare myself to others. I would secretly cry mystify to sleep, but then I started doing something that changed the way I see myself. Here is what I did: I would look in the mirror and look at myself, the first few days all I saw was the flaws in me. But by day 4 I started thinking “wow your freckles are cute” or “wow you have pretty eyelashes “ Day by day the confidence I had grew now when I look in the mirror I smile and say I live myself for who I am. I know most people won’t think this will work and I’m not sayings it is going to work for everyone. I just want you to know that there are at least 3 people who look at you and wish they had something like you. You are not alone so don’t worry. You got this! Just pray to the lord and he will help you because you were given this life bc you are strong enough to live it! God lives you!❤️✝️
Thank u so much How old are u? If u mind me asking I'm turning 18 years old and I don't know what to do with my life right now so its a bit stressful for me
@@nnapop4442I’m not allowed to say my age but just know that God has a plan and when you don’t know what to do with ur life god does so just turn to him and he will answer your prayers God loves you❤
the thing is, it most likely is. the issue isn’t calling things phases, because in reality, everyone, no matter your age, is constantly going through phases, it’s a normal and healthy part of life. the issue is seeing it as a bad thing and assigning negative connotations to it
@@vakkerlidelse5476 ik that all teens go thru a phase but some of us are genuinely struggling. For me I've suffered with a lot of negative feelings and thoughts and have been wanting to end my life for almost 5 years now but my parents passed it off as a phase early on. Wish they where there to help me but once I hopefully become an adult ill help myself out.
Me too. Got accused of doing it for attention, but I don't understand how uncontrollable crying is trying to get attention, it's not like I can control it. I hope you guys get better.
My parents wouldn’t even try to understand that their generation is different than ours and they can’t go compare their teenage years with ours like seriously they be like u r just saying that cuz u wanna Escape from ur responsibilities or they laugh at me for making “excuses”
@@charvibobba803but there is something really important, your young and you make a lot of mistakes, and you learn from them but never forget you parents also just parents since you were born so let them make mistakes and forgive them like there were and are doing it for you
Honestly that's soo true I was grown from a mom that told me children are meant to be seen and not heard so when I try explaining myself in a situation it's always them saying I'm talking back and I'm disrespectful when I never do anything wrong. My mom would always compare me with everyone too even my sister compares me to her too and is like "i never got those grades when I was younger I got A's". Everyone in my family does it and compares me to everyone else but anytime I get awards or anything it's never enough or that it's not that important. My family gave me so many mental issues in life from all the trauma they gave me from all the abuse starting from physical abuse, then verbal and emotional.
This is so true, some people have no idea how hard it is constantly comparing ur body image and style and grades and everything to everyone else, it’s like I can do so good but there is always someone who will be better, look better, and do better than me, it’s so tiring and depressing honestly, and my parents don’t believe in anxiety of any kind…
@@ameliavankraayenburg4127 I’m sorry you feel like that, but I bet ur gorgeous, try not to let people get to you that’s something I’m working on as well
"Get rid of that attitude. This is how you behave to elders?" "Put that phone down and do some real work" "Do you even know the real meaning of depression?"
Me: i think i have depression and anxiety Family: its fine we are with you Few days later* Why do you act like that! The only way you will be cured is if you start being happy! Look at all your siblings and cousins they are top of class and you are such a failure! Stop looking depressed Why are you crying about a broken pencil! Stop being so sad or you will become like him *points to mentally ill uncle Im 13 years old 😞
I was diagnosed with Anxiety and Depression. My mom said:”It’s a phase you’ll get rid of it if you just try to be better.” “It’ll be okay it’ll be over.” “Just fight it!” “Your over dramatic.” It’ll be okay huh?.. Then why don’t you fucking help me make it be okay?.. If it’s really okay..why didn’t you help me when I really needed it?..
little kids: *treated nicely* teenagers: *goes through one of the hardest times in their life* adults: *mistreats kids sometimes* grandparents: *nice and more fun* dead people: *missed the most, loved the most, and can't help you.*
@@Nadiaallos They have to clean? What are you talkning about? Kids play, teenagers clean the house sometimes to help the parents, kids not often at all. And they are treated nicely, idk how if someone asked you if you want something from the store dosen’t treat you nice.
It hurts how relatable this is. Then your parents ask "why don't you talk to us about your problems?", well I would if you did shoot me down everytime I try to! I'm sick of it. 😭
Ok when I Lower my voice my mom gets mad at me and says "talk louder I can't hear u and that's rude! U always talk loud when ur on the game with ur friends".
"Your teens are the best years in your life! I was a teenager once too, I've been through this!" My BEST years? I'm literally struggling (study, depression, body image, etc - + everything mentioned in the video) and you say these are the best years of my life? Oh and you've been a teen too? Well if you did, why do you treat me like someone who doesn't understand anything and is supposed to know everything? Why everytime I say smth you think I am talking back? You were a teen ONCE, and as you lived, let me live too! Like if you relate... Edit (1): one thousand likes in only six days.... This is getting very sad....😥
Also..I feel like they forget..their generation is soo different frm ours. It doesn’t mean they didn’t have problems when they were young..but our problems are more then they understand..because they’ve never been thru a time..where your every move someone compares with someone else. And most of the time you compare urself with others because of what THEY’VE said to you.
I feel for you, I’m not a teen but a 30yo and still i remember being a teenager and hating it. Hating living at home, bc you can’t really get away from the people that are putting you down. But I also wanna say that parents are trying their best too, they struggle too just with different things, so try to have conversations with them. Tell them what is bothering you. If possible talk to somebody else, somebody positive. Life’s not that bad, you’ll get through this
That "grades" thing is sooo TRUE "Having no motivation" "Tired all the time" dude i know we're teenagers and we shouldn't get tired like all the time but we're HUMAN, we cannot stay active our whole teen age -_- And if u touch ur phone for 2 MINUTES... They're like "you're always on phone"... WTF DUDE?
I can relate to this. I feel stressed and hopeless a lot. It doesn’t help that I have no family to talk with my problems. My mom would yell at me if I don’t tell her immediately and would threaten to take my phone away when it’s the only thing that keeps me mentally stable.
Omg my life is just like that And whenever we feel sad ur dad is there to just say “oh girls in this age are terrible and cry a lot it’s their period” Nobody acctually gets our feelings
Coming from a teen with severe self esteem issues and anxiety, this video just summed up every teenager who struggles. I know and understand the pain, you are not alone ❤
Being a teen gets harder and harder the more we’re online. Parents say things like “when I was younger, blah blah blah” but the thing is, things are different now from how they used to be. For parents, all they have to do to get away from bullying is to go home but our bullies follow us everywhere. Life gets more complicated the more time goes on.
Not me mention when you show how things stress you out your called disrecetful or childish When i get anxious i physically freakout becaus ei cant handle the emotions, and onetile i hit my hand 10 or 15 times on the cars glove box because i was scared to go into school and i got called childish. Im not childish i just cant handle emotions and needed to let it out.. It dosnt matter wgat emotion i have, i get like that. Sometimes its clapping or waving my hands, sometiems his hittign kicking and scryign uncontrabbly.
And then they wonder why you always want to be alone like they have no idea what they've said to you. "Sticks and stones will break your bones but words will never hurt you"? Whoever thought of that must've been pretty dumb. Words hurt worse than anything else because they stay with you and continue to hurt you instead of the pain just being temporary. I pray for everyone going through this. 💝
When my little cousins say "l can't wait to become a teenager " it hurts my heart for them because I also used to say these things but now the truth of being a teenager make me feel so sad
same and then my mom asks me why i’m so quiet and says i should feel free to tell her anything but the problem is, i’m scared i’m going to get yelled at or just not be listened to and you’re just going to make it all about you again so i just decided that it’s better to stay quiet then open my mouth and say smth that ik that she’s gonna call dumb and make me feel like my problemas are worthless and te only ones that matter are hers
This happened w me yesterday and that too I heard this from my brother who's 7years older than me I'm 18 I mean he's still not that old to say such stuffs right? But yet he does my eyes are still puffed I have been struggling for days and then I have to hear these
In seven years climate change will kill around a billion people. That’s ONE thing to be stressed about. What about student loans as well? Poverty wages?
So true. I feel like all of us are so broken bc of what we have to endure. Not to mention that our value in the world is based on a few letters. The only reason why we are on our phones so much is because it’s an outlet to deal with all the stress and hurt 😔
What do you know about hurt you little brats….You have no life experience, you’re still wearing your diapers and living with your parents and have no clue how the world works 😂 What do you know about ‘’hurt, stress’’ Cringe teenagers everywhere….
There are more effective methods that are better for you for relieving stress. Like going outside, having a pet, coloring, drawing, etc. Electronics make our brains think we're on drugs which is why we're on them all the time, not because it "relieves stress. " It's an addiction. Not trying to be a bitch just saying
I relate to all of these. The “your always on your phone” thing makes me angry, my parents constantly tell me that I’m on my phone too much even though they are on their phone more then I am!!
My dad complains that me and my brother need to spend some time with family and get off our phones for once when he literally told on like Wednesday that his thumb was like hurting or sore or something and I asked why and he said “being on my phone too much”
when i say something like “but ur on ur phone too” my mom tells me not to compare, but then she continues to compare me to other kids who are doing something better than me
@laya The only difference between you using your phone and your parents is that they have their career settled so they can waste their time but you my dear have to build your career.....i know i sound Annoying but it is the truth
I really felt this cause I was literally diagnosed with depression, anxiety and social anxiety by a doctor and it took so much for me to come out about the way I was feeling (like literally it took 2 years) and all my mom did was tell me that every teenager feels stuff like this and she has struggles too and that it’s probably just hormones. I told her about how I was feeling and was diagnosed like 8 months ago and she hasn’t brought it up since and hasn’t made an effort to get me a therapist or anything. It just really hurts cause I HATE being vulnerable with people and it was supper hard to come out about not only my feelings, but also I had been dealing with SH and suicidal thoughts (still am and they’re getting worse). It just really hurts cause she was the one person I thought I could trust and would care about me. Nobody takes stuff like this seriously and it hurts.
@@lucyleroux8001 thank you, it’s always nice to know someone supports you even if it’s a stranger on the internet. I’m learning to cope with my struggles by myself and hopefully I can overcome them enough to either reach out to someone else or deal with them myself. Have an amazing day! ❤️
Literally I have no motivation rn,but whenever i motivate myself these things happens, comparing yourself with others, always on yours phone, ASK WHY, YOU WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND
Just do the work. I usually beat myself up if I don't. You're not doing enough work. As a 17 year old, being called a failure is terrible, but just step up your game. Don't rely on motivation. Train your discipline to work even when you don't want to. If you rely on motivation, college will probably be too much for you.
I as a parent of a teenager can say that the amount of adults with their eyes glued to screen are astounding. Often times I’ll see a youngster just talking and interacting, showing one another sth on the phone, yet an adult next to them just scrolling…also with motivation is somehow difficult… you need to make yourself/push yourself to do sth and then it goes. Sometimes to build it as habit can take some time. Don’t give up youngsters. Try new things, get excited about creating the future life the way you want it ❤
I know right like baggy clothes are so comfortable and why i don't wear those dress or whatever it's because i don't feel comfortable once my mom told me to wear shorts so i wore it (we were going out)but then i saw 2 men staring at me continuously i was so uncomfortable i was trying to hide behind my mom but then my mom said"shut up stand quietly" like i couldn't do anything 😭
Right then when your 18 you get told your not an adult yet your not responsible and ever time we say we're moving out it's always you'll learn the hard was as If we have no idea we have bills and shit I've had a job since 14 and been saving to move out . We're smarter then they think
@@bigup1151 nobody says it will be easy, but you don't have to deal with what's it's like to be a teenager any more, it's different responsibility, but your finally free, you can get the help you need, and if you've been working and saving your money from a young age and have a plan on what's your gonna do with your life / career and how to get there you will be okay! Stop acting like peoples teens are a cakewalk! You don't know what there going through!!
@@girlovestacos3773 yeah that's crap, unless you're in another country you just got more power over other women in your state, educate yourself, stop trespassing, and maybe you will understand
When I have children I never want them to go through this. I want them to be supported no matter what their grades are. I want them to know they are trusted and loved no matter what. If they are tired, go sleep. If they want ice cream, we’re going to the store. If they want to have a friend come over that’s great. If they want to bring a significant other over, amazing. I want them to live their best life. If they need new clothes or new shoes that’s what they will get. My kids will go to church when they are young but if they choose to stop I will of course be sad but I will always support them. I don’t want people to do things for me because I want to give my kids their best life and not expect anything back. If I have kids with a man he is stuck with me. I don’t want my kids to have to go through a divorce like I did. I know that pain.❤❤❤
"Your being such a brat! " "Get ahold of yourself!! " "Stop being depressed!! " "Get up and help!" "Control your attitude now or your getting grounded! " "Your always looking at a screen!" "I'm actually doing something on my phone! Now go to your room! " "Your always tired! Go rinse off your face" Relatable
@@Skzarewatchingus2007 it's both because it's still emotional & mental abuse that part is called 'gaslighting' and when people use that they just want authority. And it's proven by professionals that telling someone to 'grow up' , 'stop being depressed' , 'you're attention seeking' stuff like that and more is actually not good for anyone who needs or wants to heal I should say. I'm 21 and have a son I recently had to cut ties with one of my subscribers/friends who were pretty toxic. Professionals have a right to offer help or tell me if they think I need help. But my friend who's just so judgemental and disrespectful could not get it through his head that therapy wasn't for everyone and my progression is better comparing how I was years ago. So for him to assume that my I'm nothing without my past was the icing ontop of it all. I just think he's envious that I got through horrible situations and now he wants to destroy my energy. He lives in semi independent living and i use to be in one too. But I left and travel around and eventually got settled. My partner is annoyed with him because he wants me to confront my past while my partner told me he has no right to tell me what I should or shouldn't do. It's up to me and the fact he's being pushy clearly shows his trues colours he uses a method where he compliments me while shoving toxic judgements in my face and that affected me cause of self doubt and many other things so I realized our friendship wasn't everything so I blocked him he still watches my TH-cam yesterday he joined my stream and he asked me what happened to my Instagram I said during my gameplay that I can see numbers pop up I just can't see any comments over the screen so he kept spamming the live and I ignored him making out that I couldn't see nothing meanwhile I went on my phone to anonymously read everything. Long in short I want nothing to do with it I understand he may or may not be projecting his problems on me because he was released from a mental hospital even as going as far as asking me personalized questions and saying why do I bring it up I told him I don't being it up he often asks me personal questions and I give him answer's for them as long as I'm comfortable to. He asked me if I think I should of been in a hospital.. honestly I don't know what his issue is but I felt guilty tripped almost because he mensioned mainly about my anxiety and how much I got potential.. it frustrates him. I will say he mainly chips away at my anxiety and slyly sends me crap through Instagram before I blocked with about anxiety therapy.. I expressed that I had my own ways of coping healthily and still he refuses to adknowledge that I'm happy and well. I get it I saved him from ending it inside that kind of environment but to reinforce positivity mixed with toxic energy really ruins our connection. My partner told me if he does anything else I should tell him.
This is literally me at the moment and as a teenager we often feel like our feelings aren't valid and that are people worse of than us and don't get help. There is also way too much societal pressure on teenagers too
Thanks for posting this. My daughter is a good kid with drive and ambition and kindness, but is treated horribly everywhere she goes. I'm so tired of "adults" treating you kids like your pieces of crap. She has been hired for at least 4 jobs in the past 2 years in which the "adult" backed out of and decided they "changed their mind" without any reason. She was humiliated in front of her entire cheerleading squad by the "adult" coach and was told she was too uncoordinated to be brought back on the squad. She was an average cheerleader.. I am so sorry, on behalf of my generation and older, of the way you guys are being treated. I am so sorry. Please hang in there. You already are becoming adults who will treat others with more respect and integrity. I see it, you are already better than we were. I am so sorry.
i’m so grateful for my mom because she is so respectful and if my grades get bad she helps me and gets my extra help in school and then celebrates when it goes up even if it’s still not an A. my mom is truly my best
This is literally my parents and grandparents I try so hard and even when I get good grades it's always well u should have had them all year not were proud of u or anything and I'm taking collage classes I'm 17 and only have 1 year left and they still aren't proud and I'm so tired of everything every day is the same Tyr me best and Noone cares give up and everyone have to have am opinion on what I'm not doing how I'm trying or I'm not trying hard enough. It's depressing and exhausting what some of us go through. Thx for reading my rant if you did lol.
@@tori-lewis3079 let me put it this way. As long as you're doing good, you don't need to be told to do otherwise, only when you're doing 'bad'. That's probably how they grew up and it 'worked That's what they do the same. It's a generational thing.
Im a teen and im happy. but A year ago I felt like this and I want to let everybody know that you are worth it, you are loved, and that you wont feel like this forever. Im working out, grinding on TH-cam, and talk to my grandma when I feel down. My grandma always helped me through hard times. If anybody Is feeling depressed please talk to somebody that you trust. Their will always be people that help you
@@-.Makenna.-t can start in any age, i think it usually starts in Highschool when stuff are getting tougher. U don’t really realise stuff when u r young, some people maybe feel this in a younger age
Here’s a few more things: Always being overwhelmed. Always stressed out. I personally have really bad anxiety. Constantly feeling worthless. Not fitting the beauty standards and feeling worthless because of it.
"I'm doing something else on my phone!" ... Your still on it though.. Edit 1: (how did I get 700 likes in a day? Thank you I hope your all doing good.)
They call us rude then say we r weak for crying then we make scenes for no reason and of course the classic " ur too young to understand " i was and still am traumatized from my experiences
I’m the youngest kid So they all think I’m spoiled and I’m always happy and I have everything. Even tho they spend 100$ a month And I spend none of my parents money, and then when I ask for money they say “but I give you something everyday” when they give me nothing. And my feelings aren’t cared about because 1st of all I’m a boy 2nd of all I supposedly have no feelings
And then on the rare occasion when I tell my friends about it, they say that I shouldn't be crying because I have nothing to be sad about, and that depression is diagnosed, and if my parents don't think I have it then I don't.
Omg this is so real I've been going through some real tuff stuff and people just assume that I should and need to be fine when I'm not. I wanted ro cry when i watched this because this is literally how i live my life everyday.
This genuinely made me cry. This is so true and it just makes me sad that our pain is stereotyped as a teenager thing and desensitized. Bless all the teens out there who are hurting.
Shush bro it's actually not that hard study a bit ,do sports, you've got no pain get over it.your parents have gone through way more hardships than you have .
@CraftEditz look I am not saying I don’t study I am an honor roll student and I am proud of my parents and where they got me today! All I am saying is that people don’t usually think that of me because of my age.
I’m not even a teenager yet but I literally go through this every single day and I cry about it so much because I have no motivation I get called names sometimes I think my parents compare me to my friends idk but I just feel so insecure about myself and I don’t know what to do anymore but you girls out there plz don’t compare yourselves because it’ll end in depression I already have a lot of depressions and stress ❤❤❤
This is most teens, depression in teens is rapidly growing as well as suicidal ideation as young as 10, it's a sad reality for too many teens and people!
I'm 13 and feel Hella depressed rn But I've learned to take my depression and make something of it I right my own songs But I'm too scared to put it on TH-cam But if I do here is my channel name LJ It's my initials
To all teenagers out there is a teenager out there is struggling and me watching this video is so like me I was always depressed I was always comparing myself with others all you can do is say I've got this these other people out there that probably thinks that I'm better than them sauna matter what you think of yourself always think that you're pretty and god will always help you through it❤😊
Same my mom thinks I only want attention like I can only fall asleep with white or pink noise I shake my right leg till I fall asleep I can’t concentrate no nothing
Exactly! And I have an ED and they're like "just eat" my anxiety is always invalidated and they say I'm just being dramatic. My social anxiety is just a phase apparently. My depression is apparently wrong bc "you have a good life" they don't even realise how that makes me feel
*me relaxing by writing in my notes* “Get off of your phone” “But you get to be on yours why is it any different?” “Stop talking back! I work hard so I’m going to use it!” “I’m sorry mom but so do I. this is how I relieve stress” “You don’t have stress, all you have to do is school and chores. You have no job and you don’t pay the bills.” “But I’m-“ (trying to say my stress is from school and that I’m not doing well) “No I’m done with this conversation. Give me your phone and go outside.” This happened last week and it’s how I remember it
My mother is the the exact same she even uses my money and she’ll bust into tears saying my whole life I just wanted you to have a dad 2 of the guys she married abused me not her only me only me she’s still married to one but he doesn’t abuse me anymore. I don’t usually do this but edit also (TW abuse) cps has been called on us like 3-4 times and animal control once but we cleaned the house so fucking fast I stg they should’ve taken me and my siblings away but they didn’t come I the house T-T also my stepfather (one of the ones who abused me) has been In Jail 4 times sense I made this comment for assaulting people including my mother he was screaming at us so loud the neighbor who is a cop could hear us from down the street and then he came to the house and arrested him so “yay” he’s already back mother forgave him that was the first time second time he had cheated on my mom with this guy and then she found out from looking though his phone and say the stuff they were sending each other she was kicking the dude out and then step father and him be out in a fight cops got called he went to jail again third time I don’t remember that well but we went to a friends house for Christmas she is a very nice person she gave me and my siblings a Christmas present her dogs are so sweet but anyways he got kinda drunk got pissed cause “he didn’t even want to go to the party” he did but ok ended up jumping out of the car when mother was slowing down for a red light got in a fight with some cops idk the full details cause all three of my siblings were in the car so I was focusing on making sure they don’t see their to young for this mother made us each get out of the car and hug him and say “touching” crap and that I love you bullshit and then the 4th time he had his father over (his parent are toxic af Christians he his parents and mother force us to be Christians) and mother told his father and him that by the time we got back from my brothers football practice they need to be out of the house football practice was a good 2-3 hours so plenty of time we got back he was still their so she called the cops I don’t know the full details but he was screaming at the cops to shoot him they ended up having to drag him out of the house he was resisting and shit they tazed him and ended up hitting him in the groin with their batons I think is what their call and jail time for him his father ended us coming and screaming at mother that this is all her fault and crap I don’t even know anymore. She is still with him sadly 😑 That’s not all but I don’t know how much more I could put on this without getting banned or some shit might add the situation about my brother but that’s unlikely and step father has been in the army New update TW animal death animal abuse toxic behavior So I was doing the dishes cooking cleaning the counters floors couch stepfathers treadmill and more cause we have 5 dogs now 3 huskies 2 Pomeranians and they keep going to the bathroom on the floor couch ect and I had left two of the dogs on a leash outside cause I forgot about it I was doing so many thing so I went to my room for one second cause I couldn’t breath I have asthma and a few more health conditions but idk how relevant those will be but I left the two adult’s huskies outside for a little over a hour we live in Florida but it wasn’t that hot outside and they had shade but they came banging on my door screamed at me and made me come to the living room to see the dog laying in the floor unable to move and made me sit there and watch him die I wasn’t aloud to do anything and then I couldn’t say goodbye I couldn’t do anything I’ll update this soon but my phone is about to die sorry for the grammar mistakes it’s rushed
@@kylieleoalexadelinenunyu1056 I'm so sorry. I can't say anything or do anything to make it better but, you should call the police on somone else's phone if you can't use your own. If you can't even do that, than if you go to school, use the office phone. It might seem hard to do but, it will be a lot better for you if you do. I truely hope that things get better for you.
I havnt come out yet but i already know that this is exactly what I'm gonna be told and my phone's gonna be taken away from me....so I'm just gonna wait till I'm oficially an adult so i can atleast not be so stressed out about it
Teenage is the hardest time of a life. We just have to smile, smile and smile even if we want to cry. Gets so much body shames and hate from people. Behave like we're Ok or happy, even we're not and these things no one understands 😔💔
How does anyone deal with it,I'm always being compared to everyone, being called fat,being called the disappointment, and always being told I'll never make it in life. Just to make it worse, my father just died from cancer. And my school said they would call DCF on me and my mother if I miss another day of school. Like I missed a lot more days last year and they didn't say anything then,but now there gonna say something. I just don't know what to do anymore. I wish my dad was here.
Then when you finally of come out of your room, they're always like "oh, youre alive" or "look who finally decides to join us" and then we want yo go back in our rooms when they say that. It's like leave us alone. We will socialize and come out of ours shells when we want.
Most parents go on their phone for work related reasons or their bank and or go on it to have a break.All I’m saying is teenagers get addicted much easier especially when it comes to how unreasonably sexual everything has become on the internet.
Omg and my little sister she doesn’t have one yet and she is always telling me I am on my phone too much and I just go ‘wait in till your get one cuz you will be just as addicted as me ‘
I can’t even say that I have an anxiety, but I have and today was before presentation I had an anxiety attack they’ll say: Oh do you blame us? We did everything for your happiness
@@FinnWolfhard_fan_ I was diagnosed with severe depression and general anxiety back in 2020 and not in 2016 when I was in the hospital for an attempt and my parents blamed it on me being "a disgrace". My dad took 5 years to figure out I have depression (mainly cuz he had training to tell signs of depression and noticed I had every signs) and yet still disgraces me and ignores that I actually have mental health struggles like my little brother with Autism. I have more mental struggles but thats all they know and still expect me to be "normal" and take care of my (still functioning and smart) brother when I couldnt even take care of myself. Only because he has Autism and younger.
@@glitchycandy Oh I’m so sorry for you! I think everything is going to be fine. Just know that you are not alone. I’ve also read that some people have anxiety cause some of the family members are sick. My elder brother also was very ill for his entire life. But I know that one day I will go to the doctor without my parents and do everything that doctor will say. Anxiety is not just stress it’s illness. You can also try meditation and some of basic things that Google says, I thought it can’t help, but it helps a little. ❤️
Not every therapist is a good one. The number one thing a therapist needs to do is validate. Just cuz a psychologist has a degree, it don't make them right.
Girl i don't compare myself my parents compare me to the person who just listens to the topic once and never opens book after and get amazing grades for me i really think parents need to be us at least like feel what we go through before speaking it's not your old days like please!!
The only reason I'm on my phone is because it distracts me from how I'm rlly feeling but I just keep it all in cuz I have to put up a happy face for my siblings cuz I'm the oldest
A reason why teenagers are so angry is they are treated like children and are expected to act like adults
So true👍
All your expected to do is act mature and learn how to be self sufficient. You seem like the same person to say that you were tought nothing about being an adult when you were a teen. Just make good grades and go to high school dog.
Amen brother
So true
suck it up.
The “no motivation” and “comparing to other people” that’s me 😭☹️🙁
-Lay 🫶🏻
Same...
I can relate to the last one
Same
Well i know how to fix that
Comparing
I feel so fat i wanna ve skinny yk.?
The “no motivation” and “comparing yourself to others” is SO hard for me
I only have motivation in sports that's literally it
Same comparing yourself to others really hurts im a pre-teen and why did this feel early
Same
Omg same
Same 😭
Dear whoever needs this,
Im a teen who used to compare herself to others. I hated lots about my body and would always compare myself to others. I would secretly cry mystify to sleep, but then I started doing something that changed the way I see myself. Here is what I did: I would look in the mirror and look at myself, the first few days all I saw was the flaws in me. But by day 4 I started thinking “wow your freckles are cute” or “wow you have pretty eyelashes “ Day by day the confidence I had grew now when I look in the mirror I smile and say I live myself for who I am. I know most people won’t think this will work and I’m not sayings it is going to work for everyone. I just want you to know that there are at least 3 people who look at you and wish they had something like you. You are not alone so don’t worry. You got this! Just pray to the lord and he will help you because you were given this life bc you are strong enough to live it! God lives you!❤️✝️
Thank u so much
How old are u? If u mind me asking
I'm turning 18 years old and I don't know what to do with my life right now so its a bit stressful for me
😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@nnapop4442I’m not allowed to say my age but just know that God has a plan and when you don’t know what to do with ur life god does so just turn to him and he will answer your prayers God loves you❤
This is true
And calling urself ugly is rude to god bc he doesn’t think that he created you with his own two hands😢
❤
"You've changed"
"Your always stuck in your room"
This it too relatable in every way.
What
The room one is happening a lot to me-
All the time
Fr fr
Mine body shame me..
But like I'm still 10yrs old
And then we get called disrespectful and told we have an attitude.
Because most of us do lmao whether we think it or not.
fr tho when I disagree or say I didn’t do that my parents say I have an attitude
Yea..
Fr tho
And the worst part is ....there is nothing like" explaining yourself " when you talk to them bcos they always think we are arguing with them
“It’s just a phase”
That one just hits me hard when I hear it
the thing is, it most likely is. the issue isn’t calling things phases, because in reality, everyone, no matter your age, is constantly going through phases, it’s a normal and healthy part of life. the issue is seeing it as a bad thing and assigning negative connotations to it
@@vakkerlidelse5476 yes but people say it even though sometimes it’s not just a “phase” but yes 😞
@@vakkerlidelse5476 ik that all teens go thru a phase but some of us are genuinely struggling. For me I've suffered with a lot of negative feelings and thoughts and have been wanting to end my life for almost 5 years now but my parents passed it off as a phase early on. Wish they where there to help me but once I hopefully become an adult ill help myself out.
Me too. Got accused of doing it for attention, but I don't understand how uncontrollable crying is trying to get attention, it's not like I can control it.
I hope you guys get better.
It probably is
The “it’s just a phase, everyone goes through it” part is beyond real!
My parents wouldn’t even try to understand that their generation is different than ours and they can’t go compare their teenage years with ours like seriously they be like u r just saying that cuz u wanna Escape from ur responsibilities or they laugh at me for making “excuses”
@@charvibobba803but there is something really important, your young and you make a lot of mistakes, and you learn from them but never forget you parents also just parents since you were born so let them make mistakes and forgive them like there were and are doing it for you
This is why most teens are depressed or having suicidal thoughts more often
@Flivexi I’m so sorry ❤️
Fax
And I’m so sorry…
Yea no not for me I love my life
@@stella5566 yea some teens have loving families or have a stronger feeling
@@jellywxderland6013 yea that is so true and I hope all of y’all feel better 😊the only thing I relate to is insecurities bc every has one at least
Being made fun of 24/7 and nobody having your back is the worst feeling ever.
Honestly that's soo true I was grown from a mom that told me children are meant to be seen and not heard so when I try explaining myself in a situation it's always them saying I'm talking back and I'm disrespectful when I never do anything wrong. My mom would always compare me with everyone too even my sister compares me to her too and is like "i never got those grades when I was younger I got A's". Everyone in my family does it and compares me to everyone else but anytime I get awards or anything it's never enough or that it's not that important. My family gave me so many mental issues in life from all the trauma they gave me from all the abuse starting from physical abuse, then verbal and emotional.
Yes it’s really hard
God has your back. Believe me. He is the only reason I'm alive and made it through. Stay strong. Tell God everything. He's got you. ❤
This is so true, some people have no idea how hard it is constantly comparing ur body image and style and grades and everything to everyone else, it’s like I can do so good but there is always someone who will be better, look better, and do better than me, it’s so tiring and depressing honestly, and my parents don’t believe in anxiety of any kind…
Uh ur body ur choice don’t listen to others grades u can try hard
I do i have
Every day i have to here i am fat
And sometime i ask my self why is somepeople so perfect and i am not
@@ameliavankraayenburg4127 I’m thin and I’m not complaining I’m happy the way I am
@@ameliavankraayenburg4127 I’m sorry you feel like that, but I bet ur gorgeous, try not to let people get to you that’s something I’m working on as well
yess i agree tooo
And when adults say "You're to young to be tired"
that hurtss
Yes like it doesn’t make sense we are humans too right!
@@Hafsah-kq2pynot to them 😢
or that you're lazy but in reality you're so drained
Maybe it’s just a skill issue
"Get rid of that attitude. This is how you behave to elders?"
"Put that phone down and do some real work"
"Do you even know the real meaning of depression?"
Me: i think i have depression and anxiety
Family: its fine we are with you
Few days later*
Why do you act like that!
The only way you will be cured is if you start being happy!
Look at all your siblings and cousins they are top of class and you are such a failure!
Stop looking depressed
Why are you crying about a broken pencil!
Stop being so sad or you will become like him *points to mentally ill uncle
Im 13 years old 😞
@@Comic_Frog what
True, they will just start telling their story's completely ignoring ur prescence 🙂
I was diagnosed with Anxiety and Depression.
My mom said:”It’s a phase you’ll get rid of it if you just try to be better.”
“It’ll be okay it’ll be over.”
“Just fight it!”
“Your over dramatic.”
It’ll be okay huh?..
Then why don’t you fucking help me make it be okay?..
If it’s really okay..why didn’t you help me when I really needed it?..
@@nathan_than2 idk what what means in that situation care to explain lol sry I'm DUHM😂
little kids: *treated nicely*
teenagers: *goes through one of the hardest times in their life*
adults: *mistreats kids sometimes*
grandparents: *nice and more fun*
dead people: *missed the most, loved the most, and can't help you.*
Little kids have to clean and they aren’t treated nicely sometimes in public places “oh sweetie you want something from the store?”
@@Nadiaallos
They have to clean? What are you talkning about? Kids play, teenagers clean the house sometimes to help the parents, kids not often at all. And they are treated nicely, idk how if someone asked you if you want something from the store dosen’t treat you nice.
yea.. I missed my uncle
I am 10-11 but have the same like a teenager
@@alexianeagu5742 I’m a kid and I have to clean and yes my mom asks me sometimes meanly if I want something from the store.
It hurts how relatable this is. Then your parents ask "why don't you talk to us about your problems?", well I would if you did shoot me down everytime I try to! I'm sick of it. 😭
Same bro it feels like I can’t talk to them
They also like tell us not to talk back but they do it and not to intoruped them but they do it
Why is it so relatable? I almost cried watching this video🥲
Bruh and when your voice gets deep/you being mad or something they’re like “don’t give me that attitude.” Or “Don’t disrespect me.”
Ok when I Lower my voice my mom gets mad at me and says "talk louder I can't hear u and that's rude! U always talk loud when ur on the game with ur friends".
Yea
My voice was super deep at 9 so try hat happended alot
Same when my voices has angry voices t my parents are like “ why are you angry we did nothing this is all on you so you better stop”
@@emilyalyssarosales2900 Ong like it’s the little things they get mad at me for that makes me mad 🗿
Most heart breaking moment is when your parents compare you with others
and then always “ yes she got good grades and she is better than you or saying she don’t have acne” and that thing i hate is so much
So true That even happens to me too even though I'm only 10.....
So true at like 8 or 9 my parents were comparing me too my cousin😒
My parents started to compare me since 5 or 6😢
@@Cloudss_14 that's crazy and they wonder why we keep to our selfs most the time I feel so bad for you and others that r getting compared.
"Your teens are the best years in your life! I was a teenager once too, I've been through this!"
My BEST years? I'm literally struggling (study, depression, body image, etc - + everything mentioned in the video) and you say these are the best years of my life? Oh and you've been a teen too? Well if you did, why do you treat me like someone who doesn't understand anything and is supposed to know everything? Why everytime I say smth you think I am talking back?
You were a teen ONCE, and as you lived, let me live too!
Like if you relate...
Edit (1): one thousand likes in only six days.... This is getting very sad....😥
what about trying to overd0se.. is that normal for a teenager.
@@hotdogs7550 About that one..... I don't think it would be normal for anyone, not just a teen.....(Again, my opinion)
Also..I feel like they forget..their generation is soo different frm ours. It doesn’t mean they didn’t have problems when they were young..but our problems are more then they understand..because they’ve never been thru a time..where your every move someone compares with someone else. And most of the time you compare urself with others because of what THEY’VE said to you.
Next year I'll be a teen (13) but why am I going through this now?
@@PotatoesAreCool__ sometimes it starts in the pre-teen years, it's sad really
I feel for you, I’m not a teen but a 30yo and still i remember being a teenager and hating it. Hating living at home, bc you can’t really get away from the people that are putting you down. But I also wanna say that parents are trying their best too, they struggle too just with different things, so try to have conversations with them. Tell them what is bothering you. If possible talk to somebody else, somebody positive. Life’s not that bad, you’ll get through this
"Work harder!You're ALMOST 18!"
"You're just a kid, I'm deciding for you"
🤐
parent logic :')
@@cottoncandye YES.
It hurts ngl
Thats the truth your almost eighteen and you can’t just rely on your parents and relatives all the time eventually they won’t help anymore
Wow.. come back in 5 years.. let's see what you say then
That "grades" thing is sooo TRUE
"Having no motivation"
"Tired all the time" dude i know we're teenagers and we shouldn't get tired like all the time but we're HUMAN, we cannot stay active our whole teen age -_-
And if u touch ur phone for 2 MINUTES... They're like "you're always on phone"... WTF DUDE?
True
Exactly
agreed
It is actually proven being a teenager takes away more energy
True
I can relate to this. I feel stressed and hopeless a lot. It doesn’t help that I have no family to talk with my problems. My mom would yell at me if I don’t tell her immediately and would threaten to take my phone away when it’s the only thing that keeps me mentally stable.
Omg my life is just like that
And whenever we feel sad ur dad is there to just say “oh girls in this age are terrible and cry a lot it’s their period”
Nobody acctually gets our feelings
Never had the problem I get straight As all the time
@@Vibesssz Right. I had to turn to my older cousin because I couldn’t rely on family.
Coming from a teen with severe self esteem issues and anxiety, this video just summed up every teenager who struggles. I know and understand the pain, you are not alone ❤
"You're always on the phone!"
"You are too!"
"I'm an adult, and you are just a child!"
ikr mine too
And then a day later,
“You need to act more mature”
“But I’m still a child”
“No you’re not”
Or… stop comparing urself to me
And " also you're being disrespectful"
True!
Being a teen gets harder and harder the more we’re online. Parents say things like “when I was younger, blah blah blah” but the thing is, things are different now from how they used to be. For parents, all they have to do to get away from bullying is to go home but our bullies follow us everywhere. Life gets more complicated the more time goes on.
this happends to me since i was 7
@@RandomPerson-o9r same it happened when I was 8
Not me mention when you show how things stress you out your called disrecetful or childish
When i get anxious i physically freakout becaus ei cant handle the emotions, and onetile i hit my hand 10 or 15 times on the cars glove box because i was scared to go into school and i got called childish. Im not childish i just cant handle emotions and needed to let it out.. It dosnt matter wgat emotion i have, i get like that. Sometimes its clapping or waving my hands, sometiems his hittign kicking and scryign uncontrabbly.
@@RandomPerson-o9r me too
@@bee.8965 sammeee and my parents tell me to try to control myself but I just can’t
"your always on ur phone"
"Ur also on ur phone?"
" *ARE U TALKING BACK TO ME?!* "
So true !!!!!!
"ISN'T THAT HOW A CONVERSATION WORKS?"
well I know we can't this
It's called communication mother.
My mom would say well I’m grown so I can do what I want. ☹️
#reality
This is so true i don't have enough words to describe it!!😭😭 Comapring to others is so true!!
And then they wonder why you always want to be alone like they have no idea what they've said to you. "Sticks and stones will break your bones but words will never hurt you"? Whoever thought of that must've been pretty dumb. Words hurt worse than anything else because they stay with you and continue to hurt you instead of the pain just being temporary. I pray for everyone going through this. 💝
Seriously. I don’t want to be social if the only thing I’ll be doing is listening to Criticism.
@@WhatThe_Cheese Agreed.
Thank you i go through this and I understand
the saying should be "Sticks and stone will break your bones but words hurt even more" or "will always hurt me" whichever makes more sence
You could break about every bone in my body and words would hurt 100 times worse
And when they say “kids doesn’t have tensions” 💔
A teenager isn't really a kid
@@KirbyGirl it’s cos you self diagnosed yourself. Having fucking adhd isn’t a ducking excuse to not do anything. Get up and go to the gym
As a 12 year old, I can relate to this..
So true r8?! My parents say this each frickin' day.
@@arandomchannel935 ooh me too!!
And what’s even worse is when they yell at you to stop comparing yourself to others but they compare you with others…
Frrrrrr
Yes😔
yep and so much more😂😂 i literary hate everything i never tell my mom shit
@@Animalsyahoo fr tho
Ikr🦴☠️💀
Thank you!! I feel like for once someone understands me!! I totally get this.
When my little cousins say "l can't wait to become a teenager " it hurts my heart for them because I also used to say these things but now the truth of being a teenager make me feel so sad
Lol I’m a kid and I really want to be a teenager but sence I’m a girl I will know what will happen👶👧👱🏼♀️🩸
Seriously I heard my younger brother say this...and I was like numb I couldn't speak a single word cuz that same thing happened with me and here I'm
@@ARiveraTeam Just enjoy dear..as much as you can!!! 💜💜
“It’s always different” for them ✋and I feel this
Fr my mom is on her phone more than me and I'm on it like 5 hours sometimes less throughout the whole day
Exactly
“It’s just a phase”
That one really got me
Same 😭😭
İ mean, can you prove otherwise?
@@dnacrizpy6356 exactly
Because it's true
Yes. This. As a teen with ADHD, the no motivation part especially hit hard… Thank you.❤️🩹
Sometimes I’m scared to tell my parents things because I know I’m going to be yelled at… Teenagers are expected to do so much more than they can
same and then my mom asks me why i’m so quiet and says i should feel free to tell her anything but the problem is, i’m scared i’m going to get yelled at or just not be listened to and you’re just going to make it all about you again so i just decided that it’s better to stay quiet then open my mouth and say smth that ik that she’s gonna call dumb and make me feel like my problemas are worthless and te only ones that matter are hers
Same dont worry
I am not even a teenager yet I am just 11 but still I am here in my room crying for these reasons
OML then they act like they never said anything to be
Me too
i hate when teenagers say “i’m really stressed” and their elders just say “u don’t have anything to be stressed about, wait until ur my age”
My parents just say you don't have any kid u are taking care of so what is making you feel stressed
Same, everyone always tells me “we all are” when I say I’m stressed meanwhile I have terrible anxiety
This happened w me yesterday and that too I heard this from my brother who's 7years older than me I'm 18 I mean he's still not that old to say such stuffs right? But yet he does my eyes are still puffed I have been struggling for days and then I have to hear these
In seven years climate change will kill around a billion people. That’s ONE thing to be stressed about. What about student loans as well? Poverty wages?
So true. I feel like all of us are so broken bc of what we have to endure. Not to mention that our value in the world is based on a few letters. The only reason why we are on our phones so much is because it’s an outlet to deal with all the stress and hurt 😔
What do you know about hurt you little brats….You have no life experience, you’re still wearing your diapers and living with your parents and have no clue how the world works 😂 What do you know about ‘’hurt, stress’’ Cringe teenagers everywhere….
There are more effective methods that are better for you for relieving stress. Like going outside, having a pet, coloring, drawing, etc. Electronics make our brains think we're on drugs which is why we're on them all the time, not because it "relieves stress. " It's an addiction.
Not trying to be a bitch just saying
So true
"every teenage do it, it's just a phase"
i know it hit so bad.
True! The “ every teenager does” and the “You will grow out of it” hurt me constantly
You will grow out of it that’s just fax.
“It’s cause of that damn phone, you’re always on it”😫😭
😭😭💀💀✋🏼
Literally my life
“Mom I have a headache”
Mom:
😭
My parents always say this to me
I relate to all of these. The “your always on your phone” thing makes me angry, my parents constantly tell me that I’m on my phone too much even though they are on their phone more then I am!!
My dad complains that me and my brother need to spend some time with family and get off our phones for once when he literally told on like Wednesday that his thumb was like hurting or sore or something and I asked why and he said “being on my phone too much”
Bro fr
samee!! except the grades cause I typically get good grades.
Depends on what your doing on it I guess if your watching TH-cam all day or making Tic Toks then yes I understand that one completely.
Yea
Im so glad there are people out there that understand each other
when i say something like “but ur on ur phone too” my mom tells me not to compare, but then she continues to compare me to other kids who are doing something better than me
Omg let's talk about our struggles together pls you say yours and I'll say mine
@@Jinmao15 idk there’s a lot lol
@laya The only difference between you using your phone and your parents is that they have their career settled so they can waste their time but you my dear have to build your career.....i know i sound Annoying but it is the truth
@@imapotato8642 lol she’s on facebook marketplace most of the time tbh
@@laya2476 lol
I really felt this cause I was literally diagnosed with depression, anxiety and social anxiety by a doctor and it took so much for me to come out about the way I was feeling (like literally it took 2 years) and all my mom did was tell me that every teenager feels stuff like this and she has struggles too and that it’s probably just hormones. I told her about how I was feeling and was diagnosed like 8 months ago and she hasn’t brought it up since and hasn’t made an effort to get me a therapist or anything. It just really hurts cause I HATE being vulnerable with people and it was supper hard to come out about not only my feelings, but also I had been dealing with SH and suicidal thoughts (still am and they’re getting worse). It just really hurts cause she was the one person I thought I could trust and would care about me. Nobody takes stuff like this seriously and it hurts.
@@lucyleroux8001 thank you, it’s always nice to know someone supports you even if it’s a stranger on the internet. I’m learning to cope with my struggles by myself and hopefully I can overcome them enough to either reach out to someone else or deal with them myself. Have an amazing day! ❤️
I hope you the best!!! Stay strong!!! (◍•ᴗ•◍)
The same happened with me . Life sucks
@@joonieluv5918 I’m so sorry, it sucks. I’m always here to talk/listen! ❤️
You are so damn strong going through this much 🤯
Hope you improve your health 🥰🤩🤩
"You are a failure"
It hurts when they call you a failure... They don't realize how much you have gone through...
Literally I have no motivation rn,but whenever i motivate myself these things happens, comparing yourself with others, always on yours phone, ASK WHY, YOU WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND
Just do the work. I usually beat myself up if I don't. You're not doing enough work. As a 17 year old, being called a failure is terrible, but just step up your game. Don't rely on motivation. Train your discipline to work even when you don't want to. If you rely on motivation, college will probably be too much for you.
useless tho..
I can’t relate never been called a failure no it’s not because my grades are perfect just never heard it
Is true I just lost my best friend from a car accident and people don't do anything but be mean to me and I don't know if it well ever stop
I as a parent of a teenager can say that the amount of adults with their eyes glued to screen are astounding. Often times I’ll see a youngster just talking and interacting, showing one another sth on the phone, yet an adult next to them just scrolling…also with motivation is somehow difficult… you need to make yourself/push yourself to do sth and then it goes. Sometimes to build it as habit can take some time. Don’t give up youngsters. Try new things, get excited about creating the future life the way you want it ❤
My best friend shared this video with me 2 days before his death , and today's one year since he left us ...
No... That’s just so- I don’t even know. I’ve never experienced that but I just can feel your pain.
im so sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry for your loss
I'm so sad for your loss love😕
This was posted in 22 but okay srry 4 ur loss-
“why do you wear big baggy clothes all the time you look like a boy”
Sorry for feeling comfortable and not insecure in these clothes.
This is literally me and I'm 11 :(
The fact that's so reliable is just sad 💔
I know right like baggy clothes are so comfortable and why i don't wear those dress or whatever it's because i don't feel comfortable once my mom told me to wear shorts so i wore it (we were going out)but then i saw 2 men staring at me continuously i was so uncomfortable i was trying to hide behind my mom but then my mom said"shut up stand quietly" like i couldn't do anything 😭
@@naisha2011 that’s sad I just wear whatever I want but my mom usually makes me wear jeans and a t-shirt I’m usually wearing a hoodie and shorts/pants
Literally my entire life…
Then you also get told you don't get an opinion until you're 18. Life's hard man. I just wanna be able to control who i am.
You just think as soon as ur 18 ur life’s gonna be easy? Mommy and daddy won’t be paying ur bills anymore 🤦♂️
Right then when your 18 you get told your not an adult yet your not responsible and ever time we say we're moving out it's always you'll learn the hard was as If we have no idea we have bills and shit I've had a job since 14 and been saving to move out . We're smarter then they think
@@bigup1151 nobody says it will be easy, but you don't have to deal with what's it's like to be a teenager any more, it's different responsibility, but your finally free, you can get the help you need, and if you've been working and saving your money from a young age and have a plan on what's your gonna do with your life / career and how to get there you will be okay! Stop acting like peoples teens are a cakewalk! You don't know what there going through!!
I don’t get an opinion my whole life because I’m a woman.
@@girlovestacos3773 yeah that's crap, unless you're in another country you just got more power over other women in your state, educate yourself, stop trespassing, and maybe you will understand
When I have children I never want them to go through this. I want them to be supported no matter what their grades are. I want them to know they are trusted and loved no matter what. If they are tired, go sleep. If they want ice cream, we’re going to the store. If they want to have a friend come over that’s great. If they want to bring a significant other over, amazing. I want them to live their best life. If they need new clothes or new shoes that’s what they will get. My kids will go to church when they are young but if they choose to stop I will of course be sad but I will always support them. I don’t want people to do things for me because I want to give my kids their best life and not expect anything back. If I have kids with a man he is stuck with me. I don’t want my kids to have to go through a divorce like I did. I know that pain.❤❤❤
"Your being such a brat! "
"Get ahold of yourself!! "
"Stop being depressed!! "
"Get up and help!"
"Control your attitude now or your getting grounded! "
"Your always looking at a screen!"
"I'm actually doing something on my phone! Now go to your room! "
"Your always tired! Go rinse off your face"
Relatable
No not "stop being depressed" it's "you don't know what real depression is"
@@Skzarewatchingus2007 it's both because it's still emotional & mental abuse that part is called 'gaslighting' and when people use that they just want authority. And it's proven by professionals that telling someone to 'grow up' , 'stop being depressed' , 'you're attention seeking' stuff like that and more is actually not good for anyone who needs or wants to heal I should say. I'm 21 and have a son I recently had to cut ties with one of my subscribers/friends who were pretty toxic. Professionals have a right to offer help or tell me if they think I need help. But my friend who's just so judgemental and disrespectful could not get it through his head that therapy wasn't for everyone and my progression is better comparing how I was years ago. So for him to assume that my I'm nothing without my past was the icing ontop of it all. I just think he's envious that I got through horrible situations and now he wants to destroy my energy. He lives in semi independent living and i use to be in one too. But I left and travel around and eventually got settled. My partner is annoyed with him because he wants me to confront my past while my partner told me he has no right to tell me what I should or shouldn't do. It's up to me and the fact he's being pushy clearly shows his trues colours he uses a method where he compliments me while shoving toxic judgements in my face and that affected me cause of self doubt and many other things so I realized our friendship wasn't everything so I blocked him he still watches my TH-cam yesterday he joined my stream and he asked me what happened to my Instagram I said during my gameplay that I can see numbers pop up I just can't see any comments over the screen so he kept spamming the live and I ignored him making out that I couldn't see nothing meanwhile I went on my phone to anonymously read everything. Long in short I want nothing to do with it I understand he may or may not be projecting his problems on me because he was released from a mental hospital even as going as far as asking me personalized questions and saying why do I bring it up I told him I don't being it up he often asks me personal questions and I give him answer's for them as long as I'm comfortable to. He asked me if I think I should of been in a hospital.. honestly I don't know what his issue is but I felt guilty tripped almost because he mensioned mainly about my anxiety and how much I got potential.. it frustrates him. I will say he mainly chips away at my anxiety and slyly sends me crap through Instagram before I blocked with about anxiety therapy.. I expressed that I had my own ways of coping healthily and still he refuses to adknowledge that I'm happy and well. I get it I saved him from ending it inside that kind of environment but to reinforce positivity mixed with toxic energy really ruins our connection. My partner told me if he does anything else I should tell him.
Dude that's actually all true tho, that'd how I get treated
Every teens parents/Gaurdians:
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@@ZeroBraincells0204 not EVERY because my parents dont act like that but sadly some
This is literally me at the moment and as a teenager we often feel like our feelings aren't valid and that are people worse of than us and don't get help. There is also way too much societal pressure on teenagers too
No one notices your sadness until it turns into your anger and then your the bad person.
Real
Fax
True 😢
Exactly, they only notice once the anger has already consumed you because no one ever cared for when you were hurting
Exactly
Thanks for posting this. My daughter is a good kid with drive and ambition and kindness, but is treated horribly everywhere she goes. I'm so tired of "adults" treating you kids like your pieces of crap. She has been hired for at least 4 jobs in the past 2 years in which the "adult" backed out of and decided they "changed their mind" without any reason. She was humiliated in front of her entire cheerleading squad by the "adult" coach and was told she was too uncoordinated to be brought back on the squad. She was an average cheerleader..
I am so sorry, on behalf of my generation and older, of the way you guys are being treated. I am so sorry. Please hang in there. You already are becoming adults who will treat others with more respect and integrity. I see it, you are already better than we were. I am so sorry.
i’m so grateful for my mom because she is so respectful and if my grades get bad she helps me and gets my extra help in school and then celebrates when it goes up even if it’s still not an A. my mom is truly my best
We need more moms like that ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Your mums' the best best
Same ❤❤
@@mariqueen77 ❤️❤️
@@mariqueen77 so grateful there’s some good parents left, definitely gonna follow my mom on that path.
This is literally my parents and grandparents I try so hard and even when I get good grades it's always well u should have had them all year not were proud of u or anything and I'm taking collage classes I'm 17 and only have 1 year left and they still aren't proud and I'm so tired of everything every day is the same Tyr me best and Noone cares give up and everyone have to have am opinion on what I'm not doing how I'm trying or I'm not trying hard enough. It's depressing and exhausting what some of us go through. Thx for reading my rant if you did lol.
Its okay to rant atleast you have let someone know how you feel
You will understand when you're older, and you will thank them.
@@oyl23 ik there trying to help but there Really hurting me more then helping
@@tori-lewis3079 let me put it this way. As long as you're doing good, you don't need to be told to do otherwise, only when you're doing 'bad'. That's probably how they grew up and it 'worked That's what they do the same. It's a generational thing.
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Im a teen and im happy. but A year ago I felt like this and I want to let everybody know that you are worth it, you are loved, and that you wont feel like this forever. Im working out, grinding on TH-cam, and talk to my grandma when I feel down. My grandma always helped me through hard times. If anybody Is feeling depressed please talk to somebody that you trust. Their will always be people that help you
“Where did you get this attitude from?”
“you.” 💀
*devil summoned*💀
@@solisluna1591😂
@@rayyray_yyour a teenager attitude comes naturally stop blaming everything on your parents💀
@@PRIME_DETECTIVE it’s called a joke
@@rayyray_y it’s not just because it has a skull emoji don’t make it a joke mate
Girl litereally described my life right now......
Same
Same here
same -
Same
Same
This is so true. Parents need to understand that our life doesn't revolve around school only, we actually have a life. 😢
I agree with you
Just a question when does this “phase” (it’s not a phase dunno how to put it so..) start?
Just remember that they had their “ phase” too. Just in an easier way and that’s why they compare how it was to them to how it feels for us.
@@-.Makenna.-t can start in any age, i think it usually starts in Highschool when stuff are getting tougher. U don’t really realise stuff when u r young, some people maybe feel this in a younger age
@@st4rrysomeone like so 9
Here’s a few more things:
Always being overwhelmed.
Always stressed out.
I personally have really bad anxiety.
Constantly feeling worthless.
Not fitting the beauty standards and feeling worthless because of it.
yes yes and yes
"it's always those damn devices!"
"but your on the internet too"
"that's diffrent"
Parents forgot how it is to be a kid. And this proves it
Fr they always Blame the tv phone and iPads and then they start comparing us to them
@@alliepally12 my mom always say mAkE ThE TV Ur MOm
I say b***sh** about that
We're people we get addicted to technology
"I'm doing something else on my phone!"
... Your still on it though..
Edit 1:
(how did I get 700 likes in a day? Thank you I hope your all doing good.)
Or “Oh it’s because of work!!!”
My mom complained i'm always watching film. But she doesn't relised that she also always watch " film" on instagram.
My mom yells at me for being on my phone all the time yet shes scrolling on facebook 24/7
"I'm doing something else on MY phone too?"
@Duracell_Optimum “But I spent my moment on it so it’s MY phone” - Parents
"You should do this extra work"
"But I'm already having trouble and stressing"
"You don't know what stress is like"
Bruh this one hurts
Like you tell them your stressed and their like your just a kid you don't know what stress is
I hate parents when they think they’re better than us
That's my mum
i wish you all the best 🤍
Your acting skills make me go through every one of these troubles
They call us rude then say we r weak for crying then we make scenes for no reason and of course the classic " ur too young to understand " i was and still am traumatized from my experiences
We are too young cuz we don't have to go to work or stuff
And when they say we don’t try enough gets me crying and when they pay more attention to ur siblings you feel like ur unwanted
they don't understand. I'm probably just gonna kill myself soon. I can't take it anymore!!
This is so true
EXACTLY
Every day
I’m the youngest kid
So they all think I’m spoiled and I’m always happy and I have everything.
Even tho they spend 100$ a month
And I spend none of my parents money, and then when I ask for money they say “but I give you something everyday” when they give me nothing.
And my feelings aren’t cared about because 1st of all I’m a boy 2nd of all I supposedly have no feelings
This is soo true. This is the reason why I cry nearly every day
And then they say "I don't care about your crying, Stop being such a baby about everything"
And then on the rare occasion when I tell my friends about it, they say that I shouldn't be crying because I have nothing to be sad about, and that depression is diagnosed, and if my parents don't think I have it then I don't.
@@thatvolleyballgirly So true i have severe depression and anxiety from this.
@@LLS583 I am so sorry that that has happened to you. It sucks when it happens, especially when it comes from someone you thought would understand.
Sameeeeeeeee
Omg this is so real I've been going through some real tuff stuff and people just assume that I should and need to be fine when I'm not. I wanted ro cry when i watched this because this is literally how i live my life everyday.
This genuinely made me cry. This is so true and it just makes me sad that our pain is stereotyped as a teenager thing and desensitized. Bless all the teens out there who are hurting.
Shush bro it's actually not that hard study a bit ,do sports, you've got no pain get over it.your parents have gone through way more hardships than you have .
@CraftEditz look I am not saying I don’t study I am an honor roll student and I am proud of my parents and where they got me today! All I am saying is that people don’t usually think that of me because of my age.
Being an Asian, this is normal
@@praisethelord_3they were talking about people like you in this video
@@praisethelord_3 you don't understand..
I have goosebumps just because of how relatable this is
Same
YES all the way!
“It’s different” ACCURATE I KNEW U WERE GONNA PUT THAT LOL
I’m not even a teenager yet but I literally go through this every single day and I cry about it so much because I have no motivation I get called names sometimes I think my parents compare me to my friends idk but I just feel so insecure about myself and I don’t know what to do anymore but you girls out there plz don’t compare yourselves because it’ll end in depression I already have a lot of depressions and stress ❤❤❤
Remember this isn't all teens, but it's certainly a reality for some. Also if you relate to this too much,you MIGHT have depression. Take care 🙌
This is most teens, depression in teens is rapidly growing as well as suicidal ideation as young as 10, it's a sad reality for too many teens and people!
the average highschooler has the same mental wrongs and such that someone in the fifties was put into an insane asylum for
@@macydiy9697 I'm 11 and already starting to feel stressed and depressed :/
@@urlocalkpopfan I get it! Reach out to either your parents or school counselor!!
I'm 13 and feel Hella depressed rn
But I've learned to take my depression and make something of it
I right my own songs
But I'm too scared to put it on TH-cam
But if I do here is my channel name
LJ
It's my initials
1.Bodyshaming
2.Fake friends
3.Peer pressure
4.Called names
5.Toxic parents/environment
6.Stress
7.Can’t vent
8.Can’t trust
9.Study 24/7
10.Sad
11.Anger
12.Can’t cry bcuz it’s Unreasonable😒
13.(some comments pointed it out) Time of the month(for girls)
It’s literally me 😞
Yup me too I js try to laugh and be happy and I js hide my real emotions from everyone 😔
@@Onsk1bidi I have to hide my emotions it’s just better that’s way.
teenagers out of all human beings, have the worse trust issues, you fr cannot trust anyone as a teenager.
@@Kaii_lee I know you really can’t its sad..
This sounds more like depression than a phase, I went through this and got diagnosed with depression
Me too. And social anxiety
To all teenagers out there is a teenager out there is struggling and me watching this video is so like me I was always depressed I was always comparing myself with others all you can do is say I've got this these other people out there that probably thinks that I'm better than them sauna matter what you think of yourself always think that you're pretty and god will always help you through it❤😊
“It’s just a phase”
So my depression, social anxiety, anxiety,ADHD and OCD is a phase? Alright then
Same my mom thinks I only want attention like I can only fall asleep with white or pink noise I shake my right leg till I fall asleep I can’t concentrate no nothing
Exactly! And I have an ED and they're like "just eat" my anxiety is always invalidated and they say I'm just being dramatic. My social anxiety is just a phase apparently. My depression is apparently wrong bc "you have a good life" they don't even realise how that makes me feel
@@imyreads oh my,I feel sorry for u
Hey wanna talk about it? enjoy your life no matter what people say, i love you❤
Fr same with me like My mom is like get over it get over we’re having an attitude when you’re screaming at me about one grade it was really low wowww
*me relaxing by writing in my notes*
“Get off of your phone”
“But you get to be on yours why is it any different?”
“Stop talking back! I work hard so I’m going to use it!”
“I’m sorry mom but so do I. this is how I relieve stress”
“You don’t have stress, all you have to do is school and chores. You have no job and you don’t pay the bills.”
“But I’m-“ (trying to say my stress is from school and that I’m not doing well)
“No I’m done with this conversation. Give me your phone and go outside.”
This happened last week and it’s how I remember it
My mother is the the exact same she even uses my money and she’ll bust into tears saying my whole life I just wanted you to have a dad 2 of the guys she married abused me not her only me only me she’s still married to one but he doesn’t abuse me anymore.
I don’t usually do this but edit also (TW abuse)
cps has been called on us like 3-4 times and animal control once but we cleaned the house so fucking fast I stg they should’ve taken me and my siblings away but they didn’t come I the house T-T also my stepfather (one of the ones who abused me) has been In Jail 4 times sense I made this comment for assaulting people including my mother he was screaming at us so loud the neighbor who is a cop could hear us from down the street and then he came to the house and arrested him so “yay” he’s already back mother forgave him that was the first time second time he had cheated on my mom with this guy and then she found out from looking though his phone and say the stuff they were sending each other she was kicking the dude out and then step father and him be out in a fight cops got called he went to jail again third time I don’t remember that well but we went to a friends house for Christmas she is a very nice person she gave me and my siblings a Christmas present her dogs are so sweet but anyways he got kinda drunk got pissed cause “he didn’t even want to go to the party” he did but ok ended up jumping out of the car when mother was slowing down for a red light got in a fight with some cops idk the full details cause all three of my siblings were in the car so I was focusing on making sure they don’t see their to young for this mother made us each get out of the car and hug him and say “touching” crap and that I love you bullshit and then the 4th time he had his father over (his parent are toxic af Christians he his parents and mother force us to be Christians) and mother told his father and him that by the time we got back from my brothers football practice they need to be out of the house football practice was a good 2-3 hours so plenty of time we got back he was still their so she called the cops I don’t know the full details but he was screaming at the cops to shoot him they ended up having to drag him out of the house he was resisting and shit they tazed him and ended up hitting him in the groin with their batons I think is what their call and jail time for him his father ended us coming and screaming at mother that this is all her fault and crap I don’t even know anymore. She is still with him sadly 😑
That’s not all but I don’t know how much more I could put on this without getting banned or some shit might add the situation about my brother but that’s unlikely and step father has been in the army
New update TW animal death animal abuse toxic behavior
So I was doing the dishes cooking cleaning the counters floors couch stepfathers treadmill and more cause we have 5 dogs now 3 huskies 2 Pomeranians and they keep going to the bathroom on the floor couch ect and I had left two of the dogs on a leash outside cause I forgot about it I was doing so many thing so I went to my room for one second cause I couldn’t breath I have asthma and a few more health conditions but idk how relevant those will be but I left the two adult’s huskies outside for a little over a hour we live in Florida but it wasn’t that hot outside and they had shade but they came banging on my door screamed at me and made me come to the living room to see the dog laying in the floor unable to move and made me sit there and watch him die I wasn’t aloud to do anything and then I couldn’t say goodbye I couldn’t do anything
I’ll update this soon but my phone is about to die sorry for the grammar mistakes it’s rushed
@@kylieleoalexadelinenunyu1056 oh my, you need to talk to someone..
@@churro_.crumbs I can’t she controls my life I’m not even 15 yet I’m older than 11 but younger than 15
@@kylieleoalexadelinenunyu1056 I'm so sorry. I can't say anything or do anything to make it better but, you should call the police on somone else's phone if you can't use your own. If you can't even do that, than if you go to school, use the office phone. It might seem hard to do but, it will be a lot better for you if you do. I truely hope that things get better for you.
@@jutafreak6153 I’m homeschooled. And is something wrong why should I call the police. I thought this stuff is normal?
this is so relatable, i feel myself comparing me to others without even noticing it, and I just feel depressed all the time
Can't relate I actually touch and and I'm constantly winning 😃 go take another L loser.
Same..it’s really hard like no one understands,family,freinds,no one does except our generation rn..
yea, all my mom says is "then stop doing it" like its easy
Kids used to be in the coal mines stop whinin
Same
All parents should be aware of what we all teenagers go through
“It’s a phase, you will grow out of it”
When in 20 years I’ve had this “phase” for 7 years.
That’s what I would say if someone said it is a phase
I havnt come out yet but i already know that this is exactly what I'm gonna be told and my phone's gonna be taken away from me....so I'm just gonna wait till I'm oficially an adult so i can atleast not be so stressed out about it
@@astral_mermaid that's a good idea
@@astral_mermaid SAME! Cus if I'm not under their roof, what they gonna do?
I came out as pansexual a year ago and my mom tried to pray the gay away and she thinks I magically was healed and I'm not gay anymore
@@rae_the_bae4990 that's sad:(
Teenage is the hardest time of a life. We just have to smile, smile and smile even if we want to cry. Gets so much body shames and hate from people. Behave like we're Ok or happy, even we're not and these things no one understands 😔💔
I know. It's so impossible 😔
How does anyone deal with it,I'm always being compared to everyone, being called fat,being called the disappointment, and always being told I'll never make it in life. Just to make it worse, my father just died from cancer. And my school said they would call DCF on me and my mother if I miss another day of school. Like I missed a lot more days last year and they didn't say anything then,but now there gonna say something. I just don't know what to do anymore. I wish my dad was here.
@@Nebraska-s5d Yeah...same my dad also died
I know
“Why are you always in you’re room”
“Teenagers these days”
Sadly true
Then when you finally of come out of your room, they're always like "oh, youre alive" or "look who finally decides to join us" and then we want yo go back in our rooms when they say that. It's like leave us alone. We will socialize and come out of ours shells when we want.
How old is a teenagers?
@@snitchwolf5179 from 13 - 19 I would say, they all have teen at the end
@@kenmakozume6697 oh ok :)
Ty for this video, I have been struggling so much and now I know that the age of teenager sucks and that we just gotta get through it ❤️
Parents need to understand that teenager are human too-
fr
Exactly!
yea
Parents already know teenagers are humans, it's just that they don't know their feelings inside.
And teenagers need to know to not get offended if kid is using internet
It’s worse for girls on “that time of the month” with the mood swings and cramps
Or when you have real emotions but they assume your on that time of the month, we are allowed to feel sometimes
Worse for men as there expected to take the blame for everything all there life.
I’m a girl and I don’t get a period, I have Amenorrhea
it’s hit worse for anybody and no one has better pain jees someone was gonna start a fight
@@willowisp123 you’re the one starting it
“Your on your phone too”
“Yes but I’m an adult”
is that the only excuse they have???
yeah like they could get addicted just as easily as us.
Ikr!
Most parents go on their phone for work related reasons or their bank and or go on it to have a break.All I’m saying is teenagers get addicted much easier especially when it comes to how unreasonably sexual everything has become on the internet.
@@PRIME_DETECTIVE my mom spends all her free time on her phone scrolling through Facebook 💀
Omg and my little sister she doesn’t have one yet and she is always telling me I am on my phone too much and I just go ‘wait in till your get one cuz you will be just as addicted as me ‘
The comparing yourself to everyone else is so true 😢😭
"There's something wrong with this generation"
Ok but you're the ones that raised it- 💀
literally.
Yea-
That's so ture and hitse in the heart
Yep-
Thank you, I’ll say it to my mom.
“you dont have anxiety, just wait till you get my age” -✋✋
UHM NO 🫵💀
Response: Haha that's IF I get to your age 💀💀
I can’t even say that I have an anxiety, but I have and today was before presentation I had an anxiety attack they’ll say: Oh do you blame us? We did everything for your happiness
@@FinnWolfhard_fan_ I was diagnosed with severe depression and general anxiety back in 2020 and not in 2016 when I was in the hospital for an attempt and my parents blamed it on me being "a disgrace". My dad took 5 years to figure out I have depression (mainly cuz he had training to tell signs of depression and noticed I had every signs) and yet still disgraces me and ignores that I actually have mental health struggles like my little brother with Autism. I have more mental struggles but thats all they know and still expect me to be "normal" and take care of my (still functioning and smart) brother when I couldnt even take care of myself. Only because he has Autism and younger.
@@glitchycandy girl why-
@@glitchycandy Oh I’m so sorry for you! I think everything is going to be fine. Just know that you are not alone. I’ve also read that some people have anxiety cause some of the family members are sick. My elder brother also was very ill for his entire life. But I know that one day I will go to the doctor without my parents and do everything that doctor will say. Anxiety is not just stress it’s illness.
You can also try meditation and some of basic things that Google says, I thought it can’t help, but it helps a little.
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“You’ll get over it” “you’re fine” -my psychologist mother 😭🙏
She's probably right then
Nah bro, snatch that title away from her she clearly isn't good at it💀💀
Not every therapist is a good one. The number one thing a therapist needs to do is validate. Just cuz a psychologist has a degree, it don't make them right.
Lmao wait till you grow up and you'll understand the meaning of those words
@@HorowinBenrah therapists are different than psychologists but ok
i’m 15 and this is the most realist shit ever
I literally burst into tears I always compare myself to others thank you so much for talking about it
Girl i don't compare myself my parents compare me to the person who just listens to the topic once and never opens book after and get amazing grades for me i really think parents need to be us at least like feel what we go through before speaking it's not your old days like please!!
Same
@@charvisharma2073 so true
Becuz it's just how it is we're always worse than others
it's not that bad
but when you family members do this. ?!
Having all of this is super painful. But the hurtful part is when parents compare you to other kids
So true 😢😢
They do this so much it hurts
My parents expecially my mom keeps comparing me to my friends
That is so true 😭
@@CallmeMon13same
As a middle school 6-7th grader I have been feeling like this for like forever now so I feel like I finally have people to relate to
everyone feels like this y'know
@@milescleetus3278 they do now
@@milescleetus3278 I don't. Not everyone does.
What school to you go to?
@@lyrsaeq Kinda creepy question to ask dude 😐
that’s so real and i’m always tired but can’t fall asleep at night 😩😭
I'm tired😩
"You're always on that phone" It literally makes me happy, what do you want me to get even more depressed? 💀
This is exactly what happens to me all the time
Then they take my phone away and I get even more depressed 🙃😪
They literally took my phone away for almost a year and I just got it back
The only reason I'm on my phone is because it distracts me from how I'm rlly feeling but I just keep it all in cuz I have to put up a happy face for my siblings cuz I'm the oldest
@@lakeishajohnson9820 I couldn't imagine not having it for a year, that's just crazy. I feel bad for you
Fax