Not only that, but he is infantilizing her and also downplaying her concerns. He does not take responsibility for his own actions and simply treats her like a child.
@@isaiahskates6587not really having all pink socks Isn’t much fun expecaly since they wouldn’t be died perfectly probably spotted with pink. And in this economy a pack of 6 paid is like 12 bucks😭
@@darrellwilliams1714 You can be mad about mistakes emotions are not logical and her reason for being mad was, Its just how you handle the situation that matters
It’s a joke. I can’t comprehend what monsters you all have as wife 😂 mine is mad sometimes too but never like that and especially in 10 years we not once got physically or emotionally abusive of the other. When I love someone so much, I could never hurt them on purpose. And also wouldn’t want them to be mad, sad, angry or depressed. When she feels like that (or if it seems like it) I try my best to make it better. This doesn’t go against you personally, I just saw a lot of these comments and wondered! Have a great day
@@Abcdefg25152 They didn't even say anything about abuse... And wives aren't monsters. He was simply saying that talking to your wife like she is a baby when she is mad isn't going to help. It will just make it worse because you aren't treating them like they're a functioning adult and listening to them.
"That's a true story and a very valid reason to be mad." She is laughing on the camera, yes but you really need to read between the lines, which is a very useful skill under every circumstances.
Results vary, do not disturb when she's cooking, caring for a child, during at-home work, have any injuries, or on a call. Liability of bodily injury or scolding solely on the partner who touches the angry spouse.
OR a more basic way, only do it for silly arguments and not valid reasons to be upset, because it can very easily be taken as belittling the others' emotions and the argument at hand. Or ya know, communicate. That's so simple most people forget to even do it lol
@@mavirende1194 I guess it depends on the situation right? She _is_ allowed to get mad that the laundry was messed up, and the husband is allowed to find cute ways to ask her to forgive him. It's a chore mistake, easily forgotten and forgiven (if not constant and apurpose). If they had a proper, real issue that dealt with a deeply sensitive and genuine topic, you would absolutely be right.
Yeah I noticed how specific he was with the wording and I'm sure she consented to this video, but it does come off as him down playing her emotions and concerns. Granted the situation may have been dealt with before the video which lead to it being able to be a joke, but with the context in the video I'd have to say that this is not solid advice. 😂 He's essentially encouraging men to make fun of their wives or gurlfriends when they're upset and quite frankly if you can't take her concerns seriously how can you expect for her to take yours seriously? I get the fun, but a horrible message for other men with no other context to this video.
@@maylonieldridge5658wrong, He is essentially encouraging people to make their partners laugh and smile. And please grow up, being sad or mad isn’t an excuse to be awful to your partner or never admit you’re wrong.If you want to be treated with love and care then do the same for your partner.
What you do to actually cheer her up is say “I hear you and I understand your frustration. I am truly sorry that maybe some of your favorite clothes got ruined because I didn’t pay attention. I will do my best so this doesn’t happen again and maybe we can go shopping for new clothes” you show your heard her, you understand why she’s so upset and try to make it up to her. This is making fun of her very valid feelings.
I totally agree with you, and I don't like what he said, but... I want to talk with a real person not a telephone assistant 😭 that way of speaking feels so unnatural like, you are repeating what you know it's correct but not what you think or would say. And that makes me mad 🙃 i think I need a middle ground
Listen here son. I’ve been with my wife 26 years and we’re only 42. When I tell you not only is she still mad but she will periodically big this moment up for the rest of your life. 😂 keep that positive energy though cause you’ll need it to get over the 10 year hump.
@@LocksVid I’m 42 and have seen so many different relationships and if you think that all women don’t do this then you’ve never met a woman. Also if you can’t put up with something as little as that you’re soft as hell and wouldn’t last in any kind of long term relationship. You’re either young and innocent or old and single
My wife caught me in bed with her sister and started crying and screaming at me - I did this one simple trick and it worked a charm! Thanks, you saved my marriage! ☺️
i heard when a woman laughs when they were just mad it means they had a mental break for the 20th time in a wekk, is this true? (something my dad told me)
I think this is a different flavor of mad though. I'm just 9yr married. Like he's created honey jalapeno if honey jalapeno were also bitter. Still, I think she knows that he loves her and wants to see her happy. Best if this isn't done again. That bitter might build up.
@@joaovictorpioli1235 I was married to a man who did this sort of thing for 13years and acted like my feelings didn't matter. 11years after the divorce I'm still recovering from the psychological abuse. I would rather warn you guys about the unintentional wrong doing before you become the cause of irreversible damage.
@@pamelladstreling6903 it was a joke, he was playing with her, not invalidating her feelings. I think your husband is also recovering from the psychological abuse if you take your life that serious and don’t let yourself laugh once in a while
@@pamelladstreling6903 and also, if you think about it, men’s feelings also get invalidated, from lots of women. It’s even common a woman simply stop talking to some dude simply because he had demonstrated feelings, because “he is not man enough”
Smiling and laughing (in this context) does not equate to not being mad or upset. Maybe for those few seconds, she's no longer upset, but right after, she's back to being upset.
lol right? This would've been more effective with a proper conclusion of care. Instead it's just teehee look at how this trick worked on my wife - as she goes directly back to being upset. I noticed how they're not hugging it out, or actually finding a conclusion and instead of helping with the laundry even now he's simply mocking his wife's feelings for the world to see. This was not a cute "tip" since it didn't actually work. He just looks like he's weaponizing incompetence, as well as her right to be in a mood about it.
amazing tip! instead of being sorry and understanding you messed up her clothes just make fun of her!! that will totally help situations and make her feel loved and appreciated in your relationship
Nah she's laughing cos she wasn't really mad in the first place or she's already gotten over it. If she was actually mad she definitely wouldn't go along with that
Tell me you don’t know what gaslighting is without telling me you don’t know what gaslighting is. Seriously, this is absolutely nothing like gaslighting, not even the same ballpark. It can’t even be misconstrued as gaslighting by anyone who has a semblance of understand of what that word means.
@@jojeus3414 ah yes Schrödinger's joke: you’re serious until someone reacts negatively in which case it’s just a joke Jokes are supposed to have a punchline, this one doesn’t. And some people agree with you not understanding it’s a joke either. So go ahead, explain what is so funny about this joke?
Honestly I would be even more mad because I’m not a child I was trying to have a conversation and now I feel like you are putting my concerns to the side like they don’t matter
Adorable for some couples, but for others, it could feel like a minimalizing of valid feelings. If it's something small like this, probably less of a big deal and pretty cute.
Couldn’t agree more. I feel like if my husband did that to me, I would feel like he was belittling me and making a joke out of my feelings, though their video together is very cute.
For me it’d make me upset too (unless it was about something very small). I’ve been belittled/demeaned most of my life as an autistic person and the last thing I want is to feel like the person I love most doesn’t respect me either
Depends. Mistakes happen. Not all clothes are in the same washing machine with socks so chances are there isn't some super expensive or delicate blouse that got ruined...etc. Seriously, it all depends on the relationship, if that is a genuine mistake or one of many examples of the partner not caring, if the partner showed true regret in the moment they realised they f*cked up or if making fun of it is the immediate reaction...etc. It's not like he cheated on her or lied or badmouthed her to friends. He made a mistake. I would probably be mad in general for a second and then just laugh it off together with my boyfriend. He is caring, kind, funny, respectful...etc. I would be insane to not laugh about his attempt to make fun of this situation.
@@hannahk.598I would be mad... he's demeaning her. The socks wouldn't be the reason I was mad anymore though, its the icky attitude...it shows how selfish deep down he is
After literally wearing their clothes until they were darn near see-through my parents broke down & bought my dad a bunch of all new white socks & unders. This was rare as our family was living paycheck to paycheck. I was about 10- 12yrs old & thought I'd help with the laundry & put something red in with all those new whites & turned them all a very noticeable pink. My dad never wore pink but was stuck wearing pink unders & socks until payday as they'd thrown all his old stuff out. The guys at his work had a blast at his expense. 40-50 years ago you didn't see very many men wearing pink. Dad was a little upset but stayed calm as he knew I was only trying to help with laundry. Was an entire washer full of new whites. Was quickly taught how to sort clothes that day 🙃
That's also a great way to get her to feel you don't take her feelings seriously, avoid actual communication, and build resentment. Just give her some space then talk it through as a team.
Not every fight needs to be solved in a serious 1 on 1 confrontation 💀 a big fight requires a serious talk, this is something extremely minor and can be solved with some joking around
Thank you. Even if it’s a minor thing, it can built up over time to a big issue. I’d rather have someone apologize to me and find a solution, then we can joke around about it when things are clear
@@Neon1880 It’s not a confrontation but open communication. I guess you feel threatened by discussions as they may appear stressful the same way serious, lengthy confrontations do- but trust me, it would be far less severe if things are talked out timely; you don’t want them snowball until they evolve into something irreversible.
You're still young so I understand the simplistic and juvenile psychological reboot you have kindly be stored on your ever-loving wife. Oh the delights of blissful youth!
Glad to see the comments arent stupid enough to think invalidating your wife's feelings by acting like a toddler and kikd of making fun of her is not actually a good way to resolve conflict 🙂
I don't know if I'll ever be as happy, content, and compatible with any one as these two clearly seem to be. I feel simultaneously happy for them and enormously jealous.
Nah i would Just start dividing the wash by Person. Everyone washes their own shit now 😂 No Chance to get manipulated. As soon as He learned how it works it will be a shared Chore again 😂
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Tried it. Woke up this morning with no testicles thx.
Eh.....did you need em?
@@BRITISHFURY_1664not every has it for show , unlike u😂
@@nilesh0272 😂
No balls *vine boom sound effect*
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"She's not mad anymore though..."
Oh...oh you poor sweet boy....good luck.
the naivity is touching :-)
I kinda think she's gonna slap him later😢
That only works when she's young and still "in love".
@@Jayr8367 Or being in video
Well... He di make everything pink, not that he forgot to buy bread.
That just seems like a good way to have an early funeral 😂
Not only that, but he is infantilizing her and also downplaying her concerns. He does not take responsibility for his own actions and simply treats her like a child.
@@Jhordhanyholy fuck you all are so fucking soft and obnoxious
@@Jhordhany she's being childish so it's a fair reaction
@@isaiahskates6587not really having all pink socks
Isn’t much fun expecaly since they wouldn’t be died perfectly probably spotted with pink. And in this economy a pack of 6 paid is like 12 bucks😭
@Jhordhany It's really not that deep.
Her: Looking for a cheaper plate to break on his head
Him: "She's not mad anymore though"
Cute couple
Ohio couple 💀☠
@@henrysantos942 ITS NOT CUTE. ITS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
the definition of "look she's smileing"
Instructions unclear, I now have 4 broken limbs and and my spine is fractured
😂😂😂😂
Welp, u gotta do the factory reset man
Are you marries to a wwe wrestler?
Ooofff
He for to say she sould not be to mad
Instructions unclear I now have my wife asking who Courtney is
😂😂😂
UNDERRATED
@@h1roxsq4k why thank you brother 🙏
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😂💀
It's so cute that he thinks that she can't laugh and be mad at the same time
Lol why would she stay mad about that in the first place? Mistakes happen.
@@darrellwilliams1714 You can be mad about mistakes emotions are not logical and her reason for being mad was, Its just how you handle the situation that matters
She end laughing while she's mad she's letting her inner psycho loose for a bit 😂😂
This is why sometimes my schmookie bear makes me mad so I start paging doctor pookie and wanna makeout with em
CAN THEY DO THAT!?!??!!?!?
The SECOND she said “That’s a perfectly valid reason to be mad” and still laughed I was ready to hightail it to the bathroom to hide
I tried this method, spent the last few nights on the couch. Best sleep I've had in years.
It is until you feel your neck when you wake up 😅
@@traviscondren834 nahh shit stays for days tho 😩
Bahahahaha
You are the man of the house sleeping on the couch 😂
@@noahwarren9462 doesn't matter where I rest my head. I don't lose sleep at night over someone else's frustration 🤣
Treating my wife like she's a toddler is a guaranteed way to make any conflict worse.
It’s a joke. I can’t comprehend what monsters you all have as wife 😂 mine is mad sometimes too but never like that and especially in 10 years we not once got physically or emotionally abusive of the other. When I love someone so much, I could never hurt them on purpose. And also wouldn’t want them to be mad, sad, angry or depressed. When she feels like that (or if it seems like it) I try my best to make it better.
This doesn’t go against you personally, I just saw a lot of these comments and wondered!
Have a great day
@@Abcdefg25152 They didn't even say anything about abuse... And wives aren't monsters. He was simply saying that talking to your wife like she is a baby when she is mad isn't going to help. It will just make it worse because you aren't treating them like they're a functioning adult and listening to them.
Probably helps when your wife just turned 18 and still a kid.
@@Abcdefg25152 try to talk to her like toddler then you will see what he was saying
@@geebarney7910bro you'd be in jail lol
After the camera turned off, she actually stabbed him.
Prove the accusations
lmao😂
Not true
😂
I was a bomb I saw it
"That's a true story and a very valid reason to be mad."
She is laughing on the camera, yes
but you really need to read between the lines, which is a very useful skill under every circumstances.
I was in an argument one time where my pitch went down, he replied " I'm Batman" ended the argument immediately.
Icel if that happened to me I'd burst out laughing I say that to my bestfriend all the time
I-that works.
😂😂
Your husband must be the life of the party! 😂😂❤
Tried that. Didn't work.
She replied, "Why so serious?!"
Now I have a pencil stuck in my nose.
Props to her for clearly communicating that she's allowed to be mad
Anyone can be mad for anything. If you allow yourself to be mad for a sock tho, imagine how you should feel if something bad happens.
not for a reason like that.
Exactly
He ruined perfect whithe clothes@@yehwtf3685
@@yehwtf3685yes for a reason like that he turned the white clothes pink whats so hard to undestand
Bros out here ending lives
Yeah his own
😂
*bro's
That smile says differently... Run. ☠️
Yeah 😂
With those red ass gums💀💀
Tried this and I gotta say, she loved it so much, she’s letting me sleep on the couch tonight!
We're winning the argument with this one 🔥
Better than the dog house
Yeah that's good could you could be in the dog house
Sweet! Pillow fort time!
Why is this stereotype so common?
"She's not mad anymore though"
Bro's last words
"She's not mad anymore though" that's the calmness before the storm comes
He came from a good place, but he ended up accidentally gaslighting her😂
idk if it's accidental friend lol
Is it considered gaslighting since he's downplaying her reasoning for being mad?
aCciDenTaLLy
"She's not mad anymore, thou" famous last words.
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This guy lives by the saying: live fast, die young.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Florida Stanley
I tried this with my wife, I'm now divorced Thank you so much 😊.
We're getting our kids taken away with this one 🔥
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At least she's not mad at her spouse anymore. She's mad at her ex.
the fact that you thanked lmao
Her face is sooo very priceless and hilarious as well 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤ love these two and I could see myself being buds with them.😂😂😂😂
Results vary, do not disturb when she's cooking, caring for a child, during at-home work, have any injuries, or on a call. Liability of bodily injury or scolding solely on the partner who touches the angry spouse.
OR a more basic way, only do it for silly arguments and not valid reasons to be upset, because it can very easily be taken as belittling the others' emotions and the argument at hand. Or ya know, communicate. That's so simple most people forget to even do it lol
"I'm a grumpasaurus, grr grr grr, you cheated on me with my sister"
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That's insane
She's not mad anymore :)
Well u sure r in peace rn😅
😂😂
my guy this has to be your first relationship 😂😂
But ehy, they are marriwd at age of 20. Wow so cool wwoooowww
😂😂😂
How many you have then 😂😂
@@alexsalvi1824because its her sister
Bruuuuuuuuuuuuuuu bro is so luck he didn't get smacked
Cheers mate, you’re a lifesaver
“She’s not mad anymore”
Oh, bless your heart young man.
"She's not mad anymore though" - famous last words
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@@Frog-fff 🐸
Lowkey the reason this works is that he’s playfully showing that he heard her valid reasons for being mad. Kinda smart ngl
No he's absolutely invalidating her concerns and manipulating her
@@mavirende1194Every second Twitter reply be like:
@@mavirende1194no
@@mavirende1194 I guess it depends on the situation right?
She _is_ allowed to get mad that the laundry was messed up, and the husband is allowed to find cute ways to ask her to forgive him. It's a chore mistake, easily forgotten and forgiven (if not constant and apurpose).
If they had a proper, real issue that dealt with a deeply sensitive and genuine topic, you would absolutely be right.
@@mavirende1194 Welp, that's enough Gen Z for today..
To be fair, that’s a diabolical act
It is, I'm still annoyed that one single measly cheap red rag towel turned my only nice white shirt pink, and that was three years ago
I mean, at least this shows you listened to words that left her mouth...
The bar is in hell's BASEMENT😭😭
Yeah I noticed how specific he was with the wording and I'm sure she consented to this video, but it does come off as him down playing her emotions and concerns. Granted the situation may have been dealt with before the video which lead to it being able to be a joke, but with the context in the video I'd have to say that this is not solid advice. 😂
He's essentially encouraging men to make fun of their wives or gurlfriends when they're upset and quite frankly if you can't take her concerns seriously how can you expect for her to take yours seriously? I get the fun, but a horrible message for other men with no other context to this video.
@@maylonieldridge5658wrong,
He is essentially encouraging people to make their partners laugh and smile.
And please grow up, being sad or mad isn’t an excuse to be awful to your partner or never admit you’re wrong.If you want to be treated with love and care then do the same for your partner.
@@Abii140you don't deserve consideration
@@maylonieldridge5658I agree with you
What you do to actually cheer her up is say “I hear you and I understand your frustration. I am truly sorry that maybe some of your favorite clothes got ruined because I didn’t pay attention. I will do my best so this doesn’t happen again and maybe we can go shopping for new clothes” you show your heard her, you understand why she’s so upset and try to make it up to her.
This is making fun of her very valid feelings.
I totally agree with you, and I don't like what he said, but... I want to talk with a real person not a telephone assistant 😭 that way of speaking feels so unnatural like, you are repeating what you know it's correct but not what you think or would say. And that makes me mad 🙃 i think I need a middle ground
Okay karen
Just let her put you on a leash at this point 😭🙏
@@Super1992AnnitaYou adapt the script with your own sincere words.
yea i agree this is lowkey toxic
OOOH MY SWEET SUMMER CHILD. she is absolutely livid.
Her “I’m only laughing because you’re still recording”
'She's not mad anymore, she's laughing'
Oh, you sweat summer child.
Yes, perfect advice, screw communication, just make fun and belittle the reason they were upset to begin with. DEFINITELY won't end bad for you 😂😂
Listen here son. I’ve been with my wife 26 years and we’re only 42. When I tell you not only is she still mad but she will periodically big this moment up for the rest of your life. 😂 keep that positive energy though cause you’ll need it to get over the 10 year hump.
Damn sucks to be you if your wife treats you that way, couldn't say the same for me
Y’all got married at 16??
@@Pinokioh no that’s when we started dating. Married in 04
@@LocksVid I’m 42 and have seen so many different relationships and if you think that all women don’t do this then you’ve never met a woman. Also if you can’t put up with something as little as that you’re soft as hell and wouldn’t last in any kind of long term relationship. You’re either young and innocent or old and single
My wife caught me in bed with her sister and started crying and screaming at me - I did this one simple trick and it worked a charm! Thanks, you saved my marriage! ☺️
YES! Belittle her opinion and feelings 😂😂 that’s how you get her to not be mad
Put a towel on her shoulders and say:" You got a cape. Now you're super mad!"
Putting that one in the back pocket lmao
She's not acting mad anymore. Oh she's mad, trust. 25 years married, trust me.
i heard when a woman laughs when they were just mad it means they had a mental break for the 20th time in a wekk, is this true? (something my dad told me)
I think this is a different flavor of mad though. I'm just 9yr married. Like he's created honey jalapeno if honey jalapeno were also bitter. Still, I think she knows that he loves her and wants to see her happy. Best if this isn't done again. That bitter might build up.
@RealTheGladgamer if anyone has a mental breakdown 20 times a week i dont think thats normal..
@@RealTheGladgamerwhat ? No, I mean, it never happened with women in my family
This somehow worked and i got lucky so thank you guys 😅❤
Same vibe as when someone tickles you, and you hate it and get angry but you cant stop laughing because the giggle nerve is switched on haha
But after you stop laughing….
I woke up in a tub full of ice with a scar on my hip, thank you very much
She's still mad. You made her laugh by invalidating her feelings. She's not just mad. You just built the first step to the spiral staircase of doom.
Youre such a buzzkill
@@joaovictorpioli1235 I was married to a man who did this sort of thing for 13years and acted like my feelings didn't matter. 11years after the divorce I'm still recovering from the psychological abuse. I would rather warn you guys about the unintentional wrong doing before you become the cause of irreversible damage.
@@pamelladstreling6903 it was a joke, he was playing with her, not invalidating her feelings. I think your husband is also recovering from the psychological abuse if you take your life that serious and don’t let yourself laugh once in a while
@@pamelladstreling6903 and also, if you think about it, men’s feelings also get invalidated, from lots of women. It’s even common a woman simply stop talking to some dude simply because he had demonstrated feelings, because “he is not man enough”
@@joaovictorpioli1235 it always is
Those two are a definite fit to each other, their eyes match flawlessly. Not talking about physical features.
Instructions unclear. She's running at me with a knife.
Smiling and laughing (in this context) does not equate to not being mad or upset. Maybe for those few seconds, she's no longer upset, but right after, she's back to being upset.
lol right? This would've been more effective with a proper conclusion of care. Instead it's just teehee look at how this trick worked on my wife - as she goes directly back to being upset. I noticed how they're not hugging it out, or actually finding a conclusion and instead of helping with the laundry even now he's simply mocking his wife's feelings for the world to see. This was not a cute "tip" since it didn't actually work. He just looks like he's weaponizing incompetence, as well as her right to be in a mood about it.
@@stonehavengames3560Or maybe she can do an analysis on herself and don't be so mad?
@@ifirespondiamstupid7750 I would be mad just to be with this a-hole
"She's not mad anymore, though." I would be so freaking mad after this I would literally re-evaluate my life choices. 😂
Tried it out, can confirm that it worked and I did not lost any of my limbs
amazing tip! instead of being sorry and understanding you messed up her clothes just make fun of her!! that will totally help situations and make her feel loved and appreciated in your relationship
My husband heard this and started mimicking it back to me. I'm gonna kick his butt!
I'm really glad i went to the comments and absolutely no one supports this boy anymore. Thank you for validating her! 😅
oh wow. brother gonna learn the hard way…..thoughts and prayers
honestly i would be like what the hell r u doing treating me like a kid when i’m angry
Laughing cause the cameras on.. and there’s a witness.. just wait til it’s off 😅
Nah she's laughing cos she wasn't really mad in the first place or she's already gotten over it. If she was actually mad she definitely wouldn't go along with that
Different women (people) equal different problems
@@shalinimahalingam9064I would smile for the camera than stuff all the pink socks in his mouth to shut his ass up.
Bro just discovered another way to gaslight 😂
My thoughts exactly. Baby boy shouldn't be married.
Tell me you don’t know what gaslighting is without telling me you don’t know what gaslighting is.
Seriously, this is absolutely nothing like gaslighting, not even the same ballpark. It can’t even be misconstrued as gaslighting by anyone who has a semblance of understand of what that word means.
Tell me you dont know what a joke is without telling me you dont know what a joke is
@@jojeus3414 ah yes Schrödinger's joke: you’re serious until someone reacts negatively in which case it’s just a joke
Jokes are supposed to have a punchline, this one doesn’t. And some people agree with you not understanding it’s a joke either. So go ahead, explain what is so funny about this joke?
@@BitTheByte sometimes all it takes is one sentence to be the punchline
This is the first interesting "couple video" that I've seen. You two look good together
This would make me stop being mad because of the laundry. Now we're fighting because you don't respect me.
Yepp fuck that shit😂😂
When a woman is mad she is mad don't invalidate her by playing around that’s suicide
Wtf are you all talking about.
@@edelweiss- stop being a child when conflict arise. grow up be adult be a man
@@i.ghoost who are you speaking to?
Honestly I would be even more mad because I’m not a child I was trying to have a conversation and now I feel like you are putting my concerns to the side like they don’t matter
Adorable for some couples, but for others, it could feel like a minimalizing of valid feelings. If it's something small like this, probably less of a big deal and pretty cute.
Couldn’t agree more. I feel like if my husband did that to me, I would feel like he was belittling me and making a joke out of my feelings, though their video together is very cute.
For me it’d make me upset too (unless it was about something very small). I’ve been belittled/demeaned most of my life as an autistic person and the last thing I want is to feel like the person I love most doesn’t respect me either
True!
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Exactly. This would just make me so much more angry
Don't know about everyone in the comments but that would cheer me up personally
"She's not mad anymore!?" Fool. She's going to murder you in your sleep! Run! RUUUUN!!😂
Invalidating her feelings like she's a freakin toddler? Sure, that'll make her not mad at me! 😂
Please never give advice to anyone ever. You do not know what you are talking about. Stick to listening to
He's cheering her up. If anything, that's better than leaving her sore.
@@teodorivanov4558 That would NOT cheer me up. The least a partner can do is to treat you as an equal.
@@Zinetha no pen is would cheer you up
@@universesays1842 What? English, please.
she has an extremely very valid reason to be mad.
Depends. Mistakes happen. Not all clothes are in the same washing machine with socks so chances are there isn't some super expensive or delicate blouse that got ruined...etc.
Seriously, it all depends on the relationship, if that is a genuine mistake or one of many examples of the partner not caring, if the partner showed true regret in the moment they realised they f*cked up or if making fun of it is the immediate reaction...etc.
It's not like he cheated on her or lied or badmouthed her to friends. He made a mistake.
I would probably be mad in general for a second and then just laugh it off together with my boyfriend. He is caring, kind, funny, respectful...etc. I would be insane to not laugh about his attempt to make fun of this situation.
@@hannahk.598I would be mad... he's demeaning her. The socks wouldn't be the reason I was mad anymore though, its the icky attitude...it shows how selfish deep down he is
Thank you for this video
It was the final bit of garbage that got me out of this particular doomscrolling spiral
Instructions unclear, I now have internal bleeding and a broken rib.
This is much more about your wife being chill and amazing and much less about your "conflict" resolution skills. LOL
Kids playing house....adorable!🤣🤣
That's my thought they look like 16 yr olds lol
@@spencergallucci5309 my thoughts exactly!
Just means you're old now.
@@swizzlyswallows8250 and so glad to be! Guess you aren't aware that everyone over age 30 is laughing at Gen Z, not with them!
@@RobS8769and everyone older than that is laughing at you millenials. Goes for every generation love
After literally wearing their clothes until they were darn near see-through my parents broke down & bought my dad a bunch of all new white socks & unders. This was rare as our family was living paycheck to paycheck. I was about 10- 12yrs old & thought I'd help with the laundry & put something red in with all those new whites & turned them all a very noticeable pink. My dad never wore pink but was stuck wearing pink unders & socks until payday as they'd thrown all his old stuff out. The guys at his work had a blast at his expense. 40-50 years ago you didn't see very many men wearing pink. Dad was a little upset but stayed calm as he knew I was only trying to help with laundry. Was an entire washer full of new whites. Was quickly taught how to sort clothes that day 🙃
That laugh was MaNiAcLe
It's only going well because you have control of her arms.
@@johnchristian7788 we have legs and a head. Someone behind me is getting headbutt and donkey kicked
That's also a great way to get her to feel you don't take her feelings seriously, avoid actual communication, and build resentment. Just give her some space then talk it through as a team.
Not every fight needs to be solved in a serious 1 on 1 confrontation 💀 a big fight requires a serious talk, this is something extremely minor and can be solved with some joking around
Thank you. Even if it’s a minor thing, it can built up over time to a big issue. I’d rather have someone apologize to me and find a solution, then we can joke around about it when things are clear
@@Neon1880 It’s not a confrontation but open communication. I guess you feel threatened by discussions as they may appear stressful the same way serious, lengthy confrontations do- but trust me, it would be far less severe if things are talked out timely; you don’t want them snowball until they evolve into something irreversible.
Are you… are you the one and only Sam O’Nella? I can’t unhear it now
The fact that im wearing a shirt that says grumposaurus makes this more awesome lmao
Instructions unclear, a grumpasaurus has eaten all my food and destroyed my home.
I love how this attempt to invalidate her actually made her feel validated in the end!
I think he was probably apologising low key
@@bluestripes6037 It’s muchhhhh better to apologize high key tbh.
OMG. I LOVE it!!!
😂 made her smile and laugh, mission accomplished ❤
My man, RUN. She's planning your demise while smiling. Trust us 😂
You're still young so I understand the simplistic and juvenile psychological reboot you have kindly be stored on your ever-loving wife. Oh the delights of blissful youth!
After trying this i can 100% officially say that the couch isnt that bad of a sleeping place
Bro was held by gun point to laugh💀💀
Glad to see the comments arent stupid enough to think invalidating your wife's feelings by acting like a toddler and kikd of making fun of her is not actually a good way to resolve conflict 🙂
I don't know if I'll ever be as happy, content, and compatible with any one as these two clearly seem to be. I feel simultaneously happy for them and enormously jealous.
I've seen these people on YT before, and to those who are saying she is still mad, she ain't she is the sweetest wife ever.
Instructions unclear, my name is now legally Courtney
We are surviving our wife's period with this one🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love that sweater!!!!
Sweatshirt* sweaters are knitted, like a Christmas sweater
This is actually great advice.
Apparently he didn't learn the rules from his mother regarding laundry 101😅
To be fair the old rules for laundry and the current rules for laundry are drastically different.
"She's not mad anymore"
My dear boy, yes she is
Red sock is a passive aggressive way of never having to do laundry again!!
💯
Poster child for weaponized incompetence, lol
Nah i would Just start dividing the wash by Person. Everyone washes their own shit now 😂
No Chance to get manipulated. As soon as He learned how it works it will be a shared Chore again 😂
Hmmm...🤔good to know
“Instructions unclear, I now don’t have a ball sack” 💀
Even tho pink is her favorite color 😭😂
You’re cute
Her mad face is kinda cute though
Sir she is a married woman
@@ShayanMallick29 so married women have to be ugly ....
Is this going to hurt my ballz ?
This might hurt my ballz...
Yeah this is going to hurt my ballz
If all relationships were like this the world would be a good place