My take on it is, ( and not trying to start a flame war) from reading and seeing/hearing a lot of trans explaining themselves, trans women really try to look and act the gender they are inside and it shows, sometimes passing and looking way more feminine than biological women, keeping up with themselves, their style in clothes, etc. (I may not have explained myself correctly, but I just think they happen to be really attractive.)
You are eloquently correct !!! I live in Asia, the world wide center for these women. I have a precious girlfriend that is more women and feminine that any female I have ever met in "Shithole" California where I relocated from. Lest we forget, an individual is judged by the content of their character, and the kindness of their heart towards children and all living things. Coming from an environment of "loveless" societal behavior, to a country of Loving women is almost overwhelming. Precious Miss Maki is spot on !!! I am 100% straight and have many gay friends that have absolutely zero attraction to trans women, as I have zero attraction to men. I refrain from using the word "trans" because in their hearts and souls, they are women and want and need to be treated as such...
haha cleaned up my thoughts ...I thought I was considered gay but never looked at a guy and thought damn! but Ive seen trans woman and thought damn she's fine!
@@myladyboydate Maki--that was brilliant!! You cleared up all my doubts about being attracted to transgender women. In the words of the late, great Martin Luther King, I'm "Free at last, free at last, free at last"!!!! You're lovely by the way! You'd make a great Psychiatrist if you can solve people's problems in less than four minutes!! I have subbed to your channel, my lovely!❤️❤️❤️❤️😍
Why the hate for transsexual women, I'm lucky that I'm post op and not into men, and don't have to worry about getting killed, ( yes that happens ) so again I ask why the hate it seems irrational.
Great answer and 100% correct. As a straight man I find transsexuals beautiful because of the feminine nature of who they are as a person. I have no interest in men at all. Honestly I can't see why women find an attraction to men.
Im a girl and straight. I had boyfriend and caught his phone full of notification from "girls". Long story short i found out that they met from this dating site. It hurts me for sure until now but i'd say stop worrying about gay, straight etc. Let them enjoy with whoever they're attracted and respect them :)
Men who are attracted to lady boys are straight. But they usually have some lingering attraction to the male genitals (but they are also attracted to the female genitals; even more attracted to females). I think people generally like to try different things out and there's nothing wrong with different types of sexual expression as long as it is consensual.
+Shane Kirby Sometimes the main reason transgender women are more attractive than actual women is because transgender women have devoted their lives to perfecting the nuances of being feminine whereas real women take their femininity for granted and engage in a gender rivalry with men. In short, transgender women often appear more warm, safe, feminine, but most of all, trustworthy than actual women.
linus karlshammar Methinks thou protest too much. I have never had sex with another man or transsexual or ladyboy either yet I think ladyboys are as good as women. They are pretty and attractive just like women which is why a heterosexual like myself can find them attractive. Those who zealously guard their manhood are usually the ones with the most fragile masculinity.
+Shane Kirby I was at work the other day and saw a handsome man and mentioned it to a co worker. conversation went something like this "he's handsome" - "eh?!" - "what? you can't find beauty in a man?" - "not at all" - "you know thinking a man is handsome doesn't make you gay, getting turned on by him does..." he had a laugh and thought about it. changing the world one smart ass comment at a time is the essence of my existence ;) in my personal experience it is the female form and mannerisms I am attracted to, but have never met a transgender so I cannot really comment with any confidence on any choice I may make, I guess personality and chemistry would play an important role. percentages of sexuality is quantifiable, the same as racism. Im not racist at all but they conducted a test for people like me who believe they are not, whereby they would show pictures of people of varying races and you had to push a button wether you agreed with what short sentence or word was written about them. each time, there were discrepancies in the timing it took people to press the button to agree/disagree. no doubt if I took that test it would show a slight hint toward racism, this is not due to my beliefs, but social/environmental/parental programming, which affects your mental determinism, whatever you would call it, it doesn't necessarily make you racist. nothing is absolute when observed closely enough. where are you Mr Kirby? beginning to worry. if i have offended you I apologise. hope you are ok man. get back to me if you can.
+tony gooden If you're not attracted to men then you're not bi-curious despite the labels others would throw onto you. People are ignorant still and don't understand sexual orientation or attraction but the rule of the thumb is: if you don't feel attraction to men then you're not gay or bisexual. It's that simple. Sexual behaviour doesn't define sexuality. Lesbians can enjoy dildos and strap-ons but that doesn't suddenly turn them bi or straight for example.
+tony gooden you are definitely a female all the signs are there. You have gender identity issues. I can help you threw this girl. I am like you I to am a trans female
The scale thing makes sense. It's like comparing a guy who likes super-Barbie girls like Kim Kardashian vs somebody who likes feminine tomboys. Same as somebody being into hyper-masculine guys like beer chugging military dudes vs. somebody with a pretty-boy fashion sense like K-Pop idols. Then there's preferences, which just varies completely.
Indeed human sexuality is all over the map, I am a cisgender gay male unexpectedly involved in a sexually sizzling FWB relationship with an older alpha type man who had 2 wives and 3 kids. He is about as masculine as it gets and very into sports. I was startled to find that he is essentially a power bottom who loves nothing more than wailing like Donna Summer in "Love to Love You Baby" when doing the wild thing. . LOL! LIFE IS NUTS.
This is very true! I'm trans-oriented. It's tough dating transwomen though. It's a small demographic and there are dry spells between relationships. There is a lot of effort involved in seeking and dating transwomen in my experience. That said, if there were an element of gayness to this, shouldn't have I given up by now and just gone after men? Nope! Not attracted to men in any way. Doesn't even cross my mind. Still doesn't stop the ignorant from labeling me as gay when they find out. Stupid.
You are eloquently correct !!! I live in Asia, the world wide center for these women. I have a precious girlfriend that is more women and feminine that any female I have ever met in "Shithole" California where I relocated from. Lest we forget, an individual is judged by the content of their character, and the kindness of their heart towards children and all living things. Coming from an environment of "loveless" societal behavior, to a country of Loving women is almost overwhelming. Precious Miss Maki is spot on !!! I am 100% straight and have many gay friends that have absolutely zero attraction to trans women, as I have zero attraction to men. I refrain from using the word "trans" because in their hearts and souls, they are women and want and need to be treated as such...
That's a pretty shmart theory Now I'm less likely to be turned off by transgenders, you've change my tune towards transgenders... Treating transgenders as people who are not apart of the human race doesn't seem ok, we can be humane and treat them like women and not like a freak.
@GohardMg We respect your opinion but the video clearly explains about the extremities. And the video does not wish to change your view about men who are attracted with transwomen, but it is a calling to respect them.
I'm gonna have to correct you @ 2:00. While it's true that typically gay men are essentially attracted to men, there _are_ gay men who are also attracted to transgender males. Try to avoid use of the word "transsexual"; it's an outdated term that confuses sexual orientation with gender, which are two different things. Another thing: gay men can be attracted to either masculine or feminine men. That being said, I enjoyed the video and agree with everything else. I can totally understand any confusion regarding human sexuality, which _can_ _be_ very complicated. It's very important to understand the difference between sex, gender and sexual orientation, which are three completely different (but related) things.
This is a clear eye opener for perplexed straight guys out there about these type of issues and Maki nailed it! Like I always used to say to all my previous dates, your gender is never defined from the person you are sexually attracted to. It's not about why you love, who you love, when you love, or how you love. What matters most is that you *Love* 😉💖
If you are going to call same sx attraction as gay which it is, obviously, that means you should accept other kind of reality too. Like the real facts. There is no male that can ever become female and no female that can ever become male. SO.
Outstanding answer! You had me at the Kinsey studies. I believe if more people were aware of this scale, SO many gender and sexuality "issues" would fall by the wayside.
Fact is a person is either a male or a female since they were inside the womb and there is absolutely no way around it. They will always be the same gender they have been from the months they spent in the mother's womb.
I’m simply a man who simply loves femininity. If a man can be super passable as a woman and is into me? I won’t turn them down. I haven’t found a cute femboi yet but oh when I do..... we will enjoy ourselves! 😁. Good video beautiful!
great video and I agree 100%! I and every other trans-oriented guy I know feel the same way. We are not in the least attracted to men, and view tg women as women.
Wow! You have described this better than any I have seen. Most of the guys who explain their attractions are or seem to be very anti gay. Which in itself is not good. I am a gay male who has never had sex with a women. However let me throw this out there.........I could be attracted to a transexual who has not fully transformed. If you are truly in love with someone and are not just sleeping around, what does it matter?
Short answer, no!.. I'm attracted to both woman and trans-woman and have had this conversation with gay male friends that don't understand. A gay man dates men which look like men and don't find trans-woman attractive at all!. I find nothing attractive about men, if so I would date them.. I'm attracted to femininity!.
Yea brother...but I'm in kind of a doubt here after watching videos and reading comments ... People's saying you're not gay if you're attracted to a trans girl coz you're attracted to the feminine persona of hers . Well honestly that is the case with me too ..but theres more to it ,coz although I've not been in contact with any trans girl in person before but whenever I watched in porns or that kinda stuff I'm kinda attraced to the feminine persona and her male genital parts too. I'm real confused what does that make me ...
Thanks Maki and Cyril for this wonderful and informative video....The passion of you both for helping us transgenders are so inspiring!....God bless you both :-)
im a trans i had a 2 year relationship with a gay man it never seemed straight to me but my current boyfriend this video makes alot of sense as he really seems to act alot like a straight man and treats me like a genuine woman but when he talks about alll his past "women" there all crossdressers
I would think that men are typically attracted to “trans-women” by way of their faces and bodies. So, a man is just looking at what he believes is to be a cis “woman.” I struggle with this thought that if I was attracted to a trans-woman and then later found out “she” had a penis, I’m not sure how I would react. However, to be attracted to a post-op trans-woman, wouldn’t be a consideration. In most modern societies, a man who enjoys “another” with a penis would normally be considered gay. So, I assume that most straight men openly deny their attraction to trans-women for fear of his peers labeling him as a gay. I struggle with this idea as well. I honestly have no idea how I would react if the “woman” I was falling for had a penis. That doesn’t stop me from enjoying the beauty some trans-women and I hope to actually meet a beautiful trans-woman in the future! ;)
What would Maki look like if she had decided to stay male? I can't even imagine what she would look like...Everything about her is just so soft, feminine and...well...female.
If a straight man sees a trans woman as a straight attraction, it's due to the fact he identifies seeing a woman, but to say that it doesn't matter to straight men about the true identity of the genitalia is false. Sorry, it does matter to most straight men. Straight men don't just see women as "eye candy". There is a strong possibility he wants to have relations, and for most straight men they want vagina...sorry, it's the truth! In addition, if a man who identifies himself as being straight and revealed to a straight women that he had relations with a trans women. That woman would most likely consider that man gay. Perception is not only in the form of self-perception. For most straight men, transsexual women are false advertisement and honesty should be practiced to make sure that is what the man truly wants. This could make it hard for trans women because they tend to be attracted to straight men.
A good attempt to get to the answer...Heres a truer version...People are not static constants, moods change, feelings change, reasons change, perspectives change, testosterone levels change, the scale you mention can only apply at a particular moment in time and times constanly changing.x
I have little comprehension for the compulsion most people seem to feel to have to identify as "straight" or "gay". You are either attracted sexually to an individual or you are not, and in my experience it has relatively little to do with whether or not that person comes equipped with a penis or with a vagina. Either of these organs can provide great joy. The two categories that in my opinion define people is whether they are "sexual" or "anti-sexual".
I'm a 💯 percent straight guy who's attractive to women. No matter what gender, race, or color. When I said gender, I meant if a woman is bisexual, Lesbian, straight, and/or Transgender.
I am sorry but it’s very gay. As a straight woman I can’t never be attracted to another woman no matter how masculine she looks. The very fact that I know it’s woman is huge turn off for me. Straight men are the same. Most probably men who are attracted to ladyboys are ether gay who don’t want to admit it or bisexual. That’s the view in every single straight woman. I personally can’t have relationship with a man that likes ladyboys. I don’t hate ladyboys, even had one as a friend but I can confirm that there’s always masculine traits in their bodies. So men attracted to them are at least bi.
Reflexez Firstly I am not feminist. Secondly if you like trans women everything is perfectly fine. Just don’t call it straight attraction because it’s not. I have encountered very masculine lesbians who were attracted to me too. We became friends after we cleared up the situation actually, but the thing is no matter what I would do, I can’t feel the chemistry of the attraction with them. No matter how much I would want it because I think that they would probably understand me better than the most men. Nevertheless it’s not working and it doesn’t depend on my free will. It’s just my nature to like only men. The same way as the bisexuals like both sexes. Just don’t use the feminism as an excuse for who you really are. It’s just useless. Instead embarrassed it and everything will be just fine. It’s just a matter of taste.
how about this for my Christian brothers? We are to love the people who have their sex changed. Jesus loves them, why shouldn't we? In Christ's gospel, he never taught anyone to hate gay men, or to hate gay women, or to hate transsexuals. Its not in the Christian Gospel. There is nothing in Christ's gospel that says that a Christian has license from Jesus Christ to treat them as sinners. In fact Jesus Christ caught two of his disciples in bed together having anal sex. He told his 12 closest that those two disciples will have a place in his Father's Kingdom. Truth be told, our Lord probably didn't think of "orientation" as more than his commandment to love one another as he loved us.
Jesus knew three disciples who are gay. I know all three of them. Two I am sure of are Barnabas and John Mark, who were a couple. The third . . . I'll keep his identity a secret, but it is someone very close to Jesus.
+Elton Robb Wow, what on earth are you talking about? Jesus never caught two of his disciples having anal sex in bed, none of his disciples ever discussed sexuality (most likely they were all straight) and Jesus himself was himself likely asexual because he praised eunuchs who were "born that way - asexuality or choose to live that way - celibacy" sounds like you're some bad troll. Also most hatred towards trans people doesn't even come from the religious. Non-religious are also intolerant still towards them because they don't understand issues like gender identity. Where in your doctrine does it teach to hate all religious people for the actions of a few?
dsadasds, our Christ did find two of his disciples having anal sex. There is nothing in his gospel where it says that society should persecute homosexuals, in fact, he promised these two that they would have a place in his Father's kingdom. The celibacy part was edited in by the New Testament editors and writers. They could not conceive how Jesus himself could condone two homosexuals in a relationship.
defining sexuality through labels is a losing cause. you could end up with a different label for each individual along with sub labels within labels. the combinations are endless. black, white, straight, gay,bi,pansexual the fact is sexuality in itself is defined by the individual and just as their viewpoint on life itself. its what makes each person unique. attraction doesn't follow guidelines based on gender or race.
Maki, well said and right on the mark. I think ts women are very beautiful, but I have no interest in other men. I definitely would call myself straight. I hope to find a ts woman for a ltr. Have a great day everyone!
I enjoy looking at MTFs that look exactly like girls, but with male organs. Looking at men, who look like men? Turn off. Despite enjoying looking at beautiful Mtfs, I don't want to have sex with them. Because I know they're biologically males. I just stick with fantasizing about them being bio girls (with something dangling)
speaking as a male with both a woman and a t-gurl as current poly lovers. NO dating a t-gurl is doesn't make you gay, makes you lucky cause mines vary talented and appreciative, but not gay. what was the source of attraction was her desire to do whatever it took to be accepted and grateful to be accepted.
As a straight man, the vast majority of transsexual women I’ve seen aren’t passable enough for me to feel any attraction towards them, but there was one exception… and I can recall after he told me he was actually born a male, I felt like there was something wrong with me for thinking this person was hot, but then it dawned on me: This guy went to extraordinary lengths to take on all of the attributes that men love most about women (i.e.: long hair, petite figure, nice breasts, smooth skin, teeny-tiny belly showing off, high heels, etc). I got to thinking that a male who really wants to look like a woman is probably going to try harder to look feminine and sexy than an authentic woman who, knowing what she is, realizes she doesn’t have to try so hard. I didn’t feel at all gay because the second he told me he was a transsexual, none of his physically feminine characteristics mattered anymore. At that point, there's just nothing else that can be done because physical sex with this man was impossible.
The thing that bothers me is society says we have to respect our significant other if they engaged into sexual activities with another person of the same sex. Or at least this what I see in most movies. Instead of them getting filled with hate or jealousy they befriend the ones who cheated on them just because they came out of the closet.
Male: Trans woman, man. Female: Trans man, woman. I took a orientation continuum test and I ended up straight not gay at all. Just because a man dates a trans woman, doesn't mean he's gay even though they are of the same sex. Personally I don't agree with the lifestyle, but to each his own.
Her outlook and opinions on this subject are spot on, I consider myself hetero but would love to date a trans woman, only thing really stopping me is my location as most who represent well are in the big cities. I stay away from the hustle and bustle of those lol!
I really don't care if I'm considered gay or not but I have always been fascinated with trans women and never considered myself gay. If other people want to say I'm gay so be it, I have a lot of kids for a gay guy
My transgender girlfriend I accept her for who she is for the person she is I fell in love with her because she is the most lovely nice person I've ever known
+linus karlshammar These features can easily be overlooked if this 'caricature' that you have brought up identifies as female. You lose, and I the romancer of transexuals wins!!!
Very nice talk. You are very articulate, right and pretty. Your boy friend is very lucky. The problem with straight guys falling in love with transgender girls who have not had operations is that when loving making the plumbing does become an issue. Sometimes fantasy is not reality.
Hi Maki!! uhm, can I ask you something? whats the advisable undergarment would be used for those starting trans like me, i dont know what to wear like the size of bra,..I think we got the same physisal features, what do you use?
A male, like you lol, should wear male undergarments and other kinda male clothing. A male is not a female, so accept that female clothing is ONLY for females, male clothing is ONLY for males.
A crossdresser isn't a third gender nor are they a woman, if they identify as a man and you also identify as a man, you are gay, or bisexual if you also like women.
I agree to a certain extent. If its a post op that is convincing enough to pass for a pretty girl it is a heterosexual attraction. However speaking from experience with pre-op transsexual porn that attraction for me is instantly shattered the moment her pants come off.
True. I'm super straight and I love ladyboys. Dated one from Cebu and one from Pattaya. I stopped worrying about retarded labels years ago. Get what you want. Stop caring about what people say. You only live one time. Ladyboys are great.
@@Mr.Harris2007 Ha. Exactly why are you on this page?? Maybe you have some attractions you are unsure of? Maybe a little confused about your sexuality?? Don't worry bruh. Doesn't mean you're gay. Guaranteed 90 present of straight men in the west will be mind blown when they meet their first ladyboy. Been there, done that. As I said. If you like ladyboys, you are straight. And if they like you, you are not just straight, you are a badass Spartan. Ladyboys don't fuck around with cucks or incels. They like real men. Validates their feminiity. If you think you may like them, try it out. They won't let you down. 👍
Hmmm, depends on the situation. If the guy thought the "girl" was a GIRL upon meeting "her" without knowing anything else...then technically no. If then he knew that the "girl" had or still has a penis and has sex with "her" anyway..then YES. Because what he's getting isn't biologically a girl, but a boy. Having a sexual relationship with a person that has the same WORKING equipment is by definition homosexual despite what maybe going on upstairs in the transgenders head.
I met someone in that dating site traveling to the Philippines on July to meet her . I've been video chatting with her for the past 3 or 4 months ive always been attracted to transwomen but was always afraid of what my family friends would say . Im 48 she is 29 she is simply gorgeous the way she thinks geart ❤ i can't wait to meet her . And im not planning on traveling there all the time i want to bring her back .
It's a good explanation but sometimes there is more to it than just attraction. My ex broke up with me (cis women) because he finds transsexuals extremely attractive, watches transsexual porn and even wants to pursue going to a prositute for it. Not only that, but he might be considering cross dressing too. So in his situation it's almost as if he is confused with his gender identity...
Dave Kenzie That is very true Dave Kenzie , because most of us are define by culture and all there comments are based on what they were taught while growing up.
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My take on it is, ( and not trying to start a flame war) from reading and seeing/hearing a lot of trans explaining themselves, trans women really try to look and act the gender they are inside and it shows, sometimes passing and looking way more feminine than biological women, keeping up with themselves, their style in clothes, etc.
(I may not have explained myself correctly, but I just think they happen to be really attractive.)
THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL 😍
You are eloquently correct !!!
I live in Asia, the world wide center for these women.
I have a precious girlfriend that is more women and feminine that any female I have ever met in "Shithole" California where I relocated from.
Lest we forget, an individual is judged by the content of their character, and the kindness of their heart towards children and all living things.
Coming from an environment of "loveless" societal behavior, to a country of Loving women is almost overwhelming.
Precious Miss Maki is spot on !!!
I am 100% straight and have many gay friends that have absolutely zero attraction to trans women, as I have zero attraction to men.
I refrain from using the word "trans" because in their hearts and souls, they are women and want and need to be treated as such...
Only thing that matters is if youre happy.
I agree with you. And I wish people can also be happy with transgender people and those people who are attracted to transgenders.
I hope so too.
My Ladyboy Date time is moving forward.
enemybird Is it bad that I don't anyone with a cock or masculine trans
Mtn Dew I don't understand what you're trying to say.
haha cleaned up my thoughts ...I thought I was considered gay but never looked at a guy and thought damn! but Ive seen trans woman and thought damn she's fine!
I will confirm what you have watched. If you see tg woman as a woman then that is a straight attraction. :)
@@myladyboydate
Maki--that was brilliant!! You cleared up all my doubts about being attracted to transgender women. In the words of the late, great Martin Luther King, I'm "Free at last, free at last, free at last"!!!!
You're lovely by the way! You'd make a great Psychiatrist if you can solve people's problems in less than four minutes!!
I have subbed to your channel, my lovely!❤️❤️❤️❤️😍
Thank you!
Why the hate for transsexual women, I'm lucky that I'm post op and not into men, and don't have to worry about getting killed, ( yes that happens ) so again I ask why the hate it seems irrational.
Maki .. do you have your own TH-cam channel?
Great answer and 100% correct. As a straight man I find transsexuals beautiful because of the feminine nature of who they are as a person. I have no interest in men at all. Honestly I can't see why women find an attraction to men.
@Rookielove1 just bi
I'm bisexual, I like biological men, biological women, and trans women, anyone else here like me?
@@GnosticMindTrain transwomen are men lol
Women find an attraction to men because of biology
I've said that to myself plenty of times I have often said to my self no wonder women go after my wallet ....... LOL
Im a girl and straight. I had boyfriend and caught his phone full of notification from "girls". Long story short i found out that they met from this dating site. It hurts me for sure until now but i'd say stop worrying about gay, straight etc. Let them enjoy with whoever they're attracted and respect them :)
Hope you left him girl….
Men who are attracted to lady boys are straight. But they usually have some lingering attraction to the male genitals (but they are also attracted to the female genitals; even more attracted to females). I think people generally like to try different things out and there's nothing wrong with different types of sexual expression as long as it is consensual.
+Shane Kirby Sometimes the main reason transgender women are more attractive than actual women is because transgender women have devoted their lives to perfecting the nuances of being feminine whereas real women take their femininity for granted and engage in a gender rivalry with men. In short, transgender women often appear more warm, safe, feminine, but most of all, trustworthy than actual women.
linus karlshammar Gay men are not attracted to shemales. Gay men like men who look masculine.
linus karlshammar You are gay then
linus karlshammar Methinks thou protest too much. I have never had sex with another man or transsexual or ladyboy either yet I think ladyboys are as good as women. They are pretty and attractive just like women which is why a heterosexual like myself can find them attractive. Those who zealously guard their manhood are usually the ones with the most fragile masculinity.
+Shane Kirby I was at work the other day and saw a handsome man and mentioned it to a co worker. conversation went something like this "he's handsome" - "eh?!" - "what? you can't find beauty in a man?" - "not at all" - "you know thinking a man is handsome doesn't make you gay, getting turned on by him does..." he had a laugh and thought about it.
changing the world one smart ass comment at a time is the essence of my existence ;)
in my personal experience it is the female form and mannerisms I am attracted to, but have never met a transgender so I cannot really comment with any confidence on any choice I may make, I guess personality and chemistry would play an important role.
percentages of sexuality is quantifiable, the same as racism. Im not racist at all but they conducted a test for people like me who believe they are not, whereby they would show pictures of people of varying races and you had to push a button wether you agreed with what short sentence or word was written about them. each time, there were discrepancies in the timing it took people to press the button to agree/disagree. no doubt if I took that test it would show a slight hint toward racism, this is not due to my beliefs, but social/environmental/parental programming, which affects your mental determinism, whatever you would call it, it doesn't necessarily make you racist.
nothing is absolute when observed closely enough.
where are you Mr Kirby? beginning to worry. if i have offended you I apologise. hope you are ok man. get back to me if you can.
Nathan Gardley True! and that is what we are trying to imply through this message. Men who are attracted with a transwoman is not a gay!
Yes it is
At the end of the day it's gay and not gay at the same time... Last days
Hi yes baby
Bullshit. They are 300% gay hahaha
if you know its a guy. then you are gay.
This was the most well made video on this subject I have ever seen. Well done. Subscribed.
Thank you Myserieden
+tony gooden If you're not attracted to men then you're not bi-curious despite the labels others would throw onto you. People are ignorant still and don't understand sexual orientation or attraction but the rule of the thumb is: if you don't feel attraction to men then you're not gay or bisexual. It's that simple. Sexual behaviour doesn't define sexuality. Lesbians can enjoy dildos and strap-ons but that doesn't suddenly turn them bi or straight for example.
+tony gooden you are definitely a female all the signs are there. You have gender identity issues. I can help you threw this girl. I am like you I to am a trans female
Stop being stuck on labels, just like what you like and do what you do.
Fuck it I give up I don't care what sexuality it is it's still hot.
The scale thing makes sense. It's like comparing a guy who likes super-Barbie girls like Kim Kardashian vs somebody who likes feminine tomboys. Same as somebody being into hyper-masculine guys like beer chugging military dudes vs. somebody with a pretty-boy fashion sense like K-Pop idols. Then there's preferences, which just varies completely.
Indeed human sexuality is all over the map, I am a cisgender gay male unexpectedly involved in a sexually sizzling FWB relationship with an older alpha type man who had 2 wives and 3 kids. He is about as masculine as it gets and very into sports. I was startled to find that he is essentially a power bottom who loves nothing more than wailing like Donna Summer in "Love to Love You Baby" when doing the wild thing. . LOL! LIFE IS NUTS.
As a straight guy I’ve never had anything better ❤
This is very true! I'm trans-oriented. It's tough dating transwomen though. It's a small demographic and there are dry spells between relationships. There is a lot of effort involved in seeking and dating transwomen in my experience. That said, if there were an element of gayness to this, shouldn't have I given up by now and just gone after men? Nope! Not attracted to men in any way. Doesn't even cross my mind. Still doesn't stop the ignorant from labeling me as gay when they find out. Stupid.
You are eloquently correct !!!
I live in Asia, the world wide center for these women.
I have a precious girlfriend that is more women and feminine that any female I have ever met in "Shithole" California where I relocated from.
Lest we forget, an individual is judged by the content of their character, and the kindness of their heart towards children and all living things.
Coming from an environment of "loveless" societal behavior, to a country of Loving women is almost overwhelming.
Precious Miss Maki is spot on !!!
I am 100% straight and have many gay friends that have absolutely zero attraction to trans women, as I have zero attraction to men.
I refrain from using the word "trans" because in their hearts and souls, they are women and want and need to be treated as such...
@@Jake-u2o Lol ''these women'' they are not even ''female'' so they will never ever have the possibility to become ''women'' you wacko.
Smh.
That's a pretty shmart theory
Now I'm less likely to be turned off by transgenders, you've change my tune towards transgenders...
Treating transgenders as people who are not apart of the human race doesn't seem ok, we can be humane and treat them like women and not like a freak.
Maki, you're an amazing woman with a kind heart. Keep being you. You make the world a better place.
@GohardMg We respect your opinion but the video clearly explains about the extremities. And the video does not wish to change your view about men who are attracted with transwomen, but it is a calling to respect them.
My Ladyboy Date date me to help me understand
thanks for Kinsey...he & his wife were Professors at Indiana University when I grew up in Indianapolis...you've shared a lot of light here...bravo...
I'm gonna have to correct you @ 2:00. While it's true that typically gay men are essentially attracted to men, there _are_ gay men who are also attracted to transgender males. Try to avoid use of the word "transsexual"; it's an outdated term that confuses sexual orientation with gender, which are two different things. Another thing: gay men can be attracted to either masculine or feminine men.
That being said, I enjoyed the video and agree with everything else. I can totally understand any confusion regarding human sexuality, which _can_ _be_ very complicated. It's very important to understand the difference between sex, gender and sexual orientation, which are three completely different (but related) things.
This is a clear eye opener for perplexed straight guys out there about these type of issues and Maki nailed it!
Like I always used to say to all my previous dates, your gender is never defined from the person you are sexually attracted to. It's not about why you love, who you love, when you love, or how you love. What matters most is that you *Love* 😉💖
If you are going to call same sx attraction as gay which it is, obviously, that means you should accept other kind of reality too. Like the real facts.
There is no male that can ever become female and no female that can ever become male. SO.
god she is pretty
Outstanding answer! You had me at the Kinsey studies. I believe if more people were aware of this scale, SO many gender and sexuality "issues" would fall by the wayside.
Fact is a person is either a male or a female since they were inside the womb and there is absolutely no way around it. They will always be the same gender they have been from the months they spent in the mother's womb.
I’m simply a man who simply loves femininity. If a man can be super passable as a woman and is into me? I won’t turn them down. I haven’t found a cute femboi yet but oh when I do..... we will enjoy ourselves! 😁. Good video beautiful!
I'm attracted to trans women, but not at all to men.
But it is a man😭😭
@@jackychan9773 Why is it so hard just to accept someone for who that person is? Some women have penises, just get used to it.
@@rickkinki4624 men have penises
@@rickkinki4624You have a Forest Gump level IQ
@@rickkinki4624"woman"😂
great video and I agree 100%! I and every other trans-oriented guy I know feel the same way. We are not in the least attracted to men, and view tg women as women.
QUESTION: What if a guy already know you are a transsexual but still fell in "love" (or a deeper feeling) with you, is he gay, then?
Only if he takes his loved one's cock in his ass/ isthe bottom; otherwise he's still straight.
before you comment anything, watch the video first please, the video DOES answer many questions that ignorant people ask in the comment section lol
Wow! You have described this better than any I have seen. Most of the guys who explain their attractions are or seem to be very anti gay. Which in itself is not good. I am a gay male who has never had sex with a women. However let me throw this out there.........I could be attracted to a transexual who has not fully transformed. If you are truly in love with someone and are not just sleeping around, what does it matter?
Short answer, no!.. I'm attracted to both woman and trans-woman and have had this conversation with gay male friends that don't understand. A gay man dates men which look like men and don't find trans-woman attractive at all!. I find nothing attractive about men, if so I would date them.. I'm attracted to femininity!.
Makes sense
Yea brother...but I'm in kind of a doubt here after watching videos and reading comments ...
People's saying you're not gay if you're attracted to a trans girl coz you're attracted to the feminine persona of hers . Well honestly that is the case with me too ..but theres more to it ,coz although I've not been in contact with any trans girl in person before but whenever I watched in porns or that kinda stuff I'm kinda attraced to the feminine persona and her male genital parts too.
I'm real confused what does that make me ...
GO Maki!! We love your channel!
Thanks Maki and Cyril for this wonderful and informative video....The passion of you both for helping us transgenders are so inspiring!....God bless you both :-)
im a trans i had a 2 year relationship with a gay man it never seemed straight to me but my current boyfriend this video makes alot of sense as he really seems to act alot like a straight man and treats me like a genuine woman but when he talks about alll his past "women" there all crossdressers
It seems that all of the attractive, masculine men are only attractive to transexuals. This makes me sad.
Men are only attracted to the illusion of women with penises.
That's gay
I would think that men are typically attracted to “trans-women” by way of their faces and bodies. So, a man is just looking at what he believes is to be a cis “woman.” I struggle with this thought that if I was attracted to a trans-woman and then later found out “she” had a penis, I’m not sure how I would react. However, to be attracted to a post-op trans-woman, wouldn’t be a consideration. In most modern societies, a man who enjoys “another” with a penis would normally be considered gay. So, I assume that most straight men openly deny their attraction to trans-women for fear of his peers labeling him as a gay. I struggle with this idea as well. I honestly have no idea how I would react if the “woman” I was falling for had a penis. That doesn’t stop me from enjoying the beauty some trans-women and I hope to actually meet a beautiful trans-woman in the future! ;)
Hi. What are your intentions? Are you christian, good looking, intelligent... Funny.... If yes... Great
I respect every race and gender
What would Maki look like if she had decided to stay male? I can't even imagine what she would look like...Everything about her is just so soft, feminine and...well...female.
If a straight man sees a trans woman as a straight attraction, it's due to the fact he identifies seeing a woman, but to say that it doesn't matter to straight men about the true identity of the genitalia is false. Sorry, it does matter to most straight men. Straight men don't just see women as "eye candy". There is a strong possibility he wants to have relations, and for most straight men they want vagina...sorry, it's the truth! In addition, if a man who identifies himself as being straight and revealed to a straight women that he had relations with a trans women. That woman would most likely consider that man gay. Perception is not only in the form of self-perception. For most straight men, transsexual women are false advertisement and honesty should be practiced to make sure that is what the man truly wants. This could make it hard for trans women because they tend to be attracted to straight men.
catch 22 all around.
I'm bisexual, I like biological men, biological women, and transgender women, anyone else like this?
A good attempt to get to the answer...Heres a truer version...People are not static constants, moods change, feelings change, reasons change, perspectives change, testosterone levels change, the scale you mention can only apply at a particular moment in time and times constanly changing.x
short answer: YES.
Nick young you are completely straight. Only women you like.
@@tabithal8113 i'm actually gay :)
I'm straight and like trans woman
@@John-ng9cr okay....so that's not straight
@@nickyoung1072 so what's does that mean for me. IDK I have only ever dated woman and 2 trans woman.
I have little comprehension for the compulsion most people seem to feel to have to identify as "straight" or "gay". You are either attracted sexually to an individual or you are not, and in my experience it has relatively little to do with whether or not that person comes equipped with a penis or with a vagina. Either of these organs can provide great joy. The two categories that in my opinion define people is whether they are "sexual" or "anti-sexual".
I agree with this video I like women an trans but I’ll never deal wit a masc dude
I'm a 💯 percent straight guy who's attractive to women. No matter what gender, race, or color. When I said gender, I meant if a woman is bisexual, Lesbian, straight, and/or Transgender.
I am sorry but it’s very gay.
As a straight woman I can’t never be attracted to another woman no matter how masculine she looks. The very fact that I know it’s woman is huge turn off for me. Straight men are the same. Most probably men who are attracted to ladyboys are ether gay who don’t want to admit it or bisexual. That’s the view in every single straight woman. I personally can’t have relationship with a man that likes ladyboys. I don’t hate ladyboys, even had one as a friend but I can confirm that there’s always masculine traits in their bodies. So men attracted to them are at least bi.
Reflexez Firstly I am not feminist.
Secondly if you like trans women everything is perfectly fine. Just don’t call it straight attraction because it’s not. I have encountered very masculine lesbians who were attracted to me too. We became friends after we cleared up the situation actually, but the thing is no matter what I would do, I can’t feel the chemistry of the attraction with them. No matter how much I would want it because I think that they would probably understand me better than the most men.
Nevertheless it’s not working and it doesn’t depend on my free will. It’s just my nature to like only men. The same way as the bisexuals like both sexes. Just don’t use the feminism as an excuse for who you really are. It’s just useless. Instead embarrassed it and everything will be just fine. It’s just a matter of taste.
Your opinion is from a female perspective you do not understand how a man's brain works..I think you are wrong but it's ok too have your opinion
This is so true. I think it’s ignorant to think that if u like a T girl then ur gay. How often do u see a gay man with a trans woman? They like men.
how about this for my Christian brothers? We are to love the people who have their sex changed. Jesus loves them, why shouldn't we? In Christ's gospel, he never taught anyone to hate gay men, or to hate gay women, or to hate transsexuals. Its not in the Christian Gospel. There is nothing in Christ's gospel that says that a Christian has license from Jesus Christ to treat them as sinners.
In fact Jesus Christ caught two of his disciples in bed together having anal sex. He told his 12 closest that those two disciples will have a place in his Father's Kingdom. Truth be told, our Lord probably didn't think of "orientation" as more than his commandment to love one another as he loved us.
Elton Robb I have to check that one. I believe in a God that sees us all for who we are too.
Jesus knew three disciples who are gay. I know all three of them. Two I am sure of are Barnabas and John Mark, who were a couple. The third . . . I'll keep his identity a secret, but it is someone very close to Jesus.
Elton Robb Religion!!!!!!!!!!!!
+Elton Robb Wow, what on earth are you talking about? Jesus never caught two of his disciples having anal sex in bed, none of his disciples ever discussed sexuality (most likely they were all straight) and Jesus himself was himself likely asexual because he praised eunuchs who were "born that way - asexuality or choose to live that way - celibacy" sounds like you're some bad troll. Also most hatred towards trans people doesn't even come from the religious. Non-religious are also intolerant still towards them because they don't understand issues like gender identity. Where in your doctrine does it teach to hate all religious people for the actions of a few?
dsadasds, our Christ did find two of his disciples having anal sex. There is nothing in his gospel where it says that society should persecute homosexuals, in fact, he promised these two that they would have a place in his Father's kingdom.
The celibacy part was edited in by the New Testament editors and writers. They could not conceive how Jesus himself could condone two homosexuals in a relationship.
Great Job on your explanation. I think you were 100 percent on target with that thought process. You are also very beautiful woman
This is 100% true indeed
hi
Akira Ahu Maipi hi
This is very straight and very understandable Informative Video ! Thumbs up for you ate Maki ! Go for it !
THIS WAS INFORMATIVE!
Hi Maki. Thanks for the explanation. I agree 100% with you.
very true. i love tsgirls but have no interest in guys and i'm straight.
Your gay
@@curlyred9604 😂
@@curlyred9604 u too 😂
defining sexuality through labels is a losing cause. you could end up with a different label for each individual along with sub labels within labels. the combinations are endless. black, white, straight, gay,bi,pansexual the fact is sexuality in itself is defined by the individual and just as their viewpoint on life itself. its what makes each person unique. attraction doesn't follow guidelines based on gender or race.
Maki, well said and right on the mark. I think ts women are very beautiful, but I have no interest in other men.
I definitely would call myself straight. I hope to find a ts woman for a ltr.
Have a great day everyone!
I enjoy looking at MTFs that look exactly like girls, but with male organs. Looking at men, who look like men? Turn off. Despite enjoying looking at beautiful Mtfs, I don't want to have sex with them. Because I know they're biologically males. I just stick with fantasizing about them being bio girls (with something dangling)
Thx! I needed to hear this.
speaking as a male with both a woman and a t-gurl as current poly lovers. NO dating a t-gurl is doesn't make you gay, makes you lucky cause mines vary talented and appreciative, but not gay. what was the source of attraction was her desire to do whatever it took to be accepted and grateful to be accepted.
thanks for the clarification. you explain very clear and interesting!
As a straight man, the vast majority of transsexual women I’ve seen aren’t passable enough for me to feel any attraction towards them, but there was one exception… and I can recall after he told me he was actually born a male, I felt like there was something wrong with me for thinking this person was hot, but then it dawned on me:
This guy went to extraordinary lengths to take on all of the attributes that men love most about women (i.e.: long hair, petite figure, nice breasts, smooth skin, teeny-tiny belly showing off, high heels, etc).
I got to thinking that a male who really wants to look like a woman is probably going to try harder to look feminine and sexy than an authentic woman who, knowing what she is, realizes she doesn’t have to try so hard.
I didn’t feel at all gay because the second he told me he was a transsexual, none of his physically feminine characteristics mattered anymore. At that point, there's just nothing else that can be done because physical sex with this man was impossible.
You mean she -- not "he" - had not had the operation?
@@carlgrove8793 he
The thing that bothers me is society says we have to respect our significant other if they engaged into sexual activities with another person of the same sex. Or at least this what I see in most movies. Instead of them getting filled with hate or jealousy they befriend the ones who cheated on them just because they came out of the closet.
Male: Trans woman, man.
Female: Trans man, woman.
I took a orientation continuum test and I ended up straight not gay at all. Just because a man dates a trans woman, doesn't mean he's gay even though they are of the same sex. Personally I don't agree with the lifestyle, but to each his own.
Incorrect. Sorry, you got zero out of two correct!
literally homosexual = same sex
Thank you for making these informative videos. They have helped me understand my attraction to my friend that is a very beautiful trans woman.
Happy the hear that our video helps a lot. :)
Human sexuality is fluid
Her outlook and opinions on this subject are spot on, I consider myself hetero but would love to date a trans woman, only thing really stopping me is my location as most who represent well are in the big cities. I stay away from the hustle and bustle of those lol!
I think i´m in love. Oh, and thanks for the video!
I really don't care if I'm considered gay or not but I have always been fascinated with trans women and never considered myself gay. If other people want to say I'm gay so be it, I have a lot of kids for a gay guy
IM A PROUD TRANSGENDER FROM PHILIPPINES ... I SALUTE YOU MAKI FOR YOUR VIDEOS :)
+GROZNAYA what ?
Cute
My transgender girlfriend I accept her for who she is for the person she is I fell in love with her because she is the most lovely nice person I've ever known
I'm attracted to femininity, call it what you will... Female, shemale, gay, bi, whatever... so tired of labels... ;-)
+Bob Sturgess I totally agree!!!
NIGGA YOU GAY
GO GET A LIFE U PIECE OF SHIT!
+Bob Sturgess Yeah broad shoulders, deep voice, large hands, big feet, balls and dick are very feminine
+linus karlshammar
These features can easily be overlooked if this 'caricature' that you have brought up identifies as female. You lose, and I the romancer of transexuals wins!!!
I'm attracted to a female who can put me in my place, and teach me to respect
No ur the man
Theres no such thing as gay, lesbian or transgender.. Its ppl indulging in sensuality.. Taadaa
Very nice talk. You are very articulate, right and pretty. Your boy friend is very lucky. The problem with straight guys falling in love with transgender girls who have not had operations is that when loving making the plumbing does become an issue. Sometimes fantasy is not reality.
I agree with u 110%...
Thank you :)
Hi Maki!! uhm, can I ask you something? whats the advisable undergarment would be used for those starting trans like me, i dont know what to wear like the size of bra,..I think we got the same physisal features, what do you use?
A male, like you lol, should wear male undergarments and other kinda male clothing. A male is not a female, so accept that female clothing is ONLY for females, male clothing is ONLY for males.
Hi beautiful where does the orientation of a man who finds a CD attractive🙋😇..
A crossdresser isn't a third gender nor are they a woman, if they identify as a man and you also identify as a man, you are gay, or bisexual if you also like women.
Hes still straight becouse hes looking at a representation of a woman.
Technically, scientifically it is homosexual by definition. A lot of people just don't want to admit it. Ultimately it makes no difference.
Short answer: yes
Long answer: yes
Your family will think you're gay and you can explain all you want but they will never understand. It's frustrating but expect it to happen.
I dont feel gay :)
I agree to a certain extent. If its a post op that is convincing enough to pass for a pretty girl it is a heterosexual attraction. However speaking from experience with pre-op transsexual porn that attraction for me is instantly shattered the moment her pants come off.
True. I'm super straight and I love ladyboys. Dated one from Cebu and one from Pattaya. I stopped worrying about retarded labels years ago. Get what you want. Stop caring about what people say. You only live one time. Ladyboys are great.
You gay bro not straight
@@Mr.Harris2007 Ha. Exactly why are you on this page?? Maybe you have some attractions you are unsure of? Maybe a little confused about your sexuality?? Don't worry bruh. Doesn't mean you're gay. Guaranteed 90 present of straight men in the west will be mind blown when they meet their first ladyboy. Been there, done that. As I said. If you like ladyboys, you are straight. And if they like you, you are not just straight, you are a badass Spartan. Ladyboys don't fuck around with cucks or incels. They like real men. Validates their feminiity. If you think you may like them, try it out. They won't let you down. 👍
Exactly, you only live once, everyone should mind their own business, as long as nothing illegal is done I see no issues.
@@Mr.Harris2007 but he's not attracted to masculinity, so he's not gay.
@@kbanghart you joking right , you gotta be or delusional
Hmmm, depends on the situation. If the guy thought the "girl" was a GIRL upon meeting "her" without knowing anything else...then technically no. If then he knew that the "girl" had or still has a penis and has sex with "her" anyway..then YES. Because what he's getting isn't biologically a girl, but a boy. Having a sexual relationship with a person that has the same WORKING equipment is by definition homosexual despite what maybe going on upstairs in the transgenders head.
That's a lie. I'm 100% straight and I know plenty of people who are 100% straight
Love your video Maki and you're a beautiful woman! I'll have to check out your other informative videos.
i am very attracted to transwomen...
Me to is what I like I will never date a straight women ever again
Congrats, you’re gay
I met someone in that dating site traveling to the Philippines on July to meet her .
I've been video chatting with her for the past 3 or 4 months ive always been attracted to transwomen but was always afraid of what my family friends would say . Im 48 she is 29 she is simply gorgeous the way she thinks geart ❤ i can't wait to meet her .
And im not planning on traveling there all the time i want to bring her back .
I love this video:) I am attracted to Transgender woman they are beautiful :)
It's a good explanation but sometimes there is more to it than just attraction. My ex broke up with me (cis women) because he finds transsexuals extremely attractive, watches transsexual porn and even wants to pursue going to a prositute for it. Not only that, but he might be considering cross dressing too. So in his situation it's almost as if he is confused with his gender identity...
Has he come out as trans since then? Was he on the spectrum?
You are very pretty 😊
I'm a straight man & I totally love Trans Women they R very Beautiful
It's a gateway to the gay lifestyle.
gay = fucking a dude
trans = dude trying to appear as a woman
just fucking a dude in the end, admit it (pun intended)
Thanks for posting, This answered a lot of my questions
Trans women are women. You don't need a 4 minute video with Kinsey quotations to explain this as if trans women are an alien species.
Look at the comments. Not many understand it EVEN after watching this video
no they are not, i want to be a shark ... no matter how hard i pretend im not a shark.
Dave Kenzie That is very true Dave Kenzie , because most of us are define by culture and all there comments are based on what they were taught while growing up.
My Ladyboy Date I agree 100%
Well I am Attracted to her shamelessly LOL
Thanks for this video!!!! Guys hope it enlightened your mind.
It did. Especially the comments section, so now I will enlighten a transexual's ass with my huge penis!
@@GROZNAYA lmao
The likes bar is at 666... Just creepy, all im saying.
Thank you for sharing this information, I met a great woman, I admire her a lot we many common deaf, and stuff, I am glad to sign up your site so I can learn more, but no need for me look for relationship. But education myself to treat our relationship success. Again thank you for have subtitle on video. Much Help!
I think a subtile is surely not a bad Idea, will look into it on our next video :)
you're so beautiful
Is it gay to like them for their feminine features?
That's not tru its gay
Love ladyboys
You're wrong about one thing. I am 100 percent straight. You said that nobody was.
very informative video sis :)