LET'S TALK | TRANSPARENCY | LEARNING TO BE HONEST
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.พ. 2025
- Hey my lovelies,
So I thought i'd come to you with a topic which is deep on my heart. If you've been watching then you know i've been opening up a lot more to you all and wanted to talk to you guys about the importance of honesty and transparency, not only for the sake of the world but for your own self.
Remember, someones ability to fight on it locked up in knowing that you fought the same fight and you won.
I love you all x
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"sometimes people need to see your scars to see that you have healed" I like that
Hey everyone 🙋🏾! I hope you enjoy this video, it's a topic that's very close to my heart ❤️ Let's start breaking this culture of silent suffering x
Courtney Daniella I agree 100% that there are different standards with regards to who is allowed to openly show their hurt and who must always remain strong, especially if that person is usually strong and confident. People tend to to think that there should be no reason why that person is hurt and that they have nothing to complain about as their life is great. The truth is: everybody hurts sometimes. #song reference
with everything you have said i totally agree with you. I'm the kind of person who keeps things in, because I'm afraid that what i say may hurt someone or take it certain way. But I'm working on it. Thanks for making this video by the way. Stay blessed beautiful.
My grandma used to say - if you don't pick up that cocoa butter to moisture your skin, in the long run your skin is going to get ashy- meaning if you don't take time to preserve, pamper, treat, be honest to yourself about what you are going through, in the long run it might eat away your confidence, self-love, your mental/physical state... because you haven't taken the time to have a date with your self to check upon yourself. And be comfortable uncomfortable meaning these issues you haven't addressed with yourself and you find it awkward tackle it head one with the right help. (I think I went off on a tangent lool sorry but I hope it makes sense )
The truth will set you free...truly. Another amazing video!
ALSOOOO, shoutout to this romantic set up yeah 🌞🌞🌞
I'm loving the set up!
wow, you are speaking volumes!!
YESSSS !! Keep Sharing and I encourage the openness ! We appreciate it because it helps people get to the other side!
Thank you Courtney for this video! Today at church my pastor was reading from John 5 where Jesus healed a disabled man by telling him to get up and walk and take his mat (which he had sat on for 38yrs) with him. And he spoke about the significance of Jesus' order to take the mat was so that the man would forever be reminded of where God brought him from. Watching your video reconfirmed this for me as transparency helps to remind ourself and others about the power of God in our lives as he has rescued and healed us from so many things in the past. Thank you xxx
We love you Courtney Daniella!! ❤ You starting a TH-cam channel was one of the best decisions ever!!
theres something thats soo comforting when you talk its like when my mum use to put me to sleep as a child if you get me
Dear Black YT content creators of all genders, sexualities, ethnicities and cultural identities.
Do not be discouraged, ashamed, or apprehensive to create content that is for the joy or mental health of Black people primarily.
Never dilute your content for misguided,selfish demands of inclusivity and intersectionality.
We need our spaces, we need our content, we need our platforms and forums. Be unapologetic in the content you create for your people.
We appreciate and love you.
Black mental health matters. Black joy matters.
Thank You sis, stay blessed!
Quiana J i love this! Exactly why i started because I haven't seen a YT like me! This has really encouraged me! ❤️
AMENNN !
I can't. My spirit is just on fire right now. This is the reason I started my channel! I was even talking to my friend yesterday about doing a video like this & then your video pops up, that's mad. God is working. Transparency is defo a taboo, especially in the black community. "Why you spread your business to other people" 😒 that phrase really did a number on me once a upon a time. So I'm glad you are spreading the need to break the silence ❤️❤️🙌🏾
Kara Amartey yep I can sure relate with the "why are you spreading you're business" saying from our people. Those type of people that we grow up with makes focus on what others would think of you, and neglect yourself.
Realist youtuber ✨
Thank you for saying this. These are some of the reasons why I personally went to therapy. My parents are Jamaican and they don't believe in talking about 'family business' with people outside of the family. For me, it came down to keeping to those rules or dealing with my depression by talking to someone about it. I decided to break their rules and live. I honestly think that if I didn't do that, I would have died via suicide. God is good.
this video came on time for me.
one weakness for me is lack of transparency (lack of truty to oneself)
thank you for this
I really appreciate you making this video. You speak with such eloquent wisdom! Definitely motivation to break down barriers. I believe that in order to accomplish life goals, overall, that an individual must always reflect upon and improve themselves. It all starts with transparency. Showing love to a fellow Ghana girl across the pond. Keep posting🔥
I have been thinking a lot about the topic of transparency recently. and I really agree- sometimes even if you feel as though telling the truth is going to make you vulnerable and 'weak', the courage that it took to be honest will always override those feelings and empower you in a way that you didnt think was possible. And sometimes bottling up the feelings that you have can be more detrimental than setting them free and relieving that pressure on your mind. ❤
Transparency is very underrated! A lot of the time its what helps others through their struggles. Lovely vid xx
Great video Courtney! (as usual!) I personally found freedom in transparency and started a podcast years ago (a website is in the works) that allowed me to be transparent beyond my little person and my direct entourage. "Tell the truth, shame the devil! ". I quickly realized that speaking out even furthered my healing process and gave my audience an opportunity to reflect on similar situations that they may have gone through. I am always elated to read messages from people saying they could relate to what I was talking about and that what I shared helped them in a way or another. Being transparent also shed light on my God given mission/purpose and I could not be happier with where I am in my life right now. Lastly (and most importantly), the whole thing helped improve my relationship with Jesus even more. My goal in life is to serving the Lord the best I can because everything else is provided through this service! Stay blessed!
it's amazing that whenever you upload a video it resonates so snuggly with my situation. You help me so much ❤
That point on all your activities being connected to you and your health (emotional/physical) is so important - I remember feeling overwhelmed last year about tests and realising I needed to take time for focus on me and re-centre myself before focusing on anything else. Keep coming with the wisdom CD, it's so necessary :)
Literally love you so much , always speaking wise & encouraging words 💖💖
Nothing but the Holy Spirit which you have cherished and nourished was speaking through you in this video. You spoke with such clarity and confidence, expressing new ideas and perspectives. I just really appreciate how well you delivered your message in this video. It truly spoke to me and I couldn't help but share it with others.
You're channel has blown up recently! I love love love the topic of this video! ❤❤
when im feeling low,i just watch your videos & i feel better i love you Courtney plsss continue to bless us with your wisdom ❤️️
You're really speaking to me right now. I've been in situations where the fear of being perceived as weak prevented me from opening up about some really pressing issues and it affected me so badly. It's so important to overcome that fear and to seek the help we need
Transparency = major 🔑 ! You're so right about not telling everyone everything though! Gotta do it with wisdom 👌🏼 loving the setup also girl ❤
I think God is speaking to me left, right and center! I've been hearing this message all week!
It's so true, the only way you can be free from any type of hold on your life is by opening up about your insecurities. and believing in Jesus of course!
God bless you beautiful Courtney!!!
Her videos are always so close to home and refreshing. One of my favourite youtubers ✨
If I could like this a million times I would! In this 14 minute 30 second video you have spoken some of the greatest truths known to man. I agree that being honest with yourself is essential. Unfortunately I have been too transparent in my life & opened up to the wrong people 😔 so thank you for warning us about that. But transparency executed with WISDOM is the key to mental, emotional & spiritual freedom. Glory to God & well done sis for another incredible video 💜 xxx
The Spirit is One! I've had this on my heart too - God bless you!!
URGH ! This topic is everythinggg. Totally agree with what you said and thank you so much for sharing x
I love your videos so much! You always cheer me up xx
Freya Preston ❤️❤️
I love you! There is just something unique about you. Beautiful spirit of humility and sincerity! We can tell when someone is conduct by the spirit of God because your presence is so heartwarming. Thanks for your obedience to God.
"You missed the whole beauty of my transparency" woo gurl you got me in the feels
Courtney! you're truly a gem. I needed this, thank you xx
This video really allowed me to reflect and put me in a state of mind where I can grow. Thank you Courtney 🙏🏾✨
i always relate to your videos, thank u again for putting these out dere, i know i for one have struggled with this alot, started my journey to a becoming a better version of my self about 6 months ago. everyday is a struggle, so thank u cos i sincerly felt i was alone, nd i was d only one dt felt that way.
This was soo beautifully said! ❤❤
Yay another vid Courtney, my fav youtuber :) xxx
Already know I'll love this video💗💗
Love your videos, so inspiring and motivational
TH-cam need a '❤' button, thumbs up just isn't enough for this video!!!! ❤❤you are such an inspiration!!!
I always look forward to watching your videos , they are very inspiring ✨
God bless you so much for this video !💕 Small reminder to myself and a lot of other people I'm sure
i love your videos, always looking forward to them
I love your mind! You actually make me proud! Keep it up! Men sisa enma obiaa! Wuy3 more! ❤️
Loved this!!!!❤
Beautifully done!.
Can't wait for you to hit 20 THOUSAND subscribers. Like wow. I feel like i say this in every video of yours that i comment on lol
Love these kind of video's mental health has no race or culture. It's important to communicate and have the necessary support! Great video ❤👍👍
Notification squaaaaaaad!! xxxx
new subscriber! :) loved this video!! meet you on imani's channel ! just loveeee you guys!! God bless you love bug! keep going !!
Lovely. 💛
Who in Hades can give this a thumb down? Anyway another amazing gem as always ❤️✌🏿❤️
Courtneyyyy, you are always looking amazing even without the glitz and glam. I wanted to ask, where did you get your robe from :)
People who open up about stuff they've gone through have a lesser chance to hurt other people.deep words
I wish you want to my school, you'd be an amazing guide through the struggles.
THIS VIDEO SAYS IT ALL
I DONT KNOW U BUT I LOVE YOU!!!
FIRST!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Can't wait to watch 😉💕
yourstrulyvals 🎉🎉🎉
Quick question, there's this guy who's heard my past and still wants to be with me. Should I be worried?!
You're so amazing
Thank you
Hasan bin 'Ali (May Allah be pleased with them) said:
I remember (these words) from Messenger of Allah (ﷺ): "Give up what is doubtful to you for that which is not doubtful; for truth is peace of mind and falsehood is doubt".
[At- Tirmidhi].
Love your videos :)
Good video keep it up
Hey Courtney- thanks for the vid, also slightly off topic but what's the Christian Union like at Cambridge? xx
Can I just ask.. when you were studying for your GCSEs did you ever get these occasional feelings where u got overwhelmed and thought of it differently like you suddenly didn't think you could do it at all?