“I Don’t Think That’s a Good Idea”

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  • @breestevensplanalifeyoulov4203
    @breestevensplanalifeyoulov4203 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    So you solved a 30 day problem with a 30 year problem 😂 gold!

    • @annapatton4544
      @annapatton4544 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      yeah, they did not have time to find an apartment to rent, but had time to find a house to buy and finance it. WOW

    • @tashad2201
      @tashad2201 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I definitely will be using that saying somehow cuz it was that good.

    • @neneian3286
      @neneian3286 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dropping the MIC!!

  • @marymccann6110
    @marymccann6110 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    She has that giggle that says, "I have no life experience and I think nothing bad can ever happen to me. La la la..."

    • @superblump87
      @superblump87 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sounds like something to share with your therapist.

    • @gmarie3053
      @gmarie3053 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It sounds like a nervous giggle. I’ve been in her position; when you know he has no plans to marry you.

  • @mxerb5912
    @mxerb5912 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    No company would let their company car be used by a significant other for personal use. She’s not being honest about it

    • @jimmymcgill6778
      @jimmymcgill6778 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Lots of people use a company car for personal use.

    • @RRK1
      @RRK1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I’ve had a company car for over 20 years. You can add your spouse as a driver to the car if you pay a little more per month for the car. I can only think of 5 times where that actually happened as it never happens where she needs to drive my car.

    • @MrClassicmetal
      @MrClassicmetal 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@jimmymcgill6778 Yes, they use their company car for personal use. It's OK to do that depending on the type of contract you have. It's a different story when they let someone _else_ drive their company car.

    • @jimmymcgill6778
      @jimmymcgill6778 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@MrClassicmetal Sounds like they both work at the company. And she is also covered under the policy for that car.

    • @user-mv9tt4st9k
      @user-mv9tt4st9k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I knew an employee whose wife got into an accident using the husband's company car. It was messy: There was no insurance to cover her because it was determined that she was using the car for personal use, and the company cars were for company-related use only. Lawsuits were filed and he ended up leaving the company.
      Not all companies are okay with employee's using the company car for personal errands. 😕

  • @BaconMountainMan
    @BaconMountainMan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    They've literally purchased everything together, but they're not ready to get married. I get not rushing into marriage.... But, goodness.

    • @stephengamber7000
      @stephengamber7000 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Next thing they'll start having kids together, but still won't get married

    • @1stLtDavis
      @1stLtDavis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Somebody doesn’t want to. Probably him. There’s just something about being married. It’s just so different from even buying a big house. People do this all the time when they don’t really want to be married to the other one and they still want to feel like they have 1 foot out even if they really don’t legally because they on all this crapp.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@1stLtDavis
      Signing a government marriage contract and/or having kids is very different than buying a home.
      My girlfriend and I already owned homes before we met in 2001 in our 30s and paid off over 15 years ago completely debt free.
      Didn’t need to “feel” like we were married because we never wanted to get married.
      With things like no fault there’s already a foot out anyway with plenty of drama and financial loss in the courts.

  • @fabricmofan24
    @fabricmofan24 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    This entire situation is ridiculous. These people kill me 😂😂

  • @kbere4142
    @kbere4142 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    I dated a lifelong friend for a couple years. My whole family is very pro marriage and I was very uncomfortable dating an extended period. He wanted to go to every fancy dinner, every fancy trip, treat me like a queen, buy me gifts, move in together, etc etc etc, but didn’t want to get married until some indefinite period of time. I told him I could not play marriage with him or move in with him without marriage. We broke up, and I met my husband later on that year. Married 4 months later and I’ve never been happier. My husband never bought me all the stuff or took me to all those places, but he didn’t have to. Marriage and a family is what I wanted, and he’s exactly what I needed.
    Even good men/women have commitment issues. Don’t stay in dead end relationships, even if they seem good. If you want a marriage, all the other stuff will never be enough.

    • @John3.36
      @John3.36 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Hard to change from lifelong friend to lover.

    • @kbere4142
      @kbere4142 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@John3.36 this is very true!!!

    • @oshkoshbegone
      @oshkoshbegone 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Broke up with someone you were willing to marry and then married some other guy within the year after 4 months of knowing each other? You just ready to get married to anything hey.

    • @kbere4142
      @kbere4142 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@oshkoshbegone I think that’s a more common tale than you realize. Are you married?

    • @oshkoshbegone
      @oshkoshbegone 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @kbere4142 soon to be, probably.

  • @ethor747
    @ethor747 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    That man ain’t marrying her he and his company car are driving away as we speak 😂😂😂😂

  • @1stLtDavis
    @1stLtDavis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    One of them doesn’t want to be married. Period. When you whittle down to it, it’s almost always that.

  • @9liveslisa
    @9liveslisa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I think using a company car for personal use is stealing. She doesn't have permission to drive it. They aren't telling the company because the company would probably say no. There are usually regulations when they give someone a company car and I'm pretty sure letting the girlfriend use it for her use is not allowed. The reason they have regulations is because people do this kind of stuff.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Could be non-imputed income.
      As part of your compensation package,
      the car is leased for you as a Personal car.
      Like paid for housing.

    • @loriej9297
      @loriej9297 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yep - she made that up when she realized they were about to tell her it was risky to both of them for HER to drive HIS company car.

    • @Manihsi
      @Manihsi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She’s begging for trouble

  • @SebastianNoah5e
    @SebastianNoah5e 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +276

    I think investors should always put their cash to work, especially In 2024, we'll start to see more market diversification. I'm hoping to invest about $350k of my savings in stocks against next year. Hope to make millions in 2024

    • @JulianBenjamin3d
      @JulianBenjamin3d 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Since risk is at an all-time high right now, perhaps you should be a little more patient and return when it has decreased. Alternatively, you can consult a trained financial expert for strategy.

    • @RubyOliverm5l
      @RubyOliverm5l 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes true, I have been in touch with a brokerage Advisor. With an initial starting reserve of $80k, my advisor chooses the entry and exit commands for my portfolio, which has grown to approximately $550k.

    • @SofiaJames9H
      @SofiaJames9H 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’ve been looking to switch to an advisor for a while now. Any help pointing me to who your advisor is?

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      @RubyOliverm5l 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

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    • @SofiaJames9H
      @SofiaJames9H 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I searched for her full name online, found her page, and sent an email to schedule a meeting. Hopefully, she responds soon. Thank you

  • @Camera_Operator
    @Camera_Operator 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Safer to just keep the car to yourself. In case the relationship ends and go separate ways, you'll at least have your own car.

  • @themacker894
    @themacker894 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I'm a business owner and both of your hosts are quite naive. It doesn't matter what coverage she has on the "company car." Things are going to go south very quickly for her boyfriend's company and for her if she gets into an accident, and that would be as soon as the other party learns it's a "company car." What's going to end up happening when the lawyers get involved is that she'll discover she was not authorized to drive that car and the employer's insurance company will deny coverage. Her tiny (standard) insurance maximums will be met in a heartbeat and she and the boyfriend's company will be in hot water. The boyfriend's employer will then sue her and she'll have two lawsuits to contend with. The train wreck starts with moving an irresponsible boyfriend into the home and pretending to be married. What a mess.

    • @ruthirwin8222
      @ruthirwin8222 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You are so right, she is very insecure

    • @sinclairw5311
      @sinclairw5311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      They’re employed by the same company but I still don’t believe for a second that she’s covered to drive his company car. Risk not worth the disaster here but people enjoy playing with fire trying to save a few dollars.

    • @michelleh4717
      @michelleh4717 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she said she has coverage for driving the car but they probably didn't challenge her too much on it

  • @eurekahope5310
    @eurekahope5310 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    We bought a house together because our lease was expiring. It is much easier to find a rental than than a permanent home.

    • @topsykretts2264
      @topsykretts2264 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Just because you can do it, it doesn’t mean you should even if the relationship worked out. Don’t get in legal things together and act like a married couple when you’re not yet. Lol.

    • @jeffreyowens9487
      @jeffreyowens9487 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Some people don't believe in marriage.

    • @greggpurviance7252
      @greggpurviance7252 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Some people are unwise

    • @jamesmoody9363
      @jamesmoody9363 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      JOHN 14:6😊

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jeffreyowens9487Some people are idiots.

  • @steelcastle5616
    @steelcastle5616 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Don't sell your car because you'll need it.
    When the company finds out you're putting them at risk and using a high-value asset for your personal use -- he'll be fired.
    Then your boyfriend can use your car to find another job.

    • @strangeroamer3219
      @strangeroamer3219 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not if he takes one of those work from home jobs. No need to commute.

    • @steelcastle5616
      @steelcastle5616 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@strangeroamer3219 She still needs to commute though. And with the debt she's bringing into the "marriage", she needs to get to work.

  • @1whical
    @1whical 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    5 bucks she doesn't listen to any of their advice

    • @hollystiener16
      @hollystiener16 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      100 bucks!

    • @thebossdawghomie
      @thebossdawghomie 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have $105 for each of you, because you are intelligent human beings.

  • @dearestdarling9467
    @dearestdarling9467 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    It is utterly illogical to buy a house with a boyfriend/girlfriend. Just beyond.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If the title is Joint Tenancy, it is Joint Tenancy married or Not married.

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Marriage is illogical as well.

  • @joesmith3590
    @joesmith3590 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Americans be crazy. Buying a home or having a child is fine but marriage is a scary commitment.

    • @Bethelgal42
      @Bethelgal42 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We have created a "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" cesspool of a culture and it's sad and destroying America.

    • @DJRiyzen
      @DJRiyzen 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Been married for over a decade. Best decision of my life. I spend everyday, with my bestfriend. 😁

    • @teev7
      @teev7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@DJRiyzenIt was the best decision for me as well. My husband and I have been married for over two decades now.

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@DJRiyzendid you have to be married to spend every day with him?

  • @marystein-rangel6565
    @marystein-rangel6565 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    amen, bring it Dr. John

  • @cyoohoos
    @cyoohoos 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He’s not marrying her

  • @pklemm1
    @pklemm1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Why wouldn’t she just use his personal car and he uses his company car? Am I missing something??

    • @user-mv9tt4st9k
      @user-mv9tt4st9k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Maybe he does not have a personal car. 😂😂

    • @annapatton4544
      @annapatton4544 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@user-mv9tt4st9k she said he does. She drives his company car while he drives his personal car.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That’s easy.
      The company car is probably newer and looks nicer.

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@annapatton4544He should be driving the company car, not her.

    • @annapatton4544
      @annapatton4544 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BlueDauntless oh, I absolutely agree

  • @rj-lx9yt
    @rj-lx9yt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If she must drive one of the cars, drive the boyfriends personal car. Let him drive the company car.

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Jade: "does he have any debt?"
    Caller: "no he does not"
    Jade: "o.k. you need to get married this weekend" as both laugh as it's SO obvious this is what to do!

    • @linuxsurfer2002
      @linuxsurfer2002 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      They are already "playing married", they should go ahead and actually do it.

    • @eurekahope5310
      @eurekahope5310 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They both use the appliances and home so that is already joint debt.

    • @user-mv9tt4st9k
      @user-mv9tt4st9k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      At the end of the call when Jade was outlining how after they are married the caller's debt becomes "their debt," it clearly explained why he is not marrying her. If they break up they sell the house and split whatever equity minus mortgage owed, and she walks away with HER debts.

    • @1stLtDavis
      @1stLtDavis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He doesn’t want to get married. And he won’t. Don’t worry. Men aren’t afraid of marriage if they’re actually in love (or actually bamboozled).

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-mv9tt4st9kBut let’s say she gets angry when this ends. And stops paying on the house and appliances. That’s their joint debt. She can do that and screw HIM over in the process. And nothing can really be done because they aren’t married. If they were, the law will clearly define how to split assets and there’s recourse if she doesn’t play by the rules.
      This happened to my mom. She and her live in boyfriend broke up. It was his house, so we had to share an air mattress in a friend’s apartment for a few months before she got her own house. They bought a fifth wheel and a boat together. I don’t remember what happened to the fifth wheel. Probably sold it. But the boat was stored in a marina a few hours away. Her name was on the boat, because her credit was better, and they came after her when he stopped making the payments on it. (She had better credit, but he had the better income.) It was a nightmare to get him to agree to either sell it or get her name off of it.

  • @kendrapratt2098
    @kendrapratt2098 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    5:23 Love John’s question here!

  • @FrankS111
    @FrankS111 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    We all know they aren’t getting married

  • @FancyRPGCanada
    @FancyRPGCanada 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This episode made me phone up the marriage commissioner and get married to my common law husband, now legal husband, within 30 days of first watching it 😂

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations on the marriage

  • @victorgarza3836
    @victorgarza3836 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Scary how fast they want people to
    Get married

    • @robloxvids2233
      @robloxvids2233 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The sooner they get married the sooner that guy can tell them to get divorced because "that's not a marriage."

  • @bcusaaus4749
    @bcusaaus4749 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Jade cracks me up😂 she is so real! Love when she’s on. When does she get her own show ?

    • @mhodge0890
      @mhodge0890 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Soon

    • @jazzad
      @jazzad 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Let's be sarcastic and say, as soon as George resigns. If I were him I wouldn't stay in a company where my boss publicly rolled me in the mud.

    • @scottw9629
      @scottw9629 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@jazzadwhat happened and when?

  • @TheFinanceZone
    @TheFinanceZone 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They are so intense lol. She can sell the car and save the money and then buy another if she ever needs to in literally less than 24 hours. She'll save money from the monthly payments and insurance and even get $5k equity from her car. I just don't understand how the risk outweighs that, because even if they did break up she can just get another car

    • @topsykretts2264
      @topsykretts2264 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just because you can do it, it doesn’t mean you should even if the relationship worked out. Don’t get in legal things together and act like a married couple when you’re not yet. Lol.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@topsykretts2264 Don’t get into NON- legal things together.
      if John, Bill and Susan own property as joint tenancy with right of survivorship, and Susan sells her share to Ann, Ann is not included in the joint tenancy and can will her share to her heir. Yet, if John dies, his share goes to Bill.
      How will the property be held, The Title?
      I owned a house, I added my new wife as
      Community Property with rights of survivorship.
      She had to sign docs that said she wish to be a Co-owner.

    • @strangeroamer3219
      @strangeroamer3219 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are assuming that everything is going to go smoothly and she's not going to get into an accident. In that case, she can take the risk and hope it all goes well.

  • @songsjj
    @songsjj 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sell the house and appliances to get rid of the joint debt. DO NOT run out and get married just to clean up a home title and some debt.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If the title is Joint Tenancy, it is Joint Tenancy married or Not married.
      If the title is tenants in common, then pay $30 and change it to joint tenancy like a married couple.

    • @sinclairw5311
      @sinclairw5311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THIS

  • @SnowOwlCNY
    @SnowOwlCNY 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s not clear that marriage fixes the situation. They have mixed assets but:
    * She has debt (credit card, car, school, medical debt, etc.).
    * Both are on the house loan.
    * he has no other debt.
    Is the deed in both of their names? The problem is if goes sideways the house is an issue. If they marry all her debt becomes their debt. If she decides to leave after being married he’s now owner of half her debt. Sell the house, or put it in one persons name where that person pays all the house bills.
    Get married if that is what they really want.

  • @LeeG260
    @LeeG260 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow!!! "Go get married this weekend" Start another show, please.

  • @jacoblynch9862
    @jacoblynch9862 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I may have missed it but I did not hear what happens if she gets rid of her car then he for whatever reason loses his job and loses that company car. How are either of them gonna get to work and or find another job

    • @sinclairw5311
      @sinclairw5311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He has his own car too

  • @user-mv9tt4st9k
    @user-mv9tt4st9k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That is a very bad idea. Not using her personal verhicle is a CHOICE. Is the company on board with an employee's significant other using a company car as a personal vehicle? For many companies, that answer is "No."
    Buying a house together is a bad idea when people are not married. I have seen home ownership, rental leases, and car co-signatures go far south. There is no protecting her, he is the one who will be screwed.😊

    • @annapatton4544
      @annapatton4544 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The company I work for often pays for cars for employees (rentals, not leases though) and all employees who are not even given cars have to sign an agreement as a part of the hiring process with all the do's and don'ts about driving a company provided vehicle and driving in general while being "on the clock" for business purposes. Recently they sent a few of us to another state for a few weeks and gave us a few cars. One co-worker that I had a matching schedule with was told to carpool with me. And since the car was provided under my name, no chance in the world I was going to let him drive even to the gas station. No lectures were read to me, no one even said a word about it. It has to be common sense!

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can buy the house, then add the GF to the title.
      If the title is Joint Tenancy, it is Joint Tenancy married or Not married.

  • @sinclairw5311
    @sinclairw5311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely keep your car. Marriage is different discussion not related to the question asked.

  • @mistiinseattle
    @mistiinseattle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He is not going to marry her with all that debt

  • @e7gomez538
    @e7gomez538 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Pressuring someone into marriage is not it. But like Dave say’s, “Paint or get off the latter.” They need to figure out if they have a future together before moving forward with any financial goals.

    • @michaelc7014
      @michaelc7014 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ladder, but nice try.

    • @e7gomez538
      @e7gomez538 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@michaelc7014 Apologies, I do try to get the proper spelling. I’m actually hard on myself about that. 😅

    • @marinemarine8305
      @marinemarine8305 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LADDER - SPELL CK GOT YOU AGAIN!

  • @lindsaymegan6994
    @lindsaymegan6994 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Jade!

  • @dr_pinna543
    @dr_pinna543 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What's with every other call including the detail of unmarried couples sharing a house?

    • @user-mv9tt4st9k
      @user-mv9tt4st9k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sign of the times... ??? 🙄

  • @thegenxgamerr
    @thegenxgamerr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    4:04 this is really good advice, and it works both ways. To the boyfriend if you’re out there do not get married because it’s going to protect her illegally. You? Things go bad who do you think the courts are going to side with? Don’t take my word for it go research outcomes for men in marriage. It’s not pretty.

  • @joeriveracomedy
    @joeriveracomedy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My last company let people take trucks home. I declined right away. Love how she chuckled at marriage. She is using thiz guy until butch comes around.

  • @consumerdebtchitchat
    @consumerdebtchitchat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Anyone who always has time to be first to post doesn't have a j.o.b..... and we know what Ramsey thinks of that 😀😀😀

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Like Jimmy, our resident troll

    • @consumerdebtchitchat
      @consumerdebtchitchat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alinatamashevich3354 Your comment has me dyin' LOL LOL LOL LOL

  • @jamesmoody9363
    @jamesmoody9363 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    JOHN 14:6😊

  • @davidgerke7150
    @davidgerke7150 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    So she rattles off a whole list of debts, while he has none? Gee, I wonder why he hasn't married her. Nothing but risk for him in this situation. Don't do it dude.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That appliance debt is both of there’s cuz that’s for the house

    • @ShaquilleOatmeal94
      @ShaquilleOatmeal94 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Are you single? Lol

    • @SeunAdekoya
      @SeunAdekoya 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The man don’t have a choice since his name is on the mortgage and appliances debt

    • @John3.36
      @John3.36 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Brings with benefits"

  • @jongonegone1262
    @jongonegone1262 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    her horse has some addatives in the water tank !!! just listen how crazy people sound !!

  • @dundadunda552
    @dundadunda552 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some people just don't any common sense..sometimes wonder how they got this far in life.

  • @Jim_Curtis
    @Jim_Curtis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    A contract will protect her on the home if that's really the concern. Getting married only exposes him to losing half of his assets in a future divorce.

    • @lifestream4191
      @lifestream4191 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What's the difference? They're 50/50 now...

    • @charly44ish
      @charly44ish 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Then they shouldn't be together if they don't think they will last

    • @Jim_Curtis
      @Jim_Curtis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lifestream4191 Yeah I agree - if she's worried about getting screwed, then they can make a contractual arrangement without getting married. Ramsey too easily dismisses the negative consequences from marriage for men.

    • @Jim_Curtis
      @Jim_Curtis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@charly44ish Yeah they shouldn't be pretending to be married, especially with a 50-65% divorce rate.

    • @Jim_Curtis
      @Jim_Curtis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thebeegood1731 What you don't get is that it's not only present assets, but future assets as well. It's not red pill talking points, it's common sense. It does not matter whether the woman is christian or not, the likelihood of divorce is the same.

  • @m.carroll
    @m.carroll 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Sell the car, save your money. If ever the relationship fails you can go your way and buy a car the same day.

    • @mikekeenanphd
      @mikekeenanphd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly. Why are they being such drama queens here?

    • @rsafree1139
      @rsafree1139 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mikekeenanphdbecause they can’t use their own brain and deviate from Dave’s advice

    • @lanakeeton8102
      @lanakeeton8102 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Big legal mess with two single people on a mortgage!!! NO excuse not to get married NOW. You don't even have to tell anyone, have a small ceremony later. You went into major debt with a single man who isn't your HUSBAND??? That's crazy!! Keep YOUR car.

    • @m.carroll
      @m.carroll 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lanakeeton8102 have you ever heard of the big legal mess called "divorce"? People can be committed to each other without being married, and into todays world marriage means far less than it once did.

    • @Fred2-123
      @Fred2-123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@m.carroll There's a big difference legally between a divorce and two random people deciding to go their own ways.

  • @David-wo9un
    @David-wo9un 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What is the benefit to him of marrying and taking on her mountain of debt?

    • @W.Holden.6
      @W.Holden.6 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nothing lol. There’s no benefit at all for him. Marriage only benefits the woman most of the time

  • @wl6279
    @wl6279 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    lol that’s why you never sign a contract with somebody especially on a house.
    And I always say the house should always be in the man’s name only. Married
    or not when the party’s over it’s over. No discussion about the house.

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If it's in his name he should also be the only one on the mortgage.

  • @michaelhooker980
    @michaelhooker980 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never asked her if she was ok with getting married,just asked if he would have objection assuming she was ok with it. Never assume anything.

    • @linuxsurfer2002
      @linuxsurfer2002 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      But she's apparently ok with living with him, sleeping with him, and driving his car. She's already "playing" married.

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@linuxsurfer2002marriage means every dollar you earn is no longer yours and that may even be the case if you divorce

  • @lifestream4191
    @lifestream4191 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What about one of them having a fatal accident, what happens to the house?

    • @jimmymcgill6778
      @jimmymcgill6778 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's called right of surviorship.

    • @Dan16673
      @Dan16673 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      both names are on deed.

    • @lifestream4191
      @lifestream4191 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Dan16673 I’m assuming it would go to the next of kin. Like a parent.

    • @linuxsurfer2002
      @linuxsurfer2002 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The deceased person's share would pass according to their will, or according to "Intestate" laws, I believe. So the survivor could end up owning the home with the person's parent/child/sibling

    • @lifestream4191
      @lifestream4191 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@linuxsurfer2002 yep. How nice!

  • @dillonp470
    @dillonp470 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    “Legally” they’re both on the deed if they broke up it’s the same if they get divored

    • @jimmymcgill6778
      @jimmymcgill6778 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YEP. They same problem would exist if they are married or not.

    • @MikeMarshall1411
      @MikeMarshall1411 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Isnt the reson that in divorce the court can force a sale through if 1 person wont cooperate or show up, but if dating and 1 person ghost out, the other person is stuck with the house and cant sell.

    • @linuxsurfer2002
      @linuxsurfer2002 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not the same at all. Without marriage, as Dave said in a recent video, it's a general partnership without any documents for the partnership. One person can stop paying and it becomes the other person's responsibility, but they can't sell without the other person's consent. With marriage, if they divorce, the courts will decide what happens to shared assets and both people have to comply.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The DEED is only used in the transfer, the title is how the property is held.
      ONLY if titled as Joint Tenancy, not if Tenants in Common.

  • @r8alvar
    @r8alvar 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Imagine if the "company car" is a hearse, cop car, ,ambulance, bulldozer, zero turn mower, or an ice cream truck.

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    It amazes me in this day and age how many women do not keep themselves legally protected by marriage or some other legal contract.

    • @sashalawrence4786
      @sashalawrence4786 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Fairytale thinking based on creating instagram lives and playing house

    • @chookchack
      @chookchack 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      They think they’re protecting their selves by not tying the knot.

    • @barnabusdoyle4930
      @barnabusdoyle4930 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The male is protecting themselves by not getting married. The male is usually the one who loses the house, half the pension, the bank account and pays spousal support for decades when divorce happens.

    • @jeffreyowens9487
      @jeffreyowens9487 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some people don't believe in marriage and no one should ever sign any contract.

    • @patriot925
      @patriot925 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Without any kind of separation agreement she could take him to the cleaners. More worried for him than her. She could seize everything in the courts.

  • @John3.36
    @John3.36 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He has no debt = probably not going to marry

  • @andreaworld4408
    @andreaworld4408 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OK, this is what I dont understand. How is the marriage going to 'protect' her from losing her share of the joint assets if they go their seperate ways? Clearly the laws regarding defacto relationships and shared assets are different here in Australia, because if you have a joint mortgage in both names, it is irrelevent whether they are married or not. The same process has to happen to divide assets. It would actually be cheaper and less paperwork to separate when not married due to not having to also pay for the divorce. Why and how is it different in the USA? Here, if you split, both parties are legally protected in an asset division, married or not.

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The concern moreso when the Ramsey folks discuss this issue is what would happen if one party were to die and there isn't a will, in which case a judge would likely rule that the dead party's assets would go to next of kin meaning the living party ends up owning a home with the dead party's parents

  • @unsolvedtruths
    @unsolvedtruths 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a guy here, the system is set up against you. The only benefit of marriage is for her to get more of your stuff.

  • @alperyilmaz8784
    @alperyilmaz8784 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please give us some titles with more context instead of clickbaits. Thank you very much

  • @bigdaddygoon828
    @bigdaddygoon828 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Do not marry this woman while she has all that debt

  • @Julian-zc9vm
    @Julian-zc9vm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As soon as she said boyfriend their mind was made up that the answer was no

  • @listerinr
    @listerinr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Is she safe though?

    • @fauxbro1983
      @fauxbro1983 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lol

  • @scottsanders2474
    @scottsanders2474 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why does the guy have a company car that he doesn't drive so it would be available to her on a full-time basis? I had one for 10 years and was expected by my company to drive it to and from work and throughout the day when I went out of the office on company business. All of the expenses related to the car were paid for by the company, so it was a free car to me, but I had to drive it. What is the guy driving in lieu of the company vehicle? She said he has no debt, so he must own it outright. He could sell that car, pay off her debts, and drive the company car and she has her car, which is now paid in full.

  • @WendyW7508
    @WendyW7508 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why she asking these things? Of course! She shouldn't be in debt for a car she isn't using. How silly. And why people always think getting married equates to a big expensive wedding? My parents got married at the courthouse and paid I believe she said he paid 25 dollars maybe for the certificate. A justice of the peace, couple witnesses, Bing bang. A 'wedding' is completely different. They were married 50 years.

  • @JasonGroom
    @JasonGroom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They have a house together, and other debt together, she is already hitched to that horse, so this doesn't expose her to any real extra risk. The additional risk is minimal in comparison

  • @rangequeen
    @rangequeen 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Umm…what??

  • @Jaycv-dq3rg
    @Jaycv-dq3rg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Always about women payday at divorce

  • @Manihsi
    @Manihsi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “stay away from this girl!
    She's begging for trouble by asking using her boyfriend's company Vehicle ,
    This is absolutely wrong and could lead to serious consequences, including losing his job.”

  • @luisrios1996
    @luisrios1996 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Marriage is not the only option for her. They can do a joint tenancy title on the deed to get 50-50 ownership rights

    • @MarkYeung1
      @MarkYeung1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What will happen if the relationship breaks up?

    • @luisrios1996
      @luisrios1996 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In that situation, each person has legally protected rights to maintain ownership of their share of the property or they can agree to sell it. What happens when a married couple gets divorced? They can keep the property or arbitrate the sell of it or go through probate court

  • @user-ly3ik9oj5k
    @user-ly3ik9oj5k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I disagree. What's the difference between having a combined mortgage without a marriage certificate versus having a combined mortgage with a marriage certificate? Basically, you're just adding an extra step in case the relationship falls apart(divorce). There's really no practical disadvantage to this if you plan on getting married in the near future.

    • @linuxsurfer2002
      @linuxsurfer2002 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Dave has talked about this several times in previous videos. Without marriage, there is not a set process for what happens if you split up, so one person can get stuck with the debt, but not be able to sell without the other person agreeing.

    • @user-mv9tt4st9k
      @user-mv9tt4st9k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If either of them have something happen that incapacitates them, the other has no legal standing in terms of shared assets. They can get a partnership agreement that will serve the purpose, however, such agreements are impersonal and not a reflection of the love intended between a married couple.

    • @Fred2-123
      @Fred2-123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @user-ly3ik9oj5k There is a lot of difference in legal matters. Courts handle married couples differently than a couple of unrelated people.

  • @bigdaddygoon828
    @bigdaddygoon828 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    they do know that is mostly women that make breakups and marriages messing when they end all she has to do is not make it Mess

  • @JK-mc2lw
    @JK-mc2lw 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    John got through a conversation without telling someone they can’t breathe. Mark this one down in the history books.

  • @marnarenteria4203
    @marnarenteria4203 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why did no one ask why she's not driving her own car?

  • @XPuregaming15
    @XPuregaming15 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If it hits the fan it gets messy. Lmaooo bro a divorce is messy ?¿

    • @sashalawrence4786
      @sashalawrence4786 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes but marriage prevents one person being lumped with it all if it went sideways.

    • @XPuregaming15
      @XPuregaming15 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sashalawrence4786 idk man my granddaddy was married and his wife left and he been paying on they house this whole time while she been gone.

    • @ruthirwin8222
      @ruthirwin8222 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Im divorced and its very unpleasant but worked fairly if i had been living with him as a boyfriend i would have got nothing and would have been homeless,

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ruthirwin8222marriage isn't the only protective contract available....I'm noticing , as marriage and finances are being discussed more, that most people ignorant about legal matters

  • @topsykretts2264
    @topsykretts2264 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just because you can do it, it doesn’t mean you should even if the relationship worked out. Don’t get in legal things together and act like a married couple when you’re not yet. Lol.

  • @Esmeraldalunamaria
    @Esmeraldalunamaria 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    The reason I decided to work closely with a brokerage adviser ever since the market got really tense and the pressure became so much(should be retiring in 17months) so I've had a brokerage adviser guide me through the chaos, its been 9months and counting and I've made approx. 650K net from all of my holdings.

    • @Isabellajuana
      @Isabellajuana 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Passive income is truly the dream! It is a great joy to know that your money multiplies while you sleep.

    • @Kelvinmeans79
      @Kelvinmeans79 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@IsabellajuanaI always thought about how to grow my money but I found nothing. You seem to have understood that would you advise me please?

    • @Isabellajuana
      @Isabellajuana 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Kelvinmeans79I recommend that you speak to my personal investment coach Theresa. Just check with Ms. Theresa Cann SERVICES 👇👇👇

    • @Isabellajuana
      @Isabellajuana 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      INSTAGRAM

    • @Isabellajuana
      @Isabellajuana 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Theresaannecann08

  • @bettysmith4527
    @bettysmith4527 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Umm, probably cannot even do that unless your boyfriend owns the company! What will she do if the BF looses his job or he leaves her?! I'd check the rules, usually only the employee can use it!

  • @mikeshaw4610
    @mikeshaw4610 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why does buying a house prevent you from getting married at the court house.

  • @djpuplex
    @djpuplex 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Briffault Law. Get anything you can. Yeah the guys not exposed at all im this.

  • @ShirleyM_Anne
    @ShirleyM_Anne 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just do a search for "wedding industry out of control" -- that's the real problem...😳🙁

  • @gtileo
    @gtileo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sorry jade, they aren't getting married "this weekend" it's probably safer but the likely hood of that happening is slim to none. And even if they don't he's going to make her pay her own debt off

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Where is Mr. First? 😂

    • @consumerdebtchitchat
      @consumerdebtchitchat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was wondering the exact same thing 😂

    • @psoteriou3884
      @psoteriou3884 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's collecting his trophy for being first.

  • @dontworry1568
    @dontworry1568 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    instead of marriage, how about a legal agreement? marriage is only beneficial to the woman.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Marriage doesn't benefit anyone.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@amireallythatgrumpy6508
      ?????
      Double step up in basis
      My former employer offers FREE lifetime family healthcare to a spouse and kids.
      A spouse gets a Fully survivorable pension.
      A spouse gets your SSA if you die.
      A spouse gets a check for minor children care from the employer.

  • @barnabusdoyle4930
    @barnabusdoyle4930 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Fun fact:
    All of these “protections” they are saying you would have if you get married as opposed to just living together aren’t really there. The other partner could just up and walk away at any time rather married or not. If all debt is in both names, and they left, you are stuck paying all of that debt if they don’t want to pay it anymore. You might have some recourse in court if married, but that could take years and is usually played against the man in the relationship. Get married to a woman for 5 years and watch her divorce you while getting half your pension, keeping the house, having you pay for the car and give her spousal support.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah my girlfriend and I have been together for over twenty years.
      No marriage contract and no commingled assets. No kids.
      My homes in the U.S. and her homes and other assets in Italy before we met in our 30s.
      No need to depend on each other for money/finances and does not affect the relationship.
      Always knew she had the freedom to leave the relationship since the beginning.

    • @lukerider479
      @lukerider479 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There is no protections but there is recourse in court which is actually protection. Got it.

  • @gilchevy
    @gilchevy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    if listened to this advice i would not have 500k equity and would stll be renting

  • @mjj8560
    @mjj8560 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If i was him i would run because the court is not gonna side with him they're gonna make him have debt

  • @mikesawyer4707
    @mikesawyer4707 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This lady would not end up homeless. Marrage is a big deal even a bigger commitment. Remember, the guy is also taking equal risk in this "live in" situation. No judgements Just an observation. 😊

    • @loverules1667
      @loverules1667 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If she gets a long term illness and he bolts..she can pay bills. .or he leaves and she has no car to get to work and does not make enough..ect ect

    • @user-mv9tt4st9k
      @user-mv9tt4st9k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually, his risk is somewhat minimized because her debts remain her debts until he marries her, in marriage her debts become their debts.

    • @Fred2-123
      @Fred2-123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-mv9tt4st9k Nope. The debts are individual unless they both signed onto the debt. If she has a credit card in her name, he is not responsible for that debt, even if he is an authorized user.

  • @shaneferguson8450
    @shaneferguson8450 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So Indiana of her.

  • @lukeharris2622
    @lukeharris2622 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ✝️

  • @Julian-zc9vm
    @Julian-zc9vm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In absence of children, and in a situation where both partners are working and have stable careers, the negatives of legal marriage outweigh the benefits. If children are involved, or if two people are life partners and one is financially carrying the other, then maybe there are benefits to getting married that outweigh the negatives. There’s a right and wrong way to live together as an unmarried though. I would not be buying major assets like a home or car with someone you’re not married to. You’re roommates and everything is a business transaction. Don’t buy anything for or with your roommate unless you’re ok with potentially losing it entirely if you split.

    • @ucbearcats1978
      @ucbearcats1978 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What do you think are the negatives of legal marriage?

    • @Julian-zc9vm
      @Julian-zc9vm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ucbearcats1978 the negatives are obvious and directly related to divorce. The burden of proof lies with those in favor of marriage, to prove that marriage is worthwhile specifically as I said, “in absence of children or a situation where one partner is financially caring the other”. And to be clear, I understand that there are benefits even in situations where kids aren’t involved, but I’m just saying that the downsides outweigh those benefits.

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ucbearcats1978it creates a huge financial risk and considering the high failure rate of marriages, I don't understand why people marry. My dad was ordered to pay alimony to my mother until his time of death which was more than 30 years after their divorce. Mind you, she is the one who filed for divorce and cheated on him.

  • @njfuentesrespecter81
    @njfuentesrespecter81 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He goes into marriage with no debts, no obligations. She goes in with tens of thousands in debt and baggage. Color me surprised. NOT

  • @MelsDiner115
    @MelsDiner115 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ahhh the young and naive 😂😂 trade 30 day problem for 30 year commitment. Funny but more common than we think.

  • @candyluna2929
    @candyluna2929 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    $5k???? That's all...on a car😢😢

  • @Luv2Ski4500
    @Luv2Ski4500 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why does she have debt on appliances and the bf doesn’t have debt. What appliances is she paying for?

  • @serg320
    @serg320 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fact that marriage is used for “protection” is the reason why men don’t want to get married, men see it as a commitment woman see it as a “legal protection”

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I owned a house before marriage,
      Titled as Unmarried man, sole and separate property
      Married
      Titled as Married man, sole and separate property
      Had kids
      Titled as community property with rights of survivorship
      Oldest turned 18 yr old
      Titled as Beneficiary Title

    • @neisci
      @neisci 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's legal protection for both.

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm a woman and I see it as a huge financial risk. How you see it depends, to a certain degree, on how much money you have. And a lot of men see it as a way to pacify a woman they don't want to lose but don't actually want to be married to.

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@neisciit's also financial risk for both

  • @johndone8045
    @johndone8045 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some policies are as long as you work for the company any employee can drive it

  • @KENTUCKYUSA1
    @KENTUCKYUSA1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep your car in case you end up having to live in it. Really, what if one of these people dies suddenly? So precarious.

  • @pdkpropertyexperts
    @pdkpropertyexperts 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    What sucks is that this whole conversation was about getting married ONLY to protect her finances. If your in it for money dont get married. Terrible advice.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Definitely not in the marriage vows.

    • @user-mv9tt4st9k
      @user-mv9tt4st9k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@blackworldtraveler3711"... In sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer..." Those lines were included in my wedding vows.

    • @RepentImmediately
      @RepentImmediately 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@blackworldtraveler3711marriage vows are whatever you decide they are. A marriage certificate is a contract that's mostly about money.

    • @marnarenteria4203
      @marnarenteria4203 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Their point is that they're already living as if they are married anyway, so allegedly the love and commitment is already there anyway.

  • @lav7161
    @lav7161 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Traditional 😂😂😂

  • @rodneyperry7940
    @rodneyperry7940 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Write a will seems just as valid as getting married. This does seem to be pushing a values argument.

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s also a legal argument.

  • @v.m.4453
    @v.m.4453 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Honestly...I don't take this call seriously, I don't take this caller seriously, and her "boyfriend" probably doesn't take her seriously either.
    Her life is presently or about to be a walking joke.
    Good luck, sweetie.