My husband's parents didn't realize that in Illinois the marriage liscense has to be issued in the county in which the ceremony takes place. Unfortunately, they lived in one county and the chapel in which they were getting married was just across the line into the next county. So, on the wedding day, bride, groom, witnesses, and officiant had to cross three lanes of traffic to get to the parking lot across the street, which was in the county in which they had gotten the marriage lisence issued, sign the paper on the hood of a car, and then go back across the street to the chapel full of guests to exchange vows.
Same thing happened to my niece and her husband, except it was across STATE lines. So they had to have a judge quickly marry them in chambers in the state of the wedding license, and then cross the river into another state for the "ceremony" with the crowd. 🤔😱🤪
As an Italian American, I can understand the calling it off for not allowing lasagna. But like you said, it wouldn't be specifically about the lasagna at the wedding, but WHY they would be so opposed to something important to my culture.) In the U.S., you can get married anywhere. The officiant has to be "certified," but like in Friends, you can get "ordained" online. I think it varies by state, but in PA, we had to get our marriage license at least 48 hours before the ceremony. To get the license, we just had to go to the government office, answer a few questions, and pay the fee.
Love ya, Jamie. 42 and finally transitioning. I almost got a doctorate, myself(pathology, forensic science program) but went back into the military. Hence, my delay in transition. I hope to be the elder in their 70s, sharing my story. You, Roly, and Luxeria make me smile. I adore you all. You give me further motivation to keep my transition going in spite of any/all hate, plus the crap Trump is tossing at medicaid(for comparison, it would be like your healthcare getting defunded by a prime minister due to being a TERF). The fight gets exhausting but I've fought harder things and I refuse to give up. Having your channel as a smile along the way is wonderful. Thank you, sincerely.... thank you.
Oh my. The dude living a doubel life. I can barely manage my own (and I am single) HOW DO PEOPLE MANAGE MULTIPLE LIVES WITH DIFFERENT PARTNERS AND CHILDREN???
Right? I have a couple friends whose mothers did in fact learn their husbands were, one one case had a side ho and two kids with her, and two learned SHE was the side ho and had to cancel their wedding. 🤦♀️ Like, I'm ... I've never dated someone I didn't know for a few years prior to the date... Partly because of my friend's stories and their crazy lives. 😅🤣
My husband and I only had 90 days to plan and have our wedding because he came here to the US on a fiance visa. Two weeks before the wedding, I still didn't have a dress, we didn't have rings, and the groom and groomsmen didn't have outfits. We went to a Renaissance festival and bought all of it. Our rings were $10 each, and we loved them! My dress was black and red and beautiful. And our wedding was perfect. We made it work. That was 24 years ago. :)
I am scared of my maid of honour/bridesmaids and best men embarrassing me in my wedding. But I am at least 1000% certain that they won't pull a prank that may end my relationship. Especially not by saying either of us cheated
I love all forms of Shaaba, but brain rot Shaaba is amazing, especially with Jamie's reactions. Saving this to watch again for my traumas in life, cuz I can't stop giggling even with all these serious stories. Gorgeous.
23:30 I'm a married woman in the U.S. and there's definitely no requirement for notice, here. My spouse and I walked into a courthouse and picked up a marriage license and could have been legally married that same day. (We took it with us to our small ceremony and filed it later, but we didn't have to do it that way.) The cliche of getting married in Las Vegas at the drop of a hat is also true; I had a friend who did that once.
@@abbeyr3 That's so interesting to me because Texas apparently recognizes co-habitation as commonlaw domestic partnership if a couple refers to themselves as married, and my state doesn't recognize commonlaw marriage without signing an affidavit (which isn't any easier than signing a marriage license.) Even so, it sounds like it might be more restrictive in the UK, if a week wasn't long enough.
This is your regular reminder that you're all awesome, beautiful and valid little spuds, just the way you are ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Love you all ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Stay safe everyone and remember that there are people out here that love you 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Cheating is weird. My ex knew perfectly well that I was completely at home with polyamory, but still chose to cheat. It's not about the sexual attraction, it's about the buzz of getting away with something their partner doesn't know about. Glad he's my ex. The new partner is welcome to him and the headaches he brings with him.
I just watched the old video where you explained your transition to your sister in laws! It was the cutest thing ever! I would love to see you and shaaba react to that video. ❤
In the US you need a marriage liscense. You have to apply for it, you need birth cirtificates and a bunch of other stuff and it has a time limit so you have to apply for it within a certain time frame before your planned date so that you get it in time but not too early.
Shabba, thank you for that cheesy joke about the difference between an Italian and a goose. I haven't laughed that hard for almost 3 weeks. I truly appreciate that. Edit: My friends Mary and Dave got married about 15 years ago, and their dress code was Science Fiction/Fantasy/Superheroes. If memory serves, they were dressed in LOTR style costumes for the ceremony. When they were running through their vows at the rehearsal the night before, Dave included "in Modor where the shadows lie" as a joke. This wasn't a deal breaker - in fact Mary thought it was brilliant and insisted that it was included in the actual ceremony. Also, instead of tapping spoons against steam wear to get the bride and groom to kiss at the reception, they had a button at the head table that when pressed played the Superman theme from the Christopher Reeves movies. They're still together and happy today.
Love to see Shaaba on the channel ❤. Total aside, Jamie, your industrial bar looks a bit too long. If you ever have issues with soreness you maybe suited to get a smaller bar, that adjustment was a game changer for me.
I’m not lying when my aunt was planning her wedding we actually thought about the Jurassic park thing that you mentioned 😂 sadly we did not but the wedding turned out great
"I can't believe you brought the word PANTIES onto this channel!" As for the firefighter grift, some places in the US do require 24 hours shifts at the station and the fire crew will eat and sleep there, and then you get 24 hours off. So, in theory his being away for a whole day would be, and sound, plausible.
I feel like there must have been something like "don't you know I am vegan with celiac disease, why do you insist on serving meat lasagna at the reception, we should both be able to eat!" Or her mother is allergic to tomato or something. Like, it would have to come down to something more than "ew lasagna" to have a relationship ending fight. I can even see some legit conflicting points, like if his family has had the same recipe of lasagna at every wedding for the past 600 years or something. But if you're fighting instead of finding solutions, maybe it's a good thing to push back that wedding and reassess! I mean you can literally have two receptions! You can have the Lasagna Room next to the Smoking Room, with a Lasagna Guard to make sure no stray tomato escapes! You can have weird vegan white lasagna for the crowd and a small tray of symbolic Traditional Lasagna that they exchange bites of instead of cake, and the creation of a new tradition of destroying both the wedding gown and the groom's tux with tomato sauce. ("mom, I do not care what you have to say, I am wearing tomato sauce red at the reception. I'll wear white down the aisle, but I'm changing before we eat and I'll not hear another word about it!")
I saw the title and also was really worried, though since they are already married they can't cancel the wedding! (As far as i know) Which is a huge relief, Jamie and Shaba make such a cute couple! 😊
The Bob story reminds me of my neighbours. I don't know all the details but they were high school sweethearts, then life happened (that's the part I don't know), and they ended up meeting up decades later and are now married. Pretty sure she has 5 kids to two men too. Naturally I'm going to text my mother to see if she knows more of their story.
Jamies ''I don't want you to change", was so sweet! I had a colleague who got married in a football shirt. Every lady at my work, was like "I would never have allowed that". But I always saw it as her accepting and loving him as he was. And I am also here for Shaabas energy in this video
I'm not Italian but I am always up for lasagna. If my s/o requested lasagna for our wedding reception, I'd be like "You magnificent son of a bitch, that's brilliant!" I imagine that one of the perks of marrying into an Italian family is "more lasagna."
i love how the original question was "the most ABSURD reason a wedding was cancelled" and every response in here is super serious & valid 😂 reddit did not understand the assignment as usual! (edit: my mistake, the lasagna and the superhero costume are pretty absurd reasons - i would not be a hard no on lasagna but i would definitely be a hard no on a superhero costume. a character who already wears a suit, fine, but spandex and a cape? no, absolutely not. if he wants input into the wedding he can design the groom's cake with any theme he likes)
@@dietotaku The lasagna is definitely about something deeper, though. It shows that she wasn't willing to respect his culture and traditions. That's not going to make for a healthy marriage. It wasn't about the lasagna, it was about the dismissiveness. The superhero costume would make me question how seriously he was taking the whole thing. However, I might be willing to have a conversation about why he was so set on it, because presumably it must mean a lot to him for some reason. I agree that in the end it's really not appropriate for the ceremony, though. The theme could be worked into the reception, alongside something the bride finds equally meaningful.
😂😂 this is clearly a happy relationship because jamie has absolutely no control over his wife. we would all be so lucky to have someone that enables your personal chaos
I was not in costume at my wedding, but a freinds 5 yo shouted "OH IT'S MERIDA" when me and the hubby was entering. (I have orangy red, some what curly hair and had a green, medical dress)
The savings on the venue could have gone to the honeymoon, or been added to whatever else they were saving up for, or literally anything. Wouldn't you appreciate knowing that your life partner can make smart financial decisions? That is just an insane level of worrying about what people will think.
yayy. this is helping me keep myself somewhat together. i was just denied lifesaving healthcare again after another year of begging to be allowed to get it.
This video was so funny because it was Jamie and Shaaba doing it. (The video, not it. Get your heads out of the gutter people. ) I loved it. It reminded me of your beginning videos. I miss the old days. More of you two together, please. The podcast is good, but it is more business than you guys just being yourselves. I love you guys. The laughter is wonderful. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Lasagna might have been the deal breaker because it was something his family traditionally had at celebrations, but the bride didn't like pasta dishes - or didn't want sauces and messy foods near her gown. But I'm with grandpa - I want the lasagna! As for the various expenses of a wedding.... Get a cheap ring, have a tiny service with the important people in your life, wear whatever you want, have a reception at McDonald's (fast food joint). And then take all that money you saved and invest it in your future: down payment on a home, investments for when kids come along - or for adopting or infertility treatments. You could spend 50 million on a lavish one-day event, or you can spend 1 million and invest 49 million on the next 49 years of marriage. Choose wisely.
Thank you Shabba for the lovely joke. (At like 2min in) I had to pause the video and go tell said joke to my eldest child. (They will be 23 in a couple months & giggled when I told it.)
So... the military story reminded me of my dad, funny enough. My mom and dad divorced when I was quite young, around 4, and then my dad married my stepmom when I was 13. (I'm 36 now) But before my mom and dad ever met, my dad and stepmom dated for like 4 years between '77 or '78 and '81 or '82. She and her family talked heavily about marriage at the end. She's 6 years older than my dad and she wanted to settle down and have kids. My dad was supposed to meet her and her parents at a country club for lunch one day and my dad ghosted. He ran away and joined the military because he wasn't ready for that yet 😅
We don't have mandatory notice of Marriage, in the US. All you need is a license and an officiant. I officiated a wedding on a floating dock in a city park lake.
In our recent case, the groom 'forgot' to disclose that living at, and caring for his healthy parents was a non-negotiable! It was difficult but they ended up calling the wedding off a month before the whole thing, it's been a wild time on my family since
Notice of Marriage is an interesting concept to hear about because in the country I live in you literally just have to fill out a form to get legally married 😮 it’s only a little more complicated if you’re not a citizen
As someone struggling with CFS/ME, the notion of having two separate lives AND continuing employment PLUS fitting in apparently doing a lot of coke without tipping off either family OR getting fired is genuinely unfathomable.
20:40 Executive dysfunction sweethearts lmao, need me someone who understands that and relates so deeply that the relationship could survive fucking up wedding arrangements through forgetfulness. I hope they're doing well and enjoying life together and defining it on their own terms
Okay I'm ADHD and the week before thing is honestly so real I didn't even start actually planning my 18th birthday thing until a week before and I didn't get ready for going overseas for a month until about a week before and it was only because my mother pestered me into doing it which is absolutely ridiculous honestly, I had to transfer my sim card because I still hadn't fully moved to my new phone even though I'd had it for a good few months because apparently I'm incapable of actually doing things in any reasonable timeframe XD
Where I live, a firefighter lives at the station when they are working. They have like three days on, where they're living at the fire station, and then some days off where they live at home. So for a person living a double life, it makes sense that they would claim to be a firefighter, in order to explain being absent for days at a time.
23:16 My parents have been happily together for the past 30+ years, and while they are engaged, they've never bothered to get married. They've told me that they just viewed a wedding as an unnecessary expense. Instead, they've spent their money on a house, a summer place, family trips etc.
Did you hear about the bride who couldn't find her groom on the day of the wedding and found him being breast fed by his mother (he was 30+?) The mother told her not to make it weird because it was normal. He often dropped off on his way home from work if he'd had a stressful day!!!!!!
In Bob's case, the fact that they were high school sweethearts implies that the couple were initially planning on getting married very young, like 18 or 19. So that's somewhat more understandable, and, I would argue, good for him for acknowledging he wasn't ready. For all we know, they might have ended up divorced if they had gotten married that young.
The thing that gets me is that there's a lot of time and money being spent on a wedding already. I feel like barring fire, flood or fuckery, any reason for calling it off is gonna sound silly.
In the US, lots of people are calling off their weddings or filing for divorce because their partner (usually a man) voted for Trump. Makes perfect sense to me!
Shaaba is feeling particularly chaotic today. Her responses are everything and Jamie's reactions show how much love they have for each other
This one was so fun to listen to! I was laughing the entire time!
she's on top form with being hillarious
My cousin got married dressed as David Tennant's Doctor! It was delightful, but also subtle for those who weren't in the know. Loved it.
Oh my God, this is now my wedding goal if I ever get married again.
That's so cuteee
😮❤🎉
Go cousin! 🎉
dear god the title combined with the thumbnail scared me so badly (yes i’m aware they’re already married)
Same lol. I forgot they’re legit already married
Me too. It took me a minute to remember, no, the wedding already happened.
Yeah me too.
they are already married that wouldn’t make sense lol
Me too. I forgot that they're already married
the 'lasagna principle' is essentially bc if you get into big fights about small things what happens when you have a serious issue you disagree on
DON'T SCARE US LIKE THAT
I was also worried at first, then I remembered that they are already married and ( as far as I know) can't cancel the wedding.
Bro, they've been married for two years, where have you been? (there are a bunch of videos)
My husband's parents didn't realize that in Illinois the marriage liscense has to be issued in the county in which the ceremony takes place. Unfortunately, they lived in one county and the chapel in which they were getting married was just across the line into the next county. So, on the wedding day, bride, groom, witnesses, and officiant had to cross three lanes of traffic to get to the parking lot across the street, which was in the county in which they had gotten the marriage lisence issued, sign the paper on the hood of a car, and then go back across the street to the chapel full of guests to exchange vows.
Same thing happened to my niece and her husband, except it was across STATE lines. So they had to have a judge quickly marry them in chambers in the state of the wedding license, and then cross the river into another state for the "ceremony" with the crowd. 🤔😱🤪
as chaotic as that sounds for the day of the wedding, it's also a cute and funny story that they'll forever have about their special day
The phrasing on the video description surely is something else. I had SO MANY questions until I reread it like three times.
Lol I just read it. I see how that would be very confusing
😂
As an Italian American, I can understand the calling it off for not allowing lasagna. But like you said, it wouldn't be specifically about the lasagna at the wedding, but WHY they would be so opposed to something important to my culture.)
In the U.S., you can get married anywhere. The officiant has to be "certified," but like in Friends, you can get "ordained" online. I think it varies by state, but in PA, we had to get our marriage license at least 48 hours before the ceremony. To get the license, we just had to go to the government office, answer a few questions, and pay the fee.
Love ya, Jamie. 42 and finally transitioning. I almost got a doctorate, myself(pathology, forensic science program) but went back into the military. Hence, my delay in transition. I hope to be the elder in their 70s, sharing my story. You, Roly, and Luxeria make me smile. I adore you all. You give me further motivation to keep my transition going in spite of any/all hate, plus the crap Trump is tossing at medicaid(for comparison, it would be like your healthcare getting defunded by a prime minister due to being a TERF). The fight gets exhausting but I've fought harder things and I refuse to give up. Having your channel as a smile along the way is wonderful. Thank you, sincerely.... thank you.
Oh my. The dude living a doubel life. I can barely manage my own (and I am single) HOW DO PEOPLE MANAGE MULTIPLE LIVES WITH DIFFERENT PARTNERS AND CHILDREN???
Right?
I have a couple friends whose mothers did in fact learn their husbands were, one one case had a side ho and two kids with her, and two learned SHE was the side ho and had to cancel their wedding. 🤦♀️
Like, I'm ... I've never dated someone I didn't know for a few years prior to the date... Partly because of my friend's stories and their crazy lives. 😅🤣
They very very busy people with no time for themselves 😅
My husband and I only had 90 days to plan and have our wedding because he came here to the US on a fiance visa. Two weeks before the wedding, I still didn't have a dress, we didn't have rings, and the groom and groomsmen didn't have outfits. We went to a Renaissance festival and bought all of it. Our rings were $10 each, and we loved them! My dress was black and red and beautiful. And our wedding was perfect. We made it work. That was 24 years ago. :)
I am scared of my maid of honour/bridesmaids and best men embarrassing me in my wedding. But I am at least 1000% certain that they won't pull a prank that may end my relationship. Especially not by saying either of us cheated
Shaaba, I LOVED your italian goose joke! I love it when you're in a silly funny food in these videos❤
“He wants the meatballs” ICANT 🤣
I love all forms of Shaaba, but brain rot Shaaba is amazing, especially with Jamie's reactions. Saving this to watch again for my traumas in life, cuz I can't stop giggling even with all these serious stories. Gorgeous.
23:30 I'm a married woman in the U.S. and there's definitely no requirement for notice, here. My spouse and I walked into a courthouse and picked up a marriage license and could have been legally married that same day. (We took it with us to our small ceremony and filed it later, but we didn't have to do it that way.) The cliche of getting married in Las Vegas at the drop of a hat is also true; I had a friend who did that once.
Depends on the state. I live in Texas and it’s 72 hour notice minimum.
@@RoseThePhoenix Where I live, there's a literal drive-through wedding chapel.
@@abbeyr3 That's so interesting to me because Texas apparently recognizes co-habitation as commonlaw domestic partnership if a couple refers to themselves as married, and my state doesn't recognize commonlaw marriage without signing an affidavit (which isn't any easier than signing a marriage license.)
Even so, it sounds like it might be more restrictive in the UK, if a week wasn't long enough.
Steam punk wedding would be cool for a costume
All the love, all feels for you two. This video made me smile today, much needed. Thank you! 💜
A friend of mine did walk down the aisle to the Jurassic park theme and it was so beautiful and I cried 😅
My cousin walked down the aisle to The Gambler.
In a cathedral, played on a pipe organ.
"You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em ..."
This is your regular reminder that you're all awesome, beautiful and valid little spuds, just the way you are ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Love you all ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Stay safe everyone and remember that there are people out here that love you 💜💜💜💜💜💜
JAMIE! DONT SCARE US LIKE THAT! i was so sad
I am now calling all break ups pre marital divorce
Cheating is weird. My ex knew perfectly well that I was completely at home with polyamory, but still chose to cheat. It's not about the sexual attraction, it's about the buzz of getting away with something their partner doesn't know about.
Glad he's my ex. The new partner is welcome to him and the headaches he brings with him.
Love your content! Thanks for being a part of my journey to realising I'm enby! X
I just watched the old video where you explained your transition to your sister in laws! It was the cutest thing ever! I would love to see you and shaaba react to that video. ❤
In the US you need a marriage liscense. You have to apply for it, you need birth cirtificates and a bunch of other stuff and it has a time limit so you have to apply for it within a certain time frame before your planned date so that you get it in time but not too early.
Shaaba was an excellent addition to this video. Love the chaos energy. 😂
Shabba, thank you for that cheesy joke about the difference between an Italian and a goose. I haven't laughed that hard for almost 3 weeks. I truly appreciate that.
Edit: My friends Mary and Dave got married about 15 years ago, and their dress code was Science Fiction/Fantasy/Superheroes. If memory serves, they were dressed in LOTR style costumes for the ceremony. When they were running through their vows at the rehearsal the night before, Dave included "in Modor where the shadows lie" as a joke. This wasn't a deal breaker - in fact Mary thought it was brilliant and insisted that it was included in the actual ceremony. Also, instead of tapping spoons against steam wear to get the bride and groom to kiss at the reception, they had a button at the head table that when pressed played the Superman theme from the Christopher Reeves movies. They're still together and happy today.
You two bring me such joy.
Love to see Shaaba on the channel ❤. Total aside, Jamie, your industrial bar looks a bit too long. If you ever have issues with soreness you maybe suited to get a smaller bar, that adjustment was a game changer for me.
Omg I feel early. I usually don’t catch the videos for a couple of hours !
I don't know how I forgot about your wedding but the title freaked me out
You can't see red flags during the rose tinted glasses stage
Jamie I was terrified that Shaaba somehow cheated you can't do this to me🙏🏻😭😮💨
Shaaba would NEVER lol
@@Rollermain12 THATS WHY I WAS SO SHOCKED🙏🏻😭
I’m not lying when my aunt was planning her wedding we actually thought about the Jurassic park thing that you mentioned 😂 sadly we did not but the wedding turned out great
"I can't believe you brought the word PANTIES onto this channel!"
As for the firefighter grift, some places in the US do require 24 hours shifts at the station and the fire crew will eat and sleep there, and then you get 24 hours off. So, in theory his being away for a whole day would be, and sound, plausible.
I feel like there must have been something like "don't you know I am vegan with celiac disease, why do you insist on serving meat lasagna at the reception, we should both be able to eat!" Or her mother is allergic to tomato or something. Like, it would have to come down to something more than "ew lasagna" to have a relationship ending fight. I can even see some legit conflicting points, like if his family has had the same recipe of lasagna at every wedding for the past 600 years or something. But if you're fighting instead of finding solutions, maybe it's a good thing to push back that wedding and reassess!
I mean you can literally have two receptions! You can have the Lasagna Room next to the Smoking Room, with a Lasagna Guard to make sure no stray tomato escapes! You can have weird vegan white lasagna for the crowd and a small tray of symbolic Traditional Lasagna that they exchange bites of instead of cake, and the creation of a new tradition of destroying both the wedding gown and the groom's tux with tomato sauce. ("mom, I do not care what you have to say, I am wearing tomato sauce red at the reception. I'll wear white down the aisle, but I'm changing before we eat and I'll not hear another word about it!")
I saw the title and also was really worried, though since they are already married they can't cancel the wedding! (As far as i know)
Which is a huge relief, Jamie and Shaba make such a cute couple! 😊
You guys are so adorable together I can’t even stand it
The Bob story reminds me of my neighbours. I don't know all the details but they were high school sweethearts, then life happened (that's the part I don't know), and they ended up meeting up decades later and are now married. Pretty sure she has 5 kids to two men too. Naturally I'm going to text my mother to see if she knows more of their story.
Shaaba is channelling her inner Roly today and I'm here for it!
Jamies ''I don't want you to change", was so sweet! I had a colleague who got married in a football shirt. Every lady at my work, was like "I would never have allowed that". But I always saw it as her accepting and loving him as he was. And I am also here for Shaabas energy in this video
I think the thing to remember with romance scams is that sadly they try to go after people who are at a really low lonely point in their life
I'm not Italian but I am always up for lasagna. If my s/o requested lasagna for our wedding reception, I'd be like "You magnificent son of a bitch, that's brilliant!" I imagine that one of the perks of marrying into an Italian family is "more lasagna."
i love how the original question was "the most ABSURD reason a wedding was cancelled" and every response in here is super serious & valid 😂 reddit did not understand the assignment as usual!
(edit: my mistake, the lasagna and the superhero costume are pretty absurd reasons - i would not be a hard no on lasagna but i would definitely be a hard no on a superhero costume. a character who already wears a suit, fine, but spandex and a cape? no, absolutely not. if he wants input into the wedding he can design the groom's cake with any theme he likes)
@@dietotaku The lasagna is definitely about something deeper, though. It shows that she wasn't willing to respect his culture and traditions. That's not going to make for a healthy marriage. It wasn't about the lasagna, it was about the dismissiveness.
The superhero costume would make me question how seriously he was taking the whole thing. However, I might be willing to have a conversation about why he was so set on it, because presumably it must mean a lot to him for some reason. I agree that in the end it's really not appropriate for the ceremony, though. The theme could be worked into the reception, alongside something the bride finds equally meaningful.
31 seconds ago??? dang I must have magic jammidodger detecting powers or smth
😂😂 this is clearly a happy relationship because jamie has absolutely no control over his wife. we would all be so lucky to have someone that enables your personal chaos
I was not in costume at my wedding, but a freinds 5 yo shouted "OH IT'S MERIDA" when me and the hubby was entering.
(I have orangy red, some what curly hair and had a green, medical dress)
Bruh you scared the daylights outa us!! 🤣
Love seeing you two together!
The savings on the venue could have gone to the honeymoon, or been added to whatever else they were saving up for, or literally anything. Wouldn't you appreciate knowing that your life partner can make smart financial decisions? That is just an insane level of worrying about what people will think.
Jamie ....."I dont want you to change"
Me... melts.
The Italian goose joke is too funny.
I really hate the word panties as well.
yayy. this is helping me keep myself somewhat together. i was just denied lifesaving healthcare again after another year of begging to be allowed to get it.
This video was so funny because it was Jamie and Shaaba doing it. (The video, not it. Get your heads out of the gutter people. )
I loved it. It reminded me of your beginning videos. I miss the old days. More of you two together, please. The podcast is good, but it is more business than you guys just being yourselves. I love you guys. The laughter is wonderful.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Lasagna might have been the deal breaker because it was something his family traditionally had at celebrations, but the bride didn't like pasta dishes - or didn't want sauces and messy foods near her gown. But I'm with grandpa - I want the lasagna!
As for the various expenses of a wedding.... Get a cheap ring, have a tiny service with the important people in your life, wear whatever you want, have a reception at McDonald's (fast food joint). And then take all that money you saved and invest it in your future: down payment on a home, investments for when kids come along - or for adopting or infertility treatments.
You could spend 50 million on a lavish one-day event, or you can spend 1 million and invest 49 million on the next 49 years of marriage. Choose wisely.
You are so lovely together. I love the energy of you both ❤️✨
Your podcast was in my 2024 recap! You make great videos together
Thank you Shabba for the lovely joke. (At like 2min in) I had to pause the video and go tell said joke to my eldest child. (They will be 23 in a couple months & giggled when I told it.)
That photo of y'all for the podcast is so freakin' cute!
I love you guys, you're so much fun to watch 😊❤
you guys are literally couple goals 🥹
1:50 I LOVE that joke, I snort laughed and fell off my chair
So... the military story reminded me of my dad, funny enough. My mom and dad divorced when I was quite young, around 4, and then my dad married my stepmom when I was 13. (I'm 36 now) But before my mom and dad ever met, my dad and stepmom dated for like 4 years between '77 or '78 and '81 or '82. She and her family talked heavily about marriage at the end. She's 6 years older than my dad and she wanted to settle down and have kids. My dad was supposed to meet her and her parents at a country club for lunch one day and my dad ghosted. He ran away and joined the military because he wasn't ready for that yet 😅
On the one with Bob I have known a lot of veterans who were very immature when joining the military but came out mature and healthy.
12:20 That groom was really doing his best impression of Claudio from Much Ado About Nothing, huh?
the thumbnail and title made me so worried until i realized they're literally already married and had a wedding😭
Shaaba saying "i would slap a b!tch" had me 🤣! Im with Shaaba on that! ❤ 😘
You two are such a lovely couple and people! 🎉🎉❤❤😊
Silly Shaaba came to play and I am here for it!
For a moment I forgot you two are already married and feared for the worst XD
Oh you thought the title was bad? Read the description
We don't have mandatory notice of Marriage, in the US. All you need is a license and an officiant. I officiated a wedding on a floating dock in a city park lake.
It’s nice that you and shabba are still friends no matter what 😊
Love you Jamie!!💛💛🥔🥔 Love you Shaaba!!🩷🩷🍑🍑
Despite the wedding being ages ago this was still a jumpscare
In our recent case, the groom 'forgot' to disclose that living at, and caring for his healthy parents was a non-negotiable! It was difficult but they ended up calling the wedding off a month before the whole thing, it's been a wild time on my family since
Notice of Marriage is an interesting concept to hear about because in the country I live in you literally just have to fill out a form to get legally married 😮 it’s only a little more complicated if you’re not a citizen
27:25 some people like to brag about how much things cost them. It's just so they can say they paid X amount
Jamies: "i would buy two!" 😂 exactly what i would do. Who does not like a Discount?
As someone struggling with CFS/ME, the notion of having two separate lives AND continuing employment PLUS fitting in apparently doing a lot of coke without tipping off either family OR getting fired is genuinely unfathomable.
I actually did walk down the aisle to the Jurassic Park theme song by the Piano Guys. We regret nothing 😂
20:40 Executive dysfunction sweethearts lmao, need me someone who understands that and relates so deeply that the relationship could survive fucking up wedding arrangements through forgetfulness. I hope they're doing well and enjoying life together and defining it on their own terms
Okay I'm ADHD and the week before thing is honestly so real I didn't even start actually planning my 18th birthday thing until a week before and I didn't get ready for going overseas for a month until about a week before and it was only because my mother pestered me into doing it which is absolutely ridiculous honestly, I had to transfer my sim card because I still hadn't fully moved to my new phone even though I'd had it for a good few months because apparently I'm incapable of actually doing things in any reasonable timeframe XD
Where I live, a firefighter lives at the station when they are working. They have like three days on, where they're living at the fire station, and then some days off where they live at home. So for a person living a double life, it makes sense that they would claim to be a firefighter, in order to explain being absent for days at a time.
23:16 My parents have been happily together for the past 30+ years, and while they are engaged, they've never bothered to get married. They've told me that they just viewed a wedding as an unnecessary expense. Instead, they've spent their money on a house, a summer place, family trips etc.
Shaaba was so unhinged this episode and I am so here for it.
Smoke-farting plane! 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Did you hear about the bride who couldn't find her groom on the day of the wedding and found him being breast fed by his mother (he was 30+?) The mother told her not to make it weird because it was normal. He often dropped off on his way home from work if he'd had a stressful day!!!!!!
Oh Jammi knew what he was doing with this title and thumbnail XD
the way I jumped on the notification 😭
The "firefighter " wife was in on it. She was desperate to get the house fixed. 😂
Notice of intention to marry is also a thing in Australia (at least NSW)
keep slaying guys❗️❗️
In Bob's case, the fact that they were high school sweethearts implies that the couple were initially planning on getting married very young, like 18 or 19. So that's somewhat more understandable, and, I would argue, good for him for acknowledging he wasn't ready. For all we know, they might have ended up divorced if they had gotten married that young.
The thing that gets me is that there's a lot of time and money being spent on a wedding already. I feel like barring fire, flood or fuckery, any reason for calling it off is gonna sound silly.
26:30 you mightve gotten daisy LOL
I got so scared 😭
Then I remembered your already married so it’s all good I guess
jammidodger looks at shaaba like Desi looked at Lucy
.... Shaaba ❤❤❤❤❤ you are the cutest peach ever 😂😂😂😂
shaaba RULES
In the US, lots of people are calling off their weddings or filing for divorce because their partner (usually a man) voted for Trump. Makes perfect sense to me!