This episode was a learning experience. Childhood trauma is real and like wow. No one should ever go through so much at a young age. Susan and James- you are both strong. 👏❤️
I loved this episode..James offering his number when he heard what she was going through.. Susan speaking about her struggles...it was beautiful to watch.
“People that like words of affirmation lacked it while growing up”. This is me, I can’t tell you how much I struggle to believe that I’m loved or beautiful even if people keep telling me. It’s a struggle tbh😢
I kind of feel the pains of this young man, though his lifestyle is not my cup of tea. He’s been through a lot like most young Nigerians. Big ups to him.
Parenthood can be beautiful if we adopt the method which every good farmer uses in cultivating yam tubers .(The Tendril concept) A farmer after he plants his yam seedlings,makes what is called a tendril(a support system used to direct leaves of creeping plants) this helps direct the movement of the yam leaves as they grow. Every parent is a tendril,and the child or Children is a creeping yam leave; that is clueless on where it is heading to.If the parent (s) doesn't position him/herself well ,the child will find other support system to help his movement.For yam leaves without tendrils it's usually the ground,and the end of such yam plant is always a chaotic and disastrous one Mind you ,Good tendrils are usually strong,organized, rooted deep inside the soil,they are tall most atimes,or are well constructed in ways to keep the creeping plants organized till they are matured enough. So my sincere advice to young and upcoming parents is be a good support system to your children,be present to direct them as a good tendril will.Make sure you plant your foot deep in the soil,so you won't fall when strong winds come your way. Regardless of your past experiences with your own parents.let me add that forgiving your parents for their mistake in your life goes a long way in helping you raise your own kids right. Above all , keep in mind that all life issues emanates from poor relationship between parents and children,no cap ,go and verify, 99.99% issues that's usually the starting point. This is just the best way to avoid criss between parents and children,any other way is arguably futile.Gracias🙏🙏
Susan thank you for this episode😍I was raised by my mum’s family my grandma and her sibling never had this fatherly love but my mum’s family filled that gap but like you said society and school will want to frustrate and keep reminding you that you don’t have a father even if you have but he just don’t care…shout out to my mum’s immediate younger sister Aunty Stella for the love she poured into my life she keeps reminding me how special and unique I am…children like us just want love….and like you said I really don’t want his love or nothing I just want him to support me financially that’s it….thou my remarried but I didn’t just allow myself to be close to my step dad thou he seems cool but I’m used to be without a father figure…shout out to you Susan and James❤
James can literally turn someone from crying to laughing 😂❤Susan we are really happy that you made this video 😊both the rich and poor are literally going through a lot from their families
I subscribed cos of how beautiful Susan does her interviews. Very realistic and very comfortable. A lot is always spilled. Good job girl. You're really doing so well. Proud of you Mama Johnson Daughter ❤
This has to be my best Episode, I can relate because my dad has not been in the picture, like James would say he's alive but dead to me, my mum and my senior sister are my everything and I'll do everything to make them proud.... My mum's family have actually really tried for me.
Love you Susan can’t wait to meet you one day . We literally have the same story I’m from a single home , my mum raised me alone and I’m the only child . Grew up with so many trauma. I always thought I was the only one .
This topic is deep no matter how hard we try to make the world a better place we can’t change life reality ..the only thing we can actually do is to accept it that way… try as much as we can not to repeat the same mistake
What an interesting episode I really enjoyed it listening & seeing you guys talk about it really..deadbeat parents especially dads imagine setting one place and expect me to come look for him after all the Trauma they've caused..😤
James deserves all good things coming to him like fr....that dude is a real gee.... Growing up in the streets mehnnnn.....tho the hurt is there but when u finally start using all of your experiences to deal with life, the world becomes a bit easy to operate on.... Of a truth, only God's love that's unconditional and that's where I find my peace most. Some of us wey dey genuinely care about others and love others we strong cos if dem say make we check am, we nor fit give weytin we nor get or weytin dem nor give us.....
I really took my time to watch this episode cause I can relate to the single parenting, deadbeat father whatever. But I've to admit, Susan looks so pretty,James is effortlessly funny too😂😂
Hiiii! I use Audapp. It’s an audio podcast platform that I use to listen to lots of interesting African podcasts while working too. You can check it out. Cheers to listening to podcasts while working.😂🥂
Wow!!! I am never really a fun of Susan but watching this episode, i am deeply touched. This Lady has been through alot, your story is as similar as mine and my siblings. But God is Faithful Susan. Keep doing your best and God will see you through. Luv u darling ❤❤
Wow! I can't believe I watched 51min video with my Mb, and no regret, you are doing so well Susan. The queen herself is a whole vibe truly social media has made a lot of people don't know what happened behind the scene. You both went through a lot, you are strong. I applaud you ❤❤❤. Big fan ❤❤
I was feeling sad and gloomy about some disappointments i have faced but the moment I saw James brown, I clicked immediately because i knew he would change my mood😂
I can relate to this although I have both parents but staying with a relative was really difficult. Bold me became so timid and in my shell, primitive, low self-esteem and had alot of things that kinda damaged me but im all good now i get depressed but it gets better by the day.
Wow Susan wat a story To all the girls raised by a single moms I know how many times I thought of suicide wow its extremely traumatizing am 18 now tho we are strong 💪 ❤
James I really understand you, cause I and my siblings faced same thing, till now they (my parents) haven’t come for us, I feel bad sometimes I cry, like now am crying, because I want to take care of myself I did things I regreted
I tried to ignore it, but the "like" opor. I hope you get more conscious of it. That's usually all it takes. Great episode though, and my God your Skin!
But can we take a commercial break to talk about Susan's skin???😍😍🔥🔥🔥
James own nko
My dear errrr ... Susan’s skin is everything
Real definition of glow
It’s glittering
Like she should be glowriahhh❤😊
Me that don’t know if they swear for my skin
James said, "I don't believe in family by blood. I believe in family by bonding" .
I think that's it for me.
Ahh.. Googo, you are here telling everybody that you don't love me, daddy, mummy, juuju, fee and Diogo???🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
@@jessicaezeanyika6974 what?😂
yes oo. 😂 My sister is telling everyone she does not believe in our family.
Never knew james could hold a conversation and have a sense of humor at it.. enjoyed it
This episode was a learning experience. Childhood trauma is real and like wow. No one should ever go through so much at a young age. Susan and James- you are both strong. 👏❤️
I genuinely think Jamesbrown is an amazing person that has done well for himself regardless of what life offered
Exactly and that’s why I prefer him by far to bob. The guy worked his way up there. He deserves all the good things that comes to him
I loved this episode..James offering his number when he heard what she was going through.. Susan speaking about her struggles...it was beautiful to watch.
“People that like words of affirmation lacked it while growing up”. This is me, I can’t tell you how much I struggle to believe that I’m loved or beautiful even if people keep telling me. It’s a struggle tbh😢
James is such a free genuine spirit I’m just taking my time to listen to him for the first time🥺
I really enjoyed this series.I’m so proud of James,and Susan’s skinnnnn😍
This episode really made me really emotional!!! Susan please stay strong like you have always done!!
Susan consistent natural looks kept me glued to this podcast.
Girl u rock 💕💕💕💕 u
This is deep to some of us, we relate better... Single parenting shouldn't happen to anyone
I’m so proud of James. He has gone through so much in his life as young as he is and he’s still pushing through
I kind of feel the pains of this young man, though his lifestyle is not my cup of tea. He’s been through a lot like most young Nigerians. Big ups to him.
James is a vibe. Keep being strong, Susan. You both deserve all the love.❤️❤️
Parenthood can be beautiful if we adopt the method which every good farmer uses in cultivating yam tubers .(The Tendril concept)
A farmer after he plants his yam seedlings,makes what is called a tendril(a support system used to direct leaves of creeping plants) this helps direct the movement of the yam leaves as they grow.
Every parent is a tendril,and the child or Children is a creeping yam leave; that is clueless on where it is heading to.If the parent (s) doesn't position him/herself well ,the child will find other support system to help his movement.For yam leaves without tendrils it's usually the ground,and the end of such yam plant is always a chaotic and disastrous one
Mind you ,Good tendrils are usually strong,organized, rooted deep inside the soil,they are tall most atimes,or are well constructed in ways to keep the creeping plants organized till they are matured enough.
So my sincere advice to young and upcoming parents is be a good support system to your children,be present to direct them as a good tendril will.Make sure you plant your foot deep in the soil,so you won't fall when strong winds come your way.
Regardless of your past experiences with your own parents.let me add that forgiving your parents for their mistake in your life goes a long way in helping you raise your own kids right.
Above all , keep in mind that all life issues emanates from poor relationship between parents and children,no cap ,go and verify, 99.99% issues that's usually the starting point.
This is just the best way to avoid criss between parents and children,any other way is arguably futile.Gracias🙏🙏
Now I can agree that James issa whole vibeeeeee
It's the Aunty Tolani Nur/pry school for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm following James henceforth. You are sweet. Susan, I watched you from when you were very little... much love❤❤❤
Susan thank you for this episode😍I was raised by my mum’s family my grandma and her sibling never had this fatherly love but my mum’s family filled that gap but like you said society and school will want to frustrate and keep reminding you that you don’t have a father even if you have but he just don’t care…shout out to my mum’s immediate younger sister Aunty Stella for the love she poured into my life she keeps reminding me how special and unique I am…children like us just want love….and like you said I really don’t want his love or nothing I just want him to support me financially that’s it….thou my remarried but I didn’t just allow myself to be close to my step dad thou he seems cool but I’m used to be without a father figure…shout out to you Susan and James❤
I feel you 😔
James can literally turn someone from crying to laughing 😂❤Susan we are really happy that you made this video 😊both the rich and poor are literally going through a lot from their families
James needs his own podcast!!!
I subscribed cos of how beautiful Susan does her interviews. Very realistic and very comfortable. A lot is always spilled. Good job girl. You're really doing so well. Proud of you Mama Johnson Daughter ❤
You can't dislike James for any reason, see vibes.
Much love susu
This has to be my best Episode, I can relate because my dad has not been in the picture, like James would say he's alive but dead to me, my mum and my senior sister are my everything and I'll do everything to make them proud....
My mum's family have actually really tried for me.
Love you Susan can’t wait to meet you one day . We literally have the same story I’m from a single home , my mum raised me alone and I’m the only child . Grew up with so many trauma. I always thought I was the only one .
Stay Strong love
This episode is the best so far ... I enjoy watching it ... Stay strong Susan more winning to you
This topic is deep no matter how hard we try to make the world a better place we can’t change life reality ..the only thing we can actually do is to accept it that way… try as much as we can not to repeat the same mistake
James our Queen.....pls pls I have watched mean girls, liked and subscribed.....its a whole vibe
make i bring cold drinks here ....this podcast go get vawulence cox james na vawulence minister
What an interesting episode I really enjoyed it listening & seeing you guys talk about it really..deadbeat parents especially dads imagine setting one place and expect me to come look for him after all the Trauma they've caused..😤
James deserves all good things coming to him like fr....that dude is a real gee.... Growing up in the streets mehnnnn.....tho the hurt is there but when u finally start using all of your experiences to deal with life, the world becomes a bit easy to operate on.... Of a truth, only God's love that's unconditional and that's where I find my peace most. Some of us wey dey genuinely care about others and love others we strong cos if dem say make we check am, we nor fit give weytin we nor get or weytin dem nor give us.....
That whole thing about showing love the way your parents show love is very ACCURATE! Fam.
Susan skin🥰❤️I love it
James is a whole vibes😂❤️❤️❤️
Susan's skin is giving everything it's should be giving
Pipe down with this "it's giving "shit
I just chanced on this live podcast, enjoying though. From ghana 😂
I really took my time to watch this episode cause I can relate to the single parenting, deadbeat father whatever. But I've to admit, Susan looks so pretty,James is effortlessly funny too😂😂
James dey interview Susan for her own show 🤦🏾♀️😅
Therefore this episodes screams " IF U KNEW BETTER , U WOULD DO BETTER"
I genuinely feel for James and all he has been through and is still going through
I really enjoyed this episode 😭😭, didn’t want it to end, jamessss and Susan!!
This was so funny educative and emotional 😢
Omo this is really worth watching 💯💯💯
Best episode yet💕 can we get an audio version? For those of us who like working and listening to podcasts?
Yesss🙏
Hiiii! I use Audapp. It’s an audio podcast platform that I use to listen to lots of interesting African podcasts while working too. You can check it out. Cheers to listening to podcasts while working.😂🥂
@@solomonnoah thank you sm you’re a life saver 💕
Wow!!! I am never really a fun of Susan but watching this episode, i am deeply touched. This Lady has been through alot, your story is as similar as mine and my siblings. But God is Faithful Susan. Keep doing your best and God will see you through. Luv u darling ❤❤
Thanks James💗 that’s so beautiful and thank you Susan💗 …. This is beautiful
If I got a dollar for everytime Susan says “it’s a thing like”, I’d be so rich 😭😂
Like bruhhhh😂😂😂I thought I was the only one who noticed
I was even counting 😂
Or "the you get part "
Expected smtin different from an episode with James Brown but this is basically everything and more 🥰
Guys I can’t stop looking at Susan’s skin… what In the pearl is she using 😭?
Aswear it is glowing 😮
This James is too Dramatic 😂😂😂
Wow! I can't believe I watched 51min video with my Mb, and no regret, you are doing so well Susan.
The queen herself is a whole vibe truly social media has made a lot of people don't know what happened behind the scene. You both went through a lot, you are strong. I applaud you ❤❤❤. Big fan ❤❤
I WAS ACTUALLY NUMB TODAY BUT THIS EPISODE MADE EVERYTHING PERFECT FOR ME
So far, this is like the best episode of surviving Lagos❤❤
right after the one with Yhemo Lee, thats the best if you ask me
Am telling you
I was feeling sad and gloomy about some disappointments i have faced but the moment I saw James brown, I clicked immediately because i knew he would change my mood😂
Loads of love to u Susan pwajok ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥
I'm enjoy this episode to be honest ! This episode make me have hope
Just seeing this episode now
It's so nice😍
James is a character 😂😂😂😂
I can relate to this although I have both parents but staying with a relative was really difficult. Bold me became so timid and in my shell, primitive, low self-esteem and had alot of things that kinda damaged me but im all good now i get depressed but it gets better by the day.
This is one episode, I relate to.
Memories are flashing back and I feel so hurt,,,,,,😭
Lesson of the day- Never Give up, better days are ahead
This is my favorite episode
I laughedd all through while learning a lot! James has knowledge na. Susan!!!!!! Exceptional💕❤️✨
This is the actually the best episode hands down ! ❤❤
It’s the duchess of London for me
Much love for James 🥰🥰🥰
Wow Susan wat a story
To all the girls raised by a single moms
I know how many times I thought of suicide wow its extremely traumatizing am 18 now tho we are strong 💪 ❤
Try and look for your father, ask him why? If he has something to say, hear it.
@@moyoladeadejoyegbe1845 he's gone i lost him I was 7months
@@moyoladeadejoyegbe1845 that is the job of the parent. But alas, deadbeat is as deadbeat does
This is the best episode soo far🎉❤❤ soo proud of you susan❤
Ooooh my!!!!!!
First time watching and I had so much fun and learnt, so glued!!!!!....Defo a fan of the show now💯, James is such a vibe😂❤️🔥
It’s James quoting bob for me 😂😂😂😂
Every interview I’ve watched of James is a vibe❤ she’s a good vibe
Loved this episode suzzy nice one
Honestly James’ story is making me teary 😢
I have a lot to say on this topic, but then, this is amazing.. got me wishing I was part of it. 👍👏 May God continue to strengthen us all❤️
Susan is glowing sha.❤
James story is literally touching
James 🤦🏽♂️😅♥️♥️♥️♥️ love this guy character
James I really understand you, cause I and my siblings faced same thing, till now they (my parents) haven’t come for us, I feel bad sometimes I cry, like now am crying, because I want to take care of myself I did things I regreted
This has to be the best episode ever
Loved it ❤
The best so far!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
James is actually intelligent ♥️♥️
James is a great personality ❤️
James is spitting facts abeg 🥰🤲🏾
I really enjoyed watching this
Susan you'll make it... No problems
I have both parents but I didn't grow up staying with them lol, that's a whole traumatizing childhood memory, now it's hard to bond with them
This Susan's skin is 🔥
Susan's laughter😂😂 she surely enjoyed this episode
James is a vibeeeee!
hello, why i nobody hearing james english, 'he could hv do better'....🤣🤣
❤..enjoyed episode
Totally enjoyed watching this episode!! Nice one susan
This podcast is really eye opening
Thanks for this
I tried to ignore it, but the "like" opor. I hope you get more conscious of it. That's usually all it takes. Great episode though, and my God your Skin!
Yupp that rosy part>>>
Omo a lot has been learnt from dis😪
I loved this❤
Bruh! 😭 really enjoyed watching this episode!😭❤️
Emails are open my DMS are full no vex🤣🤣❤️❤️
Lemme bring my pillow here🤣🤣🤣
I will bring popcorn too 😁😁
Agree with James , his mother must continue enjoying her 😂
Love this video!!!!