Living together or maybe getting a pet or like marriage as well like for the hall and stuff so important events that require to discuss money and a budget together especially ofc the obvs one kids as well but still important to have individuals finically dreams as well but yeah
The money thing is true . If you are a kind and giving person, youd be surprise about the friends and family that WILL repeatedly want to take advantage and eventually feel ENTITLED to your money . People WILL compare themselves to you ( naturally ) and that can create a drift in how they see you and it will change their perspective on you. They will seperate themsleves from you or say " youve changed " People say they want you to do better but as soon as you " do better than them " ( in their eyes not even through your own eyes ) they wont like it . Keep your finaces private ! Spend and invest wisely .
In all honesty thank you I needed to hear this talk!!! I’m 21 going to 22 this year and hearing you guys say how much a struggle it is even for someone as well off or works hard and earns decently good you can see how tough it is. I’m a business owner going 5 years now and it has been a real struggle and making around the numbers spoken with you guys yessss it’s tough!!! 100k isn’t anything in California
I have slowly become really big fans of you guys! I don’t typically watch vlog style content or even relationships at that cuz I usually find them corny or not genuine, but you and Jake seem to have such a healthy, real and loving relationship which I love and like Jake said, it’s something other people strive towards! I look forward to watching more of y’all’s content 🫶🏼
It’s so true about the finances thing - it could also turn into a competition type of situation when too many people know about how much you make or what you can afford. I think the timeline you guys said is pretty reasonable if you’re thinking long term! Loved the short pod ❤
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 1 year and 3 months and we’re just now talking about our finances which for us is the perfect time. I feel like if we did it sooner it would’ve been too early but we’re purchasing things together and entering our 20s so the topic kind of just felt right. Managing our finances together is a big step in our relationship and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with bringing it up to your partner if it’s done the right way, if you see a future with them it should be talked about for sure.
I don’t think you guys are out of touch for thinking 100k is bear minimum, but I think that it really depends on what your priorities are. I think it also depends on where you live because 100k in cali is soooo different than 100k in Kansas.
I'm personally so proud of you guys! I watch you every time you post a video! I'm getting out of a relationship and all your videos just make me feel so much better. I love your videos. Your relationship is the best and cutest.
Thank you ,you guys for this podcast.most people don't talk about this situation. I'm glad I'm not the only one. I don't tell nobody how much I make especially my son dad. He don't either which I respect him for that.
Thank you Jathaly for the great advice about financing. It’s sad but true, you just don’t know but just stay quiet it’s a great way to protect yourself.
Yes I agree on everything is hard to trust people on what you say or do because family and friends want to know everything on how much you make or other stuff but with finding love make sure the person is stable trusted worthy and how can inspire grow with you no matter what happens.. Look I'm 35 years old and both you inspire me grow and develop myself in learning more new things and I thank you guys for that....
Asking your partner is okay if you are truly looking for a long term relationship that will eventually turn into marriage. Ex. Me and my partner have been together for three years before we had jobs so I was never in a position where I had to meet and question when I should ask…. But my BIG issue is when people ask him or me what are finances look like… ex, his parents ask and criticize the amount of money he has (we are 20) he doesn’t live with his parents and has a great job being a welder. I taught him about credit, getting a car, saving, & how to manage big money coming in…. We no longer live in California we were from the central valley and now live in Tennessee and travel for work. I just hate when people ask the amount we have like don’t ask if you aren’t going to Match what we have and give it to us lol…..
Hi Nat & Jake* I just have to say the level of maturity of this podcast is highly appreciated and well respected. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Happy belated birthday Jacob 🎉🎉
Needed to hear this! You guys explained everything so well, from someone the same age I haven't fully thought about finances thoroughly and I want to pursue the same career you guys have. I will always keep your advice in mind. Love you guys, you're so inspiring keep up the great work!🥰🫶🏼
Watched until the end! 😂 you guys are funny. Also love your post BUT PLEASE BE HUMBLE. I binged you for a month and so because I just found you guys and I seen how much y’all changed but still love you cause you have a beautiful heart and love this couple! BUT UNDERSTAND you have money and your viewers don’t
@@JathalteaPodcast. man I never said ungrateful. That’s not nice of y’all, I said I love y’all but you do have money. Be humble, I can never afford $300 for food. And yes if I had money I would travel but rewatch the podcast. Just maybe a few words that made me a poor person feel a bit weird. Like I said I’m a new sub that binged all videos
Yup! I agree about the GWagon interior, When I went to MB of Temecula to order a AMG GLE they tried putting me in a gwagon and I was astonished by how tight the interior was, Especially the back seats I was expecting double the room but it’s just insanely small for the size of the car, GLE on the other hand both the Coupe and Non Coupe were substantially bigger, As for my next car I’m looking to jump into the new V8 Vantage this year
Even though it was a shorter podcast it was really interesting and I’m so behind on your TH-cam videos because I’m busy with college but I’m excited to catch up this weekend 💖
20:30 something that people don’t talk about is that if you have a good home and good relationship with your family and don’t have to move you DO NOT have to move out at 18. It’s okay to live with your parents until you are able to buy a house instead of wasting money on rent. Of course this differs for everyone but if you have a good home you don’t need to rush out and be on your own.
This is SO TRUE! Typically we talk about moving out and getting apartments and stuff for those who are ready to get out but this right here is not talked about enough. I believe if youre in a good home to save and save because that will definitely help when you want to finally place a down payment on a home, or even get another car!!
17:55 I 100% agree it all makes sense even it’s something so innocent but sadly there’s so much evil going on around this world like nat said you don’t know who’s plotting but not just with finance but with other stuff
great podcast guys❤️! i think nowadays finances are becoming only more important due to inflation like nat said so i believe that not necessarily asking for their figure but their perspective on the topics of spending, saving, investing etc since a persons income can always go up & down. learn together and then hopefully grow together. looking forward to all the bangers coming! really enjoyed this watch🫶🏾
thank you for this bc i’m LITERALLY going through this with my boyfriend rn. we just are waiting for the green light on an apartment 😭🤞🏽🧿 but it’s also funny i was just talking about this with my sister in law THIS morning. in my relationship we talked about our credit & finances about a year in. anywayssss this 25 yo is rooting for y’all from FL, & it’s funny bc i found you from your room makeover video i think about 3 yrs ago when i was just 22 in my first apartment 😭 okay bye ilyyyyyy
The money thing is so true especially when your growing up seeing your parents struggle and see how they only make enough to get a bit of groceries and pay the bills and rent and how they feel bad because they cant get there kids stuff even if its something little or take them out its so frustrating and you cant even do anything to help Also just them growing up with nothing and wanting to give there kids a better life so they dont have to live how they lived and they cant because of how much inflation has gone up. The thing about being caution about everything is so scary now cause it could be something so tiny you wouldn’t think anything about but theres always something behind everything that someone could do to you and its so scary having to live in a world like this
I am a teacher in Arizona... and I make so little. It's crazy and insane how underpaid teachers are. My husband is a quadriplegic and we found out back in October that he has cancer. It's been hard with finances and being the one responsible for our bills and expenses. One of our 5th grade teachers quit in December so I went from 22 students to 30! We are fortunate that he has insurance due to his disability, but we're barely making it. Hopefully this nightmare will end soon. Cancer sucks.
that's so sad we are sorry! I remember some of my teachers wouldn't put up with our bad behavior because they were not paid enough and now we understand! We wish you and your husband the best and God bless the both of you!!!
Was wondering where the podcast was!! ❤.... I agree with Jacob about you Nat looking good in a Range. I drove a Mercedes ml350 for years and loooved it! I've always wanted a Gwagon, i love the body of it but honestly it's not spacious at all. Im a mom and when I had my last baby, I got a Range Rover, but the long one because I love how spacious it is, everything fits in the trunk!! The sport model is a little to small for my taste and needs 😆😆.... I love my car and would never switch it for a gwagon, I'll get one to say I have it and for mommy alone rides only 😂... love ur videos!
It depends on the job and it’s 30% and luckily for mine and my partners jobs they take them out of each check so we don’t see a huge chunk missing from our bank accounts, but I think it’s more for larger company’s 🤷🏼♀️
im openish about finances( not on the internet) bc companies have always tried to push “pay secrecy” like you cant speak about how much you make to other coworkers. which is complete bs because that probably means the company is not properly paying some employees. but i totally understand why influencers dont speak on finances because theres a lot of pocket watchers.
We’re in the process of getting a house and omg it’s sooooo much. But we kind of see it like if we keep holding it off it’s going to get more expensive in the future. It’s just hard when you’re the first ones to do it with no guidance 😅 but at least our future generations won’t struggle as much
5min in to the video and OMGGG if me and my boyfriend lived close to CA I would literally beg him to meet you BUTTTT at this point he loves yall and would want to meet you to so i wouldn’t have to beg anymore🥹🥹😭 we are deadasss always up to date on the most recent videos that i have to ask him if he watched it without me😩😩💕💕💕 we love you guys !!! let’s not forget ellie belly & baby shark😭😭
When do YOU think asking your partner about finances is appropriate?
i would probably say when thinking about moving in with each other bc i feel like that’s when bills and stuff is going to get mentioned
Living together or maybe getting a pet or like marriage as well like for the hall and stuff so important events that require to discuss money and a budget together especially ofc the obvs one kids as well but still important to have individuals finically dreams as well but yeah
I dont have a partner so I wouldn’t know😭
When ur thinking about marriage (if ur not going to move in) OR when u want to live together and get a place together
It was nice meeting you your genuinely the same as in TH-cam videos and podcasts was so kind like genuine
I love how in the start of the podcast Jake didn’t talk much, but now he really talks a lot. Seeing your podcast growth is really the best thing.
The money thing is true .
If you are a kind and giving person, youd be surprise about the friends and family that WILL repeatedly want to take advantage and eventually feel ENTITLED to your money .
People WILL compare themselves to you ( naturally ) and that can create a drift in how they see you and it will change their perspective on you. They will seperate themsleves from you or say " youve changed "
People say they want you to do better but as soon as you " do better than them " ( in their eyes not even through your own eyes ) they wont like it .
Keep your finaces private ! Spend and invest wisely .
I’m so happy you guys have posted 3 videos and 1 podcast lets give them a round of applause ❤❤
In all honesty thank you I needed to hear this talk!!! I’m 21 going to 22 this year and hearing you guys say how much a struggle it is even for someone as well off or works hard and earns decently good you can see how tough it is. I’m a business owner going 5 years now and it has been a real struggle and making around the numbers spoken with you guys yessss it’s tough!!! 100k isn’t anything in California
What's your business? We would love to support!
Loving this pod been sick this week but IM HERE watching!!!
i've been sick too, what is going on😭😭
I have slowly become really big fans of you guys! I don’t typically watch vlog style content or even relationships at that cuz I usually find them corny or not genuine, but you and Jake seem to have such a healthy, real and loving relationship which I love and like Jake said, it’s something other people strive towards! I look forward to watching more of y’all’s content 🫶🏼
I love you guys 🥹🥹❤️ everytime i go to the mall you guys shop at im like “omg they were literally walking on this sidewalk”🤣
you’re like me 😂
It’s so true about the finances thing - it could also turn into a competition type of situation when too many people know about how much you make or what you can afford. I think the timeline you guys said is pretty reasonable if you’re thinking long term! Loved the short pod ❤
Agreed!!
listening to y’all at work is the vibe 😊 getting me through my last 2 hours of my shift ❤️❤️
LOVE how much you’re posting right now keep it up guys 💗
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 1 year and 3 months and we’re just now talking about our finances which for us is the perfect time. I feel like if we did it sooner it would’ve been too early but we’re purchasing things together and entering our 20s so the topic kind of just felt right. Managing our finances together is a big step in our relationship and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with bringing it up to your partner if it’s done the right way, if you see a future with them it should be talked about for sure.
I don’t think you guys are out of touch for thinking 100k is bear minimum, but I think that it really depends on what your priorities are. I think it also depends on where you live because 100k in cali is soooo different than 100k in Kansas.
I'm personally so proud of you guys! I watch you every time you post a video! I'm getting out of a relationship and all your videos just make me feel so much better. I love your videos. Your relationship is the best and cutest.
Love you guys so much big up ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I purposely like to miss like 2-3 of your videos just so I can binge watch them, but I’m 22, a little older and I love your videos and your vibe.
Thank you ,you guys for this podcast.most people don't talk about this situation. I'm glad I'm not the only one. I don't tell nobody how much I make especially my son dad. He don't either which I respect him for that.
omg nat would actually look so good in a range rover!!! she gives such hot mom in a range rover vibes 😭
Thank you Jathaly for the great advice about financing. It’s sad but true, you just don’t know but just stay quiet it’s a great way to protect yourself.
Yes I agree on everything is hard to trust people on what you say or do because family and friends want to know everything on how much you make or other stuff but with finding love make sure the person is stable trusted worthy and how can inspire grow with you no matter what happens.. Look I'm 35 years old and both you inspire me grow and develop myself in learning more new things and I thank you guys for that....
I love youu guys!!!. And I really love this podcast.
The confidence in “uncle joe loves you” 😂😂😂 natttt ily
me and bae saw y’all were at disney the same dayy and i jus cannot believe we didn’t catch youuu. You guys are amazing even my bf loves watching you!!
Asking your partner is okay if you are truly looking for a long term relationship that will eventually turn into marriage. Ex. Me and my partner have been together for three years before we had jobs so I was never in a position where I had to meet and question when I should ask…. But my BIG issue is when people ask him or me what are finances look like… ex, his parents ask and criticize the amount of money he has (we are 20) he doesn’t live with his parents and has a great job being a welder. I taught him about credit, getting a car, saving, & how to manage big money coming in…. We no longer live in California we were from the central valley and now live in Tennessee and travel for work. I just hate when people ask the amount we have like don’t ask if you aren’t going to Match what we have and give it to us lol…..
Yesss I’m so happy a new podcast is out
It’s always nice to end my day with a good podcast!! You guys are the best💜
Bye, it was funny when jake said g wagon looks like a lunch box 😭😭
Love your guy’s podcast! Listen to them while studying,
Currently on Term 6 Nursing
Keep doing great!☝🏻
I work at a hospital and was on dish duty today. Was listening to the podcast while cleaning!! Will support you guys forever!
THANK YOU!!!!
nat i love you and how motivated you are and jake too!❤️
Hi Nat & Jake* I just have to say the level of maturity of this podcast is highly appreciated and well respected. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Happy belated birthday Jacob 🎉🎉
Yess best day ever, because my favorite people posted a podcast video today! Love you guys!❤️
yesss a new podcast ep. is out
Watching this on my lunch break !! The podcasts have been sooo good lately 😩🔥🔥❤
Happy late birthday jake! Also im so proud of yall u guys are doing so amazing in life i love watching yall succeed u guys deserve it💕
Love your guys
Your sweet couple
Thank you jake and nat for another amazing podcast! I can't wait to watch it❤❤
Needed to hear this! You guys explained everything so well, from someone the same age I haven't fully thought about finances thoroughly and I want to pursue the same career you guys have. I will always keep your advice in mind. Love you guys, you're so inspiring keep up the great work!🥰🫶🏼
Not Jake thinking people arranged a Disney trip just cause they were there 😂😂😂 so childish. 😂😂😂
Watched until the end! 😂 you guys are funny. Also love your post BUT PLEASE BE HUMBLE. I binged you for a month and so because I just found you guys and I seen how much y’all changed but still love you cause you have a beautiful heart and love this couple! BUT UNDERSTAND you have money and your viewers don’t
I believe there humble, if you had money wouldn’t you want to travel and get the things you’ve always dreamed of?
I don’t understand how we came off ungrateful/ not humble… Abby do you agree with rhianna on this one ?🤨
@@JathalteaPodcast. man I never said ungrateful. That’s not nice of y’all, I said I love y’all but you do have money. Be humble, I can never afford $300 for food. And yes if I had money I would travel but rewatch the podcast. Just maybe a few words that made me a poor person feel a bit weird. Like I said I’m a new sub that binged all videos
@@JathalteaPodcast. I also know nat replied not Jake 😬
MYYY FAV PODCAST 🩷🩷
The podcasts never fail to entertain me ❤
I could watch these podcast for hours 😂
Love love the podcast wooo !!!
Uncle Joe 😂 I love y’all
Yup! I agree about the GWagon interior, When I went to MB of Temecula to order a AMG GLE they tried putting me in a gwagon and I was astonished by how tight the interior was, Especially the back seats I was expecting double the room but it’s just insanely small for the size of the car, GLE on the other hand both the Coupe and Non Coupe were substantially bigger, As for my next car I’m looking to jump into the new V8 Vantage this year
The Aston 🤩
I LOVEEE YALLL SM❤❤
Me and my family loves watching your family’s channel
Even though it was a shorter podcast it was really interesting and I’m so behind on your TH-cam videos because I’m busy with college but I’m excited to catch up this weekend 💖
Always looking forward for your podcast
20:30 something that people don’t talk about is that if you have a good home and good relationship with your family and don’t have to move you DO NOT have to move out at 18. It’s okay to live with your parents until you are able to buy a house instead of wasting money on rent. Of course this differs for everyone but if you have a good home you don’t need to rush out and be on your own.
32:03 not getting a new car until my 2006 Corolla can’t drive anymore lmaoo
This is SO TRUE! Typically we talk about moving out and getting apartments and stuff for those who are ready to get out but this right here is not talked about enough. I believe if youre in a good home to save and save because that will definitely help when you want to finally place a down payment on a home, or even get another car!!
Happy belated birthday Jake!!
OMG A PODCAST! In the day of my birthday?!?! This is the best birthday gift ever!!! Thank you guys! 🩷
HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYY
I love when you guys podcast
2 bangers in 1 day 😮😮
17:55 I 100% agree it all makes sense even it’s something so innocent but sadly there’s so much evil going on around this world like nat said you don’t know who’s plotting but not just with finance but with other stuff
Love the podcast!💓💓💓
I love you guys ❤️ made my day
Happy late Birthday🍰🎊!!!!! Love you guys!!🩷🩷🩷
hope jake had a fun birthday! 🎉🫶🏼
Make the podcast longer!! 30 minutes isn’t enough 😭
great podcast guys❤️! i think nowadays finances are becoming only more important due to inflation like nat said so i believe that not necessarily asking for their figure but their perspective on the topics of spending, saving, investing etc since a persons income can always go up & down. learn together and then hopefully grow together. looking forward to all the bangers coming! really enjoyed this watch🫶🏾
Love y’all’s vids keep doing what your doing 😊
You guys are too cute together. Love you guys and enjoy your videos
my fav people !!! ❤️❤️
thank you for this bc i’m LITERALLY going through this with my boyfriend rn. we just are waiting for the green light on an apartment 😭🤞🏽🧿 but it’s also funny i was just talking about this with my sister in law THIS morning. in my relationship we talked about our credit & finances about a year in.
anywayssss this 25 yo is rooting for y’all from FL, & it’s funny bc i found you from your room makeover video i think about 3 yrs ago when i was just 22 in my first apartment 😭 okay bye ilyyyyyy
I’m so glad you guys are getting the recognition you deserve. So so sooo proud of you guys, can’t wait to meet you both one day! 🫶🏽
THANK YOU!:)
The money thing is so true especially when your growing up seeing your parents struggle and see how they only make enough to get a bit of groceries and pay the bills and rent and how they feel bad because they cant get there kids stuff even if its something little or take them out its so frustrating and you cant even do anything to help
Also just them growing up with nothing and wanting to give there kids a better life so they dont have to live how they lived and they cant because of how much inflation has gone up.
The thing about being caution about everything is so scary now cause it could be something so tiny you wouldn’t think anything about but theres always something behind everything that someone could do to you and its so scary having to live in a world like this
PLZ COME TO NEW ZEALAND but in the winter time and defs go to the South Island you guys will love it (summer time is also pretty)
I’d literally be okay with a 5 minute pod if it comes from you both,the absolute best podcast🩷
Love ya’ll ❤️
early 🫶🏼 excited for todays pod:)
Okayy Jake we see the gains 💪💪
Loveee loveeee ur videos from all channels❤️😊
Love ur vids so much!!
love yalllll 💞💞
Nats skin looks so good
I am a teacher in Arizona... and I make so little. It's crazy and insane how underpaid teachers are. My husband is a quadriplegic and we found out back in October that he has cancer. It's been hard with finances and being the one responsible for our bills and expenses. One of our 5th grade teachers quit in December so I went from 22 students to 30! We are fortunate that he has insurance due to his disability, but we're barely making it. Hopefully this nightmare will end soon. Cancer sucks.
that's so sad we are sorry! I remember some of my teachers wouldn't put up with our bad behavior because they were not paid enough and now we understand! We wish you and your husband the best and God bless the both of you!!!
@@JathalteaPodcast. thank you guys ♥️
He’s been silly and listens to the podcast in the background when he games haha 😆 but he won’t admit it lol
IM in my dads phone but the video ended right when I finished dishes 😂
Luv these podcasts
love you guys!!
Omg I love them too! Kara and nate! Omg you have to do a collab!
Was wondering where the podcast was!! ❤.... I agree with Jacob about you Nat looking good in a Range. I drove a Mercedes ml350 for years and loooved it! I've always wanted a Gwagon, i love the body of it but honestly it's not spacious at all. Im a mom and when I had my last baby, I got a Range Rover, but the long one because I love how spacious it is, everything fits in the trunk!! The sport model is a little to small for my taste and needs 😆😆.... I love my car and would never switch it for a gwagon, I'll get one to say I have it and for mommy alone rides only 😂... love ur videos!
Love your channels ❤❤❤
Love you guys!❤️
Love you guyssss 🙈🫶🏽🫶🏽
LOVE THE PODCAST
KARA AND NATE OML YESS 😭😭
THE BEST!
Best podcast ❤
Love these!
It depends on the job and it’s 30% and luckily for mine and my partners jobs they take them out of each check so we don’t see a huge chunk missing from our bank accounts, but I think it’s more for larger company’s 🤷🏼♀️
im openish about finances( not on the internet) bc companies have always tried to push “pay secrecy” like you cant speak about how much you make to other coworkers. which is complete bs because that probably means the company is not properly paying some employees. but i totally understand why influencers dont speak on finances because theres a lot of pocket watchers.
Love you guys 🩷🩷💕💞💞💗
We’re in the process of getting a house and omg it’s sooooo much. But we kind of see it like if we keep holding it off it’s going to get more expensive in the future. It’s just hard when you’re the first ones to do it with no guidance 😅 but at least our future generations won’t struggle as much
HIII I LOVE YALL ❤️
5min in to the video and OMGGG if me and my boyfriend lived close to CA I would literally beg him to meet you BUTTTT at this point he loves yall and would want to meet you to so i wouldn’t have to beg anymore🥹🥹😭 we are deadasss always up to date on the most recent videos that i have to ask him if he watched it without me😩😩💕💕💕 we love you guys !!! let’s not forget ellie belly & baby shark😭😭
I love you guysss yall wanna come to my quinceee yall invite both of yalll I am being for reall🤭🤭🤭🤭
Happy late birthday Jacob!!!
Thank you Alex!
I’m single and right now I looking for someone stable but not wealthy just have a job and a person that I’m willing to spend the rest of my life with.
ahh I’m so glad you guys posted yayyyy !!! I hope you both had great valentines 💌