THERAPIST BREAKS DOWN KOTA THE FRIEND'S SONG 'SUMMERHOUSE'

Licensed Clinical Social Worker Bruce Mufson breaks down Kota the Friend's song 'Summerhouse'.
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[@mcliloldbigyoung]

If I may begin recommending some songs to you I would be very happy to do so, first two that come to mind are Kipp Stone - Retrograde Raps and Eyedea & Abilities - Smile , I have countless more suggestions, I love what you're doing, keep it up, one of these videos will bring you lots of viewers, I just have a feeling!!!

[@brucemufson5810]

Thanks for watching, commenting, and for all of your suggestions. I love to hear about new bands because as I told another commenter, I think that I know music and then I get sent something new and incredible and it is amazing. Thank you for doing that. The only issue is that we have gotten a ton of requests to cover other artists but what we will do is put these groups on our list of other bands to cover later. Thank you again.

[@mcliloldbigyoung]

@@brucemufson5810 On an unfortunate sidenote, Im in a unique situation that I'm still learning to see clearly, let me first say that I am not without my faults, over the course of about 10 days I wrote 305 densely covered post it notes filled with tiny writings of realizations about what I'm aware of now about myself and the relationship, I won't go into great detail about the relationship itself simply it's demise and my current intentions, for a long time she did have me believing I was the narcissist, and I never accused her once of being that, long story short several months ago I didn't know what was happening, within the relationship I had been emotionally discarded, my emotions began to deeply upset and anger her, she began dredging up things from the beginning of the relationship I thought we had conquered or properly addressed, I was doing everything I could to address these issues in a healthy way and as quickly as possible, but it was not complete or fast enough and she became very impatient with me while saying how patient she was being, I had a nervous breakdown and she was yelling at me during it while I asked her to stop several times, later she became increasingly unresponsive and uncommunicative, when ever I asked what was wrong she would say either nothing or that we would just argue so there's no point, she started physically distancing herself, sitting as far away from me as possible in the living room but still laying on my chest at night briefly, then the sex stopped and out of no where I had become a potential source of sexual trauma to her because I asked politely once a night to have sex, I even offered to simply perform oral on her the last two times and it made her utterly furious, I couldn't take everything all at once anymore, my life outside the relationship is very unstable as well, I was trying so hard to save the relationship, to turn the look of hate in her eyes back into love, I was exhausted from trying to show her my love and she claimed she was the one who was exhausted from me, it was the hardest decision I've ever made in my life, I broke up with her, I didn't want to but out of love I didn't want her to be miserable anymore and she was making it clear I was getting in her way and slowing her down and making her angry and giving her self doubts about her beauty and self worth, she told me she was going to marry me after I broke up with her, that she didn't want it to end this way, she said you don't really want to leave me do you, I said no how about we take a break from breaking up, she said yes, another 8 days I try my absolute hardest and it's met by more and more anger from her, I break up with her again on the 19th, this time no emotion from her, I'm hysterically crying and she's like so what, she found a new way to break my heart almost everyday for the next month, setting up more boundaries and not allowing me to tell her I love her or that she's beautiful or that Im sorry and I can't talk about the relationship, but she still calls or texts me everyday to tell me and show me what she is doing, but not all of what she is doing, she has been going out of her way to hurt me all while I still make it as clear as I can within my limitations that I really badly would like to get back together whenever she is ready, she keeps saying I don't know I'm undecided we'll see kinda things and no matter what I do or say either nothing changes or she pulls farther away, I then made it clear I was ready to move far away, she said good luck wish you well but now has increased communication kind of trying to pull me back but very very weakly because she is quite possibly using someone else for her supply of physical empowerment while I'm trapped in a very miserable dynamic and it makes me really sick, still being used on an emotional level with literally no foreseeable future of a physical level is a new level of agony, I know I seem like a rational enough person to want better, but I love her very very much and I do want us to work as best as it can with all Ive learned about how she works, is there anything I can do at this stage to win her back, to become physical again, to get her to love me again or want to be in a relationship with me again, I would do anything, all I keep seeing is videos on how to heal from or gain strength to leave the narcissist, I wish I watched all these videos before, I wouldn't have broken up with her, I would have approached our relationship quite differently, if you could shed any light on this matter I'd be forever grateful!!!