This has to be the most realest authentic sermon I've ever heard. I get tired of pastors pretending they have perfect lives and being so perfectly polished. How are you supposed to glean from that ? This church is so blessed to have an amazing courageous pastor !
I needed this message. Thank you Pastor Mike. My mother died when I was 9, she was an alcoholic. My brother in law sexually assaulted me in 2018 and no one in my family believed me, and it destroyed me. I haven’t talked to them since then, 5 years. I know I need to learn how to grieve, how to forgive them, how to be like Jesus and give grace and mercy. It’s so hard, but it’s nothing compared to what Christ has done for me.
I am sorry for you. Seek healing by any means...counseling, books, internet. Research narcissism...melanietoniaevans, Jill wise, Dr. Ramani and many others are good. You're abusers were abused too. If your inner self is healthy, the external environment must match...bad people will sense your health and run to target a more "needier for human love" person. Otherwise you repeat generational trauma...even when you say you won't, you will do the same but in a different way than your caregivers did to you. Satan wants you bitter so you destroy your life with bad relationships and destroy your children as he attacked your parents to destroy you. This is a spiritual battle. The best advice I could give is to be healthy physically, mentally [seek help] whether you think you need it or not, don't sleep with a person for a long time...get to know them well, marry Gods way without sex before wedding bc this is Satan's biggest weapon...he hates families. Trauma causes us to feel ugly so we destroy ourselves by any means. It causes us to find a person who is at first wonderful, the first one to give us "real attention" to confirm our inner child that we are finally worthy of love, approval and security...the person becomes our source of love which God should be...we make them an idol. We need to stay single in our younger years so God can teach us true love before we get in relationship and bring forth the next generation. God bless.
That happened to me to I was only 6 years old it was my fathers best friend, nobody believed me then my cousin I was scared ashamed I thought I was my fault very to deal with ty for sharing
PRAISE THE HEAVENLY FATHER FOR THIS MESSAGE!!!! This speaks VOLUMES about my life with my ex husband and how he is with me and I our kids. Praise God that I have peace that my walk with God is just that, mine. This m safe helped me make sense. My ex hates me and all I stand for are n Christ because it exposes him and his actions and his cheating and his behavior and his evilness.
I'm just now hearing this sermon Pastor. I will tell you that I went through a grieving process during the time you preached this sermon. I will tell you I had the desire to get a tattoo for the person I lost, but I looked to God instead. I realized that my allegiance is not to the person I lost, my allegiance is to Christ alone. In that moment that I realized that, my grief season ended! 🙌 Something snapped off of me that day and I have not been in the grief again. Not that I am never sad, but that I have not had to revisit that dark season, because Jesus gave me the power to get through it.
I've experienced the way the Lord leveled me up and how it provoked others and I've also been the one provoked by others in my family leveling up as well. Grace. Mercy.
My in-law family are pure EVIL! I am desperately wanting to finally be free/divorced...but I'm devastated that I will remain attached because I have 4 children now part of this awful narcassist family!
Same here! Praying for my adult siblings to come to Jesus! God has been doing things in their lives because of my constant prayers over the years ! Praise our Good God! He is promise keeper!
Amen and Hallelujah!!!!! Your prayers for your siblings are so powerful!! I was very deep into new age/metaphysics and my sister never gave up praying for me and 3 years ago I had an encounter with Jesus in my Living room!!! His presence filled the room and I fell to my knees and wept.. I gave Him my life that night and never looked back. No One is too far gone for God to save them!! 🥹🥳🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My ex fiancés families did witchcraft on him to help him come to this country & he destroyed our relationship because he had to go back because it was required by w.e they did. Which I found out before we actually got married thank Jesus he took me out of that relationship!!!
Thank you Mike! I can’t express what an encouragement this is to me today! I said Tuesday morning that it feels like the enemy is laying legos on the floor in front of me beginning in ministry and praise the Lord, it’s just a sign I’m encroaching on his territory! I’m a breaker! ❤
I've been watching your preaching for the past 8 months n I just want to thank you for your obedience and your word it's always on time may God continue to anoint you and have favor over you n your family Pastor Mike🙏✝️🙌
TRUTH and FREEDOM is this sermon. AMEN and AMEN and AMEN. Thank you for being a God Gezzer,mighty Warrior,may he bless and protect you and your family as you walk his path.
Thank you Father God. Forgive me my magical/wishful thinking and waiting on another besides You Jesus Christ. Some Old grief Jesus Christ Holy Spirit Father God let it come and be lanced and healed by You alone 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✝️✝️✝️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Amen my family needs prayer I'm always family encouraged thm I pray Im worki on my spiritual life with God but thy always hurting me becos I relise becos I walk with God's favor
With conflict usually someone has to leave. Wow. This video pops up just 1.5 hours after I have a big fight (again) with my mom and I tell her she has to get out of my home. She has to leave. And this pastor is saying no one leaves, instead talk out openly everyone's feelings. Question: How? Without dissolving into a mess of blame. My mother blames me for her unhappiness in life. I blame her for bringing in and dumping it in mine. I've been her "therapist" for as long as I can remember. How do I let that go and let Jesus take it all and take over? What am I doing wrong?
No two situations are alike. Please don't feel you have to deal with your mother right now, do it later when she gets her own place. It's not dishonoring to have parents in separate living quarters. If your mother had lifelong resentment towards you, getting along will be difficult, you both definitely need family therapy to save your relationship. She needs to forgive you for being born, first.
Yes Step in faith but take a step. Always be loving and don't lay guilt on a person let God do that. I find in some situations you take an in between step. In my situation...it is not to divorce my husband right now but to rent a room for a month to see what God shows me....sometimes just a little separation for a time. This could be setting up the home so each has a bit more privacy....a little effort towards privacy goes a long way.
Tell ur mom to get a life. You have to live. Say it kindly tho. But stress affects the body. The mood. Heart rhythm.release of cortisol. Anxiety. Frustrations on the rise. She shouldn't blame you. She should look for ways to correct her behalf and leave the past alone. She has to understand that she needs to lean on God and get the pressures of her past off of you..I've been there. Yes they hate it but draw the line as quickly as u can
My sister told me that she hates me and that I never suppose to be there. She hurt me so much. She took my everything. And I always have the feeling that she so want me dead.
Pastor Mike Signorelli I live in Suffolk County Long Island NY I have never been to your Church but I want you to know that “ I Love You “ ❤I tune in to your channel on You Tube. My niece in Austin Texas recently got saved, she says you are awesome! she tuned in also. 😀You are truly a man of God, you’re loved ❤and appreciated !
This is what gets me how does real parents abuse there own kids. I was taken away from my real parents because of being Born with cokcain and yet my adopted mom abused me and my adopted brother sexually abused me as well God as seen me thure a lot. I have forgiven them and myself for not saying anything but yet how do I love myself after being hurt and fear is holding me back. Elias
It's illegal to abuse children, physically, sexually,etc. it's an actual crime. Please get trauma therapy, for this abuse done to you. Forgiveness and reconciliation isn't the same thing. You could even file charges against them both,if you choose to.
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Defense is what u do to protect your ego, faithfulness is what you do to protect your anointing
Powerful
❤
This touched me too
best quote!!
💯💯💯
Thank you Jesus for this message. I needed to hear this Lord. I love you Father
trauma and triggers, strongholds and demons - Amen, nothing new under the sun!!
This has to be the most realest authentic sermon I've ever heard. I get tired of pastors pretending they have perfect lives and being so perfectly polished. How are you supposed to glean from that ? This church is so blessed to have an amazing courageous pastor !
I needed this message. Thank you Pastor Mike. My mother died when I was 9, she was an alcoholic. My brother in law sexually assaulted me in 2018 and no one in my family believed me, and it destroyed me. I haven’t talked to them since then, 5 years. I know I need to learn how to grieve, how to forgive them, how to be like Jesus and give grace and mercy. It’s so hard, but it’s nothing compared to what Christ has done for me.
May god give you peace.❤
Im right here with you 🙏🏾
I am sorry for you. Seek healing by any means...counseling, books, internet. Research narcissism...melanietoniaevans, Jill wise, Dr. Ramani and many others are good. You're abusers were abused too. If your inner self is healthy, the external environment must match...bad people will sense your health and run to target a more "needier for human love" person. Otherwise you repeat generational trauma...even when you say you won't, you will do the same but in a different way than your caregivers did to you. Satan wants you bitter so you destroy your life with bad relationships and destroy your children as he attacked your parents to destroy you. This is a spiritual battle. The best advice I could give is to be healthy physically, mentally [seek help] whether you think you need it or not, don't sleep with a person for a long time...get to know them well, marry Gods way without sex before wedding bc this is Satan's biggest weapon...he hates families. Trauma causes us to feel ugly so we destroy ourselves by any means. It causes us to find a person who is at first wonderful, the first one to give us "real attention" to confirm our inner child that we are finally worthy of love, approval and security...the person becomes our source of love which God should be...we make them an idol. We need to stay single in our younger years so God can teach us true love before we get in relationship and bring forth the next generation. God bless.
That happened to me to I was only 6 years old it was my fathers best friend, nobody believed me then my cousin I was scared ashamed I thought I was my fault very to deal with ty for sharing
MAN LOOKS OUTSIDE APPERANCE, BUT GOD LOOKS AT YOUR HEART
Appreciate you Pastor Mike and V1 Church for this transforming message from the Most High King Of Kings.
As of me & my house we will serve the Lord🔥🌪️
I just received revelation and now I understand the WHY of my situation. Thank you Jesus
Stay on the table of surgery ,with pastor Mike, because Jesus Christ is the Surgeon Hallelujah
PRAISE THE HEAVENLY FATHER FOR THIS MESSAGE!!!!
This speaks VOLUMES about my life with my ex husband and how he is with me and I our kids.
Praise God that I have peace that my walk with God is just that, mine. This m safe helped me make sense. My ex hates me and all I stand for are n Christ because it exposes him and his actions and his cheating and his behavior and his evilness.
I used to get high - now I am with the most high !
Grieve deferred is grieve multiplied
So good! Thank you, Jesus!
I have always been searching for the truth. I finally found it.
🙌🔥This word speaks to my heart
O my,, I just got it...
I asked God last night for an apifany, he deliver today before I had seen this.
Praise jesus christ....
Yes
I was rejected by fam
No more i has to dust off
It’s true!! That’s another reason why I had to learn not to expect an apology from certain people
Youngest of 6 🙋 I have been alienated.
Pray for my family . In Jesus name . Amen 🙏🏻 Thank you Jesus
Shalom 💜🔥
I'm just now hearing this sermon Pastor. I will tell you that I went through a grieving process during the time you preached this sermon. I will tell you I had the desire to get a tattoo for the person I lost, but I looked to God instead. I realized that my allegiance is not to the person I lost, my allegiance is to Christ alone. In that moment that I realized that, my grief season ended! 🙌 Something snapped off of me that day and I have not been in the grief again. Not that I am never sad, but that I have not had to revisit that dark season, because Jesus gave me the power to get through it.
I've experienced the way the Lord leveled me up and how it provoked others and I've also been the one provoked by others in my family leveling up as well. Grace. Mercy.
Best message you have preached so far! As a preacher I needed to hear this so bad !
Man this is fire. Praise the Lord heavenly Father 🙏
This is SO good!
Another great preaching/teaching Pastor Mike. 😊
C’mon good sir!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
My family is very toxic!
My in-law family are pure EVIL! I am desperately wanting to finally be free/divorced...but I'm devastated that I will remain attached because I have 4 children now part of this awful narcassist family!
God thank you for healing us from toxicity in your timing and season in Jesus name amen 🙏
Im crying and laughing at the same time Every day i starrted holy spirit fire Jesus🔥🔥🔥🔥Yes Jesus el Shaddai thank you Jesus
Wow confronting rejection
And grieving properly! 😢
Same here! Praying for my adult siblings to come to Jesus! God has been doing things in their lives because of my constant prayers over the years ! Praise our Good God! He is promise keeper!
Amen and Hallelujah!!!!! Your prayers for your siblings are so powerful!! I was very deep into new age/metaphysics and my sister never gave up praying for me and 3 years ago I had an encounter with Jesus in my Living room!!! His presence filled the room and I fell to my knees and wept.. I gave Him my life that night and never looked back. No One is too far gone for God to save them!! 🥹🥳🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My ex fiancés families did witchcraft on him to help him come to this country & he destroyed our relationship because he had to go back because it was required by w.e they did. Which I found out before we actually got married thank Jesus he took me out of that relationship!!!
Conflict produces intimacy with God but not necessarily with the person you lovingly confront....but it's better than not confronting ever.
Thank you Mike!
I can’t express what an encouragement this is to me today!
I said Tuesday morning that it feels like the enemy is laying legos on the floor in front of me beginning in ministry and praise the Lord, it’s just a sign I’m encroaching on his territory!
I’m a breaker! ❤
When you grieve with GOD it’s called prayer but when you grieve without GOD it’s called addiction.
Now that sticks!!! Wow
Fear leads to selfishness. This leads to us hurting others. Jesus is the answer and healing with and through Gods word. Amen
My family is the family I want! I love them all so very much ❤
I've been watching your preaching for the past 8 months n I just want to thank you for your obedience and your word it's always on time may God continue to anoint you and have favor over you n your family Pastor Mike🙏✝️🙌
TRUTH and FREEDOM is this sermon.
AMEN and AMEN and AMEN.
Thank you for being a God Gezzer,mighty Warrior,may he bless and protect you and your family as you walk his path.
Preach Pasror Mike
Stay right here🎉
Hallelujah, Thank you Jesus
This was amazing! Wow, thank you so much!! ❤
IN JESUS NAME AMEN‼️
Rich Mullens....such a great Godly musician...rest in peace Rich....
Thank You Father for the family You have given me ❤❤❤❤
Waiting for that day my brother will hug me again and he knows his knows Gods purpose for his life!!
Stay right here
Don't get up
I have a toxic family, but i keep on praying for them, and learned to love them.
I'm hoping this also means from toxic relationships too. I need that. ❤
Stay right HERE don’t get UP🛐
Wow that was a powerful word trauma and triggers are just a new school way of saying strong holds and demons!!! That resignated so strong!
I’m that one!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙃
May god send healing and the power to look only forward and not backward at what’s happened to us all.
Gap between getting anointed and appointed 👏🏽👏🏽🙏
Yessss help me with my toxic family members too ! I need the blood 🩸 of Jesus Christ to heal me and my family! Thank you 🙏
Thank you Father God. Forgive me my magical/wishful thinking and waiting on another besides You Jesus Christ. Some Old grief Jesus Christ Holy Spirit Father God let it come and be lanced and healed by You alone 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✝️✝️✝️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Yes Amen 🙏🏼 finish the work You started in me ❤
WHAT A WORD. I AM LEARNING, GROWING AND HEALING!! TO HEAL, I MUST CONFRONT. FEELINGS DON'T GO AWAY
I need this 🥹🥹 the damage from my childhood is starting to be more evident as I grow older
Amen my family needs prayer I'm always family encouraged thm I pray Im worki on my spiritual life with God but thy always hurting me becos I relise becos I walk with God's favor
Mike ,
This is Really Very Helpful on so many levels ❤❤
I sure wish you were in Utah
With conflict usually someone has to leave. Wow. This video pops up just 1.5 hours after I have a big fight (again) with my mom and I tell her she has to get out of my home. She has to leave. And this pastor is saying no one leaves, instead talk out openly everyone's feelings.
Question: How? Without dissolving into a mess of blame. My mother blames me for her unhappiness in life. I blame her for bringing in and dumping it in mine. I've been her "therapist" for as long as I can remember. How do I let that go and let Jesus take it all and take over? What am I doing wrong?
No two situations are alike. Please don't feel you have to deal with your mother right now, do it later when she gets her own place. It's not dishonoring to have parents in separate living quarters. If your mother had lifelong resentment towards you, getting along will be difficult, you both definitely need family therapy to save your relationship. She needs to forgive you for being born, first.
Yes Step in faith but take a step. Always be loving and don't lay guilt on a person let God do that. I find in some situations you take an in between step. In my situation...it is not to divorce my husband right now but to rent a room for a month to see what God shows me....sometimes just a little separation for a time. This could be setting up the home so each has a bit more privacy....a little effort towards privacy goes a long way.
Tell ur mom to get a life. You have to live. Say it kindly tho. But stress affects the body. The mood. Heart rhythm.release of cortisol. Anxiety. Frustrations on the rise.
She shouldn't blame you. She should look for ways to correct her behalf and leave the past alone. She has to understand that she needs to lean on God and get the pressures of her past off of you..I've been there. Yes they hate it but draw the line as quickly as u can
My sister told me that she hates me and that I never suppose to be there. She hurt me so much. She took my everything. And I always have the feeling that she so want me dead.
Pastor Mike Signorelli I live in Suffolk County Long Island NY I have never been to your Church but I want you to know that “ I Love You “ ❤I tune in to your channel on You Tube. My niece in Austin Texas recently got saved, she says you are awesome! she tuned in also. 😀You are truly a man of God, you’re loved ❤and appreciated !
Pastor Mike is my hero
It is so good when you share your testimony
Stay right here, don’t get up
Im feeling this BOTHER
Thank you Pastor Mike great service
Whooooo praise God hallelujah 🙌 thankyou Jesus 🙌
DENMARK IS LISTDNING VERY MUCH
I had to back it up to let me start with opening your bibles ❤ this is good
Thank God!!!
I love the real
This so good!!! 🔥🔥
Thats the very Truth is right
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Amen!
This was good
I'm going through this right now I was at V1 NYC in person for this. I keep Praying for them.
I been going through it myself with my family. I keep praying for them to come to Jesus. Keep trusting God with everything.
@lo-ul8nq yea sometimes daily I have to lay them @ his Feet. 🙏🙌
Amen 🙏 thanks for this message
Amen
My word of season
Thank you 🙏🏼
I like that old school “Family Matters” in the background 😂😂
Thanks so much for this!!!
Wow really needed this today
Hallelujah ❤
I am really really blessed by your message
It touched my heat
Do you really read my Comment?
I mean my heart
God bless you pastor
I live in Canada
Would you please pray for me!!
Stay
Amen!! That’s truth right there!!
It is so important to hear this
Hallelujah Jesus!! 🙌🏼♥️
This is what gets me how does real parents abuse there own kids. I was taken away from my real parents because of being Born with cokcain and yet my adopted mom abused me and my adopted brother sexually abused me as well God as seen me thure a lot. I have forgiven them and myself for not saying anything but yet how do I love myself after being hurt and fear is holding me back. Elias
It's illegal to abuse children, physically, sexually,etc. it's an actual crime. Please get trauma therapy, for this abuse done to you. Forgiveness and reconciliation isn't the same thing. You could even file charges against them both,if you choose to.
Stay right here
Powerful word Pastor Mike!!
Watching with my husband from
Upstate NY. We must visit this Body 🙌