Wow please remember John has had a serious stroke and has major challenges physically and mentally and some you can see, so don't be a shallow Hal or judge to quick. Walk in there shoes get it? Many don't recover from a stroke! give the guy a break. May God bless y'all peace out! And Thank you to those who helped awsome!
@@akheperresetepenamun3494 He has TH-cam channel, if you look back in his video list I'm sure he's done this subject. You'll be contributing to his views then.
@China Dave John's stroke has nothing to do with his mental illness and mental state. John probably has a mixture of mental illnesses which he must have had before he ever came to the Philippines, his also trying to be deceptive and will try to manipulate Paul to enable him even more to continue his Obsessive-compulsive disorder, personality disorder or Bipolar disorder, he may even have Schizophrenia but I can guarantee that this man probably has a long mental health record in the USA going back years. He may well be getting abused by his wife and his inlaws but he is enabling them to abuse him because he actually likes it(it sounds odd but that is mental illness)and the more Paul tries to keep him away from his abusers the more he will run right back to them. I can tell from Pauls's body language that he is not really comfortable with John and doesn't really trust him at all. I have many years experience of working with people from mental health backgrounds and social abuse history, trust me this will not work unless John has professional mental health help, he needs to be back in the USA and even if he has no money and nowhere to live he will be helped.(his making non-stop excuses to avoid treatment and manipulate people into enabling his OCD)
Regardless of what anyone thinks or feels about John’s situation, he’s still a human being who seeks love and belonging and is deserving of compassion. Best wishes to you, John. I hope all works out well for you. I’ll keep watching you!
Paul...you and all the others have literally saved this guys life...John was close to the edge...It warms my heart to watch everything progress... GOD BLESS YOU PAUL....PRAYERS for John...
A message for John, its OK to cut toxic people from your life. I did it to half my family because they did nothing but lie, cheat, use and steal to or from people. Get rid of that stress you will be thankful you did👍
He can see the twins with visitations, i picked my kids up for the weekends we went and did activities, spent time together. No need to see or talk to the other side other than about the kids and about visitation plans.
John is one of the lucky ones there are hundreds like him who have had no support and are languishing on the streets of Philippines . Thanks Paul for your help and support
Yes..I've seen/avoided many foreigners in Philippines with similar stories as John's. I have a feeling it's going to be a Neverending story for those helping john.
What a blessing to have someone watch out for you and help you when you find yourself in dire straights. There is little doubt that John would not be here now if it weren’t for your intervention. Blessings!
@@deliamurphy382 Sounds like we will get to hear Diana’s side of the story after-all. Quote from DIANA: “John is abusive and he is a monster”.. Refer to the following video - Channel: Philippine Antics Expat Help Title: TRUTH ABOUT EXPAT JOHN’s GIRLFRIEND and HER SIDE (7th of May 2022)
I have to remind myself, he's a foreigner in a foreign country, much respect to the expats stepping up to help and concentration to the children involved!! Give it your best John, I feel you will. BIG shout out to Paul 👍judge knot lest ye be judged,sounds right to me.
Man, John looks and sounds better already. He's right lack of food especially protein can seriously mess with your mental capacity. I'm glad to see he's out of there and into a healthy situation. Keep on truckin' John! You just got a life "do over"
It is VERY special of you to help this man recover from his devastating situation. Does not matter how it happened: nor does it matter who is to blame. You just knew he needed a hand and you giving him two hands and then some. My respect for you was already pretty high, but has grown recently.
It might be congratulations for him , but what of the poor teen girl who has to support twins for many , many , years ? Phils got enough problems without importing his type.
@@candyman4960 I agree - it will be impossible for him to get custody with the PH system stacked against him coupled with very conservative perspectives on families. Plus he's not well positioned to make maintenance payments anyway.
He can’t even support his own self more less twins, stop begging for him and let him go home or be just out there being a burden to the people around him
Heartwarming to see John looking so well and fresh, hope is a wonderful thing. The URGENCY is to get him out of that toxic environment IMMEDIATELY and Paul is all over it. Peace & Love to both of you.
he has a secret plan..once he gets free money saved up from all you fools..hes gonna go back to his 20yo faithful girl...he has nothing to lose...hehehe...
It's nice to have an angel like you Paul,I'm finishing my masters in UK, my next plan is to come home and set up a welfare office for all the expats living in the Philippines. You guys have to be protected, your welfare has to be looked after because you are in our country. God bless you Paul, my prayers are with you John.
A cautionary tale. These “John” videos should be required viewing for anyone contemplating a move overseas to lead an “expat” lifestyle. Sobering stuff.
I agree whole heartedly. I’ve watched Paul for sometime, and he paints a pretty picture of the “lifestyle”,but this series of videos brings out the reality of what can happen if a guy is not careful. This video series SHOULD be required for anybody contemplating becoming an expat. Old Dog, this is probably one of the best you’ve done.
These videos are helping Paul make money as these human interest stories attract a lot of views and the more views increases your TH-cam income.But a lot of these expats who retire to countries like the Philippines and Thailand were nearly broke or not very well off before going there The attraction is that their meeker savings go a lot further there plus there is the opportunity to have a pretty young wife half your age - but the catch is you have to look after her family as well.Her family will always come before you. Not many realize this and that has caused John's plight.
@@davidboskett5581 you could always find a girl your own age idk what's with the obsession for them all to find a younger girl plenty of options in the same age bracket and prob less likely to get scammed for murdered for being a pedo
Paul, you have a heart of gold. John is blessed to have met you, doing good deeds and helping your fellow man without expecting anything in return is the best thing a person can do. I always say if everybody just tried to do one good deed a day the world would be such a better place. And it makes you feel good . I believe you probably saved his life. God bless. 👍😎🇨🇦
Awesome Paul - this is a great update. You have saved John from the brink of disaster and continue to save him ... you have done a mitzva! Blessings to you! I am happy to see John already able to formulate more coherent conversation within the confines of his cognitive disability. Again, thank you for intervening. Blessings to you and Baby Mae💖💖💖
John was just beyond the “brink” IMHO. I’m glad he’s got some food in his belly he appeared to be starving, I don’t much care how he got there, just glad this community came together with a “hand up”.
@@deliamurphy382 That's all right, spelling does not count 😊 still got what you were saying and yes, Paul has done a marvelleous job at rallying the troups to help as he put it 'a human being' in spite of all the nay-sayers. Those who who believe, no explanation needed; those who do not, no explanation will suffice ...
I want to thank you Paul for helping someone who really was down and maybe someone who wouldn’t be able to make the right decision in his condition. It’s nice to know in this crazy world 🌎 there are people who still care about fellow human beings.
@@hannahcabana5403 it’s easy to tell the difference and easily to portray that behavior when you’re desperate. I don’t see that here. I’m not saying he won’t make the same mistakes, but Paul makes sure he gets receipts for everything.
@Micheal Mcmanus You seem to be confused that he(John)is the victim here? no, the victims are the poor twin girls that he decided to bring into the world as a 58-60-year-old man because he couldn't be bothered to wear a condom. Let's be honest dude unless he arrived in the Philippines on the short mentally challenged bus with his care worker and the 19-year-old girl raped John, he knows exactly what he was doing having unprotected sex with her, she's a 19-year-old girl from a province and very poor!. Now he has the cheek to worry about going to the dentist to get his teeth cleaned? maybe he should be getting his teeth knocked out!
@@cheapskateninja2655 Exactly! He is a very self-centred creep! He's got no money to support himself and yet latches onto a 19yr old girl poor girl who lived in a "squatters home" as he called it and gets her pregnant with twins!! Can u imagine that he only brought $30k to last him for 4 years? That's only $625 a month to support himself, his teenage girlfriend + the twins😳!! And he expected to live like a king. To add an insult to an I jury, he is going around social media bad-mouthing the impovrished girlfriend and her family. He is complaining that they only fed him a small bowel of rice and that he is losing too much weight and blah blah... these families are already poor!! They are feeding him what they ate. Yes they are not happy about the twins birth because that is additional 2 mouths to feed. He is a jackass!!!
Much respect ✊ to you, Old-dog, and the guys that are helping this man. Hopefully this monstrosity of a lesson about life has taught him not too be gullible, naive or needed for an woman attention. The golden rule….love yourself firstly above all!!!!!
Sad but true, so many many good, honest people this has happened too. We all learn by our mistakes and we are blessed if some earth angel helps. Sound advice.
@@TheGreyPillPodcast - Sadly I have to agree with you. A guy like John has no business going to a foreign country to look for love. He's literally doing himself in for a girl and what he thought was for "love". He is not going to be able to change this pattern so easy after being this way for so long. As soon as he gets enough extra money he'll be right back to throwing it at that girl or another girl, and now he has twins to take care of. What a nightmare way to live! On the opposite spectrum, Paul has his act together and really stepped up to be a guardian here. Paul is like the big brother that John never had.
@@IKARIANOFFICIAL I agree 100% My nickname for Paul is "Uncle Old Dawg" My goal is to be one of the youngest expats there... more so to meet Uncle Old Dawg! its hard to find genuine individuals such as these.
Thank you Paul and to all your friends for helping John. Great decision to quickly remove John from that toxic environment. I’ll continue to keep you all in my prayers. Thank you for sharing us your journey.
Great to see John on his recovery journey, once his stress and worry lessens he will gradually put on weight. All thanks to you Paul and thanks to everyone who donated money for John. These vlogs are heartwarming and proves that there are truly great people out there..
Wonder how we can help out, i don't want to send money yet to John, as too many sharks in the water. Would not mind sending a few pounds to Paul and his buddies to help out a bit. It will just take all that stress and worry off John and ensure he get's the correct care he need.
I am amazed how much his mental condition has changed for the positive in such a short time. He looks like he is starting to enjoy his life again and you can see the excitement on his face and hear it in his voice. Way to go John.
You are a kind man with a big heart Paul. I don't know how I came across your videos but I am glad I did. The world can learn from your graciousness. God bless brother
God's blessings falling down from heaven!!! This is truly inspiring and we should all take a lesson from this and be more helpful and kind to others in need. Thank you Paul for opening your life and heart to John as well as all who have and will help John get the attention he needs and deserves.
Paul, it's so great of you and your group of friends to help John out of this bad situation! Hopefully, he will be able, with your help, to put all these problems behind him and enjoy his time in the PI.
The change so far is nothing short of amazing. From the way John looks to the way he speaks and interacts compared to the first video shows a huge improvement. Some people feel so secure that they don't realize that what happened to John could happen to anyone. That's why it's so important for people to watch out for eachother. Paul, you and the others involved are truly wonderful people.
How can it happen to anyone if they don't spend their money chasing t & a and young girls in another country? Is anyone talking about helping the kids as I really can't watch this tripe without cringing.
Others get stroke but have a much better cushion. I would in no way live on the edge like he has i e. No real financial security. I had to work long and hard for the retirement I have finally at 69!!!. It was for me the only way to achieve a modicum of security within my limitations.
@@oldbloke204 The world and this country is full of examples of good people, doing the right thing and still ending up broke and homeless. I'm not defending the mistakes this man made and I hope he learns from them but if you think you're too smart to get blindsided by an unknown issue, you haven't been paying attention. And you're right about the kids but it doesn't sound like the Filipinas family is thinking of their best interests either.
@@christopherbradley5575 What does that have to do with the fact that old men with a bit of money go to a foreign country and shagging poor women who have few options.? That is a deliberate choice and not the result of bad luck or whatever. Two different things entirely. His actions have created even more drama when there was already too much of it.
You can see a huge improvement in him once he's had a good sleep, hot shower and food in the hotel the next day -- he's alert, articulate and seems to be mentally focused, now.
Hi Paul Greetings from Singapore. You are a true saviour to John. I believe, Angel doesn't always have wings. I am glad, that John has found his footing again. Hopefully he gets to work real soon. Bless you, Paul (and John too).
🌟 PAUL --- You are a Superstar!!! 🌟 Your kindness and support is what is keeping this man alive right now. You have given John new hope, and sense of purpose in life. Special "Thank You" to everyone supporting him in anyway. Love to see people coming together to help someone in need. WE HAVE ALL MADE MISTAKES AND BAD DECISIONS. Love and Light ❤ ✝️ 🌞
We all don’t need reminding how much pain and suffering there is in the world for so many unfortunate people. But every now and then , there comes along a Paul ( and his fellow expat buddies) who help the sad Johns of this world. They are to be blessed and thanked beyond words for helping John out.
Good to see John is doing ok. Paul & Company you are doing a great job helping him stabilize his life. He clearly is still recovering from his stroke and probably has a long road ahead to make a full recovery. He is such a lovely person and he deserves his life back.
Paul, you're the kind of friend anyone would like. Thanks for helping out a guy in a tragic situation. It's completely his own fault, anyone 40 years older than their mate should be wiser. Good thing he's got you for a friend.
Yes, I think being surrounded by a group of supportive and encouraging men would be great. Such a nice thing to bounce ideas off of, and get input from well meaning friends.
Outstanding Paul.. I couldn't agree more with all the steps you're taking to get John back on his feet.. As you mentioned he is beginning to smile and his mood has improved.. Good on ya Paul..
You are a saint Paul, thank you for all you do for John, your coordination of the efforts to help John should not be underestimated by anyone watching this and your other videos. Very well done sir. I have not commented before on John's story, but I was sitting watching and taking it all in. Its beautiful how people can truly look out for each other.
Paul I never wrote to you before. But you are a great interviewer! How could I help a bit. I am not a troll. I am a 74 going on 50 widow. NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE🤣😂.
Is there a go fund me ? If he learned his lesson I think he deserves a chance. He sounds intelligent but I fear when she ,the girl, smells $$$ she will be back!
It's good to know that there are people like you willing to help others simply for the sake of helping someone in need. Got a lot of respect for you and all the others that are helping him. May you and the others be blessed. Great video Sir.
Hey, Paul, when do you think you will get the info out there on the Facebook page. You are right about the "troll issue" so it is understandable about not wanting that to happen. But there are people that want to follow John's progress. Thanks for all you and the other expats are doing for him....I think that is awesome!
Well done. My main concern is the growth on his neck. I suspect it is a Lumph node with a bacterial or viral infection. Fingers crossed for him. And well done to you Paul and the other expats there in Dumaguete. I was there in Dumaguete 12 years ago and i always wanted to return. Maybe some day. I stayed at that hotel as well.
Thank god he's out of that abusive hell hole. I feel "blessed" knowing there are people out there who made sure this happened, thank you all!! This video has made my day 😄 Rock on John!
Thank God but he needs some redpill or something so he can take control and get his kids away from that abuse because those people they don't like white people those kids will suffer if they are left without their actual parent.
Paul, you’re doing something very good here in helping John. The world needs more people like you. You can hold your head high and smile… You’re a real man.
I have NO idea how this channel came up on my feed. I watched the last almost hour long video with Paul and John and got invested so it led me to this 2nd video. All I can say is John has met his saving grace. Paul you are an amazing person wow. Wow. Wow. I pray that John can keep his trajectory in the right direction.
Paul just want to say thank you for helping a fellow man that needs help, not too many people would do like you did in helping John get back on his feet, other people put blames and don't give support shame on them!
Watched the previous blog with this guy. You're an angel helping him to get back to himself. That's being human . Still there are some good Samaritans along the way. And that's you sir. I know in life we find some people along the way whom we don't expect . But keep fighting and moving, you are in the right track with your good friend.
It's great thing to see you reach out to fellow Americans who life take wrong turn and its a leason for all of us i wish your friend good luck and happer times
I've been fortunate enough to never be down and out like John was, but it can happen to any of us at any time. Get a couple of bad breaks - fired from your job, illness, family troubles - and before you know it you're in the same position. It's good to see the expat community got together to help John out. Perhaps one day he'll be able to return the favour in kind.
Great piece of humanity here. Even though John has no connections in the USA, he may be able to get help from the embassy. I feel he could sustain better in the states, and surely he can find work. Good luck to him.
Hi Paul, thank you for putting this channel together. It’s filled with sincerity and human compassion. I wish John the best of luck. He seemed like someone who is quite resilient. You are right, he should surround himself with friends like you. Can’t wait to hear more …. Cheers!
Would love to hear the perspective of what Johns gf has to say. Maybe Baby Mae could interview her on her channel,,,,it certainly would create a ton of interest. Im not picking sides here but its always good to hear the other side of the story. She may be intimidated to be interviewed by Paul but Im sure she'd be comfortable talking to Mae.
Keep moving John Life is beautiful Be careful now who to trust Some are just taking advantage of foreigners... Thanks Paul for rescuing this good fellow You are God sent Keep up this good deed And being a good samaritan is your great blessing And you are a blessing to others too... Keep your FAITH JOHN GOD IS GOOD... ALL THE TIME...🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇 Ask guidance from above always🙏🙏🙏
Love this story! Thank you Paul and your friends for helping John.. He looks happier now compared to the last interview.. Good to know that John has a job offer, which is awesome. My brother in the Philippines works online for an American company, he is happy and contented and he doesn’t want to come to Canada or abroad. He makes decent Philippine money. God bless you, all.
A 60 year old goes to the Philippines for the sole purpose of bedding young women (because no girl in the USA will touch him). He impregnates a girl 40 years his senior, fathers twins, lives with the girl's family (adding more burden to the girl's mother), is a dead beat, unemployed, runs out of money...and somehow this story is heart-warming?
@@oldstinkyfrancois43 it’s always nice to know, people helping others no matter what the circumstances..Bless your heart.. I am a Filipina but my heart breaks for John…
Wow please remember John has had a serious stroke and has major challenges physically and mentally and some you can see, so don't be a shallow Hal or judge to quick. Walk in there shoes get it? Many don't recover from a stroke! give the guy a break. May God bless y'all peace out! And Thank you to those who helped awsome!
Just curious Paul...what did you do before you retired?
@@akheperresetepenamun3494 He has TH-cam channel, if you look back in his video list I'm sure he's done this subject. You'll be contributing to his views then.
@China Dave John's stroke has nothing to do with his mental illness and mental state.
John probably has a mixture of mental illnesses which he must have had before he ever came to the Philippines, his also trying to be deceptive and will try to manipulate Paul to enable him even more to continue his Obsessive-compulsive disorder, personality disorder or Bipolar disorder, he may even have Schizophrenia but I can guarantee that this man probably has a long mental health record in the USA going back years. He may well be getting abused by his wife and his inlaws but he is enabling them to abuse him because he actually likes it(it sounds odd but that is mental illness)and the more Paul tries to keep him away from his abusers the more he will run right back to them. I can tell from Pauls's body language that he is not really comfortable with John and doesn't really trust him at all.
I have many years experience of working with people from mental health backgrounds and social abuse history, trust me this will not work unless John has professional mental health help, he needs to be back in the USA and even if he has no money and nowhere to live he will be helped.(his making non-stop excuses to avoid treatment and manipulate people into enabling his OCD)
He worked with people before he retired
Your right there Dave, too many hard hearted people around. Don't listen to nagative chat.
Regardless of what anyone thinks or feels about John’s situation, he’s still a human being who seeks love and belonging and is deserving of compassion. Best wishes to you, John. I hope all works out well for you. I’ll keep watching you!
Paul...you and all the others have literally saved this guys life...John was close to the edge...It warms my heart to watch everything progress...
GOD BLESS YOU PAUL....PRAYERS for John...
God bless the filipino teen who has been lumbered with twins. Many years of expense and trouble for her. He should be removed from the Philippines.
@@candyman4960 Well said!
@@candyman4960 Hard but true
@@David-og7di If an old filipino guy came to America and did the same as 'victim' did , that filipino would be deported ! Hard , but true , lol.
Maybe she can buy his house from him that her and her family conned him into buying. Then she can go back to squatting and he can provide for his kids
A message for John, its OK to cut toxic people from your life. I did it to half my family because they did nothing but lie, cheat, use and steal to or from people. Get rid of that stress you will be thankful you did👍
He can see the twins with visitations, i picked my kids up for the weekends we went and did activities, spent time together. No need to see or talk to the other side other than about the kids and about visitation plans.
Get a paternity test!
Paternity test
@@John_doerg6rs pasnurnity test
@@John_doerg6rs half of your family? Oh sorry to hear that :(. That's brutal.
Absolutely nothing but respect for this guy. It's people like you and the people who helped John that make this world a much better place.
God Bless you Paul and all the ones that helped this very generous and nice person John
John is one of the lucky ones there are hundreds like him who have had no support and are languishing on the streets of Philippines . Thanks Paul for your help and support
Tru so I hope John not screw it up, And let Paul looks like an fool, for helping and trust inn John so much 🙏🙏
Same in EAST AFRICA coast.
@@paulsmith2279 hope you never have ROCKBOTTOM...
Expats?
Yes..I've seen/avoided many foreigners in Philippines with similar stories as John's. I have a feeling it's going to be a Neverending story for those helping john.
Paul, John is looking so much better already ... thank you for your help💖
What a blessing to have someone watch out for you and help you when you find yourself in dire straights. There is little doubt that John would not be here now if it weren’t for your intervention. Blessings!
And that's a fact so true.
Facts 💯
I agree 👍
@@deliamurphy382 Sounds like we will get to hear Diana’s side of the story after-all.
Quote from DIANA: “John is abusive and he is a monster”..
Refer to the following video -
Channel: Philippine Antics Expat Help
Title: TRUTH ABOUT EXPAT JOHN’s GIRLFRIEND and HER SIDE (7th of May 2022)
John is so fortunate/blessed to have you in his life to help him along the way.
Your amazing for helping john. He’s coming along, you just might have saved his life.
Paul, what you and the other expats are doing for John is very commendable!
I have to remind myself, he's a foreigner in a foreign country, much respect to the expats stepping up to help and concentration to the children involved!! Give it your best John, I feel you will. BIG shout out to Paul 👍judge knot lest ye be judged,sounds right to me.
Man, John looks and sounds better already. He's right lack of food especially protein can seriously mess with your mental capacity. I'm glad to see he's out of there and into a healthy situation. Keep on truckin' John! You just got a life "do over"
I better get off the heavy carbs then
Waooo
Thank you for everything you all doing for John.
Paul..You have saved a human being ..God bless you!!
It is VERY special of you to help this man recover from his devastating situation.
Does not matter how it happened: nor does it matter who is to blame. You just knew he needed a hand and you giving him two hands and then some.
My respect for you was already pretty high, but has grown recently.
Congratulations to everybody involved, Paul, John, all donors and other local expats. Heart warming stuff !!!
It might be congratulations for him , but what of the poor teen girl who has to support twins for many , many , years ? Phils got enough problems without importing his type.
@@candyman4960 I agree - it will be impossible for him to get custody with the PH system stacked against him coupled with very conservative perspectives on families. Plus he's not well positioned to make maintenance payments anyway.
He can’t even support his own self more less twins, stop begging for him and let him go home or be just out there being a burden to the people around him
@@MAGICJ23 He is America's responsibility , not the Philippines.
Heartwarming to see John looking so well and fresh, hope is a wonderful thing. The URGENCY is to get him out of that toxic environment IMMEDIATELY and Paul is all over it. Peace & Love to both of you.
What happened exactly?
@@stevenwright991 it’s a story with many angles and it’s all in a single video in Paul’s library.
@@stevenwright991 try to visit the previous vlog of Mr Paul..
he has a secret plan..once he gets free money saved up from all you fools..hes gonna go back to his 20yo faithful girl...he has nothing to lose...hehehe...
100 per cent right. Great to see John looking much better. Paul, your 100 per cent a good and honest wise man.
It's nice to have an angel like you Paul,I'm finishing my masters in UK, my next plan is to come home and set up a welfare office for all the expats living in the Philippines. You guys have to be protected, your welfare has to be looked after because you are in our country. God bless you Paul, my prayers are with you John.
Nsa UK din po ako sa Southampton. Uuwi na rin by December for good
This guy is extremely lucky to have friends like u 💕
What a difference in John's face, attitude and demeanor in just a few days - God Bless 🙏
It’s a great thing your doing by helping this guy out and doing it the right way. Plus you are informing others of the dangers. Kudos to you Sir.
A cautionary tale. These “John” videos should be required viewing for anyone contemplating a move overseas to lead an “expat” lifestyle. Sobering stuff.
Sir, that is perfectly put. Just as applicable here in Thailand.
I agree whole heartedly. I’ve watched Paul for sometime, and he paints a pretty picture of the “lifestyle”,but this series of videos brings out the reality of what can happen if a guy is not careful. This video series SHOULD be required for anybody contemplating becoming an expat.
Old Dog, this is probably one of the best you’ve done.
These videos are helping Paul make money as these human interest stories attract a lot of views and the more views increases your TH-cam income.But a lot of these expats who retire to countries like the Philippines and Thailand were nearly broke or not very well off before going there The attraction is that their meeker savings go a lot further there plus there is the opportunity to have a pretty young wife half your age - but the catch is you have to look after her family as well.Her family will always come before you. Not many realize this and that has caused John's plight.
@@davidboskett5581 you could always find a girl your own age idk what's with the obsession for them all to find a younger girl plenty of options in the same age bracket and prob less likely to get scammed for murdered for being a pedo
@@davidboskett5581
David, well said. 🇨🇦
Very moving. Paul’s gentle and non judgemental support is extraordinary
Paul, you have a heart of gold. John is blessed to have met you, doing good deeds and helping your fellow man without expecting anything in return is the best thing a person can do. I always say if everybody just tried to do one good deed a day the world would be such a better place. And it makes you feel good . I believe you probably saved his life. God bless. 👍😎🇨🇦
Glad to hear the twins are being helped. Fatten this man up and send him home. Way to go, Paul. Good luck John
Awesome Paul - this is a great update. You have saved John from the brink of disaster and continue to save him ... you have done a mitzva! Blessings to you! I am happy to see John already able to formulate more coherent conversation within the confines of his cognitive disability. Again, thank you for intervening. Blessings to you and Baby Mae💖💖💖
555 I Liked the mitzva part, lol. Greetings from the country of milk and honey 🙂
John was just beyond the “brink” IMHO. I’m glad he’s got some food in his belly he appeared to be starving, I don’t much care how he got there, just glad this community came together with a “hand up”.
Aida, i'm so so happy to see how Paul has ralleyed arpunf John. Blinking pell chick won't work. SORRY
@@deliamurphy382 That's all right, spelling does not count 😊 still got what you were saying and yes, Paul has done a marvelleous job at rallying the troups to help as he put it 'a human being' in spite of all the nay-sayers. Those who who believe, no explanation needed; those who do not, no explanation will suffice ...
I want to thank you Paul for helping someone who really was down and maybe someone who wouldn’t be able to make the right decision in his condition. It’s nice to know in this crazy world 🌎 there are people who still care about fellow human beings.
I believe there are many people like Paul. I see it everyday.
John is a professional freeloader, he is riding the sympathy waves to get free things😂.
@@hannahcabana5403 it’s easy to tell the difference and easily to portray that behavior when you’re desperate. I don’t see that here. I’m not saying he won’t make the same mistakes, but Paul makes sure he gets receipts for everything.
@Micheal Mcmanus You seem to be confused that he(John)is the victim here? no, the victims are the poor twin girls that he decided to bring into the world as a 58-60-year-old man because he couldn't be bothered to wear a condom. Let's be honest dude unless he arrived in the Philippines on the short mentally challenged bus with his care worker and the 19-year-old girl raped John, he knows exactly what he was doing having unprotected sex with her, she's a 19-year-old girl from a province and very poor!.
Now he has the cheek to worry about going to the dentist to get his teeth cleaned? maybe he should be getting his teeth knocked out!
@@cheapskateninja2655 Exactly! He is a very self-centred creep! He's got no money to support himself and yet latches onto a 19yr old girl poor girl who lived in a "squatters home" as he called it and gets her pregnant with twins!!
Can u imagine that he only brought $30k to last him for 4 years? That's only $625 a month to support himself, his teenage girlfriend + the twins😳!! And he expected to live like a king.
To add an insult to an I jury, he is going around social media bad-mouthing the impovrished girlfriend and her family. He is complaining that they only fed him a small bowel of rice and that he is losing too much weight and blah blah... these families are already poor!! They are feeding him what they ate. Yes they are not happy about the twins birth because that is additional 2 mouths to feed. He is a jackass!!!
Paul, I have a lot of respect for you after watching this clip. You're a good guy, lifting a broken man back on his feet in such a respectful way.
Paul you are the man
A real Cutie
For being so kind to your
Unfortunate Friend.
Hope he can find a way to support himself until he gets s.s.
Much respect ✊ to you, Old-dog, and the guys that are helping this man. Hopefully this monstrosity of a lesson about life has taught him not too be gullible, naive or needed for an woman attention. The golden rule….love yourself firstly above all!!!!!
Sad but true, so many many good, honest people this has happened too. We all learn by our mistakes and we are blessed if some earth angel helps. Sound advice.
2yrs ago... he was doing the samething...now on the same denial...
@@TheGreyPillPodcast - Sadly I have to agree with you. A guy like John has no business going to a foreign country to look for love. He's literally doing himself in for a girl and what he thought was for "love". He is not going to be able to change this pattern so easy after being this way for so long. As soon as he gets enough extra money he'll be right back to throwing it at that girl or another girl, and now he has twins to take care of. What a nightmare way to live! On the opposite spectrum, Paul has his act together and really stepped up to be a guardian here. Paul is like the big brother that John never had.
Love yourself first, absolutely god damn right
@@IKARIANOFFICIAL
I agree 100%
My nickname for Paul is "Uncle Old Dawg"
My goal is to be one of the youngest expats there... more so to meet Uncle Old Dawg! its hard to find genuine individuals such as these.
I am glad to see that John is doing better. God bless those that have come beside him to help him through this troubled time
Paul your one damm good friend to have. All the best to you and BB May.
Paul, you are a great guy as to what you are doing for John.
Youre a very nice group to help this guy. Godbless you.
Thank you Paul and to all your friends for helping John. Great decision to quickly remove John from that toxic environment.
I’ll continue to keep you all in my prayers. Thank you for sharing us your journey.
Great to see John on his recovery journey, once his stress and worry lessens he will gradually put on weight.
All thanks to you Paul and thanks to everyone who donated money for John. These vlogs are heartwarming and proves that there are truly great people out there..
Wonder how we can help out, i don't want to send money yet to John, as too many sharks in the water. Would not mind sending a few pounds to Paul and his buddies to help out a bit. It will just take all that stress and worry off John and ensure he get's the correct care he need.
Same ! Paul you have an email or PayPal ?
This is what makes us human,we all make mistakes ,and this is non judgemental,he is just a human being that needs help!
I am amazed how much his mental condition has changed for the positive in such a short time. He looks like he is starting to enjoy his life again and you can see the excitement on his face and hear it in his voice. Way to go John.
Lmao he was an American with money living in the greatest country in the world and he decided to do this.... hopefully he's homeless soon.
Paul you are an incredible person
You are a kind man with a big heart Paul. I don't know how I came across your videos but I am glad I did. The world can learn from your graciousness. God bless brother
God's blessings falling down from heaven!!! This is truly inspiring and we should all take a lesson from this and be more helpful and kind to others in need. Thank you Paul for opening your life and heart to John as well as all who have and will help John get the attention he needs and deserves.
Good luck to you John and thank you Paul for being there for him in his time of need. We, ExPats, have to stick together.
Paul, it's so great of you and your group of friends to help John out of this bad situation! Hopefully, he will be able, with your help, to put all these problems behind him and enjoy his time in the PI.
Wow, I'm sure glad that Paul came into John's life.
Paul I just found you! I love your style and caring personality!
The change so far is nothing short of amazing. From the way John looks to the way he speaks and interacts compared to the first video shows a huge improvement. Some people feel so secure that they don't realize that what happened to John could happen to anyone. That's why it's so important for people to watch out for eachother. Paul, you and the others involved are truly wonderful people.
How can it happen to anyone if they don't spend their money chasing t & a and young girls in another country?
Is anyone talking about helping the kids as I really can't watch this tripe without cringing.
Can you help me i am american
Others get stroke but have a much better cushion. I would in no way live on the edge like he has i e. No real financial security. I had to work long and hard for the retirement I have finally at 69!!!.
It was for me the only way to achieve a modicum of security within my limitations.
@@oldbloke204 The world and this country is full of examples of good people, doing the right thing and still ending up broke and homeless. I'm not defending the mistakes this man made and I hope he learns from them but if you think you're too smart to get blindsided by an unknown issue, you haven't been paying attention. And you're right about the kids but it doesn't sound like the Filipinas family is thinking of their best interests either.
@@christopherbradley5575 What does that have to do with the fact that old men with a bit of money go to a foreign country and shagging poor women who have few options.?
That is a deliberate choice and not the result of bad luck or whatever.
Two different things entirely.
His actions have created even more drama when there was already too much of it.
You can see a huge improvement in him once he's had a good sleep, hot shower and food in the hotel the next day -- he's alert, articulate and seems to be mentally focused, now.
Amen. Truly If anyone needs a little help to get things back on track it's John. He is a kind soul.
We all need a little help and guidance at times in our lives.
It's so nice to see you smiling again John... God is so good for having Paul as your friend... and to all people who's helping you. God bless you all
Hi Paul
Greetings from Singapore.
You are a true saviour to John. I believe, Angel doesn't always have wings.
I am glad, that John has found his footing again. Hopefully he gets to work real soon.
Bless you, Paul (and John too).
🌟 PAUL --- You are a Superstar!!! 🌟 Your kindness and support is what is keeping this man alive right now. You have given John new hope, and sense of purpose in life. Special "Thank You" to everyone supporting him in anyway. Love to see people coming together to help someone in need. WE HAVE ALL MADE MISTAKES AND BAD DECISIONS. Love and Light ❤ ✝️ 🌞
That not his children lol lol lol
LOL :-)
Genuine good guy doing his best in a tight bind.Good job old dog was put in his life God moves in mysterious ways.
Yeah wanderful man
And who has given the teen girl 'hope and sense of purpose' in life !
Paul, much respect for you because you already know the risks that you’re taking with this situation. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Your doing a great job
Not even God can help him in the Philippines.
@@cwill2000 , God sends people to help. God sent Paul, and others who are stepping up to the plate to help.
@@cwill2000 God works in mysterious ways. Never underestimate the power of Jehovah
Respect paul helping John out in these desperate times,we need more people like you my friend God bless you 👍👍
We all don’t need reminding how much pain and suffering there is in the world for so many unfortunate people. But every now and then , there comes along a Paul ( and his fellow expat buddies) who help the sad Johns of this world. They are to be blessed and thanked beyond words for helping John out.
Paul, you are a role model for what a real man is. Thank you. John, good luck.
Hi Paul, its good to see John on this video. He looks so much better and healthier. Thanks to you and everyone that is helping and supporting John 😊
Great respect to you, Paul & others for helping John.Thank you all for your good hearts ❤️❤️❤️
Good to see John is doing ok. Paul & Company you are doing a great job helping him stabilize his life. He clearly is still recovering from his stroke and probably has a long road ahead to make a full recovery. He is such a lovely person and he deserves his life back.
Paul, you're the kind of friend anyone would like.
Thanks for helping out a guy in a tragic situation. It's completely his own fault, anyone 40 years older than their mate should be wiser.
Good thing he's got you for a friend.
Yes, I think being surrounded by a group of supportive and encouraging men would be great. Such a nice thing to bounce ideas off of, and get input from well meaning friends.
Thank you Paul for helping John. You literally saved his life.
Outstanding Paul.. I couldn't agree more with all the steps you're taking to get John back on his feet.. As you mentioned he is beginning to smile and his mood has improved.. Good on ya Paul..
You are a saint Paul, thank you for all you do for John, your coordination of the efforts to help John should not be underestimated by anyone watching this and your other videos. Very well done sir. I have not commented before on John's story, but I was sitting watching and taking it all in. Its beautiful how people can truly look out for each other.
❤️ absolutely yes 👍
Paul I never wrote to you before. But you are a great interviewer! How could I help a bit. I am not a troll. I am a 74 going on 50 widow. NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE🤣😂.
Is there a go fund me ? If he learned his lesson I think he deserves a chance. He sounds intelligent but I fear when she ,the girl, smells $$$ she will be back!
It's good to know that there are people like you willing to help others simply for the sake of helping someone in need. Got a lot of respect for you and all the others that are helping him. May you and the others be blessed. Great video Sir.
Yes God will bless them..long life and prosperous
Paul, you are like a father to John. You have given that boy great advice and much help. Not many good people like you in this world. Thanks
Very fortunate to get a helping hand from this very thoughtful and kind person. Blessings to both of you.😇😇😇
Hey, Paul, when do you think you will get the info out there on the Facebook page. You are right about the "troll issue" so it is understandable about not wanting that to happen. But there are people that want to follow John's progress. Thanks for all you and the other expats are doing for him....I think that is awesome!
Paul has indeed stepped up to the plate. Very proud of this angel. We all need to help each other more, but the one that truly deserves it.
Good to see human kindness shining brightly , Paul your a wonderful person
Well done. My main concern is the growth on his neck. I suspect it is a Lumph node with a bacterial or viral infection. Fingers crossed for him. And well done to you Paul and the other expats there in Dumaguete. I was there in Dumaguete 12 years ago and i always wanted to return. Maybe some day. I stayed at that hotel as well.
Tip top hotel??
You are an amazing man for helping this man.
Thank god he's out of that abusive hell hole. I feel "blessed" knowing there are people out there who made sure this happened, thank you all!!
This video has made my day 😄
Rock on John!
Thank God but he needs some redpill or something so he can take control and get his kids away from that abuse because those people they don't like white people those kids will suffer if they are left without their actual parent.
Amen to that hard to imagine if he was left or abandoned how sadly this could have ended. So warming to see plainold humanity kicking in ..xx
But no "thank god" for creating a hell hole for the teen mum. Many years expense and trouble , for her , raising the twins. Exploitation !
@@candyman4960 seems like her and her family have the knack for hunting down new financial prey
@@candyman4960 It was her choice to get pregnant too. If she didnt want kids shouldnt of raw dogged the guy
I am so glad that John is getting the help that he needs. It just goes to show you that there are still a lot of good people left in the world.
Thanks Paul for helping someone who was on your channel and has now fall in on hard times
Thanks John for helping Paul. That says alot about you.❤️
Paul, you’re doing something very good here in helping John. The world needs more people like you. You can hold your head high and smile… You’re a real man.
I have NO idea how this channel came up on my feed. I watched the last almost hour long video with Paul and John and got invested so it led me to this 2nd video. All I can say is John has met his saving grace. Paul you are an amazing person wow. Wow. Wow. I pray that John can keep his trajectory in the right direction.
Paul just want to say thank you for helping a fellow man that needs help, not too many people would do like you did in helping John get back on his feet, other people put blames and don't give support shame on them!
Paul I take my hat off 2 you for what you guys are doing, hope everything works out.🙏🙏
Watched the previous blog with this guy. You're an angel helping him to get back to himself. That's being human . Still there are some good Samaritans along the way. And that's you sir. I know in life we find some people along the way whom we don't expect . But keep fighting and moving, you are in the right track with your good friend.
My respect to Paul is getting bigger everyday. Thanks Paul for helping John.
I applaud you Paul for your compassionate way of interviewing. love from a psychiatric nurse in Norway
Paul you look like the wise uncle we wish we all had, Thank you for helping this guy out...
It's great thing to see you reach out to fellow Americans who life take wrong turn and its a leason for all of us i wish your friend good luck and happer times
❤️♥️🇨🇦🇵🇱
Paul,
You and your friends are doing something very special to help John.
You’re an amazing person!
Take care and god bless!
I've been fortunate enough to never be down and out like John was, but it can happen to any of us at any time. Get a couple of bad breaks - fired from your job, illness, family troubles - and before you know it you're in the same position. It's good to see the expat community got together to help John out. Perhaps one day he'll be able to return the favour in kind.
Great piece of humanity here.
Even though John has no connections in the USA, he may be able to get help from the embassy.
I feel he could sustain better in the states, and surely he can find work. Good luck to him.
Glad to see things are moving in a positive direction for John. Paul and friends are the dream team!
"for John. Paul ..." When I read those names side by side, I just got the Comment from the guy who said find a George and a Ringo and start a band! :)
Well done Paul, you are a sweetheart. Poor guy, hope he sorts his life out.
This is amazing. Paul and the support group are beautiful people. Good luck John. Things will get better and better.
Hi Paul, thank you for putting this channel together. It’s filled with sincerity and human compassion. I wish John the best of luck. He seemed like someone who is quite resilient. You are right, he should surround himself with friends like you. Can’t wait to hear more …. Cheers!
I hope things will get better for him. I am glad to see this video
Would love to hear the perspective of what Johns gf has to say. Maybe Baby Mae could interview her on her channel,,,,it certainly would create a ton of interest. Im not picking sides here but its always good to hear the other side of the story. She may be intimidated to be interviewed by Paul but Im sure she'd be comfortable talking to Mae.
Thats a great idea......the interest would catapult Maes channel into the stratosphere....could you pitch that to Mae Paul?
Bad idea. Let a sleeping dog lie. Just let it go and move on for johns sake if nothing else.
Yeah we're only hearing John's side. This Filipina may not even be a scammer as some infer.
Great Idea,there's always two sides of the story
It's marvelous what you are doing to help John. I really hope he can get back on his feet and find happiness and live a fruitful life.
I wish you well John. I hope this second chance will work out for you. Thank you Paul and your buddies for helping John.
Paul! You are like god to him at this moment.
Keep moving John
Life is beautiful
Be careful now who to trust
Some are just taking advantage of foreigners...
Thanks Paul for rescuing this good fellow
You are God sent
Keep up this good deed
And being a good samaritan is your great blessing
And you are a blessing to others too...
Keep your FAITH JOHN
GOD IS GOOD... ALL THE TIME...🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇
Ask guidance from above always🙏🙏🙏
Love this story! Thank you Paul and your friends for helping John.. He looks happier now compared to the last interview.. Good to know that John has a job offer, which is awesome. My brother in the Philippines works online for an American company, he is happy and contented and he doesn’t want to come to Canada or abroad. He makes decent Philippine money. God bless you, all.
A 60 year old goes to the Philippines for the sole purpose of bedding young women (because no girl in the USA will touch him). He impregnates a girl 40 years his senior, fathers twins, lives with the girl's family (adding more burden to the girl's mother), is a dead beat, unemployed, runs out of money...and somehow this story is heart-warming?
@@oldstinkyfrancois43 it’s always nice to know, people helping others no matter what the circumstances..Bless your heart.. I am a Filipina but my heart breaks for John…
@OLD STINKY FRANCOIS 40 years his senior? So, a 100 year old? Did you mean that or are you just an uneducated dunce?
You are a good man Paul. Happy to see John doing well.
Well done to everyone who has helped John and good on you Paul, I hope the physical goes well 👍
God bless Paul and all that help this guy. I've been down and out and it's terrible.