Money Matters in The Philippines/Broke Expat Update/Old Dog New Tricks
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- Money Matters in The Philippines/Broke Expat Update/Old Dog New Tricks@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Update on John, the Broke and Broken Man Living in the Philippines
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Wow please remember John has had a serious stroke and has major challenges physically and mentally and some you can see, so don't be a shallow Hal or judge to quick. Walk in there shoes get it? Many don't recover from a stroke! give the guy a break. May God bless y'all peace out! And Thank you to those who helped awsome!
Just curious Paul...what did you do before you retired?
@@akheperresetepenamun3494 He has TH-cam channel, if you look back in his video list I'm sure he's done this subject. You'll be contributing to his views then.
@China Dave John's stroke has nothing to do with his mental illness and mental state.
John probably has a mixture of mental illnesses which he must have had before he ever came to the Philippines, his also trying to be deceptive and will try to manipulate Paul to enable him even more to continue his Obsessive-compulsive disorder, personality disorder or Bipolar disorder, he may even have Schizophrenia but I can guarantee that this man probably has a long mental health record in the USA going back years. He may well be getting abused by his wife and his inlaws but he is enabling them to abuse him because he actually likes it(it sounds odd but that is mental illness)and the more Paul tries to keep him away from his abusers the more he will run right back to them. I can tell from Pauls's body language that he is not really comfortable with John and doesn't really trust him at all.
I have many years experience of working with people from mental health backgrounds and social abuse history, trust me this will not work unless John has professional mental health help, he needs to be back in the USA and even if he has no money and nowhere to live he will be helped.(his making non-stop excuses to avoid treatment and manipulate people into enabling his OCD)
@@akheperresetepenamun3494 He was a used car salesman. No need to exploit the situation. Just answer the question. This should never be about clicks and views. Just be honest and do the right thing please.
He worked with people before he retired
Paul...you and all the others have literally saved this guys life...John was close to the edge...It warms my heart to watch everything progress...
GOD BLESS YOU PAUL....PRAYERS for John...
God bless the filipino teen who has been lumbered with twins. Many years of expense and trouble for her. He should be removed from the Philippines.
@@candyman4960 Well said!
@@candyman4960 Hard but true
@@David-og7di If an old filipino guy came to America and did the same as 'victim' did , that filipino would be deported ! Hard , but true , lol.
Maybe she can buy his house from him that her and her family conned him into buying. Then she can go back to squatting and he can provide for his kids
A message for John, its OK to cut toxic people from your life. I did it to half my family because they did nothing but lie, cheat, use and steal to or from people. Get rid of that stress you will be thankful you did👍
What about the twins?
He can see the twins with visitations, i picked my kids up for the weekends we went and did activities, spent time together. No need to see or talk to the other side other than about the kids and about visitation plans.
Get a paternity test!
Paternity test
@@John_doerg6rs pasnurnity test
John is one of the lucky ones there are hundreds like him who have had no support and are languishing on the streets of Philippines . Thanks Paul for your help and support
Tru so I hope John not screw it up, And let Paul looks like an fool, for helping and trust inn John so much 🙏🙏
Same in EAST AFRICA coast.
@@paulsmith2279 hope you never have ROCKBOTTOM...
Expats?
Yes..I've seen/avoided many foreigners in Philippines with similar stories as John's. I have a feeling it's going to be a Neverending story for those helping john.
Regardless of what anyone thinks or feels about John’s situation, he’s still a human being who seeks love and belonging and is deserving of compassion. Best wishes to you, John. I hope all works out well for you. I’ll keep watching you!
60 year old man, goes to live in the Philippines. He marries a very pretty teenage girl, has 2 kids with her. He does not bring enough money to raise a family, and mismanages his finances, spending impulsively, like a big shot. He did not really build a house, he helped build a shack, which he also lived in. After he blows all of his money, he expects a poor family, living in poverty, raising his kids to feed him. He becomes both emotionally, and financially dependent on a poor family. And people blame the teen girl, for not being able to care for him? John, talks proudly about supporting his kids? Yet he is doing that with other peoples money/donations. John, be honest, you are just a free loader. At least your Pinay, is raising, and feeding your children. You can't even feed yourself. Hey John, don't expect a poor teen girl to feed you, learn to stand on your own 2 feet. Take responsibility for yourself, and stop playing the victim.
P.S. John, there are many mature patient single Pinay's your age, who would love to have a man to care for, .... Oops, I forgot you like 'em really young!
Straight up savage but someone had to say it!
Thats KARMA he dump mercilessly all yhe sort of mature women in exchange for a naive 19 yr old who now hates him ... jajaja he deserves a stroke ,i have no mercy for maniacs
Nobody ever cares about the men. Not even other men. Ah, to be so blessed and lack compassion.
I'm 2 yrs late to see this but your comment is spot on. It's gross that a man pushing sixty goes after a teenager. And has two kids with her, even though he cannot even support himself, let alone a wife and children. Stroke or no stroke, it's very hard to find sympathy for John, who was thinking with his wrong head!
There are pros and cons to everything but he put out 10Grand to help her family for a family bizz which did not return any profit. So I would say Good intensions but bad judgment.
I have to remind myself, he's a foreigner in a foreign country, much respect to the expats stepping up to help and concentration to the children involved!! Give it your best John, I feel you will. BIG shout out to Paul 👍judge knot lest ye be judged,sounds right to me.
Paul, I just checked the Manila embassy website for info about SSDI. He needs to call them and check on what he needs to do to apply for the ss disability. It looks like he can apply at the embassy. SSI he can not receive while out of the US, but SSDI he can. Good luck!!
You can apply for SSDI online. I'm not sure of the effect of being out of the country, but a quick call to any SSA field office should offer an answer to that question.
Hello guys I will love to be with John I think I like him...will love to see him here in ivory coast so I can take good care of him if you all don't mind
Paul, John is looking so much better already ... thank you for your help💖
Congratulations to everybody involved, Paul, John, all donors and other local expats. Heart warming stuff !!!
It might be congratulations for him , but what of the poor teen girl who has to support twins for many , many , years ? Phils got enough problems without importing his type.
@@candyman4960 I agree - it will be impossible for him to get custody with the PH system stacked against him coupled with very conservative perspectives on families. Plus he's not well positioned to make maintenance payments anyway.
He can’t even support his own self more less twins, stop begging for him and let him go home or be just out there being a burden to the people around him
@@MAGICJ23 He is America's responsibility , not the Philippines.
Paul, you have a heart of gold. John is blessed to have met you, doing good deeds and helping your fellow man without expecting anything in return is the best thing a person can do. I always say if everybody just tried to do one good deed a day the world would be such a better place. And it makes you feel good . I believe you probably saved his life. God bless. 👍😎🇨🇦
Paul, what you and the other expats are doing for John is very commendable!
What a blessing to have someone watch out for you and help you when you find yourself in dire straights. There is little doubt that John would not be here now if it weren’t for your intervention. Blessings!
And that's a fact so true.
Facts 💯
I agree 👍
@@deliamurphy382 Sounds like we will get to hear Diana’s side of the story after-all.
Quote from DIANA: “John is abusive and he is a monster”..
Refer to the following video -
Channel: Philippine Antics Expat Help
Title: TRUTH ABOUT EXPAT JOHN’s GIRLFRIEND and HER SIDE (7th of May 2022)
A cautionary tale. These “John” videos should be required viewing for anyone contemplating a move overseas to lead an “expat” lifestyle. Sobering stuff.
Sir, that is perfectly put. Just as applicable here in Thailand.
I agree whole heartedly. I’ve watched Paul for sometime, and he paints a pretty picture of the “lifestyle”,but this series of videos brings out the reality of what can happen if a guy is not careful. This video series SHOULD be required for anybody contemplating becoming an expat.
Old Dog, this is probably one of the best you’ve done.
These videos are helping Paul make money as these human interest stories attract a lot of views and the more views increases your TH-cam income.But a lot of these expats who retire to countries like the Philippines and Thailand were nearly broke or not very well off before going there The attraction is that their meeker savings go a lot further there plus there is the opportunity to have a pretty young wife half your age - but the catch is you have to look after her family as well.Her family will always come before you. Not many realize this and that has caused John's plight.
@@davidboskett5581 you could always find a girl your own age idk what's with the obsession for them all to find a younger girl plenty of options in the same age bracket and prob less likely to get scammed for murdered for being a pedo
@@davidboskett5581
David, well said. 🇨🇦
It's nice to have an angel like you Paul,I'm finishing my masters in UK, my next plan is to come home and set up a welfare office for all the expats living in the Philippines. You guys have to be protected, your welfare has to be looked after because you are in our country. God bless you Paul, my prayers are with you John.
Nsa UK din po ako sa Southampton. Uuwi na rin by December for good
Paul, I have a lot of respect for you after watching this clip. You're a good guy, lifting a broken man back on his feet in such a respectful way.
Man, John looks and sounds better already. He's right lack of food especially protein can seriously mess with your mental capacity. I'm glad to see he's out of there and into a healthy situation. Keep on truckin' John! You just got a life "do over"
I better get off the heavy carbs then
Waooo
It is VERY special of you to help this man recover from his devastating situation.
Does not matter how it happened: nor does it matter who is to blame. You just knew he needed a hand and you giving him two hands and then some.
My respect for you was already pretty high, but has grown recently.
Glad to hear the twins are being helped. Fatten this man up and send him home. Way to go, Paul. Good luck John
Absolutely nothing but respect for this guy. It's people like you and the people who helped John that make this world a much better place.
My respect to Paul is getting bigger everyday. Thanks Paul for helping John.
Heartwarming to see John looking so well and fresh, hope is a wonderful thing. The URGENCY is to get him out of that toxic environment IMMEDIATELY and Paul is all over it. Peace & Love to both of you.
What happened exactly?
@@stevenwright991 it’s a story with many angles and it’s all in a single video in Paul’s library.
@@stevenwright991 try to visit the previous vlog of Mr Paul..
he has a secret plan..once he gets free money saved up from all you fools..hes gonna go back to his 20yo faithful girl...he has nothing to lose...hehehe...
100 per cent right. Great to see John looking much better. Paul, your 100 per cent a good and honest wise man.
What a difference in John's face, attitude and demeanor in just a few days - God Bless 🙏
You can see a huge improvement in him once he's had a good sleep, hot shower and food in the hotel the next day -- he's alert, articulate and seems to be mentally focused, now.
Amen. Truly If anyone needs a little help to get things back on track it's John. He is a kind soul.
We all need a little help and guidance at times in our lives.
🌟 PAUL --- You are a Superstar!!! 🌟 Your kindness and support is what is keeping this man alive right now. You have given John new hope, and sense of purpose in life. Special "Thank You" to everyone supporting him in anyway. Love to see people coming together to help someone in need. WE HAVE ALL MADE MISTAKES AND BAD DECISIONS. Love and Light ❤ ✝️ 🌞
That not his children lol lol lol
LOL :-)
Genuine good guy doing his best in a tight bind.Good job old dog was put in his life God moves in mysterious ways.
Yeah wanderful man
And who has given the teen girl 'hope and sense of purpose' in life !
You are a kind man with a big heart Paul. I don't know how I came across your videos but I am glad I did. The world can learn from your graciousness. God bless brother
Much respect ✊ to you, Old-dog, and the guys that are helping this man. Hopefully this monstrosity of a lesson about life has taught him not too be gullible, naive or needed for an woman attention. The golden rule….love yourself firstly above all!!!!!
Sad but true, so many many good, honest people this has happened too. We all learn by our mistakes and we are blessed if some earth angel helps. Sound advice.
2yrs ago... he was doing the samething...now on the same denial...
@@TheGreyPillPodcast - Sadly I have to agree with you. A guy like John has no business going to a foreign country to look for love. He's literally doing himself in for a girl and what he thought was for "love". He is not going to be able to change this pattern so easy after being this way for so long. As soon as he gets enough extra money he'll be right back to throwing it at that girl or another girl, and now he has twins to take care of. What a nightmare way to live! On the opposite spectrum, Paul has his act together and really stepped up to be a guardian here. Paul is like the big brother that John never had.
Love yourself first, absolutely god damn right
@@IKARIANOFFICIAL
I agree 100%
My nickname for Paul is "Uncle Old Dawg"
My goal is to be one of the youngest expats there... more so to meet Uncle Old Dawg! its hard to find genuine individuals such as these.
I want to thank you Paul for helping someone who really was down and maybe someone who wouldn’t be able to make the right decision in his condition. It’s nice to know in this crazy world 🌎 there are people who still care about fellow human beings.
I believe there are many people like Paul. I see it everyday.
John is a professional freeloader, he is riding the sympathy waves to get free things😂.
@@hannahcabana5403 it’s easy to tell the difference and easily to portray that behavior when you’re desperate. I don’t see that here. I’m not saying he won’t make the same mistakes, but Paul makes sure he gets receipts for everything.
@Micheal Mcmanus You seem to be confused that he(John)is the victim here? no, the victims are the poor twin girls that he decided to bring into the world as a 58-60-year-old man because he couldn't be bothered to wear a condom. Let's be honest dude unless he arrived in the Philippines on the short mentally challenged bus with his care worker and the 19-year-old girl raped John, he knows exactly what he was doing having unprotected sex with her, she's a 19-year-old girl from a province and very poor!.
Now he has the cheek to worry about going to the dentist to get his teeth cleaned? maybe he should be getting his teeth knocked out!
@@cheapskateninja2655 Exactly! He is a very self-centred creep! He's got no money to support himself and yet latches onto a 19yr old girl poor girl who lived in a "squatters home" as he called it and gets her pregnant with twins!!
Can u imagine that he only brought $30k to last him for 4 years? That's only $625 a month to support himself, his teenage girlfriend + the twins😳!! And he expected to live like a king.
To add an insult to an I jury, he is going around social media bad-mouthing the impovrished girlfriend and her family. He is complaining that they only fed him a small bowel of rice and that he is losing too much weight and blah blah... these families are already poor!! They are feeding him what they ate. Yes they are not happy about the twins birth because that is additional 2 mouths to feed. He is a jackass!!!
Great to see John on his recovery journey, once his stress and worry lessens he will gradually put on weight.
All thanks to you Paul and thanks to everyone who donated money for John. These vlogs are heartwarming and proves that there are truly great people out there..
Wonder how we can help out, i don't want to send money yet to John, as too many sharks in the water. Would not mind sending a few pounds to Paul and his buddies to help out a bit. It will just take all that stress and worry off John and ensure he get's the correct care he need.
Same ! Paul you have an email or PayPal ?
This is what makes us human,we all make mistakes ,and this is non judgemental,he is just a human being that needs help!
Hi Paul
Greetings from Singapore.
You are a true saviour to John. I believe, Angel doesn't always have wings.
I am glad, that John has found his footing again. Hopefully he gets to work real soon.
Bless you, Paul (and John too).
Very moving. Paul’s gentle and non judgemental support is extraordinary
It’s a great thing your doing by helping this guy out and doing it the right way. Plus you are informing others of the dangers. Kudos to you Sir.
Thank you Paul and to all your friends for helping John. Great decision to quickly remove John from that toxic environment.
I’ll continue to keep you all in my prayers. Thank you for sharing us your journey.
I am glad to see that John is doing better. God bless those that have come beside him to help him through this troubled time
Yes, I think being surrounded by a group of supportive and encouraging men would be great. Such a nice thing to bounce ideas off of, and get input from well meaning friends.
Thank god he's out of that abusive hell hole. I feel "blessed" knowing there are people out there who made sure this happened, thank you all!!
This video has made my day 😄
Rock on John!
Thank God but he needs some redpill or something so he can take control and get his kids away from that abuse because those people they don't like white people those kids will suffer if they are left without their actual parent.
Amen to that hard to imagine if he was left or abandoned how sadly this could have ended. So warming to see plainold humanity kicking in ..xx
But no "thank god" for creating a hell hole for the teen mum. Many years expense and trouble , for her , raising the twins. Exploitation !
@@candyman4960 seems like her and her family have the knack for hunting down new financial prey
@@candyman4960 It was her choice to get pregnant too. If she didnt want kids shouldnt of raw dogged the guy
Paul, you're the kind of friend anyone would like.
Thanks for helping out a guy in a tragic situation. It's completely his own fault, anyone 40 years older than their mate should be wiser.
Good thing he's got you for a friend.
Awesome Paul - this is a great update. You have saved John from the brink of disaster and continue to save him ... you have done a mitzva! Blessings to you! I am happy to see John already able to formulate more coherent conversation within the confines of his cognitive disability. Again, thank you for intervening. Blessings to you and Baby Mae💖💖💖
555 I Liked the mitzva part, lol. Greetings from the country of milk and honey 🙂
John was just beyond the “brink” IMHO. I’m glad he’s got some food in his belly he appeared to be starving, I don’t much care how he got there, just glad this community came together with a “hand up”.
Aida, i'm so so happy to see how Paul has ralleyed arpunf John. Blinking pell chick won't work. SORRY
@@deliamurphy382 That's all right, spelling does not count 😊 still got what you were saying and yes, Paul has done a marvelleous job at rallying the troups to help as he put it 'a human being' in spite of all the nay-sayers. Those who who believe, no explanation needed; those who do not, no explanation will suffice ...
I am amazed how much his mental condition has changed for the positive in such a short time. He looks like he is starting to enjoy his life again and you can see the excitement on his face and hear it in his voice. Way to go John.
Lmao he was an American with money living in the greatest country in the world and he decided to do this.... hopefully he's homeless soon.
Paul, you are like a father to John. You have given that boy great advice and much help. Not many good people like you in this world. Thanks
Paul, you’re doing something very good here in helping John. The world needs more people like you. You can hold your head high and smile… You’re a real man.
Paul your one damm good friend to have. All the best to you and BB May.
God's blessings falling down from heaven!!! This is truly inspiring and we should all take a lesson from this and be more helpful and kind to others in need. Thank you Paul for opening your life and heart to John as well as all who have and will help John get the attention he needs and deserves.
Good luck to you John and thank you Paul for being there for him in his time of need. We, ExPats, have to stick together.
When a brother falls it is right to extend a hand. This right is common to the whole human race. Paul you are truly a brother to John. You are a shining example of human decency. INSPIRATIONAL!
I've been fortunate enough to never be down and out like John was, but it can happen to any of us at any time. Get a couple of bad breaks - fired from your job, illness, family troubles - and before you know it you're in the same position. It's good to see the expat community got together to help John out. Perhaps one day he'll be able to return the favour in kind.
Paul, much respect for you because you already know the risks that you’re taking with this situation. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Your doing a great job
Not even God can help him in the Philippines.
@@cwill2000 , God sends people to help. God sent Paul, and others who are stepping up to the plate to help.
@@cwill2000 God works in mysterious ways. Never underestimate the power of Jehovah
We all don’t need reminding how much pain and suffering there is in the world for so many unfortunate people. But every now and then , there comes along a Paul ( and his fellow expat buddies) who help the sad Johns of this world. They are to be blessed and thanked beyond words for helping John out.
It's so nice to see you smiling again John... God is so good for having Paul as your friend... and to all people who's helping you. God bless you all
Hi Paul, its good to see John on this video. He looks so much better and healthier. Thanks to you and everyone that is helping and supporting John 😊
Paul, you are a role model for what a real man is. Thank you. John, good luck.
Paul, it's so great of you and your group of friends to help John out of this bad situation! Hopefully, he will be able, with your help, to put all these problems behind him and enjoy his time in the PI.
Just from a health point of view he doesn't need "fattening up" he has lost muscle mass due to malnutrition and needs to be careful what kind of weight he puts on.
The change so far is nothing short of amazing. From the way John looks to the way he speaks and interacts compared to the first video shows a huge improvement. Some people feel so secure that they don't realize that what happened to John could happen to anyone. That's why it's so important for people to watch out for eachother. Paul, you and the others involved are truly wonderful people.
How can it happen to anyone if they don't spend their money chasing t & a and young girls in another country?
Is anyone talking about helping the kids as I really can't watch this tripe without cringing.
Can you help me i am american
Others get stroke but have a much better cushion. I would in no way live on the edge like he has i e. No real financial security. I had to work long and hard for the retirement I have finally at 69!!!.
It was for me the only way to achieve a modicum of security within my limitations.
@@oldbloke204 The world and this country is full of examples of good people, doing the right thing and still ending up broke and homeless. I'm not defending the mistakes this man made and I hope he learns from them but if you think you're too smart to get blindsided by an unknown issue, you haven't been paying attention. And you're right about the kids but it doesn't sound like the Filipinas family is thinking of their best interests either.
@@christopherbradley5575 What does that have to do with the fact that old men with a bit of money go to a foreign country and shagging poor women who have few options.?
That is a deliberate choice and not the result of bad luck or whatever.
Two different things entirely.
His actions have created even more drama when there was already too much of it.
Moving on for a better life in another country is well and good as long as you have the economic means to sustain you. These 50 to 62 year old dreamers who go there with modest amounts of cash , no well thought out long term plan , and no reliable monthly income will end up like this man. It’s difficult for a foreigner to get a job in the province that pays to keep up the standard of living you are used to. The story of John is a cautionary tale to all US foreigners to look out for. This man was vulnerable and gullible and could not see until it was too late he was played on. And why would you live in a squatter house? What happened to this man’s common sense? He needs to go back home and get himself together. You can’t rely on friends support, that is very short term. Go home before you end up homeless and disabled in the Philippines.
Sex tourists need to understand that they can be preyed upon. If you don't ensure your own safety and well-being, why in the world would you expect strangers in a foreign country to do what you wouldn't do for your own self? These guys are buying sex with young girls He went through a string of them. He went their to prey on teenage girls but ended up getting preyed upon.
What happened to his common sense? It all went down....below. He's pushing 60, and looks it, but he can get these young women - this mother of his children was what, 19, and before that John had hooked up with another under-20 woman. How many guys who look like John and are nearly 60 and have very little saved up and are just waiting around for their social security benefits, are getting laid with ladies in their late teens, back in the U.S.A.?
I'm sure any tourist in the Philippines can easily spot a middle-aged or senior white guy with a young woman under 25 on their arm. These men are generally not attractive, maybe balding and getting fat, and look every bit their age.
Exactly well said. He’s already disabled with a stroke and homeless. Plus twins. He F himself really Bad always have a back up plan. You can’t live on Love alone. Oh and he’s receiving disability SSI
Chasing skirts and got broke no money no honey he played the game and loss, why not go back home? Your a burden
Hello hello like have said before ivory coast is the best place to be for him to pickup the peace of is life beleave me guys thanks
Thank you Paul for helping John. You literally saved his life.
John it's good to see you smile! Just stay away from the family from hell! You have a real chance of turning the page for your new chapter in life.
Really a family from hell that is starving him. Theg have the house and the truck and do not need him now.
Respect paul helping John out in these desperate times,we need more people like you my friend God bless you 👍👍
Great respect to you, Paul & others for helping John.Thank you all for your good hearts ❤️❤️❤️
God Bless you Paul and all the ones that helped this very generous and nice person John
John is so fortunate/blessed to have you in his life to help him along the way.
Would love to hear the perspective of what Johns gf has to say. Maybe Baby Mae could interview her on her channel,,,,it certainly would create a ton of interest. Im not picking sides here but its always good to hear the other side of the story. She may be intimidated to be interviewed by Paul but Im sure she'd be comfortable talking to Mae.
Thats a great idea......the interest would catapult Maes channel into the stratosphere....could you pitch that to Mae Paul?
Bad idea. Let a sleeping dog lie. Just let it go and move on for johns sake if nothing else.
Yeah we're only hearing John's side. This Filipina may not even be a scammer as some infer.
Great Idea,there's always two sides of the story
I wish you all the best John, and I hope things will turn around for you. Attune to the universe.
Good to see John is doing ok. Paul & Company you are doing a great job helping him stabilize his life. He clearly is still recovering from his stroke and probably has a long road ahead to make a full recovery. He is such a lovely person and he deserves his life back.
Keep moving John
Life is beautiful
Be careful now who to trust
Some are just taking advantage of foreigners...
Thanks Paul for rescuing this good fellow
You are God sent
Keep up this good deed
And being a good samaritan is your great blessing
And you are a blessing to others too...
Keep your FAITH JOHN
GOD IS GOOD... ALL THE TIME...🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇
Ask guidance from above always🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for everything you all doing for John.
I am so glad that John is getting the help that he needs. It just goes to show you that there are still a lot of good people left in the world.
Good to see human kindness shining brightly , Paul your a wonderful person
You are a saint Paul, thank you for all you do for John, your coordination of the efforts to help John should not be underestimated by anyone watching this and your other videos. Very well done sir. I have not commented before on John's story, but I was sitting watching and taking it all in. Its beautiful how people can truly look out for each other.
❤️ absolutely yes 👍
Paul I never wrote to you before. But you are a great interviewer! How could I help a bit. I am not a troll. I am a 74 going on 50 widow. NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE🤣😂.
Is there a go fund me ? If he learned his lesson I think he deserves a chance. He sounds intelligent but I fear when she ,the girl, smells $$$ she will be back!
Your amazing for helping john. He’s coming along, you just might have saved his life.
It's marvelous what you are doing to help John. I really hope he can get back on his feet and find happiness and live a fruitful life.
Outstanding Paul.. I couldn't agree more with all the steps you're taking to get John back on his feet.. As you mentioned he is beginning to smile and his mood has improved.. Good on ya Paul..
It's good to know that there are people like you willing to help others simply for the sake of helping someone in need. Got a lot of respect for you and all the others that are helping him. May you and the others be blessed. Great video Sir.
Yes God will bless them..long life and prosperous
Very fortunate to get a helping hand from this very thoughtful and kind person. Blessings to both of you.😇😇😇
I am glad that John got a lot of help; no one deserves to be hungry and no money or support in a foreign country. However, old viewers correct me if I am wrong. John had another relationship with another teenage girl two years ago? Learn your lesson and find someone who loves you as you are, and within your age bracket. Wishing John and the twins the best. People may not be so kind the next time.
He went to the Philippines for the sole purpose of bedding young women (because no girl in the USA will touch him). Learn his lesson? What lesson? He is there for a purpose and staying there for that purpose. Shouldn't he be digging ditches or any manual labor job to help support those twins? But he hasn't right? He's looking for the easy money right?
@@oldstinkyfrancois43 so right. Two teenagers at almost 60 yrs. old and not his fault? R.P or USA teenager will take advantage.
Well done. My main concern is the growth on his neck. I suspect it is a Lumph node with a bacterial or viral infection. Fingers crossed for him. And well done to you Paul and the other expats there in Dumaguete. I was there in Dumaguete 12 years ago and i always wanted to return. Maybe some day. I stayed at that hotel as well.
Tip top hotel??
Hey, Paul, when do you think you will get the info out there on the Facebook page. You are right about the "troll issue" so it is understandable about not wanting that to happen. But there are people that want to follow John's progress. Thanks for all you and the other expats are doing for him....I think that is awesome!
Paul has indeed stepped up to the plate. Very proud of this angel. We all need to help each other more, but the one that truly deserves it.
Thanks Paul for helping someone who was on your channel and has now fall in on hard times
I have NO idea how this channel came up on my feed. I watched the last almost hour long video with Paul and John and got invested so it led me to this 2nd video. All I can say is John has met his saving grace. Paul you are an amazing person wow. Wow. Wow. I pray that John can keep his trajectory in the right direction.
Absolutely wonderful that y'all are helping and lifting John up to where he can stand on his own surrounded by people that can help in a social network.
Paul you look like the wise uncle we wish we all had, Thank you for helping this guy out...
May I suggest an escort or bodyguard for John whenever or if ever he returns to visit the compound for his kids; I would hate to see him targeted or bullied around from any unscrupulous bad actors that may confront him. These updates may be well and good but there are people that will try to bring him down. Praying for continued strength for John and the well-being of his kids! Thank you to Paul and all your supporters!
He probably shouldn't go alone for a while. My hope is they realize and appreciate the home he built for them. Perhaps that will (or at least should) temper any ill will. His daughters will benefit greatly from that home as well.
hes outnumbered... behind ENEMY LINES... the only cure for that is STAY OUT!!!! of the barrio and away from them ppl, CUT THEM LOOSE!!!!! move on. wow how in the world... got to have STOP LOSS on the funds... when we realize we are being taken for a RIDE... make a break for it for the nearest exit and keep moving.
@@gmcinnis6304 he has two children, so there is going to be some interraction. Being a deadbeat dad would be a garbage human move, so there is going to be a bit of a balancing act like it or not.
@@gmcinnis6304 You seem to be confused that he(John)is the victim here? no, the victims are the poor twin girls that he decided to bring into the world as a 58-60-year-old man because he couldn't be bothered to wear a condom. Let's be honest dude unless he arrived in the Philippines on the short mentally challenged bus with his care worker and the 19-year-old girl raped John, he knows exactly what he was doing having unprotected sex with her, she's a 19-year-old girl from a province and very poor!.
Now he has the cheek to worry about going to the dentist to get his teeth cleaned? maybe he should be getting his teeth knocked out!
And who should then be paying for an escort or bodyguard?
It's great thing to see you reach out to fellow Americans who life take wrong turn and its a leason for all of us i wish your friend good luck and happer times
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it's heartbreaking to see an expat audder like that especially because he is in a foreign land, away from his family and friends, but I'm glad a lot of people are willing to help and are stepping up to look after him. may he continue his path to recovery and healing physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. God bless you both.
I applaud you Paul for your compassionate way of interviewing. love from a psychiatric nurse in Norway
Paul just want to say thank you for helping a fellow man that needs help, not too many people would do like you did in helping John get back on his feet, other people put blames and don't give support shame on them!
Thanks John for helping Paul. That says alot about you.❤️
I’m glad expats are helping him but the best solution is a long term one which is to get this guy a one way ticket to America. He needs to get back to the workforce, support himself and his kids. Handouts are a temporary fix
Precisely so/correct ! But he cant get teens back in USA , and he is not willing to work.
@1996freddie we don’t know if he has any serious health problems besides mental stress
Are you aware that he doesn't want to go back to the U.S.? There won't be all these young 18 or 19 yr old girls lining up to shack up with him back in the U.S.
And he left the U.S. to GET AWAY from there.
Also some guy on here tried to help and offered him a job in Alaska and he refused. John is what, nearly 60 without any highly sought after job skills, so that Alaska job was the best he could hope for - and pays quite well.
But John knows he has no need to work as once he gets enough donations he'll be able to get by for the short wait until he can claim social security benefits.
Can't he be an English tutor?
@@julesfalcone They don't need English tutors in the Philippines. Lots of educated Filipinos speak English at a very fluent level and many of them teach English both in the Philippines, and online to students in other countries.
I suppose he could try to teach online, to students abroad. But competition is extremely high now, and it's really a youth game. A guy who's 60, and without a fair amount of experience or degrees and certificates in education is just not going to be able to compete. Younger, attractive, and experienced and educated tutors are preferred.
Hi Paul, I’m a new subscriber. You have a pure heart. God bless you for all you are doing. You remind me of how my dad was to people who needed some help. He never met a stranger. He treated everyone with love and respect and like old friends.
I’m praying John continues to get better and keeps hitting his goals. Lots of love to you all.
You are an angel, Paul! Thank you for helping your fellow American. I salute to all kind and generous people who are helping him. John is good man who became a victim of bad locals.
Well done Paul, you are a sweetheart. Poor guy, hope he sorts his life out.
Paul,
You and your friends are doing something very special to help John.
You’re an amazing person!
Take care and god bless!
Paul I take my hat off 2 you for what you guys are doing, hope everything works out.🙏🙏
Not having the full story, a simple answer seems to be for John to drive the cattle truck himself, basically taking over that business, providing an income for the family.
It’s good that his stroke didn’t do more long term damage. That’s a huge blessing. Props to Paul for helping him out.
Didn't that truck get sold?
Love this story! Thank you Paul and your friends for helping John.. He looks happier now compared to the last interview.. Good to know that John has a job offer, which is awesome. My brother in the Philippines works online for an American company, he is happy and contented and he doesn’t want to come to Canada or abroad. He makes decent Philippine money. God bless you, all.
A 60 year old goes to the Philippines for the sole purpose of bedding young women (because no girl in the USA will touch him). He impregnates a girl 40 years his senior, fathers twins, lives with the girl's family (adding more burden to the girl's mother), is a dead beat, unemployed, runs out of money...and somehow this story is heart-warming?
@@oldstinkyfrancois43 it’s always nice to know, people helping others no matter what the circumstances..Bless your heart.. I am a Filipina but my heart breaks for John…
@OLD STINKY FRANCOIS 40 years his senior? So, a 100 year old? Did you mean that or are you just an uneducated dunce?
Watched the previous blog with this guy. You're an angel helping him to get back to himself. That's being human . Still there are some good Samaritans along the way. And that's you sir. I know in life we find some people along the way whom we don't expect . But keep fighting and moving, you are in the right track with your good friend.
This is amazing. Paul and the support group are beautiful people. Good luck John. Things will get better and better.
Paul and John, I am so happy to see that John has been rescued and that Paul has organized a way back for him through his contacts. It is good to know that people are willing to lend a hand to someone in need. I hope John's twins will not forget their father and I am happy also to see that John wants to provide for them. As for John's gf/wife and her family, the best revenge for John is to live well and to release any anger. Good luck to John!
Such great advice. No more help for this girl friend, biggest thing is your children.
I can't be mad at the girl. He knocked her up and didn't provide for any of them. It's a culture norm for you to take care of the whole family. They work hard but don't have any money.
Actually, John is not providing for the kids, it is the people who are donating money that are doing that.
Way to go Paul, helping this fellow American. You’ve really saved him and you’re so right about how important it is to have a group of buddies who look out for each other, especially in a foreign country. We’ve all made mistakes and been foolish and John seems so much healthier now.
I wish you well John. I hope this second chance will work out for you. Thank you Paul and your buddies for helping John.