If you had gotten attacked by an adult black bear on your trip, it very likely would have weighed less than amber lynn. Average weight for an adult male is 200-400 pounds. Just throwing that out there. 🐻
My guess about what the "Full Story™" is: Tommy told Amber that her late ex girlfriend was the one into feeding and Tommy was kinda forced to participate. Of course sprinkled with "I feel soooo bad because I loved her so much and I really didn't want to do that but she made me feel like I had to😢"
No way they broke up. She's going to go off track/gain weight and blame it on being depressed when in reality she's just doing what Tommy wants but doesn't want to admit to us being right.
It's another Wifey 2.0 situation type deal. Fakeup to protect gorlfriend from hayders then pretend to get with a new gorlfriend to explain why she's addressing a person off-screen.
I would have figured she would be going for feeders but I only thought guys are sick enough to be feeders. I had no idea there were women feeders. This is ALR tho ladies, her soul is every bit as dark as the feeders. It's two black holes and I guess we are going to see what happens when they combine. Neither of their mental conditions will let them give this codependent relationship up.
Yeah, that's the good ol narcissist in her. She'd rather double down and look like an idiot than be an adult for 3 seconds and admit that she was wrong
its actually scary how easy it would be for someone with bad intentions to contact her, meet up with her, get invited to her HOUSE... she spoke to this person online for a month and planned to move in with them. what is she doing??? hopefully she learns from this
"Hopefully she learns from this...", Gorls, Amber has been online, manipulating her audience and reactors for 11 years, she's never changed, never learned and never grown as a person... except in pounds. Amber will happily let Tommy back in and deny the feeder allegations and stupidly ignore the decent advice from people like Salty Crab... Amber likes being the victim and blaming everyone else. If only she took that TH-cam money and got a real therapist...
I think she genuinely believes that since she weighs so much that she would never be in danger from a stranger. Like just because they can’t pick you up and kidnap you or move your dead body they’d never hurt you.
For all of Amber's claims that she's so "street smart", she really has zone people skills. She reads people with rose colored glasses, except the people who actually give her a livelihood, her audience. Zero self awareness, common sense, or self preservation skills.
Amber WANTS to be in a feeder relationship....Let her stop doing the perfunctory " trying to lose weight" all while doing everything to not lose weight. Let her be called beautiful and let her eat crap. "help" her, give her the warm feelz...and let her eat herself to death. She has no skills, not ability to earn money beyond her being lucky and getting on a YT algorithm that has let her ..... stay at home, do nothing, eat crap, and manipulate others to do everything for her. (kinda like a feedee, in a sense) Her upset is that an open feeder is unacceptable to her audience, which has been in steady decline already. She is panicked over the loss of income. But, she'll end up on alternative sites, eventually.
Thats crazy. I mean, we all beg for a sidecharacter, because Amber herself is boring af. But we didn't wish for a Maincharacter with a backround THAT dark and vile. We don't wanna the Amberverse turning into a True Crime Scene lmfao. I don't like her, but NOBODY deserve to fed to heaven. This is why its MINDBLOWING to me that she blame US. Amber and Emily fit well together, because they are bolth lunatic.
What a life. Oh, I need to vlog! Hi guys! I'm 13 hours away from meeting her! Hi guys! I'm 10 hours away! Hi guys! 1 more hour! Hi guys! She just landed! Hi guys! She rented a car! Hi guys! We ate food! Hi guys! We are drunk! Hi guys! She left. 😢 Hi guys! She's perfect! Hi guys! You ruined it.
In a parallel universe where lesbians can live openly and freely in Kuwait, she absolutely would. And have the same terrible time FoodieBeauty is having.
Wonder what her mom thinks of all this??? I know that she’s 30, but she acts like she’s 14!!! Look at my hickey guys!!! 30 year olds would totally not put make up on to hide it & yell at their significant other for making it!!!
She clearly looks at and gestures to Tommy off camera at 34:30. There's several times she looks towards her when she mentions her. And her crying is so ridiculously fake, it's insulting. They're still together. Honestly, if that's the relationship she wants, who cares? It would just be nice if she would be honest about it and own it.
You have no idea what is outside the frame of the viewer. Your imagination insists it’s a “who” because of cognitive bias, but there isn’t any hard data to make that claim. Edit but yeah, who cares if she wants a toxic relationship with a loser? She just won’t be able to keep a youtube career at the same time. No biggie for the Amberverse, we don’t write the story, we just watch. However it ends is just how it ends, then the show is over 🤷🏽♀️
@@creatrixZBD I concede, we don’t know that it’s Tommy off screen. It could be MamaLynn, it could be Valentine, it could be Santa Claus. But it’s also not cognitive bias, it’s body language cues. Her body language implies there’s someone there. Not just the gesturing, but her facial expression. Her raised eyebrows are a sign of looking for acceptance that what she’s saying is pleasing whoever is there.
Tommy wasn't just into the lifestyle, she and her partner were celebrities in the sites. The pic of her laying her had on the belly of the feede, bizarre!!!
Does anyone else get the feeling that the “other side of the story” is Tommy’s former partner was somehow abusive and manipulated Tommy into this gross lifestyle?? Also, this is all so insane.
@averagechickfitness4184 I don't think she was ever into feederism before. Probably isn't now either, it's just part of conforming to whatever the current gf wants
@@MollieFrieWeevilGenius I think there’s levels of feederism. I think Amber found someone who wanted to show her off like a trophy and take her out to dinners/bars etc. Someone who wasn’t doing to bring up her weight in a negative light, someone who basically celebrated her size. I don’t think feeders always funnel food into your mouth
I always wondered, out of intellectual curiosity, if female fat fetishists existed. Intellectually, I knew they must. Now science has had it confirmed. Now I'm wondering if they only exist among the lesbian community.
If you watch her latest video where she’s wearing something that shows her arms like that and you zoom in on her eyes, there is not a single tear shed. She’s def still with that person.
I mean, I agree that Amber’s probably lying. But she’s probably so close to end game that maybe she can’t produce tears anymore? Like, shes really really obese, her body doesn’t work correctly anymore.
The messenger always gets shot. Amber didn’t want to hear anything that was going to burst her delusional bubble. There was no way to warn her without her getting all pissy about it.
I have the same issue! I find that transitioning to zero sugar juice (I really like minute made zero sugar fruit punch) or tea like Arizona diet green tea helped me drink more water after a bit of drinking those.
Oh please drink water. You don’t want to grow up to be Amber. Diet soda will still give you diabetes and your gut cannot digest the fake sugar in those. Please be nice to your body and drink water. Hell, drink green tea. That stuff is the most magical liquid on the planet.
I felt attacked too... and I was actively drinking water. 😂 I don't drink pop often, lol. She's good for inspiring lots of us though, and you said you're already working on it, so you're already doing well. Get your water on! 💜
I fell into Gorl World quite accidentally a few weeks ago and have consumed as much content as my brain can take. I have a theory or two I’d like to share. 1. Tommy is Valentine and they met well before Amber’s big reveal. It was the only way to make the timeline work. That way Amber isn’t revealed as someone who’d be running around with a dying woman’s partner. 2. Tommy is already there and was sitting across from Amber while she was making the breakup video. It’s all too manufactured. 3. It’s all for views. Amber might not be the brightest crayon in the box but she knows how to get attention. What better way to do so? (The whole remark about the relationship being good for the channel confirms this for me.)
If Tommy really IS "Valentine" that would make the both of them look like even bigger scumbags because that would mean that while her partner was on her deathbed that Tommy was shopping around for a replacement already and asking a stranger online (Amber at the time) to be "valentines". Hmmm, maybe exposing her really did "ruin her life".
Sweet summer child. We have all felt that flush of thinking we know all the juice. Welcome to the Amberverse. You can check out, but you can never leave 😅
AbsoIuteIy right. And the breakup is bs. This is Hamber's dream gorl. She would rather eat herself to being bedbound and worse, just to be her true self who has never wanted to truly lose or quit eating. And she found the perfect person for it. Why should we feel bad when this is what she wants ?
There were a lot of people being mean, but the majority seemed to be genuinely concerned. I wish she could focus on the fact that SO MANY people were expressing concern for her health and well being. WE DONT WANT TO SEE YOU DIE, GORL. Also, my husband and I moved in together after a week of meeting each other, we’ve been together for almost 22 years now. It DOES happen but it’s rare, and it doesn’t happen over and over and over to the same person in every relationship.
According to her black and white BPD thinking, if you don’t like Amber, you can’t possibly be concerned or not want her to die. It’s either you’re supporting her every move and saying yes to everything, or you’re evil and want to see her suffer. No in between for her
You don't ruin someone's life by watching the content they themselves put out there on public settings for people to watch. Tommy published who they are online for the world to see. The world saw. The world cringed. End of story.
Amber, stop accusing content creators of only doing what they do for money when you are a content creator who has destroyed your body for money and views. Just STOP.
If she had truly been in love with this person how would people on the internet have been able to stop them from being together? It’s like she’s in middle school instead of her 30’s. 🙄🙄🙄
I love my BF, and we’ve been together a few years now, but when he first started staying over and he would leave, I was like “phew okay now I can relax!” 😂 like it was fun and everything, and I missed him a bit, but I wasn’t like falling apart missing him immediately like Amber does with a practical stranger
Here is my long-winded theory: I personally think Amber is feeling a lot of mixed emotions right now. I think she feels a bit of embarrassment that Tommy was outed as a feeder. Amber has always proudly declared that none of her relationships were with a feeder and merely women who preferred big women. I feel like Amber felt a sense of pride from that, almost that she was "better" than the women her size who were stuck in feeder relationships. Tommy goes by a multitude of aliases online, so it's not like Amber could just Google her name (and I also think Tommy does that as to not have her real name directly connected to feederism online). Amber seems angry, sad, and maybe a bit betrayed. I'm sure Amber knew SOMETHING about Tommy's past relationship, but who knows how much Tommy actually told her. I wouldn't be surprised if Amber was just learning about all this at the same time we are and is desperate to accept ANY explanation except the truth as it is very grim. All I know is that if Amber decides to continue this relationship, she might as well just accept that she'll be bedbound or worse a year from now. This is a dangerous dynamic - a food addict with a feeder.
Exactly this 💯 She thinks she's different/better than other super morbidly obese people. You know she doesn't empathize with the deceased woman who got as large as 1040 pounds, because she constantly says she's "not like the 600 Pound Life people". But she still wants the benefits of being a feedee (without being seen as a freak or an "other") she's "just a bigger girl" 🙄
Yeah! I could believe that Amber didn't/couldn't find that info and "Tommy" probably told her a story that didn't sound as bad. I wonder if they already arranged to move in before Amber found out the truth from the internet?? That would make it harder to break up immediately and maybe explain the fake vibes people are getting from the "it's over" video 🤔
She is INFURIATING. For her to cry about us trying to ruin her life when we were trying to SAVE her. I have no sympathy for her and don't care what happens to her. Everything is her own doing. I don''t care if saying this makes me a bad person. At least I'm honest and not faking wanting her to live a happy and healthy life she doesn't deserve because she has caused so much damage to everyone around her and always tries to take the easy way out and blame everything and everyone BUT HERSELF.
The "my exes have always liked bigger girls" thing pissed me off, she has ALWAYS said her size didn't matter and she's more than her weight etc., so they're either into it or they don't mind but not both imo. She's twisting things to suit her story now and its so frustrating
I think everybody has their own personal "chunk limit" for a partner. For some that's 200 pounds, others it's 300 or somewhere in between, or they may let 40 pounds overweight slide depending on how the person carries it, their muscle mass, height, if they're trying to lose weight and actually succeeding etc. Some people think 160 pounds is too big regardless. But Amber is 500 pounds and under 5'5". Even by Southeast and Midwest US standards that's out of the ordinary big. Anybody who seeks that out is either a feeder or a hobosexual who couldn't find a 300 pound woman desperate enough. So yeah I agree that in the past when she said that about her exes "not seeing her size" it was protecting her own ego and insisting that she's "just normal but bigger". But now that she's older and becoming more desperate for ANY partner she'll be more open to the idea of letting her feedee flag fly. The alternative is having nobody and (in her view) to be single is to be "miserable".
Tommy messaged a few obese woman who have large Tik tok audiences and her last partner had a public persona. I think she thought Amber was the same as them except Amber has a massive problematic history online that I don’t think she knew for some reason? I think Amber is going to keep running into this problem unless she steps away from TH-cam and works on herself but that’s doubtful.
I can’t believe anyone is believing this. I definitely don’t. I can’t see amber giving up someone as “conventionally attractive” as Tommy, who definitely enjoys her size. No matter what
My theory is that the "full story" is that she actually is into that lifestyle but doesn't want to admit to it (because who would given the controversial nature) and is now angry that her chance was "taken away" because of the "haters." Regardless, I can't think of anything that could remotely explain the situation and make me like Tommy as a partner for her.
They’re still together. Amber did not break up with her. Especially since she pointed/gestured at her and her last video. I would bet you 100 bucks that she’ll gain 100 pounds by the end of this year
It is wild to me someone her age can still move on from one “love of their life” to the next. Like you can’t pospossibly be this in love with these strangers like you said a love addict.
I think your take is way off...Amber was nervous because tommy was physically out of her league and further more she was an open feeder. I think Amber knew that. Amber is finally embracing the type of relationship that she had always wanted. Tell her she's beautiful and let her eat crap. Amber has never grown passed the toddler stage. Feedees remain in the toddler stage. It's what she wants. However, the rest of the world, haydurs included, actually wants her to grow up and survive. The backlash over finding the evidence of Tommy's behaviors is what is upsetting amber because her cash flow has been dropping already and she's panicking. I figure she is staying with Tommy (or will find another more discrete feeder) and she'll end up cashing in on other types of video upload sites.
She's also a parent. Not sure if the child's other parent (if there is one involved) found out about this stuff and is seeking sole custody or if she's receiving CPS visits.
Good for you for doing your due diligence, Salty! This whole era has been a disasterrrrrr so far, and it's nice to hear a level voice over the screaming.
Most people ignored the anonymous claims and that is where the STD story came from. Most people were only looking at the posts from her and her late partner. Apparently, they were engaged not married (per the last partners social media). Many people do not believe the breakup actually happened. The things I noticed is that in the its over video she kept looking to the side and when she said "my ex" she actually gestured to the same side. Second thing is, in the last video she is shooting from a lower angle and showing much more of her body than she has in a very long time. It says a lot about Ambie's history that people think the breakup is fake. Just like the Jade/Wifey/Faline one.
Maybe I’m looking too into this, but notice how she said ,”let’s be real, I’m probably never getting my license”. She never admitted that before. She always had that as a goal to lure her gfs into thinking she was going to change. Does this mean that Tommy had already planted the seed that she doesn’t need to strive to be better because Tommy is going to “take care of her”. Just seems a little strange. Literally every other gf she said she wanted to get her license, was going to get her license or actually practiced driving
34:30 tell me why when she says “me and now my ex” she points off screen as if Tommy is sat right across her? They aren’t broken up, this is Wifey.0 and she’s telling us lahs again.
Ever heard of computer screens? Or facetime etc. it’s so weird that people think they can fill in details with no data. You can speculate that there could have been another person there, but tbh not everyone is seeing what you see and interpreting it the same way. You want Tommy to be there, but logistically it seems highly unlikely. According to known evidence, she’s not a freewheeling, jobless person with endless time on her hands and no responsibilities, to be flying back and forth to Amber’s house to comfort Amber because the internet rinsed her dirty laundry out.
0:44 why is she thinking of "just getting rid of it" girl.. give it away, dont js throw it out💀 that's expensive af im pretty sure other fosters or kids, that are from less, even other adults would love to build and play with it, also how does a laygeo set give you bad vibes.. is the laygeo suddenly haunted
interesting thing to note…. in the cheesecake factory clip she’s drinking a soda when like two clips ago she was “only drinking water”. extra interesting now after we found everything out……
I can't get past Hamber crying about how she does not put her gfs on camera when she tormented and abused Krystle on camera when she didn't want to be filmed at all.
Not just you!!! She looks like she's gained 50 pounds, no joke. Look at the videos she posted before Tommy got there and then look at her "you guys ruined my life" video. She looks like she did when she was at her biggest with Beck!!! Is that even possible? I know she can gain large amounts of weight hella fast but that's WILD!!
@batbrat4412 thank you! Usually I don't notice changes in weight unless they are huge. But I found it so unrealistic that it took only a handful of days to bloat like she did! It makes me think that her latest video was full of misdirected anger. She must be feeling like a fool because she must have binged like crazy and she surely had zero remorse with all the validation coming from her f33der. The sense of guilt and shame must be burning...
Does anyone else notice she points when she says “me and now my ex” at 34:33? Almost like Tommy is still there when this was filmed, she also keeps looking at the same spot when she looks off screen.
Sometimes I really believe that it's a miracle she has survived this long with zero self-preservation skills. How has her luck not run out yet? She keeps meeting strangers online, inviting them to her home, getting drunk together... People have been murdered for less.
Does it really surprise anyone that neither ALR nor FoodieBeauty are mad at their partner for their behavior? Instead, they're mad at the internet or "people" for exposing their partners' behavior. That seems a little ass-backwards to me, honestly.
What she did this time is no more crazy than Destiny (and I think her father) driving from Florida to Virginia to pick up Amber at Krystal's house, along with her plastic earrings and other crap, to move her BACK to Florida. Destiny had never seen her in person before. The only difference this time is that Amber could end up ⚰️🪦!
Even if what she said was true, "She prefers bigger girls (girls my size)," that is still problematic if your goal is to lose weight. If the person you love, loves you with a caveat being your high weight, you would be less motivated to change yourself to someone they have less attraction to. Also, no one had to "dig" anything up on the person now named Tommy, as she has an extensive digital footprint. At minimum, my partner would need to explain a deceased ex, and the circumstances of that relationship.
This video feels like a mom explaining to their bratty teenager that dating the local 21 year old weed dealer is a bad idea 💀
This is the perfect example for what's going on in the amberverse now LOL
I wouldnt date a feeder...dates a feeder. Girl ...
Hopefully Salty really is the "female reaction channel" that Amber likes and respects, and Salty can get her to LISTEN to REASON❤️
this is so funny because i literally thought the break up video sounded like a bratty teenager reaction to exactly smth like that 😭
She reminds me of a little kid throwing a temper tantrum because her mom doesn't want to give her a drink with alcohol in it
I could name you five relationships that moved too quick and ended badly and they're all Amber's.
Quick! Name 5 bad relationships that moved too quick and ended badly for 500 dollars!!
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@@DearestSheepMC wipey, becky, dusty, Kcey, Valentine...
@@betamuniz000That was only 4 that really existed.
@@StandardGoose allegedly 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Imagine being 33 crying 'you won again, you won again'. Gorl.
And she just discovered WATER 😮😂😂
Imagine thinking so little of yourself that you believe your last chance at love is to let someone feed you to death
I go camping for a week and all kinds of shiiit goes down in gorlworld!🤣
Omg welcome back haydur
You'll have something to listen to while you unpack and do your laundry :)
If you had gotten attacked by an adult black bear on your trip, it very likely would have weighed less than amber lynn. Average weight for an adult male is 200-400 pounds. Just throwing that out there. 🐻
My guess about what the "Full Story™" is: Tommy told Amber that her late ex girlfriend was the one into feeding and Tommy was kinda forced to participate. Of course sprinkled with "I feel soooo bad because I loved her so much and I really didn't want to do that but she made me feel like I had to😢"
I agree 100000 percent and amber is falling for it. Willing to die to be loved. So pathetic
@@Wiltingboy Colleen’s ex husband was called her enabler
Crabs are best served...salty
Been waiting for this Salty Sunday for days
No way they broke up. She's going to go off track/gain weight and blame it on being depressed when in reality she's just doing what Tommy wants but doesn't want to admit to us being right.
It's another Wifey 2.0 situation type deal. Fakeup to protect gorlfriend from hayders then pretend to get with a new gorlfriend to explain why she's addressing a person off-screen.
I would have figured she would be going for feeders but I only thought guys are sick enough to be feeders. I had no idea there were women feeders. This is ALR tho ladies, her soul is every bit as dark as the feeders. It's two black holes and I guess we are going to see what happens when they combine. Neither of their mental conditions will let them give this codependent relationship up.
Yeah, that's the good ol narcissist in her. She'd rather double down and look like an idiot than be an adult for 3 seconds and admit that she was wrong
I wasn't around for the wifey era. What actually happened? Did Wifey also have red flags and a vile past?
@@Tescoffeeof course 🚩🚩
Gworl world either slow as hell or spinning off its axis
From 0 to 100 to 0 again 🤷♀️
There is no in between 😂 it's about to be so boring again
If she says “Amberlynn coded” one more time 😤
That, or girly pop, and don't even get me started on literally. Lol
And “jurr-nee” and “situation type deal”.
@@smugandsmarmyEverything is "A mOmEnT”
It’s the referring to herself in the third person for me.
😂 she fully thinks the world revolves around her
its actually scary how easy it would be for someone with bad intentions to contact her, meet up with her, get invited to her HOUSE... she spoke to this person online for a month and planned to move in with them. what is she doing??? hopefully she learns from this
"Hopefully she learns from this...", Gorls, Amber has been online, manipulating her audience and reactors for 11 years, she's never changed, never learned and never grown as a person... except in pounds.
Amber will happily let Tommy back in and deny the feeder allegations and stupidly ignore the decent advice from people like Salty Crab... Amber likes being the victim and blaming everyone else. If only she took that TH-cam money and got a real therapist...
I think she genuinely believes that since she weighs so much that she would never be in danger from a stranger. Like just because they can’t pick you up and kidnap you or move your dead body they’d never hurt you.
Tommy taking ALR to cheesecake factory takes on a whole new creepy lens after what we found out about her 😬😵💫😵💫😂
She studied Amber before meeting, this was creepy as F
And the Jeep!
@@paulatmuniz or maybe amber just talk about cheesecake factory non stop... 🤣🤣
Like taking a heroin addict on a date to the heroin store.
She probably just said she’d take Amber to her favorite restaurant and she’d pay, and order her favorite fatty food and eat lots and lots of it.
Slommi taking ambie to the cheesecake factory is so iconic she probably got orange chickeeen
Tommy's mental health was debilitated? Is it dangleen like your ankle amber?
Lmaooo 🤣🤣🤣 I burst out laughing so loud that I scared my dogs. 😭
😂😂😂😂😂
she buried her last GF just 3 months ago, her mental health was already debilitated...
It’s rotten and stirred
Amber has talked about the idiotic jeep for YEARS now. “JuSt In PaSsInG” 🤡😂
Right? We all know she loves Jeeps but oh dear how did she know she likes Jeeps so fast? Um she watches you 😂
She did her homework.
This week was on crack
For all of Amber's claims that she's so "street smart", she really has zone people skills. She reads people with rose colored glasses, except the people who actually give her a livelihood, her audience. Zero self awareness, common sense, or self preservation skills.
No street smart person would give their address to an Internet stranger that's for sure
Oh, she has street-smarts like she had a 3.9 GPA 😂
Amber WANTS to be in a feeder relationship....Let her stop doing the perfunctory " trying to lose weight" all while doing everything to not lose weight. Let her be called beautiful and let her eat crap. "help" her, give her the warm feelz...and let her eat herself to death.
She has no skills, not ability to earn money beyond her being lucky and getting on a YT algorithm that has let her ..... stay at home, do nothing, eat crap, and manipulate others to do everything for her. (kinda like a feedee, in a sense)
Her upset is that an open feeder is unacceptable to her audience, which has been in steady decline already. She is panicked over the loss of income. But, she'll end up on alternative sites, eventually.
36:56 she looks like she just wants to SCREAM at us, she doesn't sound sad. she sounds ANGRY.
Hangry, even .. she needs a Snickers! Not really, but .. 😂
Yes it’s hilarious
She’s so mad we were right. She has no control over the narrative and she can’t handle it, narc meltdown
Thats crazy. I mean, we all beg for a sidecharacter, because Amber herself is boring af.
But we didn't wish for a Maincharacter with a backround THAT dark and vile. We don't wanna the Amberverse turning into a True Crime Scene lmfao. I don't like her, but NOBODY deserve to fed to heaven.
This is why its MINDBLOWING to me that she blame US.
Amber and Emily fit well together, because they are bolth lunatic.
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1000+ POUNDS IS INSANE… I didn’t know sizes could get that extreme UNTIL all this Tommy talk happened
What a life.
Oh, I need to vlog!
Hi guys! I'm 13 hours away from meeting her!
Hi guys! I'm 10 hours away!
Hi guys! 1 more hour!
Hi guys! She just landed!
Hi guys! She rented a car!
Hi guys! We ate food!
Hi guys! We are drunk!
Hi guys! She left. 😢
Hi guys! She's perfect!
Hi guys! You ruined it.
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At least she didn’t fly to Kuwait. That’s about the only upside I’m seeing here.
In a parallel universe where lesbians can live openly and freely in Kuwait, she absolutely would. And have the same terrible time FoodieBeauty is having.
"Buuulll, Buuuulll" 😭😭😭 Gorl just waintig for the worst happen to her...
**boooool
Wonder what her mom thinks of all this??? I know that she’s 30, but she acts like she’s 14!!! Look at my hickey guys!!! 30 year olds would totally not put make up on to hide it & yell at their significant other for making it!!!
She clearly looks at and gestures to Tommy off camera at 34:30. There's several times she looks towards her when she mentions her. And her crying is so ridiculously fake, it's insulting. They're still together. Honestly, if that's the relationship she wants, who cares? It would just be nice if she would be honest about it and own it.
You have no idea what is outside the frame of the viewer. Your imagination insists it’s a “who” because of cognitive bias, but there isn’t any hard data to make that claim.
Edit but yeah, who cares if she wants a toxic relationship with a loser? She just won’t be able to keep a youtube career at the same time. No biggie for the Amberverse, we don’t write the story, we just watch. However it ends is just how it ends, then the show is over 🤷🏽♀️
@@creatrixZBD I concede, we don’t know that it’s Tommy off screen. It could be MamaLynn, it could be Valentine, it could be Santa Claus. But it’s also not cognitive bias, it’s body language cues. Her body language implies there’s someone there. Not just the gesturing, but her facial expression. Her raised eyebrows are a sign of looking for acceptance that what she’s saying is pleasing whoever is there.
As the child of parents who got married after two weeks, DON’T DO THAT. If it’s meant to be then it can wait until you know each other.
Tommy wasn't just into the lifestyle, she and her partner were celebrities in the sites. The pic of her laying her had on the belly of the feede, bizarre!!!
Does anyone else get the feeling that the “other side of the story” is Tommy’s former partner was somehow abusive and manipulated Tommy into this gross lifestyle??
Also, this is all so insane.
Or like, she had to do it to help with her medical bills.
Or, maybe Amber knew all along and has decided she's into it
@@MollieFrieWeevilGenius well we all know she’s into it. Lol
@averagechickfitness4184 I don't think she was ever into feederism before. Probably isn't now either, it's just part of conforming to whatever the current gf wants
@@MollieFrieWeevilGenius I think there’s levels of feederism. I think Amber found someone who wanted to show her off like a trophy and take her out to dinners/bars etc. Someone who wasn’t doing to bring up her weight in a negative light, someone who basically celebrated her size. I don’t think feeders always funnel food into your mouth
Here faster than the breakup!
@fallenaangeel not THAT much faster though 🤣
4:00 Tommy was anxious if Amber was fat enough
😅
It’s like the reverse of when guys look at a girl and hope she’s thin enough
Trying to figure out how much time she would have to invest before the will reading (I'm sorry 🤭)!
I always wondered, out of intellectual curiosity, if female fat fetishists existed. Intellectually, I knew they must. Now science has had it confirmed. Now I'm wondering if they only exist among the lesbian community.
HELP 😭
If you watch her latest video where she’s wearing something that shows her arms like that and you zoom in on her eyes, there is not a single tear shed. She’s def still with that person.
I mean, I agree that Amber’s probably lying. But she’s probably so close to end game that maybe she can’t produce tears anymore? Like, shes really really obese, her body doesn’t work correctly anymore.
No need to zoom to know *those* tears are fake
She hasn’t been so uncovered in aaaages, like literally years??
Yeah her intuition was definitely kicking in and she didn't think twice. But here we are...
The messenger always gets shot. Amber didn’t want to hear anything that was going to burst her delusional bubble. There was no way to warn her without her getting all pissy about it.
Amber started showing an awful lot of skin as soon as Feeder Tommy showed up…. 😏🤔
do you think they ordered a Brookie from Dominos and Tommy fed it to her?
2:39 not me feeling personally attacked over Amberlyn Reid telling us we should drink water instead of diet soda 😭😭😭
I wouldn't take any advice from Amber. Drink your diet sodie!
@@megnanimous.I drink several cans of it a day though 😭😭 I generally drink more diet soda than I do water, but I’m trying to work on it
I have the same issue! I find that transitioning to zero sugar juice (I really like minute made zero sugar fruit punch) or tea like Arizona diet green tea helped me drink more water after a bit of drinking those.
Oh please drink water. You don’t want to grow up to be Amber. Diet soda will still give you diabetes and your gut cannot digest the fake sugar in those. Please be nice to your body and drink water. Hell, drink green tea. That stuff is the most magical liquid on the planet.
I felt attacked too... and I was actively drinking water. 😂 I don't drink pop often, lol.
She's good for inspiring lots of us though, and you said you're already working on it, so you're already doing well. Get your water on! 💜
The crab is SALTY today 😍
I fell into Gorl World quite accidentally a few weeks ago and have consumed as much content as my brain can take. I have a theory or two I’d like to share.
1. Tommy is Valentine and they met well before Amber’s big reveal. It was the only way to make the timeline work. That way Amber isn’t revealed as someone who’d be running around with a dying woman’s partner.
2. Tommy is already there and was sitting across from Amber while she was making the breakup video. It’s all too manufactured.
3. It’s all for views. Amber might not be the brightest crayon in the box but she knows how to get attention. What better way to do so? (The whole remark about the relationship being good for the channel confirms this for me.)
If Tommy really IS "Valentine" that would make the both of them look like even bigger scumbags because that would mean that while her partner was on her deathbed that Tommy was shopping around for a replacement already and asking a stranger online (Amber at the time) to be "valentines".
Hmmm, maybe exposing her really did "ruin her life".
Sweet summer child. We have all felt that flush of thinking we know all the juice. Welcome to the Amberverse. You can check out, but you can never leave 😅
Tommy is 100 percent there during the filming of last video.
AbsoIuteIy right. And the breakup is bs. This is Hamber's dream gorl. She would rather eat herself to being bedbound and worse, just to be her true self who has never wanted to truly lose or quit eating.
And she found the perfect person for it. Why should we feel bad when this is what she wants ?
Of course she was, Amber pointed to her and look over at her when she said 'ex girlfriend'
Disagree, but i guess that’s why we gather to speckle-ate, eh?
@creatrixZBD either way, we'll find out at some point. Our gorl always gives herself away LOL
She also looks like part of the time she’s reading a script off of her laptop screen lmao
There were a lot of people being mean, but the majority seemed to be genuinely concerned. I wish she could focus on the fact that SO MANY people were expressing concern for her health and well being. WE DONT WANT TO SEE YOU DIE, GORL. Also, my husband and I moved in together after a week of meeting each other, we’ve been together for almost 22 years now. It DOES happen but it’s rare, and it doesn’t happen over and over and over to the same person in every relationship.
According to her black and white BPD thinking, if you don’t like Amber, you can’t possibly be concerned or not want her to die. It’s either you’re supporting her every move and saying yes to everything, or you’re evil and want to see her suffer. No in between for her
How do you "have a future planned" after knowing somebody for 1 month...
She’s just having a BPD tantrum because she was pulled out of delusion and slapped in the face with reality.
1 week.
I mean, have you seen her? She has to move fast before the body spray wears off.
@@angussneef 😂😂😂😂
It's giving middle school lol
You don't ruin someone's life by watching the content they themselves put out there on public settings for people to watch. Tommy published who they are online for the world to see. The world saw. The world cringed. End of story.
Her "date night" looks fresh out of a sophomore year high school student, oh my GOD.
Amber, stop accusing content creators of only doing what they do for money when you are a content creator who has destroyed your body for money and views. Just STOP.
If she had truly been in love with this person how would people on the internet have been able to stop them from being together? It’s like she’s in middle school instead of her 30’s. 🙄🙄🙄
Just because people stay married for years after only knowing each other for a few months doesn’t mean they’re necessarily HAPPY. Oh my gooooosh
Val wasn't real, and her and Tommy didn't break up. Change my mind
My daughter, who is an ACTUAL teenager, isn't this dramatic. 🙄
Same 🤣
In the real world, people who online date meet for coffee or drinks for the first time. ALR out here leading random strangers right to her doorstep.
I love my BF, and we’ve been together a few years now, but when he first started staying over and he would leave, I was like “phew okay now I can relax!” 😂 like it was fun and everything, and I missed him a bit, but I wasn’t like falling apart missing him immediately like Amber does with a practical stranger
she's codependent af
I remember I always was like yay now I can go to the toilet in peace 😂.!
Here is my long-winded theory: I personally think Amber is feeling a lot of mixed emotions right now. I think she feels a bit of embarrassment that Tommy was outed as a feeder. Amber has always proudly declared that none of her relationships were with a feeder and merely women who preferred big women. I feel like Amber felt a sense of pride from that, almost that she was "better" than the women her size who were stuck in feeder relationships. Tommy goes by a multitude of aliases online, so it's not like Amber could just Google her name (and I also think Tommy does that as to not have her real name directly connected to feederism online). Amber seems angry, sad, and maybe a bit betrayed. I'm sure Amber knew SOMETHING about Tommy's past relationship, but who knows how much Tommy actually told her. I wouldn't be surprised if Amber was just learning about all this at the same time we are and is desperate to accept ANY explanation except the truth as it is very grim. All I know is that if Amber decides to continue this relationship, she might as well just accept that she'll be bedbound or worse a year from now. This is a dangerous dynamic - a food addict with a feeder.
Exactly this 💯
She thinks she's different/better than other super morbidly obese people. You know she doesn't empathize with the deceased woman who got as large as 1040 pounds, because she constantly says she's "not like the 600 Pound Life people".
But she still wants the benefits of being a feedee (without being seen as a freak or an "other") she's "just a bigger girl" 🙄
Yeah! I could believe that Amber didn't/couldn't find that info and "Tommy" probably told her a story that didn't sound as bad.
I wonder if they already arranged to move in before Amber found out the truth from the internet?? That would make it harder to break up immediately and maybe explain the fake vibes people are getting from the "it's over" video 🤔
@@octobermoon3959 That's a good point. That would be quite the mess!
I often skip the weekly recaps, but I've been waiting for this one
She is INFURIATING. For her to cry about us trying to ruin her life when we were trying to SAVE her. I have no sympathy for her and don't care what happens to her. Everything is her own doing. I don''t care if saying this makes me a bad person. At least I'm honest and not faking wanting her to live a happy and healthy life she doesn't deserve because she has caused so much damage to everyone around her and always tries to take the easy way out and blame everything and everyone BUT HERSELF.
Is this even a weightloss journey?..or like a scrapped reality dating show or smth..
Tommy was wearing the wrong shoes 😂
The "my exes have always liked bigger girls" thing pissed me off, she has ALWAYS said her size didn't matter and she's more than her weight etc., so they're either into it or they don't mind but not both imo. She's twisting things to suit her story now and its so frustrating
I think everybody has their own personal "chunk limit" for a partner.
For some that's 200 pounds, others it's 300 or somewhere in between, or they may let 40 pounds overweight slide depending on how the person carries it, their muscle mass, height, if they're trying to lose weight and actually succeeding etc.
Some people think 160 pounds is too big regardless.
But Amber is 500 pounds and under 5'5". Even by Southeast and Midwest US standards that's out of the ordinary big.
Anybody who seeks that out is either a feeder or a hobosexual who couldn't find a 300 pound woman desperate enough.
So yeah I agree that in the past when she said that about her exes "not seeing her size" it was protecting her own ego and insisting that she's "just normal but bigger".
But now that she's older and becoming more desperate for ANY partner she'll be more open to the idea of letting her feedee flag fly.
The alternative is having nobody and (in her view) to be single is to be "miserable".
idk what irks me more...her blaming everyone for saying they wanted to see her miserable, or the annoying whining/crying.
Tommy messaged a few obese woman who have large Tik tok audiences and her last partner had a public persona. I think she thought Amber was the same as them except Amber has a massive problematic history online that I don’t think she knew for some reason? I think Amber is going to keep running into this problem unless she steps away from TH-cam and works on herself but that’s doubtful.
I can’t believe anyone is believing this. I definitely don’t. I can’t see amber giving up someone as “conventionally attractive” as Tommy, who definitely enjoys her size. No matter what
My theory is that the "full story" is that she actually is into that lifestyle but doesn't want to admit to it (because who would given the controversial nature) and is now angry that her chance was "taken away" because of the "haters." Regardless, I can't think of anything that could remotely explain the situation and make me like Tommy as a partner for her.
Here faster than it took Domino’s to deliver my brookie!
Damn
What’s a brookie?
@@Serene3574a brownie/cookie - brookie. Amberlynn’s girl liked to feed them to her ex
Extra bag of salty popcorn to go with my salty crab fix today 👏 🦀 🧂
They’re still together. Amber did not break up with her. Especially since she pointed/gestured at her and her last video. I would bet you 100 bucks that she’ll gain 100 pounds by the end of this year
So True!
Unrelated but it drives me bananas how she films herself talking to the camera in her bra. Jfc just put on a tank top or a cardigan or something
Seriously it not like anything she talks about is that important that she can't wait to put on a shirt
It's really creepy and perverted of her to be honest
It is wild to me someone her age can still move on from one “love of their life” to the next. Like you can’t pospossibly be this in love with these strangers like you said a love addict.
I think your take is way off...Amber was nervous because tommy was physically out of her league and further more she was an open feeder. I think Amber knew that. Amber is finally embracing the type of relationship that she had always wanted. Tell her she's beautiful and let her eat crap. Amber has never grown passed the toddler stage. Feedees remain in the toddler stage. It's what she wants.
However, the rest of the world, haydurs included, actually wants her to grow up and survive.
The backlash over finding the evidence of Tommy's behaviors is what is upsetting amber because her cash flow has been dropping already and she's panicking.
I figure she is staying with Tommy (or will find another more discrete feeder) and she'll end up cashing in on other types of video upload sites.
ALR deserves "Tommy" and everything that comes from that. Let her become an example for others to look out for the community "Tommy" is in.
I thought Colleen was the example.
@@angussneef Amber doesn't see herself in Colleen, which is why she doesn't register that as being the example.
“dating around” sounds like smth my 68 year old dad would say 😂 28:41 also, if her last partner passed, isn’t tommy literally into d-word f**derism
This. THIS
But of course ambie is going to call us all haters for trying to help her see the major red flags she apparently cannot see
I hope Beck and her gf are doing good 🥰
It's been suggested that this is damage control because what's come out had out Tommy's job in health care at risk.
When you think about it, Tommy shouldn’t have been posting publicly on fetish forums if she had so much on the line though lool
She's also a parent. Not sure if the child's other parent (if there is one involved) found out about this stuff and is seeking sole custody or if she's receiving CPS visits.
Good
2:43 Salty, gorl, don't ruin her life by looking out for her safety 😔🌝
Good for you for doing your due diligence, Salty! This whole era has been a disasterrrrrr so far, and it's nice to hear a level voice over the screaming.
Most people ignored the anonymous claims and that is where the STD story came from. Most people were only looking at the posts from her and her late partner. Apparently, they were engaged not married (per the last partners social media).
Many people do not believe the breakup actually happened. The things I noticed is that in the its over video she kept looking to the side and when she said "my ex" she actually gestured to the same side. Second thing is, in the last video she is shooting from a lower angle and showing much more of her body than she has in a very long time. It says a lot about Ambie's history that people think the breakup is fake. Just like the Jade/Wifey/Faline one.
Maybe I’m looking too into this, but notice how she said ,”let’s be real, I’m probably never getting my license”. She never admitted that before. She always had that as a goal to lure her gfs into thinking she was going to change. Does this mean that Tommy had already planted the seed that she doesn’t need to strive to be better because Tommy is going to “take care of her”. Just seems a little strange. Literally every other gf she said she wanted to get her license, was going to get her license or actually practiced driving
I think that, and the fact that she may have acknowledged and accepted she won’t actually lose any significant amount of weight.
I was thinking the same thing!
Everybody find your sympathy bone!
They're all buried in a graveyard somewhere.
It's dangleen I ran like a beanbag in a hurry
There's an epedemic of missing sympathy bones throughout gorlworld. It's a mystery 👀
Just sat down to dinner - let's goooo ✨
i said legos like her the other day and i was so mad
Lay-goes
Whenever I see a an expensive set, I always think, "Wow, expert Lay-goes. Nice."😂
This feels like a fever dream 😂
34:30 tell me why when she says “me and now my ex” she points off screen as if Tommy is sat right across her? They aren’t broken up, this is Wifey.0 and she’s telling us lahs again.
Ever heard of computer screens? Or facetime etc. it’s so weird that people think they can fill in details with no data. You can speculate that there could have been another person there, but tbh not everyone is seeing what you see and interpreting it the same way.
You want Tommy to be there, but logistically it seems highly unlikely.
According to known evidence, she’s not a freewheeling, jobless person with endless time on her hands and no responsibilities, to be flying back and forth to Amber’s house to comfort Amber because the internet rinsed her dirty laundry out.
@@creatrixZBD True. She has a real life with a real job and a kid to take care of.
0:44 why is she thinking of "just getting rid of it" girl.. give it away, dont js throw it out💀 that's expensive af im pretty sure other fosters or kids, that are from less, even other adults would love to build and play with it, also how does a laygeo set give you bad vibes.. is the laygeo suddenly haunted
interesting thing to note…. in the cheesecake factory clip she’s drinking a soda when like two clips ago she was “only drinking water”. extra interesting now after we found everything out……
This is sad ...this whole thing is self inflicted
Her facade syndrome is a thing of incandescent wonder.
she is desperate for anything and anyone 🤔 I highly doubt she broke up with Tommy so quickly. She is obsessed with anyone who is willing to stay.
She kept talking shit about how becky didnt support her weight loss, now she's 'in love' with a feeder haha
This has been the most anticipated salty Sunday EVER
I can't get past Hamber crying about how she does not put her gfs on camera when she tormented and abused Krystle on camera when she didn't want to be filmed at all.
The way she "punishes" us feels like a narcissistic parent that takes off a bedroom door because we didn't say hello upon entering the house 😂
This video is so raw you guys, fuck.
fawk🗣️🗣️🗣️
Is it me or she already looked much bigger when Tommy left?
Not just you!!! She looks like she's gained 50 pounds, no joke. Look at the videos she posted before Tommy got there and then look at her "you guys ruined my life" video. She looks like she did when she was at her biggest with Beck!!! Is that even possible? I know she can gain large amounts of weight hella fast but that's WILD!!
@batbrat4412 thank you! Usually I don't notice changes in weight unless they are huge. But I found it so unrealistic that it took only a handful of days to bloat like she did! It makes me think that her latest video was full of misdirected anger. She must be feeling like a fool because she must have binged like crazy and she surely had zero remorse with all the validation coming from her f33der. The sense of guilt and shame must be burning...
Nah, I think it’s because she hasn’t shown this much skin in awhile.
Amber has the separation anxiety of a 2 year old not wanting mommy to go to work.
24:20 didn’t she say all of her partners claim they didn’t see her for her weight and they just liked her personality
I think she would still love Tommy knowing she’s a feeder, if everyone didn’t know.
Tommy is in the room on the last video, this is staged. Do better Amberlynn
Yes, she frequently looks to her left, and actually pointed to someone there too.
Does anyone else notice she points when she says “me and now my ex” at 34:33? Almost like Tommy is still there when this was filmed, she also keeps looking at the same spot when she looks off screen.
Sometimes I really believe that it's a miracle she has survived this long with zero self-preservation skills. How has her luck not run out yet? She keeps meeting strangers online, inviting them to her home, getting drunk together... People have been murdered for less.
Does it really surprise anyone that neither ALR nor FoodieBeauty are mad at their partner for their behavior? Instead, they're mad at the internet or "people" for exposing their partners' behavior.
That seems a little ass-backwards to me, honestly.
What she did this time is no more crazy than Destiny (and I think her father) driving from Florida to Virginia to pick up Amber at Krystal's house, along with her plastic earrings and other crap, to move her BACK to Florida. Destiny had never seen her in person before. The only difference this time is that Amber could end up ⚰️🪦!
Sure. But at least Destiny hadn't k1lled a woman 3 months earlier.
@@j.artiste8596Yeah, that's why I said she could end up ⚰️🪦...scary!
34:32 she motions to someoneoff camera and looks there.
Even if what she said was true, "She prefers bigger girls (girls my size)," that is still problematic if your goal is to lose weight. If the person you love, loves you with a caveat being your high weight, you would be less motivated to change yourself to someone they have less attraction to. Also, no one had to "dig" anything up on the person now named Tommy, as she has an extensive digital footprint. At minimum, my partner would need to explain a deceased ex, and the circumstances of that relationship.
👏👏
Believe the “new” hygiene products were for Willow…
16:20 the hand placement to point out the hickeys 🙄
OK not a single word about the dead woman? Who cares about Tommy Slommi's mental health?